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Secondly, let me say DAMN!!!<br><br>But on a serious note. He needs to make a decision about who he wants to move forward with before he does anything. The very next thing he should do is come clean with his girl, explain EVERYTHING. He's in a lose-lose with her so he might as well just tell it all, at least she'll be able to respect his honesty.<br><br>As far as the side chick that's prego, I don't think he should worry so much about winning her over. I think he should focusing on taking care of his child, she'll notice that if she doesn't see anything else.<br><br>But yea, he's if f***ed up space lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:30:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "7e61ad7f47514070b0faf453f65f76f0", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6747152": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Ok. . SO what you are saying is this man is in no way at fault for playing with two lives (and in the midst selfishly creating one), playing with real ppl with real emotions, lying & being an all around ass. Being labeled a \"rugrat\" does not give you an excuse to be ignorant. I am of your generation (I'm 24)but I do not use it as an excuse. I know right from wrong just as he should, I know the difference of getting what I deserve verses settling. So lets not blame it on the generation but on personal preference. <br><br>Shouldn't he have been upfront about what was preoccupying his time instead of lying ???<br><br>and if you want to break it down further. . . .What about the main chick who agreed to allowing him to play in the streets ???<br><br>How about being angry with the whole situation and the person who's hiding the most.<br><br>Growing up in an ignorant generation does not give you cause to be ignorant. (Something my mom says)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_14:08:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lanyea", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6745747, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711828": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I have to agree with Onewayweezy . . . .DAMN, DAMN, DAMN & DAMN AGAIN<br><br>Dude has definitely f'ed himself<br><br>There's no light at the end of that tunnel. Most likely his main will leave him (cause I'm pretty sure open relationships come with rules. . .u know, no raw, no babies. . .etc) His side chick welllllllllllllllll. . . ..I don't think he has hope of ever getting her back because he started out what they had with a lie. His best bet is to take care of his child and move on. And like Ness said be by yourself for a while dude", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:40:38", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lanyea", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 2, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711831": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Ness, you're freaking awesome.  I posted my comment before reading this one.  I didn't even have to post mines because you literally pointed out all the things I said.    <br><br>Side note:  Doesn't this dude sound kinda selfish?  Come on, man!  \"I love two different woman and want to be with them both.\"  \"How can I win my side chick back after she told me she doesnt want me anymore?\"", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:41:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "49dff84215a3bcb7439c9d5ea489e224", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710380, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6733337": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Well we cant say this yet for sure because he is too chicken to reply. Remember he said (And i quote)<br><br>\"We hung out three maybe four time once alone, the other times in a group setting after she found out.......................I took the condom off\"<br><br>I inquired if Baby Momma knew about him taking his condom off and I think I scared him away. He never responded to my vicious attack {clutch my pearls}<br><br>OR,  maybe when he logged off, he went'on ahead and gave his Mainery the lowdown on the baby momma...........AND HIS MAIN CHICK KILLED HIM (lol)<br><br>~~~~~~~~~Where is he buried Xilla?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_19:40:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6732515, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713884": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Hahaha.. If you're really the guy that wrote the letter:<br><br>I ALMOST FEEL SORRY FOR YOU.<br><br>Obviously, she didn't stick around after you told her she was a side chick (except for the \"One more time\" sex you had which produced a baby).   Your BM is a smart woman to stop the relationship.. <br><br>STOP THINKING ABOUT WHICH WOMAN YOU ARE GOING TO POKE AND THINK ABOUT OPENING UP A COLLEGE FUND FOR YOUR BABY.  Save up for them diapers.  Costco has good deals on diapers on bulk.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_18:15:37", "killed": false, "user_key": "49dff84215a3bcb7439c9d5ea489e224", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713510, "depth": 2, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6739498": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Absolutely Appalling!!<br><br>So in addition to deciding that you were gonna hold her body and her life hostage to your selfishness you also set into motion a situation where you put two women's life at risk as well as your unborn child - when you're dividing your attention between two women what you're giving can't possibly be fulfilling to either, so that begs the question(s) <br><br>What was your main chick doing while you were spending all this time with your side chick? <br><br>What if she got lonely and decided to cheat too? What if her n*gga on the side decided to take his condom off? And who else was he f*ckin besides your Main?<br><br>What was your side chick doing while you were with your main chick? <br><br>What if she was f*ckin another n*gga besides you? What if he decided to take his condom off?  And who else was he f*ckin besides your Side?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_01:17:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6724957": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Tell her in church?!<br><br>Okay telling her in a public place would be better.....like outside where she can go off & then walk away and go home and not think about him ever again.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:20:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718227, "depth": 6, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6719024": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "If your a man you'll tell the truth. Don't tell your GF that, \"You love her\", or \"It was a mistake\". You'll just be lieing to her once again. This woman you chose to lay with is the one you truly care for. You girl might cry and ask you why, and its up to you to tell her whats real or just some BS so she wont put you on a missing persons post card. I can understand what you did, not saying I accept it because you've managed to ruin your support system that you once had.  I'm a side dude myself and I'm some what OK with that, and almost 20 years old. I thought about getting her pregnant and even though were young I'm in a position to were I could give them the life that they could want, but that wont make a woman do what you want. She can and always will think for herself.   You put yourself before her, and your GF.  If you love the mother of your child then give her what she wants. You wont fall out of love with her over night, and you probably never will, but you have to grant her wishes.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_00:00:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "Jamel", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6774322": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I think you need to do what's right. Tell the truth and make a commitment for the sake of your child. Separate from your main girlfriend and try to patch up the relationship with the chick on the side. Though you and your main girl have years of history, you are not married to her. You guys have no true ties or claims on each other outside of sex and um.......... history.  As much as I hate to say it, the bond between you and your chick on the side is more important because you have a child. Plus you love her don't you? I say  try to make it work with the chick on the side. I believe that child DESERVES to grow up in a home with two loving devoted parents, who not only love the child but love and are COMMITTED to each other. If things don't work out with the chick on the side, remember you are a father first and foremost and your child's well being comes first..........NO MATTER WHAT.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_20:43:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "f44f17e75de696931bbe925b728ed118", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718013": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I don't think that you have all that many options. There isnt even really a path of least resistance. Your decisions have forever changed the lives of everyone involved. what i think you should do is:<br><br>1. put your child first before everyone and <br>2. think about which woman is best suited for you to be with long term. which of the woman can you most reasonably see yourself building a life with. you need to chose ONE lady and COMMIT to her. <br><br>there is a very good chance that you'll end up empty handed, but you've already seen what happens when you try to have your cake and eat it too. the only way that this situation is going to get better is if you start telling the TRUTH to everyone. there is no easy way around it. no cop outs<br><br>its life situations like these that separate the boys from the men. and its your turn to man up and make a decision and stick with its consequences", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_22:42:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "b7420afd6cd4ac3361b63bb5c7db4002", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6846015": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Yup,Thats what they do girl. They like them young and dump so they can take advantage of them. Plus its cheaper to keep her. They know a real mature woman is not having that shit.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:49:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "4ea094a5609a83329f32dd377c397295", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718933, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713953": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I wasn't making excuses for myself. Yeah what i did was selfish and I can admit to that. I was simply defending her cause she's not here to defend herself", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_18:19:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713604, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6843977": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I don't feel sorry for you at ALL!!!!! You got EXACTLY what you deserved, trying to be slick and have 2 relationships going on @ one time. All I have to say is STUPID, STUPID, STUPID!!! Figure your own shit out!!!! U didnt need help putting your dick into her pussy?!?!?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_13:34:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "luciouskitty", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6739127": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Dude stop. . .do not pass go, do not collect $200<br>You are not making your case any better", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_00:33:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lanyea", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6738302, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713435": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I had to b/c tht's exactly wht it is...and if he's reading this and takes offense to it, then so what...he needs to stop being a \"ain't sh*t nucca\" and get his sh*t together.<br><br>And his friend a some ain't sh*t nuccas too for tell him to say f*ck it and leave the kid out there in the cold.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:50:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711704, "depth": 2, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713948": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Haha.. Didn't you and some guy disagree on whether guys got women pregnant on purpose to keep them in their lives?  And wasn't the guy saying how that usually doesn't happen or men wouldn't do that? LOOK AT THIS GUY!  I know hella dudes who try that trick.. trying to knock someone up just because he wants her in his life forever.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_18:19:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "49dff84215a3bcb7439c9d5ea489e224", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713478, "depth": 3, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711902": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "DUH. . .lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:45:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lanyea", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711751, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6805599": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "first off you are straight up buggin. i think its a little too late to make a choice on who you want. you need to take care of your child and thank god you only walked a away with a second chance to be a real man and not aids.... are you serious???. your girlfriend shouldnt want to be with you no more and clearly your heart isnt with her or you wouldnt have been able to fall in love with a side piece. I suggest you start with a new lady and try to be truthful this time becuase you done burned both of those ladies enough.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_18:33:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "18ebd247c09c86bece3b5db3bb92ec62", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6712417": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Mixedbreed made a good point when will ppl learn a baby wont keep anyone with you. The only thing you do is create another single parent home.<br><br>I feel that is so low down to try and trap a woman because you weren't man enough to keep her on your own. . . .. SMH", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:09:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lanyea", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6845031": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Honesty is the best policy, Its time to man up and keep it 100 with your official girl. She deserves the truth. It would look better coming from then the streets, ya dig. What you do in dark will come out in the light.  I can tell dude is still young and immature when he said he was trying to get the girl pregnant by not using a condom because he still wanted to be with her and his lil plan backfired. Which is the karma setting in. I just hope he learns from this experience and know that its not all about him and what he wants thats how people get hurt.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:13:04", "killed": false, "user_key": "4ea094a5609a83329f32dd377c397295", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6710380": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I think he should definitely tell his girlfriend that he has a baby on the way and that he has deep feelings for the other girl. At least he's being honest & it allows her to make a decision on whether she wants to stay with him or not (b/c it sounds like they have an open relationship)<br><br>As far as the side chick he got pregnant, I think it's a lost cause at trying to win her over b/c once a female is done with you then she's DONE...regardless of if she has your child or not. And not for nothing, u ain't sh*t for getting her pregnant on purpose...tht wa so damn grimmey b/c ur messing w/ ppls lives & emotions....(sorry but it's the truth)<br><br>At the end of the day, you're probably not gonna be with any of the two females (regardless of how much u love them) b/c the sidechick is already done with you and your main chick will most likely be done with you too...but at least u was honest w/her at the end of the day...<br><br>Why don't u just be single for a while b/c it sounds like you fall for ppl and then don't know how or when to \"let go\" and now 3 people are involved in your games which is the side chick (who tried to fall back from u after she found out the truth about ur situation) but ur spiteful ass got her pregnant on purpose...then u have ur main chick who was ur ride or die chick through all these yrs...and then u have a baby coming into this world who won't get to experience having a father in the household b/c daddy was \"confused\".<br><br>I am Ness and I approve this message!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:07:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 15, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6743661": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "BITCHASSNESS at its fnest!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_10:57:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "LadyJei", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713979": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "My child will be well provided for, that is and never will be an issue", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_18:20:52", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713884, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6783100": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "umm, that was the point I was trying to make. Your BM didn't end it, so she continued to have sex with you, even if it was once or 50 times she still chose to f*ck. Sooooo, like I said before, she was willing to be the side chick, even if it was temporarily.  And if these woman are going hard on you and your BM is because we are so sick of hearing these trifling ass stories, like I said before this fuckery that you did is redundant and tired. I'm not trying to go hard on your BM either, but if you want to put your business out on the streets everyone gonna feel it. So no one is truly innocent here except the baby....sorry. God Bless though!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_09:44:41", "killed": false, "user_key": "b81731e78af6161d9b1ec82d30dec8a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6716342, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6725246": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "1.Go get check for any STD's because you aint the only male she was fooling round with..belive that <br>Take care of yours and dont tell the main chick make a lie up <br>2. Dont fell bad about it, females do this everyday ..there just more smart about who when,and where they trap<br>3. Are you a momma boy  or raised in a single parent home ? just a question", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:39:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "07720aa444f012ec1d9322394507e395", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713478": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Yeah he's real selfish....<br>And the crzy thing is that he did it probably knowing she wouldn't terminate the pregnancy due to religious beliefs which is even worse...smch...<br><br>I'm too through with this situation b/c it's pissing me off.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:52:32", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711831, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6845583": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I'm probably late on the whole issue, but just wanted to comment quickly.<br><br>I think here we have a case of the old, \"Want to have your cake and eat it too.\" I always say, well yea, who wants cake they cant eat? But in this case, not so. Why? Peoples lives and hearts are involved. To me, the situation was bad in the beginning, but it went from bad to WORSE when the child came into play. I dont really agree with people being selfish, but its almost okay to do it when you have just the adults involved, to bring children into it is just wrong.<br><br>So heres my advice, be the best father that you can be to that child. Forget about your current girlfriend and your childs mother. Put all feelings aside and give this INNOCENT child what he/she deserves. He/she didnt ask for this, so just step up, and do what a real man does and take care of your child.<br><br>Much success and blessings to you...Good Luck.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:34:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "9bf0fcd6859c7375eff9a8e1d643006b", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6745747": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "yo, I've read all of the comments & everyone is making valid points however, I don't fault this man one bit. here's why, it seems like in this day & age (i'm 23) - my generation of \"rugrats\" (what my moms calls us) likes to settle for less.  this young lady sounded intelligent, has her shit together but set her standards too low. once you told her you had somebody else \"pre-occupying\" your time as well - she should've cut the check & left your ass there, but she didn't yet everyone is pointing the finger at HIM . wrong . I'm angry with her because she allowed herself to settle for less. when will these \"test-tube\" babies realize that being somebodies \"BABY MAMA\" just isn't cute at all =/", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_12:30:02", "killed": false, "user_key": "a35d2cf6d25143a5b0dba36cfd21a0f3", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6743661, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711960": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Not only that be sure to pat her down and check her purse", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:47:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lanyea", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711585, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713499": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Alright I was going to sit back and take my licks and soak up all the advice I could from the readers (especially the females)but when u start to attack the women involved I have to intervein. At no point did my BM agree to being a side chick I didnt tell her til we were very deep in. Emotions and all were in play when I told her, she stuck around because how deep what we had was (more then the physical . . . she had become my bestfriend). After I told her we were intimate only once and thats when the baby came into play.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:53:20", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718109": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "are you stupid fa real or just playin crazy?!? let me kno shug! fa REALZ! AIDS is a mafacka! you best be lucky ur penis ain' fall off lol you need to tell ya main, and you need to accept whatever your woman decides. steve harvey made it plain on oprah today. men can only do what women let you. you have NO CONTROL over anything but ur penis and you relinquished that when you pulled the condom off ok? DEAL WIT IT and don't do the fool next time. its not the end of the world. babies happen. DISEASES happen. you got lucky denna mafacka joe!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_22:45:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6716342, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713510": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Alright I was going to sit back and take my licks and soak up all the advice I could from the readers (especially the females)but when u start to attack the women involved I have to intervein. At no point did my BM agree to being a side chick I didnt tell her til we were very deep in. Emotions and all were in play when I told her, she stuck around because how deep what we had was (more then the physical . . . she had become my bestfriend). After I told her we were intimate only once and thats when the baby came into play.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:54:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 8, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6712723, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6845611": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I like # 3 , cause him thinking about what he want is what got him in this situation from the get go", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:35:13", "killed": false, "user_key": "4ea094a5609a83329f32dd377c397295", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711751, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6788270": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Excellent advice. So much in that letter to get vexed about, but the man *did* ask a question.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_11:52:54", "killed": false, "user_key": "piscesinpurple", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6747543, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713520": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Make a decison on who he wants to move forward with????????!!!!!!! <br>Onewayweezy r u serious???!!!!<br><br>The only thing he's gonna move forward with his his damn self and stacking money for that child.....he's not gonne b with either one of them.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:54:28", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711301, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6743735": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "BITCHASSNESS at its best!!!!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_11:02:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "LadyJei", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710380, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6740159": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Flippin great questions. And heres another...<br>Is the baby even yours? You may wanna wait til the little bastard nigglett (I keed) is born and get tha <br>D to the N to the A test done. <br>You said it yourself that \"My child will be well provided for, that is and never will be an issue\" Maybe you are her mealticket!?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_02:46:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6739498, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6712003": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "WOW...i was in the same situation....i was 18 when i lost my virginity...i got preggers that very same night...(and yes he purposely did it as well...2 keep me)...i was dating the dude and he was still with his baby mama but denying it...although we women know but we tend 2 act like we dont...which i did...any hoot...i ended up having the baby, 2 scared 2 tell my mother and him not wanting 2 pay 4 an abortion...when my daughter was about 3 mths old...i found out threw someone else that ole gurl was 5 mths prego with their second child....he denied it at first...but a wk later he admit that she was and that it was a mistake...it totally crushed me 2 find that out from someone else....now our gurls are 12 and 13...we broke up when she was 1...him making a baby on me was hard 2 swallow...n i did but only for a quick minute....my advice 2 him is this....he has 2 tell his gurl...although dat shit is gon hurt like hell 4 her....in the end...he still had the decency 2 be honest...i respect a man 4 his honesty...(.even tho i might wanna kill him at that moment)....and he need not push the issue trying 2 be with baby moms....just focus on whats most important...the child....if she wants 2 be with you...it will happen....as far as the main girlfriend...i feel bad 4 her...i really feel bad for all of them cuz i know how it feels.....its a ruff ride...but u live and u learn...and hopefully they  will all gain wisdom and strength from it...what i dont understand and yes.. here it comes....why do men and even women open that door in front of them before they close the door behind them?...that was a very selfish act....and why do men/women try trapping a person into being with them by the low down desperate pregnant move?...dats a playing yourself move...i aint trapping ME...got dammit!!.. as well as him......lol...dat just makes matters worse...cuz not only r u possibly not gonna b wit dat person but then ya stuck dealing with them 4 da child....and having more children being raised by single parent homes...thats what i came from and thats not what i wanted for my children but should i eat shit on a daily for it?...HELL NAH......i also learned and abide by the do unto others as you want done unto you theory...that keeps me being a genuine person...because i think before i do....i believe in consequences and karma like a muthaf***a...i wear that other persons shoes and always ask myself...how would i feel if it was me?....if more people thought like that...there would b alot more decent men and women running around but what do you do right??...keep on moving......peace....xoxo", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:48:36", "killed": false, "user_key": "mixedbreed", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6845125": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "LOL, c u sound like me,but I tried to go easy on him. but was ready to go hard on him like you. LMAO", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:16:35", "killed": false, "user_key": "4ea094a5609a83329f32dd377c397295", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6843977, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718673": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "@ I dont normally believe in abortion, but i woulda killed that little bastard. (harsh?) <br><br>Yup!!! <br><br>But f*ck it, harsh is what some people need and I'm 100% with you on the abortion, don't believe in it for myself but just for the simple fact that it was a trap woulda made me get rid of it...<br><br>This was the epitome of bitchassness...hopefuly he's matured and won't use his kid in negative ways just to try to hang on to its mother", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_23:30:31", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6717371, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718175": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Ness i been mia, but i still loves u shug! fa reals! dude is too confused and he's XTRAORDINARILY SLIMY GRIMY for gettin her preg on purpose. when my ex did that i bout wanted to pull his penis off. i was on bc, but the women in my fam are EXTRA fertile... ARG! <br><br>dude, you need to have some alone time. go sit in a corna and write, \"i won't do da fool\" 1000 times backwards in a composition book. stretch a condom over ur head while doing this[babydaddys dunce cap]", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_22:49:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713321, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6710497": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "If he doesn't tell his long time girlfriend (and when she does find out) b/c she will...he's gonna go through hell! <br>Plus sidechick will def x him out her life & take him to court for child support....<br><br>Sh*t is gonna get ugly & like u said...karma is a bytch....<br><br>BUT HE NEEDS TO TELL HIS MAIN CHICK.!!!!! THT'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING B/C SHE NEEDS TO MAKE HER OWN DECISIONS BASED ON WHATS GOING ON. NOT ONLY DOES HE HAVE A BABY COMING BUT HE'S HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX WITH SIDE CHICKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MAIN CHICK IS TRUSTING HIM W/ HER LIFE AS FAR AS HER HEALTH AND HE'S OUT THERE DOING HIM.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:13:04", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 7, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710273, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6732515": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Toronto,  I agree. I was JUST about to post the same thing. Everyone keeps saying he's wrong for purposely getting her pregnant but she made a choice too when she allowed him to not use one. Unless it's rape, getting pregnant is almost always 50/50.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_18:40:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "92702961a604f3e7602e57bab3917d9f", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6724842": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "@aks....yup sure did.....!<br>When was the last time you heard a female putting a hole in the condom & trying to pregnant on purpose?<br><br>This shyt right here is crzy b/c guys do far more worse things than females...but we always get the blame for our stuff.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:14:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713948, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6808812": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "that's a messed up way of letting somebody know you want to be with them, but anyway you need to be honest with everyone in the situation including yourself. there is no getting the side chick back, you said she got all this good stuff going for her and you messed that up, she not going to want you back. your girl might not stay with you either, depending on how yall relationship is. all you can do at this point is admit your faults and deal with your consequences, basically your sh!t has hit the fan, clean it up.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_19:04:46", "killed": false, "user_key": "TRJ", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6846192": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Great minds think alike, see people fail to look at the whole picture. Thats how STD's get spreaded and AIDS and they dont even know where they got it from. People are just real non chalant when it comes to their sexual health", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:57:47", "killed": false, "user_key": "4ea094a5609a83329f32dd377c397295", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6739498, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6729086": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "girl stop giving him good ways out!!he deserves worse than that    <br>  :P:P", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_14:43:29", "killed": false, "user_key": "c6ac376cd85c4bdd6d2bf07b8821aa4d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6725015, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6737655": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "You swung for the fence and hit out the park...Why did you just leave your main girl for this chick? She sounds like she made you feel like new man..", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_22:16:36", "killed": false, "user_key": "8cdc8134ae47694fb8a51ca40fb47f0b", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713979, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6724862": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "You know wht...I'm not mad at him...<br>I'm more so mad at the bitchassness of the situation....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:15:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6714126, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6837717": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "We are the creators of our destiny. Handle it with your head high and shoulders back. There are no actions nor words that can change what has already been done.His perception can change and so can his behavior in future similar situations. Learn the lesson and move forward. <br>All the best!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_09:15:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "SugarTits", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713604": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "But u still did some shady ish b/c u waited until feelings were deep for u to even tell her about ur main chick...ur supposed to disclose that info upfront bruh!<br><br>Yeah she stuck around, but she also fell back..and that's whn u got her prego on the last hook up... c'mon now stop trying to make excuses", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:59:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713510, "depth": 2, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6869261": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I would have said more, but I didn't want to sound like the angry black woman.