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And I will never do the same to someone else.<br>Im an adult and I expect to be treated as such.<br><br>If Im in a relationship and you feel you need to go through my phone, then you dont trust me. If you dont trust me, then there is no reason for us to be together. For real.<br><br>While Im at it.. Chicks if your man is texting another chick and you want to know whats going on. STOP calling the other chick and embarassing yourselves. You look like a crazy mofo. Confront your MAN. That's who you are involved with. Not the chick.<br><br>Great blog, Xilla. :)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:51:52", "killed": false, "user_key": "9598a972fa03c038dc0be9136fdfd6f7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208656": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I am a FIRM believer of what's done in the dark will one day come to the light. Yes, I have been the one checking text messages, ordering phone bills, snooping thru the wallet, etc, etc. But I was younger-a LOT younger. I am now secure enough in who I am that I refuse to lower myself to this level. When the time is appropriate I may see some of my hubby's text messages. However, I WILL NOT look thru them to get in his business. This is smothering to me. I have to trust that he is doing right. If he isn't...I'll find out. SIMPLE AS THIS. I don't think being in a relationship gives the other partner a RIGHT to invade privacy. After all, this relationship is between 2 individuals w/individual sh**. This hits home w/me b/c of my current situation. Fix yourself. Worry about you and everything will be perfect even if it doesn't seem like it will. When it all boils down the only person you have full 100% CONTROL over is......YOU! Take care of that person. I agree Xilla, no one should cheat and no one deserves to be cheated. Also, no one deserves to have their partner go Inspector Gadget and F&gt;B&gt;I all their shit. Every relationship needs trust to survive. If you are a jealous insecure person all the snooping in the world won't satisfy you or make you content. Step back and work on yourself. Like you said...you find what you go looking for. 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I dated a married man once, and his crazass wife dropped his son off at my apt while she shopped! i'm like bitch are u nutty. mind u he worked a job where we couldn't contact him until late that evening. i had no idea he was married or had a kid! i've also had this random trollop tht dated my cousin slash my tires thinking we were messings around. [i let him use my truck for dates and she errantly assumed i was his boo] needless to say i had to beat my tire money out her ass like i was in jr. high! <br><br>there are some women that knowingly condone cheating, some don't. don't assume all women are this inconsiderate. as soon as i catch wind of a man having a sigother, i bounce. period. women make themselves look amazingly stupid when they fbi the other woman. she has no ties to u[even if she does know] so CHECK YA MAN and keep ya own house clean! period! ARG! i need a shut yo mouf potion just thinkin bout that!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_21:34:36", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4214835, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4276257": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "lol sharing is caring and i don't wanna not mention that i relate to where u all are, i've been tempted but i practice restraint. my mother, sister, and most of my friends are like u....i see the hurt and energy wasted and its just ming boggling to me...<br>i think thas my prob mistress. i have TOO MUCH control. u gotta learn to let go and let love...i dunnooooo!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_18:27:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4274761, "depth": 6, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208674": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Ugh... I hate typos! I meant to say:<br><br>If they're too dumb AND leave a trail then OH WELL, not my fault! lol", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:53:25", "killed": false, "user_key": "thejadednyer", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208625, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208679": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I feel you. If your man cheats...check your man. You weren't in a relationship with the other woman. Just check your man.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:53:39", "killed": false, "user_key": "44479c9b1de8873c247b508e94a49b17", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208645, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4214835": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "You know something that shit happened to me last night. A friend of mine texted me to see how I was doing, then the next thing I know I got a text back saying \"Who is this\"? She was like how u know my man? I couldn't help but laugh. I hate that shit. I was like me and ol boy are friends if u have any other questions check your man bitch. She was like I just wanna know whats going on? I was like why you still contacting me? <br>I hate bitches like that.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:42:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "BABY_T", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208645, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208698": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "the whole point of looking IS to find something (no?) wht do u think ur gonna find in a mans cell phone...love notes to you (his girl)...nah lol. Ur gonna find txts to his boys, etc if he's not doing his thing on the side.<br><br>If I'm going to look then it's for a reason.<br>1) either I feel ur up to no good or I feel tht ur trying to hide something<br><br>I've looked b4 in the past but it was for the above reason. Would I look now, probably not. Wht's the point, who gives a sh*t...lol. Do wht u do daddy b/c u only live once! And we're not married ;)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:54:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 13, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4274245": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "you don't understand correctly. he was a football player and i'm into getting my fitness on. he asked me to bring this underarmour wear that had been left at my house after we worked out. being a man and stupid he didn't time his ish right, and there ya go! i left the clothes on the porch and wrote a note \"we are no longer TnT, as something a tad more explosive just drove past me. please return my fishing pole and donate whatever clothes i left here to charity\" i know it sounds madd dramatic, but i'm just a bit more icy than most women. he's in the nfl to this day and will still try to occassionally fall back, explain. leaving things so abruptly f'd him up. had i done the typical crazy woman than he would have been able to let go of me more easily.<br><br>i have no respect for the women that reduce themselves to sherlock ho's, as that behavior its tacky and classless, but eh i'm an ass.[thus the pic lol]", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_16:53:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4248949, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4380743": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "OK, so I've read enough comments to know i'm not the only thats fallen victim to checking your sig's fone.  It wasn't something I did often, but I was bound to find something. <br>\"....but it also shows me how men can sometimes have a disregard/ lack of respect for the woman they \"love\". \" that was very true [to me].  I hate when dudes lie. I'd like to think I'm a big enough girl that you just keep it a 100 with me and *I* decide whether I'll stay or not. I DETEST lies. really.<br><br> he was one of those 'honest, yea im real' cats and i thought bc he was a friend first and hell, a 'good' person, i wouldnt have to worry about shit like that. but fbook,myspace, the way communication is it makes it so easy to have shit out in the open. so i always saw some bullshit that bothered me. he tried to play that role with me where \"he tells all the girls about each other because thats being honest.. : / ...soooo I don't worry about his fone no more even tho i get tempted when he leaves his shit around [he used to but since we had become a lil serious he started NOT to, i caught that shit lol].  my main thing is now that i learned my lesson??<br><br>YOU ARE OF ABSOLUTELY NO USE TO ME BECAUSE I CAN'T TRUST YOU. <br><br>it's WRONG PERIOD to play with someones feelings,but it's not the guys fault if you stick around for his dumb shit AFTER you know he's not sincerely invested in what you and him can have together.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-12_20:23:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "88752188d5aaa26420a88a188150af38", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4274761": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Gotcha, sounds like you got it under control...<br><br>Someone is bound the benefit from your experience...gotta love this blog...Sharing is Caring :-D", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_16:17:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4274245, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208717": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I've never been one to wait for my man to leave and check his phone. If i decide to go through it I do it in his face, which is always better because if he has something to hide he'd fight to keep you out. . . . .<br><br>But then when you look or trouble you find it. . .so when trouble is not bothering me I don't go looking for it.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:55:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lissa", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208211": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I suffered from this syndrome (i've overcame it- pats on the back) and have reoccuring urges to do this. not only do i find out some disgusting bullshit everytime i look at that phone, but it also shows me how men can sometimes have a disregard/ lack of respect for the woman they \"love\". <br><br>i'm not one of those females who wants the perfect guy, i mean let's face it nobodys perfect. i expect you to do stupid shit like flirt/text/look other youngings...your a man for christs sake!! and most of all human. but the simple fact that your stupid enough to leave it on there when you claim to \"know how females\" are...just shows 1. your stupidity and 2. your lack of respect and care for your mate or your own damn privacy. <br><br>i've since stopped even looking in the direction of the phone and have since found a extrodinary piece of mind. if it is visable i'd cover it with a paper or a napkin or something. don't let me get started on the myspace/blackplanet/facebook notes and comments fiasco...the internet is not for children i.e. little ass \"grown\" boys + girls....let me stop before i be here allday...i love this post by the way, glad u brought it back.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:26:43", "killed": false, "user_key": "6590fc8518246a22d1854fb3f8058541", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4215383": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Me and my girls are definitely snoops. We've done it all, gone through phones, emails, checked voicemails, gone through garbages. I even checked license plates to check for suspicious tickets. And everytime we did it we found something. But each and everyone of us stayed in the relationship. I don't do it now. Lawd knows I have the urges. I only stopped because of the simple fact that I stayed in the relationship and it turned me into a paranoid woman. I always wondered who he was with, where he was, who was he really talking to on the phone? What is the sense of putting yourself through all that when you are going to stay anyway. Men are known to be stupid when it comes to cheating so you will find out one way or the other. My thing is all things come to light.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_18:21:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "8a77e92f5362a7e055d49f64df700e6b", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210265": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "you feel me anujs?  i get a high off being honest. sometimes it gets me in trouble but most respect it....", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:13:28", "killed": false, "user_key": "497c36c7ff37ba628032b03b1c83eb47", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209070, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4214876": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Leave mine alone and I will do the same. Say it girl!!!!! Say it!!!!!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:45:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "BABY_T", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210668, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208734": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Man I been there but I usually find that it's not worth because men are more likely to be sloppy with their ish and I'll eventually find out (like I did this week) damn damn damn! lol Great post!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:56:28", "killed": false, "user_key": "677716126caa22e9dec8e156b58aa2fc", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4236383": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I'm pretty sure tht wasn'nt directed twds him....lol..<br><br>Tht's exactly wht I tell a guy. Guys have a tendency 2 think tht a female isn't going to do her (if he's doing him).", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-07_12:24:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209168": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "wow that you find out this week? Does the BlogXilla crew need to come through and hurt someone?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:18:05", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208734, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4210792": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "He was actually working w/my girlfriends to set up a wonderful evening. The limo took us diner and then to a club.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:40:35", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210303, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4214888": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "lol hell yea whoop dat ass!!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:46:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "TiddySinclaire", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209168, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4236405": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "i used to be nosy too; go over emails and phones, and I've always found some ish. Now the thing is if you got to the point that you want to crack his email or cell, that alone means that he is already doing wrong, our intuition rarely lies. The dude who loves you and have nothing to hide will hand you over his phone and let you use it for example if your battery is dead and you need to call someone, or he can even let you answer his phone if he is not around, and he will ASK you to check his email if he has no access to it and he really needs some info.  So once dude start being all overdefensive on privacy and stuff, that rings bells. All this digging shit is really stressful and disrespectful, and i realized it only when it was done to me. My man was going through my stuff on the regular and i didn't know about it. So when he found some shit in my emails and made a scene, it was such a big turn off too me that i decided to end 3 year long relationship right there, now when i know how the other side feels about it, i would never put anyone in same situation. I mean, if you feel like he or she is doing crap, chances are pretty high that you are right and probably it's better to confront the wrong side or just bounce out.