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Re: Exposed: Disgusting Marketing Scams And Con Games Of The Seduction/Pick-up Gurus, Exposed

sheardude — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 01:23:54 -0000

Thanks for posting this. I have seen this way too many times on your comptitor's sites. It's just wrong. Thank god you are one of the few "scam free" ways of learning "real" seduction out there.

Re: How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

sheardude — Sun, 20 Sep 2009 01:36:36 -0000

thanks for the advice Gabe. That is what I wanna do. I just gotta go out and do things one small step at a time. First start with opening and once I get good at doing it, go on to the next thing. I think your right. A smart way to get used to talking to women is only by talking to women possibly without the goal of getting a number, a kiss or more. Even my uncle today during dinner said I gotta go for it otherwise, it could mess up my head and make me depressed as it is doing now. I gotta get a girl soon. Only going out, practicing, and learning from my failures (I am sure there will be many) will make me succeed. Just from the free stuff, I think I have enough to get out there and make it happen. I am glad to have the support and positive reactions I am getting but sadly it won't make any change. I am the only one who can make it happen. I gotta f-ing do it!

Re: What Do You Want Me To Teach In A Live One Hour Video Broadcast?

sheardude — Sat, 19 Sep 2009 22:46:40 -0000

Might be a bit late and u probably have ur thing all planned but I would like to learn how to appear super confident and more on how to create your own patterns to use in the field as well as many examples of the tiny pieces of patterns (weasel phrases, commands, etc.) Happy early birthday and I plan on seeing you live tomorrow!

Re: How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

sheardude — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 23:21:07 -0000

That was a great analogy you made when referring to mindsets. The only way I can learn pickup is to actually do it and learn from my sucesses and failures. I am so thrilled to have support from actual successful SS students. My goal for my pickup skills is to be 100% respectful to the woman and intensly fractionate and arouse her with my words in order to attract her. I feel sticking points for me will be opening which I will get over after doing it once and keeping a conversation moving which can only be fixed with practice. The biggest one however will be my body language and tone. I usually tense up and start to sweat around a beautiful woman. My voice gets shaky and soft. I have to learn how to control it. Anyone have any suggestions on how to control it?

Re: How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

sheardude — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 07:09:04 -0000

Wow. U made a lot of interesting points. It is interesting that we had or have very different sticking points. Yours was attraction and mine is just even getting a woman to start talking to me. I have a car I can use but I don't have my lisense just yet. Hopefully will have it in 2-3 months. Unlike you, I have to go to school on time no matter what. My parents are pretty strict about that. My diet is not bad although there are maybe 1 or 2 changes I can make. Good point that a healthy body and mind can make me succeed. I believe I do understand my identity and my sexuality. Forget having sex, I've never even touched a woman. Even if I girl shook my hand, that would be the next big step lmao. No girl in my school won't ever take me seriously so I gotta go to shopping malls, book stores, yougurt shop, teen clubs (if there are some in my area) and any place with women. From all the videos I've watched, I probably already have enough to work with and be successful. I just lack the confidence to do so. My goal now is to find a way to build it up.

Re: How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

sheardude — Thu, 17 Sep 2009 02:52:28 -0000

I never knew that. I don't have a credit card so I may have to wait to put all of it on a debit card. Right now I have just been feeding off of the free stuff on this site and YouTube. I am glad that someone can understand my pain other than myself. I honestly wanna improve. It is really annoying to see some asshole who is shorter than you with his fat seeping out of his chair getting more "tang" in 30 minutes than I have ever gotten in my entire life. The longest conversation I ever had with an attractive girl or woman was about 5 minutes and I barely held my end of the conversation. Even my own friends (don't have any female friends) and family think I am a failure with women. Imagine how bad it is to hear something like that come out of your own parents (my parents love me, they were just being honest.)

I came across a book called The Game two summers ago when a co-worker recommended it to me after hearing my problems. I have been researching for the last 1.5 years the seduction community. I hated the ideas of negs and having to change your looks and clothes to get women so I stopped looking at MM or VA. I originally thought bad of SS until I looked it up. I thought it was manipulation and hypnosis but it is quite the opposite. The ideas of the seduction community have changed my outlook on life and taught me more about people in general. I still lack the confidence needed to succeed. All I know is that I am the only one who can make me succeed.

Ross did answer one of my questions at an online seminar recommending Nail Your Inner Game and Magik Psychic Influence but I think I need basic training first with the home study course. The best way to learn would be to attend a seminar. He has one in NY next month. Even though NYC is a short train ride away, I cannot afford to go. I don't have a steady job and have my money saved at my local game store for the big games coming out this year. Bad mistake. Thanks so much for reaching out to me and showing me that I am not the only one like this. You have made my day which sadly I have to end. Only 4 hours to I have to go to school. Better get some sleep.

Re: How To Use Erotic Touch To Get Women Hot And Turned On, Part I

sheardude — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 23:36:34 -0000

very cool. Will use it when I actually get an opportunity to talk to a woman. I really wish I could afford your courses. Up to Speed course was awesome but I just wanna learn more. I go to a high school (yes I am a minor big deal, I won't be in 4 months anyway) where men treat women like dogshit and it actually works while they won't even give me the light of day thinking I am a antisocial geek. Many call me gay and it just sucks being me. This stuff gives me hope and I just wanna thank you for being who you are and giving other men success I hope to find when I can afford the SS 3.0 course.