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-04_09:25:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "luciouskitty", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6845125, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6714126": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Damn Ness he pissing you off ain't he ?? . . .lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_18:30:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lissa", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713478, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718227": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "ness, ur a bloggee! u know what happens when bitches get madd in a car![ahem! rhi rhi rants and gets rowdy] i think he should take her to church and let it ride. :D", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_22:55:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711960, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711585": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "The best thing for him to do is tell his main chick in a semi public place....so she can't f*ck sh*t up in the house.....<br><br>Maybe outside someplace...maybe in the car....but make sure he removed all blunt objects out of the car b4 hand.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:33:38", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710740, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6724905": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "No one was talking bad about ole girl or should I say girls.....<br><br>Truth be told, your main chick is probably sliding off with the next dude anyway so don't be surprised when she tells u that she's been messing w/the next dude and was actually in the process of replacing you....<br><br>Ha", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:18:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713953, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6715691": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Not that long ago, I was the main chick, while the father of my daughters got side chick preggo. I was beyond pissed, however I stayed around, because I wanted my family to stay together. And he talked a good game. However, after his son was born, shit didn't change, and I found myself (stupidly) competing with BM2. At some point, I finally found the strength to leave. He moved in with BM2 and was miserable out of his mind. All the shit he said about her being better than me went straight out the window, because he found out her TRUE nature. Now he is still trying to find his way \"back home\". <br>The moral of this story is, the grass always looks greener on the other side. If side-piece wants to take you back, that's all well and good, but who's to say that it will be worth it? Maybe you'll discover that she is not all you cracked her up to be, while you did your main chick super dirty. I won't bash you (although you deserve it), but there are enough people on here who have said all the words I would use to describe your actions. SELFISH AS HELL!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_19:51:03", "killed": false, "user_key": "bfount", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6743852": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Hey, are you going to post your advice to him? I'm curious and I bet we all are.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_11:12:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "piscesinpurple", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718956, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711598": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Well, she basically took the words off my fingers!!!<br><br>Especially with pointing out how f*ckep up it was for you to selfishly manipulate a situation and get her pregnant on purpose without thinking how it would affect her life and her feelings...<br><br>If you want to have even a glimmer of hope to salvage the relationship with your main girl, you HAVE to tell her and the sooner the better. It's not like you're gonna be able to hide it! It's gonna eventually come out. But don't hold your breath. I'm sorry bruh, but all the love in the world wouldn't keep me with a man who cheated and lied, claims he LOVES the other chick, and now has a child on the way with her. She'll always be reminded that you fucked up.<br><br>You are confused. I don't understand how some men and women can claim they live their main S.O. and then say the also love someone else. You don't love your girl if you're out there doing things you know are not in her best interests and would hurt her were she to find out. And you don't love your side chick if you couldn't even decide to let old girl go and put her first. You met the perfect woman for you but decided to keep her as a side chick?! GTFOH.<br><br>I mean, I hate for anybody to be in a situation like this. But I can't say I feel for you bruh. But good luck anyway, and SMARTEN UP!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:33:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "e2ab7e4a9b27f2274d348d00f5d9d6c9", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710380, "depth": 1, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6747439": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "weeeelll[in that good ol' souvern chuch voice\" cleary ur side pice isn't of high moral standards. u think she DIDN'T tip a on u. HA! b 4 real....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_14:31:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6740159, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6723898": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I really can't add anything new. Dude selfish asshole that has totally changed path of life for two women. Be honest! It is not up to you to determine who you should be with. Let them make the choice and accept and respect their decision. And you know what it probably wouldn't hurt for you to go sit your ass in a corner for a minute and thing about what you have done and what everyone has said to you here. Grow the fuck up and stop fucking up other people's lives!  Signed A woman tired of dishonest boys tricking thinking that is how a man acts!!!  We all black white whatever we need to come together and start raising children in healthy stable families this behavior is not acceptable!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_10:59:58", "killed": false, "user_key": "Nixx_01", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6714171": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "So I would like to know how can you be so deeply in like with two ppl at the same time (because that was not love). And why play with someones life like that, that's a child, and how did you know she wouldn't terminate the pregnancy ??????????????????????????", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_18:34:02", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lissa", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713510, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6719296": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I gurantee that she's going to have a girl, I just know it. <br>*<br>He needs to be up front and honest and tell his girl, better to deal with the consequences now than to drag it out and she finds out and things become worst. Not to judge, but I have to say that it is quite troubling for someone to say that they impregnated a woman to keep her, he clearly has control issues. He has put himself in a very compromising position where he is going to hurt someone and hopefully he will learn from this situation and make it a priority to not repeat his actions. I feel for all parties in this situation.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_00:23:38", "killed": false, "user_key": "d5ed708014d084ffa257da169b1d6bc8", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6740804": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "If you really love/care for your main chick you need to have enough respect for her and tell her the truth. She deserves that much. It would hurt her more to find this out from someone else. You had enough respect for the side chick to tell her about your girl, now you need to do the same for her. I agree it sounds like you are only with your main chick because you've been together for so long. It sounds like you care for the other girl a lot more. If you are trying to get back together with the side chick you need to end it with other girl first and show her that you are trying to be there for her and your child and then maybe she can trust you again.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_04:33:41", "killed": false, "user_key": "0e70e7ea0048c6e5f521904c73341ede", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6738302, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6724936": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Hahaha exactly...but the again....us women can make a weapon out of anything....<br><br>At the end of the day...her fist will do just fine ;)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:18:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711960, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6737228": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I believe his \"I took the condom off\" reply was a vague confirmation of my question to whether he did some \"extra extra shady shyt\" to get her pregnant<br><br>Unfortunately a guy can take a condom off without you knowing/seeing him do it, it happened to me once but I can FEEL the difference and dude almost got his dick torn off for that dumb shyt...but I digress<br><br>Depending on a woman's experience she may not be able to tell, if that was the case and she didn't know he removed it then yes she absolutely was trapped into \"the pregnancy\" and its probably why she has chosen to have no dealings with him.<br><br>Again if that's the case she gets a pass on the unplanned pregnancy but still an EPIC FAIL for flagrant side-chickery!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_21:34:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6733337, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6725970": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "i meant for his mental, for his personal comfort. so hes not so \"confused\". I never said anything about them taking him back but you gotta know hes gonna try to pursue one of them no matter what.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_13:25:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "7e61ad7f47514070b0faf453f65f76f0", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6713499, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6845784": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "you know he will, you can tell just by the way he sound in his story", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-03_14:41:37", "killed": false, "user_key": "4ea094a5609a83329f32dd377c397295", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718673, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6747481": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "YES! seriously! i refuses to be a baby mama.... since the liklihood of me having kids with a loving black man are slim to none i've decided to become a foster mom... if i get THAT dayum curious about how my kid will look, i'll run to the sperminator. seriously... i'm disgusted by how ridiculously low our standards are nowadays.... we were once a people that believed in family and togetherness. now its like niggas have babies for fun and sistas will just settle for anything.....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_14:34:45", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6745747, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6725979": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "wow... first of all Don't  let history and past love be your motivation to stay with anyone. second you cannot have your cake and eat it to. You caould be in love with both of them but maybe your excitment from the younger girl comes from the excitment she gives you. she young and has alot of energy and probly is down for whatever. but at ther end of the day I think you really know where your love and happiness is at and the choice is on you.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_13:25:37", "killed": false, "user_key": "a775657d4b4cef33925a14897f42568a", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6729053": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "yeah...i don t approve violence but if i was her i'd whoop his ass", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_14:40:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "c6ac376cd85c4bdd6d2bf07b8821aa4d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6724936, "depth": 6, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6739344": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I got to give it to you for still being respectful to us for talkin shit though. Kudos for that....but you still in a hot diggity damn dirty dingy MESS. <br><br>You tell wifey yet. Do you even want her as wifey? Just a question since you bigged up BM, but merely discribed your girl as someone you're still with because yall been together so long. Is she anything more than that? Or is it that you're just fighting to keep normalcy? <br><br>If she is in fact just a chick you're holding on to then I dont see any reason to tell her. Just break up. <br><br>Also, did you two (your main lady) have any discussion as to when you are allowed out in the streets, what you are actually allowed to do. She ok with you doing you're street thang, but is she cool with you catching feelings the way you have or hittin pussy raw.<br><br>Think about whats fair to your girl. She may not want to be with you after, but you should have enough love for her (as you professed earlier) to make that HER decision....That is, IF  you even want to be with her after carefully considering your options (or lack there of).", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_00:57:13", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6738302, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6775140": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "This is where you being 23 comes into play. First of all he did mention she pulled back when he told her. However, he continued to come around, and thus began to treat the side chick like the main chick. And IMO, can't NO man be taken that doesn't want to be took. So her fault was what now. Going on vacation (because I know he paid, just out of mere guilt), shopping and spending up his money. Was it her issue that he continued to keep coming around? <br><br>Then you mention settling. Is this settling for someone else's man? Because aside from this dumb ass thing he did, does not mean he is any less of a man. Clearly he stated he will take care of the child. Which on the surface, says he can provide, thus having a good job. There is nothing here regarding the capabilities of him taking care of either young lady and the baby he has coming. Going on vacations, dinners, and taking care of two women is NOT cheap. So he has some ends. <br><br>But again, you being 23, the issue isn't with her standards. She thought she had a stand-up guy in the beginning. They travelled outside the states, etc. Sounds like he was doing everything right.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_21:43:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "LadyJei", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6745747, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718321": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "This is all so fucking foul. The same thing happened to me and I am realizing this is the trend. I don't and never will understand the reasoning - the logical meaning - to \"getting someone pregnant\". I thought shallow ass women did this to keep stupid men and now it is the other way around - AND TO NO BENEFIT OF EITHER PARTY! So you father a child out of spite, you ruin two relationships and you wind up paying for a child's welfare your entire life - to retain some vajayjay? some guilty side vajayjay? I don't want to give anyone advice and I don't want to bash. I just want to warn bitches - don't fall for this shit! Women play an equal role in \"getting\" pregnant - so don't allow it to happen. Men always want their cake and another cake and a cupcake and want to eat all three. That shit should not fly - whatsoever. You can't maintain relationships of any quality  with this philosophy -  it's all an illusion. For the fool that did it to me - he wasted my time while dipping out with a chick who already had a baby under shitty circumstances. But he felt it was so-called \"time to take the condom off\" with her and \"got\" her pregnant. So now you see them out - with her looking like shit and dragging two different color babies. It took him over a year to tell me that child even existed. But I knew something was always off. I am happy I chose to keep the condom on and move on with my life. That nigga lost his entire life over some ass. At the end of the day - that was all it was. And now she's a hot mess and I'm the most jilted woman ever. This shit right here must stop. Men should be ashamed of themselves being bitch asses - layin up with several women and planting seeds all over the place. Just like fucking dogs pissing territory. You can't shit where you eat! Save your sperm for someone you really love. If you're unsure about someone - let them know up front so you can be true to yourself and find ONE woman. A real man doesn't sell himself short by seeing women that don't fulfill his needs and dipping out to someone who is sub-par then winding up in these trifling situations! I don't care if this one happened to say he wanted to be with her and he likes her more than main girl - she MUST be sub-par to be \"side chick\" and have \"gotten\" pregnant! SMH", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_23:02:15", "killed": false, "user_key": "Vhision", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 7, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6732660": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Sorry....I was just trying to put 'myself' in tht situation lol....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_18:49:46", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6729086, "depth": 6, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6714749": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "@ TheWiz, I understand your desire to defend her BUT unless I misread or misunderstood she did choose to continue being your side chick after you told her about your relationship - although she may have pulled back some from what you wrote she didn't flat out end it.<br><br>And unless you did some extra extra shady shyt she most likely knew you weren't wearing a condom during your last encounter, so yeah, sorry to break it to you but she is, I won't say \"as guilty\" as you, but she is in no way shape or form blameless in this situation....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_19:09:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 7, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6738302": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "No Mrs. DomiMami she did not know", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_23:14:08", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6733337, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718850": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Maturity has spoken. <br>Speak the truth, Damn that check each month for a nice sum with a couple zeros. <br>LOL<br>Nah for real mami, you did the right thing....ok lemme rephrase<br>you got it right the second time with not trappin ole boy.<br>I know he happier than a pig in shit.<br>But this man....THIS DUDE RIGHT HEAH<br>is an idiot. I just re-read his plea to zilla and the tone is ignorant.<br>He is happy as hell he is in this situation and get to tell the whole BLorld about it.<br>Mickey Fickey shame", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_23:44:59", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6717950, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6723459": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "So he aint even young? All the more reason for me to rip him cuz he should flippin know better. So what information did you bless him with with you emailed him back. Any advise for the BM or the little nigglett she's carrying? LOL", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_10:18:58", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718956, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6747543": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Umm I just gave him some good solid advice without judging him... But he needs to come clean. Point blank period and if he wants his BM he needs to cut the wife loose all together, and try to get his BM back... He might not be able to do it and he might end up losing them both but the only way to get one of them is to break it off with the other one and THEN try to get the one he wants.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_14:37:47", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6743852, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "6797198": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Nigga please.  You need to get a real firm grip on your bullshit before it spins even further out of control than it seems to already have.  Sorry for being so blunt, but again,  Nigga please!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_17:50:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ant_from_Chi", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6719376": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "believe it or not Domi he's sad. and wished i woulda had the baby. he got me preg on purpose. peep this. i was on bc, he wore a condom and poked a few holes in it and i STILL got preg....u know how when u hear o' hos pokin holes in condoms and it seems unfathomable. nah son! IT WORKS! i was so pissed i couldn't think str8....i rushed to the chop shop. his mom tried to talk to me about changin my mind, i was jumpin up and down wantin it to fall out. now i wish i woulda kept it. i'm laid off and could use that child support check! j/p nah fa real doe he's a steeler! sheeeeeeeeeeeeit!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_00:31:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718850, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6712723": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "ugh...I  don't wanna judge but UGH! Woman are not catching a break these days huh? Men are so selfish it is totally outrageous. I don't even have no advice for dude, because he made his bed now he gotta sleep in it, period. He want his cake and eat it to, he is every bad cliche out there lol. Once again, UGH!!!!! <br><br>This story just makes me mad, because you know what? This isn't some random ass story, this shit is redundant in the black communtiy, and this is how disease is spread, single parent homes are started and he is just adding to the fuckery because of selfishness Aye, his side chick really ain't getting a pass either. She is fucked up for actually agreeing to b his side chick with all that shit she supposedly has going for herself. Women gotta wake up too! What did she think was actually gonna come out of that? Karma for both of they asses, I have no sympathy for anyone in this situation but the unborn baby.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:26:12", "killed": false, "user_key": "b81731e78af6161d9b1ec82d30dec8a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 9, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6733205": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "LMFOA@  was jumpin up and down wantin it to fall out. <br>You wild for that one", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_19:31:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6719376, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6789526": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "YEP! People are really f*cking up with this one.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_12:47:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "b81731e78af6161d9b1ec82d30dec8a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6752153, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6725015": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": ":) I missed ya' :)<br><br>Yeah...he needs to do exactly wht u said... :) Maybe even write all the bs he did to the main chick in a letter, give it to her and if she wants to talk about it then she'll call him. If not then she'll delete his number & move on w/ her life.<br><br>Damn....!!!! WTF is up w/ guys getting girls prego on purpose....my gawd!!!! Sickening....lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_12:24:45", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718175, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711704": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "^ I approve this too. Good Post<br><br>He got what was coming for him. <br><br>1. Tell the main chick whats up. <br>2. Find Jesus and take care of your child. <br><br>the only relationship you'll have with your \"side chick\" now will deal with taking care of that child and that's how life goes.<br><br>Im glad somebody gave him the Niccas aint shy speech because he aint.<br><br>And he still aint shy for not tellin his girl yet. 4 MONTHS pregnant!!!! and she still don't know", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:35:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "bee6bcfbd955f7ea73303bd43ceceacd", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710380, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6752153": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "WOW SO BABIES  ARE THE NEW HANDCUFFS?!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-01_17:54:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "a7fe8bebf3b09f9ecb8422e57f4c8a21", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6716342": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "We hung out three maybe four time once alone, the other times in a group setting after she found out.<br><br>I took the condom off", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_20:35:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6714749, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6717371": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "OK. Its A-Muthafucking-Ficial<br><br>Your not even a piece of shit. You are a crumb. She's a crumb just the same, if she fucked you one last time knowing you had other pussy u getting it in with.  I felt a little bit bad (not bad for you, but about the situation) until you said the key words<br><br>\"I took the condom off\"<br><br>U sound like a real bitch right now. Who the fuck are you to just be yankin latex off your dick to trap somebody? Did she even know you took it off?<br><br>Obviously, if she wanted to keep gettin Raw Dick, she woulda stuck around. <br>And by the way, nothing about this story was confusing or complicated, Your just a dumbass and your OWN soap opera gets your head a little cloudy. <br><br>You got exactly what you deserve-----A CHILD SUPPORT HEARING! <br><br>Better be lucky it was a baby and not Herpes you dirty mutha fucka. Fuck givin you a break. Ima give it to you like you gave it to us. <br><br>And dont try to take up for Baby Momma. She's a dumb bitch for letting you hit one last time. There aint NEVER been dick so good that I'd just forget Im a side bitch. She musta not been that perfect for you, you didnt try to wife her up. She's a stupid crumb too....and even dumber for havin your seed.<br><br>I dont normally believe in abortion, but i woulda killed that little bastard. (harsh?)<br><br>Good luck with them Monthly payments dude!!!!!<br><br><br>~Signed<br>The perfect girl for HIM.....the one he wifed up and sowed legitimate seeds!<br>Dominique", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_21:47:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6716342, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6731201": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "What i dont understand is how ppl are saying that the side girl got trapped. your telling me that you can get involuntarily pregnant outside of rape?<br><br>if your having sex with a man that you know is in a relationship, he takes off the condom and you know that your not on any type of birth control what the hell are you thinking???<br>the ONE thing a woman has control over is her uterus. if your having sex with a man and he discards the condom the first thing you do is come back to earth from your ecstasy and ask some questions. unprotected sex with man that you are knowingly not in an exclusive relationship with means DISEASE AND KIDS. so i have nooooo sympathy for her at all", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_17:10:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "b7420afd6cd4ac3361b63bb5c7db4002", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6715843": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "sticky situation..", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_20:02:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "ias", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6738374": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Once I told her about the other woman she left me, so I never got he chance to leave one for the other. But now everyone knows everything.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-28_23:21:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheWiz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6737655, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6711751": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "He needs to tell his girlfriend that he cheated on her and has a baby on the way.  Since the side chick doesn't wanna be with him anymore, just LET IT GO!  Why don't you try being honest and unselfish and think about your baby and your girlfriend instead of your own selfish wants (I love both women and want to be with both).  It's simple.  Follow these steps homie:<br><br>1.  Tell your current girlfriend you cheated and got someone pregnant with a baby on the way.  If she stays, she stays.  If not, you can't blame her.  It's all your fault anyways.<br><br>2.  Preggo side chick doesn't want anything to do with you.  You already stated she doesn't want you anymore.  Stop trying to push the matter.  You can't make a woman be with you just because you knocked her up.  Take it as a lost.<br><br>3.  Think about your baby and plan for his/her future.  Stop thinking about what YOU want.  <br><br>It's that simple-- be a man and be honest.  Can I get a \"DUH!!\"?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:37:25", "killed": false, "user_key": "49dff84215a3bcb7439c9d5ea489e224", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 2, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6710740": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "you are sooooo right...one can't play with ppl lives...he is clearly not man enough for neither of them,but he can try to be a real man by telling the truth<br>as far as for the child support and getting dumped by both of them is exactly what  he deserves..", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_16:23:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "c6ac376cd85c4bdd6d2bf07b8821aa4d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6710497, "depth": 2, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718933": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "\"Save your sperm for someone you really love.\"<br><br>The light has never been brighter. Go'on Girl. <br>If you notice, I didnt cut the wack chick no slack either. It takes two. Musta been a helluva nut.<br><br>Still SMH, LMBAO @\"She\u2019s xx and I\u2019m 2x\"<br>Fool, this was posted anonymous, and you responded and we STILL dont know you. Yet you wont tell your age. <br><br>Ladies....He gotta be what 21, 22?<br>That sounds about right<br>and lets see....OLE Girl ...Does XX=15 years old? I gotta ask because these ig'nant momofuuckas like em young so they can TRAIN EM AND TAINT EM.<br>Damn Shame.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_23:51:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "DomiMami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718321, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6714851": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "he just need to break up with the main chick if u can even call her that, seems he only loves her out of familiarity anyway, but he sho went ON and ON about side chick<br><br>that was real triflin how he knocked her up though but she went with it and didnt take no plan b or anything, thats probably why she's not answering the phone, she mad as hell she let u set her up<br><br>he also need to stop relying and worryin so much about what other ppl think about his chick(s), u are the only one that lives ur life and has to deal with the decisions you make, aint nann one ur friends bout to be payin them child support checks cuz ol girl aint takin ya back!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_19:16:15", "killed": false, "user_key": "yes", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6713321": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I don't think he knows wht LOVE is.....he may deeply like the side chick and may care for the main chick but at the end, it was very selfish to purposely get someone pregnant....<br><br>How is he going to feel when is baby mama moves on with the next dude....?!?! B/c tht's what's gonna happen eventually...(believe me).", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_17:43:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6711598, "depth": 2, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6718956": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Nah they both of legal age... and he's not a younging... i just edited it out to protect him a little bit but you killed him 34 times... lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_23:54:22", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6718933, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "6800892": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "@ DomiMami<br>Finally someone with some sound advice for this stupid motherfucker.  He's a good example of Niggas being the new Bitch.  Ridiculous is not even a strong enough sentiment.  Way to get his ass Dominique", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-03-02_18:16:38", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ant_from_Chi", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 6717371, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "6717950": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "this some wessidian bullish! he exemplifies y i rarely date black men. MY GOODNESS! anywho he HAS to tell his girl. a child will be a grownup one day so its like not something that you can just ignore. people step into these babymama/daddy situations SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EASILY.... i got knocked up by an NFL player. ON PURPOSE, and still went to the chop shop because i was mature enough to see past my vagina and the big payoff. seriously he needs to just GET OVER IT! stop bein a bitch. take care of his child, and if his main keeps him try to work things out with her.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-02-27_22:37:20", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "9 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}}, "integration": {"receiver_url": "", "theme": 1, "reply_position": false, "disqus_logo": false}, "timer": {"timer_url": "http://localhost:8005", "thread_id": "12733419", "user_id": "anonymous", "forum_id": "32271", "hash": 2920830993988193463}, "thread": {"days_alive": 0, "slug": "xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221", "paginate": false, "num_pages": 1, "num_posts": 103, "per_page": 0, "total_posts": 0, "realtime_paused": true, "id": 12733419, "queued": false}, "reactions_limit": 10, "context": {"show_reply": true, "use_fb_connect": false, "forum_facebook_key": "", "use_yahoo": true, "subscribed": false, "use_twitter_signin": true, "use_openid": false, "realtime_speed": 5000}, "reactions_start": 0, "settings": {"debug": false, "disqus_url": "http://disqus.com", "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"}, "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"};
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var disqus_popup_reference = null;