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-07_12:27:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "3f0aa83152d6e2e885a8bb15e24e43e5", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4219004": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Exactly lol!  <br><br>Half the ppl who go snooping don't do ish when they find dirt...so whts the point in busting out a guys windows if ur gonna stay w/ him. Ur gonna look like to fool rolling around in a car w/o any windows lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_23:47:41", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4217728, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210303": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "A limo wow, I never been  in a limo before where did he take you?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:15:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "54eae77df33a11911d3a27879d96e459", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210148, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4236429": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "no, not at all, that shit was funny as hell, not to mention 100% true of me at the time I was doin it...I can admit it and laugh at it now cause I learned to control my crazy and not let it control me :-)<br><br>I still believe there are situations where it is appropriate or necessary is actually a better word: some religions (I hate religion) won't allow a divorce/annulment unless there is PROOF of adultery so if it is your intention to find it and end it then it's a must but just being nosey and insecure knowing you're gonna stay despite what you may find is stupid, you really only damage yourself emotionally <br><br>dont look at it as getting the short end of the stick, anytime you come out on the BETTER side of the situation, despite how f*cked up that situation may have been...You Win", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-07_12:31:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4234205, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210333": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "That's because most people doing dirt will tell on their self that's why you don't really need to go through anyones phone... you know we've known each other for a few years now and never met, or bumped into each other... im outta here for a hot minute though. Hold Atlanta down for me Crush!!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:17:05", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209355, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4218993": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Nah tht wasn't directed twds u Xilla lol.<br><br>I was saying in general about any man tht I decide to date lol.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_23:45:54", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210407, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4225193": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "You Know What Imma Tell You Rite Now I Just Went Thru Sum Ish Like This Like Two Dyas Ago.<br>My Dude We Only Been Together For Like 4 Months Decides He Wanted To Go Thru My Phone While I Was In The Restroom.<br>I Come Back And He All Up In My Phone On My Aim Goin Thru My Txt's Msg's And Picture Mail.<br>I Felt Very Disrepected And I Told Him.<br>He Was All Mad Ova Sum Old Dick Flicks.<br>I've Neva Wanted To Go Thru My Man's Phone. I Feel I'm Grown I'll Ask If I Wanna Know And If You Lie To Me It'll Reveal Itself.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_12:52:36", "killed": false, "user_key": "57fe06a7e933393d7081760af4f2863a", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4214961": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "This happend to me tooooooo many times in the past.. now i  got a lock on my phone and REFUSE to give it to ANYONE!! I mean even if i had the cure for cancer on my phone and i was on my death bed: F*ck you, have a nice day!<br><br> even tho I have nothing to hide (now).. Nothing urks me more than a nosey @$$ female.  so if she wants to see my phone, she has to ask me and for the most part i will say yeah. However she does have to let me know what she needs to see it for. ..and praise the lord for iphones, cause i have the ability to lock certain programs and leave some open. So if she tries to sneak peek at my texts or my recent calls: DENIED. silly you.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:51:43", "killed": false, "user_key": "Belly", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209845": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I have no problem with looking in my man's phone...do it all the time! and i'm not one of those people to do it while he's out of the room or away either. I do it right there in front of his face.  my thing is, if you have NOTHING to hide, then you shouldn't have a problem with me looking. and its not as though i'm looking in anything in particular, just skimming thru. (my bf has an iPhone and i like to play with it sometimes)<br><br>and one day while skimming, i saw a text message chain that was severly questionable. so i asked about it.  once again, if you have nothing to hide , this wouldn't be an issue. his response was \"why are you going thru my phone?\" DEFENSE MODE!!   of course he says its nothing and its not what i think it is...blah, blah, blah. I had already made it clear that i don't do cheating or cheaters. that's the one thing that i WILL NOT forgive, and is a guaranteed way to get a pink slip.  and it works both ways...i have nothing to hide, so my phone is open all day, everyday.<br><br>But if you're afraid of what you might see, definately don't go looking.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:51:11", "killed": false, "user_key": "ChucksFavorite", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210881": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Hush up...DC asked me NOT u lol....lmao.<br>But I wish I wud've told him b/c I cud've got something else too.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:45:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210443, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210372": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "iight CF i hear you.  do you belive that your urge to look is a form of insecurity? <br><br>so say you and you man sitting home tonight and his phone ring/text and he ignors it? what are you going say/do? <br><br>you know what...women do mind us looking b/c ya'll 'premeditate\" your deeds. not saying that you do...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:19:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "497c36c7ff37ba628032b03b1c83eb47", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209845, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4220620": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "i feeling this entry...  and i'ma need to cop that book lol<br>yo thats my phone last time i check i go into my <a href=\"http://tmobile.com\" rel=\"nofollow\">tmobile.com</a> account and pay that joint, don't be checking! and if you go and find pictures of my meat, point blank i'ma freak... and you should know cause thats how i got you GRRRrrRRR but you get my drift.<br><br>I DON'T CHECK ANY GIRLS PHONE CAUSE I DON'T PAY HER BILL, I DON'T WANNA PAY HER BILL, AND THAT'S ALL HER BUSINESS. LET HER DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS. BUT ITS DIFFERENT IF I'M WITH YOU AND YOU TEXTING, THEN WE HAVING BEEF.<br>Don't look at the other teams play book, cause at the end of the day this is a contact sport, they always have something up their sleeve. ART MADDEN Reporting from Blogxilla! BOOM!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_03:17:00", "killed": false, "user_key": "Art2dope", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210050, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209355": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Man Xilla what are you talking about my ex and I were trying to work it out about 8mths ago and I would notice that every time he left the room even if he was butt naked he would make sure he had his phone with him... but I wasn't trying to get to his phone or anything I'm very secure in myself and plus I was there to just work out my needs not get into another crazy relationship with his ass. So check this out after a night of pleasure I get up in the morning to go down stairs to fix breakfast(left my phone in my purse upstairs with nosy) So I come back up the stairs to ask him if he wanted toast or something and guess who I find digging in my purse looking in my phone...All I could do was laugh and ask him did he find what he was looking for. He responded \"yeah just what I thought you would be doing\"....now I don't have picture messages or texts plan on my phone so I'm guessing he went through my contacts but what can contacts tell you...NOTHING! Anyway he got mad at me like he caught me going through his stuff and told me he thought I should leave, WOW.  I'm so glad I'm over his crazy ass the wood ain't that good to have to deal with the B.S.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:26:34", "killed": false, "user_key": "CRUSH", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4235980": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "you sure that wasnt directed to xilla? i think with what you right and what he rights yall should have sex and see who cums out on top", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-07_11:31:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "3777c4a8881aba11fc27376cd9d3d84d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4218993, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4211406": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Can I get some of that mobile to mobile action? I wanna see some meat!!!!<br><br>lol", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:10:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "TiddySinclaire", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210894, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210894": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "AHHH YES THE DREADFUL PHONE! personally i think phones are off limits, and there are rules to usage. If i'm with my shorties i won't answers text... and in general yo thats my phone last time i check i go into my <a href=\"http://tmobile.com\" rel=\"nofollow\">tmobile.com</a> account and pay that joint, don't be checking! and if you go and find pictures of my meat, point blank i'ma freak... and you should know cause thats how i got you GRRRrrRRR but you get my drift.<br><br>I DON'T CHECK ANY GIRLS PHONE CAUSE I DON'T PAY HER BILL, I DON'T WANNA PAY HER BILL, AND THAT'S ALL HER BUSINESS. LET HER DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS. BUT ITS DIFFERENT IF I'M WITH YOU AND YOU TEXTING, THEN WE HAVING BEEF. <br>Don't look at the other teams play book, cause at the end of the day this is a contact sport, they always have something up their sleeve. ART MADDEN Reporting from Blogxilla! BOOM!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:45:52", "killed": false, "user_key": "Art2dope", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4230358": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "ROFLMAO @ i mean whoa there cap'n' crazy!.... You are too effin funny!!!!<br><br>I hear you, but let me clarify,  I have never approached another chick, I've always believed that was a the dumbest shyt any woman can do...sitting outside of her house was for the purpose of confrontin him, not her (fully understanding that that is only SLIGHTLY \"less crazy\") LOL<br><br>at the time I was doin this I was very young (late teens/early twenties) and the first couple of times it was out of sheer desperation and then when I figured out the \"talent\" that I had for snooping/skip tracing thats when it became fun like a sport, a talent which I've been able to turn into a nice little career btw :-)<br><br>I'm a people watcher, I love to observe behavior and I've found that people in general thrive on drama, that is why men stay with the crazy girls that \"bust the windows out their car\" and the crazy girls stay with the men that KEEP cheatin on them...I think once you step into early adulthood and are figuring out friendships and relationships drama is almost a given but instead of separating the good from the bad, people get used to the bad, accept it  and think it's normal<br><br>It almost seems like people don't feel like they are worth anything unless something dramatic and crazy is happening in their lives...they can have that shyt, I'll take peace, calm and pure fun any day...<br><br>and being emotionless is not masculine, thats just survival, I am very emotional but only the people who deserve my emotion get it ... when I tell you I have learned to detach and retreat at a moments notice... shyyyyyt - so fast a n*gga will almost forget he ever even knew me", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_21:39:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4227397, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210393": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "did you tell him you looked? did you act surprised?", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:20:07", "killed": false, "user_key": "497c36c7ff37ba628032b03b1c83eb47", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210148, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210407": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "was this directed to me? Is that a challenge? HAHAHA We can get a battle like Sandman and Bill Cosby you don't want it! lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:20:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210036, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4209191": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "The Book Of Ness might get you in trouble... you better be careful!!!! nah Ness is a good guiide for a person who knows what she's doing.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:19:04", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209120, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4217587": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "lol my ex busted into my BP account and got to sendin all kinds of random stuff. i knew he was nutty so i went in with my boy on all kinds of crazy letters. dude was fumin inside but couldn't say anything because he wasn't supposed to have seen what he saw. everntually i told him i knew he checks my ish refularly and i don't appreciate it especially when he's fucking his boss.[he got fired but kept money and isn't smart enough to hustle] we talked it out and moved on and pretty much didn't go there again.<br><br>i've never looked in a phone and won't. usually when i've dated a guy that was trickin off the other woman has called or it becomes so blatant i can't help but move on. do NOT look for trouble because you'd find it. [whether its really there or ur lack of trust conjurs up a rue of foolishness] mmm mm! don't do it!]", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_21:24:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210504, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210423": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Well said.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:21:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208896, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4236415": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "You're right. If you look for something just know you're gonna find something. So, don't look1", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-07_12:29:20", "killed": false, "user_key": "9abe4a83b027001139563f79b9007e45", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4217598": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Thank You, Thank You, Thank You - this cannot be said enough!!