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And if I could count the times I walked past a group of \"kneegrow\" chicks and heard \"Hmmf. She think she cute...\"<br>....and so do you.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:08:04", "killed": false, "user_key": "7c99b0d72a58c0539022bdadd887f167", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10274319": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Ok, seriously. It's not even that serious. I agree with Mo's point when she said if she had a big butt or boobs she would have said that. I don't understand why people are making it seem like her mentioning that she has \"nice\" hair became such a big issue. If you have nice eyes, you'd mention that wouldn't you? so how is this any different. If y'all would just read her reply, she said SHE IS MIXED, so the term \"Indian Hair\" would be correct since she's part Indian. And you got people saying hair doesn't make you. Don't remember Mo saying that. I personally think Mo would be really pretty even if her hair wasn't like that. Chill out, it's just a bunch of bitterness.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_17:07:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "43f8b5bda1bd68dd0335fd2578ad65f6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10253842": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "*hangs head in shame*<br><br>LOL, I am HERE Xilla, every flippin day, I SWEAR. But from the # of times my shit freezes up (sometimes mid-comment) :'-( and I have to restart or refresh I think I should take credit and get a check for the majority of your return visits and length on site :-D", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:35:22", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10253152, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260502": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "honey, i'm here.  i'm recovering from last night.  smh...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:31:46", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10260125, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10307607": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Wow this post really blew up. It just goes to show that we black women are so sensitive about our appearance and how the world see us. Alot of this, I think, stems from slavery, our black men, and society. I tell you, I have been going natural for the past year, and people's opninon of me has competely changed. It's so weird that our natural hair texture is not view as beautiful to \"us\". My co-worker told me the other day that I need to start relaxing my hair again because I could pass as mixed. And that since I was damn near white, \"the white folks\" would treat me differently. And it broke my heart. I hate that some darker complected women have to feel that way. But guess what: it's their own race that makes them feel that way. We need to teach our children to stop reducing people to \"how dark they are\"! Actually, I tend the think people of a darker complexion tend to have some of the prettiest, smoothest skin I've ever seen. And black men need to stop making us sisters feel inadequate because of our hair texture, and coloring.<br>Black women, stop feeding into the stereotypes! Stop the self hate. We don't need to be calling each other \"kneegrow\" and \"colored\"! It's appalling! We're never going to conquer anything by dividing each other.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_22:25:48", "killed": false, "user_key": "maymajesty", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10241518": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Negro pleeeaaaasseeee u are not 132-135lbs....smch stop frontin<br><br>that is the size of the average high school boy and when was the last time you was in high school", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_22:00:58", "killed": false, "user_key": "a461a032da2bf1281da90e8f09af3ff3", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10326447": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Number one, many people get \"Indian\" confused with \"Native American\".  And I bet you a lot of those people don't realize that your ancestry is truly part \"INDIAN\". Black people need to get PAST this self-hatred of ourselves.  WE come in different shades, different hair textures, different body shapes, we are a diverse group of people! That is the beauty of us, is the lack of homogeneity.  I am extremely dark-skinned and many people assume I am from Africa including many Africans I have encountered.  Or most people assume I MUST be mixed with something because although I am dark-skinned, my features are not stereotypical.  I have a thin nose and thin lips.  My hair is jet-black and curly-soft not curly-coarse (if that makes any sense).  I know I look different, I always have but I embrace my African part of myself because its part of who I am.  Yes, my father's grandmother who raised him was Tsa-la-gi  but I'm not going to go around talking about how my great-great whatchamacallit is Native American.  Whatever.  And all these women on here sounding like ignorant buffoons need to grow up.  I am not pretty to be dark-skinned.  I'm just damn pretty and being dark-skinned brings it out more.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_18:01:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "cefe789622e0f2f26d7792e69a9018fb", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10526750": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Awww thanx cuz *humbled* where you been hidin? we miss you", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-05_13:31:41", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10525122, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10244639": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "ignorant ass post...so the fuck what u got \"indian hair\" bitch,,,be glad and keep it moving...lame ass gon write a whole article on it though?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_00:15:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "fdff5e4ea7ce4e20b4437424653c1364", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10503713": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I am so jealous that you've never experienced titty sweat... it's the bane of my existence every damn summer *sigh*<br><br>lol", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-04_21:12:02", "killed": false, "user_key": "thejadednyer", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10175067, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10316322": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "You\u2019re pretty lucky for never having heard or experienced this behavior. I wish I could say the same. <br><br>If it\u2019s all the same to you I may still bring it up on occasion 'cause it\u2019s funny to me too and we can all use a good laugh :-D", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_11:39:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10315769, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161707": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "these birds HATIN' do u miss lady...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:30:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "Cishma", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10263085": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Are u serious? I smell a chunky chick. LOL. <br><br>I'm 133 and have given birth twice! Me thinks someone needs to invest in a treadmill.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:42:20", "killed": false, "user_key": "bc734083003468fb6a0e56e77230c6ff", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10241518, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10273331": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I'm a mixed chick too, and I co-sign on just about everything Marvelous Mo said. AND, I'd like to tap you on the shoulder Mo, and say, stay fly. I'm so tired of the ignorance and girl-on-girl hate for no damn reason. I would say sista-to-sista, but ain't nothing sisterly about all that hate.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_16:37:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "a77f74b1c10e3379802eff1544160701", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10174841": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Dont worry, I got you xilla ......... ;-) (lol)<br><br>Ciao,<br>PrettyDiva83", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_18:56:52", "killed": false, "user_key": "PrettyDiva83", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10162995, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10253152": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "lol I'm just saying... she coming here like my site don't got traffic, like i'm hurting. Site couldn't be better my only issue is people like you who used to live on the site left... the community is dead!! I gotta figure out how to get it back, but the people ain't leave. Yall just stopped talking. Maybe I need to reply more, but I'm doing my globalgrind thing and going out and getting great content for y'all and sometimes it's hard. a few key people left for reasons I know and now it's like okay I need to rebuild the community feel of the site. It's as simply as that but to imply that my numbers are hurting... nah son!! my numbers are through the roof this has been both the quietest month and the most traffic'd month in the history of the site. The changes helped so now it's just a matter of getting the people to talk. <br><br>This blog is evidence that they are here.. its just a matter of getting them to talk. Which is my fault.<br><br>Now if YOU can start commenting again... lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:20:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10253041, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10390594": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "why are you so closed minded and ignorant,. just because YOU simplass ain' never seen or heard some of these things, you think its unbelievable!?!? lmao! i missed ur retardation[wiggle woky arm in salute] MUAH! hata!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-02_12:47:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "8059beee65716c92f2fe1dc0c0272cd7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10305336, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10239243": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "shit this the most comments i've seen on this site", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_20:32:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "c105143d71b9a760dba0270c7ba99ac5", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10241604": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "you don't read the site often then... this USED to be the Norm... The traffic is off the chain, of you digg back a month you'll see this amount of comment almost normally. I don't know what the hell happened though. eh!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_22:04:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10239243, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10162757": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "no one is angry honey. im far from angry.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:55:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "75af186405d75f4b895768aff27587a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161962, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10315873": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "LLS....All I have to say is that everybody has an audience and Xilla, you know how to reel them in..hook, line and sinker..via Mo..LMDAO...and Mo, gotta tell you...you are time enough for 'em!<br><br><a href=\"http://www.oozechatterdoll.biz\" rel=\"nofollow\">www.oozechatterdoll.biz</a>", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_11:12:43", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ooze_Chatterdoll", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10160209": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I basically just don't care what another female has on or whatever.  I mean of course we all check out our competition but I can't say an attractive female bothers me or makes me jealous.  I figure if this one man prefers her over me, then the next man will prefer me over her.  Life goes on.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_14:47:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "36a3e1b303491a9f3b73e54b74f39f80", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10262098": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "still lost why describing myself is such a big fucking deal.  so bored, next...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:14:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10249932, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261589": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "OMFG PPL ON THIS BLOG IS A MESS. IF SHE WANT TO DESCRIBE HER SELF AS HAVING INDIAN HAIR THAN LET HER DO HER. DAMN THE GIRL HAS PRETTY HAIR. WHY HATE U ONLY HURTIN URSELF. ME MYSELF IF I SEE ANOTHER CHIC WIT CUTE SHOES ON OR NICE HAIR OR CLOTHES I COMPLEMENT THEM. UST CAUSE A PERSON HAIR IS SOFT OR WHATEVER DOES NOT MEAN THEY HAVE GOOD HAIR IF YOUR HAIR IS HEALTHY AND WELL TAKEN CARE OF I BELIVE U HAVE GOOD HAIR. I ALWAYS COMPLIMENT SOMEONE ON SOMETHING I LIKE BECAUSE I KNOW HOW IT FEEL EVERYWHERE U GO TO HAVE GURLS JUST STARIN U DOWN BECUSE THEY ARE INSECURE ABOUT THEM SELVES. I DO IT TO LET PPL KNOW WE ALL ARE NOT JUST SOME JELOUS, INSECURE, HATAIN ASS BITTER, BITCHES. BECUASE THAT EXACTLY WHAT THEY THINK WE ARE.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:00:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "09a06f3fb3c9a29610f2965158a7d365", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10165848": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "When you mentioned 'indian hair' i took it no different than anyone mentioning they have 'curly hair' or 'long hair' or 'black hair'.  I appreciate what you have to say in this post.  I, too am one of those confident chicks who can easily give another chick a compliment without giving it a second thought. Though my story is a little different than yours I can totally relate.  Throughout high school I had very few female friends because as nice as I was to everyone, they did nothing but dog me out.  In junior high my hair was fucked and i had no clue how to dress so the girls had nothing to do with me.   I wasn't able to befriend females of different ethnicity's so I mostly had male friends.  But then when that happened and I also found my sense of style, I became the stuck-up chick.  Then the next phase once I hit college was 'oh you're so nice and so cool. I can't believe we didn't kick it in high school.'  Even in my adulthood it is difficult to find female friends who are supportive and are willing to uplift you.  And to all commenters, I am not saying that all black women are like this but it is most certainly a problem in our community and one that needs to be addressed.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_17:27:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "DopeAlicious", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261082": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "pkat, that's what I was trying to do in the first damn place.  sheesh...", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:46:03", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10158313, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10175067": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Mo, your response to these women makes me just as sad as their response to you. When I read your post last week, I thought it was odd that you said you had \"Indian hair\", but that's only because so many \"kneegrows\" love to talk about how they got some Indian hair (knowing it's Hawaiian Silky--BREAK!) Anyway, when u later posted that you are in fact part-Indian, I was like \"Oh.\"  It put it in a different perspective.  <br>Now, it's unfortunate that people with real Indian heritage have to suffer because of so many false claimers, but Mo, I think if you said that you were part Indian in your description, it would have gone over completely differently. I think it came across like you had given into self-hatred, and folks were put off, because they think more highly of you.  I, for one, was relieved to see that that was not the case.  <br>But, my next point, and this is to all of the commenters as well, why the name calling and vitriol towards the insecure women who hate themselves so much that they can't love you?  My weapon against dirty looks, comments about my dark skin tone (which seem to offend some and fascinate others), my hair (which I have worn every kind of way possible), my size, or even my 32NA's (girls who are insecure about their breasts loooove to point out how small they are.  I rejoice in the fact that I have never experienced titty sweat), anyway, my weapon against all of that is a great big Care Bear Stare!   I usually just shrug and say \"But I love myself.\"  Don't get me wrong, a sassy quip may leave my mouth, but I have to check myself before I say \"Your man likes it\", or \"My pubes are silkier than yours\", because, well, that only perpetuates the cycle of self-hatred fueled by competition.  <br>So, in closing, Mo, your pubes are silkier than mine, Teyana Taylor has boobs I can only wish for, and all y'all thick girls got more cushion for the pushin' than I do, but I'm clevaaaaaaa...<br>I used to be very insecure, and I made it a personal goal in 2007 to become \"Alright With Me\" (Yes E. Badu's Cleva is one of my fave songs EVER), and here I am.  I love all y'all, whether you are kneegrow max, kneegrow mix, or kneegrow lite.  Thanks, and goodnight!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_19:06:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "97237f1f22a5faa1858178b8aca499e4", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10244702": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "xilla shit like this is the reason ur traffic slows down...what happened to the substance!?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_00:18:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "fdff5e4ea7ce4e20b4437424653c1364", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 7, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10273893": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Do you know the problem is here from both sides? Both are immediately onto attack.. The comments aimed at Marvelous Mo and the comments she gave back (because she was being attacked). mia. [the first comment] attitude has the right attitude she complimented a women with no other intention but to compliment and the woman had her back because there was no intention to attack or any animosity.<br><br>I don't have to hate you to love myself. I can love you, too. In fact, I do. &lt; Take heed please and move on, it's not that big of a deal..<br><br>(I'm not saying Marvelous Mo tried to attack people with her post, she just mentioned her hair and kept on moving...  others mentioned her hair and stalled at that)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_16:54:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "b9896a25463afbe6ae39dd588da4ec13", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10306144": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "To give you a real answer to your question, quite simply, it\u2019s the standard of beauty that has been set by society. Every variation of \u201cappearance\u201d created by God is beautiful. But naturally not everyone can be everything, so when society puts one look, feature, skin tone, size, shape, hair texture, hair color above another the people who possess those \u201cdesired\u201d traits naturally, sometimes innocently and I\u2019ll even venture to say \u201cunknowingly\u201d begin to feel superior.<br> <br>But when previously unrecognized beauty traits are noticed and confirmed as beautiful also, the ones who once held the traits that \u201cdefined\u201d beauty now feel threatened, they feel the need to compete. Competition is natural and even healthy but we\u2019ve been forced to compete against each other with things that we have no real control over. If you\u2019re competing in a race you train harder so you can run faster. How do you compete with a hair color/texture, skin color, facial feature, natural body size/shape that you don\u2019t possess? You either go thru great lengths, expense, damage and pain to change it OR the more popular way is to try to convince yourself, society and the subject of your \u201cthreat/competition\u201d that what they have is not that great and that yours is better.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_20:47:25", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10299937, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10162785": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "HEEEEYYY! Lol, that shit irks me when females steady tear each other down but are the first ones to admit that women are catty. BITCH you're a part of the PROBLEM!<br><br>But let me calm down.<br>I dig what you're saying. It's so damn funny cause I like to this of myself as a secure female, so I do the compliment thing just to get a dirty look every now and then or I hear the smug \"She think she cute\" comment.<br><br>Correction sweetie: I know I'm cute. Thanks.<br>I had the same thing goin on \"You're too dark\", and I rock my hair natural in a curly afro and some people have a problem with that too, so I said \"Fuck it and you\" and do whatever the hell puts a smile on my face. Yee digg????", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:56:50", "killed": false, "user_key": "fc34be9ca13de647f650f17b92102260", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261605": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "ETR...<br><br>you are the ONLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY person that gets this shit on my level.   got damn it, i'm not a martian after all. lol<br><br>you are my fav commenter right now.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:00:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10160992, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10307174": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "My thing was, if it was a matter of her emphasizing her heritage, why not refer to herself as having part-Indian ancestry?  Maybe it would have come across a lot differently.  Singling out her \"Indian hair\" made her sound like a \"1986-I-got-cherokee-in-my-family-check-out-my-baby-hair\" false claimer and that's why I posted the comment about not being able to get past her Indian hair comment.  It just sounded real ignorant and, for the lack of a better word, coonish to me.  Then she acted oblivious to the fact that African-Americans have been false claiming all sorts of ethnicities for so many years to downplay their black attributes (My grandma's sister baby daddy cousin is white, dats why I got dis white people hair) - THAT'S why so many people felt the need to call her out on it.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_21:56:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "c54846757c36b9b241f51be7dfb966e7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10303198, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10321013": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "It's just so crazy (kind of refreshing, sorry) for me to hear that i was not the only that had problems/insecurities growing up...now i have regular black people hair my parents are black and i'm pure chocolate but i can't lie and say i wasn't a bit insecure for a while because it did seem like the dudes would for the light skin chick or the chicks that were exotic with the \"indian\" hair but to hear/read that everyone had their own issues makes me feel kinda not so alone about it anymore...i think some people let those insecurities though permeate and manifest into their adult lives and then become overly touchy/sensitve when hearing about other women that have a feature that was seen as \"superior\" in comparison to their \"inferior\" feature (i.e. hair, skin tone, speech patterns, etc.)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_15:17:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "a4870bdf1aeffa76b081c5beb78c0cfe", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260599": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Ryan J,<br><br>You're just bitter about Prop 8 and need to vent at people on the internet.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:34:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157247, "depth": 1, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260601": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Hair is hair!  growing up and still a little now i got called \"white girl\", \"oreo\", \"light brite\" all because i was light skin. i got asked all the time if i was mixed. no i'm all black. i may have some other races down the line but not close enough to mention! <br><br>i will tell and ugly chick if i like her gear. makes me no difference. some women cannot handle another chick that looks better them or has better shit than they got. get over it and worry about u is what i say.  i got enough issues not to be worried about what someone looks like, what style hair they rockin or what they got on.<br>you ain't got to explain yourself girl... let 'em hate.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:34:25", "killed": false, "user_key": "94bb2ab65b431ded2fc456b018533245", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10254459": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Great point about coming to expect certain treatment because you've received it all your life - that is very true and it may not be hair or skin tone but we all have something about us that we've come to expect people to notice and comment on whether their response to us is positive or negative<br><br>It is very personal when you experience it repeatedly and it's hurtful - I think everyone on here, even the ones who have a problem with Mo talking about her hair can probably relate to what she's experienced and tell a similar story, be it about their breast size, their butt, intelligence, their hair being too short, being to dark, lips too big whatever...", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:55:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10252990, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261264": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "if i had a fat ass, that would be the FIRST thing I mentioned. if i had some big titties, i would mention my DDs. mine just happens to be my hair. so the fuck what.  physically, i really love my hair... a lot.  i love my mix as well.  people who know me and see me can cosign that.  now, I don't walk around rolling my eyes like, \"that's a nappy headed hoe. i look so much better than her.\"  i'm expressing my thoughts and describing myself.  everyone who says, \"bitch please\" about how i decided to describe myself as if dissed them can suck on some nuts.  <br><br>and \"sweetie\" trust, the hate is there.  not that i'm complaining, but that's just what the hell it is.  the sky is blue, obama is president and there's hate in bitches blood.  <br><br>the end.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:51:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10159557, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10264711": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "LOL...funny... but the truth of the matter is, MO ain't lying. I compliment women all the time. If she responds nicely, hell I'll even ask her where she got said, hair done, shoes, shirt, etc...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_13:29:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "82bc394a43f1b02a6d515344f6dfd9f6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10366601": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "thank you for this post. i too have \"good hur\" and wish i had yo body to match bo! ha!. i'm 5'7.5\" 170lbs[flat stomach big boobs and butt] and i can relate! would u believe people thought my mom put weave in my hair when i was younger so i wouldn't be jealous of my younger, LIGHTER sister?[who by the way has nappier hair than mines and is proud of it!] i recently went from past my shoulders to a shaggy frohawk and my mother bout lost it\"u know dark girls WISH they had hair like urs and u just choppin it away. whas WRONG wit u!\" i just laugh and keep it movin!<br><br>my hair and confidence have definitely deterred black women[and some men] from befriending me. when i found this new \"thick\" shape combined with my hair niggas thought i was stuck up/would play them. and black bitches SWORE i was checkin for their man! smdh whatta mess! it took me a while to get where i am and i'm dayum proud! and my body is RIGHT for once, my hair is fun, and muthafugg a HATA!<br><br>i am easy with the compliments, because i love me. if u rockin that bag i can't get or ur shoes got me haute in the toes i'ma SAY DAT! word! i love to let somebody know they're ON and when i get a compliment, sometimes its the highlight of my day especially when times are so tough. it disgusts me how sistas can never just SHINE on anotha sister instead they'd rather shit on her. GROSS! no other race i kick it with is like that towards me!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-01_18:01:15", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161804": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Out of all I said that's what you picked out. Race, culture, it's a part of who I am and I was merely making a point, that who gives a flying fuck what I really am, because when I look in the mirror, who and what do I see. A black woman.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:32:12", "killed": false, "user_key": "d6a381ac057a37161c5655e986d791bf", "has_been_anonymized": true, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161518, "depth": 2, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10157204": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Hmm... when I see a woman I think is fly or flyer than me? I don't hate; if it's something I think I can work towards (nice shoes, dress, figure etc) I make a mental note of it and just freakin work towards it. Hating is a waste of time. I won't deny being a hater in my younger days but with age comes wisdom!<br><br>In terms of hair- jeez who doesn't have hair issues? One of my BFF's is as white as can be with straight hair. And she HATES it because it just lies there flat and won't hold a curl. She's wishing for my curls and I'm over here wasting money at the salon to get my hair to lie flat!! Crazy, right? The grass is always greener. <br><br>Ladies: hating is wasted energy. Please, let's stop and instead focus on how we can become better people, mkay?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:13:08", "killed": false, "user_key": "61ab31993948a89205947dd58cdf2965", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10166425": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "The people who have an issue with Mo\u2019s description of her hair really need to stop and think about why <b>that one piece</b> of her description of herself is the thing that ruffled their feathers\u2026<br><br>Where are all the non-sassy, shorter/taller, skinnier/fatter, non-Scorpion, lightskinned/darkskinned women who haaaaaaaaaate mouthing off? Why aren\u2019t they complaining about the alleged air of superiority regarding the rest of her self-description?<br><br>It was the next to last descriptive thing she said about herself, Indian was not capitalized in its entirety, the first letter was capitalized as it should be, just like African, American, Chinese, Japanese, Jamaican, Italian or any other word that specifies or describes a race or nationality should be. <br><br>I don\u2019t know if it\u2019s funnier than it is sad or sadder than it is funny that people STILL have such a problem with hair texture\u2026 doesn\u2019t make sense to me that there ever was an issue over it to begin with but damn if we haven\u2019t evolved a little and moved on beyond that by now I don\u2019t know what to say \u2013 who\u2019d have thought we\u2019d have a Black President <i>before</i> Black women got over this stupid shyt<br><br>Why is the \u201chair texture\u201d the only piece that caused a stir amongst some of you?  <br><br>TheLovelyMsRedz said it best \u201cIt shows insecurity and perceived inferiority.\u201d <br><br>The problem is not that Mo thinks Indian hair is superior, the problem is that \u201cyou\u201d (anyone taking offense to her hair comment) perceive Indian hair to be superior. It\u2019s not superior and if you truly believed that, as you should, there would be no protest over her comments about it, just like no one protested over her height or weight or skin tone or sign or sassiness etc\u2026 <br><br>The jealousy and negativity some women feel when they see another woman who looks nice and has her shyt together has always been confusing to me. Every successful, well dressed, well groomed, physically fit, intelligent, happy, in love woman of color walking the earth is the woman I want representing me to the rest of the world. You might be that/those woman/women - and ALL the people, worldwide, whose paths you cross and whose respect you gain as a result of whatever makes you spectacular, you are in essence representing me and I appreciate you. The more of us there are, the better, and even for you hateful bitches who don\u2019t appreciate it we\u2019ll keep doing what we do and we\u2019ll still represent you WELL regardless of your bad attitude and lack of appreciation.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_17:46:49", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10164381": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "on the last post, i was the first person to voice my issue with you mentioning that you had \"indian hair.\"  you noted that you have \"indian\" hair like its something to feel superior about.  it isn't an issue of having women hate on you, its an issue of highlighting your non-black traits as though they are more valuable to you than your black traits.<br><br>i'll be the first to say, you have beautiful hair.  but why does it have to be indian unless you bought it and that's the brand name on the pack?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_16:46:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "c54846757c36b9b241f51be7dfb966e7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 4, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10156997": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "i dont know a damn thing about u but from what i have read i wish EVERY female thought similar to u. It kills me how some of my girl friends will see a cute girl and instead of complimenting her they say remarks like \"she dont match\",or \"shes not THAT pretty\"...i know its b/c theyre insecure. They even look at me crazy b/c im always complimenting other girls. anywho females and their jealousies are a mess. And i feel u on the \"too dark\" stuff ive been told that my WHOLE life. my hair isnt super long but its a nice length and i have had men and women insist on touchin my scalp to \"check for tracks\"! <br>anyway i wish u the best in all u do!!!<br>xoxo<br>whitney", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:05:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "texasbelle86", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10333858": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Woooww.... Xilla I been on your site and have enjoyed it... But this shit right here make me not wish to explore anymore of Miss Honay's rants about the \"hate\" that she has received..<br>I really hate to get into what I really feel because obviously her mind is not open to what those are saying.... Long hair, who cares??? Really was it that serious for her to post this? Shorty girl, it's obvious that those that hate on you are a problem but I'm assuming you've had this INDIAN hair all your life, so you should be quite used to it and not feel the need to post ridiculus blogs on the internet. Deep down inside you're a chocolate girl that has some issues... and hair is not it...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_23:25:03", "killed": false, "user_key": "LadiTaylor", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161315": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Girl I love this. Self Confidence is beautiful and I bet there are some haters on here saying that you were probably coming off \"arrogant\" but I complete understand!<br><br>It is sad that in the African American communities there is alot of hatred of others, especially the sisters who have so much insecurity and low self-esteem that they have to find \"flaws\" in another!<br><br>It is really sad, and I know with our past generations being oppressed, the media not promoting the beauty of all skins tones, and just lack of personal esteem is the cause of our fellow sisters who will go to such lengths to \"hate\" on someone else because they are not happy.<br><br>Thank you for writting this. But I just want to let you know, in case you felt like you had to justify to some female, you dont have \"Indian hair\"...Black people have beautiful African American hair as well and you dont have to be \"mixed\" or \"ethnic\" to have it! It is so ignorant in 2009 we still have to explain this to some people...just stand.<br><br>You are beautiful (no homo j/k) and I should even have to say no homo to let people know that it is okay for another female to compliment another female. You are beautiful for writting this blog too! Thanks for sharing this on Xilla's site!<br><br>Much love,<br><br>Kiwi", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:19:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "5d0c42200918eecd4ff6778e286ce554", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10241708": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "*YAWN*<br>i have sad new for you honey, HAVING INDIAN HAIR IS NO MORE DESERVING OF A COMPLEMENT THAN HAVING CURLY, WAVY OR KINKY HAIR. <br><br>THE ONLY HAIR TYPE THAT DESERVES A COMPLEMENT IS HEALTHYYY HAIR. HAIR THAT IS WELL MAINTAINED AND LOOKED AFTER, SO THAT THE BEST QUALITIES OF ITS TEXTURE, WHATEVER IT MAY BE, ARE NOTICEABLE. ..so please sit your delusional ass down....<br><br>lol @ you wanting black females to throw you daps because your hair is long and straight!! i can go out on the street and pick out 158572057 different white people with your exact same hair type. so your nothing special. only retarded for thinking you are :( lol <br><br>yea, im sure that when you were growing up ALL of the black girls around you were the ones with the problem leaving you, the only sane one (rolls fucking eyes) to seek friendships with other non black women. did you ever think that maybe you treated them as though they had something to be jealous about?<br><br>when you have a nice FULL, LUSH, THICK, SHINY, head of hair with no breakage, split ends and fly aways, then you can expect women to complement. until then, SHADDAP! lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_22:08:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "5273c04b7763d79bde16e2bcdcb77a7c", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10157231": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "now I gotta go find that post and see what people wrote 'cause this sounds JUICY!! lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:14:01", "killed": false, "user_key": "61ab31993948a89205947dd58cdf2965", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10254514": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Exactly!!!<br><br>Hopefully it'll just make them STFU and keep their negativity to themselves", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:57:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10254304, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10157757": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I noticed in ur last post that alot of the chicks were focused on ur hair instead of the main point of the post. I hate when women, or shall I say GIRLS, pick apart other women because they have great qualities so I just had to stay out of the comment section on that post because it gets me all riled up. <br><br>But to answer your question, when I see a women with a fly pair of heels, a nice outfit, or whatever, I compliment her and go on my way because I know she put a little effort into herself and that she takes pride in looking her best. I love seeing women doing their thing, because it makes me feel like I'm not alone. But from personal experience, when you're looking your best, smelling good, and rocking a badd pair of shoes, there will be some chicks you pass by who will look you up and down and swear you think you're the ish...naw, bish I know! lol<br><br>But let me stop right now because I can go on and on about this subject!! Keep doing you Mo!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:30:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "ALMiss", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10252990": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": ".....Lord.  I really wasn't going to comment especially because of the number of people who commented, but I felt I had to say my piece, especially since I'm one of the girls who commented on the first post.<br><br>First of all, when i made that comment about your hair, it really wasn't that serious.  i wrote one sentence, in essence rolling my eyes at your statement and then proceeded to write a whole paragraph AGREEING WITH YOU.  I like to suck dick too.  it's a beautiful thing.  if you noticed, i even put a little smiley face after describing my afro to show \"hey its all good, more or less a joke\"<br>and then you proceeded to write like three paragraphs cursing me out for making that comment about your hair.  I could have responded then, but i didn't want to prove Xilla right cuz he's always saying women feed off negativity.  i dont. so i let it be.  then you wrote this post all about your hair, and i'm not gonna delve into the issue because there 60 other comments doing that, but i will say that when you said ppl have been giving you shit about your hair all your life, in my mind that translates into when you were a child and now your so used to it you expect it.  I ALWAYS give props to chicks who are doing their thizzle, whether its a tight weave, a tight perm or a tight natural, or even an outfit or whateva. your comment just came off kinda rude which is why i said something.  <br><br>Bottom line, i think you took it way more serious than it was which I personally feel (so don't get mad at me for this one) is a personal issue that stems from you being so used to getting shit about your hair that you feel the need to STRONGLY defend yourself.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:10:11", "killed": false, "user_key": "adce8cde085a3ceb52c35ff52d717c07", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10157247": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "LMAO at Indian Hair, girl Bye. You look like your grandparents are from the southside of Chicago, lol! Anyway you and your Indian Hair can go have a seat in the corner because no one gives a fuck. And for the ones that care about someone saying they have Indian Hair is just as lame as you.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:14:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "40ba2c435610b6190b24d617acb02b27", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 10, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 5, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10294978": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Lmao, i was thinkin the EXACT same thing!!!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_12:30:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "e35f20c5ceb0469692899067e99deb21", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10262244, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10310603": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I agree.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_01:57:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "0948db8e24c8be2d6f4e0856ed8d782d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10305336, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10299937": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Girl, I hear u. Im darkskinned and I have long hair. Im also AFRICAN, girrrrl when I moved to the states ,  the american girls ask me if I have a weave in coz they thought it was impossible for this african darkskinned girl to have nice long silky hair..and such clear soft skin.women need to stop hating. and why is DARKSKINNED women looked at as the ugly girls...I dont think will ever get the answer to that bcoz all my life I been asking GOD why u make me darkskinned if its looked at as ugly. but now I have grown to love my skin..", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_14:19:15", "killed": false, "user_key": "7e2c1466dbc2aac87c82fc1c5bcc1fe7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10163912": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "You ignored the problem...people were heated that you felt the need to capatalize INDIAN and make it stand out as if it were better or set apart from the majority of the black population's hair. IS is REALLY NECCESSARY to make an entire post in something that was over a week ago? You just brought it back up, and get ready for the backlash.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_16:31:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "ChinyereCouture", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 4, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10249932": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "honey, please dont flatter yourself. just because you get called out on your shit doesnt make the people who do it \"haters.\" it really is dumb that you would say something like that because no one gives a shit. im light-skinned, so dont you think it would be dumb for me to post that little tid-bit of information when im talking about giving head??? your hair is nice, but that was completely irrelevent to the whole topic. it seems as if you just had to let everyone on here know that \"you aint got no nappy ass hurrr\" which is pathetic. i think thats why everyone's upset.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_03:45:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "5cb1e53daedcd3e4ac087b45de8a8cdd", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10531537": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Waiting for a good topic. Where the hell iz NESS?????", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-05_15:49:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "hazysin", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10526750, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10244306": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Bickering over hair is stupid. Back to the sex talk.<br> But shout out to me and my BAJAN hair!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_23:59:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "5362f1768e1abc09bae84529bff7c1b7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10262227": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "holla!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:17:32", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10260601, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10460372": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "WELL I TOTALY AGREE WITH THIS! IM EXTREMELY DRK WITH CURLY HAIR AND WAS TEASED ALL MY LIFE ABOUT LOOKING DIFFERENT ! I'VE BEEN TOLD \" YOU'RE PRETTY TO BE SOO BLACK\"  AND RANDOM PEOPLE WHITE OR BLK ASKING, \"WHAT ARE U?\" AND MY ANSWER WOULD ALWAYS BE, \"HUMAN\" AND I WALK AWAY.. AND GIRLS ASKING ME IF I HAD A JERI CURL OR WHAT COLOR WEAVE WAS I WEARING! WTF!! YES I FELT AND ALWAYS HAVE FELT THEY WAY U HAVE. THIS IS WHY IM SOO F*ING  BLUNT! AND DONT HAVE MANY FEMALE FRIENDS.....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-03_22:20:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "08b38e3dba947b2e01755fc8551944b1", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10302677": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Q....why is DARKSKINNED women looked at as the ugly girls..???<br><br>A....To Belle: not all women other than light/white or looked upon as ugly. However; the main reason alot are look upon as ugly- this blog topic is a perfect scenario, they seem to be the only ones thinking, bragging, lying and acting arrogant and conceited. Whats so pitifully misfortunate about this type is they mirrors be lying to them. The proof is NObody else see's all that they think they got.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_17:03:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "FanceeFoxx", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10158807": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "This quote by Audre Lorde pretty much sums up why black women as a group can't just get along.  <br><br>~Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each other for it rather than to recognize and move upon our common interests. ~<br><br>With that said, the hair issue is a big one in the black community.  Good hair, bad hair & all that jazz.  Though I personally choose to rock my hair in all it's nappy glory, I would never knock anyone who does differently.  If someone hair looks nice, it looks nice. . be it long, short, straight, curly or nappy. <br><br>I don't go out of my way to compliment anyone, but I also don't go out of my way to diss them either.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_14:03:36", "killed": false, "user_key": "HappyToBeNappy", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10245336": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I never see beautiful \"cream of the crop\" women boasting of their beauty.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_00:50:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "FanceeFoxx", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10326236": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I don't understand why people are so upset about her using the word \"Indian\" when describing her hair. It is no different from when other people use the word \"good\" hair, except her description is ethnically correct.<br>While attending one of the last meetings in Philadelphia for the Native American Cultural Society before they lost funding and had to shut down, they told everyone in attendance this:- Skin color has nothing to do with your ethnicity.<br>I have more things in my blood stream than what people would consider a mutt for dogs, but the majority of my blood line comes from Cheyenne and Cherokee..people get mad that I don't solely claim being black when the closest relative I had that was the \"blackest\" was my great great grandma and she had blue eyes.(yes I saw it in person).<br>We all need to accept that none of us has ever met any \"pure\" blacks in our lifetime....unless you meet someone from African and they consider themselves \"Africans\" and not \"black\".<br>I guess after years of fighting for equality, black people still allow the \"one drop rule\" to dictate how they think...(not all, just the ones that have a problem with people acknowledging their roots).", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_17:47:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "Qrazy", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10303198": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I totally agree!<br><br>As a dark, fine, talented, proud American NEGRO(E), with hair \"like\" yours , I really can't say much more to Mo. Mo your issues are too deep for us to re-hatch here in this damn blog. Nice hair, but its not all that. Nappy hair is great, your hair is great who cares. You just mad because you thought you were going to get away with that sad wanna be dig as us NEGROES and you got called out on it. Get a grip lady, if you like to give head talk about head. Hair was not the topic at hand.<br>I love my black american friends and if you haven't been blessed to befriend one of us, I'm sad for u. :)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_17:40:53", "killed": false, "user_key": "mindyours", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10164381, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260125": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Where's Mo? Does she only comment on that one day a week?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:20:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "ALMiss", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10269923": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I like Marvelous Mo!  Fuck these folks.  Only Colored Folks would be upset with another person being proud of what they look like or what features they have.  I am a black woman with locks, I get looks and comments too.  To the Colored Folks: Don't worry about what other folks are doing.  Hell, learn how to do your own hair so it can grow to be just as long as Marvelous Mo (Yes, black women can have long hair too-without weave). Instead of rocking that stringy \"white girl hair\" that is so thin & damaged that you can read a damn newspaper through it <br>To the HATING Colored Folks- Check out <a href=\"http://KeepItSimpleSista.blogspot.com\" rel=\"nofollow\">KeepItSimpleSista.blogspot.com</a> and learn how to take care of your hair so you can stop hatin' on others. Damn!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_15:38:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "16d5c447e4550cb02c73b18f08021502", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10262244": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I'm in shock.... All this over hair... wow!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:17:54", "killed": false, "user_key": "SW1", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10165989": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I am Black,east indian, and cuban- brown skinned and I also used to get the questions\"Is that your real hair?\" or \"Do you got tracks?\"..... I would get upset when asked those questions but now I don't trip.It's just hair,right?!       <br>Matter of fact my hair was the same length as Marv. Mo but I just recently chopped it off! and I am loving my shorter hair!<br><br><br>I also know a girl who is NOT multi-racial, African American, and deep choclate complexion- and she has hair halfway down her back.....it's all about how you take care of hair.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_17:32:03", "killed": false, "user_key": "0948db8e24c8be2d6f4e0856ed8d782d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10158313": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Awww geez...not this shit again. C'mon Mo, you were fiyah when you were talking about fellatio....let's get back to the sexual intellectualism. You can find this shit here on NecoleBitchie or SandraRose any given day. NEXT!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:48:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "08535cfb909313161111eca5fca2c6da", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10244845": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "actually no it doesn't it's a real look at what happens in life and relationships women hating on women. It's the most popular post of the week and it got you to comment for the first time i believe... because even if you put in a fake email like you did i still run IP addresses... so i know who' is saying what... i normally choose not to answer it. and for you to call her a bitch only really proves her point does it not? Why are you so mad? My traffic doesn't slow down my traffic is at an all time high. Comments slowed down yes.. but not my traffic the site drawfs all other urban relationship sites with way more comments you wanna know why? because comments don't equal traffic. <br><br>My return visits are up! <br>My direct visits are up<br>my length on site is up<br>my views are up<br><br>everything about my site is up! <br><br>She once again will have the most popular blog on the site. IDK why people don't choose to comment as much anymore.. we actually i have an idea but that's neither here nor there why are you so mad at her for pointing out something that is obvious and clearly true? and why couldnt you put your real email address? Could you not stand behind your words? People on here disagree and disagree with me and use their real email and even post their pics... you could't or didnt why is that?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_00:25:50", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10244702, "depth": 1, "points": 2, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10253041": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I swear I f*ckin love you!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:13:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10244845, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10282226": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "yet you made a whole nother post about it...u love it!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_21:32:08", "killed": false, "user_key": "yes", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10262098, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10248437": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Very eloquently and intelligently said Sistah. I wish that we as black women respected and cared about each other more.......the changes we could make. It makes me sad really.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_01:46:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "MissBeasley", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10166425, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10164989": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Honestly, its not even that serious. It wasnt that serious for the females that commented just about you mentioning your hair type on the last post. This all just goes back to the way African American women feel about their hair, & the whole \"good\" hair/bad hair arguement which is SO dumb. If you have hair on ya head, you have GOOD hair, no matter what the texture is. She was just describing herself. Now I think that if she said long hair in caps, nobody would have said anything, yet they might have been thinking weave. Get over it. We need to be building each other up instead of tearing each other down, and practice self love. If you okay with yourself, then why the are you going to down someone for their physical features. It just comes down to the fact that black women are sensitive about their hair. Deny all you want but its true. Other wise why would whoever commented have their panties up in a bunch over her describing HER physical attributes. Its just fucking hair. No ones hair is better than the next chicks just because of texture. Grow uppp!!!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_17:03:35", "killed": false, "user_key": "shayna", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261035": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "True story, I'm an asshole.  That's just what the issue is.  If people want sugar and lemon drops, go that way ------------------&gt;", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:45:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161315, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10276100": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I just went on that website Keep it simple sista and I love it! Very informative!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_17:57:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "0948db8e24c8be2d6f4e0856ed8d782d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10269923, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10157323": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "And if it really was like that couldn't you have just said I am part Indian instead of saying you have Indian hair? That just makes it sound like you just made something up to justify putting your foot in your mouth.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:16:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "40ba2c435610b6190b24d617acb02b27", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10305296": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahah <br><br>Woah,  Taking a Deeeep Breath.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_19:57:28", "killed": false, "user_key": "ZeeABad1", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10260599, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261781": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "holy shit....<br><br>this post<br><br>is the best<br><br>evar.<br><br><br>*bows*", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:05:02", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10166425, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261789": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "not only did you not take the time to realize what she's talking bout, but now you wanna dis chicagoans? boy, bye! seems like you're the one who needs to go take a seat in the corner some where!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:05:22", "killed": false, "user_key": "Miss_P", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157247, "depth": 1, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10241823": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I'll be waiting! lol", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_22:13:05", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10174841, "depth": 6, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10260772": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "If I had very coarse hair, I would have emphasized that.  If I had extra long legs, i would emphasize that as well.  Bitches on this blog are acting like I got blue contacts  in my eyes and Lil Kim weaves and shit talking about I'm White. Fuck outta here with that bull. <br><br> And Guess what, I contribute my thoughts to this site ONCE A WEEK. So yes, I'm bringing this up.  PROL'EM?", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:38:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10163912, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10385191": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "In the West Indies (Jamaica) they call it coolie hair.  And yes, coolie hair is INDIAN HAIR.  That's just what it is.  Not sure what a better description would be because you can be part indian and not have indian hair.  Like you can be mixed race (black and white) but still have dark skin and afro type hair, or you can be light skin and have caucasian type hair.<br><br>Ryan J simply isn't an expert on hair.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-02_10:11:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "36a3e1b303491a9f3b73e54b74f39f80", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10261369, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161962": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I never said this wasnt indian hair silly, she did. And last time I checked I can pose in whatever clothing I please and take pictures. Why are you so upset??? lol<br><br>Ciao,<br>PrettyDiva83", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:36:31", "killed": false, "user_key": "PrettyDiva83", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161597, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10162995": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I'm upset.... not because of what you said but rather is that i don't have a full sized image of this picture... i need one. lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_16:03:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161962, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10282206": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "better than what? I don't recall this being about me", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_21:31:08", "killed": false, "user_key": "yes", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10261961, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10190135": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Damn ladies. Let's stop with the hate and try to show love and positivity to each other. There are enough negative stereotypes about black women that permeate mainstream society as a whole without us doing our damndest to lend credibility to them. Let's love ourselves and each other. And to the young lady who started the original blogpost, your hair and skin color are beautiful. Peace ladies! :)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_19:48:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "shaylawriter", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10305336": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "@ \"As for as knewgrow women telling you -your skin is too this or that, I'll never believe one knewgrow woman told you that.\"<br><br>Clearly you live in a bubble, and I suspect it's that same bubble that sheltered you from the knowledge that douching 5-6 times a week will destroy your vag<br><br>But moving along, if you\u2019ve never \u201cheard\u201d one woman say it to another that is one thing but IT IS said and it's said often\u2026.sometimes as a blatant insult other times the infamously backhanded compliment \u201cshe\u2019s really pretty <i>for a darkskinned girl\"</i>", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_20:00:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10303204, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10156857": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I think that alot of nblack women have issues when it comes to hair! Due to the fact that african hair, is pretty much different from all other races in this entire world...we may be a little salty about that(myself included) but to hate on another woman simply because her hair texture is better than yours in unacceptable and needs to stop. Especially with all the advances we have available to us in the world of weave, so if hair is your cross to bear, go buy yourself some...its really not that serious. By the way Mo, you are a beautiful woman(no homo) and your hair and skin color is fierce!, and do ever let anyone tell you different!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:01:12", "killed": false, "user_key": "2da36eb72c52b87cbe1e549b795c83f6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10160447": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "LOL, girl aint no one hating on you. I agree 100% with soul divine. Well said", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_14:54:32", "killed": false, "user_key": "eedc1d0d4f65557494e5e2780289a94e", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10165568": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "You pretty and EVERYBODY knows it.<br>So confronting chicks on here is a waste of time.<br>Just let them think what they want.<br>You aint got shit to prove folkz", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_17:20:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "eed8a348595b9c871f86384a75bf1470", "has_been_anonymized": true, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10241858": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "well i only hired her to write once a week... lol so she had this on reserve. lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_22:14:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10163912, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10261322": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "awwwwe,  its annoying when you write something thoughtful and people nit pick something so small and irrelevant to your point, right?<br><br>smh... can i go back to talking about shaft licking or we still on the topic of hair? LOL", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:52:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161804, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10265933": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "You make a wonderful point. Though, I don't have \"Indian Hair\" I have an abundance of long thick hair that frizzes at the drop of water and I am a chocolate brown, and I have the same problem when people ask me if my hair is real and I say yes, and they take offense. It's a shame that another black woman can't appreciate another black woman's beauty whatever it may be.<br><br>I say do you and keep it moving.<br><br>I've never had a problem complementing anyone on something I thought was nice or fly. <br><br>I think the issue lies in the fact that we as a culture have put a certain standard of beauty on a pedal stool and when something different comes along, people lose their minds. Like someone can't be attractive or beautiful if they're not light skinned with long hair...and so on with that stereotypical perfect type of girl. People act like it's a crime to look different and be pretty. <br><br>It's pathetic.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_14:04:48", "killed": false, "user_key": "8b77b22fe7a97d48d593208ab56c0682", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10254109": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "you get an error when you come to the site? Does anyone else have this problem?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:38:04", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10253842, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10174809": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "OMGOOOOODNESS,<br>Gurl u r beautiful and I love your attitute. Damn I can relate to all your rants cause I've been there too my sista. <br><br>I really love the comment about sharing compliments and your right.., thats what us CONFIDENT ONES do and its really nothing to K.I.M. <br>you know whats a shame though...when the broad you compliment looks u up and down like you crazy...I just laugh cause in my eyes all smart beautiful black women represent me and if they are fly too... hell  I am compelled to share that they do'n something right regardless if I find out after the fact that DAT BITCH AINT SHYTE!!!!<br><br>Oh wells....stay fresh mama:)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_18:55:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "58aa713c71090387fafa3815b04a9304", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10160992": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "M~Mo... <br>I need to go read ur post on head bobbing... but to touch on a few subjects here: 1. I'm similar to u in build/complexion/etc (5'8\" 125lbs)... difference is my mom is Black/Niits\u00edtapi & my dad is Black/Tsa-la-gi/White.. (Native American)  Why is it that people want to argue my down when I tell them I'm Black?  \"Good hair\" and \"pretty skin\" does not mean you can't be Black. I'm Black, my parents are Black... my kids are Black \"Oooh, look at that pretty little half-Black baby\"  STFU.<br>2.  I'm quick to tell a sister (or a brother) that I like their look/accessories etc. Either they're polite and say thank you or they give you the stankazz \"bytch please\" look. Whatever... I'm secure & confident in mine..and you never know who's day you are making by giving a small (honest) compliment.<br>3... WTF is the issue w/hair? I watched the Tyra \"good hair\" clip and I was dumbfounded... why can't people agree to disagree w/out the personal attacks... there is no such thing as \"good hair\" or \"nappy\" hair... its either kinky (9 ether) or it aint. I've cut mine from my elbows to my ears... Yeah the men hate it but I love it... and I'm still sexy... What!?? lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:10:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "82f4b50b19719ea4ede3e26359b9d953", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 2, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10173795": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "native Virgin Islander here, i agree what you say about befriending folks from the islands because id say we are way more laid-back, nicer and less uptight than folks from the states. im always so polite to everyone and i always get the side-eye from people thinking im sucking up or being fake but thats just how i am, thats how all my family is to tell the truth. the indian hair thing may have rubbed some people the wrong way but i say do you ma because you are beautiful and confident and noone can take that away  from u. west indian massive", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_18:18:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "sdott313", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10259308": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "\"(knowing it's Hawaiian Silky--BREAK!) \" lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_10:57:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "e93bccb71bbf5168cf8308a66f9ef55a", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10175067, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161518": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "no disrespect but why do people refer to being creole like its a race. its a culture.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:24:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "75af186405d75f4b895768aff27587a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10159557, "depth": 1, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261877": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "fuck.......<br><br>you just made me feel so stupid.  if there's a way to make me fall back, THIS IS IT.<br><br><br>i might have to can part 2 and switch topic.....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:08:03", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10175067, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10164086": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I don't do back and forth. Point taken. You're entitled to your opinion and I'm entitled to mine. I disagreed with her stance that everyone was hating on her looks, you felt that need point out the fact that I stated creole as race instead of culture...a honest error  because I do know the difference and I'm NOT the type of chick who wears the shit like a badge of honor. Good evening to you darling. I'm done with this particular post.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_16:37:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "f5e96b32ff2002a520c393794980d896", "has_been_anonymized": true, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10162691, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10305257": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": ".", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_19:54:41", "killed": false, "user_key": "ZeeABad1", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261369": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "no bitch, i'm Indian. and i'm also puerto rican.   and i'm also west indian.  DO SOMETHING.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:54:28", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157323, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10241915": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "isn't mo cute!! I think we should start a MO needs to calm Xilla's ass down campaign!! lol sike nah just kidding. I wish my hair was nappy though. then my hair would actually lock!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_22:16:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10156857, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10262396": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "at first i wasn't going to because i just wanted to say my peace and keep it moving, but i have been convinced to come in and word-stab people.   smh<br><br><br>can't we all just get a long?   lol sheesh.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:22:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10260897, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10162563": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I am mixed: Black, Japanese and Mexican and my male friends call my hair \"fun hair\" cause it's curly and it's fun to pull the curls and watch them bounce up.  But I take hair for what it is: if it covers your head, it's \"good\" hair.<br><br>More importantly, every time I am out I try to compliment a minimum of three women.  As women we need to love each other and learn to stick together and build one another up.<br><br>Years ago, when in a club, I complimented a girl's braids.  Didn't think anything of it, just, \"Sister, I love your braids - they're gorgeous\" and kept it moving.<br><br>Later that night an old 'friend' decided she wanted to fight me and and her home girls caught me as I was walking to the restroom - alone.  They had me surrounded and I was pretty sure I was going to get beat up in my mini skirt when the girl with braids walked up with her friends and they had my back.<br><br>One little (though sincere) compliment and she was willing to stand up for me.  In the end, no one fought that night... but isn't that what we should be doing for each other?  Complimenting each other?  Standing up for each other?  BEING sisters.<br><br>I don't have to hate you to love myself.  I can love you, too.  In fact, I do.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:50:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "bb3c3b700f238e9671b3df616808f0df", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 7, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10158471": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "uh-oh i can't wait to read these comments.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:53:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "cf8db47e476247e105f4c782eaa456cd", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10254218": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "lol i guess you gotta stick with what works, and you have been proven right, people really thrive off the negativity.  And there's no doubt that there is mad hate but its not gonna go away.  It would have been there whether or not Mo wrote this post so I just don't see the point in giving the haters a platform to air out their dirty shit.  But yea, just for you I'm gonna up my comment game.  Lord knows I got shit to say ;-)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:43:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "adce8cde085a3ceb52c35ff52d717c07", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10253259, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10250636": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Well, I'm on both sides of the fence with this post. I was talked about in school for \"thinking I'm white\".  I'm of a light complexion, hazel eyes, sandy golden-brown hair, and I \"talked white\".  So, I understand where you are coming from.  I had friends of every race you can imagine.  Hell, my first little boyfriend in 6th grade was white, and I can't even see myself with a white man right now (I love the chocolate).  All that being said, I'm a little offended that you are calling us black women kneegrows. I don't understand the point of reducing the race to a body part, and using grow.  Why not just spell it as it should be. Doing that kind of negated your argument in my eyes. Of course there are women who like to bring others down to comisserate with them.  There are also men and women or other races that do the same.  And yes, there is alot or tearing each other down in our community, but guess what: we're not the only race that does it.  Do you all not watch tv? There are so many stories or girls and boys of all races doing the same thing. Jealousy sees no color, but green. <br><br>It is quite obvious from your picture that you have pretty hair, and a lovely complexion. I think maybe if your picture was posted, then it would have made a little more sense. I get that your were trying to give us a visual. Point made.  I think where the problem lied is that you stated you had long natural Indian hair. I had to go back and re-read the description, but I will admit, as I was reading it the first time I was taken aback a smidge. I continued to read the post and thought it was good, and I didn't think about it again until reading this post. I didn't read the comments (which I will probably do after I submit this comment) so I can't really say where those comments were coming from. I just know that when I read it I felt like maybe it was a tad bit overkill.  You had already stated that your hair was long, and natural. At first glance I thought maybe as in not relaxed, but then I realized you were stating as in your real hair. Now I don't know about some people, but usually when giving a self-decription the features that you were not born with are not included. LOL. Correct me if I'm wrong, but if I decribe myself and I have a head full of weave I would just give a description of MY hair or state I have a weave in right now.  Yes, I get that some women do try to pass a weave off, but more often than not, it is detectable. So I think maybe that's possibly the place where the comments were coming from...*shrugs*<br><br>I kind of rambled a bit, but hopefully you get my drift.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_04:51:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "maymajesty", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10399554": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "LMAOOL!!!!<br><br>You seem like a bright girl otherwise Thoney so one would have to conclude that these intermittent bouts of your inability to properly comprehend what you're reading is somehow triggered by your all-consuming thirst to confront The HeadMistress<br><br><br>Go back...<br><br>Start at the beginning of this comment thread... <br><i>(a hint: FanceeFoxx {w/out the pic} 5/30/09 05:41PM)</i><br><br>Take your time and read slowly....<br><br>And just for shits and giggles let us know what you come up with :-D", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-02_17:04:31", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10390594, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10159502": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Love it.  So true... women get so much joy out of finding flaws in other women.  Why do we always see other women as the enemy?  We're always in competition.  Not just about looks either.  <br><br>If another woman has a rich, sucessful, handsome man in her life, instead of being happy for her, what do a lot of women do?  Try to steal him away!  Like it's a competition, and she needs to prove she's better than the woman.<br><br>If a woman is sucessful in her job, there will be other women who try to bring her down, either by actions, exclusion, or by tarnishing her image with gossip.<br><br>If a woman is looking damn good, other women have to nit-pick about each hair out of place, or make negative assumptions about her character based on her outward appearance (i.e. calling her a \"slut,\" or assuming she's an air-head).<br><br>All this negaitvity and hatred is a really UGLY trait.  It shows insecurity and perceived inferiority.  Next time, compliment the girl with the pretty hair or cute shoes, even if it's only thoughts in your head.  Appreciating another woman's beauty or accomplishments instead of trying to tear them down feels good and does wonders for your OWN self-esteem.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_14:24:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "TheLovelyMsRedz", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10248592": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Get emmmmmmmmmmmmm lol<br><br>Oh and thanks for reposting about the \"too wet\" issue.......I learn something new all the time here :)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_01:55:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "MissBeasley", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10244845, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10527123": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I agree wholeheartedly, especially with  \"The comment usually begins..\"that bitch thinks shes......\" What i don't get is why every female doesnt \"think she is_________\" \"<br><br>EXACTLY!!!! <br><br>Damn that's even better than my standard response of \"No bitch, <i>you</i> think I'm ____\"", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-05_13:41:38", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10525127, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260885": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I can hear the teeth sucking and see the neck rolling in your comment.  You feel better now?", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:40:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10241708, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10303204": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "As for as knewgrow women telling you -your skin is too this or that, I'll never believe one knewgrow woman told you that. <br><br>If anything would be the truth: it would be the knewgrow men  that said that. Ain't know doubt he is persuaded to prefer the opposite.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_17:41:15", "killed": false, "user_key": "FanceeFoxx", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10305434": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "She punked you, LMAO", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_20:07:01", "killed": false, "user_key": "ZeeABad1", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10263510, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260897": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Oh ok lol! I was wondering when you were gonna come and respond to some of this mess.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:41:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "ALMiss", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10260502, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10260977": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "first and foremost, I don't consider myself SUPERIOR over anyone.  I'm speaking through my experiences. <br><br>It's fucking hair and bitches hate.  THE END.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:43:29", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10165848, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10157481": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "get em shortie, lol. its way to much girl on girl hate in the black community. yall should all hug eachother......and let me watch, lol.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:21:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "20262582e23a09e4095ae2cbcf230514", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10329003": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Its a problem because you couldnt say you have nice hair, long hair, two-toned hair.  You picked a distription that makes you something other than Black.  What do you say when you talk about your eyes,-chinky, asian.  What about your lips,- black, nigga, dsl.  Start the paragraph with a background of your heritage.  Most of us have something mixed up in us but to be excepted we add some other culture.   Im not saying dont be proud of your other ethnic traits but most people go with what you look like.  You look like you go too the Korean store for hair products like the rest of the women.  Dont take offense, it just hurts when a person doesnt think being Black is not enough.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_20:10:32", "killed": false, "user_key": "ee32884fc0a784f7ffba367672adad39", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261933": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "bitch... i bet you couldn't fit in my jeans.<br><br><br>rewind and try again.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:09:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10241518, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10254608": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "No, no error - just freezes but it's not you it happens no matter what site I'm on", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_09:01:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10254109, "depth": 6, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10253231": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "It is very disheartening...I love my people, all people, but especially mine :-D and it's sad to see us tear each other down over stupid shyt...if we wanna f*ck with people lets f*ck with (in the most loving way of course) those that DON'T have their shyt together, the ones that make us look bad with the way they live and the things they do - inspire them to BE BETTER...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:24:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10248437, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10158517": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Oh and for what it's worth, you do have nice hair...tits too (no homo). Carry on.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_13:54:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "08535cfb909313161111eca5fca2c6da", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161597": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "girl please u and ryan are a mess. u sittin up there posin for pics on the internet in ur draws with ur cousins camera phone in the bathroom at work. and from the looks of things u have some indian weave in ur head.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:26:50", "killed": false, "user_key": "75af186405d75f4b895768aff27587a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10161119, "depth": 2, "points": 2, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10525122": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "tru....cuz, u r soo intelligent", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-05_12:47:05", "killed": false, "user_key": "hazysin", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10166425, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10159557": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I think that issue was not with the women \"hating\" yuck, I hate that term on the fact that you are beautiful and you are. The issue is the fact that your HAIR is one the the first things you mentioned, it was your physical attribute and to be honest it came off a bit braggadocios and it really detracted from the issue at hand. You could have been 300lbs, light skin with 4 teeth, nobody needed a visual for the rest of the blog to be good...which it was. Black women, hell women in general come in ALL shapes and shades of beautiful. Our hair, our complexion, our body, OUR minds...yes our minds are BEAUTIFUL. I think that a lot of the comments might have misconstrued your words, but baby girl, your hair should not DEFINE you. I come for mixed ancestry...a grandmother who was Choctaw and White and a grandfather who was creole, my grandmother was extremely light, by grandfather was damn near blue black, we...their offspring take his genes, I like you have LONG hair but that's not the first thing I'd describe about myself. Does it matter in 2009 what my grandparents heritage is...HELL NO, because when I look in the mirror, when society looks at me, you know what they see...a black woman and that's what people see when they see you. A black woman, a sistah. Everyone was NOT against you sweetie, everyone didn't \"hate\" on you. When women realize that there are things way more important than hair, than a banging body or the latest shoes, than who's hating on you or hair the world would be a much more civilized place.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_14:26:46", "killed": false, "user_key": "eac968be83e0b977485e720798c0c942", "has_been_anonymized": true, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10525127": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I agree with you completely. I've always been a complimentary female. I enjoy seeing people look nice, so if a chick has on some pretty shoes or her hairdo is nice, I've got compliments coming(even if the hair is store bought). My bff say im too damn friendly but i live by the premise that a few nice words could save someone's life.<br> <br>I completely understand where Mo's love for her hair comes from...its long, manageable, and pretty. Why not take pride it what you feel is an outstanding quality? I will never know straight, manageable hair--shit, perms don't even work but unlike %95 of these insecure females...that doesn't cause me to feel certain type of way about someone who does. I have been reading these comment and the shit is ridiculous.....<br><br>...I'm a thick chick and i have experience hate for no reason for the majority of my life for reasons beyond my understand. The comment usually begins..\"that bitch thinks shes......\" What i don't get is why every female doesnt \"think she is_________\" (you can fill in the blanket.) My grandma told me that a woman should always exude confidence even at her lowest moment. To hate on the next chick only shows chinks in your armor.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-05_12:47:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "hazysin", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "5 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157757, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261961": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "feel better now?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:10:10", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10245630, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10253259": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Don't feel censored because of me... but I am going to start writing more negative post to get people to talking again!! because since y'all been all quiet and things... lol nah babes do you!! Speak your mind!!! but i think it was more or less the first commenter who said... I couldn't even get pass the Indian hair... and a lot of the comments on that last blog and a small few on this blog are pure hate!! do you agree?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:25:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10252990, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10254288": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "*Snap Snap*<br>Lol at the titty sweat!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:47:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "adce8cde085a3ceb52c35ff52d717c07", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10175067, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10263510": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "i think u commented under the wrong response, lol. i am totally on ur side.  but i'm looking forward to ur next sexual intellectual post!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_12:53:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "DopeAlicious", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10260977, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161119": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I completely agree with you Ryan J<br><br>Ciao,<br>PrettyDiva83", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:13:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "PrettyDiva83", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157247, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10254304": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "please do, and i'll do the same... Addressing it makes people know you see them for what they really are. Sure it gives them a platform but at the same time it takes away power from the hater. Makes them even more mad. lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_08:48:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10254218, "depth": 3, "points": 1, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "10301422": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "well i cant speak for everyone on here, but to me the first post wasnt a big deal at all. when i read that i thought \"wow that's dumb\" but i didnt dwell on it. you're the one who made it such a big deal when you made ANOTHER post about it. if you're proud of your hair, then wonderful! im happy for you! but you're acting as if females hate on your hair because its something that they should be jealous about; which i highly doubt because anyone who wants indian hair so badly can purchase it.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-30_15:40:38", "killed": false, "user_key": "5cb1e53daedcd3e4ac087b45de8a8cdd", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10262098, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10261488": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "FUCK! I HATE GIRLS TOO.  LOL.   I want to talk about some raunchy shit, just not in a raunchy way.  How can I ignore the bitches just zoning in on some stupid shit like my love for my hair and where my family comes from?<br><br>i keep saying the most redundant thing on this comment section: if i had coarse hair, i would describe myself with coarse hair.  if i had extra long legs, thats how i would describe myself.  if i had a big ol fat ass, i would describe that.  i just have long hair and i LOVE THAT.  smh...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_11:57:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "MarvelousMo", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157757, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10161649": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "preach sista preach!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-28_15:28:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "75af186405d75f4b895768aff27587a6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10157757, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10255601": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "1) Get em Xilla! Ain't said but the site is DOPE and if they ain't hatin it ain't right!! <br>2) Mo do you and shake that DAMN hair!! Most might be mad cause the WIg's & Weave's ran out of #33 Indian Remy 16\". <br>3) We all been hated on all our lives. Thats life. Ain't nothin goin to stop it except ourselves and most chics ain't ready to change the game. Thats fine. Everybody else just needs to be accept its goin to happen and keep it movin. <br>4)Anybody can have any kind of hair they want because of WEAVE. A good perm or press (whateva ya flavor), a wicked weave artist as I say and some remy-indian or chinese....u can shutem DOWN!!! also...hair will always be an issue because it is. Everybody (some more than others)do put effort up there. <br>5) Compliments: They are great but tricky. Its so much shadiness nowadays u neva know what the intentions r and your own perception can be on a different wavelength than the others. It's easier to hate because u end up keepin urself protected. <br>6)Many don't know how to take a compliment-so they don't get em or give em. Thanks and a smile with eye contact then go bout ur biz- FLAWLESS. I compliment if I feel she can handle it. She look (limited eye contact with others, lookin at herself TOO many times) and actin like the world turns for her, she had enough and mine ain't gonna make a difference. But if shes on point and still seems down to earth, yeah a  \"thats dope!\" is in order. <br>IMO, we have our days where we on point like a laser beam and some days ur aim is 300ft off. Thats life,just learn to play the cards and u be aight. <br>7) Every woman has these tendencies. Some groups more than others but its there. That sister stuff is for the birds now. Pick ur lane and stay in it, I'll stay in mine.<br>8) Fellatio: be good at it or get good.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_09:26:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "j_fab", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10267128": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Coming form another Mo, I simply must say it is impossible to generalize in such a manner! You cannot take a couple of people that have an issue with the words \"Indian hair\",and stick it to all \"Kneegrow woman\".  I celebrate when another sister,( not ethnic specific), has her ish together. I must state that women af all races, creeds, and ethnicities HATE!  The issues you are speaking on are not just in young women.  they exist across every age demographic Mo.  Perhaps people wanted you to say beautiful long hair, rather than giving it an ethnic orgin.  However, you wrote what you felt! Thats your right, but its also theirs to have an opinion about it.  True? Any how, in a perfect world we would celebrate each others beauty, differences, whatever, But we don't live in that world!  It is very hard to say you get along or are friends with ppl in a particular group because they have similar thought patterns.  I have lived all over the globe and have friends of all shapes, sizes, and colors.  Its usually its not about what they are, just who they are. Peace and Blessings.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_14:24:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "f0b3b13dd4c598e4550c9581251b7e5a", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10315769": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "HeadMistress: I cannot argue with you. I have never heard sisters telling sisters derogative stuff like this. My bad, I'm sorry about not believing this. <br>Its really shocking to me that sisters talk and think this way. Its cold blooded put down, I can tell you that. <br>I have heard the knegrow man say it so much. It appears that most could careless almost if the woman had a heart inside, all he seem to care for is the outer layer of derma.<br><br>Also, I just bought 10 boxes with 4 disposable douche bottles in it and 15 bottles of powdered chemical douche. I bought 20 bottles of non alcohol deodorant. I don't get infections and one thing for sure I ain't stanking. Need to stop bringing that up cause all you doing making laugh...I ain't mad at you, girlfriend.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-31_11:06:36", "killed": false, "user_key": "b24a24343ce874f83bb2bc4ff54685e1", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 10305336, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10366971": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I didn't read the comments, but as a young black man with green eyes, good hair, and the face of a greek god (some girl told me this and I was lol'ing for a min)... I'd knock you up and make gerber babies with you.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-06-01_18:14:08", "killed": false, "user_key": "0ae88b9ce951341e01398b6e4af60668", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "10245630": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "get over yourself, have u sucked a dick or rubbed your clit this week or what?<br>u got one chance a week to say somethin, don't waste it on nonsense like this!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2009-05-29_01:07:20", "killed": false, "user_key": "yes", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "6 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}}, "integration": {"receiver_url": "", "theme": 1, "reply_position": false, "disqus_logo": false}, "timer": {"timer_url": "http://localhost:8005", "thread_id": "19647424", "user_id": "anonymous", "forum_id": "32271", "hash": 4862671834036489962}, "thread": {"days_alive": 0, "slug": "the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair", "paginate": false, "num_pages": 1, "num_posts": 147, "per_page": 0, "total_posts": 0, "realtime_paused": true, "id": 19647424, "queued": false}, "reactions_limit": 10, "context": {"show_reply": true, "use_fb_connect": false, "forum_facebook_key": "", "use_yahoo": true, "subscribed": false, "use_twitter_signin": true, "use_openid": false, "realtime_speed": 5000}, "reactions_start": 0, "settings": {"debug": false, "disqus_url": "http://disqus.com", "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"}, "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"};
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	this.frames = {};
};