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}



/**
 * Dsq.Strings: UI strings
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// HACK: Safari ends with "-->" while other browsers end with "--&gt;" as expected.
Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE = /&lt;!--\[(.*?)\]--(?:>|&gt;)/gim;



// TODO: It might be faster to use string methods to find all <li (...) </li> blocks and pass to Dsq.PostHandler manually.
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};

Dsq.PostHandler = function(str, h_head, post_id, h_content, h_tail, b_head, b_content, b_tail, offset, s) {
	var prepend_header = Dsq.Templates.postPrependHeader(post_id);
	var append_header = Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader(post_id);
	var prepend_body = Dsq.Templates.preBody(post_id);
	var append_body = Dsq.Templates.postBody(post_id);
	var append_footer = Dsq.Templates.postFooter(post_id);

	b_content = b_content.replace(Dsq.POST_BODY_RE, Dsq.PostBodyHandler);
	return h_head + prepend_header + h_content + append_header + h_tail + b_head + prepend_body + b_content + append_body + b_tail + append_footer;
};

Dsq.PostBodyHandler = function(str, head, post_id, content, tail, offset, s) {
	content = Dsq.Templates.Filters.commentContent(post_id, content);
	return head + content + tail;
};

Dsq.MediaPostHandler = function(str, args, offset, s) {
	args = args.split(' ');
	if(args[0] == 'seesmic') {
		return '<br />' + Dsq.Templates.mediaSeesmic(args[1], args[2]);
	}
	return '';
};


/**
 * Shorcuts
 */
Dsq.$ = function(element) { return document.getElementById(element); };
Dsq.$b = document.body || document.getElementsByTagName('body')[0];


/**
 * Dsq.Debug: Logging functions.
 */

Dsq.Debug = new function() {this.log=function(s){};this.profile=function(f){if(typeof f == 'function')return f();else return eval(f);};};


/**
 * Dsq.Urls: URL paths
 */
Dsq.Urls = new function() {
	this.LOGIN = '/profile/login/';
	this.LOGOUT = '/logout/';
	this.REPLY = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221/reply.html';
	this.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE = '/AnonymousUser/';
	this.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR = 'http://media.disqus.com/images/noavatar92.png';
};
// Dsq.Urls

/**
 * Dsq.Validators: Validation for form fields
 */
Dsq.Validators = new function() {
	this.VALID_EMAIL_RE = /^[a-z0-9\-\_\+]+(\.[a-z0-9\-\_\+]+)*\@(([a-z0-9\-\_\+]+(\.[a-z0-9\-\_\+]+)*)+\.[a-z]{2,}|([0-9]+\.){3}[0-9]+)$/i;
	this.name = function(name) {
		var error = false;

		if(typeof Dsq.Templates.placeholder !== 'undefined' &&
		   name == Dsq.Templates.placeholder.name) {
			error = true;
		}
		if(name.length <= 1) {
			error = true;
		}

		if(error) {
			return "Please enter a name to comment.";
		} else {
			return true;
		}
	};
	this.email = function(addr) {
		if(Dsq.Validators.VALID_EMAIL_RE.test(addr)) {
			return true;
		} else {
			return "Please enter a valid email to comment.";
		}
	};
	this.url = function(addr) {
		if(!addr || addr.indexOf('.') != -1) {
			return true;
		} else {
			return "Please check your website URL (this field is optional).";
		}
	};

	this.validate = function(bulk_validation, failure_callback) {
		failure_callback = failure_callback || function(e){ alert(e); };

		for(var i = 0; i < bulk_validation.length; i++) {
			v = bulk_validation[i];
			ret = v.validator(v.value);
			if(ret !== true) {
				failure_callback(ret);
				return false;
			}
		}
		return true;
	};
};

/**
 * Dsq.Utils: Generic utility functions.
 */
Dsq.Utils = new function() {
	this.ie = /msie/i.test(navigator.userAgent) && !/opera/i.test(navigator.userAgent);
	this.ie7 = (document.all && !window.opera && window.XMLHttpRequest) ? true : false;
	this.ie6 = (!window.XMLHttpRequest) ? true: false;
	this.webkit = navigator.userAgent.indexOf('AppleWebKit/') >= 0;
	this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache = {};
	this._styleSheet = null;

	this.gebiFromElement = function(el, id, tag) {
		// This only method only helps IE.
		if(!this.ie) {
			return Dsq.$(id);
		} else {
			var cacheKey = el.id + '-' + tag;
			tag = tag || 'div';
			if(typeof this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey] != 'undefined') {
				collection = this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey];
			} else {
				collection = el.getElementsByTagName(tag);
				this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey] = collection;
			}

			for(var i = 0; i < collection.length; i++) {
				if(collection[i].id == id) {
					return collection[i];
				}
			}
			return null;
		}
	};

	this.execOnReady = function(func) {
		var node = document.createElement('document:ready');
		try {
			node.doScroll('left');
			func();
			node = null;
		} catch(err) {
			setTimeout(function() { Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(func); }, 10);
		}
	};


	// Courtesy of http://www.quirksmode.org/js/cookies.html
	this.createCookie = function(name,value,days) {
		if (days) {
			var date = new Date();
			date.setTime(date.getTime()+(days*24*60*60*1000));
			var expires = "; expires="+date.toGMTString();
		}
		else var expires = "";
		document.cookie = name+"="+value+expires+"; path=/";
	};

	this.readCookie = function(name) {
		var nameEQ = name + "=";
		var ca = document.cookie.split(';');
		for(var i=0;i < ca.length;i++) {
			var c = ca[i];
			while (c.charAt(0)==' ') c = c.substring(1,c.length);
			if (c.indexOf(nameEQ) == 0) return c.substring(nameEQ.length,c.length);
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.eraseCookie = function(name) {
		Dsq.Utils.createCookie(name,"",-1);
	};

	this.deleteNode = function(node) {
		if(node) {
			this.deleteChildren(node);
			if(typeof node.outerHTML != 'undefined') { node.outerHTML = ''; }
			else if(node.parentNode) { node.parentNode.removeChild(node); }
			delete node;
		}
	};

	this.deleteChildren = function(node) {
		if(node) {
			for(var x = node.childNodes.length-1; x >= 0; x--) {
				var childNode = node.childNodes[x];
				if(childNode.hasChildNodes()) { this.deleteChildren(childNode); }
				if(typeof childNode.outerHTML != 'undefined') { childNode.outerHTML = ''; }
				else node.removeChild(childNode);
				delete childNode;
			}
		}
	};

	this.findPos = function(obj) {
		var curleft = 0;
		var curtop = 0;
		if (obj.offsetParent) {
			do {
				curleft += obj.offsetLeft;
				curtop += obj.offsetTop;
			} while (obj = obj.offsetParent);
		}
		return [curleft,curtop];
	};

	this.getWindowSize = function() {
		var windowWidth = -1;
		var windowHeight = -1;

		if(typeof(window.innerWidth) == 'number') { //Non-IE
			windowWidth = window.innerWidth;
			windowHeight = window.innerHeight;
		} else if(document.documentElement) { // IE 6+ in 'standards compliant mode'
			windowWidth = document.documentElement.clientWidth || document.body.clientWidth;
			windowHeight = document.documentElement.clientHeight || document.body.clientHeight;
		}

		return [windowWidth, windowHeight];
	}

	this.getScrollPos = function() {
		var scrollWidth, scrollTop;

		if(document.documentElement && (document.documentElement.scrollTop || document.documentElement.scrollWidth)) {
			scrollWidth = document.documentElement.scrollWidth;
			// IE is weird here.  If no doctype is provided, document.body.scrollTop is 0,
			// otherwise document.documentElement.scrollTop is 0.
			scrollTop = document.documentElement.scrollTop || document.body.scrollTop;
		} else if(document.body.scrollTop && document.body.scrollWidth) {
			scrollWidth = document.body.scrollWidth;
			scrollTop = document.body.scrollTop;
		}

		return [scrollWidth, scrollTop];
	}

	this.addEventListener = function(instance, eventName, listener) {
		var listenerFn = listener;
		if (instance.addEventListener) {
			instance.addEventListener(eventName, listenerFn, false);
		} else if (instance.attachEvent) {
			listenerFn = function() {
				listener(window.event);
			};
			instance.attachEvent("on" + eventName, listenerFn);
		} else {
			throw new Error("Event registration not supported");
		}
		return {
			instance: instance,
			name: eventName,
			listener: listenerFn
		};
	};

	this.removeEventListener = function(event) {
		var instance = event.instance;
		if (instance.removeEventListener) {
			instance.removeEventListener(event.name, event.listener, false);
		} else if (instance.detachEvent) {
			instance.detachEvent("on" + event.name, event.listener);
		}
	};

	this.fixIframesIE = function(id) {
		var disqusThread = Dsq.$(disqus_container_id);
		var iframes = disqusThread.getElementsByTagName('iframe');

		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$(id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-content');
		}

		for(i = 0; i < iframes.length; i++) {
			if (container) {
				iframes[i].style.width = container.offsetWidth;
			}
		}
	};

	this.getElementsByClassName = function(oElm, strTagName, strClassName) {
	/* Credit: Jonathan Snook [http://www.snook.ca/jonathan], Robert Nyman [http://www.robertnyman.com] */
		var arrElements = (strTagName == "*" && oElm.all)? oElm.all : oElm.getElementsByTagName(strTagName);
		var arrReturnElements = new Array();
		strClassName = strClassName.replace(/\-/g, "\\-");
		var oRegExp = new RegExp("(^|\\s)" + strClassName + "(\\s|$)");
		var oElement;
		for(var i = 0; i < arrElements.length; i++) {
			oElement = arrElements[i];
			if(oRegExp.test(oElement.className)) {
				arrReturnElements.push(oElement);
			}
		}
		return (arrReturnElements);
	};

	this.postToUrl = function(url, post_data, opt_redirect) {
		var form = document.createElement('form');
		var iframe_container = document.createElement('div');
		var id = 'dsq-temp-iframe-' + (new Date()).getTime();

		form.method = 'POST';
		form.action = url;
		if (!opt_redirect) {
			form.target = id;
		}
		iframe_container.innerHTML = '<iframe style="display:none" name="' + id + '" id="' + id + '"></iframe>';

		for(var key in post_data) {
			if(post_data.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var input = document.createElement('input');
				input.name = key;
				input.type = 'hidden';
				input.value = post_data[key];

				form.appendChild(input);
			}
		}

		Dsq.$b.appendChild(iframe_container);
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(form);
		form.submit();
	};

	// Strips integer id from id of element in the form ('some-id-###')
	this.extractId = function(e) {
		var chunks = e.id.split('-');
		if(chunks.length <= 1) {
			return 0;
		} else {
			return parseInt(chunks[chunks.length-1]);
		}
	};

	this.getStyle = function(el, styleProp) {
		if(el.currentStyle) {
			var y = el.currentStyle[styleProp];
		} else if(window.getComputedStyle) {
			var y = document.defaultView.getComputedStyle(el, null).getPropertyValue(styleProp);
		}

		if(y == 'transparent' || y == '') {
			this.getStyle(el.parentNode, styleProp);
		} else {
			return y;
		}
	};

	this.execScript = function(url, append_qs, container) {
		var script = document.createElement('script');
		append_qs = typeof append_qs == 'undefined' ? true : append_qs;
		container = container || Dsq.container;

		if(append_qs) {
			var j = (url.indexOf('?') >= 0) ? '&' : '?';
			url += j + (new Date()).getTime();
		}
		script.type = 'text/javascript';
		script.charset = 'UTF-8';
		script.src = url;
		container.appendChild(script);
		return script;
	};

	this.pluralize = function(num, singular, plural) {
		return (num != 1) ? plural || 's' : singular || '';
	};

	this.getRequestParams = function(queryString /* optional */) {
		var pairs, tuple;
		var params = {};

		queryString = queryString || window.location.search.substring(1);
		pairs = queryString.split('&');

		for (var i = 0, pair; pair = pairs[i]; i++) {
			tuple = pair.split('=');
			params[tuple[0]] = (tuple[1] || true);
		}

		return params;
	};

	this.addCssRule = function(selector, styleText, index) {
		var stylesheet;
		index = index || 0;

		if(!this._styleSheet) {
			var styleEl = document.createElement('style');
			document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(styleEl);
			this._styleSheet = styleEl.sheet;
			if(!this._styleSheet) {
				// IE does not like our newly created stylesheet.
				this._styleSheet = document.styleSheets[document.styleSheets.length-1];
			}
		}
		stylesheet = this._styleSheet;

		if(stylesheet.insertRule) {
			var ruleText = selector + ' { ' + styleText + ' }';
			if(index == -1) {
				index = stylesheet.cssRules.length;
			}
			stylesheet.insertRule(ruleText, index);
		} else if(stylesheet.addRule) {
			stylesheet.addRule(selector, styleText, index);
		}
	};

	this.forEachIn = function(obj, callback) {
		for(var key in obj) {
			if(obj.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				callback(key, obj[key]);
			}
		}
	};

	this._interpolateGlobalContext = {
		// values that get used a lot and are global to the request
		'profile_url': Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE,

		'disqus_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url,
		'media_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url,
		'request_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.username,
		'request_display_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username,
		'forum_name': Dsq.jsonData.forum.name
	};

	this.renderFromContextStack = function(key, contexts) {
		// Returns the first instance of `key` in the array of objects `contexts` or else ''
		for (var i=0; i<contexts.length; i++) {
			if (contexts[i][key] !== undefined) {
				return String(contexts[i][key]);
			}
		}
		throw new Error('key ' + key + ' not found in context');
	};

	var that = this;
	this.interpolate = function(fmt, opt_localContext) {
		// Interpolate `fmt` named-format string with an assumed global context.
		// Based on `interpolate` in django.views.i18n
		var contextStack = [opt_localContext || {}, that._interpolateGlobalContext];
		return fmt.replace(/%\(\w+\)s/g, function(match){
			return that.renderFromContextStack(match.slice(2,-2), contextStack);
		});
	};

	this.stripTags = function(s) {
		// Removes HTML tags from `s`
		return s.replace(/(<([^>]+)>)/g,"");

	};

	this.assert = function(b) {
		if (!b) {
			throw new Error('Assertion error.');
		}
	};

};
// Dsq.Utils

/**
 * Dsq.Popup: Popup helper functions.
 */
Dsq.Popup = new function() {
	this.timeHide = new Array();
	this.timeShow = new Array();
	this.activePopup = {};
	this.profileCache = {};
	this.statusCache = {};

	this.showTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the hide timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeHide[post_id]);

		// start the timer
		if(!Dsq.Popup.profileIsOn && !Dsq.Thread.adminIsOn) {
			this.timeShow[post_id] = setTimeout("Dsq.Popup.popProfile(\"" + post_id + "\")", 400);
		}
	};

	this.hideTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the show timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeShow[post_id]);
	};

	this.updateProfile = function(username) {
		// Callback from /embed/profile.js
		if (this.statusCache[username]) {
			var statusEl = Dsq.$('dsq-profile-status-' + username);
			statusEl.innerHTML = this.statusCache[username];
			statusEl.style.display = 'block';
		}

		if (this.profileCache[username]) {
			var _cache = this.profileCache[username];

			var _genhtml = function(text) { return '<span><big>' + text + '</big></span>'; };
			var _no_comments = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_COMMENTS(_cache.comments_count));
			var _no_likes = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_LIKES(_cache.likes_count));
			var _no_points = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_POINTS(_cache.points));

			var statsEl = Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + username);
			statsEl.innerHTML = '';

			if (Dsq.jsonData.users[username].registered) {
				statsEl.innerHTML = _no_comments + _no_likes;
			}
			statsEl.innerHTML += _no_points;

			var activeSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.active_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.active_sites[i];
				activeSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (activeSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = activeSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = 'This site.';
			}

			var moderatedSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.moderated_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.moderated_sites[i];
				moderatedSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (moderatedSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + username).innerHTML = moderatedSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + username).innerHTML = '';
			}
		}

		// Reposition popup after full HTML is rendered
		if(Dsq.Popup.activePopup && Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el) {
			Dsq.Popup.initPopup(Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.type);
		}

	};

	this.showCookieMsgs = function() {
		var title = '';
		var message = '';
		var numAlerts = 0;