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_21:25:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208679, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208896": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I've been there before, when I was in an awful relationship, caught my man doing wrong before and was just ITCHING to find some evidence to prove he never stopped with his tricks. It's not a happy place to be in. Since that nightmare ended, I've calmed down significantly. I'm still a little nosy, but not like that, but because I want to get to know my dude better, cuz guys know they don't share details and us girls love details... I don't bother with the snooping because I've realized there are so many other signs that he's doing wrong, and if you're at the point where you feel the need to check, you pretty much already know your answer and know what you're gonna find. Looking in his phone or trying to hack into his email account won't make him NOT cheat, so why even put yourself through it. I don't care who you're texting, who's calling, etc. as long as I know you're doing right by me. I know if anyone got in my phone they might not be too happy with what they see, so I can't judge! <br>Plus, there's something to be said for having a little bit of privacy, or at least feeling that sense of privacy. Even in a long-term committed relationship you need to hold onto something that feels like it's yours, and not \"ours\", even though in reality you're on each other's phones like its nothing... let him feel like he you that permission.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:04:03", "killed": false, "user_key": "069b025d6f8da9591564d669fbc09324", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4278018": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "As a woman, I think this kind of news coming from a platonic male friend may be a lot easier to accept than coming from a female friend...<br><br>Another idea, provided it's your plan to tell her, is to give him the opportunity to tell her himself and that if he doesn't you certainly will, this however could also backfire in too many ways to name...<br><br>tough situation...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_19:45:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4251441, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210443": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "She probably ain't say anything she just acted SHOCKEd when she saw it probably! lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:22:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210393, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4208910": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "It is a bad habit! !A Terrible one I checked my baby momma phone one day and I aint like shit i saw!! It wasn't even that bad... If you leave your phone around me I'm calling you to come get your shit! <br><br>I don't even want you to leave it in my area... <br><br>but i feel you on that trust thing its a very important part of all relationships because that what a relationship is trusting someone with what will hurt you... and them not hurting you.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:04:53", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208645, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4221727": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "WORD! the couple across the street are so serious about their fights. i mean have shot out windows and tire[shocked the hell outta me, guess people don't use clubs like in the old days] and they call the police on each other back and forth. she's bout 5-7 mo preg by dude from what i hear[i'm just TELLIN THEY BIDNIS lol] what's the friggin pt!?<br><br>99% of the snoopy mc nosins never do ish, or they throw a royal fit only to be romparoomin in the bed an hr lata., CRAZY! i ain' never and will never be that chick. i'd rather besomewhere high plotton on the next d-i....WOOOORD! lol", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_05:43:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4219004, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4279073": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I don't want to tell her.  She and I have some history.  Long, long time ago history, but history none the less.  Now I am just really tight with her and her whole family.  I'm even cool with him and made it a point to make him feel comfortable when we're all together.<br><br>I think he said that in front of me to get a reaction.  Maybe he's trying to self destruct.  What I have decided to do is talk to him.  I left him a voicemail to call me, but he hasn't yet.  I'm going to explain to him that I am not going to say anything to her about what you alluded to, but at the same time, you are on notice that I don't ever want to hear anything like that come from you to me and that you need to consider what you are doing and be a man about your shit.<br><br><br>No matter what though you're right.  Tough situation.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_20:50:31", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ant_from_Chi", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4278018, "depth": 4, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210475": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "WOW that's scary I don't want anyone going through my stuff... I hate that crap... I just realized i'm a bit weird... What if you go through the wrong stuff and go through the dirty clothes? Then what you done molested my dirty draws... ewww.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:24:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208559, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4251441": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Xilla, I have a topic to debate.  You probably already covered this, but I must have missed it.  Anyway, I had a party the other night and one of my favorite non sexual lady friends was there.  Her man came later.  Me and a couple of my friends were in the kitchen eating when he came in.  He walked to us, gave pounds all around, then joined the conversation.  I asked him if he had seen the fight and he says \"I didn't see it, (Blank) thought I was there, but I was somewhere else.  I had to call one of the homies to get the info so that when she asked me later, I would know what happened.\"<br><br>Now granted, he didn't say that he was out fucking around, but he certainly alluded to it.  My question now to you is, what would you do in a situation like this.  Keep in mind that she is the one that's my friend and I know him through her.  I already know what I am going to do, I just want to know what you and the rest of the community have to say about this.  I'm really tempted to tell her because they are about to buy a house together and they have kids, but you know how it could go.  What I am going to do though is call him and let him know that he is going to fuck up his relationship, among other things.  And that he should be careful who he says these type of things in front of, especially since one of the cats who heard it was trying to holla at (Blank) before he got there.<br><br>Anyway, the party was great.  a couple of people got in trouble because they was out too late and/or up in some chicks face they wasn't supposed to be in.  Good times.  Wish you all could have been there.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_11:34:46", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ant_from_Chi", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210504, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210996": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "\"Don't look at the other teams play book, cause at the end of the day this is a contact sport, they always have something up their sleeve. ART MADDEN Reporting from Blogxilla! BOOM!\"<br><br>LOL!! @ the sportscaster swag ! LOL!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:50:37", "killed": false, "user_key": "f5ab8313896425c8b194c7a8d7055205", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210894, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4211510": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I liked this post the first time and I like it again this time around too. <br><br>I don't do it. I don't believe in it. I don't want them checkin my shit cuz don't wanna check their's. <br><br>This is all me ova here. <br><br>That's all them ova there.<br><br>I'm a grown ass woman dog!!<br><br>hee hee", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:15:22", "killed": false, "user_key": "TiddySinclaire", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4218172": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "THIS used to be my shyt! I was the QUEEN of snooping....and not just snooping and finding out THAT he was cheating but who with and all her info too, so when your ass is with her tryin to dodge me, I just may end up sittin in your car waitin for you while you're parked outside of her house :-)...<br><br>ohhh it was sooooo emotionally destructive at first but after awhile I got so GD good at it that it became like a sport, when I found shyt I wouldn't even get mad, I would just reveal my discovery, then gloat and laugh while my bf would be lookin like how in the hell did she do that? <br><br>Oh you can't imagine some of the ways I found shyt out....cracking cell phone and vcml codes is fun but have you ever known the satisfaction of findin that other b*tch in the phone book with just her first name and a street name OR just with the telephone number??? Now that's a rush!!!! <br><br>Ahhh good times those were, but I gave all that up, there's no point, especially if you ain't ending the relationship because of it...you go thru all the \"Ahhh Ha! Gotcha!!!\" just to turn around and stay so he can do it some more...<br><br>It's a hard habit to break though, espcially if you're \"investigative\" by nature like I am, most of the time it is fueled by distrust and insecurity and some people are just  naturally \"curious\" or simply want the satisfaction of letting that other person know they ain't stupid and you can't get over on me...but again, if you ain't leavin it's all for nothing....<br><br>thanks for reposting this Xilla, I was \"Blogxilloblivious\" until a few months ago so I really enjoy the \"from the vault\" posts", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_22:19:25", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4227397": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "i am stunned! i mean whoa there cap'n' crazy! i'm glad u gave it up....<br><br>what kills me[kinda shocked that we haven't touchedo n this] is how some men feed on the women that do this....i'm more masculine i guess in that i've become emotionless and don't trip as much as many of u/my girls do... that being said... why the FUGG are men so quick to stay  with the crazy girls. its like they feel honored that she cares enoug hto do all that. all the while someone like me get, \"i mean have a reaction. u jis seem like u don't care. a nigga might wanna argue sometimes\" i honestly refuse to do relationship drama as there's a whiteboy that won't put me thru the flux waiting in the wings. <br>when the wives contacted me or the super sleuths like y'all, i cut off all communication. never waited for a reason etc as there's not a logical one to explain the lies etc.... men SWEAR they want drama free, super sexin, cookin women, but when they have that, they make trouble where there isn't any...i don't get it!?!!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_16:31:45", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4218172, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210504": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "lol I feel you, the internet makes cheating so easy... it also makes getting caught cheating very easy... Yahoo is the worst though it's super easy to crack a yahoo password if you really want to do that...  Black Planet... i got horror stories!! For real! lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:25:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 5, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208211, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4224858": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "If you do it, be prepared for what you might find.  Be prepared to have a fight about what you saw, and why you were checking in the first place.  I say leave it alone.  If they are cheating there should be other signs anyway.  And if I did check someones phone, I wouldn't even try to hide it - I'd do it right in front of them to see how they react.  If they start trying to grab the phone back before I can look, I know we have a problem.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_12:14:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "de07630b9b36ffb04b8f36c96379a1cb", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210525": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Wow you're efficient, lol do you check the trash as well?", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:26:47", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208375, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4209000": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Ness, you're hilarious!! lol You know that right... lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:09:06", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208698, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4215152": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "EXACTLY!!! what is the real reason behind you going thru my phone? INSECURITY.. thats how i see it and there is no other excuse.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_18:05:32", "killed": false, "user_key": "Belly", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210372, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210036": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Hahahaha! lol...<br><br>Wht's the point in getting mad & upset...have ur fun b/c whtever u do, I can do better! lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:01:47", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209120, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4248949": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "You're right God will show you and sometimes that showing is via an unattended cell phn or email account :-) his assistance is not always miraculous \"a la walking on water\" in nature, sometimes it comes in real down to earth human forms of behavior that we can easily but mistakenly give ourselves the credit for    <br><br>Do I understand correctly: driving by on a hunch?? If so, that's snooping, in one of its mildest forms, not as invasive or disrespectful as checkin phones and emails of course but still an effort to find something based on that feeling that something ain't right nonetheless<br><br>At any rate I applaud the women who don't do it and don't have too but also understand and respect those who do it for the purpose of finding proof and getting closure to get away from that relationship, as with most things there's no real \"right or wrong\" its all based on your circumstances <br><br>Sherlock ho's...LOL!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_09:14:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4245999, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4215670": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "\"checked license plates to check for suspicious tickets\"?????????????????????<br><br>Jesus christ!!! <br><br>....personally i wouldnt be able to handle that relationship.