var disqus_popup_reference = null;

if(typeof DsqLocal == 'undefined') {
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}



/**
 * Dsq.Strings: UI strings
 */
Dsq.Strings = new function() {
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	this.SHARE_ON = "Share on";
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	this.SUBSCRIBE_BY_RSS = "Subscribe by RSS";
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	this.REPLY = "Reply";
	this.EDIT = "Edit";
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// Dsq.Strings

/**
 * Dsq.FmtStrings: functions that return interpolated UI strings
 */
Dsq.FmtStrings = new function() {
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	this.SHOWING_COMMENTS_WITHOUT_PAGINATION = function(num) {
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	this.NUMBER_OF_COMMENTS = function(num) {
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	};

	this.NUMBER_OF_POINTS = function(num) {
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			(num == 1
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};
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Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN = '4f0bfca82e06c976a1efdd7c783a5fd0';
Dsq.COMMENTS_RE = /(<li.*?id="?dsq-comment-(\d+)"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*?)(<\/li>)/gim;
Dsq.POST_RE = /(<div.*?id="?dsq-comment-header-(\d+)"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*?)(<\/div>)\s*(<div.*?class="?dsq-comment-body"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*)(<\/div>)/gim;
Dsq.POST_BODY_RE = /\s*(<div.*?id="?dsq-comment-message-(\d+)"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*)(<\/div>)/gim;
// HACK: Safari ends with "-->" while other browsers end with "--&gt;" as expected.
Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE = /&lt;!--\[(.*?)\]--(?:>|&gt;)/gim;



// TODO: It might be faster to use string methods to find all <li (...) </li> blocks and pass to Dsq.PostHandler manually.
Dsq.CommentsHandler = function(str, head, post_id, content, tail, offset, s) {
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};

Dsq.PostHandler = function(str, h_head, post_id, h_content, h_tail, b_head, b_content, b_tail, offset, s) {
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	var append_header = Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader(post_id);
	var prepend_body = Dsq.Templates.preBody(post_id);
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};

Dsq.PostBodyHandler = function(str, head, post_id, content, tail, offset, s) {
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};

Dsq.MediaPostHandler = function(str, args, offset, s) {
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	return '';
};


/**
 * Shorcuts
 */
Dsq.$ = function(element) { return document.getElementById(element); };
Dsq.$b = document.body || document.getElementsByTagName('body')[0];


/**
 * Dsq.Debug: Logging functions.
 */

Dsq.Debug = new function() {this.log=function(s){};this.profile=function(f){if(typeof f == 'function')return f();else return eval(f);};};


/**
 * Dsq.Urls: URL paths
 */
Dsq.Urls = new function() {
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	this.LOGOUT = '/logout/';
	this.REPLY = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair/reply.html';
	this.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE = '/AnonymousUser/';
	this.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR = 'http://media.disqus.com/images/noavatar92.png';
};
// Dsq.Urls

/**
 * Dsq.Validators: Validation for form fields
 */
Dsq.Validators = new function() {
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	this.name = function(name) {
		var error = false;

		if(typeof Dsq.Templates.placeholder !== 'undefined' &&
		   name == Dsq.Templates.placeholder.name) {
			error = true;
		}
		if(name.length <= 1) {
			error = true;
		}

		if(error) {
			return "Please enter a name to comment.";
		} else {
			return true;
		}
	};
	this.email = function(addr) {
		if(Dsq.Validators.VALID_EMAIL_RE.test(addr)) {
			return true;
		} else {
			return "Please enter a valid email to comment.";
		}
	};
	this.url = function(addr) {
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			return true;
		} else {
			return "Please check your website URL (this field is optional).";
		}
	};

	this.validate = function(bulk_validation, failure_callback) {
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			ret = v.validator(v.value);
			if(ret !== true) {
				failure_callback(ret);
				return false;
			}
		}
		return true;
	};
};

/**
 * Dsq.Utils: Generic utility functions.
 */
Dsq.Utils = new function() {
	this.ie = /msie/i.test(navigator.userAgent) && !/opera/i.test(navigator.userAgent);
	this.ie7 = (document.all && !window.opera && window.XMLHttpRequest) ? true : false;
	this.ie6 = (!window.XMLHttpRequest) ? true: false;
	this.webkit = navigator.userAgent.indexOf('AppleWebKit/') >= 0;
	this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache = {};
	this._styleSheet = null;

	this.gebiFromElement = function(el, id, tag) {
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		if(!this.ie) {
			return Dsq.$(id);
		} else {
			var cacheKey = el.id + '-' + tag;
			tag = tag || 'div';
			if(typeof this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey] != 'undefined') {
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			for(var i = 0; i < collection.length; i++) {
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					return collection[i];
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			return null;
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	};

	this.execOnReady = function(func) {
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		try {
			node.doScroll('left');
			func();
			node = null;
		} catch(err) {
			setTimeout(function() { Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(func); }, 10);
		}
	};


	// Courtesy of http://www.quirksmode.org/js/cookies.html
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	};

	this.eraseCookie = function(name) {
		Dsq.Utils.createCookie(name,"",-1);
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	this.deleteNode = function(node) {
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			this.deleteChildren(node);
			if(typeof node.outerHTML != 'undefined') { node.outerHTML = ''; }
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	this.deleteChildren = function(node) {
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				if(childNode.hasChildNodes()) { this.deleteChildren(childNode); }
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	};

	this.findPos = function(obj) {
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		var curtop = 0;
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				curleft += obj.offsetLeft;
				curtop += obj.offsetTop;
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	this.getWindowSize = function() {
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		var windowHeight = -1;

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			windowHeight = window.innerHeight;
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			windowWidth = document.documentElement.clientWidth || document.body.clientWidth;
			windowHeight = document.documentElement.clientHeight || document.body.clientHeight;
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	}

	this.getScrollPos = function() {
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			scrollWidth = document.documentElement.scrollWidth;
			// IE is weird here.  If no doctype is provided, document.body.scrollTop is 0,
			// otherwise document.documentElement.scrollTop is 0.
			scrollTop = document.documentElement.scrollTop || document.body.scrollTop;
		} else if(document.body.scrollTop && document.body.scrollWidth) {
			scrollWidth = document.body.scrollWidth;
			scrollTop = document.body.scrollTop;
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		return [scrollWidth, scrollTop];
	}

	this.addEventListener = function(instance, eventName, listener) {
		var listenerFn = listener;
		if (instance.addEventListener) {
			instance.addEventListener(eventName, listenerFn, false);
		} else if (instance.attachEvent) {
			listenerFn = function() {
				listener(window.event);
			};
			instance.attachEvent("on" + eventName, listenerFn);
		} else {
			throw new Error("Event registration not supported");
		}
		return {
			instance: instance,
			name: eventName,
			listener: listenerFn
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	};

	this.removeEventListener = function(event) {
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		if (instance.removeEventListener) {
			instance.removeEventListener(event.name, event.listener, false);
		} else if (instance.detachEvent) {
			instance.detachEvent("on" + event.name, event.listener);
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	this.fixIframesIE = function(id) {
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		var iframes = disqusThread.getElementsByTagName('iframe');

		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$(id);
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			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-content');
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		for(i = 0; i < iframes.length; i++) {
			if (container) {
				iframes[i].style.width = container.offsetWidth;
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	};

	this.getElementsByClassName = function(oElm, strTagName, strClassName) {
	/* Credit: Jonathan Snook [http://www.snook.ca/jonathan], Robert Nyman [http://www.robertnyman.com] */
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		var arrReturnElements = new Array();
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		var oRegExp = new RegExp("(^|\\s)" + strClassName + "(\\s|$)");
		var oElement;
		for(var i = 0; i < arrElements.length; i++) {
			oElement = arrElements[i];
			if(oRegExp.test(oElement.className)) {
				arrReturnElements.push(oElement);
			}
		}
		return (arrReturnElements);
	};

	this.postToUrl = function(url, post_data, opt_redirect) {
		var form = document.createElement('form');
		var iframe_container = document.createElement('div');
		var id = 'dsq-temp-iframe-' + (new Date()).getTime();

		form.method = 'POST';
		form.action = url;
		if (!opt_redirect) {
			form.target = id;
		}
		iframe_container.innerHTML = '<iframe style="display:none" name="' + id + '" id="' + id + '"></iframe>';

		for(var key in post_data) {
			if(post_data.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var input = document.createElement('input');
				input.name = key;
				input.type = 'hidden';
				input.value = post_data[key];

				form.appendChild(input);
			}
		}

		Dsq.$b.appendChild(iframe_container);
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(form);
		form.submit();
	};

	// Strips integer id from id of element in the form ('some-id-###')
	this.extractId = function(e) {
		var chunks = e.id.split('-');
		if(chunks.length <= 1) {
			return 0;
		} else {
			return parseInt(chunks[chunks.length-1]);
		}
	};

	this.getStyle = function(el, styleProp) {
		if(el.currentStyle) {
			var y = el.currentStyle[styleProp];
		} else if(window.getComputedStyle) {
			var y = document.defaultView.getComputedStyle(el, null).getPropertyValue(styleProp);
		}

		if(y == 'transparent' || y == '') {
			this.getStyle(el.parentNode, styleProp);
		} else {
			return y;
		}
	};

	this.execScript = function(url, append_qs, container) {
		var script = document.createElement('script');
		append_qs = typeof append_qs == 'undefined' ? true : append_qs;
		container = container || Dsq.container;

		if(append_qs) {
			var j = (url.indexOf('?') >= 0) ? '&' : '?';
			url += j + (new Date()).getTime();
		}
		script.type = 'text/javascript';
		script.charset = 'UTF-8';
		script.src = url;
		container.appendChild(script);
		return script;
	};

	this.pluralize = function(num, singular, plural) {
		return (num != 1) ? plural || 's' : singular || '';
	};

	this.getRequestParams = function(queryString /* optional */) {
		var pairs, tuple;
		var params = {};

		queryString = queryString || window.location.search.substring(1);
		pairs = queryString.split('&');

		for (var i = 0, pair; pair = pairs[i]; i++) {
			tuple = pair.split('=');
			params[tuple[0]] = (tuple[1] || true);
		}

		return params;
	};

	this.addCssRule = function(selector, styleText, index) {
		var stylesheet;
		index = index || 0;

		if(!this._styleSheet) {
			var styleEl = document.createElement('style');
			document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(styleEl);
			this._styleSheet = styleEl.sheet;
			if(!this._styleSheet) {
				// IE does not like our newly created stylesheet.
				this._styleSheet = document.styleSheets[document.styleSheets.length-1];
			}
		}
		stylesheet = this._styleSheet;

		if(stylesheet.insertRule) {
			var ruleText = selector + ' { ' + styleText + ' }';
			if(index == -1) {
				index = stylesheet.cssRules.length;
			}
			stylesheet.insertRule(ruleText, index);
		} else if(stylesheet.addRule) {
			stylesheet.addRule(selector, styleText, index);
		}
	};

	this.forEachIn = function(obj, callback) {
		for(var key in obj) {
			if(obj.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				callback(key, obj[key]);
			}
		}
	};

	this._interpolateGlobalContext = {
		// values that get used a lot and are global to the request
		'profile_url': Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE,

		'disqus_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url,
		'media_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url,
		'request_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.username,
		'request_display_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username,
		'forum_name': Dsq.jsonData.forum.name
	};

	this.renderFromContextStack = function(key, contexts) {
		// Returns the first instance of `key` in the array of objects `contexts` or else ''
		for (var i=0; i<contexts.length; i++) {
			if (contexts[i][key] !== undefined) {
				return String(contexts[i][key]);
			}
		}
		throw new Error('key ' + key + ' not found in context');
	};

	var that = this;
	this.interpolate = function(fmt, opt_localContext) {
		// Interpolate `fmt` named-format string with an assumed global context.
		// Based on `interpolate` in django.views.i18n
		var contextStack = [opt_localContext || {}, that._interpolateGlobalContext];
		return fmt.replace(/%\(\w+\)s/g, function(match){
			return that.renderFromContextStack(match.slice(2,-2), contextStack);
		});
	};

	this.stripTags = function(s) {
		// Removes HTML tags from `s`
		return s.replace(/(<([^>]+)>)/g,"");

	};

	this.assert = function(b) {
		if (!b) {
			throw new Error('Assertion error.');
		}
	};

};
// Dsq.Utils

/**
 * Dsq.Popup: Popup helper functions.
 */
Dsq.Popup = new function() {
	this.timeHide = new Array();
	this.timeShow = new Array();
	this.activePopup = {};
	this.profileCache = {};
	this.statusCache = {};

	this.showTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the hide timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeHide[post_id]);