		Dsq.Utils.forEachIn(Dsq.jsonData.cookie_messages, function(k, v) {
			if (!v) return;

			switch(k) {
				// Cookie: Twitter
				case 'post_twitter':
					if (v === 'error') {
						title = 'Twitter Error!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-error">Oops, we couldn\'t tweet this comment. Please check your <a href="http://disqus.com/account/services">account settings</a>.</li>';
					} else {
						var _msg = v.split(':');
						title = 'Tweeted!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-success">Your comment was successfully tweeted. <a href="http://twitter.com/' + _msg[0] + '/status/' + _msg[1] + '">Click here to view the tweet</a>.</li>';
					}
					break;
				// Cookie: Unapproved Post
				case 'post_not_approved':
					title = 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-not-approved">Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.</li>';
					break;
				// Cookie: Profile Found
				case 'post_has_profile':
					title = 'Use your existing commenter profile';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-has-profile">You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a></li>';
					break;
				case 'user_created':
					var _data = v.split(':');
					title = 'Profile created!';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-user-created">You have just created a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, the best way to claim, manage, and track your comments all over the web. \
					<br /><br />A confirmation is being sent to <strong>' + _data[1] + '</strong>. Please check for this email in order to verify your profile. \
					<ul class="dsq-list-tick"> \
						<li>Your username is <strong>' + _data[0] +'</strong>. <a href="http://disqus.com/people/' + _data[0] + '/" target="_blank">Click here to view your public profile</a>.</li> \
						<li>Be sure to set your profile picture, as well as connect your <span class="dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> and <span class="dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> accounts. <a href="http://disqus.com/account/" target="_blank">Click here for account settings</a>.</li> \
					</ul> \
					</li>'
					break;
				default:
					break;
			}
			numAlerts++;
		});

		if(numAlerts > 1) {
			message = '<ul class="dsq-list-bluebullet">' + message;
			message += '</ul>';
			title = 'Thanks for posting!';
		}
		if(numAlerts > 0) {
			if(typeof(disqus_cookie_msgs) == 'function') {
				disqus_cookie_msgs(message, title);
			} else {
				Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
			}
		}
	};

	this.helpBadges = function(post_id) {
		var html = ' \
			<ul class="dsq-popup-help"> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile with a confirmed email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, but has not yet confirmed his or her email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span> is not logged in with any account and has not claimed his or her comments.</li> \
				<li class="dsq-help-otheraccts">Other accounts</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> is using his or her Facebook profile via Facebook Connect.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> is using his or her Twitter profile via Twitter Sign-in.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-openid">OpenID</span> is using his or her OpenID.</li> \
			</ul> \
		';

		this.popModal(html, 'Help: Types of Commenters', post_id);
		return;
	};

	this.permalink = function(post_id) {
		var header = 'Link to this comment';
		var body = '<strong>You are anchored to</strong>:<br />' + document.location.protocol + '//' + document.location.host + document.location.pathname + document.location.search + '#comment-' + post_id;

		this.popModal(body, header, post_id);
	};

	this.login = function(header, body) {
		var h = header || 'Login or Register';
		var b = body || '';
		b += Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: 'dsq-popup-login'});
		b += '</iframe>'; // HACK: Sometimes there is something funky with the IFRAME SRC that causes no end tag
		this.popModal(b, h, null, true, 'dsq-popup-login');
	};

	this.blacklist = function(id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		var title = 'Add to Blacklist';
		var message = ' \
		Adding this person to the blacklist will block him or her from commenting on this site. Check the following types that you would like to add to the blacklist:'
		+ (userData['registered'] ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-username" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-username"><strong>Username</strong>: ' + userData['username'] + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ (_meta.email ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-email" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-email"><strong>Email address</strong>: ' + _meta.email + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ '<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
			<input id="dsq-blacklist-ip" type="checkbox" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-blacklist-ip-warning\').style.display=\'block\'"> \
			<label for="dsq-blacklist-ip"><strong>IP address</strong>: ' + _meta.ip + '</label> \
		</div> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p id="dsq-blacklist-ip-warning" style="display:none">	\
				Note: Blocking this person\'s IP address may also unintentionally prevent others, who share his/her IP address, from commenting on this site. \
				This may include people who are sharing the same computer, living in the same house, or using the same Internet provider. Only block an IP address as a last resort. \
			</p> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p style="text-align:center"><button onclick="Dsq.Post.blockUser(' + id + '); this.disabled=true; this.innerHTML=\'Just one moment...\'">Add to Blacklist</button></p> \
		';

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
	};

	this.remoteAccountSettings = function() {
		var body = '';
		// Set up IFrame.
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/_auth/embed/remote_settings/';
		var attributes = {id: 'dsq-popup-account-settings'};
		if (typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}

		body = Dsq.Templates._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
		this.popModal(body, 'Account Settings', null, true, 'dsq-popup-account-settings');
	};

	this.popModal = function(message, title, post_id, use_listener, extra_classes) {
		var container = document.createElement('div');
		var header, body;

		Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);

		if(typeof(title) == 'undefined') { title = ''; }
		if(typeof(use_listener) == 'undefined') { use_listener = true; }

		if(post_id) {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message-' + post_id;
		} else {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message';
		}

		header = title;
		body = message;

		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupModal(header, body);
		Dsq.Popup.initPopup(container, post_id, 'message', extra_classes);
		if(use_listener) {
			Dsq.Popup.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', Dsq.Popup._closePopup);
		}
	};

	this.popAlert = this.popModal;

	this.loading = function(post_id) {
		var title = Dsq.Strings.JUST_A_MOMENT;
		var body = '<div style="text-align:center; padding: 5px 0 10px 0"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif" alt="" /></div>'
		Dsq.Popup.lightbox(body, title, post_id);
	};

	this.lightbox = function(message, title, post_id) {
		// Wraps Dsq.Popup.popModal

		var overlay = document.createElement('div');
		overlay.id = 'dsq-overlay';
		overlay.className = 'dsq-overlay';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(overlay);
		
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, post_id, false, 'dsq-lightbox');
	};

	this.popProfile = function(post_id, userKey) {
		var post = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id];
		if (post && post.has_been_anonymized) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('This message was anonymized by its previous owner.', 'Anonymized', post_id);
			return;
		}

		if(post_id) {
			userKey = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id].user_key;	
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][userKey];
		var elId = 'dsq-popup-profile-' + userKey;
		var container = document.createElement('div');

		if(this.activePopup.el) {
			this._closePopup(null, true);
			if(this.activePopup.linkClicked) {
				this.activePopup.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		container.id = elId;
		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupProfile(userKey);

		this.initPopup(container, post_id, 'profile');
		this.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._closePopup);

		if(!this.profileCache[userKey]) {
			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/embed/profile.js'
				+ '?username=' + userKey
				+ '&anon=' + (userData['registered'] ? 0 : 1)
				+ '&f=' + Dsq.jsonData['request'].forum);
		} else {
			this.updateProfile(userKey);
		}
	};

	this._closePopup = function(e, force) {
		var activePopup = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el;
		var id = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id;
		var link = 'dsq-avatar-' + id; // HACK: Specific to profile toggle target

		// HACK: This event should be gone if there is no active popup.
		if(!activePopup) {
			return;
		}
		if(force || !Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, activePopup.id)) {
			// TODO: This is breaking iE?
			if(Dsq.Popup.popupListener) {
				Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Popup.popupListener);
			}
			
			// Kill overlay
			var overlay = Dsq.$('dsq-overlay');
			if(overlay) { Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(overlay); }
			
			try {
				Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(activePopup);
			} catch(e) {
				// HACK: IE6 throws an error when using deleteNode() with a node containing a <table> in the html.
				activePopup.parentNode.removeChild(activePopup);
			}
			Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {};
		}

		if(!force && Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Popup.activePopup.linkClicked = true;
		}

	};

	this.initPopup = function(popup, post_id, type, extra_classes) {
		popup.className = 'dsq-popup dsq-popup-' + type + ' ' + (extra_classes ? extra_classes : '');
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6 || Dsq.Utils.ie7) {
			// HACK: We can't modify the body before it's ready, so we need
			//       to use an IE-safe "DOMReady" workaround before loading
			//       our popup.
			Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(function() {Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup); });
		} else {
			Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup);
		}

		popup.style.display = 'block';

		var xPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[0] - popup.offsetWidth) / 2;
		var yPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[1] - popup.offsetHeight) / 2;

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
			yPos += Dsq.Utils.getScrollPos()[1];
		}

		popup.style.left = xPos + 'px';
		popup.style.top = yPos + 'px';

		Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {
			'el' : popup,
			'id' : post_id,
			'type': type,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};
	};

	this.isClicked = function(e, id) {
		var t = e.target || e.srcElement;
		while(t && t.parentNode) {
			if(t.id == id) {
				return true;
			}

			t = t.parentNode;
		}
		return false;
	};
};
// Dsq.Popup

/**
 * Dsq.Templates
 */
Dsq.Templates = new function() {
	/*
	 * Counter keeping track of the number of posts iterated over.
	 */
	this.postLoopCounter = 0;
	this.filters = {};
	this.addPostContainer = 'dsq-post-add';
	this.textareaContainer = 'dsq-post-add';

	this.registerTemplate = function(name, func) {
		this['$$_' + name] = func;

		if(typeof DsqLocal.Filters != 'undefined'
		&& typeof DsqLocal.Filters[name] == 'function') {
			// Push filters to this.filters to unify code.
			this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
			this.filters[name].push(DsqLocal.Filters[name]);
		}

		this[name] = function() {
			var ret;

			if(typeof DsqLocal.Templates != 'undefined'
			&& typeof DsqLocal.Templates[name] == 'function') {
				ret = DsqLocal.Templates[name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(ret === undefined) {
				ret = this['$$_' + name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(this.filters[name]) {
				var args = [ret];

				args.push.apply(args, arguments);
				for(var i = 0; i < this.filters[name].length; i++) {
					ret = this.filters[name][i].apply(this, args);
				}
			}

			return ret;
		};
	};

	this.registerFilter = function(name, func) {
		this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
		this.filters[name].push(func);
	};

	/**
	 * Dsq.Templates.Filters
	 */
	this.Filters = new function() {
		this.commentContainer = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			var classes = [];
			if(Dsq.jsonData.request.page > 1) {
				classes.push('dsq-append');
			}

			//
			// Extra classes used for custom themes
			//

			if(_meta.depth) {
				classes.push('dsq-comment-child', 'dsq-depth-' + _meta.depth, 'dsq-parent-is-' + _meta.parent_post_id);
			}


			//

			if(_meta.author_is_creator) {
				// TODO: We need to deprecate the "special" class since it is not properly prefixed.
				classes.push('special', 'dsq-special');
			}
			if(_meta.author_is_moderator) {
				classes.push('dsq-moderator');
			}
			classes.push(['dsq-odd', 'dsq-even'][Dsq.Templates.postLoopCounter % 2]);

			s = s.substring(0, s.lastIndexOf('>'));
			return s + ' class="dsq-comment ' + classes.join(' ') + '" style="margin-left:' + _meta.depth*30 + 'px">';
		};

		this.commentContent = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			if (_meta.killed) {
				return '<em>Comment removed.</em>';
			} else if (!_meta.approved) {
				return '<em>This comment was flagged for review.</em>';
			}

			s = s.replace(Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE, Dsq.MediaPostHandler);
			return s;
		};
	};

	//
	// Thread
	//
	// TODO: These need to be stripped of all Django template tags.

	this.authPost = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			return '';
		}
		var result = [];
		result = result.concat([
				'<div id="dsq-auth"',
						Dsq.jsonData.integration.reply_position ? 'class="dsq-auth-bottom"' : '',
						'>',
					'<div class="dsq-by">',
						'<a href="http://disqus.com" target="_blank">',
							(Dsq.jsonData.integration.disqus_logo ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/by-disqus.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">') :
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/dsq-button-120x19.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">')
							),
						'</a>',
					'</div>',
					'<div class="dsq-auth-header">',
						'<h3 id="dsq-add-new-comment" class="dsq-h3-addcomment">',
								Dsq.Strings.ADD_NEW_COMMENT,
						'</h3>',
						'<div id="dsq-login">',
						(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated && Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post
								? '<p class="dsq-login-message" id="dsq-login-message">You are commenting as a <a class="dsq-help" title="Click for more information" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Guest</a>. You may select one to log into:</p>'
								: '')
		]);
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			result = result.concat([
							Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
								'<a id="dsq-login-toggle" href="%(disqus_url)s%(login_url)s?next=article:%(thread_id)s" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false"><img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsq-profile-btn.png" title="%(log_into)s" alt="%(log_into)s"/></a>',
								{login_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGIN, thread_id: Dsq.jsonData.thread.id, log_into: Dsq.Strings.LOG_INTO_DISQUS}
								),
							'&nbsp; ',
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ?
								'<div id="dsq-fbc-login" onlogin="DisqusFbcParentController.onLogin()" size="medium" background="light" length="short" style="display:inline; margin-right:7px"></div>' :
								''
							),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-twitter-login" class="dsq-twitter-login" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect();" style="display:inline; cursor: pointer"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/twitter-signin-short.png" style="margin-right:7px" /></div>', {}) : ''),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-openid-login" class="dsq-openid-login" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.requestURL();" style="display:inline; cursor:pointer;"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/openid-login-button.png"/></div>', {}
								) : '')
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
						'</div>', // dsq-login
					'</div>', // dsq-auth-header
					'<div id="dsq-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated" ',
						Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated ? 'style="display:block"' : '',
						'>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-pic">',
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">' +
																			'<img class="dsq-post-avatar" src="%(avatar_url)s" alt="" /></a>',
																			{avatar_url: Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR,
																			url: (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
																					 ? Dsq.jsonData.request.url
																					 : Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE) }),
						'</div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>', {url:Dsq.jsonData.request.url})
										  )
										: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(profile_url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>')
											)
									),
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">',
									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsqicon12.png" alt="%(logged_in_as)s"/>&nbsp',
											{logged_in_as: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username)})
										: ''),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="%(logout_from_disqus)s">',
											{logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN, logout_from_disqus: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('DISQUS')})
										: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'twitter')
												? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using Twitter (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
												 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
												: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'openid')
													 ? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using OpenID (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
													 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
													 : ''
													)
											)
									),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote ? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('<span class="logo-disqus">DISQUS</span>') : ''),
									'</a>',
								'</li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
		]);
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect) {
			result = result.concat([
					'<div id="dsq-fbc-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated">',
						'<div id="dsq-fbc-profilepic" class="dsq-authenticated-pic" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.ProfilePic" size="square" facebook-logo="true"></div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									'Logged in as <span id="dsq-fbc-name" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.Name" linked="true" useyou="false"></span>',
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">using Facebook Connect <a href="#" onclick="javascript:DisqusFbcParentController.logout();return false;">(Logout)</a></li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
				'</div>', // dsq-auth
				'<div id="dsq-toolbar-items">',
				'</div>'
		]);
		result = result.concat([
					//
					//
					//
				((!Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post && !Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) ?
					// Needs to be translated:
					('<p id="dsq-no-anon-msg">Required: Please log into <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> ' +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ? 'or connect with Facebook ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ? 'or sign in with Twitter ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ? 'or sign in using OpenID ' : '') +
					Dsq.Utils.interpolate('to comment on <strong>%(forum_name)s</strong>.</p>')) :
					''
				),
				'<div id="dsq-post-add"></div>',
				'<div style="margin:10px 0">',
				((Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media) ?
						'<a href="#" id="dsq-media-link" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, false, \'media\'); return false">' + Dsq.Strings.USE_MEDIA + ' <small>&#9660;</small></a>' :
						''),
				'</div>'
		]);
		return result.join('');
	};


	this.header = function() {

		var html = '\<h3 id="dsq-comments-count" class="dsq-h3-commentcount">\
	 <span id="dsq-num-posts">103</span> Comments\
	 &nbsp;\
	 <span class="dsq-item-feed">\
	 <a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221/latest.rss"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/bullet-feed.png"></a>\
	 </span>\
	 </h3>\
	 <div id="dsq-options" style="margin:15px 0">\
	 <span class="dsq-item-sort">\
	 Sort by\
	 <select id="dsq-sort-select" onchange="Dsq.Thread.sortBy(this.value);">\
	 <option value="hot" selected="selected">Popular now</option>\
	 <option value="best" >Best Rating</option>\
	 <option value="newest" >Newest first</option>\
	 <option value="oldest" >Oldest first</option>\
	 </select>\
	 &nbsp;\
	 </span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-cp"><a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221/">Community Page</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-subscribe">\
	 <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/email.png" style="width:12px;height:12px;vertical-align:middle">\
	 <span id="dsq-subscribe">\
	 <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a>\
	 </span>\
	 </span>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-alerts">\
	 </div>\
		';

		
			html = Dsq.Templates.authPost() + html;
		

		
		if (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) { 
			html = ' \
			<div class="dsq-alert-message dsq-upgrade-message"> \
				<strong>Disqus upgrade available.</strong> Hi ' + Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username + ', this message is being displayed to you because you are a moderator of this site. <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-upgrade-message\').style.display=\'block\';this.style.display=\'none\';return false">Click here for details.</a> \
				<div style="display:none; margin-top:10px;" id="dsq-upgrade-message"> \
					A new theme is available with added features. <a href="http://disqus.com/comments/settings/' + Dsq.jsonData.forum.url + '/?p=customize">To change your theme, click here</a> and choose the theme Narcissus. \
					If you do not upgrade, you are missing out on features such as: real-time commenting, new sign-in integrations, and an upgrade interface. \
					<strong>This message will automatically go away in one week.</strong> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			' + html; 
		}
		return html;
	};

	this.footer = function() {
		var html = Dsq.Templates.pagination();

		

		html += Dsq.Templates.reactions();

		
			html += Dsq.Templates.trackbacks();
		

		return html;
	};

	this.pagination = function() {
		var html = '';
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) { Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = ''; }
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.thread.paginate) { return ''; }

		//
		// TODO: num_paginator still uses the template tag for pagination, 
		// 		while append_paginator does it all in JavaScript.
		//		This should all be in JavaScript.
		//

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages > 1 && Dsq.jsonData.request.page < Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages) {
			html = ' \<a class="dsq-paginate-append-text" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this); return false">Show more comments...</a>\
	 <button class="dsq-button-small dsq-paginate-append-button" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this);">Load more comments</button>\
			';
		}
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = html;
			return '';
		} else {
			return '<div id="dsq-pagination" class="dsq-pagination">' + html + '</div>';
		}
	};

	this.trackbacks = function() {
		var html = '';

		if(typeof DsqLocal != 'undefined' && DsqLocal.trackback_url && DsqLocal.trackbacks) {
			var trackbacks = DsqLocal.trackbacks;
			var trackback_url = DsqLocal.trackback_url;
		} else {
			var trackbacks = [
			
			
			];
			var trackback_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221/trackback/';
		}

		html += '<div class="dsq-item-trackback">Trackback URL&nbsp;&nbsp;<input class="dsq-trackback-url" onclick="this.select()" readonly="true" value="' + trackback_url + '"></div>';

		if(trackbacks.length) {
			html += '<ul id="dsq-references">'
			for(var i = 0; i < trackbacks.length; i++) {
				var trackback = trackbacks[i];
				html += '<li><cite><a href="' + trackback.author_url + '" rel="nofollow">' + trackback.author_name + '</a></cite> \
						<p class="dsq-meta">' + trackback.date + '</p> \
						<p class="dsq-content">' + trackback.excerpt + '</p></li>';
			}
			html += '</ul>';
			html = '<h3 class="dsq-h3-trackbacks">Trackbacks</h3>' + html;
		}

		return html;
	}

	this.showRetweets = function(id, limit, element_id /* Optional */) {
		var source, html = '';

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			if (reaction.id === id) {
				source = reaction.retweets;
			}
		}

		if (source) {
			if (limit === 0) {
				limit = source.length;
			}

			for (var j = 0; j < limit; j++) {
				var rt = source[j];
				html += '<a href="' + rt.url + '">' + rt.author_name + '</a>'	+ ((j === (limit - 1)) ? '.' : ', ');
			}
		}

		if (element_id === undefined) {
			return html;
		}

		var element = document.getElementById(element_id);
		element.innerHTML = html;
		return element;
	};

	this.showMoreReactions = function(reactions, has_more, start, limit) {
		var link = document.getElementById('dsq-show-more-reactions');
		var container = link.parentNode;
		container.removeChild(link);

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = reactions[i]; i++) {
			var el = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (el) {
				container.innerHTML += el;
			}
		}

		if (has_more) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = start;
			var l = limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			container.innerHTML += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}
	};

	this.generateReactionHTML = function(reaction) {
		if (reaction.body === null || reaction.body == '') {
			return;
		}

		if (reaction.author_name === '') {
			reaction.author_name = '&nbsp;';
		}

		if (reaction.url === '') {
			reaction.url = reaction.get_service_url;
		}

		/* Reaction HTML begins */
		var item = '<li class="dsq-reaction" id="dsq-reaction-' + reaction.id + '">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-header">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-header-avatar">';

		if (reaction.author_url && reaction.author_url !== '') {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="' + reaction.author_url +'">';
		} else {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="#" onclick="return false;">';
		}

		if (reaction.avatar_url && reaction.avatar_url !== '') {
			item += '<img src="' + reaction.avatar_url + '"/>';
		} else {
			item += '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/noavatar32.png"/>';
		}

		var service_icon = (reaction.get_service_name == 'trackback' || reaction.get_service_name == 'pingback' ? 'rss' : reaction.get_service_name.replace(' ', ''));
		item += '<img class="dsq-service-icon" src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/reactions/services/' + service_icon + '.png"/>'
			+ '</a></div>'
			+ '<cite><span>' + reaction.author_name + '</span></cite>'
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"><a class="dsq-header-time">' + reaction.date_created + '</a></span>'
			+ '</div><div class="dsq-reaction-body">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-message">' + reaction.body + '</div>'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-footer">From <a class="dsq-service-name" target="_blank" href="' + reaction.url + '">' + reaction.get_service_name + '</a> '
			+ 'via ' + (reaction.source == 'backtype' ? '<a href="http://backtype.com/">BackType</a>' : '<a href="' + reaction.source_url + '">UberVU</a>')
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator ? '&nbsp;&bull;&nbsp;<a class="dsq-hide-reaction" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Reaction.hide(' + reaction.id + '); return false;">Hide</a>' : '') + '</div></div>';

		if(reaction.retweets) {
			var num_retweets = reaction.retweets.length;
			if (num_retweets > 0) {
				item += '<div class="dsq-reaction-retweets">';
				if (num_retweets == 1) {
					item += 'One more retweet from <a href="' + reaction.retweets[0].url + '">'  + reaction.retweets[0].author_name + '</a>';
				} else {
					item += (num_retweets + ' more retweets from ');

					item += '<span id="dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '">';
					var n_tweets = (num_retweets > 15) ? 15 : num_retweets;
					item += Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(reaction.id, n_tweets);

					if (n_tweets != num_retweets) {
						item += '</span> <a onclick="Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(' + reaction.id + ', 0, \'dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '\');'
							+ 'this.parentNode.removeChild(this); return false;" href="#">Show all</a>';
					}
				}
				item += '</div>';
			}
		}

		item += '</li>'; /* Reaction HTML ends */
		return item;
	};

	this.reactions = function() {
		var html, reaction;

		if (Dsq.jsonData.reactions === undefined || Dsq.jsonData.reactions.length === 0) {
			return '';
		}

		html = '';
		for (var i = 0; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			var item = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (item) {
				html += item;
			}
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.has_more_reactions) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_start;
			var l = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			html += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}

		return '<h3 class="dsq-h3-reactions">Reactions</h3><ul id="dsq-reactions" class="dsq-reactions">' + html + '</ul>';
	};
	
	this.missingPermissions = function() {
		return '';
	};

