http://disqus.com/by/timchristie/enSun, 04 Oct 2009 18:50:10 -0000http://mathewpacker/things-ive-learnt-since-becoming-a-dad-part-1-of/#comment-18524305<p>Too true Mat. Great list and I would have to agree with them all. Our little bundles of joy are amazing little people. I could add a few that I have learnt over the last 3 years too:</p><p>* As soon as you think you've worked out whats going on with your baby they change a complete 180 degrees and everything starts again. Its like they have a little 'keep mummy and daddy on their toes radar installed'</p><p>* As parents only you and Kath really 'KNOW' your baby and what he likes, needs, wants or is best for him. Everyone else is just guessing and its up to you whether you take or leave anyones advice. Like you said everyone has an opinion but only yours matters.</p><p>* You will finds emotions, strengths, weaknesses, skills and abilities that you never knew or thought you had. bub will learn and know how to push those buttons and boundaries in an instant and test your limits whenever they can, but at the same time they will make you so proud and give you so much joy that none of that stuff matters and is forgotten in an instant.</p><p>* 1 little smile can melt you in a microsecond.</p><p>* 1 scream of pain can bring you to tears even sooner. Especially when you cant find what is causing their pain.</p><p>* I never thought I could love someone so unconditionally no matter what they do or say, and at the same time want to do anything for them to protect, help and make life that little bit easier for them.</p><p>* Childbirth really is amazing!!!</p><p>* Unfortunately they dont come with a manual. at 3am when they are screaming in pain and you have just about tried everything to soothe them and ease their suffering, you just wish that you had a manual to tell you what to do.</p><p>* Whether they say it or not, our mums (and dads) really do like it when you ring at all hours of the night to ask for advice!</p><p>* Your 2nd child is alot easier, you do gain more confidence and you learn that a little bit of dirt never hurt anyone.</p><p>I could go on and on, but I think I know that until I die I will always be learning something about my children and myself that I never thought was possible. They are amazing little people.<br></p>timchristieSun, 04 Oct 2009 18:50:10 -0000http://mathewpacker/travis-james-packer-come-on-down/#comment-15752955<p>Thats awesome Mat. Say hello to a little bundle of joy that will bring many years of happiness and excitement........But say goodbye to sleep, sanity and any kind of peace and quiet for the next 5 years.</p><p>Congrats!!!!</p>timchristieWed, 02 Sep 2009 04:46:05 -0000