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_18:42:18", "killed": false, "user_key": "Belly", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4215383, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4211583": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I'm not down with checking phones..I find it to be an invasion of privacy. If the significant other is messing around it will come out one way or another I don't have the patience or sanity to be inspector gadget", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:18:46", "killed": false, "user_key": "d5ed708014d084ffa257da169b1d6bc8", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4217728": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "u betta SAY DAT Ness! hi5boo! until u get me rocked up i'm enjoyin this once around on the planet. i'm having fun and not stressin! if u feel they're hiding something, ask them about it and/or dead it. snooping is WHACK!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_21:38:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208698, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210050": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "LOL Trouble?<br><br>I haven't got into any trouble from following my \"book of Ness\" lol.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:02:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209191, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209038": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "all i can say is FELLAS... delete the deleted messages.<br><br>insecurity can ruin a good union.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:10:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "497c36c7ff37ba628032b03b1c83eb47", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209041": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Well he could be fighting just to maintain the trust level of your relationship, could he not? I mean he's probably hiding something but like Sher said if you can't trust a person you don't need to be with that person.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:10:37", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208717, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "4209556": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Really lol<br>Thanks for you recommendation.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:36:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "Princess0889", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209191, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4279189": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Yeah, the \"history\" changes everything...good call!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_20:59:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "HeadMistress", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4279073, "depth": 5, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4217754": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "i second xilla. i been known to scrape the best ones! i been trained in the hood like rockysha or something! ****ehugs*** * don't trip K5, it'll be aight cuz it has to be.... ur just readying urself for that mjb real love, yaDIIIIIG!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_21:40:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208734, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4464538": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "but it's better to find out either way cause what if you'd never checked that phone? you'd still look lkike a fool thinking you're in a relationship...and you're right chating is not cool, but either way that shytt will come back to the person sooner or later...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-17_14:35:53", "killed": false, "user_key": "4bc5525b89fc77c9291270baa7df8607", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4227493": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "dumpster diving?! fa real!?!? ;O why!? i was amazed when an exes wife found out where i lived and left his kid with me, but i mean this is seriously a sport eh? like y'all get high offa ruinin lives and bein nosy?! maybe i be to high or horny to care...this is WAY MAJA i see... nothing good comes from invading privacy. NOTHING....u have to allow ur mate to have some space....<br><br>love u enough to be secure in the relationship/leave. all of this behavior SCREAMS Isquared. Immaturity and Insecurity. both are solvable issues, get neked look at ur vagina with a mirror, realize its a grownup now, and pray for the strength to control it and the things it makes ya do! dang....", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-06_16:39:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4215383, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4217255": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "in response to DC_REALEST:<br><br>no, i'm not an insecure person at all. and to answer you example questions, I wouldn't  say or do anything. if he ignore's it, that's on him.  he ignore's his phone all the time, even while we're together , so it wouldn't be anything new. <br><br>and i can't speak for most women, but i truely don't mind you looking. becuase if you're \"looking\" for something in particular, i hope you find what you're looking for and if not, then maybe you shouldn't be \"looking\"  yeah, women do premediitate things ( yeah i do it too), but that definately isn't of them...", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_20:52:48", "killed": false, "user_key": "ChucksFavorite", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210372, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209070": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "\"insecurity can ruin a good union.\"  Some of the truest words ever!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:11:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "44479c9b1de8873c247b508e94a49b17", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209038, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208559": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Back in the day I must admit I checked the cell phone when he was out of the room, I even looked through his shit when he left the house. I found stuff out that I never imagined and I was mad at myself. I wanted to look and here I was crying my eyes out. Him cheating was wrong, but I found what I was looking for and I wish I hadn't. I no longer search shit because if your doing wrong that shit will one day come out into the light.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:47:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "BABY_T", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4217779": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "well said! i loved the part about holding on to something that's yours.... i agree that its soo necessary to have you own something. whether its ur phonem golfin with the fellas, getting ur nails did on sat, SOMETHING needs to be just for you without ur mates input/tampering. GO HEAD Suga!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_21:43:40", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208896, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4255680": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "It's crazy because I've only done it once EVER & that was this weekend LOL I just wanted to have evidence of my suspicion thank sweet baby Jesus I was wrong. On the flip, I've been called cold or uncaring(if thats a word) because I didnt go thru his stuff. As many people have previously, stated if u go looking u will find something & really that shit is not cool especially if you aint payin the bill on dat ho!!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_15:29:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "75efdc4c1727133990653fd7c6f2ff59", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "11 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208375": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I cant even lie. I will read that text message and anyother ones thats in the inbox and outbox. Im nosey as hell. But if he's foolin with another women, and these days a MAN text msg, a way of finding things out. Forreal", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:36:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "94f5b1e053d580d0f1830759e540be2d", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208603": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I have never been this type of person because when you go looking for something you are bound to find something you don't want to see. I mean if you have a doubt in your mind why are you still with them you have no trust. <br><br>If my man goes a look through my phone and he finds something then he better be prepared to find something he doesn't like because that is what he wants anyway. <br><br>If you are going to be nosy ask me because you are speaking to the nosiest person in the world I would understand if you wanna look. But don't look in mine if I can't look in yours.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:49:54", "killed": false, "user_key": "Princess0889", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4234205": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "lol glad u didn't take offense. i don't mean no harm and am quite silly[thus the cap'n'crazy comment ;D]<br><br>you inevitably confront her if ur sitting outside of HER home.  i think snooping thru ur mans stuff is the dumbest shit a woman can do. then rationalizing stalkerish behavior is the icing on the cake! i feel what u said re:drama. i jst hate that i'm always getting the short end of that stick. <br>being emotionless is a survival tactic, but i don't think its healthier. a balance of ocd of the nosyness and being withdrawn in fear of getting ur heart broken is healthier...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-07_06:14:28", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4209120": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "\"Do what u do daddy b/c u only live once! And we're not married\"<br><br>Say it Ness, Preach*swaying side to side in the church pew*", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_15:14:52", "killed": false, "user_key": "Princess0889", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 8, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4208698, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4214755": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Like going through some shit and finding track marks on your draws. lol Nasty as hell", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_17:38:13", "killed": false, "user_key": "BABY_T", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210475, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210148": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Oh...<br><br>Going thru a guys phone doesn't always lead to bad things. I found a txt mst once tht said he was gonna get a limo for me for my bday.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:07:05", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 6, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210668": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Back in the day my girls used to call me the \"code cracker\" !! LOL! there wasnt a cell phone in the Lou that i couldnt figure out the passcode to (typically because men are simple with codes: b-days, addresses, things like that) but its true that what you look for you shall find!! voicemails from broads saying \"i love you, boo\", \" i miss you\" \"when will i see you again\" IMAGINE THE STEAM COMING OUT OF MY EARS!!!  Men Ive dated dont typically text (if they did they were smart enough to delete asap) so that was never really a problem.  Now that Im older,  I CANT do it; not that I dont want to, but because I got too much dirt in my own phone!!! LOL! Nope! Golden Rule #38: Leave mine alone and I will do the same.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:34:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "f5ab8313896425c8b194c7a8d7055205", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4245999": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "its never necessary. from a religious standpt God keeps you at all times or something. if ur marriage is a whole union before him[or her] he will show u the deal. i had feelings my guy wasn't right, and when i went to his house a random groupie drove his car up the st. i didn't have to snoop or anything. i turned around, went to my fav lounge and read a book and sipped wine. i stopped speaking with him, and he knew what was up! to this day he tries to explain etc, but there's no need to listen. u KNOW when ur boo ain' true., period. we are blerssed with intuition and choose to be sherlock ho's. its just not necessary ever to me.<br><br>being how i am has made me a bit of a maneater. i'm a magnet for married men as they know that i'm confident enough to not get too attached, but eventually i want to find a soulmate and raise a family.[not to be confused with merging my finances etc with a marriage license]", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-08_04:30:44", "killed": false, "user_key": "Thoney", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4236429, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4208625": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "If you leave it for me to look through, I WILL look through it. I'm Nosey by Nature... not necessarily looking for anything, just nosey. I'll look through ANYBODY'S stuff- a dude, my sister, my moms- I'm just like that!<br><br>However, it IS how I busted my ex, so it comes in handy. If they're too dumb to leave a trail then OH WELL, not my fault! lol<br><br>Now, my stuff? Well, I'm not hiding anything. But to keep my moms or babies in the dark about grown folks business (in case they're nosey, too) I know all about deleting cookies, password protecting my ish, and deleting texts/photos from my phone ASAP.<br><br>This ain't my first time at the rodeo... lol", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_14:51:16", "killed": false, "user_key": "thejadednyer", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4210857": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "He found out I went thru is phone, and asked if I 'saw' anything and I said no...lol.<br><br>So when I went outside, and I had 2 b surprised! :) lol.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_16:43:55", "killed": false, "user_key": "Ness", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4210393, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "4216824": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Its never a trust thing because if I can't trust you I don't need you (lol. . .as you said). . the only reason I might flip open his phone is because for some reason he felt the need to go through mine. . . otherwise. . .whats done in the dark will come out, so I dont go searching . ..I agree with Ness do you", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-12-05_20:13:08", "killed": false, "user_key": "Lissa", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "12 months ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 4209041, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}}, "integration": {"receiver_url": "", "theme": 1, "reply_position": false, "disqus_logo": false}, "timer": {"timer_url": "http://localhost:8005", "thread_id": "7983627", "user_id": "anonymous", "forum_id": "32271", "hash": -2309109121805001354}, "thread": {"days_alive": 0, "slug": "from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see", "paginate": false, "num_pages": 1, "num_posts": 91, "per_page": 0, "total_posts": 0, "realtime_paused": true, "id": 7983627, "queued": false}, "reactions_limit": 10, "context": {"show_reply": true, "use_fb_connect": false, "forum_facebook_key": "", "use_yahoo": true, "subscribed": false, "use_twitter_signin": true, "use_openid": false, "realtime_speed": 5000}, "reactions_start": 0, "settings": {"debug": false, "disqus_url": "http://disqus.com", "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"}, "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"};
	/* */ this.jsonData.cookie_messages = {"user_created": null, "post_has_profile": null, "post_twitter": null, "post_not_approved": null}; this.jsonData.session = {"url": null, "name": null, "email": null}; /* */