	//
	// Post
	//

	this.prependPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="comment-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.appendPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="dsq-comment-reply-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.postPrependHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-header-avatar" id="dsq-header-avatar-' + post_id + '" onmouseover="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')"> \
				<a id="dsq-avatar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-avatar" href="' + userData.url + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">'
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.show_avatar
				? '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key].avatar + '" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '</a>'
			+ '</div> \
		';
	};

	this.postAppendHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];

		return ''
			+ (_meta.author_is_moderator
				? '<img class="dsq-mod-star" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/bullet-star.png" title="Moderator" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"> \
				<a id="dsq-time-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-header-time" href="#comment-' + post_id + '" title="Permalink">' + _meta.date + '</a> \
			</span>';
	};

	this.preBody = function(post_id) {
		return '';
	}

	this.postBody = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Deprecate flagging conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		return ''
			+ (_meta.edited
				? '<p class="dsq-editedtxt">(Edited by a moderator)</p>'
				: '')
			;
	};

	this.postFooter = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Use media should be conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		if(_meta.killed) { return ''; }

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-comment-footer" id="dsq-comment-footer-' + post_id + '"> \
				<div id="dsq-points-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-likedtxt">'
				+ (_meta.points
					? _meta.points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(_meta.points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.'
					: '')
				+ '</div>'
				+ '<ul class="dsq-comment-options dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.votable
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first dsq-rate" id="dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id + '">'
					+ (!_meta.up_voted
						? '<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.rate(this, ' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Like</a>'
						: 'You liked this.') + '</li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-report' + (!_meta.votable ? ' dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-post-report-' + post_id + '"><a href="#" class="dsq-post-report" onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + post_id + ', false); return false;">Report</a></li> \
				</ul> \
				<ul class="dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.can_reply
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first"><a href="#" id="dsq-reply-link-' + post_id +'" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleReply(this, ' + post_id +'); return false;">Reply</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ (_meta.can_reply && !_meta.has_replies && _meta.from_request_user
					? '<li id="dsq-edit-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-edit-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="' + (!_meta.can_reply ? 'dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-more-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-more-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'more\'); return false">More <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
				+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media
					? '<li id="dsq-media-el-' + post_id +'" style="display:none"><a id="dsq-media-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'media\'); return false">Use Media <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '</ul>'
				+ '<div id="dsq-reply-bar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar" style="display:none"> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-items-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-items"> \
						</div> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-auth-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-auth"> \
							 \
								 \
								 	<a href="#" class="dsq-help dsq-reply-req-opt" title="You are commenting as a Guest. You may choose to log into an existing DISQUS Profile, your Facebook, Twitter or OpenID account to comment on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Optional:</a> \
								 \
								<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/dsq-favicon-16x16.png" alt="" /> \
								<a id="dsq-reply-login-' + post_id + '" href="http://disqus.com/profile/login/?next=article:12733419" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false">Login</a> \
								 \
								&nbsp;or&nbsp; \
									<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/twitter-signin-icon.png" alt="" /> \
									<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect(); return false">Sign-in</a> \
								 \
								 \
							 \
						</div> \
					</div> \
					<div id="dsq-reply-' + post_id + '"></div> \
			</div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Iframes
	//

	this._makeAttributes = function(attributes) {
		// Makes a tag attributes string out of an object.
		// Caller is responsible for making sure nothing needs to be escaped.
		var result = [];
		for (key in attributes) {
			result.push(' ' + key + '="' + attributes[key] + '"');
		}
		result = result.join('');
		return result;
	};

	this._frameGeneric = function(base_url, params, attributes) {
		if(typeof(disqus_callback_params) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_callback_params = '';
		}

		var default_params = {
			// TODO: These should be moved to Dsq.jsonData.
			'f'				: 'blogxilla',
			't'				: 'xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221',
			// Do we need encodeURIComponent here?
			'ifrs'			: encodeURIComponent(disqus_iframe_css),
			'to_redirect'	: encodeURIComponent(window.location),
			'cbp'			: disqus_callback_params,
			'ff'			: Dsq.Thread.ff,
			'fc'			: Dsq.Thread.fc,
			'ac'			: Dsq.Thread.ac,
			'default_text'	: disqus_default_text
		};

		base_url += '?' + (new Date()).getTime();
		// Add params to default_params.
		if(params) {
			for(var key in params) {
				if(params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					default_params[key] = encodeURIComponent(params[key]);
				}
			}
		}
		// Build querystring.
		for(var key in default_params) {
			if(default_params[key] && default_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				base_url += '&' + key + '=' + default_params[key];
			}
		}

		return [
			'<iframe marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" hspace="0" vspace="0" frameborder="0"',
			(' allowtransparency="true" src="' + base_url + '"'),
			this._makeAttributes(attributes),
			'</iframe>'].join('');
	};

	this.frameLogin = function(opt_attributes) {
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/login.html';
		var attributes = opt_attributes || {};
		attributes['class'] = 'dsq-post-login';

		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameReply = function(post_id, extra_params, attributes) {
		// Returns the HTML for a reply iframe. Called by Dsq.Iframes.setReplyIframeToContainer
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = Dsq.Urls.REPLY;
		var params = {
			'def_email'		: disqus_def_email,
			'def_name'		: disqus_def_name
		};
		if(extra_params) {
			for(var key in extra_params) {
				if(extra_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					params[key] = extra_params[key];
				}
			}
		}
		if(_meta) {
			params['parent_post'] = post_id;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined') {
			params['per_page'] = disqus_per_page;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			attributes['class'] += '-authenticated';
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameEdit = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/edit.html';
		var params = {
			'p' : post_id
		};
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, {'class': 'dsq-post-edit', 'name': 'dsq-edit_' + post_id + '-frame'});
	};

	//
	// Menus
	//

	this.menuMore = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: "Remove post" button should hide menu.
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#comment-' + post_id + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.permalink(' + post_id + ')">Link</a></li> \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Profile</a></li>'
	+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator
		? '	<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>' + (_meta.email ? '<li class="dsq-admin-email">' + _meta.email + '</li>' : '')
		+ '	<li class="dsq-admin-ip">' + _meta.ip + '</li> \
			<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>'
		+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.moderator_can_edit
			? ' <li class="dsq-admin-edit"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit Comment</a></li>'
			: '')
		+ ' <li class="dsq-remove"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.removePost(' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Remove Comment</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-report-spam"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.reportSpam(' + post_id + '); return false;">Mark Spam</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-block-user"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.blacklist(' + post_id + '); return false">Block User</a></li>'
		: '');
	};

	this.menuMedia = function(post_id) {
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(this, ' + post_id + ', \'seesmic\'); return false;">Record video</a></li> \
		';
	};

	this.dropProfile = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};


		var menu = '<li class="dsq-drop-showlnk"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Expand &#8663;</a></li>';
		var pointsMessage = '';
		if (userData['registered']) {
			pointsMessage = 'with ' + userData['points'] + ' points (more points are better).';
		}

		if (userData['is_remote']) {
			var domain = userData['remote_domain_name'];
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' is a ' + domain + ' user ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
			menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-' + domain.toLowerCase() + '">' + domain + '</span></li>';
		} else if (userData['registered']) {
			if (userData['verified']) {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a verified commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span></li>';
			} else {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a registered, but unverified, commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span></li>';
			}
		} else {
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has not claimed this commenter profile." onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()"><span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span></li>';
		}

		menu += _includeServices();
		return menu;
	};

	//
	// Popups
	//

	this._popupGeneric = function(content) {
		return ' \
		<div class="dsq-popup-content"> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-top"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-body" class="clearfix"> \
				<div class="dsq-popup-body-padding"> \
					<div class="dsq-popup-header"> \
						<a class="dsq-close-link" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true); return false"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/modal-close.png" alt="" /></a>'
						+ content['header']
					+ '</div>'
					+ content['body']
					+ '<div class="powered-by"><a href="http://disqus.com/comments/">Powered by <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/disqus-logo.png" alt="Disqus Comments" style="margin-bottom:-5px" /></a></div> \
				</div> <!-- padding --> \
			</div> <!-- body --> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-bottom"></div> \
		</div> \
		';
	};

	this.popupProfile = function(user_key) {
		var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(user_key, null);
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var html = '';
			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == 0
					? '<h4>Connections</h4><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li> \
					<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" title="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" /> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>'
				+ (i+1 == userServices.length ? '</ul>' : '');
			}
			return html;
		};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<table> \
				<tr> \
					<td> \
						<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><img class="dsq-popup-profile-avatar" src="' + userData['avatar'] + '" alt="" /></a> \
					</td> \
					<td> \
						<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user"> \
							<h3>' + userData['display_name'] + '</h3> \
							<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats" id="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + user_key + '">Loading...</div> \
						</div> \
					</td> \
				</tr> \
			</table> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-state"> \
				This is a&nbsp;<span class="'
					+ (userData['registered']
						? (userData['verified']
							? ' dsq-badge-verified'
							: (userData['is_remote']
								? ' dsq-badge-' + userData['remote_domain_name'].toLowerCase()
								: ' dsq-badge-registered')
							)
							: ' dsq-badge-guest') + '">'
			+ (userData['registered']
				? (userData['verified']
					? 'Verified'
					: (userData['is_remote']
						 ? userData['remote_domain_name']
						 : 'Registered')
					)
				: 'Guest')
			+ '</span>&nbsp;commenter profile.'
			+ '&nbsp;<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><strong>View more comments </strong></a>'
			+ (!userData['points']
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice">If this is you, <a href="http://disqus.com/profile" target="_blank">claim it now</a> to manage your comments.</p>'
				: '')
			+ ((userData['registered'] && !userData['verified'] && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username == userData['username'])) && !userData['is_remote'])
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice"><strong>Alert</strong>: You have not verified this account. <a href="http://disqus.com/verify">Verify it now.</a></p>'
				: '')
			+ '</div> \
			<div id="dsq-profile-status-' + user_key + '" class="dsq-popup-profile-status" style="display:none"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-snapshot"> \
				<table> \
					<tr> \
						<td> \
							<div id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Most active sites</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
						<td>'
							+ _includeServices()
							+ '<div id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Moderator of</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
					</tr> \
				</table> \
			</div> \
			';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupReblog = function() {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<cite><span>Reblog this comment</span></cite> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div id="dsq-reblog-form" class="dsq-reblog-form"> \
			</div> \
		';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupModal = function(title, message) {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<h3>' + title + '</h3> \
		';

		bodyHtml = message;

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.alertContent = function(name, post_id) {
		var alert = {
			'post_not_approved': {
				'title': 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator',
				'message': 'Thanks for posting. Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.'
			},
			'post_has_profile': {
				'title': 'Use your existing commenter profile',
				'message': 'You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> commenter profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a>'
			}
		};
		return alert[name] || false;
	};

	//
	// Actions
	//

	this.voted = function(post_id, points, vote) {
		// Update number of points
		Dsq.$('dsq-points-' + post_id).innerHTML = points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.';

		// Update link text
		if(vote) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id).innerHTML = 'You liked this.';
		}
	};

	this.subscribed = function(status) {
		var title, message;

		if(status) {
			title = 'Subscribed!';
			message = 'You have subscribed to this comment thread. New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox, where you may read and respond by email.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(0); return false">Unsubscribe</a> \
			';
		} else {
			title = 'Unsubscribed';
			message = 'You have unsubscribed to this comment thread. New comments will no longer be sent to your email inbox.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a> \
			';
		}

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);

	};
	
	this.highlighted = function() {
		Dsq.Popup.popModal('This comment has been highlighted.', 'Highlighted comment');
	};

	//
	// Media
	//

	this.mediaSeesmic = function(id, thumb) {
		return ' \
			<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_preview" class="dsq-seesmic-preview"><a href="http://www.seesmic.com/video/' + id + '" target="_blank" class="see_link">&nbsp;</a> \
				<div style="display:block;width:160px; height:120px; border:none; background-image:url(http://t.seesmic.com/thumbnail/' + thumb + ')"> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_hide" class="seePlayOverlay" style="display:none;"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',false)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/stopOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_show" class="seePlayOverlay"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',true)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/playOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; border:none; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			<div id="' + id + '_content" style="display:block; width:100%; padding-top:5px"></div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Callbacks
	//

	this.postComment_onSuccess = function(parent_post_id) {
		// Increment post count
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');
		
		if (num_posts) { 
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) { 
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
	};
};
// Dsq.Templates


/**
 * Dsq.Post
 */
Dsq.Post = new function() {
	this.openedMenu = {};
	this.menuEventListener = null;
	this.stateReplyToggled = {};
	this.stateEditToggled = {};
	this.stateRecordLink = {};

	/**
	 * Inserts a new post into the document.
	 *
	 * @param after_id {Number}	Insert a post before specified id.  If after_id
	 *							evaluates to false, then post in the front.  If
	 *							after_id is -1, post at the end.
	 */
	this.insert = function(after_id, id, message, author) {
		// Skeleton template from thread_posts.html.
		var skeleton = ' \
			<li id="dsq-comment-%(id)s"> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-header-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-header"> \
					<cite id="dsq-cite-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-cite"> \
						<a id="dsq-author-user-%(id)s" href="%(author_url)s" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">%(author_name)s</a> \
					</cite> \
				</div> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-body-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-body"> \
					<div id="dsq-comment-message-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-message">%(message)s</div> \
				</div> \
			</li> \
		';
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var _user_meta = Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key];
		var markup = Dsq.Utils.interpolate(skeleton, {
			id: id,
			message: message,
			author_url: _user_meta.blog,
			author_name: _user_meta.display_name
		});
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		markup = markup.replace(Dsq.COMMENTS_RE, Dsq.CommentsHandler);
		div.innerHTML = markup;

		if (after_id === -1) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').appendChild(div);
		} else if (!after_id) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').insertBefore(div, Dsq.$('dsq-comments').firstChild);
		} else if (Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + after_id)) {
			// Get next node after "after_id", so we can insert before it.
			// If "after_id" is the last comment, the target node is the
			// last node.
			
			// var append_post_id = Dsq.Templates.appendPost(after_id).replace('<div id="','').replace('"></div>', '');
			var append_post_id = 'dsq-append-post-' + after_id;
			var node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			while (node = node.nextSibling) {
				if (!node || node.nodeType == 1) { // 1 == Node.ELEMENT_NODE
					break;
				}
			}
			if (!node) {
				node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			}
			node.parentNode.insertBefore(div, node);
		}
	};

	this.incrementPostCount = function() {
		
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');

		if (num_posts) {
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) {
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
	}
	
	this.outlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className += ' dsq-comment-outline';
		setTimeout("(function () { Dsq.Post.clearOutlineComment(" + post_id + ") })()", 3000);
	};
	
	this.clearOutlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className.replace('dsq-comment-outline', '');
	};

	this.showMenu = function(el, id, name) {
		var anchorPos = Dsq.Utils.findPos(el);
		var menu = document.createElement('ul');

		if(this.openedMenu) {
			if(this.openedMenu.linkClicked) {
				this.openedMenu.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		switch(name) {
			case 'more':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMore(id);
				break;
			case 'media':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMedia(id);
				break;
			default:
				break;
		}

		// Add menu to document body
		menu.id = 'dsq-menu-' + id;
		menu.className = 'dsq-menu';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(menu);

		// Position and show
		anchorPos[1] += 15;
		menu.style.left = anchorPos[0] + 'px';
		menu.style.top = anchorPos[1] + 'px';
		menu.style.display = 'block';

		// Set global reference
		this.openedMenu = {
			'el' : menu,
			'id' : id,
			'name' : name,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};

		// Set listener
		this.menuEventListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._hideMenu);
	};

	this._hideMenu = function(e) {
		var el = e.target || e.srcElement;
		var openedMenu = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el;
		var id = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.id;

		if(!id) {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link';
		} else {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link-' + id;
		}

		if(!openedMenu) {
			return;
		}

		if(!Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, openedMenu.id)) {
			openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
			Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Post.menuEventListener);
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(openedMenu);

		} else {
			// Hide the menu if a link was clicked inside the menu.  We can't
			// completely remove the menu until the onclick event on the link
			// fires, but the menuEventListener will prevent multiple menus
			// from polluting the DOM.
			if(el && typeof el.href != 'undefined') {
				openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el = null;
			}
		}

		if(Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Post.openedMenu.linkClicked = true;
		}
	};


	this.getUserServices = function(user_key, id) {
		if(!user_key && id) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
			user_key = _meta.user_key;
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var userServices = [];

		// Keep a full list of supported services. This is the order they will display in the drop-profile.
		// Each service must have a corresponding case in _buildServiceUrl()
		var supportedServices = ['blog', 'twitter', 'facebook', 'tumblr'];

		function _buildServiceUrl(serviceName) {
			var data = userData[serviceName];
			var services = {
				blog:		function(d) { return d; },
				twitter:	function(d) { return d; },
				facebook:	function(d) { return d; },
				tumblr:		function(d) { return 'http://' + d + '.tumblr.com'; }
			};
			return services[serviceName](data);
		}

		for(var i = 0; i < supportedServices.length; i++) {
			if(userData[supportedServices[i]]) {
				var serviceUrl = _buildServiceUrl(supportedServices[i]);
				userServices.push({'name' : supportedServices[i], 'url' : serviceUrl});
			}
		}
		return userServices;
	}

	this.dropProfile = function(id) {
		var dp = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-profile-' + id);

		// IE6 needs JS to display/hide. All other browsers use CSS.
		if(dp) {
			if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) dp.style.display = (dp.style.display == 'inline') ? 'none' : 'inline';
			return false;
		} else {
			dp = document.createElement('ul');
		}

		dp.id = 'dsq-drop-profile-' + id;
		dp.className = 'dsq-drop-profile';

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) { dp.style.display = 'inline'; }

		var container = Dsq.$('dsq-header-avatar-' + id);
		dp.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.dropProfile(id);
		container.appendChild(dp);
	};

	this.dropProfileMore = function(el, id) {
		var hiddenItems = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-hidden-' + id);

		hiddenItems.style.display = 'inline';
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
	};

	this._updateReplyLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "reply / cancel" links based on state.
		var displayDict = {};

		if(id) {
			if(this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				el.innerHTML = 'Cancel';
				displayDict['media'] = 'inline';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'none';
			} else {
				el.innerHTML = 'Reply';
				displayDict['media'] = 'none';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'inline';
			}
		}

		for(var key in displayDict) {
			if(displayDict.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var	linkEl = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-el-' + id),
					spacer = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-spacer-' + id);

				if(linkEl) {
					linkEl.style.display = displayDict[key];
					if(spacer) spacer.style.display = displayDict[key];
				}
			}
		}
	};

	this._updateMediaLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "use media / cancel" links based on state.
		var appendId = (id) ? ('-' + id) : '';
		var link = Dsq.$('dsq-media-link' + appendId);

		if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			link.innerHTML = 'Cancel Media';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(link, id); return false; };
		} else {
			link.innerHTML = 'Use Media <small>&#9660;</small>';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.showMenu(link, id, 'media'); return false; };
		}
	};

	this.toggleReply = function(el, id) {
		// Create reply IFrame
		if (window.disqus_use_postmessage) {
			if (!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				// Create IFrame if it doesn't exist.
				if (!Dsq.frames['reply_' + id]) {
					var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id] = new Dsq.ReplyFrame(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-frame-' + id), id);
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].init();
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].setState(id, _meta.depth);
				}
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
			}
		} else {
			// DEPRECATED
			if(!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				// Reply toolbar
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id), id);
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Iframes.hideAllInContainer(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id));
				if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
					// HACK: Cancel media before canceling self.
					this.toggleMediaReply(Dsq.$('dsq-media-link-' + id), id);
				}
			}
		}

		this.stateReplyToggled[id] = !this.stateReplyToggled[id];
		this._updateReplyLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-reply-' + id); }

		Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED, {
			postId: id,
			opened: this.stateReplyToggled[id]
		});
	};

	this.toggleMediaReply = function(el, id, xtype) {
		id = id || 0;
		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(!this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id, {xtype:xtype}, 'dsq-post-video');
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id);
		}
		this.stateRecordLink[id] = !this.stateRecordLink[id];
		this._updateMediaLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};

	this.edit = function(el, id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id).innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.frameEdit(id);
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-comment-message-' + id); }
	};

    this.rate = function(el, id, vote) {
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_votes) {
			if(vote == 1) {
                Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + id).innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
            }

            Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/vote.js'
                + '?post_id='    + id
                + '&vote='        + vote);