		// start the timer
		if(!Dsq.Popup.profileIsOn && !Dsq.Thread.adminIsOn) {
			this.timeShow[post_id] = setTimeout("Dsq.Popup.popProfile(\"" + post_id + "\")", 400);
		}
	};

	this.hideTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the show timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeShow[post_id]);
	};

	this.updateProfile = function(username) {
		// Callback from /embed/profile.js
		if (this.statusCache[username]) {
			var statusEl = Dsq.$('dsq-profile-status-' + username);
			statusEl.innerHTML = this.statusCache[username];
			statusEl.style.display = 'block';
		}

		if (this.profileCache[username]) {
			var _cache = this.profileCache[username];

			var _genhtml = function(text) { return '<span><big>' + text + '</big></span>'; };
			var _no_comments = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_COMMENTS(_cache.comments_count));
			var _no_likes = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_LIKES(_cache.likes_count));
			var _no_points = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_POINTS(_cache.points));

			var statsEl = Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + username);
			statsEl.innerHTML = '';

			if (Dsq.jsonData.users[username].registered) {
				statsEl.innerHTML = _no_comments + _no_likes;
			}
			statsEl.innerHTML += _no_points;

			var activeSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.active_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.active_sites[i];
				activeSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (activeSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = activeSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = 'This site.';
			}

			var moderatedSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.moderated_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.moderated_sites[i];
				moderatedSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (moderatedSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + username).innerHTML = moderatedSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + username).innerHTML = '';
			}
		}

		// Reposition popup after full HTML is rendered
		if(Dsq.Popup.activePopup && Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el) {
			Dsq.Popup.initPopup(Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.type);
		}

	};

	this.showCookieMsgs = function() {
		var title = '';
		var message = '';
		var numAlerts = 0;

		Dsq.Utils.forEachIn(Dsq.jsonData.cookie_messages, function(k, v) {
			if (!v) return;

			switch(k) {
				// Cookie: Twitter
				case 'post_twitter':
					if (v === 'error') {
						title = 'Twitter Error!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-error">Oops, we couldn\'t tweet this comment. Please check your <a href="http://disqus.com/account/services">account settings</a>.</li>';
					} else {
						var _msg = v.split(':');
						title = 'Tweeted!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-success">Your comment was successfully tweeted. <a href="http://twitter.com/' + _msg[0] + '/status/' + _msg[1] + '">Click here to view the tweet</a>.</li>';
					}
					break;
				// Cookie: Unapproved Post
				case 'post_not_approved':
					title = 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-not-approved">Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.</li>';
					break;
				// Cookie: Profile Found
				case 'post_has_profile':
					title = 'Use your existing commenter profile';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-has-profile">You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a></li>';
					break;
				case 'user_created':
					var _data = v.split(':');
					title = 'Profile created!';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-user-created">You have just created a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, the best way to claim, manage, and track your comments all over the web. \
					<br /><br />A confirmation is being sent to <strong>' + _data[1] + '</strong>. Please check for this email in order to verify your profile. \
					<ul class="dsq-list-tick"> \
						<li>Your username is <strong>' + _data[0] +'</strong>. <a href="http://disqus.com/people/' + _data[0] + '/" target="_blank">Click here to view your public profile</a>.</li> \
						<li>Be sure to set your profile picture, as well as connect your <span class="dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> and <span class="dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> accounts. <a href="http://disqus.com/account/" target="_blank">Click here for account settings</a>.</li> \
					</ul> \
					</li>'
					break;
				default:
					break;
			}
			numAlerts++;
		});

		if(numAlerts > 1) {
			message = '<ul class="dsq-list-bluebullet">' + message;
			message += '</ul>';
			title = 'Thanks for posting!';
		}
		if(numAlerts > 0) {
			if(typeof(disqus_cookie_msgs) == 'function') {
				disqus_cookie_msgs(message, title);
			} else {
				Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
			}
		}
	};

	this.helpBadges = function(post_id) {
		var html = ' \
			<ul class="dsq-popup-help"> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile with a confirmed email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, but has not yet confirmed his or her email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span> is not logged in with any account and has not claimed his or her comments.</li> \
				<li class="dsq-help-otheraccts">Other accounts</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> is using his or her Facebook profile via Facebook Connect.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> is using his or her Twitter profile via Twitter Sign-in.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-openid">OpenID</span> is using his or her OpenID.</li> \
			</ul> \
		';

		this.popModal(html, 'Help: Types of Commenters', post_id);
		return;
	};

	this.permalink = function(post_id) {
		var header = 'Link to this comment';
		var body = '<strong>You are anchored to</strong>:<br />' + document.location.protocol + '//' + document.location.host + document.location.pathname + document.location.search + '#comment-' + post_id;

		this.popModal(body, header, post_id);
	};

	this.login = function(header, body) {
		var h = header || 'Login or Register';
		var b = body || '';
		b += Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: 'dsq-popup-login'});
		b += '</iframe>'; // HACK: Sometimes there is something funky with the IFRAME SRC that causes no end tag
		this.popModal(b, h, null, true, 'dsq-popup-login');
	};

	this.blacklist = function(id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		var title = 'Add to Blacklist';
		var message = ' \
		Adding this person to the blacklist will block him or her from commenting on this site. Check the following types that you would like to add to the blacklist:'
		+ (userData['registered'] ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-username" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-username"><strong>Username</strong>: ' + userData['username'] + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ (_meta.email ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-email" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-email"><strong>Email address</strong>: ' + _meta.email + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ '<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
			<input id="dsq-blacklist-ip" type="checkbox" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-blacklist-ip-warning\').style.display=\'block\'"> \
			<label for="dsq-blacklist-ip"><strong>IP address</strong>: ' + _meta.ip + '</label> \
		</div> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p id="dsq-blacklist-ip-warning" style="display:none">	\
				Note: Blocking this person\'s IP address may also unintentionally prevent others, who share his/her IP address, from commenting on this site. \
				This may include people who are sharing the same computer, living in the same house, or using the same Internet provider. Only block an IP address as a last resort. \
			</p> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p style="text-align:center"><button onclick="Dsq.Post.blockUser(' + id + '); this.disabled=true; this.innerHTML=\'Just one moment...\'">Add to Blacklist</button></p> \
		';

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
	};

	this.remoteAccountSettings = function() {
		var body = '';
		// Set up IFrame.
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/_auth/embed/remote_settings/';
		var attributes = {id: 'dsq-popup-account-settings'};
		if (typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}

		body = Dsq.Templates._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
		this.popModal(body, 'Account Settings', null, true, 'dsq-popup-account-settings');
	};

	this.popModal = function(message, title, post_id, use_listener, extra_classes) {
		var container = document.createElement('div');
		var header, body;

		Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);

		if(typeof(title) == 'undefined') { title = ''; }
		if(typeof(use_listener) == 'undefined') { use_listener = true; }

		if(post_id) {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message-' + post_id;
		} else {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message';
		}

		header = title;
		body = message;

		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupModal(header, body);
		Dsq.Popup.initPopup(container, post_id, 'message', extra_classes);
		if(use_listener) {
			Dsq.Popup.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', Dsq.Popup._closePopup);
		}
	};

	this.popAlert = this.popModal;

	this.loading = function(post_id) {
		var title = Dsq.Strings.JUST_A_MOMENT;
		var body = '<div style="text-align:center; padding: 5px 0 10px 0"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif" alt="" /></div>'
		Dsq.Popup.lightbox(body, title, post_id);
	};

	this.lightbox = function(message, title, post_id) {
		// Wraps Dsq.Popup.popModal

		var overlay = document.createElement('div');
		overlay.id = 'dsq-overlay';
		overlay.className = 'dsq-overlay';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(overlay);
		
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, post_id, false, 'dsq-lightbox');
	};

	this.popProfile = function(post_id, userKey) {
		var post = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id];
		if (post && post.has_been_anonymized) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('This message was anonymized by its previous owner.', 'Anonymized', post_id);
			return;
		}

		if(post_id) {
			userKey = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id].user_key;	
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][userKey];
		var elId = 'dsq-popup-profile-' + userKey;
		var container = document.createElement('div');

		if(this.activePopup.el) {
			this._closePopup(null, true);
			if(this.activePopup.linkClicked) {
				this.activePopup.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		container.id = elId;
		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupProfile(userKey);

		this.initPopup(container, post_id, 'profile');
		this.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._closePopup);

		if(!this.profileCache[userKey]) {
			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/embed/profile.js'
				+ '?username=' + userKey
				+ '&anon=' + (userData['registered'] ? 0 : 1)
				+ '&f=' + Dsq.jsonData['request'].forum);
		} else {
			this.updateProfile(userKey);
		}
	};

	this._closePopup = function(e, force) {
		var activePopup = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el;
		var id = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id;
		var link = 'dsq-avatar-' + id; // HACK: Specific to profile toggle target

		// HACK: This event should be gone if there is no active popup.
		if(!activePopup) {
			return;
		}
		if(force || !Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, activePopup.id)) {
			// TODO: This is breaking iE?
			if(Dsq.Popup.popupListener) {
				Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Popup.popupListener);
			}
			
			// Kill overlay
			var overlay = Dsq.$('dsq-overlay');
			if(overlay) { Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(overlay); }
			
			try {
				Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(activePopup);
			} catch(e) {
				// HACK: IE6 throws an error when using deleteNode() with a node containing a <table> in the html.
				activePopup.parentNode.removeChild(activePopup);
			}
			Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {};
		}

		if(!force && Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Popup.activePopup.linkClicked = true;
		}

	};

	this.initPopup = function(popup, post_id, type, extra_classes) {
		popup.className = 'dsq-popup dsq-popup-' + type + ' ' + (extra_classes ? extra_classes : '');
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6 || Dsq.Utils.ie7) {
			// HACK: We can't modify the body before it's ready, so we need
			//       to use an IE-safe "DOMReady" workaround before loading
			//       our popup.
			Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(function() {Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup); });
		} else {
			Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup);
		}

		popup.style.display = 'block';

		var xPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[0] - popup.offsetWidth) / 2;
		var yPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[1] - popup.offsetHeight) / 2;

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
			yPos += Dsq.Utils.getScrollPos()[1];
		}

		popup.style.left = xPos + 'px';
		popup.style.top = yPos + 'px';

		Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {
			'el' : popup,
			'id' : post_id,
			'type': type,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};
	};

	this.isClicked = function(e, id) {
		var t = e.target || e.srcElement;
		while(t && t.parentNode) {
			if(t.id == id) {
				return true;
			}

			t = t.parentNode;
		}
		return false;
	};
};
// Dsq.Popup

/**
 * Dsq.Templates
 */
Dsq.Templates = new function() {
	/*
	 * Counter keeping track of the number of posts iterated over.
	 */
	this.postLoopCounter = 0;
	this.filters = {};
	this.addPostContainer = 'dsq-post-add';
	this.textareaContainer = 'dsq-post-add';

	this.registerTemplate = function(name, func) {
		this['$$_' + name] = func;

		if(typeof DsqLocal.Filters != 'undefined'
		&& typeof DsqLocal.Filters[name] == 'function') {
			// Push filters to this.filters to unify code.
			this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
			this.filters[name].push(DsqLocal.Filters[name]);
		}

		this[name] = function() {
			var ret;

			if(typeof DsqLocal.Templates != 'undefined'
			&& typeof DsqLocal.Templates[name] == 'function') {
				ret = DsqLocal.Templates[name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(ret === undefined) {
				ret = this['$$_' + name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(this.filters[name]) {
				var args = [ret];

				args.push.apply(args, arguments);
				for(var i = 0; i < this.filters[name].length; i++) {
					ret = this.filters[name][i].apply(this, args);
				}
			}

			return ret;
		};
	};

	this.registerFilter = function(name, func) {
		this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
		this.filters[name].push(func);
	};

	/**
	 * Dsq.Templates.Filters
	 */
	this.Filters = new function() {
		this.commentContainer = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			var classes = [];
			if(Dsq.jsonData.request.page > 1) {
				classes.push('dsq-append');
			}

			//
			// Extra classes used for custom themes
			//

			if(_meta.depth) {
				classes.push('dsq-comment-child', 'dsq-depth-' + _meta.depth, 'dsq-parent-is-' + _meta.parent_post_id);
			}


			//

			if(_meta.author_is_creator) {
				// TODO: We need to deprecate the "special" class since it is not properly prefixed.
				classes.push('special', 'dsq-special');
			}
			if(_meta.author_is_moderator) {
				classes.push('dsq-moderator');
			}
			classes.push(['dsq-odd', 'dsq-even'][Dsq.Templates.postLoopCounter % 2]);

			s = s.substring(0, s.lastIndexOf('>'));
			return s + ' class="dsq-comment ' + classes.join(' ') + '" style="margin-left:' + _meta.depth*30 + 'px">';
		};

		this.commentContent = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			if (_meta.killed) {
				return '<em>Comment removed.</em>';
			} else if (!_meta.approved) {
				return '<em>This comment was flagged for review.</em>';
			}

			s = s.replace(Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE, Dsq.MediaPostHandler);
			return s;
		};
	};

	//
	// Thread
	//
	// TODO: These need to be stripped of all Django template tags.

	this.authPost = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			return '';
		}
		var result = [];
		result = result.concat([
				'<div id="dsq-auth"',
						Dsq.jsonData.integration.reply_position ? 'class="dsq-auth-bottom"' : '',
						'>',
					'<div class="dsq-by">',
						'<a href="http://disqus.com" target="_blank">',
							(Dsq.jsonData.integration.disqus_logo ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/by-disqus.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">') :
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/dsq-button-120x19.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">')
							),
						'</a>',
					'</div>',
					'<div class="dsq-auth-header">',
						'<h3 id="dsq-add-new-comment" class="dsq-h3-addcomment">',
								Dsq.Strings.ADD_NEW_COMMENT,
						'</h3>',
						'<div id="dsq-login">',
						(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated && Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post
								? '<p class="dsq-login-message" id="dsq-login-message">You are commenting as a <a class="dsq-help" title="Click for more information" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Guest</a>. You may select one to log into:</p>'
								: '')
		]);
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			result = result.concat([
							Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
								'<a id="dsq-login-toggle" href="%(disqus_url)s%(login_url)s?next=article:%(thread_id)s" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false"><img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsq-profile-btn.png" title="%(log_into)s" alt="%(log_into)s"/></a>',
								{login_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGIN, thread_id: Dsq.jsonData.thread.id, log_into: Dsq.Strings.LOG_INTO_DISQUS}
								),
							'&nbsp; ',
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ?
								'<div id="dsq-fbc-login" onlogin="DisqusFbcParentController.onLogin()" size="medium" background="light" length="short" style="display:inline; margin-right:7px"></div>' :
								''
							),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-twitter-login" class="dsq-twitter-login" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect();" style="display:inline; cursor: pointer"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/twitter-signin-short.png" style="margin-right:7px" /></div>', {}) : ''),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-openid-login" class="dsq-openid-login" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.requestURL();" style="display:inline; cursor:pointer;"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/openid-login-button.png"/></div>', {}
								) : '')
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
						'</div>', // dsq-login
					'</div>', // dsq-auth-header
					'<div id="dsq-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated" ',
						Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated ? 'style="display:block"' : '',
						'>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-pic">',
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">' +
																			'<img class="dsq-post-avatar" src="%(avatar_url)s" alt="" /></a>',
																			{avatar_url: Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR,
																			url: (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
																					 ? Dsq.jsonData.request.url
																					 : Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE) }),
						'</div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>', {url:Dsq.jsonData.request.url})
										  )
										: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(profile_url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>')
											)
									),
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">',
									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsqicon12.png" alt="%(logged_in_as)s"/>&nbsp',
											{logged_in_as: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username)})
										: ''),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="%(logout_from_disqus)s">',
											{logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN, logout_from_disqus: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('DISQUS')})
										: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'twitter')
												? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using Twitter (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
												 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
												: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'openid')
													 ? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using OpenID (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
													 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
													 : ''
													)
											)
									),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote ? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('<span class="logo-disqus">DISQUS</span>') : ''),
									'</a>',
								'</li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
		]);
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect) {
			result = result.concat([
					'<div id="dsq-fbc-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated">',
						'<div id="dsq-fbc-profilepic" class="dsq-authenticated-pic" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.ProfilePic" size="square" facebook-logo="true"></div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									'Logged in as <span id="dsq-fbc-name" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.Name" linked="true" useyou="false"></span>',
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">using Facebook Connect <a href="#" onclick="javascript:DisqusFbcParentController.logout();return false;">(Logout)</a></li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
				'</div>', // dsq-auth
				'<div id="dsq-toolbar-items">',
				'</div>'
		]);
		result = result.concat([
					//
					//
					//
				((!Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post && !Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) ?
					// Needs to be translated:
					('<p id="dsq-no-anon-msg">Required: Please log into <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> ' +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ? 'or connect with Facebook ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ? 'or sign in with Twitter ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ? 'or sign in using OpenID ' : '') +
					Dsq.Utils.interpolate('to comment on <strong>%(forum_name)s</strong>.</p>')) :
					''
				),
				'<div id="dsq-post-add"></div>',
				'<div style="margin:10px 0">',
				((Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media) ?
						'<a href="#" id="dsq-media-link" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, false, \'media\'); return false">' + Dsq.Strings.USE_MEDIA + ' <small>&#9660;</small></a>' :
						''),
				'</div>'
		]);
		return result.join('');
	};


	this.header = function() {

		var html = '\<h3 id="dsq-comments-count" class="dsq-h3-commentcount">\
	 <span id="dsq-num-posts">147</span> Comments\
	 &nbsp;\
	 <span class="dsq-item-feed">\
	 <a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair/latest.rss"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/bullet-feed.png"></a>\
	 </span>\
	 </h3>\
	 <div id="dsq-options" style="margin:15px 0">\
	 <span class="dsq-item-sort">\
	 Sort by\
	 <select id="dsq-sort-select" onchange="Dsq.Thread.sortBy(this.value);">\
	 <option value="hot" selected="selected">Popular now</option>\
	 <option value="best" >Best Rating</option>\
	 <option value="newest" >Newest first</option>\
	 <option value="oldest" >Oldest first</option>\
	 </select>\
	 &nbsp;\
	 </span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-cp"><a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair/">Community Page</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-subscribe">\
	 <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/email.png" style="width:12px;height:12px;vertical-align:middle">\
	 <span id="dsq-subscribe">\
	 <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a>\
	 </span>\
	 </span>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-alerts">\
	 </div>\
		';

		
			html = Dsq.Templates.authPost() + html;
		

		
		if (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) { 
			html = ' \
			<div class="dsq-alert-message dsq-upgrade-message"> \
				<strong>Disqus upgrade available.</strong> Hi ' + Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username + ', this message is being displayed to you because you are a moderator of this site. <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-upgrade-message\').style.display=\'block\';this.style.display=\'none\';return false">Click here for details.</a> \
				<div style="display:none; margin-top:10px;" id="dsq-upgrade-message"> \
					A new theme is available with added features. <a href="http://disqus.com/comments/settings/' + Dsq.jsonData.forum.url + '/?p=customize">To change your theme, click here</a> and choose the theme Narcissus. \
					If you do not upgrade, you are missing out on features such as: real-time commenting, new sign-in integrations, and an upgrade interface. \
					<strong>This message will automatically go away in one week.</strong> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			' + html; 
		}
		return html;
	};

	this.footer = function() {
		var html = Dsq.Templates.pagination();

		

		html += Dsq.Templates.reactions();

		
			html += Dsq.Templates.trackbacks();
		

		return html;
	};

	this.pagination = function() {
		var html = '';
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) { Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = ''; }
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.thread.paginate) { return ''; }

		//
		// TODO: num_paginator still uses the template tag for pagination, 
		// 		while append_paginator does it all in JavaScript.
		//		This should all be in JavaScript.
		//

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages > 1 && Dsq.jsonData.request.page < Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages) {
			html = ' \<a class="dsq-paginate-append-text" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this); return false">Show more comments...</a>\
	 <button class="dsq-button-small dsq-paginate-append-button" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this);">Load more comments</button>\
			';
		}
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = html;
			return '';
		} else {
			return '<div id="dsq-pagination" class="dsq-pagination">' + html + '</div>';
		}
	};

	this.trackbacks = function() {
		var html = '';

		if(typeof DsqLocal != 'undefined' && DsqLocal.trackback_url && DsqLocal.trackbacks) {
			var trackbacks = DsqLocal.trackbacks;
			var trackback_url = DsqLocal.trackback_url;
		} else {
			var trackbacks = [
			
			
			];
			var trackback_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair/trackback/';
		}

		html += '<div class="dsq-item-trackback">Trackback URL&nbsp;&nbsp;<input class="dsq-trackback-url" onclick="this.select()" readonly="true" value="' + trackback_url + '"></div>';

		if(trackbacks.length) {
			html += '<ul id="dsq-references">'
			for(var i = 0; i < trackbacks.length; i++) {
				var trackback = trackbacks[i];
				html += '<li><cite><a href="' + trackback.author_url + '" rel="nofollow">' + trackback.author_name + '</a></cite> \
						<p class="dsq-meta">' + trackback.date + '</p> \
						<p class="dsq-content">' + trackback.excerpt + '</p></li>';
			}
			html += '</ul>';
			html = '<h3 class="dsq-h3-trackbacks">Trackbacks</h3>' + html;
		}

		return html;
	}

	this.showRetweets = function(id, limit, element_id /* Optional */) {
		var source, html = '';

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			if (reaction.id === id) {
				source = reaction.retweets;
			}
		}

		if (source) {
			if (limit === 0) {
				limit = source.length;
			}

			for (var j = 0; j < limit; j++) {
				var rt = source[j];
				html += '<a href="' + rt.url + '">' + rt.author_name + '</a>'	+ ((j === (limit - 1)) ? '.' : ', ');
			}
		}

		if (element_id === undefined) {
			return html;
		}

		var element = document.getElementById(element_id);
		element.innerHTML = html;
		return element;
	};

	this.showMoreReactions = function(reactions, has_more, start, limit) {
		var link = document.getElementById('dsq-show-more-reactions');
		var container = link.parentNode;
		container.removeChild(link);

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = reactions[i]; i++) {
			var el = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (el) {
				container.innerHTML += el;
			}
		}

		if (has_more) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = start;
			var l = limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			container.innerHTML += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}
	};

	this.generateReactionHTML = function(reaction) {
		if (reaction.body === null || reaction.body == '') {
			return;
		}

		if (reaction.author_name === '') {
			reaction.author_name = '&nbsp;';
		}

		if (reaction.url === '') {
			reaction.url = reaction.get_service_url;
		}

		/* Reaction HTML begins */
		var item = '<li class="dsq-reaction" id="dsq-reaction-' + reaction.id + '">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-header">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-header-avatar">';

		if (reaction.author_url && reaction.author_url !== '') {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="' + reaction.author_url +'">';
		} else {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="#" onclick="return false;">';
		}

		if (reaction.avatar_url && reaction.avatar_url !== '') {
			item += '<img src="' + reaction.avatar_url + '"/>';
		} else {
			item += '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/noavatar32.png"/>';
		}

		var service_icon = (reaction.get_service_name == 'trackback' || reaction.get_service_name == 'pingback' ? 'rss' : reaction.get_service_name.replace(' ', ''));
		item += '<img class="dsq-service-icon" src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/reactions/services/' + service_icon + '.png"/>'
			+ '</a></div>'
			+ '<cite><span>' + reaction.author_name + '</span></cite>'
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"><a class="dsq-header-time">' + reaction.date_created + '</a></span>'
			+ '</div><div class="dsq-reaction-body">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-message">' + reaction.body + '</div>'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-footer">From <a class="dsq-service-name" target="_blank" href="' + reaction.url + '">' + reaction.get_service_name + '</a> '
			+ 'via ' + (reaction.source == 'backtype' ? '<a href="http://backtype.com/">BackType</a>' : '<a href="' + reaction.source_url + '">UberVU</a>')
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator ? '&nbsp;&bull;&nbsp;<a class="dsq-hide-reaction" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Reaction.hide(' + reaction.id + '); return false;">Hide</a>' : '') + '</div></div>';

		if(reaction.retweets) {
			var num_retweets = reaction.retweets.length;
			if (num_retweets > 0) {
				item += '<div class="dsq-reaction-retweets">';
				if (num_retweets == 1) {
					item += 'One more retweet from <a href="' + reaction.retweets[0].url + '">'  + reaction.retweets[0].author_name + '</a>';
				} else {
					item += (num_retweets + ' more retweets from ');

					item += '<span id="dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '">';
					var n_tweets = (num_retweets > 15) ? 15 : num_retweets;
					item += Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(reaction.id, n_tweets);

					if (n_tweets != num_retweets) {
						item += '</span> <a onclick="Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(' + reaction.id + ', 0, \'dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '\');'
							+ 'this.parentNode.removeChild(this); return false;" href="#">Show all</a>';
					}
				}
				item += '</div>';
			}
		}

		item += '</li>'; /* Reaction HTML ends */
		return item;
	};

	this.reactions = function() {
		var html, reaction;

		if (Dsq.jsonData.reactions === undefined || Dsq.jsonData.reactions.length === 0) {
			return '';
		}

		html = '';
		for (var i = 0; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			var item = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (item) {
				html += item;
			}
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.has_more_reactions) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_start;
			var l = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			html += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}

		return '<h3 class="dsq-h3-reactions">Reactions</h3><ul id="dsq-reactions" class="dsq-reactions">' + html + '</ul>';
	};
	
	this.missingPermissions = function() {
		return '';
	};

	//
	// Post
	//

	this.prependPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="comment-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.appendPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="dsq-comment-reply-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.postPrependHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-header-avatar" id="dsq-header-avatar-' + post_id + '" onmouseover="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')"> \
				<a id="dsq-avatar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-avatar" href="' + userData.url + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">'
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.show_avatar
				? '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key].avatar + '" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '</a>'
			+ '</div> \
		';
	};

	this.postAppendHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];

		return ''
			+ (_meta.author_is_moderator
				? '<img class="dsq-mod-star" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/bullet-star.png" title="Moderator" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"> \
				<a id="dsq-time-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-header-time" href="#comment-' + post_id + '" title="Permalink">' + _meta.date + '</a> \
			</span>';
	};

	this.preBody = function(post_id) {
		return '';
	}

	this.postBody = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Deprecate flagging conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		return ''
			+ (_meta.edited
				? '<p class="dsq-editedtxt">(Edited by a moderator)</p>'
				: '')
			;
	};

	this.postFooter = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Use media should be conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		if(_meta.killed) { return ''; }