	
	this.curPageId = 'dsq-comments';

	this.frames = {};
};

var disqus_popup_reference = null;

if(typeof DsqLocal == 'undefined') {
	DsqLocal = {};
}



/**
 * Dsq.Strings: UI strings
 */
Dsq.Strings = new function() {
	this.ADD_NEW_COMMENT = "Add New Comment";
	this.LOG_INTO_DISQUS = "Log into DISQUS";
	this.USE_MEDIA = "Use Media";
	this.LOGOUT = "Logout";
	this.SHARING_OPTIONS = "Sharing options";
	this.SHARE_ON = "Share on";
	this.TWEET_THIS_COMMENT = "Tweet this comment";
	this.SHARE_ON_NEWSFEED = "Share on news feed";
	this.SEND_UPDATE_TO_YAHOO = "Send update to Yahoo!";
	this.REBLOG_ON = "Reblog on";
	this.CONFIGURE_OPTIONS = "Configure options";
	this.POST_AS = "Post as";
	this.SORT_BY = "Sort by";
	this.SUBSCRIBE_BY_EMAIL = "Subscribe by email";
	this.SUBSCRIBE_BY_RSS = "Subscribe by RSS";
	this.POPULAR_NOW = "Popular now";
	this.BEST_RATING = "Best Rating";
	this.NEWEST_FIRST = "Newest first";
	this.OLDEST_FIRST = "Oldest first";
	this.HIGHLIGHTED = "Highlighted";
	this.UNSUBSCRIBE = "Unsubscribe";
	this.REQUIRED = "Required";
	this.OPTIONAL = "Optional";
	this.YOU_ARE_COMMENTING_AS_A = "You are commenting as a";
	this.LOGIN_BELOW = "Login below";
	this.PLEASE_LOGIN_BELOW_TO_COMMENT = "Please login below to comment.";
	this.SUBSCRIBE_TO_ALL_COMMENTS_BY_EMAIL = "Subscribe to all comments by email";
	this.DO_NOT_SUBSCRIBE_TO_COMMENTS = "Do not subscribe to comments";
	this.REALTIME_UPDATING_IS = "Real-time updating is";
	this.ENABLED = "enabled";
	this.PAUSED = "paused";
	this.PAUSE = "Pause";
	this.RESUME = "Resume";
	this.SHOW = "Show";
	this.JUST_NOW = "Just now";
	this.REPLY = "Reply";
	this.EDIT = "Edit";
	this.FLAG = "Flag";
	this.MODERATE = "Moderate";
	this.CANCEL = "Cancel";
	this.REPLYING_TO = "Replying to";
	this.REPORT_MISSING_REACTIONS = "Report missing reactions";
	this.POST_A_COMMENT = "Post a comment";
	this.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT = "Flag inappropriate comment";
	this.FLAGGED = "Flagged";
	this.NO = "No";
	this.YES = "Yes";
	this.NEVER_MIND = "Never mind";
	this.ARE_YOU_SURE_YOU_WOULD_LIKE_TO_REPORT_THIS_COMMENT_TO_A_MODERATOR = "Are you sure you would like to report this comment to a moderator";
	this.THIS_WILL_FLAG_COMMENTS_FOR_MODERATORS_TO_TAKE_ACTION = "This will flag comments for moderators to take action";
	this.TO_RATE_PLEASE_LOG_IN = "To rate, please log in";
	this.JUST_A_MOMENT = "Just a moment...";
	this.GUEST = "Guest";
	this.NAME = "Name";
	this.EMAIL = "Email";
  this.WEBSITE = "Website";
  this.SETTINGS = "Settings";
  this.MODERATOR_OPTIONS = "Moderator options: ";
};
// Dsq.Strings

/**
 * Dsq.FmtStrings: functions that return interpolated UI strings
 */
Dsq.FmtStrings = new function() {
	// Seems we have to use named interpolation for Django to translate. Investigate more.
	this.LOGGED_IN_AS = function(username) {
		return Dsq.Utils.interpolate('Logged in as %(username)s', {username:username});
	};

	this.LOGOUT_FROM = function(disqus) {
		return Dsq.Utils.interpolate('Logout from %(disqus)s', {disqus:disqus});
	};

	this.SHOWING_COMMENTS_FULL = function(total, num) {
		if (num === 1) {
			return Dsq.Utils.interpolate("Showing <span id='dsq-num-posts'>%(num)s</span> of <span id='dsq-total-posts'>%(total)s</span> comment", {num:num, total:total});
		} else {
			return Dsq.Utils.interpolate("Showing <span id='dsq-num-posts'>%(num)s</span> of <span id='dsq-total-posts'>%(total)s</span> comments", {num:num, total:total});
		}
	};

	this.SHOWING_COMMENTS_WITHOUT_PAGINATION = function(num) {
		if (num === 1) {
			return Dsq.Utils.interpolate("Showing <span id='dsq-num-posts'>%(num)s</span> comment", {num:num});
		} else {
			return Dsq.Utils.interpolate("Showing <span id='dsq-num-posts'>%(num)s</span> comments", {num:num});
		}
	};

	this.NUMBER_OF_COMMENTS = function(num) {
		return Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
			(num == 1
				? '%(num)s comment'
				: '%(num)s comments'
			), {num:num});
	};

	this.NUMBER_OF_LIKES = function(num) {
		return Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
			(num == 1
				? '%(num)s like'
				: '%(num)s likes'
			), {num:num});
	};

	this.NUMBER_OF_POINTS = function(num) {
		return Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
			(num == 1
				? '%(num)s point'
				: '%(num)s points'
			), {num:num});
	};
};
// Dsq.FmtStrings





Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN = '21bc467119200cb06806902fa8e2f5b0';
Dsq.COMMENTS_RE = /(<li.*?id="?dsq-comment-(\d+)"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*?)(<\/li>)/gim;
Dsq.POST_RE = /(<div.*?id="?dsq-comment-header-(\d+)"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*?)(<\/div>)\s*(<div.*?class="?dsq-comment-body"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*)(<\/div>)/gim;
Dsq.POST_BODY_RE = /\s*(<div.*?id="?dsq-comment-message-(\d+)"?.*?>)((?:.|\s)*)(<\/div>)/gim;
// HACK: Safari ends with "-->" while other browsers end with "--&gt;" as expected.
Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE = /&lt;!--\[(.*?)\]--(?:>|&gt;)/gim;