		} else {
			Dsq.Popup.login(Dsq.Strings.TO_RATE_PLEASE_LOG_IN);
		}
    };

	this.report = function(id, confirmed) {
		if(confirmed) {
			Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221/post_report/', {'post_id': id});
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Thank you. This comment has been flagged for moderator attention.', 'Successfully flagged');
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(Dsq.$('dsq-post-report-' + id));
		} else {
			var title = Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT;
			var message = Dsq.Strings.ARE_YOU_SURE_YOU_WOULD_LIKE_TO_REPORT_THIS_COMMENT_TO_A_MODERATOR + '? \
			<br /><br /> \
			<button onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true)"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.NO + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.NEVER_MIND + '</button>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<button onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + id + ', true);"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.YES + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT + '</button><br /><br />'
			+ Dsq.Strings.THIS_WILL_FLAG_COMMENTS_FOR_MODERATORS_TO_TAKE_ACTION + '. \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, id);
		}
	};



	this.showAlert = function(id, msg) {
		var msgEl = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id);
		var alert = '<div class="dsq-comment-alert">' + msg + '</div>';

		msgEl.innerHTML = alert + msgEl.innerHTML;
	};

};
// Dsq.Post


/**
 * Dsq.Thread
 */
Dsq.Thread = new function() {
	this.fc = null;
	this.ff = null;
	this.ac = null;

	
	this.adminIsOn = false;

	
	
	

	this.hlComment = null;
	this.hlCommentClass = null;

	this.getNextComment = function(el) {
		var start_id = el.id;
		while(el = el.nextSibling) {
			if(el.id && el.id.indexOf('dsq-comment-') != -1 && el.id != start_id) {
				return el;
			}
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.getActiveCommentId = function() {
		if (document.URL.indexOf('#comment-') >= 0) {
			var anchor = document.URL.slice(document.URL.indexOf('#') + 1);
			return anchor.replace('comment-', '');
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.highlightAnchor = function() {
		var i = this.getActiveCommentId();
		if (i == null) return false;
		var id = 'dsq-comment-' + i;
		var hash = window.location.hash;

		// Toggle the hash incase the comment isn't available when the page loads
		// for WebKit-based browsers.
		if (Dsq.Utils.webkit) {
			window.location.hash = '';
			window.location.hash = hash;
		}

		this.hlComment = Dsq.$(id);
		// Adding this conditional guard pending #289
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlCommentClass = this.hlComment.className;
		this.hlComment.className += ' dsq-hl-anchor';

		setTimeout("Dsq.Thread.highlightClear()", 3000);
	};

	this.highlightClear = function() {
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlComment.className = this.hlCommentClass;
	};

	this.login = function(toggle) {
		// toggle id is #dsq-reply-login-[id]
		var postId;
		if(toggle.id.indexOf('dsq-reply-login') != -1) {
			postId = toggle.id.slice(16);
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + postId);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(toggle) {
			if(toggle.className == 'dsq-login-active') {
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(container, postId);
				toggle.className = '';
			} else {
				Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
				toggle.className = 'dsq-login-active';
			}
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
		}

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};


	this.paginate = function(page, el_clicked, per_page) {
		// Use extra_params to pass any override parameters that we need to persist.
		var extra_params = '';

		// "Per page" can either be overriden by providing it as an argument
		// (per-call) or setting the disqus_per_page override variable (global).
		if(typeof per_page == 'undefined') {
			per_page = null;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined' && per_page === null) {
			per_page = disqus_per_page;
		}

		if(typeof disqus_sort != 'undefined') {
			extra_params += '&sort=' + disqus_sort;
		}
		if(per_page !== null) {
			extra_params += '&per_page=' + per_page;
		}

		Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML += '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
		
		if(el_clicked) {
			el_clicked.style.display = 'none';
		}
		
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ 'xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221'
			+ '&p='		+ page
			+ extra_params);
	};

	this.sortBy = function(sort) {
		var disqus_script = document.createElement('script');
		var disqus_date = new Date();

		if (location.hash != '') {
			location.hash = '#disqus_thread';
		}

		if(typeof(disqus_url) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_url = disqus_href;
		}
		disqus_script.type = 'text/javascript';
		disqus_script.src = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ 'xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221'
			+ '&sort='	+ sort
			+ '&title='
			+ '&'		+ disqus_date.getTime();

		Dsq.$('dsq-comments').innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif">';
		Dsq.container.appendChild(disqus_script);
	};

	this.subscribe = function(status, email) {
		// `status` is an int -- 1 to subscribe, 0 to unsubscribe
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || email) {
			// If authenticated user OR anonymous email provided

			if(email) {
				Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);
			}

			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/subscribe.js'
				+'?status=' 	+ status
				+ '&slug='		+ 'xilla_please_help_8220i_got_my_side_chick_pregnant8221'
				+ '&email=' 	+ encodeURIComponent(email));

		} else if(!email) {
			// If anonymous user and no email has been provided yet, prompt for email

			var title = 'Subscribe to this comment thread';
			var message = ' \
				New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox! \
				<div class="dsq-subscribe-submit"> \
					<p><strong>Enter your email address below.</strong></p> \
					<input type="text" id="dsq-subscribe-email"> \
					<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1, Dsq.$(\'dsq-subscribe-email\').value)">Subscribe</button> \
				</div> \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
		}
	};

	this.showSettings = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) {
			return;
		}

		/* The form has to be re-designed when more options will come out. */
		var html = 'Automatically close comments after <input size="3" id="dsq-thread-days-alive" value="' + Dsq.jsonData.thread.days_alive + '" type="text" /> days. Existing comments will still be displayed.<br /><br />(Using 0 days will disable this feature)<br /><br />'
								 + '<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.updateDaysAlive();" class="dsq-button-small"><span>Save</span></button>'
								 + '<span id="dsq-thread-settings-status" class="dsq-options-status"></span>';
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(html, 'Settings');
	};

	this.updateDaysAlive = function() {
		var days = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-days-alive').value;
		var status = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-settings-status');
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/update_days_alive.js', {days:days,thread:Dsq.jsonData.thread.id});
		status.innerHTML = 'Saved!';
		window.setTimeout(function() { status.innerHTML = ''; }, 1000);
	};
};
// Dsq.Thread

Dsq.Events = function() {
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var handlers = {};
	var getHandlers = function(event) {
		if (handlers[event] === undefined) {
			handlers[event] = [];
		}
		return handlers[event];
	};

	// Public
	// Value keys : postId, node, xtype
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED = 1;
	// Value keys : postId, opened
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED = 2;
	obj.fire = function(event, opt_value) {
		if (!event) {
			throw new Error('Unknown event');
		}
		var value = opt_value || {};
		for (var i=0; i<getHandlers(event).length; i++) {
			getHandlers(event)[i](value);
		}
	};
	obj.addHandler = function(event, callback) {
		getHandlers(event).push(callback);
	};

	return obj;
}();

/**
 * Dsq.Realtime
 */
Dsq.Realtime = new function() {
	var initialized = false;
	var interval = null;
	var last_checked = Dsq.jsonData.request.timestamp;
	var new_posts = [];
	var ongoing_request = false;
	var prev_script = null;

	function updateNewPostCount() {
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-alert').style.display = new_posts.length ? 'block' : 'none';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-queued').innerHTML = new_posts.length
		+ ' new '
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, 'comment', 'comments')
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, ' was', ' were')
		+ ' just posted.';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.SHOW + ')';
	}

	function insertNewPosts() {
		var post_id = null;
		var after_id = Dsq.$('dsq-sort-select').value === 'oldest' ? -1 : null;

		for (var i=0; i<new_posts.length; i++) {
			post_id = new_posts[i];
			Dsq.Post.insert(after_id, post_id, Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id].message);
			Dsq.Post.incrementPostCount();
			Dsq.Post.outlineComment(post_id);
		}
		new_posts = [];
	}

	this.enableInterval = function() {
		interval = setInterval(Dsq.Realtime.check, Dsq.jsonData.context.realtime_speed);
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.ENABLED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.PAUSE + ')';
	}

	this.disableInterval = function() {
		if (interval) {
			clearInterval(interval);
			interval = null;
		}
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.PAUSED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.RESUME + ')';
	}

	this.toggleInterval = function() {
		if (!interval) {
			Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
		} else {
			Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
		}
		return false;
	}

	this.initialize = function() {
		if (!initialized) {
			initialized = true;
			Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').onclick = this.toggleInterval;
			if (!Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').onclick = this.show;
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
			if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.realtime_paused) {
				Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
			} else {
				Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
			}
		}
	}

	this.show = function() {
		insertNewPosts();
		updateNewPostCount();
		return false;
	}

	this.check = function() {
		if (!ongoing_request && Dsq.jsonData.realtime_enabled) {
			if (prev_script) {
				prev_script.parentNode.removeChild(prev_script);
			}
			ongoing_request = true;
			prev_script = Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/12733419/realtime.js?timestamp=' + last_checked);
		}
	};

	this.update = function(timestamp, posts, users) {
		ongoing_request = false;
		last_checked = timestamp;

		if (users) {
			for (var user_id in users) {
				if (users.hasOwnProperty(user_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id] = users[user_id];
					}
				}
			}
		}

		if (posts) {
			for (var post_id in posts) {
				if (posts.hasOwnProperty(post_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] = posts[post_id];
						new_posts.push(post_id);
					}
				}
			}

			if (Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				insertNewPosts();
			} else {
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
		}
	};

}();

// DEPRECATED
Dsq.Iframes = function() {
	// Different style of object from the above. Hoping to switch to this for some reason.
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var showIframeInContainer = function(container, id, markup) {
		// Look through container for iframes, hiding them, except show one that matches id
		// If none of them matched id, create a new iframe using markup and insert it.
		// Returns the iframe node if and only if it was newly created.
		var found = false;
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				if (child.id == id) {
					child.style.display = 'block';
					found = true;
				} else {
					child.style.display = 'none';
				}
			}
		}
		if (found) {
			return;
		}
		// The iframe wasn't found, so construct it and add it to the container.
		// Don't use innerHTML because it might reload iframes
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		div.innerHTML = markup;
		var iframe = div.childNodes[0];
		div.removeChild(iframe);
		container.appendChild(iframe);
		return iframe;
	};

	// Public
	obj.makeReplyIframeId = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var id = 'dsq-post-add-iframe';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			id += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			id += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return id;
	};
	obj.makeLoginIframeId = function(opt_postId) {
		if (!opt_postId) {
			return 'dsq-login-iframe';
		}
		return 'dsq-login-iframe-' + opt_postId;
	};
	obj.makeReplyIframeName = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var name = 'dsq-reply-frame';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			name += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			name += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return name;
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId, opt_extraParams, opt_className) {
		// Construct the id so we can check if it's already present.
		// Hide any other iframes we find, and show this one if it's found.
		var params = opt_extraParams || {};
		// use xtype in the id and name so we can distinguish media replies from text replies:
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeId(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var name = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeName(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var attributes = {
			'id': id,
			'name': name,
			'class': opt_className || 'dsq-post-reply'
			};
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameReply(opt_postId, opt_extraParams, attributes);
		var iframe = showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
		// It was newly created
		if (iframe) {
			Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED, {
				postId: opt_postId,
				node: iframe,
				xtype: params.xtype
			});
		}
	};
	obj.showLoginIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId) {
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeLoginIframeId(opt_postId);
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: id});
		showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed = function(container, opt_postId) {
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			obj.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, opt_postId);
		} else {
			obj.hideAllInContainer(container);
		}
	};
	obj.hideAllInContainer = function(container) {
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				child.style.display = 'none';
			}
		}
	};

	return obj;
}();

Dsq.Twitter = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startTwitterConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._twitterWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/twitter/begin/', 'twitterWindow', popupParams);
		that._twitterInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeTwitterConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeTwitterConnect = function() {
		if (that._twitterWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._twitterInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Yahoo = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startYahooConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._yahooWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/yahoo/begin/', 'yahooWindow', popupParams);
		that._yahooInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeYahooConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeYahooConnect = function() {
		if (that._yahooWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._yahooInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.OpenID = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.requestURL = function() {
		var message = '<table class="dsq-openid-form"><tr><td style="vertical-align:top;" rowspan="2"><img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url + '/images/openid-icon-100x100.png" /></td>';
		message += '<td><label for="dsq-openid-url">OpenID URL:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-url" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td><label for="dsq-openid-username">Display name:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-username" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td class="dsq-openid-submit" colspan="3"><input type="button" value="Sign in" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.startConnect();" /></td></tr>';
		message += "</table>";

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, 'Sign in using OpenID');
	};

	this.startConnect = function() {
		var isblank = function(str) {
			return /^\s*$/.test(str);
		};

		var openid_url = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-url').value;
		var username = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-username').value;

		if (isblank(openid_url)) {
			return;
		}

		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=500';
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/openid/begin/' + '?url=' + encodeURIComponent(openid_url) + '&username=' + encodeURIComponent(username);
		that._openidWindow = window.open(url, 'openidWindow', popupParams);
		that._openidInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeConnect = function() {
		if (that._openidWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._openidInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Reaction = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.hide = function(id) {
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/hidereaction.js?' + 'reaction_id=' + id);
	};

	this.reportMissingReactions = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || !Dsq.jsonData.forum.reactions_enabled) {
			return;
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.queued) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Your report has been received. The system will automatically search for new reactions; if any are found, they will be displayed on this comment thread.<br/><br/>Thank&nbsp;you.',
												 'Reported missing reactions');
			return;
		}

		Dsq.Utils.execScript(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/forums/blogxilla/queueurl.js');
	};
};

Dsq.CNN = function() {
	var obj = {};

	obj.authenticate = function() {
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + "/saml/cnn/try/";
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl(url, {'target': document.location}, true);
	};

	return obj;
}();


if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
	(function() {
		DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE = /<div class="dsq-header-avatar"(.*?)>/gim;
		Dsq.Templates.registerFilter('postPrependHeader', function(html, post_id) {
			// Add "onmouseout" for dsq-header-avatar for dropProfile
			// functionality since IE6 cannot use :hover.
			function _headerAvatarReplace(content, inner, _unused, html) {
				return '<div class="dsq-header-avatar" '
					+ inner
					+ ' onmouseout="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')">';
			}
			html = html.replace(DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE, _headerAvatarReplace);
			return html;
		});
	})();
}









(function() {
	//
	// Load theme.  This overrides the base templates with template functions
	// from the respective themes.
	//
	if (Dsq.jsonData.integration.theme == 4) {
		var theme = 'narcissus';
		// HACK: Set variable on window to use post message.
		window.disqus_use_postmessage = true;

		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Themes[theme]) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Templates[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Post) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Post[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
	}

	//
	// Register templates.  This must be done after all themes are loaded.
	//
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('authPost', Dsq.Templates.authPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('header', Dsq.Templates.header);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('footer', Dsq.Templates.footer);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('trackbacks', Dsq.Templates.trackbacks);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('reactions', Dsq.Templates.reactions);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('prependPost', Dsq.Templates.prependPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('appendPost', Dsq.Templates.appendPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postPrependHeader', Dsq.Templates.postPrependHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postAppendHeader', Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('preBody', Dsq.Templates.preBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBody', Dsq.Templates.postBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postFooter', Dsq.Templates.postFooter);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('_popupGeneric', Dsq.Templates._popupGeneric);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('voted', Dsq.Templates.voted);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('popupProfile', Dsq.Templates.popupProfile);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBox', Dsq.Templates.postBox);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('pagination', Dsq.Templates.pagination);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postComment_onSuccess', Dsq.Templates.postComment_onSuccess);

})();