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-comment-footer" id="dsq-comment-footer-' + post_id + '"> \
				<div id="dsq-points-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-likedtxt">'
				+ (_meta.points
					? _meta.points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(_meta.points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.'
					: '')
				+ '</div>'
				+ '<ul class="dsq-comment-options dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.votable
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first dsq-rate" id="dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id + '">'
					+ (!_meta.up_voted
						? '<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.rate(this, ' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Like</a>'
						: 'You liked this.') + '</li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-report' + (!_meta.votable ? ' dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-post-report-' + post_id + '"><a href="#" class="dsq-post-report" onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + post_id + ', false); return false;">Report</a></li> \
				</ul> \
				<ul class="dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.can_reply
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first"><a href="#" id="dsq-reply-link-' + post_id +'" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleReply(this, ' + post_id +'); return false;">Reply</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ (_meta.can_reply && !_meta.has_replies && _meta.from_request_user
					? '<li id="dsq-edit-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-edit-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="' + (!_meta.can_reply ? 'dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-more-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-more-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'more\'); return false">More <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
				+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media
					? '<li id="dsq-media-el-' + post_id +'" style="display:none"><a id="dsq-media-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'media\'); return false">Use Media <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '</ul>'
				+ '<div id="dsq-reply-bar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar" style="display:none"> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-items-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-items"> \
						</div> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-auth-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-auth"> \
							 \
								 \
								 	<a href="#" class="dsq-help dsq-reply-req-opt" title="You are commenting as a Guest. You may choose to log into an existing DISQUS Profile, your Facebook, Twitter or OpenID account to comment on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Optional:</a> \
								 \
								<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/dsq-favicon-16x16.png" alt="" /> \
								<a id="dsq-reply-login-' + post_id + '" href="http://disqus.com/profile/login/?next=article:19647424" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false">Login</a> \
								 \
								&nbsp;or&nbsp; \
									<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/twitter-signin-icon.png" alt="" /> \
									<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect(); return false">Sign-in</a> \
								 \
								 \
							 \
						</div> \
					</div> \
					<div id="dsq-reply-' + post_id + '"></div> \
			</div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Iframes
	//

	this._makeAttributes = function(attributes) {
		// Makes a tag attributes string out of an object.
		// Caller is responsible for making sure nothing needs to be escaped.
		var result = [];
		for (key in attributes) {
			result.push(' ' + key + '="' + attributes[key] + '"');
		}
		result = result.join('');
		return result;
	};

	this._frameGeneric = function(base_url, params, attributes) {
		if(typeof(disqus_callback_params) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_callback_params = '';
		}

		var default_params = {
			// TODO: These should be moved to Dsq.jsonData.
			'f'				: 'blogxilla',
			't'				: 'the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair',
			// Do we need encodeURIComponent here?
			'ifrs'			: encodeURIComponent(disqus_iframe_css),
			'to_redirect'	: encodeURIComponent(window.location),
			'cbp'			: disqus_callback_params,
			'ff'			: Dsq.Thread.ff,
			'fc'			: Dsq.Thread.fc,
			'ac'			: Dsq.Thread.ac,
			'default_text'	: disqus_default_text
		};

		base_url += '?' + (new Date()).getTime();
		// Add params to default_params.
		if(params) {
			for(var key in params) {
				if(params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					default_params[key] = encodeURIComponent(params[key]);
				}
			}
		}
		// Build querystring.
		for(var key in default_params) {
			if(default_params[key] && default_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				base_url += '&' + key + '=' + default_params[key];
			}
		}

		return [
			'<iframe marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" hspace="0" vspace="0" frameborder="0"',
			(' allowtransparency="true" src="' + base_url + '"'),
			this._makeAttributes(attributes),
			'</iframe>'].join('');
	};

	this.frameLogin = function(opt_attributes) {
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/login.html';
		var attributes = opt_attributes || {};
		attributes['class'] = 'dsq-post-login';

		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameReply = function(post_id, extra_params, attributes) {
		// Returns the HTML for a reply iframe. Called by Dsq.Iframes.setReplyIframeToContainer
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = Dsq.Urls.REPLY;
		var params = {
			'def_email'		: disqus_def_email,
			'def_name'		: disqus_def_name
		};
		if(extra_params) {
			for(var key in extra_params) {
				if(extra_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					params[key] = extra_params[key];
				}
			}
		}
		if(_meta) {
			params['parent_post'] = post_id;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined') {
			params['per_page'] = disqus_per_page;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			attributes['class'] += '-authenticated';
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameEdit = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/edit.html';
		var params = {
			'p' : post_id
		};
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, {'class': 'dsq-post-edit', 'name': 'dsq-edit_' + post_id + '-frame'});
	};

	//
	// Menus
	//

	this.menuMore = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: "Remove post" button should hide menu.
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#comment-' + post_id + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.permalink(' + post_id + ')">Link</a></li> \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Profile</a></li>'
	+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator
		? '	<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>' + (_meta.email ? '<li class="dsq-admin-email">' + _meta.email + '</li>' : '')
		+ '	<li class="dsq-admin-ip">' + _meta.ip + '</li> \
			<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>'
		+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.moderator_can_edit
			? ' <li class="dsq-admin-edit"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit Comment</a></li>'
			: '')
		+ ' <li class="dsq-remove"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.removePost(' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Remove Comment</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-report-spam"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.reportSpam(' + post_id + '); return false;">Mark Spam</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-block-user"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.blacklist(' + post_id + '); return false">Block User</a></li>'
		: '');
	};

	this.menuMedia = function(post_id) {
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(this, ' + post_id + ', \'seesmic\'); return false;">Record video</a></li> \
		';
	};

	this.dropProfile = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};


		var menu = '<li class="dsq-drop-showlnk"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Expand &#8663;</a></li>';
		var pointsMessage = '';
		if (userData['registered']) {
			pointsMessage = 'with ' + userData['points'] + ' points (more points are better).';
		}

		if (userData['is_remote']) {
			var domain = userData['remote_domain_name'];
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' is a ' + domain + ' user ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
			menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-' + domain.toLowerCase() + '">' + domain + '</span></li>';
		} else if (userData['registered']) {
			if (userData['verified']) {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a verified commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span></li>';
			} else {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a registered, but unverified, commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span></li>';
			}
		} else {
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has not claimed this commenter profile." onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()"><span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span></li>';
		}

		menu += _includeServices();
		return menu;
	};

	//
	// Popups
	//

	this._popupGeneric = function(content) {
		return ' \
		<div class="dsq-popup-content"> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-top"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-body" class="clearfix"> \
				<div class="dsq-popup-body-padding"> \
					<div class="dsq-popup-header"> \
						<a class="dsq-close-link" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true); return false"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/modal-close.png" alt="" /></a>'
						+ content['header']
					+ '</div>'
					+ content['body']
					+ '<div class="powered-by"><a href="http://disqus.com/comments/">Powered by <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/disqus-logo.png" alt="Disqus Comments" style="margin-bottom:-5px" /></a></div> \
				</div> <!-- padding --> \
			</div> <!-- body --> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-bottom"></div> \
		</div> \
		';
	};

	this.popupProfile = function(user_key) {
		var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(user_key, null);
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var html = '';
			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == 0
					? '<h4>Connections</h4><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li> \
					<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" title="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" /> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>'
				+ (i+1 == userServices.length ? '</ul>' : '');
			}
			return html;
		};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<table> \
				<tr> \
					<td> \
						<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><img class="dsq-popup-profile-avatar" src="' + userData['avatar'] + '" alt="" /></a> \
					</td> \
					<td> \
						<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user"> \
							<h3>' + userData['display_name'] + '</h3> \
							<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats" id="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + user_key + '">Loading...</div> \
						</div> \
					</td> \
				</tr> \
			</table> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-state"> \
				This is a&nbsp;<span class="'
					+ (userData['registered']
						? (userData['verified']
							? ' dsq-badge-verified'
							: (userData['is_remote']
								? ' dsq-badge-' + userData['remote_domain_name'].toLowerCase()
								: ' dsq-badge-registered')
							)
							: ' dsq-badge-guest') + '">'
			+ (userData['registered']
				? (userData['verified']
					? 'Verified'
					: (userData['is_remote']
						 ? userData['remote_domain_name']
						 : 'Registered')
					)
				: 'Guest')
			+ '</span>&nbsp;commenter profile.'
			+ '&nbsp;<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><strong>View more comments </strong></a>'
			+ (!userData['points']
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice">If this is you, <a href="http://disqus.com/profile" target="_blank">claim it now</a> to manage your comments.</p>'
				: '')
			+ ((userData['registered'] && !userData['verified'] && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username == userData['username'])) && !userData['is_remote'])
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice"><strong>Alert</strong>: You have not verified this account. <a href="http://disqus.com/verify">Verify it now.</a></p>'
				: '')
			+ '</div> \
			<div id="dsq-profile-status-' + user_key + '" class="dsq-popup-profile-status" style="display:none"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-snapshot"> \
				<table> \
					<tr> \
						<td> \
							<div id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Most active sites</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
						<td>'
							+ _includeServices()
							+ '<div id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Moderator of</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
					</tr> \
				</table> \
			</div> \
			';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupReblog = function() {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<cite><span>Reblog this comment</span></cite> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div id="dsq-reblog-form" class="dsq-reblog-form"> \
			</div> \
		';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupModal = function(title, message) {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<h3>' + title + '</h3> \
		';

		bodyHtml = message;

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.alertContent = function(name, post_id) {
		var alert = {
			'post_not_approved': {
				'title': 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator',
				'message': 'Thanks for posting. Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.'
			},
			'post_has_profile': {
				'title': 'Use your existing commenter profile',
				'message': 'You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> commenter profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a>'
			}
		};
		return alert[name] || false;
	};

	//
	// Actions
	//

	this.voted = function(post_id, points, vote) {
		// Update number of points
		Dsq.$('dsq-points-' + post_id).innerHTML = points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.';

		// Update link text
		if(vote) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id).innerHTML = 'You liked this.';
		}
	};

	this.subscribed = function(status) {
		var title, message;

		if(status) {
			title = 'Subscribed!';
			message = 'You have subscribed to this comment thread. New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox, where you may read and respond by email.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(0); return false">Unsubscribe</a> \
			';
		} else {
			title = 'Unsubscribed';
			message = 'You have unsubscribed to this comment thread. New comments will no longer be sent to your email inbox.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a> \
			';
		}

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);

	};
	
	this.highlighted = function() {
		Dsq.Popup.popModal('This comment has been highlighted.', 'Highlighted comment');
	};

	//
	// Media
	//

	this.mediaSeesmic = function(id, thumb) {
		return ' \
			<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_preview" class="dsq-seesmic-preview"><a href="http://www.seesmic.com/video/' + id + '" target="_blank" class="see_link">&nbsp;</a> \
				<div style="display:block;width:160px; height:120px; border:none; background-image:url(http://t.seesmic.com/thumbnail/' + thumb + ')"> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_hide" class="seePlayOverlay" style="display:none;"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',false)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/stopOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_show" class="seePlayOverlay"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',true)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/playOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; border:none; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			<div id="' + id + '_content" style="display:block; width:100%; padding-top:5px"></div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Callbacks
	//

	this.postComment_onSuccess = function(parent_post_id) {
		// Increment post count
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');
		
		if (num_posts) { 
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) { 
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
	};
};
// Dsq.Templates


/**
 * Dsq.Post
 */
Dsq.Post = new function() {
	this.openedMenu = {};
	this.menuEventListener = null;
	this.stateReplyToggled = {};
	this.stateEditToggled = {};
	this.stateRecordLink = {};

	/**
	 * Inserts a new post into the document.
	 *
	 * @param after_id {Number}	Insert a post before specified id.  If after_id
	 *							evaluates to false, then post in the front.  If
	 *							after_id is -1, post at the end.
	 */
	this.insert = function(after_id, id, message, author) {
		// Skeleton template from thread_posts.html.
		var skeleton = ' \
			<li id="dsq-comment-%(id)s"> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-header-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-header"> \
					<cite id="dsq-cite-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-cite"> \
						<a id="dsq-author-user-%(id)s" href="%(author_url)s" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">%(author_name)s</a> \
					</cite> \
				</div> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-body-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-body"> \
					<div id="dsq-comment-message-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-message">%(message)s</div> \
				</div> \
			</li> \
		';
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var _user_meta = Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key];
		var markup = Dsq.Utils.interpolate(skeleton, {
			id: id,
			message: message,
			author_url: _user_meta.blog,
			author_name: _user_meta.display_name
		});
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		markup = markup.replace(Dsq.COMMENTS_RE, Dsq.CommentsHandler);
		div.innerHTML = markup;

		if (after_id === -1) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').appendChild(div);
		} else if (!after_id) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').insertBefore(div, Dsq.$('dsq-comments').firstChild);
		} else if (Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + after_id)) {
			// Get next node after "after_id", so we can insert before it.
			// If "after_id" is the last comment, the target node is the
			// last node.
			
			// var append_post_id = Dsq.Templates.appendPost(after_id).replace('<div id="','').replace('"></div>', '');
			var append_post_id = 'dsq-append-post-' + after_id;
			var node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			while (node = node.nextSibling) {
				if (!node || node.nodeType == 1) { // 1 == Node.ELEMENT_NODE
					break;
				}
			}
			if (!node) {
				node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			}
			node.parentNode.insertBefore(div, node);
		}
	};

	this.incrementPostCount = function() {
		
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');

		if (num_posts) {
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) {
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
	}
	
	this.outlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className += ' dsq-comment-outline';
		setTimeout("(function () { Dsq.Post.clearOutlineComment(" + post_id + ") })()", 3000);
	};
	
	this.clearOutlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className.replace('dsq-comment-outline', '');
	};

	this.showMenu = function(el, id, name) {
		var anchorPos = Dsq.Utils.findPos(el);
		var menu = document.createElement('ul');

		if(this.openedMenu) {
			if(this.openedMenu.linkClicked) {
				this.openedMenu.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		switch(name) {
			case 'more':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMore(id);
				break;
			case 'media':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMedia(id);
				break;
			default:
				break;
		}

		// Add menu to document body
		menu.id = 'dsq-menu-' + id;
		menu.className = 'dsq-menu';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(menu);

		// Position and show
		anchorPos[1] += 15;
		menu.style.left = anchorPos[0] + 'px';
		menu.style.top = anchorPos[1] + 'px';
		menu.style.display = 'block';

		// Set global reference
		this.openedMenu = {
			'el' : menu,
			'id' : id,
			'name' : name,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};

		// Set listener
		this.menuEventListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._hideMenu);
	};

	this._hideMenu = function(e) {
		var el = e.target || e.srcElement;
		var openedMenu = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el;
		var id = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.id;

		if(!id) {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link';
		} else {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link-' + id;
		}

		if(!openedMenu) {
			return;
		}

		if(!Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, openedMenu.id)) {
			openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
			Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Post.menuEventListener);
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(openedMenu);

		} else {
			// Hide the menu if a link was clicked inside the menu.  We can't
			// completely remove the menu until the onclick event on the link
			// fires, but the menuEventListener will prevent multiple menus
			// from polluting the DOM.
			if(el && typeof el.href != 'undefined') {
				openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el = null;
			}
		}

		if(Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Post.openedMenu.linkClicked = true;
		}
	};


	this.getUserServices = function(user_key, id) {
		if(!user_key && id) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
			user_key = _meta.user_key;
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var userServices = [];

		// Keep a full list of supported services. This is the order they will display in the drop-profile.
		// Each service must have a corresponding case in _buildServiceUrl()
		var supportedServices = ['blog', 'twitter', 'facebook', 'tumblr'];

		function _buildServiceUrl(serviceName) {
			var data = userData[serviceName];
			var services = {
				blog:		function(d) { return d; },
				twitter:	function(d) { return d; },
				facebook:	function(d) { return d; },
				tumblr:		function(d) { return 'http://' + d + '.tumblr.com'; }
			};
			return services[serviceName](data);
		}

		for(var i = 0; i < supportedServices.length; i++) {
			if(userData[supportedServices[i]]) {
				var serviceUrl = _buildServiceUrl(supportedServices[i]);
				userServices.push({'name' : supportedServices[i], 'url' : serviceUrl});
			}
		}
		return userServices;
	}

	this.dropProfile = function(id) {
		var dp = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-profile-' + id);

		// IE6 needs JS to display/hide. All other browsers use CSS.
		if(dp) {
			if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) dp.style.display = (dp.style.display == 'inline') ? 'none' : 'inline';
			return false;
		} else {
			dp = document.createElement('ul');
		}

		dp.id = 'dsq-drop-profile-' + id;
		dp.className = 'dsq-drop-profile';

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) { dp.style.display = 'inline'; }

		var container = Dsq.$('dsq-header-avatar-' + id);
		dp.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.dropProfile(id);
		container.appendChild(dp);
	};

	this.dropProfileMore = function(el, id) {
		var hiddenItems = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-hidden-' + id);

		hiddenItems.style.display = 'inline';
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
	};

	this._updateReplyLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "reply / cancel" links based on state.
		var displayDict = {};

		if(id) {
			if(this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				el.innerHTML = 'Cancel';
				displayDict['media'] = 'inline';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'none';
			} else {
				el.innerHTML = 'Reply';
				displayDict['media'] = 'none';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'inline';
			}
		}

		for(var key in displayDict) {
			if(displayDict.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var	linkEl = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-el-' + id),
					spacer = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-spacer-' + id);

				if(linkEl) {
					linkEl.style.display = displayDict[key];
					if(spacer) spacer.style.display = displayDict[key];
				}
			}
		}
	};

	this._updateMediaLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "use media / cancel" links based on state.
		var appendId = (id) ? ('-' + id) : '';
		var link = Dsq.$('dsq-media-link' + appendId);

		if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			link.innerHTML = 'Cancel Media';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(link, id); return false; };
		} else {
			link.innerHTML = 'Use Media <small>&#9660;</small>';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.showMenu(link, id, 'media'); return false; };
		}
	};

	this.toggleReply = function(el, id) {
		// Create reply IFrame
		if (window.disqus_use_postmessage) {
			if (!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				// Create IFrame if it doesn't exist.
				if (!Dsq.frames['reply_' + id]) {
					var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id] = new Dsq.ReplyFrame(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-frame-' + id), id);
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].init();
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].setState(id, _meta.depth);
				}
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
			}
		} else {
			// DEPRECATED
			if(!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				// Reply toolbar
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id), id);
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Iframes.hideAllInContainer(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id));
				if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
					// HACK: Cancel media before canceling self.
					this.toggleMediaReply(Dsq.$('dsq-media-link-' + id), id);
				}
			}
		}

		this.stateReplyToggled[id] = !this.stateReplyToggled[id];
		this._updateReplyLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-reply-' + id); }

		Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED, {
			postId: id,
			opened: this.stateReplyToggled[id]
		});
	};

	this.toggleMediaReply = function(el, id, xtype) {
		id = id || 0;
		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(!this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id, {xtype:xtype}, 'dsq-post-video');
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id);
		}
		this.stateRecordLink[id] = !this.stateRecordLink[id];
		this._updateMediaLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};

	this.edit = function(el, id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id).innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.frameEdit(id);
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-comment-message-' + id); }
	};

    this.rate = function(el, id, vote) {
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_votes) {
			if(vote == 1) {
                Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + id).innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
            }

            Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/vote.js'
                + '?post_id='    + id
                + '&vote='        + vote);

		} else {
			Dsq.Popup.login(Dsq.Strings.TO_RATE_PLEASE_LOG_IN);
		}
    };

	this.report = function(id, confirmed) {
		if(confirmed) {
			Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair/post_report/', {'post_id': id});
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Thank you. This comment has been flagged for moderator attention.', 'Successfully flagged');
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(Dsq.$('dsq-post-report-' + id));
		} else {
			var title = Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT;
			var message = Dsq.Strings.ARE_YOU_SURE_YOU_WOULD_LIKE_TO_REPORT_THIS_COMMENT_TO_A_MODERATOR + '? \
			<br /><br /> \
			<button onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true)"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.NO + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.NEVER_MIND + '</button>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<button onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + id + ', true);"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.YES + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT + '</button><br /><br />'
			+ Dsq.Strings.THIS_WILL_FLAG_COMMENTS_FOR_MODERATORS_TO_TAKE_ACTION + '. \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, id);
		}
	};



	this.showAlert = function(id, msg) {
		var msgEl = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id);
		var alert = '<div class="dsq-comment-alert">' + msg + '</div>';

		msgEl.innerHTML = alert + msgEl.innerHTML;
	};

};
// Dsq.Post


/**
 * Dsq.Thread
 */
Dsq.Thread = new function() {
	this.fc = null;
	this.ff = null;
	this.ac = null;

	
	this.adminIsOn = false;

	
	
	

	this.hlComment = null;
	this.hlCommentClass = null;

	this.getNextComment = function(el) {
		var start_id = el.id;
		while(el = el.nextSibling) {
			if(el.id && el.id.indexOf('dsq-comment-') != -1 && el.id != start_id) {
				return el;
			}
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.getActiveCommentId = function() {
		if (document.URL.indexOf('#comment-') >= 0) {
			var anchor = document.URL.slice(document.URL.indexOf('#') + 1);
			return anchor.replace('comment-', '');
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.highlightAnchor = function() {
		var i = this.getActiveCommentId();
		if (i == null) return false;
		var id = 'dsq-comment-' + i;
		var hash = window.location.hash;

		// Toggle the hash incase the comment isn't available when the page loads
		// for WebKit-based browsers.
		if (Dsq.Utils.webkit) {
			window.location.hash = '';
			window.location.hash = hash;
		}

		this.hlComment = Dsq.$(id);
		// Adding this conditional guard pending #289
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlCommentClass = this.hlComment.className;
		this.hlComment.className += ' dsq-hl-anchor';

		setTimeout("Dsq.Thread.highlightClear()", 3000);
	};

	this.highlightClear = function() {
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlComment.className = this.hlCommentClass;
	};

	this.login = function(toggle) {
		// toggle id is #dsq-reply-login-[id]
		var postId;
		if(toggle.id.indexOf('dsq-reply-login') != -1) {
			postId = toggle.id.slice(16);
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + postId);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(toggle) {
			if(toggle.className == 'dsq-login-active') {
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(container, postId);
				toggle.className = '';
			} else {
				Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
				toggle.className = 'dsq-login-active';
			}
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
		}

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};


	this.paginate = function(page, el_clicked, per_page) {
		// Use extra_params to pass any override parameters that we need to persist.
		var extra_params = '';

		// "Per page" can either be overriden by providing it as an argument
		// (per-call) or setting the disqus_per_page override variable (global).
		if(typeof per_page == 'undefined') {
			per_page = null;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined' && per_page === null) {
			per_page = disqus_per_page;
		}

		if(typeof disqus_sort != 'undefined') {
			extra_params += '&sort=' + disqus_sort;
		}
		if(per_page !== null) {
			extra_params += '&per_page=' + per_page;
		}

		Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML += '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
		
		if(el_clicked) {
			el_clicked.style.display = 'none';
		}
		
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ 'the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair'
			+ '&p='		+ page
			+ extra_params);
	};

	this.sortBy = function(sort) {
		var disqus_script = document.createElement('script');
		var disqus_date = new Date();

		if (location.hash != '') {
			location.hash = '#disqus_thread';
		}

		if(typeof(disqus_url) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_url = disqus_href;
		}
		disqus_script.type = 'text/javascript';
		disqus_script.src = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ 'the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair'
			+ '&sort='	+ sort
			+ '&title='
			+ '&'		+ disqus_date.getTime();

		Dsq.$('dsq-comments').innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif">';
		Dsq.container.appendChild(disqus_script);
	};

	this.subscribe = function(status, email) {
		// `status` is an int -- 1 to subscribe, 0 to unsubscribe
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || email) {
			// If authenticated user OR anonymous email provided

			if(email) {
				Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);
			}

			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/subscribe.js'
				+'?status=' 	+ status
				+ '&slug='		+ 'the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair'
				+ '&email=' 	+ encodeURIComponent(email));

		} else if(!email) {
			// If anonymous user and no email has been provided yet, prompt for email

			var title = 'Subscribe to this comment thread';
			var message = ' \
				New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox! \
				<div class="dsq-subscribe-submit"> \
					<p><strong>Enter your email address below.</strong></p> \
					<input type="text" id="dsq-subscribe-email"> \
					<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1, Dsq.$(\'dsq-subscribe-email\').value)">Subscribe</button> \
				</div> \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
		}
	};

	this.showSettings = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) {
			return;
		}

		/* The form has to be re-designed when more options will come out. */
		var html = 'Automatically close comments after <input size="3" id="dsq-thread-days-alive" value="' + Dsq.jsonData.thread.days_alive + '" type="text" /> days. Existing comments will still be displayed.<br /><br />(Using 0 days will disable this feature)<br /><br />'
								 + '<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.updateDaysAlive();" class="dsq-button-small"><span>Save</span></button>'
								 + '<span id="dsq-thread-settings-status" class="dsq-options-status"></span>';
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(html, 'Settings');
	};

	this.updateDaysAlive = function() {
		var days = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-days-alive').value;
		var status = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-settings-status');
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/update_days_alive.js', {days:days,thread:Dsq.jsonData.thread.id});
		status.innerHTML = 'Saved!';
		window.setTimeout(function() { status.innerHTML = ''; }, 1000);
	};
};
// Dsq.Thread

Dsq.Events = function() {
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var handlers = {};
	var getHandlers = function(event) {
		if (handlers[event] === undefined) {
			handlers[event] = [];
		}
		return handlers[event];
	};

	// Public
	// Value keys : postId, node, xtype
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED = 1;
	// Value keys : postId, opened
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED = 2;
	obj.fire = function(event, opt_value) {
		if (!event) {
			throw new Error('Unknown event');
		}
		var value = opt_value || {};
		for (var i=0; i<getHandlers(event).length; i++) {
			getHandlers(event)[i](value);
		}
	};
	obj.addHandler = function(event, callback) {
		getHandlers(event).push(callback);
	};

	return obj;
}();