// TODO: It might be faster to use string methods to find all <li (...) </li> blocks and pass to Dsq.PostHandler manually.
Dsq.CommentsHandler = function(str, head, post_id, content, tail, offset, s) {
	var prepend_post = Dsq.Templates.prependPost(post_id);
	var append_post = Dsq.Templates.appendPost(post_id);

	content = content.replace(Dsq.POST_RE, Dsq.PostHandler);
	Dsq.Templates.postLoopCounter++;
	head = Dsq.Templates.Filters.commentContainer(post_id, head);
	return prepend_post + head + content + tail + append_post;
};

Dsq.PostHandler = function(str, h_head, post_id, h_content, h_tail, b_head, b_content, b_tail, offset, s) {
	var prepend_header = Dsq.Templates.postPrependHeader(post_id);
	var append_header = Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader(post_id);
	var prepend_body = Dsq.Templates.preBody(post_id);
	var append_body = Dsq.Templates.postBody(post_id);
	var append_footer = Dsq.Templates.postFooter(post_id);

	b_content = b_content.replace(Dsq.POST_BODY_RE, Dsq.PostBodyHandler);
	return h_head + prepend_header + h_content + append_header + h_tail + b_head + prepend_body + b_content + append_body + b_tail + append_footer;
};

Dsq.PostBodyHandler = function(str, head, post_id, content, tail, offset, s) {
	content = Dsq.Templates.Filters.commentContent(post_id, content);
	return head + content + tail;
};

Dsq.MediaPostHandler = function(str, args, offset, s) {
	args = args.split(' ');
	if(args[0] == 'seesmic') {
		return '<br />' + Dsq.Templates.mediaSeesmic(args[1], args[2]);
	}
	return '';
};


/**
 * Shorcuts
 */
Dsq.$ = function(element) { return document.getElementById(element); };
Dsq.$b = document.body || document.getElementsByTagName('body')[0];


/**
 * Dsq.Debug: Logging functions.
 */

Dsq.Debug = new function() {this.log=function(s){};this.profile=function(f){if(typeof f == 'function')return f();else return eval(f);};};


/**
 * Dsq.Urls: URL paths
 */
Dsq.Urls = new function() {
	this.LOGIN = '/profile/login/';
	this.LOGOUT = '/logout/';
	this.REPLY = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see/reply.html';
	this.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE = '/AnonymousUser/';
	this.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR = 'http://media.disqus.com/images/noavatar92.png';
};
// Dsq.Urls

/**
 * Dsq.Validators: Validation for form fields
 */
Dsq.Validators = new function() {
	this.VALID_EMAIL_RE = /^[a-z0-9\-\_\+]+(\.[a-z0-9\-\_\+]+)*\@(([a-z0-9\-\_\+]+(\.[a-z0-9\-\_\+]+)*)+\.[a-z]{2,}|([0-9]+\.){3}[0-9]+)$/i;
	this.name = function(name) {
		var error = false;

		if(typeof Dsq.Templates.placeholder !== 'undefined' &&
		   name == Dsq.Templates.placeholder.name) {
			error = true;
		}
		if(name.length <= 1) {
			error = true;
		}

		if(error) {
			return "Please enter a name to comment.";
		} else {
			return true;
		}
	};
	this.email = function(addr) {
		if(Dsq.Validators.VALID_EMAIL_RE.test(addr)) {
			return true;
		} else {
			return "Please enter a valid email to comment.";
		}
	};
	this.url = function(addr) {
		if(!addr || addr.indexOf('.') != -1) {
			return true;
		} else {
			return "Please check your website URL (this field is optional).";
		}
	};

	this.validate = function(bulk_validation, failure_callback) {
		failure_callback = failure_callback || function(e){ alert(e); };

		for(var i = 0; i < bulk_validation.length; i++) {
			v = bulk_validation[i];
			ret = v.validator(v.value);
			if(ret !== true) {
				failure_callback(ret);
				return false;
			}
		}
		return true;
	};
};

/**
 * Dsq.Utils: Generic utility functions.
 */
Dsq.Utils = new function() {
	this.ie = /msie/i.test(navigator.userAgent) && !/opera/i.test(navigator.userAgent);
	this.ie7 = (document.all && !window.opera && window.XMLHttpRequest) ? true : false;
	this.ie6 = (!window.XMLHttpRequest) ? true: false;
	this.webkit = navigator.userAgent.indexOf('AppleWebKit/') >= 0;
	this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache = {};
	this._styleSheet = null;

	this.gebiFromElement = function(el, id, tag) {
		// This only method only helps IE.
		if(!this.ie) {
			return Dsq.$(id);
		} else {
			var cacheKey = el.id + '-' + tag;
			tag = tag || 'div';
			if(typeof this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey] != 'undefined') {
				collection = this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey];
			} else {
				collection = el.getElementsByTagName(tag);
				this.gebiFromElementCollectionCache[cacheKey] = collection;
			}

			for(var i = 0; i < collection.length; i++) {
				if(collection[i].id == id) {
					return collection[i];
				}
			}
			return null;
		}
	};

	this.execOnReady = function(func) {
		var node = document.createElement('document:ready');
		try {
			node.doScroll('left');
			func();
			node = null;
		} catch(err) {
			setTimeout(function() { Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(func); }, 10);
		}
	};


	// Courtesy of http://www.quirksmode.org/js/cookies.html
	this.createCookie = function(name,value,days) {
		if (days) {
			var date = new Date();
			date.setTime(date.getTime()+(days*24*60*60*1000));
			var expires = "; expires="+date.toGMTString();
		}
		else var expires = "";
		document.cookie = name+"="+value+expires+"; path=/";
	};

	this.readCookie = function(name) {
		var nameEQ = name + "=";
		var ca = document.cookie.split(';');
		for(var i=0;i < ca.length;i++) {
			var c = ca[i];
			while (c.charAt(0)==' ') c = c.substring(1,c.length);
			if (c.indexOf(nameEQ) == 0) return c.substring(nameEQ.length,c.length);
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.eraseCookie = function(name) {
		Dsq.Utils.createCookie(name,"",-1);
	};

	this.deleteNode = function(node) {
		if(node) {
			this.deleteChildren(node);
			if(typeof node.outerHTML != 'undefined') { node.outerHTML = ''; }
			else if(node.parentNode) { node.parentNode.removeChild(node); }
			delete node;
		}
	};

	this.deleteChildren = function(node) {
		if(node) {
			for(var x = node.childNodes.length-1; x >= 0; x--) {
				var childNode = node.childNodes[x];
				if(childNode.hasChildNodes()) { this.deleteChildren(childNode); }
				if(typeof childNode.outerHTML != 'undefined') { childNode.outerHTML = ''; }
				else node.removeChild(childNode);
				delete childNode;
			}
		}
	};

	this.findPos = function(obj) {
		var curleft = 0;
		var curtop = 0;
		if (obj.offsetParent) {
			do {
				curleft += obj.offsetLeft;
				curtop += obj.offsetTop;
			} while (obj = obj.offsetParent);
		}
		return [curleft,curtop];
	};

	this.getWindowSize = function() {
		var windowWidth = -1;
		var windowHeight = -1;

		if(typeof(window.innerWidth) == 'number') { //Non-IE
			windowWidth = window.innerWidth;
			windowHeight = window.innerHeight;
		} else if(document.documentElement) { // IE 6+ in 'standards compliant mode'
			windowWidth = document.documentElement.clientWidth || document.body.clientWidth;
			windowHeight = document.documentElement.clientHeight || document.body.clientHeight;
		}

		return [windowWidth, windowHeight];
	}

	this.getScrollPos = function() {
		var scrollWidth, scrollTop;

		if(document.documentElement && (document.documentElement.scrollTop || document.documentElement.scrollWidth)) {
			scrollWidth = document.documentElement.scrollWidth;
			// IE is weird here.  If no doctype is provided, document.body.scrollTop is 0,
			// otherwise document.documentElement.scrollTop is 0.
			scrollTop = document.documentElement.scrollTop || document.body.scrollTop;
		} else if(document.body.scrollTop && document.body.scrollWidth) {
			scrollWidth = document.body.scrollWidth;
			scrollTop = document.body.scrollTop;
		}

		return [scrollWidth, scrollTop];
	}

	this.addEventListener = function(instance, eventName, listener) {
		var listenerFn = listener;
		if (instance.addEventListener) {
			instance.addEventListener(eventName, listenerFn, false);
		} else if (instance.attachEvent) {
			listenerFn = function() {
				listener(window.event);
			};
			instance.attachEvent("on" + eventName, listenerFn);
		} else {
			throw new Error("Event registration not supported");
		}
		return {
			instance: instance,
			name: eventName,
			listener: listenerFn
		};
	};

	this.removeEventListener = function(event) {
		var instance = event.instance;
		if (instance.removeEventListener) {
			instance.removeEventListener(event.name, event.listener, false);
		} else if (instance.detachEvent) {
			instance.detachEvent("on" + event.name, event.listener);
		}
	};

	this.fixIframesIE = function(id) {
		var disqusThread = Dsq.$(disqus_container_id);
		var iframes = disqusThread.getElementsByTagName('iframe');