Dsq.container.className = "clearfix";
Dsq.container.innerHTML = ' \
<ul id="dsq-comments">\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-6711751">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6711751" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711751" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6711751">aks</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6711751" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711751" class="dsq-comment-message">He needs to tell his girlfriend that he cheated on her and has a baby on the way.  Since the side chick doesn\'t wanna be with him anymore, just LET IT GO!  Why don\'t you try being honest and unselfish and think about your baby and your girlfriend instead of your own selfish wants (I love both women and want to be with both).  It\'s simple.  Follow these steps homie:<br><br>1.  Tell your current girlfriend you cheated and got someone pregnant with a baby on the way.  If she stays, she stays.  If not, you can\'t blame her.  It\'s all your fault anyways.<br><br>2.  Preggo side chick doesn\'t want anything to do with you.  You already stated she doesn\'t want you anymore.  Stop trying to push the matter.  You can\'t make a woman be with you just because you knocked her up.  Take it as a lost.<br><br>3.  Think about your baby and plan for his/her future.  Stop thinking about what YOU want.  <br><br>It\'s that simple-- be a man and be honest.  Can I get a "DUH!!"?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711902" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6711902">Isis</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6711902" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711902" class="dsq-comment-message">DUH. . .lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6845611" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6845611">Sexy N Sassy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6845611" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6845611" class="dsq-comment-message">I like # 3 , cause him thinking about what he want is what got him in this situation from the get go</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6711828" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711828" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6711828">Isis</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711828" class="dsq-comment-message">I have to agree with Onewayweezy . . . .DAMN, DAMN, DAMN & DAMN AGAIN<br><br>Dude has definitely f\'ed himself<br><br>There\'s no light at the end of that tunnel. Most likely his main will leave him (cause I\'m pretty sure open relationships come with rules. . .u know, no raw, no babies. . .etc) His side chick welllllllllllllllll. . . ..I don\'t think he has hope of ever getting her back because he started out what they had with a lie. His best bet is to take care of his child and move on. And like Ness said be by yourself for a while dude</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6712003" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6712003" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6712003">mixedbreed</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6712003" class="dsq-comment-message">WOW...i was in the same situation....i was 18 when i lost my virginity...i got preggers that very same night...(and yes he purposely did it as well...2 keep me)...i was dating the dude and he was still with his baby mama but denying it...although we women know but we tend 2 act like we dont...which i did...any hoot...i ended up having the baby, 2 scared 2 tell my mother and him not wanting 2 pay 4 an abortion...when my daughter was about 3 mths old...i found out threw someone else that ole gurl was 5 mths prego with their second child....he denied it at first...but a wk later he admit that she was and that it was a mistake...it totally crushed me 2 find that out from someone else....now our gurls are 12 and 13...we broke up when she was 1...him making a baby on me was hard 2 swallow...n i did but only for a quick minute....my advice 2 him is this....he has 2 tell his gurl...although dat shit is gon hurt like hell 4 her....in the end...he still had the decency 2 be honest...i respect a man 4 his honesty...(.even tho i might wanna kill him at that moment)....and he need not push the issue trying 2 be with baby moms....just focus on whats most important...the child....if she wants 2 be with you...it will happen....as far as the main girlfriend...i feel bad 4 her...i really feel bad for all of them cuz i know how it feels.....its a ruff ride...but u live and u learn...and hopefully they  will all gain wisdom and strength from it...what i dont understand and yes.. here it comes....why do men and even women open that door in front of them before they close the door behind them?...that was a very selfish act....and why do men/women try trapping a person into being with them by the low down desperate pregnant move?...dats a playing yourself move...i aint trapping ME...got dammit!!.. as well as him......lol...dat just makes matters worse...cuz not only r u possibly not gonna b wit dat person but then ya stuck dealing with them 4 da child....and having more children being raised by single parent homes...thats what i came from and thats not what i wanted for my children but should i eat shit on a daily for it?...HELL NAH......i also learned and abide by the do unto others as you want done unto you theory...that keeps me being a genuine person...because i think before i do....i believe in consequences and karma like a muthaf***a...i wear that other persons shoes and always ask myself...how would i feel if it was me?....if more people thought like that...there would b alot more decent men and women running around but what do you do right??...keep on moving......peace....xoxo</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6712417" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6712417">Isis</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6712417" class="dsq-comment-message">Mixedbreed made a good point when will ppl learn a baby wont keep anyone with you. The only thing you do is create another single parent home.<br><br>I feel that is so low down to try and trap a woman because you weren\'t man enough to keep her on your own. . . .. SMH</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6712723" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6712723" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6712723">babydoll</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6712723" class="dsq-comment-message">ugh...I  don\'t wanna judge but UGH! Woman are not catching a break these days huh? Men are so selfish it is totally outrageous. I don\'t even have no advice for dude, because he made his bed now he gotta sleep in it, period. He want his cake and eat it to, he is every bad cliche out there lol. Once again, UGH!!!!! <br><br>This story just makes me mad, because you know what? This isn\'t some random ass story, this shit is redundant in the black communtiy, and this is how disease is spread, single parent homes are started and he is just adding to the fuckery because of selfishness Aye, his side chick really ain\'t getting a pass either. She is fucked up for actually agreeing to b his side chick with all that shit she supposedly has going for herself. Women gotta wake up too! What did she think was actually gonna come out of that? Karma for both of they asses, I have no sympathy for anyone in this situation but the unborn baby.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713510" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6713510">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713510" class="dsq-comment-message">Alright I was going to sit back and take my licks and soak up all the advice I could from the readers (especially the females)but when u start to attack the women involved I have to intervein. At no point did my BM agree to being a side chick I didnt tell her til we were very deep in. Emotions and all were in play when I told her, she stuck around because how deep what we had was (more then the physical . . . she had become my bestfriend). After I told her we were intimate only once and thats when the baby came into play.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6713604" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713604" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6713604" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713604" class="dsq-comment-message">But u still did some shady ish b/c u waited until feelings were deep for u to even tell her about ur main chick...ur supposed to disclose that info upfront bruh!<br><br>Yeah she stuck around, but she also fell back..and that\'s whn u got her prego on the last hook up... c\'mon now stop trying to make excuses</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6713953" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713953" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6713953">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6713953" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713953" class="dsq-comment-message">I wasn\'t making excuses for myself. Yeah what i did was selfish and I can admit to that. I was simply defending her cause she\'s not here to defend herself</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6724905" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6724905" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6724905" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6724905" class="dsq-comment-message">No one was talking bad about ole girl or should I say girls.....<br><br>Truth be told, your main chick is probably sliding off with the next dude anyway so don\'t be surprised when she tells u that she\'s been messing w/the next dude and was actually in the process of replacing you....<br><br>Ha</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6713884" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713884" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6713884">aks</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713884" class="dsq-comment-message">Hahaha.. If you\'re really the guy that wrote the letter:<br><br>I ALMOST FEEL SORRY FOR YOU.<br><br>Obviously, she didn\'t stick around after you told her she was a side chick (except for the "One more time" sex you had which produced a baby).   Your BM is a smart woman to stop the relationship.. <br><br>STOP THINKING ABOUT WHICH WOMAN YOU ARE GOING TO POKE AND THINK ABOUT OPENING UP A COLLEGE FUND FOR YOUR BABY.  Save up for them diapers.  Costco has good deals on diapers on bulk.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6713979" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713979" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6713979">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6713979" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713979" class="dsq-comment-message">My child will be well provided for, that is and never will be an issue</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6737655" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6737655" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6737655">MR.Entertainment</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6737655" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6737655" class="dsq-comment-message">You swung for the fence and hit out the park...Why did you just leave your main girl for this chick? She sounds like she made you feel like new man..</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6738374" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6738374" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6738374">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6738374" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6738374" class="dsq-comment-message">Once I told her about the other woman she left me, so I never got he chance to leave one for the other. But now everyone knows everything.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6714171" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6714171" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6714171">Lissa</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6714171" class="dsq-comment-message">So I would like to know how can you be so deeply in like with two ppl at the same time (because that was not love). And why play with someones life like that, that\'s a child, and how did you know she wouldn\'t terminate the pregnancy ??????????????????????????</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6710273" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6710273" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6710273">ihateu</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6710273" class="dsq-comment-message">sorry if i am meanie but u my friend got beat on ur game.and it seems that u r not looking for a way to tell ur  long time girlfriend that u have a baby on the way or 2 decide with which one of them u want to be..u just looking for a way to keep them both..just can\'t give up the playa status huh?and u seem a little bit psycho...and i thought women r complicated...<br><br>karma is a bitch<br><br>smh</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6710497" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6710497" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6710497" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6710497" class="dsq-comment-message">If he doesn\'t tell his long time girlfriend (and when she does find out) b/c she will...he\'s gonna go through hell! <br>Plus sidechick will def x him out her life & take him to court for child support....<br><br>Sh*t is gonna get ugly & like u said...karma is a bytch....<br><br>BUT HE NEEDS TO TELL HIS MAIN CHICK.!!!!! THT\'S THE MOST IMPORTANT THING B/C SHE NEEDS TO MAKE HER OWN DECISIONS BASED ON WHATS GOING ON. NOT ONLY DOES HE HAVE A BABY COMING BUT HE\'S HAVING UNPROTECTED SEX WITH SIDE CHICKS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! MAIN CHICK IS TRUSTING HIM W/ HER LIFE AS FAR AS HER HEALTH AND HE\'S OUT THERE DOING HIM.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6710740" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6710740" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6710740">ihateu</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6710740" class="dsq-comment-message">you are sooooo right...one can\'t play with ppl lives...he is clearly not man enough for neither of them,but he can try to be a real man by telling the truth<br>as far as for the child support and getting dumped by both of them is exactly what  he deserves..</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6711585" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711585" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6711585" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711585" class="dsq-comment-message">The best thing for him to do is tell his main chick in a semi public place....so she can\'t f*ck sh*t up in the house.....<br><br>Maybe outside someplace...maybe in the car....but make sure he removed all blunt objects out of the car b4 hand.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6711960" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711960" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6711960">Isis</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6711960" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711960" class="dsq-comment-message">Not only that be sure to pat her down and check her purse</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6718227" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6718227" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718227">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718227" class="dsq-comment-message">ness, ur a bloggee! u know what happens when bitches get madd in a car![ahem! rhi rhi rants and gets rowdy] i think he should take her to church and let it ride. :D</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6724957" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6724957" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6724957" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
	 </cite>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6724957" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6724957" class="dsq-comment-message">Tell her in church?!<br><br>Okay telling her in a public place would be better.....like outside where she can go off & then walk away and go home and not think about him ever again.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6724936" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6724936" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6724936" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6724936" class="dsq-comment-message">Hahaha exactly...but the again....us women can make a weapon out of anything....<br><br>At the end of the day...her fist will do just fine ;)</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6729053" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6729053" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6729053">ihateu</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6729053" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6729053" class="dsq-comment-message">yeah...i don t approve violence but if i was her i\'d whoop his ass</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6710380" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6710380" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6710380" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6710380" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6710380" class="dsq-comment-message">I think he should definitely tell his girlfriend that he has a baby on the way and that he has deep feelings for the other girl. At least he\'s being honest & it allows her to make a decision on whether she wants to stay with him or not (b/c it sounds like they have an open relationship)<br><br>As far as the side chick he got pregnant, I think it\'s a lost cause at trying to win her over b/c once a female is done with you then she\'s DONE...regardless of if she has your child or not. And not for nothing, u ain\'t sh*t for getting her pregnant on purpose...tht wa so damn grimmey b/c ur messing w/ ppls lives & emotions....(sorry but it\'s the truth)<br><br>At the end of the day, you\'re probably not gonna be with any of the two females (regardless of how much u love them) b/c the sidechick is already done with you and your main chick will most likely be done with you too...but at least u was honest w/her at the end of the day...<br><br>Why don\'t u just be single for a while b/c it sounds like you fall for ppl and then don\'t know how or when to "let go" and now 3 people are involved in your games which is the side chick (who tried to fall back from u after she found out the truth about ur situation) but ur spiteful ass got her pregnant on purpose...then u have ur main chick who was ur ride or die chick through all these yrs...and then u have a baby coming into this world who won\'t get to experience having a father in the household b/c daddy was "confused".<br><br>I am Ness and I approve this message!</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6711598" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711598" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6711598" href="http://alilpeachcobbler.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Why You Gotta Be Anonymous</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6711598" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711598" class="dsq-comment-message">Well, she basically took the words off my fingers!!!<br><br>Especially with pointing out how f*ckep up it was for you to selfishly manipulate a situation and get her pregnant on purpose without thinking how it would affect her life and her feelings...<br><br>If you want to have even a glimmer of hope to salvage the relationship with your main girl, you HAVE to tell her and the sooner the better. It\'s not like you\'re gonna be able to hide it! It\'s gonna eventually come out. But don\'t hold your breath. I\'m sorry bruh, but all the love in the world wouldn\'t keep me with a man who cheated and lied, claims he LOVES the other chick, and now has a child on the way with her. She\'ll always be reminded that you fucked up.<br><br>You are confused. I don\'t understand how some men and women can claim they live their main S.O. and then say the also love someone else. You don\'t love your girl if you\'re out there doing things you know are not in her best interests and would hurt her were she to find out. And you don\'t love your side chick if you couldn\'t even decide to let old girl go and put her first. You met the perfect woman for you but decided to keep her as a side chick?! GTFOH.<br><br>I mean, I hate for anybody to be in a situation like this. But I can\'t say I feel for you bruh. But good luck anyway, and SMARTEN UP!</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6713321" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713321" class="dsq-comment-message">I don\'t think he knows wht LOVE is.....he may deeply like the side chick and may care for the main chick but at the end, it was very selfish to purposely get someone pregnant....<br><br>How is he going to feel when is baby mama moves on with the next dude....?!?! B/c tht\'s what\'s gonna happen eventually...(believe me).</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718175">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718175" class="dsq-comment-message">Ness i been mia, but i still loves u shug! fa reals! dude is too confused and he\'s XTRAORDINARILY SLIMY GRIMY for gettin her preg on purpose. when my ex did that i bout wanted to pull his penis off. i was on bc, but the women in my fam are EXTRA fertile... ARG! <br><br>dude, you need to have some alone time. go sit in a corna and write, "i won\'t do da fool" 1000 times backwards in a composition book. stretch a condom over ur head while doing this[babydaddys dunce cap]</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6725015" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6725015" class="dsq-comment-message">:) I missed ya\' :)<br><br>Yeah...he needs to do exactly wht u said... :) Maybe even write all the bs he did to the main chick in a letter, give it to her and if she wants to talk about it then she\'ll call him. If not then she\'ll delete his number & move on w/ her life.<br><br>Damn....!!!! WTF is up w/ guys getting girls prego on purpose....my gawd!!!! Sickening....lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6729086">ihateu</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6729086" class="dsq-comment-message">girl stop giving him good ways out!!he deserves worse than that    <br>  :P:P</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6732660" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6732660" class="dsq-comment-message">Sorry....I was just trying to put \'myself\' in tht situation lol....</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711704" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6711704">BATS</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711704" class="dsq-comment-message">^ I approve this too. Good Post<br><br>He got what was coming for him. <br><br>1. Tell the main chick whats up. <br>2. Find Jesus and take care of your child. <br><br>the only relationship you\'ll have with your "side chick" now will deal with taking care of that child and that\'s how life goes.<br><br>Im glad somebody gave him the Niccas aint shy speech because he aint.<br><br>And he still aint shy for not tellin his girl yet. 4 MONTHS pregnant!!!! and she still don\'t know</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713435" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6713435" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713435" class="dsq-comment-message">I had to b/c tht\'s exactly wht it is...and if he\'s reading this and takes offense to it, then so what...he needs to stop being a "ain\'t sh*t nucca" and get his sh*t together.<br><br>And his friend a some ain\'t sh*t nuccas too for tell him to say f*ck it and leave the kid out there in the cold.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6711831">aks</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711831" class="dsq-comment-message">Ness, you\'re freaking awesome.  I posted my comment before reading this one.  I didn\'t even have to post mines because you literally pointed out all the things I said.    <br><br>Side note:  Doesn\'t this dude sound kinda selfish?  Come on, man!  "I love two different woman and want to be with them both."  "How can I win my side chick back after she told me she doesnt want me anymore?"</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713478" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6713478" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6713478" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713478" class="dsq-comment-message">Yeah he\'s real selfish....<br>And the crzy thing is that he did it probably knowing she wouldn\'t terminate the pregnancy due to religious beliefs which is even worse...smch...<br><br>I\'m too through with this situation b/c it\'s pissing me off.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6713948">aks</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713948" class="dsq-comment-message">Haha.. Didn\'t you and some guy disagree on whether guys got women pregnant on purpose to keep them in their lives?  And wasn\'t the guy saying how that usually doesn\'t happen or men wouldn\'t do that? LOOK AT THIS GUY!  I know hella dudes who try that trick.. trying to knock someone up just because he wants her in his life forever.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6724842" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6724842" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6724842" class="dsq-comment-message">@aks....yup sure did.....!<br>When was the last time you heard a female putting a hole in the condom & trying to pregnant on purpose?<br><br>This shyt right here is crzy b/c guys do far more worse things than females...but we always get the blame for our stuff.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6714126">Lissa</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6714126" class="dsq-comment-message">Damn Ness he pissing you off ain\'t he ?? . . .lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6724862" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6724862" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6724862" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6724862" class="dsq-comment-message">You know wht...I\'m not mad at him...<br>I\'m more so mad at the bitchassness of the situation....</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6743735" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6743735" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6743735">Lady Jei</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6743735" class="dsq-comment-message">BITCHASSNESS at its best!!!!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6711301" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6711301" href="http://studiodiem.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">onewayweezy</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6711301" class="dsq-comment-message">first, let me say DAMN. Secondly, let me say DAMN!!!<br><br>But on a serious note. He needs to make a decision about who he wants to move forward with before he does anything. The very next thing he should do is come clean with his girl, explain EVERYTHING. He\'s in a lose-lose with her so he might as well just tell it all, at least she\'ll be able to respect his honesty.<br><br>As far as the side chick that\'s prego, I don\'t think he should worry so much about winning her over. I think he should focusing on taking care of his child, she\'ll notice that if she doesn\'t see anything else.<br><br>But yea, he\'s if f***ed up space lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6713520" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6713520" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713520" class="dsq-comment-message">Make a decison on who he wants to move forward with????????!!!!!!! <br>Onewayweezy r u serious???!!!!<br><br>The only thing he\'s gonna move forward with his his damn self and stacking money for that child.....he\'s not gonne b with either one of them.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6713499">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6713499" class="dsq-comment-message">Alright I was going to sit back and take my licks and soak up all the advice I could from the readers (especially the females)but when u start to attack the women involved I have to intervein. At no point did my BM agree to being a side chick I didnt tell her til we were very deep in. Emotions and all were in play when I told her, she stuck around because how deep what we had was (more then the physical . . . she had become my bestfriend). After I told her we were intimate only once and thats when the baby came into play.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6725970" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6725970" href="http://studiodiem.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">onewayweezy</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6725970" class="dsq-comment-message">i meant for his mental, for his personal comfort. so hes not so "confused". I never said anything about them taking him back but you gotta know hes gonna try to pursue one of them no matter what.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6714749">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6714749" class="dsq-comment-message">@ TheWiz, I understand your desire to defend her BUT unless I misread or misunderstood she did choose to continue being your side chick after you told her about your relationship - although she may have pulled back some from what you wrote she didn\'t flat out end it.<br><br>And unless you did some extra extra shady shyt she most likely knew you weren\'t wearing a condom during your last encounter, so yeah, sorry to break it to you but she is, I won\'t say "as guilty" as you, but she is in no way shape or form blameless in this situation....</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6716342" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6716342">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6716342" class="dsq-comment-message">We hung out three maybe four time once alone, the other times in a group setting after she found out.<br><br>I took the condom off</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6717371">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6717371" class="dsq-comment-message">OK. Its A-Muthafucking-Ficial<br><br>Your not even a piece of shit. You are a crumb. She\'s a crumb just the same, if she fucked you one last time knowing you had other pussy u getting it in with.  I felt a little bit bad (not bad for you, but about the situation) until you said the key words<br><br>"I took the condom off"<br><br>U sound like a real bitch right now. Who the fuck are you to just be yankin latex off your dick to trap somebody? Did she even know you took it off?<br><br>Obviously, if she wanted to keep gettin Raw Dick, she woulda stuck around. <br>And by the way, nothing about this story was confusing or complicated, Your just a dumbass and your OWN soap opera gets your head a little cloudy. <br><br>You got exactly what you deserve-----A CHILD SUPPORT HEARING! <br><br>Better be lucky it was a baby and not Herpes you dirty mutha fucka. Fuck givin you a break. Ima give it to you like you gave it to us. <br><br>And dont try to take up for Baby Momma. She\'s a dumb bitch for letting you hit one last time. There aint NEVER been dick so good that I\'d just forget Im a side bitch. She musta not been that perfect for you, you didnt try to wife her up. She\'s a stupid crumb too....and even dumber for havin your seed.<br><br>I dont normally believe in abortion, but i woulda killed that little bastard. (harsh?)<br><br>Good luck with them Monthly payments dude!!!!!<br><br><br>~Signed<br>The perfect girl for HIM.....the one he wifed up and sowed legitimate seeds!<br>Dominique</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718673">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718673" class="dsq-comment-message">@ I dont normally believe in abortion, but i woulda killed that little bastard. (harsh?) <br><br>Yup!!! <br><br>But f*ck it, harsh is what some people need and I\'m 100% with you on the abortion, don\'t believe in it for myself but just for the simple fact that it was a trap woulda made me get rid of it...<br><br>This was the epitome of bitchassness...hopefuly he\'s matured and won\'t use his kid in negative ways just to try to hang on to its mother</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6845784">Sexy N Sassy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6845784" class="dsq-comment-message">you know he will, you can tell just by the way he sound in his story</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6800892">Ant_from_Chi</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6800892" class="dsq-comment-message">@ DomiMami<br>Finally someone with some sound advice for this stupid motherfucker.  He\'s a good example of Niggas being the new Bitch.  Ridiculous is not even a strong enough sentiment.  Way to get his ass Dominique</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718109">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718109" class="dsq-comment-message">are you stupid fa real or just playin crazy?!? let me kno shug! fa REALZ! AIDS is a mafacka! you best be lucky ur penis ain\' fall off lol you need to tell ya main, and you need to accept whatever your woman decides. steve harvey made it plain on oprah today. men can only do what women let you. you have NO CONTROL over anything but ur penis and you relinquished that when you pulled the condom off ok? DEAL WIT IT and don\'t do the fool next time. its not the end of the world. babies happen. DISEASES happen. you got lucky denna mafacka joe!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6783100">babydoll</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6783100" class="dsq-comment-message">umm, that was the point I was trying to make. Your BM didn\'t end it, so she continued to have sex with you, even if it was once or 50 times she still chose to f*ck. Sooooo, like I said before, she was willing to be the side chick, even if it was temporarily.  And if these woman are going hard on you and your BM is because we are so sick of hearing these trifling ass stories, like I said before this fuckery that you did is redundant and tired. I\'m not trying to go hard on your BM either, but if you want to put your business out on the streets everyone gonna feel it. So no one is truly innocent here except the baby....sorry. God Bless though!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6714851">yes</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6714851" class="dsq-comment-message">he just need to break up with the main chick if u can even call her that, seems he only loves her out of familiarity anyway, but he sho went ON and ON about side chick<br><br>that was real triflin how he knocked her up though but she went with it and didnt take no plan b or anything, thats probably why she\'s not answering the phone, she mad as hell she let u set her up<br><br>he also need to stop relying and worryin so much about what other ppl think about his chick(s), u are the only one that lives ur life and has to deal with the decisions you make, aint nann one ur friends bout to be payin them child support checks cuz ol girl aint takin ya back!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6715691">bfount</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6715691" class="dsq-comment-message">Not that long ago, I was the main chick, while the father of my daughters got side chick preggo. I was beyond pissed, however I stayed around, because I wanted my family to stay together. And he talked a good game. However, after his son was born, shit didn\'t change, and I found myself (stupidly) competing with BM2. At some point, I finally found the strength to leave. He moved in with BM2 and was miserable out of his mind. All the shit he said about her being better than me went straight out the window, because he found out her TRUE nature. Now he is still trying to find his way "back home". <br>The moral of this story is, the grass always looks greener on the other side. If side-piece wants to take you back, that\'s all well and good, but who\'s to say that it will be worth it? Maybe you\'ll discover that she is not all you cracked her up to be, while you did your main chick super dirty. I won\'t bash you (although you deserve it), but there are enough people on here who have said all the words I would use to describe your actions. SELFISH AS HELL!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6715843">ias</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6715843" class="dsq-comment-message">sticky situation..</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6717950">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6717950" class="dsq-comment-message">this some wessidian bullish! he exemplifies y i rarely date black men. MY GOODNESS! anywho he HAS to tell his girl. a child will be a grownup one day so its like not something that you can just ignore. people step into these babymama/daddy situations SOOOOOOOOOOOOOO EASILY.... i got knocked up by an NFL player. ON PURPOSE, and still went to the chop shop because i was mature enough to see past my vagina and the big payoff. seriously he needs to just GET OVER IT! stop bein a bitch. take care of his child, and if his main keeps him try to work things out with her.