/**
 * Dsq.Realtime
 */
Dsq.Realtime = new function() {
	var initialized = false;
	var interval = null;
	var last_checked = Dsq.jsonData.request.timestamp;
	var new_posts = [];
	var ongoing_request = false;
	var prev_script = null;

	function updateNewPostCount() {
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-alert').style.display = new_posts.length ? 'block' : 'none';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-queued').innerHTML = new_posts.length
		+ ' new '
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, 'comment', 'comments')
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, ' was', ' were')
		+ ' just posted.';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.SHOW + ')';
	}

	function insertNewPosts() {
		var post_id = null;
		var after_id = Dsq.$('dsq-sort-select').value === 'oldest' ? -1 : null;

		for (var i=0; i<new_posts.length; i++) {
			post_id = new_posts[i];
			Dsq.Post.insert(after_id, post_id, Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id].message);
			Dsq.Post.incrementPostCount();
			Dsq.Post.outlineComment(post_id);
		}
		new_posts = [];
	}

	this.enableInterval = function() {
		interval = setInterval(Dsq.Realtime.check, Dsq.jsonData.context.realtime_speed);
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.ENABLED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.PAUSE + ')';
	}

	this.disableInterval = function() {
		if (interval) {
			clearInterval(interval);
			interval = null;
		}
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.PAUSED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.RESUME + ')';
	}

	this.toggleInterval = function() {
		if (!interval) {
			Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
		} else {
			Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
		}
		return false;
	}

	this.initialize = function() {
		if (!initialized) {
			initialized = true;
			Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').onclick = this.toggleInterval;
			if (!Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').onclick = this.show;
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
			if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.realtime_paused) {
				Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
			} else {
				Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
			}
		}
	}

	this.show = function() {
		insertNewPosts();
		updateNewPostCount();
		return false;
	}

	this.check = function() {
		if (!ongoing_request && Dsq.jsonData.realtime_enabled) {
			if (prev_script) {
				prev_script.parentNode.removeChild(prev_script);
			}
			ongoing_request = true;
			prev_script = Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/19647424/realtime.js?timestamp=' + last_checked);
		}
	};

	this.update = function(timestamp, posts, users) {
		ongoing_request = false;
		last_checked = timestamp;

		if (users) {
			for (var user_id in users) {
				if (users.hasOwnProperty(user_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id] = users[user_id];
					}
				}
			}
		}

		if (posts) {
			for (var post_id in posts) {
				if (posts.hasOwnProperty(post_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] = posts[post_id];
						new_posts.push(post_id);
					}
				}
			}

			if (Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				insertNewPosts();
			} else {
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
		}
	};

}();

// DEPRECATED
Dsq.Iframes = function() {
	// Different style of object from the above. Hoping to switch to this for some reason.
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var showIframeInContainer = function(container, id, markup) {
		// Look through container for iframes, hiding them, except show one that matches id
		// If none of them matched id, create a new iframe using markup and insert it.
		// Returns the iframe node if and only if it was newly created.
		var found = false;
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				if (child.id == id) {
					child.style.display = 'block';
					found = true;
				} else {
					child.style.display = 'none';
				}
			}
		}
		if (found) {
			return;
		}
		// The iframe wasn't found, so construct it and add it to the container.
		// Don't use innerHTML because it might reload iframes
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		div.innerHTML = markup;
		var iframe = div.childNodes[0];
		div.removeChild(iframe);
		container.appendChild(iframe);
		return iframe;
	};

	// Public
	obj.makeReplyIframeId = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var id = 'dsq-post-add-iframe';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			id += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			id += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return id;
	};
	obj.makeLoginIframeId = function(opt_postId) {
		if (!opt_postId) {
			return 'dsq-login-iframe';
		}
		return 'dsq-login-iframe-' + opt_postId;
	};
	obj.makeReplyIframeName = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var name = 'dsq-reply-frame';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			name += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			name += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return name;
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId, opt_extraParams, opt_className) {
		// Construct the id so we can check if it's already present.
		// Hide any other iframes we find, and show this one if it's found.
		var params = opt_extraParams || {};
		// use xtype in the id and name so we can distinguish media replies from text replies:
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeId(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var name = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeName(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var attributes = {
			'id': id,
			'name': name,
			'class': opt_className || 'dsq-post-reply'
			};
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameReply(opt_postId, opt_extraParams, attributes);
		var iframe = showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
		// It was newly created
		if (iframe) {
			Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED, {
				postId: opt_postId,
				node: iframe,
				xtype: params.xtype
			});
		}
	};
	obj.showLoginIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId) {
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeLoginIframeId(opt_postId);
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: id});
		showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed = function(container, opt_postId) {
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			obj.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, opt_postId);
		} else {
			obj.hideAllInContainer(container);
		}
	};
	obj.hideAllInContainer = function(container) {
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				child.style.display = 'none';
			}
		}
	};

	return obj;
}();

Dsq.Twitter = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startTwitterConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._twitterWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/twitter/begin/', 'twitterWindow', popupParams);
		that._twitterInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeTwitterConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeTwitterConnect = function() {
		if (that._twitterWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._twitterInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Yahoo = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startYahooConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._yahooWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/yahoo/begin/', 'yahooWindow', popupParams);
		that._yahooInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeYahooConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeYahooConnect = function() {
		if (that._yahooWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._yahooInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.OpenID = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.requestURL = function() {
		var message = '<table class="dsq-openid-form"><tr><td style="vertical-align:top;" rowspan="2"><img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url + '/images/openid-icon-100x100.png" /></td>';
		message += '<td><label for="dsq-openid-url">OpenID URL:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-url" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td><label for="dsq-openid-username">Display name:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-username" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td class="dsq-openid-submit" colspan="3"><input type="button" value="Sign in" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.startConnect();" /></td></tr>';
		message += "</table>";

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, 'Sign in using OpenID');
	};

	this.startConnect = function() {
		var isblank = function(str) {
			return /^\s*$/.test(str);
		};

		var openid_url = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-url').value;
		var username = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-username').value;

		if (isblank(openid_url)) {
			return;
		}

		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=500';
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/openid/begin/' + '?url=' + encodeURIComponent(openid_url) + '&username=' + encodeURIComponent(username);
		that._openidWindow = window.open(url, 'openidWindow', popupParams);
		that._openidInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeConnect = function() {
		if (that._openidWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._openidInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Reaction = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.hide = function(id) {
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/hidereaction.js?' + 'reaction_id=' + id);
	};

	this.reportMissingReactions = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || !Dsq.jsonData.forum.reactions_enabled) {
			return;
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.queued) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Your report has been received. The system will automatically search for new reactions; if any are found, they will be displayed on this comment thread.<br/><br/>Thank&nbsp;you.',
												 'Reported missing reactions');
			return;
		}

		Dsq.Utils.execScript(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/forums/blogxilla/queueurl.js');
	};
};

Dsq.CNN = function() {
	var obj = {};

	obj.authenticate = function() {
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + "/saml/cnn/try/";
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl(url, {'target': document.location}, true);
	};

	return obj;
}();


if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
	(function() {
		DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE = /<div class="dsq-header-avatar"(.*?)>/gim;
		Dsq.Templates.registerFilter('postPrependHeader', function(html, post_id) {
			// Add "onmouseout" for dsq-header-avatar for dropProfile
			// functionality since IE6 cannot use :hover.
			function _headerAvatarReplace(content, inner, _unused, html) {
				return '<div class="dsq-header-avatar" '
					+ inner
					+ ' onmouseout="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')">';
			}
			html = html.replace(DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE, _headerAvatarReplace);
			return html;
		});
	})();
}









(function() {
	//
	// Load theme.  This overrides the base templates with template functions
	// from the respective themes.
	//
	if (Dsq.jsonData.integration.theme == 4) {
		var theme = 'narcissus';
		// HACK: Set variable on window to use post message.
		window.disqus_use_postmessage = true;

		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Themes[theme]) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Templates[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Post) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Post[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
	}

	//
	// Register templates.  This must be done after all themes are loaded.
	//
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('authPost', Dsq.Templates.authPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('header', Dsq.Templates.header);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('footer', Dsq.Templates.footer);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('trackbacks', Dsq.Templates.trackbacks);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('reactions', Dsq.Templates.reactions);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('prependPost', Dsq.Templates.prependPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('appendPost', Dsq.Templates.appendPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postPrependHeader', Dsq.Templates.postPrependHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postAppendHeader', Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('preBody', Dsq.Templates.preBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBody', Dsq.Templates.postBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postFooter', Dsq.Templates.postFooter);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('_popupGeneric', Dsq.Templates._popupGeneric);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('voted', Dsq.Templates.voted);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('popupProfile', Dsq.Templates.popupProfile);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBox', Dsq.Templates.postBox);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('pagination', Dsq.Templates.pagination);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postComment_onSuccess', Dsq.Templates.postComment_onSuccess);

})();