		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$(id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-content');
		}

		for(i = 0; i < iframes.length; i++) {
			if (container) {
				iframes[i].style.width = container.offsetWidth;
			}
		}
	};

	this.getElementsByClassName = function(oElm, strTagName, strClassName) {
	/* Credit: Jonathan Snook [http://www.snook.ca/jonathan], Robert Nyman [http://www.robertnyman.com] */
		var arrElements = (strTagName == "*" && oElm.all)? oElm.all : oElm.getElementsByTagName(strTagName);
		var arrReturnElements = new Array();
		strClassName = strClassName.replace(/\-/g, "\\-");
		var oRegExp = new RegExp("(^|\\s)" + strClassName + "(\\s|$)");
		var oElement;
		for(var i = 0; i < arrElements.length; i++) {
			oElement = arrElements[i];
			if(oRegExp.test(oElement.className)) {
				arrReturnElements.push(oElement);
			}
		}
		return (arrReturnElements);
	};

	this.postToUrl = function(url, post_data, opt_redirect) {
		var form = document.createElement('form');
		var iframe_container = document.createElement('div');
		var id = 'dsq-temp-iframe-' + (new Date()).getTime();

		form.method = 'POST';
		form.action = url;
		if (!opt_redirect) {
			form.target = id;
		}
		iframe_container.innerHTML = '<iframe style="display:none" name="' + id + '" id="' + id + '"></iframe>';

		for(var key in post_data) {
			if(post_data.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var input = document.createElement('input');
				input.name = key;
				input.type = 'hidden';
				input.value = post_data[key];

				form.appendChild(input);
			}
		}

		Dsq.$b.appendChild(iframe_container);
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(form);
		form.submit();
	};

	// Strips integer id from id of element in the form ('some-id-###')
	this.extractId = function(e) {
		var chunks = e.id.split('-');
		if(chunks.length <= 1) {
			return 0;
		} else {
			return parseInt(chunks[chunks.length-1]);
		}
	};

	this.getStyle = function(el, styleProp) {
		if(el.currentStyle) {
			var y = el.currentStyle[styleProp];
		} else if(window.getComputedStyle) {
			var y = document.defaultView.getComputedStyle(el, null).getPropertyValue(styleProp);
		}

		if(y == 'transparent' || y == '') {
			this.getStyle(el.parentNode, styleProp);
		} else {
			return y;
		}
	};

	this.execScript = function(url, append_qs, container) {
		var script = document.createElement('script');
		append_qs = typeof append_qs == 'undefined' ? true : append_qs;
		container = container || Dsq.container;

		if(append_qs) {
			var j = (url.indexOf('?') >= 0) ? '&' : '?';
			url += j + (new Date()).getTime();
		}
		script.type = 'text/javascript';
		script.charset = 'UTF-8';
		script.src = url;
		container.appendChild(script);
		return script;
	};

	this.pluralize = function(num, singular, plural) {
		return (num != 1) ? plural || 's' : singular || '';
	};

	this.getRequestParams = function(queryString /* optional */) {
		var pairs, tuple;
		var params = {};

		queryString = queryString || window.location.search.substring(1);
		pairs = queryString.split('&');

		for (var i = 0, pair; pair = pairs[i]; i++) {
			tuple = pair.split('=');
			params[tuple[0]] = (tuple[1] || true);
		}

		return params;
	};

	this.addCssRule = function(selector, styleText, index) {
		var stylesheet;
		index = index || 0;

		if(!this._styleSheet) {
			var styleEl = document.createElement('style');
			document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(styleEl);
			this._styleSheet = styleEl.sheet;
			if(!this._styleSheet) {
				// IE does not like our newly created stylesheet.
				this._styleSheet = document.styleSheets[document.styleSheets.length-1];
			}
		}
		stylesheet = this._styleSheet;

		if(stylesheet.insertRule) {
			var ruleText = selector + ' { ' + styleText + ' }';
			if(index == -1) {
				index = stylesheet.cssRules.length;
			}
			stylesheet.insertRule(ruleText, index);
		} else if(stylesheet.addRule) {
			stylesheet.addRule(selector, styleText, index);
		}
	};

	this.forEachIn = function(obj, callback) {
		for(var key in obj) {
			if(obj.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				callback(key, obj[key]);
			}
		}
	};

	this._interpolateGlobalContext = {
		// values that get used a lot and are global to the request
		'profile_url': Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE,

		'disqus_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url,
		'media_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url,
		'request_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.username,
		'request_display_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username,
		'forum_name': Dsq.jsonData.forum.name
	};

	this.renderFromContextStack = function(key, contexts) {
		// Returns the first instance of `key` in the array of objects `contexts` or else ''
		for (var i=0; i<contexts.length; i++) {
			if (contexts[i][key] !== undefined) {
				return String(contexts[i][key]);
			}
		}
		throw new Error('key ' + key + ' not found in context');
	};

	var that = this;
	this.interpolate = function(fmt, opt_localContext) {
		// Interpolate `fmt` named-format string with an assumed global context.
		// Based on `interpolate` in django.views.i18n
		var contextStack = [opt_localContext || {}, that._interpolateGlobalContext];
		return fmt.replace(/%\(\w+\)s/g, function(match){
			return that.renderFromContextStack(match.slice(2,-2), contextStack);
		});
	};

	this.stripTags = function(s) {
		// Removes HTML tags from `s`
		return s.replace(/(<([^>]+)>)/g,"");

	};

	this.assert = function(b) {
		if (!b) {
			throw new Error('Assertion error.');
		}
	};

};
// Dsq.Utils

/**
 * Dsq.Popup: Popup helper functions.
 */
Dsq.Popup = new function() {
	this.timeHide = new Array();
	this.timeShow = new Array();
	this.activePopup = {};
	this.profileCache = {};
	this.statusCache = {};

	this.showTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the hide timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeHide[post_id]);

		// start the timer
		if(!Dsq.Popup.profileIsOn && !Dsq.Thread.adminIsOn) {
			this.timeShow[post_id] = setTimeout("Dsq.Popup.popProfile(\"" + post_id + "\")", 400);
		}
	};

	this.hideTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the show timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeShow[post_id]);
	};

	this.updateProfile = function(username) {
		// Callback from /embed/profile.js
		if (this.statusCache[username]) {
			var statusEl = Dsq.$('dsq-profile-status-' + username);
			statusEl.innerHTML = this.statusCache[username];
			statusEl.style.display = 'block';
		}

		if (this.profileCache[username]) {
			var _cache = this.profileCache[username];

			var _genhtml = function(text) { return '<span><big>' + text + '</big></span>'; };
			var _no_comments = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_COMMENTS(_cache.comments_count));
			var _no_likes = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_LIKES(_cache.likes_count));
			var _no_points = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_POINTS(_cache.points));

			var statsEl = Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + username);
			statsEl.innerHTML = '';

			if (Dsq.jsonData.users[username].registered) {
				statsEl.innerHTML = _no_comments + _no_likes;
			}
			statsEl.innerHTML += _no_points;

			var activeSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.active_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.active_sites[i];
				activeSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (activeSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = activeSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = 'This site.';
			}

			var moderatedSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.moderated_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.moderated_sites[i];
				moderatedSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (moderatedSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + username).innerHTML = moderatedSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + username).innerHTML = '';
			}
		}

		// Reposition popup after full HTML is rendered
		if(Dsq.Popup.activePopup && Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el) {
			Dsq.Popup.initPopup(Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.type);
		}

	};

	this.showCookieMsgs = function() {
		var title = '';
		var message = '';
		var numAlerts = 0;

		Dsq.Utils.forEachIn(Dsq.jsonData.cookie_messages, function(k, v) {
			if (!v) return;

			switch(k) {
				// Cookie: Twitter
				case 'post_twitter':
					if (v === 'error') {
						title = 'Twitter Error!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-error">Oops, we couldn\'t tweet this comment. Please check your <a href="http://disqus.com/account/services">account settings</a>.</li>';
					} else {
						var _msg = v.split(':');
						title = 'Tweeted!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-success">Your comment was successfully tweeted. <a href="http://twitter.com/' + _msg[0] + '/status/' + _msg[1] + '">Click here to view the tweet</a>.</li>';
					}
					break;
				// Cookie: Unapproved Post
				case 'post_not_approved':
					title = 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-not-approved">Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.</li>';
					break;
				// Cookie: Profile Found
				case 'post_has_profile':
					title = 'Use your existing commenter profile';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-has-profile">You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a></li>';
					break;
				case 'user_created':
					var _data = v.split(':');
					title = 'Profile created!';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-user-created">You have just created a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, the best way to claim, manage, and track your comments all over the web. \
					<br /><br />A confirmation is being sent to <strong>' + _data[1] + '</strong>. Please check for this email in order to verify your profile. \
					<ul class="dsq-list-tick"> \
						<li>Your username is <strong>' + _data[0] +'</strong>. <a href="http://disqus.com/people/' + _data[0] + '/" target="_blank">Click here to view your public profile</a>.</li> \
						<li>Be sure to set your profile picture, as well as connect your <span class="dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> and <span class="dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> accounts. <a href="http://disqus.com/account/" target="_blank">Click here for account settings</a>.</li> \
					</ul> \
					</li>'
					break;
				default:
					break;
			}
			numAlerts++;
		});

		if(numAlerts > 1) {
			message = '<ul class="dsq-list-bluebullet">' + message;
			message += '</ul>';
			title = 'Thanks for posting!';
		}
		if(numAlerts > 0) {
			if(typeof(disqus_cookie_msgs) == 'function') {
				disqus_cookie_msgs(message, title);
			} else {
				Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
			}
		}
	};

	this.helpBadges = function(post_id) {
		var html = ' \
			<ul class="dsq-popup-help"> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile with a confirmed email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, but has not yet confirmed his or her email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span> is not logged in with any account and has not claimed his or her comments.</li> \
				<li class="dsq-help-otheraccts">Other accounts</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> is using his or her Facebook profile via Facebook Connect.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> is using his or her Twitter profile via Twitter Sign-in.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-openid">OpenID</span> is using his or her OpenID.</li> \
			</ul> \
		';

		this.popModal(html, 'Help: Types of Commenters', post_id);
		return;
	};

