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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for veronica11</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/veronica11/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/veronica11/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:47:55 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-13737449</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Im not popular, or nerdy or ordinary, but i have this stupid learning problem called asperges  (the smart version)  so it makes me not know how to  communicate properly with others. its a struggle to talk to my own friends and an impossible problem because i cant even make myself talk to class mates.  but I'm a chatter box i love to talk and once u get me started u cant stop me but at school i just cant bring myself to chat. also my learning prob is more than that it makes me light sensitive so at school i look at the ground a lot because every thing so so bright and i have trouble smiling so i look depressed. and im actyly pretty and i look normal. my life sucks. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 31 Jul 2009 05:47:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12684201</link><description>&lt;p&gt; did u know that school wasn't made for smart people it was only made for the average and thats why smart kids don't fit in its not made for them. i fill that people shouldn't show of their smartness thats what gets their buts kicked. well i had this freind and she never involved me listened to me or talked to me unless i talked to her first  and were meant to be like close friends and all so i stoped trying to be her friend just not bothering being nice to her like saying hi when i walk past her and guess what now all she wants to do is talk to me its anoying. When your the nicest most loyal freind  to someone they tret you like crap but when you don't bother with them  like ignore them because your sick and tied of being traeted bad they come running back like wonded puppys&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 15 Jul 2009 09:11:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12312930</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I don't know why but i enjoy dying my hair bright colors. I'm a natural blond( built i'm not a bimbo but i have my moments lol) just for the fun of it I'm going to type some of my bimbo moments lol i still can't believe i said them. "hey dad did you know that human beings are living people." "Look thats a mountain on top of a hill." " Dad because that cars engine is in its boot  its like its going backwards but its really going forwards." Ok so now I have  bright red hair not ranga red or orange either just artificial red. i never fit in which ever school i go to I don't fit in with the nerds or the average or the popular or my (fake supposed to be) friends. Its like theirs no were in the world i fit in like i ned to escape and that is why i am so into numerology and horoscopes. every thing they say comes true its so wired.  but the thing about them it means i have a future and that is hope which all of us unfortunate people born into a world that does not love or respect us needs don't let anyone put u down  &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 08 Jul 2009 10:53:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12298976</link><description>&lt;p&gt; i hate myspace and bebo. a couple of years ago 9 actually liked them but now i cant stand them.does anyone know how to get rid of accounts on these websites? Heres my email this is my work related email and not my social email thats why the name of its wird its :seastory293@hotmail.com &lt;br&gt;plz only contact me if u know how to get rid of myspace or bebo&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 23:51:22 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12298793</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The school i got to its not about athletics. nobody talked the school sport teams seriously and nobody talks about them ever. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 23:42:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12291308</link><description>&lt;p&gt;hey alan did u know that if u live in Australia and have prof of bulling even none physical bulling than once ur 18 u have a year to sue those people and can get hundreds of thousands of dollars compensation. at my school its not physical bulling its more mental torment. which in some cases can be worse. the school i go to theirs might be like one punch up a year up and their really small ones where people don't even get bruised  and its mostly over girls how stupid. braking a leg is terrible u could have gone to the police and the bully probably would have gone to juvi(child's prison) expeshly after being pined down with someone choking you and i thought bitchi and fake friends was bad. if people are hurting you that bad than u should change schools because what if one day they get even more physical. this sounds more like hate to me. how did they break ur leg anyways. it must have been painful oh no u didn't cry did u? showing weakness to someone that mean could make it worse. also i have never my self broken a leg ouch  but i got almost 3rd degree when i was little (luckily i have not to many scars) i had to get my skin pilled of yuck and i didnt even cry but trust me it was the worst pain iv ever felt. i dont cry when im in absolute terrible pain just the little things make me cry. bye l8r and u really should do something about all that bulling because if u do nothing its just going to continue. when i was in ur 6 this mean guy always called me gold fish because i forget easily but it hurt my fillings even to this day. I like this site because i can express my fillings that nobody i