Dsq.container.className = "clearfix";
Dsq.container.innerHTML = ' \
<ul id="dsq-comments">\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10162563">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10162563" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10162563" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10162563">mia.</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10162563" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10162563" class="dsq-comment-message">I am mixed: Black, Japanese and Mexican and my male friends call my hair "fun hair" cause it\'s curly and it\'s fun to pull the curls and watch them bounce up.  But I take hair for what it is: if it covers your head, it\'s "good" hair.<br><br>More importantly, every time I am out I try to compliment a minimum of three women.  As women we need to love each other and learn to stick together and build one another up.<br><br>Years ago, when in a club, I complimented a girl\'s braids.  Didn\'t think anything of it, just, "Sister, I love your braids - they\'re gorgeous" and kept it moving.<br><br>Later that night an old \'friend\' decided she wanted to fight me and and her home girls caught me as I was walking to the restroom - alone.  They had me surrounded and I was pretty sure I was going to get beat up in my mini skirt when the girl with braids walked up with her friends and they had my back.<br><br>One little (though sincere) compliment and she was willing to stand up for me.  In the end, no one fought that night... but isn\'t that what we should be doing for each other?  Complimenting each other?  Standing up for each other?  BEING sisters.<br><br>I don\'t have to hate you to love myself.  I can love you, too.  In fact, I do.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10157247">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10157247" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10157247" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10157247">Ryan J</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10157247" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157247" class="dsq-comment-message">LMAO at Indian Hair, girl Bye. You look like your grandparents are from the southside of Chicago, lol! Anyway you and your Indian Hair can go have a seat in the corner because no one gives a fuck. And for the ones that care about someone saying they have Indian Hair is just as lame as you.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10261789">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10261789" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261789" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261789" href="http://andhernameismissp.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Miss_P</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261789" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261789" class="dsq-comment-message">not only did you not take the time to realize what she\'s talking bout, but now you wanna dis chicagoans? boy, bye! seems like you\'re the one who needs to go take a seat in the corner some where!</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10260599">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10260599" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260599" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260599" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10260599" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260599" class="dsq-comment-message">Ryan J,<br><br>You\'re just bitter about Prop 8 and need to vent at people on the internet.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10305296">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10305296" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10305296" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10305296" href="http://www.myspace.com/zenabena" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ZeeABad1</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10305296" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10305296" class="dsq-comment-message">hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahah <br><br>Woah,  Taking a Deeeep Breath.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10161119">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10161119" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10161119" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10161119">PrettyDiva83</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10161119" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161119" class="dsq-comment-message">I completely agree with you Ryan J<br><br>Ciao,<br>PrettyDiva83</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10161597">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10161597" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10161597" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10161597">tanini</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10161597" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161597" class="dsq-comment-message">girl please u and ryan are a mess. u sittin up there posin for pics on the internet in ur draws with ur cousins camera phone in the bathroom at work. and from the looks of things u have some indian weave in ur head.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10161962">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10161962" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10161962" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10161962">PrettyDiva83</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10161962" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161962" class="dsq-comment-message">I never said this wasnt indian hair silly, she did. And last time I checked I can pose in whatever clothing I please and take pictures. Why are you so upset??? lol<br><br>Ciao,<br>PrettyDiva83</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10162757">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10162757" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10162757" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10162757">tanini</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10162757" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10162757" class="dsq-comment-message">no one is angry honey. im far from angry.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10162995">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10162995" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10162995" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10162995" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10162995" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10162995" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m upset.... not because of what you said but rather is that i don\'t have a full sized image of this picture... i need one. lol</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10174841">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10174841" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10174841" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10174841">PrettyDiva83</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10174841" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10174841" class="dsq-comment-message">Dont worry, I got you xilla ......... ;-) (lol)<br><br>Ciao,<br>PrettyDiva83</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10241823">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10241823" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10241823" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10241823" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10241823" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10241823" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'ll be waiting! lol</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10164381">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10164381" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10164381" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10164381">raevanaa</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10164381" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10164381" class="dsq-comment-message">on the last post, i was the first person to voice my issue with you mentioning that you had "indian hair."  you noted that you have "indian" hair like its something to feel superior about.  it isn\'t an issue of having women hate on you, its an issue of highlighting your non-black traits as though they are more valuable to you than your black traits.<br><br>i\'ll be the first to say, you have beautiful hair.  but why does it have to be indian unless you bought it and that\'s the brand name on the pack?</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10303198">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10303198" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10303198" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10303198">mindyours</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10303198" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10303198" class="dsq-comment-message">I totally agree!<br><br>As a dark, fine, talented, proud American NEGRO(E), with hair "like" yours , I really can\'t say much more to Mo. Mo your issues are too deep for us to re-hatch here in this damn blog. Nice hair, but its not all that. Nappy hair is great, your hair is great who cares. You just mad because you thought you were going to get away with that sad wanna be dig as us NEGROES and you got called out on it. Get a grip lady, if you like to give head talk about head. Hair was not the topic at hand.<br>I love my black american friends and if you haven\'t been blessed to befriend one of us, I\'m sad for u. :)</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-10307174">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10307174" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10307174" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10307174">raevanaa</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10307174" class="dsq-comment-message">My thing was, if it was a matter of her emphasizing her heritage, why not refer to herself as having part-Indian ancestry?  Maybe it would have come across a lot differently.  Singling out her "Indian hair" made her sound like a "1986-I-got-cherokee-in-my-family-check-out-my-baby-hair" false claimer and that\'s why I posted the comment about not being able to get past her Indian hair comment.  It just sounded real ignorant and, for the lack of a better word, coonish to me.  Then she acted oblivious to the fact that African-Americans have been false claiming all sorts of ethnicities for so many years to downplay their black attributes (My grandma\'s sister baby daddy cousin is white, dats why I got dis white people hair) - THAT\'S why so many people felt the need to call her out on it.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10163912" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10163912">ChinyereCouture</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10163912" class="dsq-comment-message">You ignored the problem...people were heated that you felt the need to capatalize INDIAN and make it stand out as if it were better or set apart from the majority of the black population\'s hair. IS is REALLY NECCESSARY to make an entire post in something that was over a week ago? You just brought it back up, and get ready for the backlash.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10241858" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10241858" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10241858" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10241858" class="dsq-comment-message">well i only hired her to write once a week... lol so she had this on reserve. lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260772" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260772" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260772" class="dsq-comment-message">If I had very coarse hair, I would have emphasized that.  If I had extra long legs, i would emphasize that as well.  Bitches on this blog are acting like I got blue contacts  in my eyes and Lil Kim weaves and shit talking about I\'m White. Fuck outta here with that bull. <br><br> And Guess what, I contribute my thoughts to this site ONCE A WEEK. So yes, I\'m bringing this up.  PROL\'EM?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10160992" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10160992" href="http://twitter.com/enolatraven" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ETR</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10160992" class="dsq-comment-message">M~Mo... <br>I need to go read ur post on head bobbing... but to touch on a few subjects here: 1. I\'m similar to u in build/complexion/etc (5\'8" 125lbs)... difference is my mom is Black/Niitsítapi & my dad is Black/Tsa-la-gi/White.. (Native American)  Why is it that people want to argue my down when I tell them I\'m Black?  "Good hair" and "pretty skin" does not mean you can\'t be Black. I\'m Black, my parents are Black... my kids are Black "Oooh, look at that pretty little half-Black baby"  STFU.<br>2.  I\'m quick to tell a sister (or a brother) that I like their look/accessories etc. Either they\'re polite and say thank you or they give you the stankazz "bytch please" look. Whatever... I\'m secure & confident in mine..and you never know who\'s day you are making by giving a small (honest) compliment.<br>3... WTF is the issue w/hair? I watched the Tyra "good hair" clip and I was dumbfounded... why can\'t people agree to disagree w/out the personal attacks... there is no such thing as "good hair" or "nappy" hair... its either kinky (9 ether) or it aint. I\'ve cut mine from my elbows to my ears... Yeah the men hate it but I love it... and I\'m still sexy... What!?? lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261605" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261605" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261605" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261605" class="dsq-comment-message">ETR...<br><br>you are the ONLYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY person that gets this shit on my level.   got damn it, i\'m not a martian after all. lol<br><br>you are my fav commenter right now.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10321013" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10321013">Amber</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10321013" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10321013" class="dsq-comment-message">It\'s just so crazy (kind of refreshing, sorry) for me to hear that i was not the only that had problems/insecurities growing up...now i have regular black people hair my parents are black and i\'m pure chocolate but i can\'t lie and say i wasn\'t a bit insecure for a while because it did seem like the dudes would for the light skin chick or the chicks that were exotic with the "indian" hair but to hear/read that everyone had their own issues makes me feel kinda not so alone about it anymore...i think some people let those insecurities though permeate and manifest into their adult lives and then become overly touchy/sensitve when hearing about other women that have a feature that was seen as "superior" in comparison to their "inferior" feature (i.e. hair, skin tone, speech patterns, etc.)</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10252990" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10252990">Monz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10252990" class="dsq-comment-message">.....Lord.  I really wasn\'t going to comment especially because of the number of people who commented, but I felt I had to say my piece, especially since I\'m one of the girls who commented on the first post.<br><br>First of all, when i made that comment about your hair, it really wasn\'t that serious.  i wrote one sentence, in essence rolling my eyes at your statement and then proceeded to write a whole paragraph AGREEING WITH YOU.  I like to suck dick too.  it\'s a beautiful thing.  if you noticed, i even put a little smiley face after describing my afro to show "hey its all good, more or less a joke"<br>and then you proceeded to write like three paragraphs cursing me out for making that comment about your hair.  I could have responded then, but i didn\'t want to prove Xilla right cuz he\'s always saying women feed off negativity.  i dont. so i let it be.  then you wrote this post all about your hair, and i\'m not gonna delve into the issue because there 60 other comments doing that, but i will say that when you said ppl have been giving you shit about your hair all your life, in my mind that translates into when you were a child and now your so used to it you expect it.  I ALWAYS give props to chicks who are doing their thizzle, whether its a tight weave, a tight perm or a tight natural, or even an outfit or whateva. your comment just came off kinda rude which is why i said something.  <br><br>Bottom line, i think you took it way more serious than it was which I personally feel (so don\'t get mad at me for this one) is a personal issue that stems from you being so used to getting shit about your hair that you feel the need to STRONGLY defend yourself.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10253259" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10253259" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10253259" class="dsq-comment-message">Don\'t feel censored because of me... but I am going to start writing more negative post to get people to talking again!! because since y\'all been all quiet and things... lol nah babes do you!! Speak your mind!!! but i think it was more or less the first commenter who said... I couldn\'t even get pass the Indian hair... and a lot of the comments on that last blog and a small few on this blog are pure hate!! do you agree?</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10254218" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10254218" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10254218">Monz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10254218" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254218" class="dsq-comment-message">lol i guess you gotta stick with what works, and you have been proven right, people really thrive off the negativity.  And there\'s no doubt that there is mad hate but its not gonna go away.  It would have been there whether or not Mo wrote this post so I just don\'t see the point in giving the haters a platform to air out their dirty shit.  But yea, just for you I\'m gonna up my comment game.  Lord knows I got shit to say ;-)</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10254304" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10254304" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10254304" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10254304" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254304" class="dsq-comment-message">please do, and i\'ll do the same... Addressing it makes people know you see them for what they really are. Sure it gives them a platform but at the same time it takes away power from the hater. Makes them even more mad. lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10254514" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10254514">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10254514" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254514" class="dsq-comment-message">Exactly!!!<br><br>Hopefully it\'ll just make them STFU and keep their negativity to themselves</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10254459" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10254459">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10254459" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254459" class="dsq-comment-message">Great point about coming to expect certain treatment because you\'ve received it all your life - that is very true and it may not be hair or skin tone but we all have something about us that we\'ve come to expect people to notice and comment on whether their response to us is positive or negative<br><br>It is very personal when you experience it repeatedly and it\'s hurtful - I think everyone on here, even the ones who have a problem with Mo talking about her hair can probably relate to what she\'s experienced and tell a similar story, be it about their breast size, their butt, intelligence, their hair being too short, being to dark, lips too big whatever...</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10249932" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10249932" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10249932">Courtney</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10249932" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10249932" class="dsq-comment-message">honey, please dont flatter yourself. just because you get called out on your shit doesnt make the people who do it "haters." it really is dumb that you would say something like that because no one gives a shit. im light-skinned, so dont you think it would be dumb for me to post that little tid-bit of information when im talking about giving head??? your hair is nice, but that was completely irrelevent to the whole topic. it seems as if you just had to let everyone on here know that "you aint got no nappy ass hurrr" which is pathetic. i think thats why everyone\'s upset.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10262098" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10262098" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10262098" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10262098" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10262098" class="dsq-comment-message">still lost why describing myself is such a big fucking deal.  so bored, next...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10282226">yes</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10282226" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10282226" class="dsq-comment-message">yet you made a whole nother post about it...u love it!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10301422" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10301422">Courtney</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10301422" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10301422" class="dsq-comment-message">well i cant speak for everyone on here, but to me the first post wasnt a big deal at all. when i read that i thought "wow that\'s dumb" but i didnt dwell on it. you\'re the one who made it such a big deal when you made ANOTHER post about it. if you\'re proud of your hair, then wonderful! im happy for you! but you\'re acting as if females hate on your hair because its something that they should be jealous about; which i highly doubt because anyone who wants indian hair so badly can purchase it.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10245336" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10245336">FanceeFoxx</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10245336" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10245336" class="dsq-comment-message">I never see beautiful "cream of the crop" women boasting of their beauty.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10244306">RERE</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10244306" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10244306" class="dsq-comment-message">Bickering over hair is stupid. Back to the sex talk.<br> But shout out to me and my BAJAN hair!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10244639" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10244639">whatthefuq</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10244639" class="dsq-comment-message">ignorant ass post...so the fuck what u got "indian hair" bitch,,,be glad and keep it moving...lame ass gon write a whole article on it though?</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10241708">toronto</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10241708" class="dsq-comment-message">*YAWN*<br>i have sad new for you honey, HAVING INDIAN HAIR IS NO MORE DESERVING OF A COMPLEMENT THAN HAVING CURLY, WAVY OR KINKY HAIR. <br><br>THE ONLY HAIR TYPE THAT DESERVES A COMPLEMENT IS HEALTHYYY HAIR. HAIR THAT IS WELL MAINTAINED AND LOOKED AFTER, SO THAT THE BEST QUALITIES OF ITS TEXTURE, WHATEVER IT MAY BE, ARE NOTICEABLE. ..so please sit your delusional ass down....<br><br>lol @ you wanting black females to throw you daps because your hair is long and straight!! i can go out on the street and pick out 158572057 different white people with your exact same hair type. so your nothing special. only retarded for thinking you are :( lol <br><br>yea, im sure that when you were growing up ALL of the black girls around you were the ones with the problem leaving you, the only sane one (rolls fucking eyes) to seek friendships with other non black women. did you ever think that maybe you treated them as though they had something to be jealous about?<br><br>when you have a nice FULL, LUSH, THICK, SHINY, head of hair with no breakage, split ends and fly aways, then you can expect women to complement. until then, SHADDAP! lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260885" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260885" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10260885" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260885" class="dsq-comment-message">I can hear the teeth sucking and see the neck rolling in your comment.  You feel better now?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10166425" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10166425">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10166425" class="dsq-comment-message">The people who have an issue with Mo’s description of her hair really need to stop and think about why <b>that one piece</b> of her description of herself is the thing that ruffled their feathers…<br><br>Where are all the non-sassy, shorter/taller, skinnier/fatter, non-Scorpion, lightskinned/darkskinned women who haaaaaaaaaate mouthing off? Why aren’t they complaining about the alleged air of superiority regarding the rest of her self-description?<br><br>It was the next to last descriptive thing she said about herself, Indian was not capitalized in its entirety, the first letter was capitalized as it should be, just like African, American, Chinese, Japanese, Jamaican, Italian or any other word that specifies or describes a race or nationality should be. <br><br>I don’t know if it’s funnier than it is sad or sadder than it is funny that people STILL have such a problem with hair texture… doesn’t make sense to me that there ever was an issue over it to begin with but damn if we haven’t evolved a little and moved on beyond that by now I don’t know what to say – who’d have thought we’d have a Black President <i>before</i> Black women got over this stupid shyt<br><br>Why is the “hair texture” the only piece that caused a stir amongst some of you?  <br><br>TheLovelyMsRedz said it best “It shows insecurity and perceived inferiority.” <br><br>The problem is not that Mo thinks Indian hair is superior, the problem is that “you” (anyone taking offense to her hair comment) perceive Indian hair to be superior. It’s not superior and if you truly believed that, as you should, there would be no protest over her comments about it, just like no one protested over her height or weight or skin tone or sign or sassiness etc… <br><br>The jealousy and negativity some women feel when they see another woman who looks nice and has her shyt together has always been confusing to me. Every successful, well dressed, well groomed, physically fit, intelligent, happy, in love woman of color walking the earth is the woman I want representing me to the rest of the world. You might be that/those woman/women - and ALL the people, worldwide, whose paths you cross and whose respect you gain as a result of whatever makes you spectacular, you are in essence representing me and I appreciate you. The more of us there are, the better, and even for you hateful bitches who don’t appreciate it we’ll keep doing what we do and we’ll still represent you WELL regardless of your bad attitude and lack of appreciation.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10248437" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10248437">MissBeasley</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10248437" class="dsq-comment-message">Very eloquently and intelligently said Sistah. I wish that we as black women respected and cared about each other more.......the changes we could make. It makes me sad really.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10253231" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10253231">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10253231" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10253231" class="dsq-comment-message">It is very disheartening...I love my people, all people, but especially mine :-D and it\'s sad to see us tear each other down over stupid shyt...if we wanna f*ck with people lets f*ck with (in the most loving way of course) those that DON\'T have their shyt together, the ones that make us look bad with the way they live and the things they do - inspire them to BE BETTER...</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261781" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261781" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261781" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261781" class="dsq-comment-message">holy shit....<br><br>this post<br><br>is the best<br><br>evar.<br><br><br>*bows*</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10525122">hazysin</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10525122" class="dsq-comment-message">tru....cuz, u r soo intelligent</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10526750">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10526750" class="dsq-comment-message">Awww thanx cuz *humbled* where you been hidin? we miss you</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10531537">hazysin</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10531537" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10531537" class="dsq-comment-message">Waiting for a good topic. Where the hell iz NESS?????</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10165848" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10165848" href="http://www.atlstateofmind.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">DopeAlicious</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10165848" class="dsq-comment-message">When you mentioned \'indian hair\' i took it no different than anyone mentioning they have \'curly hair\' or \'long hair\' or \'black hair\'.  I appreciate what you have to say in this post.  I, too am one of those confident chicks who can easily give another chick a compliment without giving it a second thought. Though my story is a little different than yours I can totally relate.  Throughout high school I had very few female friends because as nice as I was to everyone, they did nothing but dog me out.  In junior high my hair was fucked and i had no clue how to dress so the girls had nothing to do with me.   I wasn\'t able to befriend females of different ethnicity\'s so I mostly had male friends.  But then when that happened and I also found my sense of style, I became the stuck-up chick.  Then the next phase once I hit college was \'oh you\'re so nice and so cool. I can\'t believe we didn\'t kick it in high school.\'  Even in my adulthood it is difficult to find female friends who are supportive and are willing to uplift you.  And to all commenters, I am not saying that all black women are like this but it is most certainly a problem in our community and one that needs to be addressed.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260977" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260977" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10260977" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260977" class="dsq-comment-message">first and foremost, I don\'t consider myself SUPERIOR over anyone.  I\'m speaking through my experiences. <br><br>It\'s fucking hair and bitches hate.  THE END.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10263510" href="http://www.atlstateofmind.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">DopeAlicious</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10263510" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10263510" class="dsq-comment-message">i think u commented under the wrong response, lol. i am totally on ur side.  but i\'m looking forward to ur next sexual intellectual post!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10305434" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10305434" href="http://www.myspace.com/zenabena" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ZeeABad1</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10305434" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10305434" class="dsq-comment-message">She punked you, LMAO</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10160209" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10160209">Shish</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10160209" class="dsq-comment-message">I basically just don\'t care what another female has on or whatever.  I mean of course we all check out our competition but I can\'t say an attractive female bothers me or makes me jealous.  I figure if this one man prefers her over me, then the next man will prefer me over her.  Life goes on.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10160447" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10160447">Quiana</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10160447" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10160447" class="dsq-comment-message">LOL, girl aint no one hating on you. I agree 100% with soul divine. Well said</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10161315" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10161315" href="http://kiwitm.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Kiwi</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161315" class="dsq-comment-message">Girl I love this. Self Confidence is beautiful and I bet there are some haters on here saying that you were probably coming off "arrogant" but I complete understand!<br><br>It is sad that in the African American communities there is alot of hatred of others, especially the sisters who have so much insecurity and low self-esteem that they have to find "flaws" in another!<br><br>It is really sad, and I know with our past generations being oppressed, the media not promoting the beauty of all skins tones, and just lack of personal esteem is the cause of our fellow sisters who will go to such lengths to "hate" on someone else because they are not happy.<br><br>Thank you for writting this. But I just want to let you know, in case you felt like you had to justify to some female, you dont have "Indian hair"...Black people have beautiful African American hair as well and you dont have to be "mixed" or "ethnic" to have it! It is so ignorant in 2009 we still have to explain this to some people...just stand.<br><br>You are beautiful (no homo j/k) and I should even have to say no homo to let people know that it is okay for another female to compliment another female. You are beautiful for writting this blog too! Thanks for sharing this on Xilla\'s site!<br><br>Much love,<br><br>Kiwi</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10261035" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261035" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261035" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261035" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261035" class="dsq-comment-message">True story, I\'m an asshole.  That\'s just what the issue is.  If people want sugar and lemon drops, go that way ------------------&gt;</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10158313">pkat</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10158313" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10158313" class="dsq-comment-message">Awww geez...not this shit again. C\'mon Mo, you were fiyah when you were talking about fellatio....let\'s get back to the sexual intellectualism. You can find this shit here on NecoleBitchie or SandraRose any given day. NEXT!</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10261082" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261082" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261082" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261082" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261082" class="dsq-comment-message">pkat, that\'s what I was trying to do in the first damn place.  sheesh...</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10159502" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10159502">TheLovelyMsRedz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10159502" class="dsq-comment-message">Love it.  So true... women get so much joy out of finding flaws in other women.  Why do we always see other women as the enemy?  We\'re always in competition.  Not just about looks either.  <br><br>If another woman has a rich, sucessful, handsome man in her life, instead of being happy for her, what do a lot of women do?  Try to steal him away!  Like it\'s a competition, and she needs to prove she\'s better than the woman.<br><br>If a woman is sucessful in her job, there will be other women who try to bring her down, either by actions, exclusion, or by tarnishing her image with gossip.<br><br>If a woman is looking damn good, other women have to nit-pick about each hair out of place, or make negative assumptions about her character based on her outward appearance (i.e. calling her a "slut," or assuming she\'s an air-head).<br><br>All this negaitvity and hatred is a really UGLY trait.  It shows insecurity and perceived inferiority.  Next time, compliment the girl with the pretty hair or cute shoes, even if it\'s only thoughts in your head.  Appreciating another woman\'s beauty or accomplishments instead of trying to tear them down feels good and does wonders for your OWN self-esteem.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10159557" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10159557">Guest</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10159557" class="dsq-comment-message">I think that issue was not with the women "hating" yuck, I hate that term on the fact that you are beautiful and you are. The issue is the fact that your HAIR is one the the first things you mentioned, it was your physical attribute and to be honest it came off a bit braggadocios and it really detracted from the issue at hand. You could have been 300lbs, light skin with 4 teeth, nobody needed a visual for the rest of the blog to be good...which it was. Black women, hell women in general come in ALL shapes and shades of beautiful. Our hair, our complexion, our body, OUR minds...yes our minds are BEAUTIFUL. I think that a lot of the comments might have misconstrued your words, but baby girl, your hair should not DEFINE you. I come for mixed ancestry...a grandmother who was Choctaw and White and a grandfather who was creole, my grandmother was extremely light, by grandfather was damn near blue black, we...their offspring take his genes, I like you have LONG hair but that\'s not the first thing I\'d describe about myself. Does it matter in 2009 what my grandparents heritage is...HELL NO, because when I look in the mirror, when society looks at me, you know what they see...a black woman and that\'s what people see when they see you. A black woman, a sistah. Everyone was NOT against you sweetie, everyone didn\'t "hate" on you. When women realize that there are things way more important than hair, than a banging body or the latest shoes, than who\'s hating on you or hair the world would be a much more civilized place.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10161518" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10161518">tanini</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10161518" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161518" class="dsq-comment-message">no disrespect but why do people refer to being creole like its a race. its a culture.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10161804">Guest</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10161804" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161804" class="dsq-comment-message">Out of all I said that\'s what you picked out. Race, culture, it\'s a part of who I am and I was merely making a point, that who gives a flying fuck what I really am, because when I look in the mirror, who and what do I see. A black woman.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10162691" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10162691">tanini</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10162691" class="dsq-comment-message">just like out of everything she said U picked out the "hating" part so what makes it any different? hmmm</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10164086" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10164086" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10164086">Guest</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10164086" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10164086" class="dsq-comment-message">I don\'t do back and forth. Point taken. You\'re entitled to your opinion and I\'m entitled to mine. I disagreed with her stance that everyone was hating on her looks, you felt that need point out the fact that I stated creole as race instead of culture...a honest error  because I do know the difference and I\'m NOT the type of chick who wears the shit like a badge of honor. Good evening to you darling. I\'m done with this particular post.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10261322" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261322" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261322" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261322" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261322" class="dsq-comment-message">awwwwe,  its annoying when you write something thoughtful and people nit pick something so small and irrelevant to your point, right?<br><br>smh... can i go back to talking about shaft licking or we still on the topic of hair? LOL</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261264" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261264" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261264" class="dsq-comment-message">if i had a fat ass, that would be the FIRST thing I mentioned. if i had some big titties, i would mention my DDs. mine just happens to be my hair. so the fuck what.  physically, i really love my hair... a lot.  i love my mix as well.  people who know me and see me can cosign that.  now, I don\'t walk around rolling my eyes like, "that\'s a nappy headed hoe. i look so much better than her."  i\'m expressing my thoughts and describing myself.  everyone who says, "bitch please" about how i decided to describe myself as if dissed them can suck on some nuts.  <br><br>and "sweetie" trust, the hate is there.  not that i\'m complaining, but that\'s just what the hell it is.  the sky is blue, obama is president and there\'s hate in bitches blood.  <br><br>the end.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10156857" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10156857">shannon</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10156857" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10156857" class="dsq-comment-message">I think that alot of nblack women have issues when it comes to hair! Due to the fact that african hair, is pretty much different from all other races in this entire world...we may be a little salty about that(myself included) but to hate on another woman simply because her hair texture is better than yours in unacceptable and needs to stop. Especially with all the advances we have available to us in the world of weave, so if hair is your cross to bear, go buy yourself some...its really not that serious. By the way Mo, you are a beautiful woman(no homo) and your hair and skin color is fierce!, and do ever let anyone tell you different!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10241915" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10241915" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10241915" class="dsq-comment-message">isn\'t mo cute!! I think we should start a MO needs to calm Xilla\'s ass down campaign!! lol sike nah just kidding. I wish my hair was nappy though. then my hair would actually lock!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10156997">texasbelle86</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10156997" class="dsq-comment-message">i dont know a damn thing about u but from what i have read i wish EVERY female thought similar to u. It kills me how some of my girl friends will see a cute girl and instead of complimenting her they say remarks like "she dont match",or "shes not THAT pretty"...i know its b/c theyre insecure. They even look at me crazy b/c im always complimenting other girls. anywho females and their jealousies are a mess. And i feel u on the "too dark" stuff ive been told that my WHOLE life. my hair isnt super long but its a nice length and i have had men and women insist on touchin my scalp to "check for tracks"! <br>anyway i wish u the best in all u do!!!<br>xoxo<br>whitney</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10157204" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10157204" href="http://www.thejadednyer.net/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">The Jaded NYer</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10157204" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157204" class="dsq-comment-message">Hmm... when I see a woman I think is fly or flyer than me? I don\'t hate; if it\'s something I think I can work towards (nice shoes, dress, figure etc) I make a mental note of it and just freakin work towards it. Hating is a waste of time. I won\'t deny being a hater in my younger days but with age comes wisdom!<br><br>In terms of hair- jeez who doesn\'t have hair issues? One of my BFF\'s is as white as can be with straight hair. And she HATES it because it just lies there flat and won\'t hold a curl. She\'s wishing for my curls and I\'m over here wasting money at the salon to get my hair to lie flat!! Crazy, right? The grass is always greener. <br><br>Ladies: hating is wasted energy. Please, let\'s stop and instead focus on how we can become better people, mkay?</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10157323" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10157323" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10157323">Ryan J</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10157323" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157323" class="dsq-comment-message">And if it really was like that couldn\'t you have just said I am part Indian instead of saying you have Indian hair? That just makes it sound like you just made something up to justify putting your foot in your mouth.</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10261369" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261369" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261369" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261369" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261369" class="dsq-comment-message">no bitch, i\'m Indian. and i\'m also puerto rican.   and i\'m also west indian.  DO SOMETHING.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10385191" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10385191">Shish</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10385191" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10385191" class="dsq-comment-message">In the West Indies (Jamaica) they call it coolie hair.  And yes, coolie hair is INDIAN HAIR.  That\'s just what it is.  Not sure what a better description would be because you can be part indian and not have indian hair.  Like you can be mixed race (black and white) but still have dark skin and afro type hair, or you can be light skin and have caucasian type hair.<br><br>Ryan J simply isn\'t an expert on hair.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10157069">Lalala</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157069" class="dsq-comment-message">Lol...thank you. #1 reason 90% of my friends are male, cause most females are insecure and petty.<br>If I shoot a grin at a female as we are passing and she just looks me up and down, I already know what the deal is. And if I could count the times I walked past a group of "kneegrow" chicks and heard "Hmmf. She think she cute..."<br>....and so do you.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10157231" href="http://www.thejadednyer.net/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">The Jaded NYer</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157231" class="dsq-comment-message">now I gotta go find that post and see what people wrote \'cause this sounds JUICY!! lol</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10157481" href="http://undressingher.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">undressingHER</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157481" class="dsq-comment-message">get em shortie, lol. its way to much girl on girl hate in the black community. yall should all hug eachother......and let me watch, lol.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10157757" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10157757" href="http://thedreamdiaries.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ALMiss</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10157757" class="dsq-comment-message">I noticed in ur last post that alot of the chicks were focused on ur hair instead of the main point of the post. I hate when women, or shall I say GIRLS, pick apart other women because they have great qualities so I just had to stay out of the comment section on that post because it gets me all riled up. <br><br>But to answer your question, when I see a women with a fly pair of heels, a nice outfit, or whatever, I compliment her and go on my way because I know she put a little effort into herself and that she takes pride in looking her best. I love seeing women doing their thing, because it makes me feel like I\'m not alone. But from personal experience, when you\'re looking your best, smelling good, and rocking a badd pair of shoes, there will be some chicks you pass by who will look you up and down and swear you think you\'re the ish...naw, bish I know! lol<br><br>But let me stop right now because I can go on and on about this subject!! Keep doing you Mo!