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718850">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718850" class="dsq-comment-message">Maturity has spoken. <br>Speak the truth, Damn that check each month for a nice sum with a couple zeros. <br>LOL<br>Nah for real mami, you did the right thing....ok lemme rephrase<br>you got it right the second time with not trappin ole boy.<br>I know he happier than a pig in shit.<br>But this man....THIS DUDE RIGHT HEAH<br>is an idiot. I just re-read his plea to zilla and the tone is ignorant.<br>He is happy as hell he is in this situation and get to tell the whole BLorld about it.<br>Mickey Fickey shame</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6719376" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6719376">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6719376" class="dsq-comment-message">believe it or not Domi he\'s sad. and wished i woulda had the baby. he got me preg on purpose. peep this. i was on bc, he wore a condom and poked a few holes in it and i STILL got preg....u know how when u hear o\' hos pokin holes in condoms and it seems unfathomable. nah son! IT WORKS! i was so pissed i couldn\'t think str8....i rushed to the chop shop. his mom tried to talk to me about changin my mind, i was jumpin up and down wantin it to fall out. now i wish i woulda kept it. i\'m laid off and could use that child support check! j/p nah fa real doe he\'s a steeler! sheeeeeeeeeeeeit!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6733205">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6733205" class="dsq-comment-message">LMFOA@  was jumpin up and down wantin it to fall out. <br>You wild for that one</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6718013" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718013">Toronto</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718013" class="dsq-comment-message">I don\'t think that you have all that many options. There isnt even really a path of least resistance. Your decisions have forever changed the lives of everyone involved. what i think you should do is:<br><br>1. put your child first before everyone and <br>2. think about which woman is best suited for you to be with long term. which of the woman can you most reasonably see yourself building a life with. you need to chose ONE lady and COMMIT to her. <br><br>there is a very good chance that you\'ll end up empty handed, but you\'ve already seen what happens when you try to have your cake and eat it too. the only way that this situation is going to get better is if you start telling the TRUTH to everyone. there is no easy way around it. no cop outs<br><br>its life situations like these that separate the boys from the men. and its your turn to man up and make a decision and stick with its consequences</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6718321" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6718321" href="http://www.myspace.com/missvhe2u" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Vhision</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718321" class="dsq-comment-message">This is all so fucking foul. The same thing happened to me and I am realizing this is the trend. I don\'t and never will understand the reasoning - the logical meaning - to "getting someone pregnant". I thought shallow ass women did this to keep stupid men and now it is the other way around - AND TO NO BENEFIT OF EITHER PARTY! So you father a child out of spite, you ruin two relationships and you wind up paying for a child\'s welfare your entire life - to retain some vajayjay? some guilty side vajayjay? I don\'t want to give anyone advice and I don\'t want to bash. I just want to warn bitches - don\'t fall for this shit! Women play an equal role in "getting" pregnant - so don\'t allow it to happen. Men always want their cake and another cake and a cupcake and want to eat all three. That shit should not fly - whatsoever. You can\'t maintain relationships of any quality  with this philosophy -  it\'s all an illusion. For the fool that did it to me - he wasted my time while dipping out with a chick who already had a baby under shitty circumstances. But he felt it was so-called "time to take the condom off" with her and "got" her pregnant. So now you see them out - with her looking like shit and dragging two different color babies. It took him over a year to tell me that child even existed. But I knew something was always off. I am happy I chose to keep the condom on and move on with my life. That nigga lost his entire life over some ass. At the end of the day - that was all it was. And now she\'s a hot mess and I\'m the most jilted woman ever. This shit right here must stop. Men should be ashamed of themselves being bitch asses - layin up with several women and planting seeds all over the place. Just like fucking dogs pissing territory. You can\'t shit where you eat! Save your sperm for someone you really love. If you\'re unsure about someone - let them know up front so you can be true to yourself and find ONE woman. A real man doesn\'t sell himself short by seeing women that don\'t fulfill his needs and dipping out to someone who is sub-par then winding up in these trifling situations! I don\'t care if this one happened to say he wanted to be with her and he likes her more than main girl - she MUST be sub-par to be "side chick" and have "gotten" pregnant! SMH</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6718933" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6718933">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718933" class="dsq-comment-message">"Save your sperm for someone you really love."<br><br>The light has never been brighter. Go\'on Girl. <br>If you notice, I didnt cut the wack chick no slack either. It takes two. Musta been a helluva nut.<br><br>Still SMH, LMBAO @"She’s xx and I’m 2x"<br>Fool, this was posted anonymous, and you responded and we STILL dont know you. Yet you wont tell your age. <br><br>Ladies....He gotta be what 21, 22?<br>That sounds about right<br>and lets see....OLE Girl ...Does XX=15 years old? I gotta ask because these ig\'nant momofuuckas like em young so they can TRAIN EM AND TAINT EM.<br>Damn Shame.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6718956" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6718956" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6718956" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6718956" class="dsq-comment-message">Nah they both of legal age... and he\'s not a younging... i just edited it out to protect him a little bit but you killed him 34 times... lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6723459" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6723459">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6723459" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6723459" class="dsq-comment-message">So he aint even young? All the more reason for me to rip him cuz he should flippin know better. So what information did you bless him with with you emailed him back. Any advise for the BM or the little nigglett she\'s carrying? LOL</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6743852" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6743852" href="http://piscesinpurple.tumblr.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Maria (@ImAVeronica) </a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6743852" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6743852" class="dsq-comment-message">Hey, are you going to post your advice to him? I\'m curious and I bet we all are.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6747543" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6747543" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6747543" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6747543" class="dsq-comment-message">Umm I just gave him some good solid advice without judging him... But he needs to come clean. Point blank period and if he wants his BM he needs to cut the wife loose all together, and try to get his BM back... He might not be able to do it and he might end up losing them both but the only way to get one of them is to break it off with the other one and THEN try to get the one he wants.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6788270" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6788270" href="http://piscesinpurple.tumblr.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Maria (@ImAVeronica) </a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6788270" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6788270" class="dsq-comment-message">Excellent advice. So much in that letter to get vexed about, but the man *did* ask a question.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6846015" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6846015" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6846015">Sexy N Sassy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6846015" class="dsq-comment-message">Yup,Thats what they do girl. They like them young and dump so they can take advantage of them. Plus its cheaper to keep her. They know a real mature woman is not having that shit.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6719024" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6719024">Jamel</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6719024" class="dsq-comment-message">If your a man you\'ll tell the truth. Don\'t tell your GF that, "You love her", or "It was a mistake". You\'ll just be lieing to her once again. This woman you chose to lay with is the one you truly care for. You girl might cry and ask you why, and its up to you to tell her whats real or just some BS so she wont put you on a missing persons post card. I can understand what you did, not saying I accept it because you\'ve managed to ruin your support system that you once had.  I\'m a side dude myself and I\'m some what OK with that, and almost 20 years old. I thought about getting her pregnant and even though were young I\'m in a position to were I could give them the life that they could want, but that wont make a woman do what you want. She can and always will think for herself.   You put yourself before her, and your GF.  If you love the mother of your child then give her what she wants. You wont fall out of love with her over night, and you probably never will, but you have to grant her wishes.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6719296" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6719296" href="http://www.musicallyyummy.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">M.Y.</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6719296" class="dsq-comment-message">I gurantee that she\'s going to have a girl, I just know it. <br>*<br>He needs to be up front and honest and tell his girl, better to deal with the consequences now than to drag it out and she finds out and things become worst. Not to judge, but I have to say that it is quite troubling for someone to say that they impregnated a woman to keep her, he clearly has control issues. He has put himself in a very compromising position where he is going to hurt someone and hopefully he will learn from this situation and make it a priority to not repeat his actions. I feel for all parties in this situation.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6723898">Nixx_01</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6723898" class="dsq-comment-message">I really can\'t add anything new. Dude selfish asshole that has totally changed path of life for two women. Be honest! It is not up to you to determine who you should be with. Let them make the choice and accept and respect their decision. And you know what it probably wouldn\'t hurt for you to go sit your ass in a corner for a minute and thing about what you have done and what everyone has said to you here. Grow the fuck up and stop fucking up other people\'s lives!  Signed A woman tired of dishonest boys tricking thinking that is how a man acts!!!  We all black white whatever we need to come together and start raising children in healthy stable families this behavior is not acceptable!!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6725246" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6725246">anonymously</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6725246" class="dsq-comment-message">1.Go get check for any STD\'s because you aint the only male she was fooling round with..belive that <br>Take care of yours and dont tell the main chick make a lie up <br>2. Dont fell bad about it, females do this everyday ..there just more smart about who when,and where they trap<br>3. Are you a momma boy  or raised in a single parent home ? just a question</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6725979" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6725979">j</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6725979" class="dsq-comment-message">wow... first of all Don\'t  let history and past love be your motivation to stay with anyone. second you cannot have your cake and eat it to. You caould be in love with both of them but maybe your excitment from the younger girl comes from the excitment she gives you. she young and has alot of energy and probly is down for whatever. but at ther end of the day I think you really know where your love and happiness is at and the choice is on you.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6731201" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6731201">Toronto</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6731201" class="dsq-comment-message">What i dont understand is how ppl are saying that the side girl got trapped. your telling me that you can get involuntarily pregnant outside of rape?<br><br>if your having sex with a man that you know is in a relationship, he takes off the condom and you know that your not on any type of birth control what the hell are you thinking???<br>the ONE thing a woman has control over is her uterus. if your having sex with a man and he discards the condom the first thing you do is come back to earth from your ecstasy and ask some questions. unprotected sex with man that you are knowingly not in an exclusive relationship with means DISEASE AND KIDS. so i have nooooo sympathy for her at all</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6732515" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-6732515" href="http://www.crystalmonique.me" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">crystal</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6732515" class="dsq-comment-message">Toronto,  I agree. I was JUST about to post the same thing. Everyone keeps saying he\'s wrong for purposely getting her pregnant but she made a choice too when she allowed him to not use one. Unless it\'s rape, getting pregnant is almost always 50/50.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6733337" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6733337">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6733337" class="dsq-comment-message">Well we cant say this yet for sure because he is too chicken to reply. Remember he said (And i quote)<br><br>"We hung out three maybe four time once alone, the other times in a group setting after she found out.......................I took the condom off"<br><br>I inquired if Baby Momma knew about him taking his condom off and I think I scared him away. He never responded to my vicious attack {clutch my pearls}<br><br>OR,  maybe when he logged off, he went\'on ahead and gave his Mainery the lowdown on the baby momma...........AND HIS MAIN CHICK KILLED HIM (lol)<br><br>~~~~~~~~~Where is he buried Xilla?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6737228" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6737228">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6737228" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6737228" class="dsq-comment-message">I believe his "I took the condom off" reply was a vague confirmation of my question to whether he did some "extra extra shady shyt" to get her pregnant<br><br>Unfortunately a guy can take a condom off without you knowing/seeing him do it, it happened to me once but I can FEEL the difference and dude almost got his dick torn off for that dumb shyt...but I digress<br><br>Depending on a woman\'s experience she may not be able to tell, if that was the case and she didn\'t know he removed it then yes she absolutely was trapped into "the pregnancy" and its probably why she has chosen to have no dealings with him.<br><br>Again if that\'s the case she gets a pass on the unplanned pregnancy but still an EPIC FAIL for flagrant side-chickery!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6738302" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6738302">TheWiz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6738302" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6738302" class="dsq-comment-message">No Mrs. DomiMami she did not know</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6739127">Isis</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6739127" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6739127" class="dsq-comment-message">Dude stop. . .do not pass go, do not collect $200<br>You are not making your case any better</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6739344" class="dsq-comment-header">\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6739344">DomiMami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6739344" class="dsq-comment-message">I got to give it to you for still being respectful to us for talkin shit though. Kudos for that....but you still in a hot diggity damn dirty dingy MESS. <br><br>You tell wifey yet. Do you even want her as wifey? Just a question since you bigged up BM, but merely discribed your girl as someone you\'re still with because yall been together so long. Is she anything more than that? Or is it that you\'re just fighting to keep normalcy? <br><br>If she is in fact just a chick you\'re holding on to then I dont see any reason to tell her. Just break up. <br><br>Also, did you two (your main lady) have any discussion as to when you are allowed out in the streets, what you are actually allowed to do. She ok with you doing you\'re street thang, but is she cool with you catching feelings the way you have or hittin pussy raw.<br><br>Think about whats fair to your girl. She may not want to be with you after, but you should have enough love for her (as you professed earlier) to make that HER decision....That is, IF  you even want to be with her after carefully considering your options (or lack there of).</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6740804">Chi</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6740804" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6740804" class="dsq-comment-message">If you really love/care for your main chick you need to have enough respect for her and tell her the truth. She deserves that much. It would hurt her more to find this out from someone else. You had enough respect for the side chick to tell her about your girl, now you need to do the same for her. I agree it sounds like you are only with your main chick because you\'ve been together for so long. It sounds like you care for the other girl a lot more. If you are trying to get back together with the side chick you need to end it with other girl first and show her that you are trying to be there for her and your child and then maybe she can trust you again.</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6739498">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6739498" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6739498" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6739498">HeadMistress</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6739498" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6739498" class="dsq-comment-message">Absolutely Appalling!!<br><br>So in addition to deciding that you were gonna hold her body and her life hostage to your selfishness you also set into motion a situation where you put two women\'s life at risk as well as your unborn child - when you\'re dividing your attention between two women what you\'re giving can\'t possibly be fulfilling to either, so that begs the question(s) <br><br>What was your main chick doing while you were spending all this time with your side chick? <br><br>What if she got lonely and decided to cheat too? What if her n*gga on the side decided to take his condom off? And who else was he f*ckin besides your Main?<br><br>What was your side chick doing while you were with your main chick? <br><br>What if she was f*ckin another n*gga besides you? What if he decided to take his condom off?  And who else was he f*ckin besides your Side?</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6740159">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6740159" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6740159" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6740159">DomiMami</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6740159" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6740159" class="dsq-comment-message">Flippin great questions. And heres another...<br>Is the baby even yours? You may wanna wait til the little bastard nigglett (I keed) is born and get tha <br>D to the N to the A test done. <br>You said it yourself that "My child will be well provided for, that is and never will be an issue" Maybe you are her mealticket!?</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6747439">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6747439" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6747439" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6747439">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6747439" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6747439" class="dsq-comment-message">weeeelll[in that good ol\' souvern chuch voice" cleary ur side pice isn\'t of high moral standards. u think she DIDN\'T tip a on u. HA! b 4 real....</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6846192">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6846192" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6846192" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6846192">Sexy N Sassy</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6846192" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6846192" class="dsq-comment-message">Great minds think alike, see people fail to look at the whole picture. Thats how STD\'s get spreaded and AIDS and they dont even know where they got it from. People are just real non chalant when it comes to their sexual health</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6743661">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6743661" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6743661" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6743661">Lady Jei</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6743661" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6743661" class="dsq-comment-message">BITCHASSNESS at its fnest!!!</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6745747">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6745747" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6745747" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6745747">$$$</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6745747" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6745747" class="dsq-comment-message">yo, I\'ve read all of the comments & everyone is making valid points however, I don\'t fault this man one bit. here\'s why, it seems like in this day & age (i\'m 23) - my generation of "rugrats" (what my moms calls us) likes to settle for less.  this young lady sounded intelligent, has her shit together but set her standards too low. once you told her you had somebody else "pre-occupying" your time as well - she should\'ve cut the check & left your ass there, but she didn\'t yet everyone is pointing the finger at HIM . wrong . I\'m angry with her because she allowed herself to settle for less. when will these "test-tube" babies realize that being somebodies "BABY MAMA" just isn\'t cute at all =/</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6747152">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6747152" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6747152" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6747152">Isis</span>\
	 </cite>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6747152" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6747152" class="dsq-comment-message">Ok. . SO what you are saying is this man is in no way at fault for playing with two lives (and in the midst selfishly creating one), playing with real ppl with real emotions, lying & being an all around ass. Being labeled a "rugrat" does not give you an excuse to be ignorant. I am of your generation (I\'m 24)but I do not use it as an excuse. I know right from wrong just as he should, I know the difference of getting what I deserve verses settling. So lets not blame it on the generation but on personal preference. <br><br>Shouldn\'t he have been upfront about what was preoccupying his time instead of lying ???<br><br>and if you want to break it down further. . . .What about the main chick who agreed to allowing him to play in the streets ???<br><br>How about being angry with the whole situation and the person who\'s hiding the most.<br><br>Growing up in an ignorant generation does not give you cause to be ignorant. (Something my mom says)</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6747481">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6747481" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6747481" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6747481">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6747481" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6747481" class="dsq-comment-message">YES! seriously! i refuses to be a baby mama.... since the liklihood of me having kids with a loving black man are slim to none i\'ve decided to become a foster mom... if i get THAT dayum curious about how my kid will look, i\'ll run to the sperminator. seriously... i\'m disgusted by how ridiculously low our standards are nowadays.... we were once a people that believed in family and togetherness. now its like niggas have babies for fun and sistas will just settle for anything.....</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6775140">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6775140" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6775140" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6775140">Lady Jei</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6775140" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6775140" class="dsq-comment-message">This is where you being 23 comes into play. First of all he did mention she pulled back when he told her. However, he continued to come around, and thus began to treat the side chick like the main chick. And IMO, can\'t NO man be taken that doesn\'t want to be took. So her fault was what now. Going on vacation (because I know he paid, just out of mere guilt), shopping and spending up his money. Was it her issue that he continued to keep coming around? <br><br>Then you mention settling. Is this settling for someone else\'s man? Because aside from this dumb ass thing he did, does not mean he is any less of a man. Clearly he stated he will take care of the child. Which on the surface, says he can provide, thus having a good job. There is nothing here regarding the capabilities of him taking care of either young lady and the baby he has coming. Going on vacations, dinners, and taking care of two women is NOT cheap. So he has some ends. <br><br>But again, you being 23, the issue isn\'t with her standards. She thought she had a stand-up guy in the beginning. They travelled outside the states, etc. Sounds like he was doing everything right.</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6752153">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6752153" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6752153" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6752153">bitchiemood</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6752153" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6752153" class="dsq-comment-message">WOW SO BABIES  ARE THE NEW HANDCUFFS?!!</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6789526">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6789526" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6789526" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6789526">babydoll</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6789526" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6789526" class="dsq-comment-message">YEP! People are really f*cking up with this one.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-6774322">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6774322" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6774322" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6774322">Advice from a chick...</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6774322" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6774322" class="dsq-comment-message">I think you need to do what\'s right. Tell the truth and make a commitment for the sake of your child. Separate from your main girlfriend and try to patch up the relationship with the chick on the side. Though you and your main girl have years of history, you are not married to her. You guys have no true ties or claims on each other outside of sex and um.......... history.  As much as I hate to say it, the bond between you and your chick on the side is more important because you have a child. Plus you love her don\'t you? I say  try to make it work with the chick on the side. I believe that child DESERVES to grow up in a home with two loving devoted parents, who not only love the child but love and are COMMITTED to each other. If things don\'t work out with the chick on the side, remember you are a father first and foremost and your child\'s well being comes first..........NO MATTER WHAT.</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6797198">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6797198" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6797198" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6797198">Ant_from_Chi</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6797198" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6797198" class="dsq-comment-message">Nigga please.  You need to get a real firm grip on your bullshit before it spins even further out of control than it seems to already have.  Sorry for being so blunt, but again,  Nigga please!!!</div>\
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	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-6805599">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6805599" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6805599" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6805599">chanel</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6805599" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6805599" class="dsq-comment-message">first off you are straight up buggin. i think its a little too late to make a choice on who you want. you need to take care of your child and thank god you only walked a away with a second chance to be a real man and not aids.... are you serious???. your girlfriend shouldnt want to be with you no more and clearly your heart isnt with her or you wouldnt have been able to fall in love with a side piece. I suggest you start with a new lady and try to be truthful this time becuase you done burned both of those ladies enough.</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6808812">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6808812" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6808812" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6808812">TRJ</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6808812" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6808812" class="dsq-comment-message">that\'s a messed up way of letting somebody know you want to be with them, but anyway you need to be honest with everyone in the situation including yourself. there is no getting the side chick back, you said she got all this good stuff going for her and you messed that up, she not going to want you back. your girl might not stay with you either, depending on how yall relationship is. all you can do at this point is admit your faults and deal with your consequences, basically your sh!t has hit the fan, clean it up.</div>\
	 </div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6837717">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6837717" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6837717" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6837717">SugarTits</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6837717" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6837717" class="dsq-comment-message">We are the creators of our destiny. Handle it with your head high and shoulders back. There are no actions nor words that can change what has already been done.His perception can change and so can his behavior in future similar situations. Learn the lesson and move forward. <br>All the best!</div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6843977">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6843977" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6843977" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6843977">luciouskitty</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6843977" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6843977" class="dsq-comment-message">I don\'t feel sorry for you at ALL!!!!! You got EXACTLY what you deserved, trying to be slick and have 2 relationships going on @ one time. All I have to say is STUPID, STUPID, STUPID!!! Figure your own shit out!!!! U didnt need help putting your dick into her pussy?!?!?</div>\
	 </div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6845125">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6845125" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6845125" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6845125">Sexy N Sassy</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6845125" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6845125" class="dsq-comment-message">LOL, c u sound like me,but I tried to go easy on him. but was ready to go hard on him like you. LMAO</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-6869261">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6869261" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6869261" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6869261">luciouskitty</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6869261" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6869261" class="dsq-comment-message">I would have said more, but I didn\'t want to sound like the angry black woman.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-6845031">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6845031" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6845031" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6845031">Sexy N Sassy</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6845031" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6845031" class="dsq-comment-message">Honesty is the best policy, Its time to man up and keep it 100 with your official girl. She deserves the truth. It would look better coming from then the streets, ya dig. What you do in dark will come out in the light.  I can tell dude is still young and immature when he said he was trying to get the girl pregnant by not using a condom because he still wanted to be with her and his lil plan backfired. Which is the karma setting in. I just hope he learns from this experience and know that its not all about him and what he wants thats how people get hurt.</div>\
	 </div>\
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	 <li id="dsq-comment-6845583">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-6845583" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-6845583" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-6845583">Mira</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-6845583" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-6845583" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m probably late on the whole issue, but just wanted to comment quickly.<br><br>I think here we have a case of the old, "Want to have your cake and eat it too." I always say, well yea, who wants cake they cant eat? But in this case, not so. Why? Peoples lives and hearts are involved. To me, the situation was bad in the beginning, but it went from bad to WORSE when the child came into play. I dont really agree with people being selfish, but its almost okay to do it when you have just the adults involved, to bring children into it is just wrong.<br><br>So heres my advice, be the best father that you can be to that child. Forget about your current girlfriend and your childs mother. Put all feelings aside and give this INNOCENT child what he/she deserves. He/she didnt ask for this, so just step up, and do what a real man does and take care of your child.<br><br>Much success and blessings to you...Good Luck.</div>\
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