know of would care about. maybe my parents but  this is just stuff not to share with them&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Jul 2009 20:26:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12236653</link><description>&lt;p&gt;at my school nerds don't get bashed up  and not to much mental torment. just a little but even in the nerdy group there is a lot of hidden bitchiness which i hate i wish people could be more upfront. where i come from the nerds are more geeks than nerds and they are very funny joking people more than those bitchi popular people and also in my grade its the popular guys that are the meanest&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 21:42:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12196210</link><description>&lt;p&gt;i just hate all this social crap i am apparently a very awkward person and i must admit im guilty of being very very vein so trust me popularity isn't about looks. but u have to have awesome hair.if you fill like your ugly plz dont you probably just need a new hair &lt;a href="http://cut.you" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="cut.you"&gt;cut.you&lt;/a&gt; would be surprised what a good hair style can do to your looks. some guys have awesome hair that makes them hot but than they cut it of and aren't hot anymore.sorry about my wired comment my sis is always telling me i say the most random things lol well i wanted to be a hair dresser once but changed my mind now im going to be a photographer and am starting TAFE next year yay.maybe i can find some genuine friends their. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 10:14:22 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12195648</link><description>&lt;p&gt;oh yeah i forgot to add im in Australia and have been to a few schools and this is the nicest but still mean one iv been to. oh and im not geeky or ugly looking (not to be judge mental or mean) and i never talk and i look nervous all the time and if im not sure about someone and they talk to me i am hesitant to reply and sound digested and scared (i have a lack of trust) and i actually never smile but im not ugly and i nobody i know of's  ever had a crush on me(not to go into that kind of stuff) but it tears holes in to a girls heart. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 09:51:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why Nerds are Unpopular</title><link>http://www.paulgraham.com/nerds.html#comment-12189966</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hey I'm Veronica and I'm  in 10th grade. I think alot of the things you say are true however I also think alot of it is not true. Like the lunch area map you described well thats true. at my school it like this; the popular and the normals and the nerds/radomes well we have a different area we hang at.My group I would consider the radomes which is a group of girls and were friends with the nerds. Don't get me wrong were not nerds ourselves we just like to hang with them because were not judge mental we se people for who they truly are. I started 8th grade with no one from my old school.I met this girl and we were great friends for ages. Than I met these new people and we all made this group. the first year was the best year of my social school year but I was rarely ever invited to sleepovers and movies and shopping and that kind of stuff.  so whenever I did get invited to something i would be so happy and exited. things where good till my good friend got her hair cut than she suddenly became a bitch. She changed for the worst. Half way throughout 9th grade i started to get ignored from my group and I tried relay hard to insert my self in conversations and to get involved. now I'm half way thought 10th  and things haven't gotten any better. last week i got invited to ice skating but the night  beforeat midnight my friends told me on msn that it was canceled. deep in my bones i know that they wouldn't have texted me in the morning to tell me they would have just let me turn up i think. or maybe it wasn't canceled and they all went anyways. I don't know and i never will. And their meant to be my close friends  however i  was talking to one of them on msn and it turned out that she had a sleepover and she didn't even invite me. i want to ditch my friends and find some that are good but i don't know how to without alienating my other friends that i am sure are genuine. I also don't wana ruin my reputation of being nice.  I think the way i fill shows on my face because often at school i ever have no emotion or look sad and scared and even depressed. I think school is relay designed to teach kids life skills but to me its pointless because nothing is relevant to what i want to do. I'm not supper smart or anything. at my school being smart doesn't make you a nerd its its the way you  look act and dress. its so judge mental  but alot of the popular girls are really  and genuinely nice. also you said that when you were a kid u wanted to be popular.well thats not true with every one. all I ever wanted was to have truly good friends.  you cant expect to find excellent friends in school because in the real  world you might not even  meet because at school your locked up six hours a day in a class filled with the same people so you are bound to hang with them they have no choice but outside of school friends chose to hang with you. do you know how to change friendship groups in  10th grade?  I'm truly desperate for an answer from anyone and my sisters are no help. when i found this site i typed in google how to change friendship groups in year 10. well whatever ty if u answer back anyone.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">veronica11</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 04:29:10 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>