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10161649">tanini</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161649" class="dsq-comment-message">preach sista preach!</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261488" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261488" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261488" class="dsq-comment-message">FUCK! I HATE GIRLS TOO.  LOL.   I want to talk about some raunchy shit, just not in a raunchy way.  How can I ignore the bitches just zoning in on some stupid shit like my love for my hair and where my family comes from?<br><br>i keep saying the most redundant thing on this comment section: if i had coarse hair, i would describe myself with coarse hair.  if i had extra long legs, thats how i would describe myself.  if i had a big ol fat ass, i would describe that.  i just have long hair and i LOVE THAT.  smh...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10525127">hazysin</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10525127" class="dsq-comment-message">I agree with you completely. I\'ve always been a complimentary female. I enjoy seeing people look nice, so if a chick has on some pretty shoes or her hairdo is nice, I\'ve got compliments coming(even if the hair is store bought). My bff say im too damn friendly but i live by the premise that a few nice words could save someone\'s life.<br> <br>I completely understand where Mo\'s love for her hair comes from...its long, manageable, and pretty. Why not take pride it what you feel is an outstanding quality? I will never know straight, manageable hair--shit, perms don\'t even work but unlike %95 of these insecure females...that doesn\'t cause me to feel certain type of way about someone who does. I have been reading these comment and the shit is ridiculous.....<br><br>...I\'m a thick chick and i have experience hate for no reason for the majority of my life for reasons beyond my understand. The comment usually begins.."that bitch thinks shes......" What i don\'t get is why every female doesnt "think she is_________" (you can fill in the blanket.) My grandma told me that a woman should always exude confidence even at her lowest moment. To hate on the next chick only shows chinks in your armor.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10527123">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10527123" class="dsq-comment-message">I agree wholeheartedly, especially with  "The comment usually begins.."that bitch thinks shes......" What i don\'t get is why every female doesnt "think she is_________" "<br><br>EXACTLY!!!! <br><br>Damn that\'s even better than my standard response of "No bitch, <i>you</i> think I\'m ____"</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10158471">Bogart4017</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10158471" class="dsq-comment-message">uh-oh i can\'t wait to read these comments.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10158517">pkat</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10158517" class="dsq-comment-message">Oh and for what it\'s worth, you do have nice hair...tits too (no homo). Carry on.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10158807">HappyToBeNappy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10158807" class="dsq-comment-message">This quote by Audre Lorde pretty much sums up why black women as a group can\'t just get along.  <br><br>~Black women are programmed to define ourselves within this male attention and to compete with each other for it rather than to recognize and move upon our common interests. ~<br><br>With that said, the hair issue is a big one in the black community.  Good hair, bad hair & all that jazz.  Though I personally choose to rock my hair in all it\'s nappy glory, I would never knock anyone who does differently.  If someone hair looks nice, it looks nice. . be it long, short, straight, curly or nappy. <br><br>I don\'t go out of my way to compliment anyone, but I also don\'t go out of my way to diss them either.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10161707" href="http://www.myspace.com/cishma" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Carmen Sandiego</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10161707" class="dsq-comment-message">these birds HATIN\' do u miss lady...</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10162785" href="http://twitter.com/jaimonet" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">JaiMonet</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10162785" class="dsq-comment-message">HEEEEYYY! Lol, that shit irks me when females steady tear each other down but are the first ones to admit that women are catty. BITCH you\'re a part of the PROBLEM!<br><br>But let me calm down.<br>I dig what you\'re saying. It\'s so damn funny cause I like to this of myself as a secure female, so I do the compliment thing just to get a dirty look every now and then or I hear the smug "She think she cute" comment.<br><br>Correction sweetie: I know I\'m cute. Thanks.<br>I had the same thing goin on "You\'re too dark", and I rock my hair natural in a curly afro and some people have a problem with that too, so I said "Fuck it and you" and do whatever the hell puts a smile on my face. Yee digg????</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10164989">shayna</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10164989" class="dsq-comment-message">Honestly, its not even that serious. It wasnt that serious for the females that commented just about you mentioning your hair type on the last post. This all just goes back to the way African American women feel about their hair, & the whole "good" hair/bad hair arguement which is SO dumb. If you have hair on ya head, you have GOOD hair, no matter what the texture is. She was just describing herself. Now I think that if she said long hair in caps, nobody would have said anything, yet they might have been thinking weave. Get over it. We need to be building each other up instead of tearing each other down, and practice self love. If you okay with yourself, then why the are you going to down someone for their physical features. It just comes down to the fact that black women are sensitive about their hair. Deny all you want but its true. Other wise why would whoever commented have their panties up in a bunch over her describing HER physical attributes. Its just fucking hair. No ones hair is better than the next chicks just because of texture. Grow uppp!!!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10165568">Guest</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10165568" class="dsq-comment-message">You pretty and EVERYBODY knows it.<br>So confronting chicks on here is a waste of time.<br>Just let them think what they want.<br>You aint got shit to prove folkz</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10165989">Mahogany</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10165989" class="dsq-comment-message">I am Black,east indian, and cuban- brown skinned and I also used to get the questions"Is that your real hair?" or "Do you got tracks?"..... I would get upset when asked those questions but now I don\'t trip.It\'s just hair,right?!       <br>Matter of fact my hair was the same length as Marv. Mo but I just recently chopped it off! and I am loving my shorter hair!<br><br><br>I also know a girl who is NOT multi-racial, African American, and deep choclate complexion- and she has hair halfway down her back.....it\'s all about how you take care of hair.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10173795">sdott313</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10173795" class="dsq-comment-message">native Virgin Islander here, i agree what you say about befriending folks from the islands because id say we are way more laid-back, nicer and less uptight than folks from the states. im always so polite to everyone and i always get the side-eye from people thinking im sucking up or being fake but thats just how i am, thats how all my family is to tell the truth. the indian hair thing may have rubbed some people the wrong way but i say do you ma because you are beautiful and confident and noone can take that away  from u. west indian massive</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10174809">Kimber</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10174809" class="dsq-comment-message">OMGOOOOODNESS,<br>Gurl u r beautiful and I love your attitute. Damn I can relate to all your rants cause I\'ve been there too my sista. <br><br>I really love the comment about sharing compliments and your right.., thats what us CONFIDENT ONES do and its really nothing to K.I.M. <br>you know whats a shame though...when the broad you compliment looks u up and down like you crazy...I just laugh cause in my eyes all smart beautiful black women represent me and if they are fly too... hell  I am compelled to share that they do\'n something right regardless if I find out after the fact that DAT BITCH AINT SHYTE!!!!<br><br>Oh wells....stay fresh mama:)</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10175067">Sunny</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10175067" class="dsq-comment-message">Mo, your response to these women makes me just as sad as their response to you. When I read your post last week, I thought it was odd that you said you had "Indian hair", but that\'s only because so many "kneegrows" love to talk about how they got some Indian hair (knowing it\'s Hawaiian Silky--BREAK!) Anyway, when u later posted that you are in fact part-Indian, I was like "Oh."  It put it in a different perspective.  <br>Now, it\'s unfortunate that people with real Indian heritage have to suffer because of so many false claimers, but Mo, I think if you said that you were part Indian in your description, it would have gone over completely differently. I think it came across like you had given into self-hatred, and folks were put off, because they think more highly of you.  I, for one, was relieved to see that that was not the case.  <br>But, my next point, and this is to all of the commenters as well, why the name calling and vitriol towards the insecure women who hate themselves so much that they can\'t love you?  My weapon against dirty looks, comments about my dark skin tone (which seem to offend some and fascinate others), my hair (which I have worn every kind of way possible), my size, or even my 32NA\'s (girls who are insecure about their breasts loooove to point out how small they are.  I rejoice in the fact that I have never experienced titty sweat), anyway, my weapon against all of that is a great big Care Bear Stare!   I usually just shrug and say "But I love myself."  Don\'t get me wrong, a sassy quip may leave my mouth, but I have to check myself before I say "Your man likes it", or "My pubes are silkier than yours", because, well, that only perpetuates the cycle of self-hatred fueled by competition.  <br>So, in closing, Mo, your pubes are silkier than mine, Teyana Taylor has boobs I can only wish for, and all y\'all thick girls got more cushion for the pushin\' than I do, but I\'m clevaaaaaaa...<br>I used to be very insecure, and I made it a personal goal in 2007 to become "Alright With Me" (Yes E. Badu\'s Cleva is one of my fave songs EVER), and here I am.  I love all y\'all, whether you are kneegrow max, kneegrow mix, or kneegrow lite.  Thanks, and goodnight!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10254288">Monz</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254288" class="dsq-comment-message">*Snap Snap*<br>Lol at the titty sweat!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10259308">Toni Childs</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10259308" class="dsq-comment-message">"(knowing it\'s Hawaiian Silky--BREAK!) " lol</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261877" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261877" class="dsq-comment-message">fuck.......<br><br>you just made me feel so stupid.  if there\'s a way to make me fall back, THIS IS IT.<br><br><br>i might have to can part 2 and switch topic.....</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10503713" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10503713" href="http://www.thejadednyer.net" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">thejadednyer</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10503713" class="dsq-comment-message">I am so jealous that you\'ve never experienced titty sweat... it\'s the bane of my existence every damn summer *sigh*<br><br>lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10190135">shaylawriter</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10190135" class="dsq-comment-message">Damn ladies. Let\'s stop with the hate and try to show love and positivity to each other. There are enough negative stereotypes about black women that permeate mainstream society as a whole without us doing our damndest to lend credibility to them. Let\'s love ourselves and each other. And to the young lady who started the original blogpost, your hair and skin color are beautiful. Peace ladies! :)</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10239243">Tiffany</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10239243" class="dsq-comment-message">shit this the most comments i\'ve seen on this site</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10241604" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10241604" class="dsq-comment-message">you don\'t read the site often then... this USED to be the Norm... The traffic is off the chain, of you digg back a month you\'ll see this amount of comment almost normally. I don\'t know what the hell happened though. eh!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10241518">Aisha</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10241518" class="dsq-comment-message">Negro pleeeaaaasseeee u are not 132-135lbs....smch stop frontin<br><br>that is the size of the average high school boy and when was the last time you was in high school</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261933" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261933" class="dsq-comment-message">bitch... i bet you couldn\'t fit in my jeans.<br><br><br>rewind and try again.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10263085">pkat</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10263085" class="dsq-comment-message">Are u serious? I smell a chunky chick. LOL. <br><br>I\'m 133 and have given birth twice! Me thinks someone needs to invest in a treadmill.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10244702">whatthefuq</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10244702" class="dsq-comment-message">xilla shit like this is the reason ur traffic slows down...what happened to the substance!?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10244845" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10244845" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10244845" class="dsq-comment-message">actually no it doesn\'t it\'s a real look at what happens in life and relationships women hating on women. It\'s the most popular post of the week and it got you to comment for the first time i believe... because even if you put in a fake email like you did i still run IP addresses... so i know who\' is saying what... i normally choose not to answer it. and for you to call her a bitch only really proves her point does it not? Why are you so mad? My traffic doesn\'t slow down my traffic is at an all time high. Comments slowed down yes.. but not my traffic the site drawfs all other urban relationship sites with way more comments you wanna know why? because comments don\'t equal traffic. <br><br>My return visits are up! <br>My direct visits are up<br>my length on site is up<br>my views are up<br><br>everything about my site is up! <br><br>She once again will have the most popular blog on the site. IDK why people don\'t choose to comment as much anymore.. we actually i have an idea but that\'s neither here nor there why are you so mad at her for pointing out something that is obvious and clearly true? and why couldnt you put your real email address? Could you not stand behind your words? People on here disagree and disagree with me and use their real email and even post their pics... you could\'t or didnt why is that?</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10248592">MissBeasley</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10248592" class="dsq-comment-message">Get emmmmmmmmmmmmm lol<br><br>Oh and thanks for reposting about the "too wet" issue.......I learn something new all the time here :)</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10253041">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10253041" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10253041" class="dsq-comment-message">I swear I f*ckin love you!!!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10253152" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10253152" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10253152" class="dsq-comment-message">lol I\'m just saying... she coming here like my site don\'t got traffic, like i\'m hurting. Site couldn\'t be better my only issue is people like you who used to live on the site left... the community is dead!! I gotta figure out how to get it back, but the people ain\'t leave. Yall just stopped talking. Maybe I need to reply more, but I\'m doing my globalgrind thing and going out and getting great content for y\'all and sometimes it\'s hard. a few key people left for reasons I know and now it\'s like okay I need to rebuild the community feel of the site. It\'s as simply as that but to imply that my numbers are hurting... nah son!! my numbers are through the roof this has been both the quietest month and the most traffic\'d month in the history of the site. The changes helped so now it\'s just a matter of getting the people to talk. <br><br>This blog is evidence that they are here.. its just a matter of getting them to talk. Which is my fault.<br><br>Now if YOU can start commenting again... lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10253842">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10253842" class="dsq-comment-message">*hangs head in shame*<br><br>LOL, I am HERE Xilla, every flippin day, I SWEAR. But from the # of times my shit freezes up (sometimes mid-comment) :\'-( and I have to restart or refresh I think I should take credit and get a check for the majority of your return visits and length on site :-D</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10254109" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10254109" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10254109" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10254109" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254109" class="dsq-comment-message">you get an error when you come to the site? Does anyone else have this problem?</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10254608" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10254608" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10254608">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10254608" class="dsq-comment-message">No, no error - just freezes but it\'s not you it happens no matter what site I\'m on</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10245630">yes</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10245630" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10245630" class="dsq-comment-message">get over yourself, have u sucked a dick or rubbed your clit this week or what?<br>u got one chance a week to say somethin, don\'t waste it on nonsense like this!</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-10261961" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10261961" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10261961" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10261961" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261961" class="dsq-comment-message">feel better now?</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10282206">yes</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10282206" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10282206" class="dsq-comment-message">better than what? I don\'t recall this being about me</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10250636">maymajesty</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10250636" class="dsq-comment-message">Well, I\'m on both sides of the fence with this post. I was talked about in school for "thinking I\'m white".  I\'m of a light complexion, hazel eyes, sandy golden-brown hair, and I "talked white".  So, I understand where you are coming from.  I had friends of every race you can imagine.  Hell, my first little boyfriend in 6th grade was white, and I can\'t even see myself with a white man right now (I love the chocolate).  All that being said, I\'m a little offended that you are calling us black women kneegrows. I don\'t understand the point of reducing the race to a body part, and using grow.  Why not just spell it as it should be. Doing that kind of negated your argument in my eyes. Of course there are women who like to bring others down to comisserate with them.  There are also men and women or other races that do the same.  And yes, there is alot or tearing each other down in our community, but guess what: we\'re not the only race that does it.  Do you all not watch tv? There are so many stories or girls and boys of all races doing the same thing. Jealousy sees no color, but green. <br><br>It is quite obvious from your picture that you have pretty hair, and a lovely complexion. I think maybe if your picture was posted, then it would have made a little more sense. I get that your were trying to give us a visual. Point made.  I think where the problem lied is that you stated you had long natural Indian hair. I had to go back and re-read the description, but I will admit, as I was reading it the first time I was taken aback a smidge. I continued to read the post and thought it was good, and I didn\'t think about it again until reading this post. I didn\'t read the comments (which I will probably do after I submit this comment) so I can\'t really say where those comments were coming from. I just know that when I read it I felt like maybe it was a tad bit overkill.  You had already stated that your hair was long, and natural. At first glance I thought maybe as in not relaxed, but then I realized you were stating as in your real hair. Now I don\'t know about some people, but usually when giving a self-decription the features that you were not born with are not included. LOL. Correct me if I\'m wrong, but if I decribe myself and I have a head full of weave I would just give a description of MY hair or state I have a weave in right now.  Yes, I get that some women do try to pass a weave off, but more often than not, it is detectable. So I think maybe that\'s possibly the place where the comments were coming from...*shrugs*<br><br>I kind of rambled a bit, but hopefully you get my drift.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10255601">j_fab</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10255601" class="dsq-comment-message">1) Get em Xilla! Ain\'t said but the site is DOPE and if they ain\'t hatin it ain\'t right!! <br>2) Mo do you and shake that DAMN hair!! Most might be mad cause the WIg\'s & Weave\'s ran out of #33 Indian Remy 16". <br>3) We all been hated on all our lives. Thats life. Ain\'t nothin goin to stop it except ourselves and most chics ain\'t ready to change the game. Thats fine. Everybody else just needs to be accept its goin to happen and keep it movin. <br>4)Anybody can have any kind of hair they want because of WEAVE. A good perm or press (whateva ya flavor), a wicked weave artist as I say and some remy-indian or chinese....u can shutem DOWN!!! also...hair will always be an issue because it is. Everybody (some more than others)do put effort up there. <br>5) Compliments: They are great but tricky. Its so much shadiness nowadays u neva know what the intentions r and your own perception can be on a different wavelength than the others. It\'s easier to hate because u end up keepin urself protected. <br>6)Many don\'t know how to take a compliment-so they don\'t get em or give em. Thanks and a smile with eye contact then go bout ur biz- FLAWLESS. I compliment if I feel she can handle it. She look (limited eye contact with others, lookin at herself TOO many times) and actin like the world turns for her, she had enough and mine ain\'t gonna make a difference. But if shes on point and still seems down to earth, yeah a  "thats dope!" is in order. <br>IMO, we have our days where we on point like a laser beam and some days ur aim is 300ft off. Thats life,just learn to play the cards and u be aight. <br>7) Every woman has these tendencies. Some groups more than others but its there. That sister stuff is for the birds now. Pick ur lane and stay in it, I\'ll stay in mine.<br>8) Fellatio: be good at it or get good.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260125" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260125" href="http://thedreamdiaries.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ALMiss</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10260125" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260125" class="dsq-comment-message">Where\'s Mo? Does she only comment on that one day a week?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260502" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260502" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260502" class="dsq-comment-message">honey, i\'m here.  i\'m recovering from last night.  smh...</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10260897" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10260897" href="http://thedreamdiaries.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ALMiss</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260897" class="dsq-comment-message">Oh ok lol! I was wondering when you were gonna come and respond to some of this mess.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10262396" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10262396" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10262396" class="dsq-comment-message">at first i wasn\'t going to because i just wanted to say my peace and keep it moving, but i have been convinced to come in and word-stab people.   smh<br><br><br>can\'t we all just get a long?   lol sheesh.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10260601">Genna</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10260601" class="dsq-comment-message">Hair is hair!  growing up and still a little now i got called "white girl", "oreo", "light brite" all because i was light skin. i got asked all the time if i was mixed. no i\'m all black. i may have some other races down the line but not close enough to mention! <br><br>i will tell and ugly chick if i like her gear. makes me no difference. some women cannot handle another chick that looks better them or has better shit than they got. get over it and worry about u is what i say.  i got enough issues not to be worried about what someone looks like, what style hair they rockin or what they got on.<br>you ain\'t got to explain yourself girl... let \'em hate.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10262227" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10262227" href="http://moisdeadserious.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MarvelousMo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10262227" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10262227" class="dsq-comment-message">holla!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10261589">NEVERHATINN215</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10261589" class="dsq-comment-message">OMFG PPL ON THIS BLOG IS A MESS. IF SHE WANT TO DESCRIBE HER SELF AS HAVING INDIAN HAIR THAN LET HER DO HER. DAMN THE GIRL HAS PRETTY HAIR. WHY HATE U ONLY HURTIN URSELF. ME MYSELF IF I SEE ANOTHER CHIC WIT CUTE SHOES ON OR NICE HAIR OR CLOTHES I COMPLEMENT THEM. UST CAUSE A PERSON HAIR IS SOFT OR WHATEVER DOES NOT MEAN THEY HAVE GOOD HAIR IF YOUR HAIR IS HEALTHY AND WELL TAKEN CARE OF I BELIVE U HAVE GOOD HAIR. I ALWAYS COMPLIMENT SOMEONE ON SOMETHING I LIKE BECAUSE I KNOW HOW IT FEEL EVERYWHERE U GO TO HAVE GURLS JUST STARIN U DOWN BECUSE THEY ARE INSECURE ABOUT THEM SELVES. I DO IT TO LET PPL KNOW WE ALL ARE NOT JUST SOME JELOUS, INSECURE, HATAIN ASS BITTER, BITCHES. BECUASE THAT EXACTLY WHAT THEY THINK WE ARE.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10262244">SW1</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10262244" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10262244" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m in shock.... All this over hair... wow!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10294978">AGK</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10294978" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10294978" class="dsq-comment-message">Lmao, i was thinkin the EXACT same thing!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10264711">Jos</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10264711" class="dsq-comment-message">LOL...funny... but the truth of the matter is, MO ain\'t lying. I compliment women all the time. If she responds nicely, hell I\'ll even ask her where she got said, hair done, shoes, shirt, etc...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10265933">Neicey</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10265933" class="dsq-comment-message">You make a wonderful point. Though, I don\'t have "Indian Hair" I have an abundance of long thick hair that frizzes at the drop of water and I am a chocolate brown, and I have the same problem when people ask me if my hair is real and I say yes, and they take offense. It\'s a shame that another black woman can\'t appreciate another black woman\'s beauty whatever it may be.<br><br>I say do you and keep it moving.<br><br>I\'ve never had a problem complementing anyone on something I thought was nice or fly. <br><br>I think the issue lies in the fact that we as a culture have put a certain standard of beauty on a pedal stool and when something different comes along, people lose their minds. Like someone can\'t be attractive or beautiful if they\'re not light skinned with long hair...and so on with that stereotypical perfect type of girl. People act like it\'s a crime to look different and be pretty. <br><br>It\'s pathetic.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-10267128" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10267128">mobmay21</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10267128" class="dsq-comment-message">Coming form another Mo, I simply must say it is impossible to generalize in such a manner! You cannot take a couple of people that have an issue with the words "Indian hair",and stick it to all "Kneegrow woman".  I celebrate when another sister,( not ethnic specific), has her ish together. I must state that women af all races, creeds, and ethnicities HATE!  The issues you are speaking on are not just in young women.  they exist across every age demographic Mo.  Perhaps people wanted you to say beautiful long hair, rather than giving it an ethnic orgin.  However, you wrote what you felt! Thats your right, but its also theirs to have an opinion about it.  True? Any how, in a perfect world we would celebrate each others beauty, differences, whatever, But we don\'t live in that world!  It is very hard to say you get along or are friends with ppl in a particular group because they have similar thought patterns.  I have lived all over the globe and have friends of all shapes, sizes, and colors.  Its usually its not about what they are, just who they are. Peace and Blessings.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10269923">Loquacious_D</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10269923" class="dsq-comment-message">I like Marvelous Mo!  Fuck these folks.  Only Colored Folks would be upset with another person being proud of what they look like or what features they have.  I am a black woman with locks, I get looks and comments too.  To the Colored Folks: Don\'t worry about what other folks are doing.  Hell, learn how to do your own hair so it can grow to be just as long as Marvelous Mo (Yes, black women can have long hair too-without weave). Instead of rocking that stringy "white girl hair" that is so thin & damaged that you can read a damn newspaper through it <br>To the HATING Colored Folks- Check out <a href="http://KeepItSimpleSista.blogspot.com" rel="nofollow">KeepItSimpleSista.blogspot.com</a> and learn how to take care of your hair so you can stop hatin\' on others. Damn!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10276100">Mahogany</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10276100" class="dsq-comment-message">I just went on that website Keep it simple sista and I love it! Very informative!</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10273331" href="http://twitter.com/janegoldenarms" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Jane Goldenarms</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10273331" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m a mixed chick too, and I co-sign on just about everything Marvelous Mo said. AND, I\'d like to tap you on the shoulder Mo, and say, stay fly. I\'m so tired of the ignorance and girl-on-girl hate for no damn reason. I would say sista-to-sista, but ain\'t nothing sisterly about all that hate.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10273893">allie</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10273893" class="dsq-comment-message">Do you know the problem is here from both sides? Both are immediately onto attack.. The comments aimed at Marvelous Mo and the comments she gave back (because she was being attacked). mia. [the first comment] attitude has the right attitude she complimented a women with no other intention but to compliment and the woman had her back because there was no intention to attack or any animosity.<br><br>I don\'t have to hate you to love myself. I can love you, too. In fact, I do. &lt; Take heed please and move on, it\'s not that big of a deal..<br><br>(I\'m not saying Marvelous Mo tried to attack people with her post, she just mentioned her hair and kept on moving...  others mentioned her hair and stalled at that)</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10274319">Jani</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10274319" class="dsq-comment-message">Ok, seriously. It\'s not even that serious. I agree with Mo\'s point when she said if she had a big butt or boobs she would have said that. I don\'t understand why people are making it seem like her mentioning that she has "nice" hair became such a big issue. If you have nice eyes, you\'d mention that wouldn\'t you? so how is this any different. If y\'all would just read her reply, she said SHE IS MIXED, so the term "Indian Hair" would be correct since she\'s part Indian. And you got people saying hair doesn\'t make you. Don\'t remember Mo saying that. I personally think Mo would be really pretty even if her hair wasn\'t like that. Chill out, it\'s just a bunch of bitterness.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10299937">BELLE</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10299937" class="dsq-comment-message">Girl, I hear u. Im darkskinned and I have long hair. Im also AFRICAN, girrrrl when I moved to the states ,  the american girls ask me if I have a weave in coz they thought it was impossible for this african darkskinned girl to have nice long silky hair..and such clear soft skin.women need to stop hating. and why is DARKSKINNED women looked at as the ugly girls...I dont think will ever get the answer to that bcoz all my life I been asking GOD why u make me darkskinned if its looked at as ugly. but now I have grown to love my skin..</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10306144">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10306144" class="dsq-comment-message">To give you a real answer to your question, quite simply, it’s the standard of beauty that has been set by society. Every variation of “appearance” created by God is beautiful. But naturally not everyone can be everything, so when society puts one look, feature, skin tone, size, shape, hair texture, hair color above another the people who possess those “desired” traits naturally, sometimes innocently and I’ll even venture to say “unknowingly” begin to feel superior.<br> <br>But when previously unrecognized beauty traits are noticed and confirmed as beautiful also, the ones who once held the traits that “defined” beauty now feel threatened, they feel the need to compete. Competition is natural and even healthy but we’ve been forced to compete against each other with things that we have no real control over. If you’re competing in a race you train harder so you can run faster. How do you compete with a hair color/texture, skin color, facial feature, natural body size/shape that you don’t possess? You either go thru great lengths, expense, damage and pain to change it OR the more popular way is to try to convince yourself, society and the subject of your “threat/competition” that what they have is not that great and that yours is better.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10302677">FanceeFoxx</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10302677" class="dsq-comment-message">Q....why is DARKSKINNED women looked at as the ugly girls..???<br><br>A....To Belle: not all women other than light/white or looked upon as ugly. However; the main reason alot are look upon as ugly- this blog topic is a perfect scenario, they seem to be the only ones thinking, bragging, lying and acting arrogant and conceited. Whats so pitifully misfortunate about this type is they mirrors be lying to them. The proof is NObody else see\'s all that they think they got.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10303204">FanceeFoxx</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10303204" class="dsq-comment-message">As for as knewgrow women telling you -your skin is too this or that, I\'ll never believe one knewgrow woman told you that. <br><br>If anything would be the truth: it would be the knewgrow men  that said that. Ain\'t know doubt he is persuaded to prefer the opposite.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10305336">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10305336" class="dsq-comment-message">@ "As for as knewgrow women telling you -your skin is too this or that, I\'ll never believe one knewgrow woman told you that."<br><br>Clearly you live in a bubble, and I suspect it\'s that same bubble that sheltered you from the knowledge that douching 5-6 times a week will destroy your vag<br><br>But moving along, if you’ve never “heard” one woman say it to another that is one thing but IT IS said and it\'s said often….sometimes as a blatant insult other times the infamously backhanded compliment “she’s really pretty <i>for a darkskinned girl"</i></div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10310603">Mahogany</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10310603" class="dsq-comment-message">I agree.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10315769">Fancee</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10315769" class="dsq-comment-message">HeadMistress: I cannot argue with you. I have never heard sisters telling sisters derogative stuff like this. My bad, I\'m sorry about not believing this. <br>Its really shocking to me that sisters talk and think this way. Its cold blooded put down, I can tell you that. <br>I have heard the knegrow man say it so much. It appears that most could careless almost if the woman had a heart inside, all he seem to care for is the outer layer of derma.<br><br>Also, I just bought 10 boxes with 4 disposable douche bottles in it and 15 bottles of powdered chemical douche. I bought 20 bottles of non alcohol deodorant. I don\'t get infections and one thing for sure I ain\'t stanking. Need to stop bringing that up cause all you doing making laugh...I ain\'t mad at you, girlfriend.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10316322">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10316322" class="dsq-comment-message">You’re pretty lucky for never having heard or experienced this behavior. I wish I could say the same. <br><br>If it’s all the same to you I may still bring it up on occasion \'cause it’s funny to me too and we can all use a good laugh :-D</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10390594" href="http://ThoneysBHive.wordpress.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ThoneyGSweet</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10390594" class="dsq-comment-message">why are you so closed minded and ignorant,. just because YOU simplass ain\' never seen or heard some of these things, you think its unbelievable!?!? lmao! i missed ur retardation[wiggle woky arm in salute] MUAH! hata!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10399554">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10399554" class="dsq-comment-message">LMAOOL!!!!<br><br>You seem like a bright girl otherwise Thoney so one would have to conclude that these intermittent bouts of your inability to properly comprehend what you\'re reading is somehow triggered by your all-consuming thirst to confront The HeadMistress<br><br><br>Go back...<br><br>Start at the beginning of this comment thread... <br><i>(a hint: FanceeFoxx {w/out the pic} 5/30/09 05:41PM)</i><br><br>Take your time and read slowly....<br><br>And just for shits and giggles let us know what you come up with :-D</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10305257" href="http://www.myspace.com/zenabena" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">ZeeABad1</a>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10307607">maymajesty</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10307607" class="dsq-comment-message">Wow this post really blew up. It just goes to show that we black women are so sensitive about our appearance and how the world see us. Alot of this, I think, stems from slavery, our black men, and society. I tell you, I have been going natural for the past year, and people\'s opninon of me has competely changed. It\'s so weird that our natural hair texture is not view as beautiful to "us". My co-worker told me the other day that I need to start relaxing my hair again because I could pass as mixed. And that since I was damn near white, "the white folks" would treat me differently. And it broke my heart. I hate that some darker complected women have to feel that way. But guess what: it\'s their own race that makes them feel that way. We need to teach our children to stop reducing people to "how dark they are"! Actually, I tend the think people of a darker complexion tend to have some of the prettiest, smoothest skin I\'ve ever seen. And black men need to stop making us sisters feel inadequate because of our hair texture, and coloring.<br>Black women, stop feeding into the stereotypes! Stop the self hate. We don\'t need to be calling each other "kneegrow" and "colored"! It\'s appalling! We\'re never going to conquer anything by dividing each other.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10315873" href="http://www.oozechatterdoll.biz" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ooze_Chatterdoll</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10315873" class="dsq-comment-message">LLS....All I have to say is that everybody has an audience and Xilla, you know how to reel them in..hook, line and sinker..via Mo..LMDAO...and Mo, gotta tell you...you are time enough for \'em!<br><br><a href="http://www.oozechatterdoll.biz" rel="nofollow">www.oozechatterdoll.biz</a></div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-10326236" href="http://qrazy.info" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Qrazy</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10326236" class="dsq-comment-message">I don\'t understand why people are so upset about her using the word "Indian" when describing her hair. It is no different from when other people use the word "good" hair, except her description is ethnically correct.<br>While attending one of the last meetings in Philadelphia for the Native American Cultural Society before they lost funding and had to shut down, they told everyone in attendance this:- Skin color has nothing to do with your ethnicity.<br>I have more things in my blood stream than what people would consider a mutt for dogs, but the majority of my blood line comes from Cheyenne and Cherokee..people get mad that I don\'t solely claim being black when the closest relative I had that was the "blackest" was my great great grandma and she had blue eyes.(yes I saw it in person).<br>We all need to accept that none of us has ever met any "pure" blacks in our lifetime....unless you meet someone from African and they consider themselves "Africans" and not "black".<br>I guess after years of fighting for equality, black people still allow the "one drop rule" to dictate how they think...(not all, just the ones that have a problem with people acknowledging their roots).</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10326447">SunnyGeek</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10326447" class="dsq-comment-message">Number one, many people get "Indian" confused with "Native American".  And I bet you a lot of those people don\'t realize that your ancestry is truly part "INDIAN". Black people need to get PAST this self-hatred of ourselves.  WE come in different shades, different hair textures, different body shapes, we are a diverse group of people! That is the beauty of us, is the lack of homogeneity.  I am extremely dark-skinned and many people assume I am from Africa including many Africans I have encountered.  Or most people assume I MUST be mixed with something because although I am dark-skinned, my features are not stereotypical.  I have a thin nose and thin lips.  My hair is jet-black and curly-soft not curly-coarse (if that makes any sense).  I know I look different, I always have but I embrace my African part of myself because its part of who I am.  Yes, my father\'s grandmother who raised him was Tsa-la-gi  but I\'m not going to go around talking about how my great-great whatchamacallit is Native American.  Whatever.  And all these women on here sounding like ignorant buffoons need to grow up.  I am not pretty to be dark-skinned.  I\'m just damn pretty and being dark-skinned brings it out more.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10329003">Dirt Angel</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10329003" class="dsq-comment-message">Its a problem because you couldnt say you have nice hair, long hair, two-toned hair.  You picked a distription that makes you something other than Black.  What do you say when you talk about your eyes,-chinky, asian.  What about your lips,- black, nigga, dsl.  Start the paragraph with a background of your heritage.  Most of us have something mixed up in us but to be excepted we add some other culture.   Im not saying dont be proud of your other ethnic traits but most people go with what you look like.  You look like you go too the Korean store for hair products like the rest of the women.  Dont take offense, it just hurts when a person doesnt think being Black is not enough.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10333858">LadiTaylor</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10333858" class="dsq-comment-message">Woooww.... Xilla I been on your site and have enjoyed it... But this shit right here make me not wish to explore anymore of Miss Honay\'s rants about the "hate" that she has received..<br>I really hate to get into what I really feel because obviously her mind is not open to what those are saying.... Long hair, who cares??? Really was it that serious for her to post this? Shorty girl, it\'s obvious that those that hate on you are a problem but I\'m assuming you\'ve had this INDIAN hair all your life, so you should be quite used to it and not feel the need to post ridiculus blogs on the internet. Deep down inside you\'re a chocolate girl that has some issues... and hair is not it...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10366601">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10366601" class="dsq-comment-message">thank you for this post. i too have "good hur" and wish i had yo body to match bo! ha!. i\'m 5\'7.5" 170lbs[flat stomach big boobs and butt] and i can relate! would u believe people thought my mom put weave in my hair when i was younger so i wouldn\'t be jealous of my younger, LIGHTER sister?[who by the way has nappier hair than mines and is proud of it!] i recently went from past my shoulders to a shaggy frohawk and my mother bout lost it"u know dark girls WISH they had hair like urs and u just choppin it away. whas WRONG wit u!" i just laugh and keep it movin!<br><br>my hair and confidence have definitely deterred black women[and some men] from befriending me. when i found this new "thick" shape combined with my hair niggas thought i was stuck up/would play them. and black bitches SWORE i was checkin for their man! smdh whatta mess! it took me a while to get where i am and i\'m dayum proud! and my body is RIGHT for once, my hair is fun, and muthafugg a HATA!<br><br>i am easy with the compliments, because i love me. if u rockin that bag i can\'t get or ur shoes got me haute in the toes i\'ma SAY DAT! word! i love to let somebody know they\'re ON and when i get a compliment, sometimes its the highlight of my day especially when times are so tough. it disgusts me how sistas can never just SHINE on anotha sister instead they\'d rather shit on her. GROSS! no other race i kick it with is like that towards me!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10366971">Dragunov </span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10366971" class="dsq-comment-message">I didn\'t read the comments, but as a young black man with green eyes, good hair, and the face of a greek god (some girl told me this and I was lol\'ing for a min)... I\'d knock you up and make gerber babies with you.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-10460372">MELLOD76</span>\
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	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-10460372" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-10460372" class="dsq-comment-message">WELL I TOTALY AGREE WITH THIS! IM EXTREMELY DRK WITH CURLY HAIR AND WAS TEASED ALL MY LIFE ABOUT LOOKING DIFFERENT ! I\'VE BEEN TOLD " YOU\'RE PRETTY TO BE SOO BLACK"  AND RANDOM PEOPLE WHITE OR BLK ASKING, "WHAT ARE U?" AND MY ANSWER WOULD ALWAYS BE, "HUMAN" AND I WALK AWAY.. AND GIRLS ASKING ME IF I HAD A JERI CURL OR WHAT COLOR WEAVE WAS I WEARING! WTF!! YES I FELT AND ALWAYS HAVE FELT THEY WAY U HAVE. THIS IS WHY IM SOO F*ING  BLUNT! AND DONT HAVE MANY FEMALE FRIENDS.....</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 </ul>\
';

(function() {
	
	





Dsq.Debug.profile(function() {
	if(Dsq.jsonData.request.page == 1 && Dsq.jsonData.request.is_initial_load) {
		Dsq.container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.header() + Dsq.container.innerHTML + Dsq.Templates.footer();
	}
	Dsq.$(Dsq.curPageId).innerHTML = Dsq.$(Dsq.curPageId).innerHTML.replace(Dsq.COMMENTS_RE, Dsq.CommentsHandler);
}); // Dsq.Debug.Profile

// HACK: Resetting cache because we're done with.
Dsq.Utils.gebiFromElementCollectionCache = null;


	
	
	var dsq_styleEl = document.getElementById(disqus_container_id);
	var dsq_anchorEl = document.getElementsByTagName('a')[0];
	
	Dsq.Thread.fc = Dsq.Utils.getStyle(dsq_styleEl, 'color');
	if(dsq_anchorEl) { Dsq.Thread.ac = Dsq.Utils.getStyle(dsq_anchorEl, 'color'); }
	Dsq.Thread.ff = Dsq.Utils.getStyle(dsq_styleEl, (Dsq.Utils.ie || window.opera ? 'fontFamily' : 'font-family'));
	// For Safari / Opera: strip quotes.
	Dsq.Thread.ff = Dsq.Thread.ff.replace(/['"]/g, '');
	Dsq.Thread.fc = encodeURIComponent(Dsq.Thread.fc);
	Dsq.Thread.ac = encodeURIComponent(Dsq.Thread.ac);
	Dsq.Thread.ff = encodeURIComponent(Dsq.Thread.ff);

	
	
	
	if(Dsq.$(Dsq.Templates.addPostContainer)) {
		// TODO: Check to see if theme uses postmessage.
		if (window.disqus_use_postmessage) {
			Dsq.frames['reply_0'] = new Dsq.ReplyFrame(Dsq.$(Dsq.Templates.textareaContainer));
			Dsq.frames['reply_0'].init(function() {
				// Use fallback iframe
				Dsq.$(Dsq.Templates.addPostContainer).innerHTML = '';
				var theme = (typeof disqus_frame_theme == 'undefined') ? 'default' : disqus_frame_theme;
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(Dsq.$(Dsq.Templates.addPostContainer), null, {theme: theme});
				// if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
			});
		} else {
			// DEPRECATED
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(Dsq.$('dsq-post-add'));
		}
	}

	
	

	
	if(document.location.hash != '') {
		document.location.hash = document.location.hash.substring(1);
	}

	Dsq.Popup.showCookieMsgs();

	
	if(document.location.search != '' && location.hash != '#disqus_thread') {
		var reply_id = Dsq.Utils.getRequestParams().dsq;
		if(reply_id) { document.location.hash = 'comment-' + reply_id; }
	}

	
	if((typeof OB_Script != 'undefined') && (typeof OB_versionNum != 'undefined')) {
		if(navigator.userAgent.indexOf("Firefox") != -1) {
			if(window.frames['dsq-reply-frame']) {
				window.frames['dsq-reply-frame'].location = Dsq.Urls.REPLY + (new Date()).getTime() + '&f=blogxilla&t=the_trails_x_tribulations_of_this_indian_hair&to_redirect=' + encodeURIComponent(window.location) + '&ifrs=' + encodeURIComponent(disqus_iframe_css);
			}
		}
	}

	if (Dsq.jsonData.integration.theme == 4) {
		if (Dsq.jsonData.realtime_enabled) {
			Dsq.Realtime.initialize();
		}
	}

	




if(typeof(disqus_callback) == 'function') {
	var callback_params = Dsq.Utils.getRequestParams()['dsq_cbp'] || null;

	// We don't care about any errors in third-party code
	try {
		disqus_callback(callback_params);
	} catch (x) {
		if (typeof(console) != 'undefined' && typeof(console.log) == 'function') {
			// But it would be nice to let developers know about them
			console.log(x);
		}
		// pass
	}

	// HACK: We don't know if the callback wraps our container, which may
	// possibly result in a new DOM element.
	Dsq.container = document.getElementById('dsq-content');
}

})();