	this.permalink = function(post_id) {
		var header = 'Link to this comment';
		var body = '<strong>You are anchored to</strong>:<br />' + document.location.protocol + '//' + document.location.host + document.location.pathname + document.location.search + '#comment-' + post_id;

		this.popModal(body, header, post_id);
	};

	this.login = function(header, body) {
		var h = header || 'Login or Register';
		var b = body || '';
		b += Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: 'dsq-popup-login'});
		b += '</iframe>'; // HACK: Sometimes there is something funky with the IFRAME SRC that causes no end tag
		this.popModal(b, h, null, true, 'dsq-popup-login');
	};

	this.blacklist = function(id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		var title = 'Add to Blacklist';
		var message = ' \
		Adding this person to the blacklist will block him or her from commenting on this site. Check the following types that you would like to add to the blacklist:'
		+ (userData['registered'] ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-username" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-username"><strong>Username</strong>: ' + userData['username'] + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ (_meta.email ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-email" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-email"><strong>Email address</strong>: ' + _meta.email + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ '<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
			<input id="dsq-blacklist-ip" type="checkbox" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-blacklist-ip-warning\').style.display=\'block\'"> \
			<label for="dsq-blacklist-ip"><strong>IP address</strong>: ' + _meta.ip + '</label> \
		</div> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p id="dsq-blacklist-ip-warning" style="display:none">	\
				Note: Blocking this person\'s IP address may also unintentionally prevent others, who share his/her IP address, from commenting on this site. \
				This may include people who are sharing the same computer, living in the same house, or using the same Internet provider. Only block an IP address as a last resort. \
			</p> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p style="text-align:center"><button onclick="Dsq.Post.blockUser(' + id + '); this.disabled=true; this.innerHTML=\'Just one moment...\'">Add to Blacklist</button></p> \
		';

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
	};

	this.remoteAccountSettings = function() {
		var body = '';
		// Set up IFrame.
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/_auth/embed/remote_settings/';
		var attributes = {id: 'dsq-popup-account-settings'};
		if (typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}

		body = Dsq.Templates._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
		this.popModal(body, 'Account Settings', null, true, 'dsq-popup-account-settings');
	};

	this.popModal = function(message, title, post_id, use_listener, extra_classes) {
		var container = document.createElement('div');
		var header, body;

		Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);

		if(typeof(title) == 'undefined') { title = ''; }
		if(typeof(use_listener) == 'undefined') { use_listener = true; }

		if(post_id) {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message-' + post_id;
		} else {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message';
		}

		header = title;
		body = message;

		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupModal(header, body);
		Dsq.Popup.initPopup(container, post_id, 'message', extra_classes);
		if(use_listener) {
			Dsq.Popup.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', Dsq.Popup._closePopup);
		}
	};

	this.popAlert = this.popModal;

	this.loading = function(post_id) {
		var title = Dsq.Strings.JUST_A_MOMENT;
		var body = '<div style="text-align:center; padding: 5px 0 10px 0"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif" alt="" /></div>'
		Dsq.Popup.lightbox(body, title, post_id);
	};

	this.lightbox = function(message, title, post_id) {
		// Wraps Dsq.Popup.popModal

		var overlay = document.createElement('div');
		overlay.id = 'dsq-overlay';
		overlay.className = 'dsq-overlay';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(overlay);
		
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, post_id, false, 'dsq-lightbox');
	};

	this.popProfile = function(post_id, userKey) {
		var post = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id];
		if (post && post.has_been_anonymized) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('This message was anonymized by its previous owner.', 'Anonymized', post_id);
			return;
		}

		if(post_id) {
			userKey = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id].user_key;	
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][userKey];
		var elId = 'dsq-popup-profile-' + userKey;
		var container = document.createElement('div');

		if(this.activePopup.el) {
			this._closePopup(null, true);
			if(this.activePopup.linkClicked) {
				this.activePopup.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		container.id = elId;
		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupProfile(userKey);

		this.initPopup(container, post_id, 'profile');
		this.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._closePopup);

		if(!this.profileCache[userKey]) {
			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/embed/profile.js'
				+ '?username=' + userKey
				+ '&anon=' + (userData['registered'] ? 0 : 1)
				+ '&f=' + Dsq.jsonData['request'].forum);
		} else {
			this.updateProfile(userKey);
		}
	};

	this._closePopup = function(e, force) {
		var activePopup = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el;
		var id = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id;
		var link = 'dsq-avatar-' + id; // HACK: Specific to profile toggle target

		// HACK: This event should be gone if there is no active popup.
		if(!activePopup) {
			return;
		}
		if(force || !Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, activePopup.id)) {
			// TODO: This is breaking iE?
			if(Dsq.Popup.popupListener) {
				Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Popup.popupListener);
			}
			
			// Kill overlay
			var overlay = Dsq.$('dsq-overlay');
			if(overlay) { Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(overlay); }
			
			try {
				Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(activePopup);
			} catch(e) {
				// HACK: IE6 throws an error when using deleteNode() with a node containing a <table> in the html.
				activePopup.parentNode.removeChild(activePopup);
			}
			Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {};
		}

		if(!force && Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Popup.activePopup.linkClicked = true;
		}

	};

	this.initPopup = function(popup, post_id, type, extra_classes) {
		popup.className = 'dsq-popup dsq-popup-' + type + ' ' + (extra_classes ? extra_classes : '');
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6 || Dsq.Utils.ie7) {
			// HACK: We can't modify the body before it's ready, so we need
			//       to use an IE-safe "DOMReady" workaround before loading
			//       our popup.
			Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(function() {Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup); });
		} else {
			Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup);
		}

		popup.style.display = 'block';

		var xPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[0] - popup.offsetWidth) / 2;
		var yPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[1] - popup.offsetHeight) / 2;

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
			yPos += Dsq.Utils.getScrollPos()[1];
		}

		popup.style.left = xPos + 'px';
		popup.style.top = yPos + 'px';

		Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {
			'el' : popup,
			'id' : post_id,
			'type': type,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};
	};

	this.isClicked = function(e, id) {
		var t = e.target || e.srcElement;
		while(t && t.parentNode) {
			if(t.id == id) {
				return true;
			}

			t = t.parentNode;
		}
		return false;
	};
};
// Dsq.Popup

/**
 * Dsq.Templates
 */
Dsq.Templates = new function() {
	/*
	 * Counter keeping track of the number of posts iterated over.
	 */
	this.postLoopCounter = 0;
	this.filters = {};
	this.addPostContainer = 'dsq-post-add';
	this.textareaContainer = 'dsq-post-add';

	this.registerTemplate = function(name, func) {
		this['$$_' + name] = func;

		if(typeof DsqLocal.Filters != 'undefined'
		&& typeof DsqLocal.Filters[name] == 'function') {
			// Push filters to this.filters to unify code.
			this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
			this.filters[name].push(DsqLocal.Filters[name]);
		}

		this[name] = function() {
			var ret;

			if(typeof DsqLocal.Templates != 'undefined'
			&& typeof DsqLocal.Templates[name] == 'function') {
				ret = DsqLocal.Templates[name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(ret === undefined) {
				ret = this['$$_' + name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(this.filters[name]) {
				var args = [ret];

				args.push.apply(args, arguments);
				for(var i = 0; i < this.filters[name].length; i++) {
					ret = this.filters[name][i].apply(this, args);
				}
			}

			return ret;
		};
	};

	this.registerFilter = function(name, func) {
		this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
		this.filters[name].push(func);
	};

	/**
	 * Dsq.Templates.Filters
	 */
	this.Filters = new function() {
		this.commentContainer = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			var classes = [];
			if(Dsq.jsonData.request.page > 1) {
				classes.push('dsq-append');
			}

			//
			// Extra classes used for custom themes
			//

			if(_meta.depth) {
				classes.push('dsq-comment-child', 'dsq-depth-' + _meta.depth, 'dsq-parent-is-' + _meta.parent_post_id);
			}


			//

			if(_meta.author_is_creator) {
				// TODO: We need to deprecate the "special" class since it is not properly prefixed.
				classes.push('special', 'dsq-special');
			}
			if(_meta.author_is_moderator) {
				classes.push('dsq-moderator');
			}
			classes.push(['dsq-odd', 'dsq-even'][Dsq.Templates.postLoopCounter % 2]);

			s = s.substring(0, s.lastIndexOf('>'));
			return s + ' class="dsq-comment ' + classes.join(' ') + '" style="margin-left:' + _meta.depth*30 + 'px">';
		};

		this.commentContent = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			if (_meta.killed) {
				return '<em>Comment removed.</em>';
			} else if (!_meta.approved) {
				return '<em>This comment was flagged for review.</em>';
			}

			s = s.replace(Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE, Dsq.MediaPostHandler);
			return s;
		};
	};

	//
	// Thread
	//
	// TODO: These need to be stripped of all Django template tags.

	this.authPost = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			return '';
		}
		var result = [];
		result = result.concat([
				'<div id="dsq-auth"',
						Dsq.jsonData.integration.reply_position ? 'class="dsq-auth-bottom"' : '',
						'>',
					'<div class="dsq-by">',
						'<a href="http://disqus.com" target="_blank">',
							(Dsq.jsonData.integration.disqus_logo ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/by-disqus.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">') :
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/dsq-button-120x19.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">')
							),
						'</a>',
					'</div>',
					'<div class="dsq-auth-header">',
						'<h3 id="dsq-add-new-comment" class="dsq-h3-addcomment">',
								Dsq.Strings.ADD_NEW_COMMENT,
						'</h3>',
						'<div id="dsq-login">',
						(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated && Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post
								? '<p class="dsq-login-message" id="dsq-login-message">You are commenting as a <a class="dsq-help" title="Click for more information" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Guest</a>. You may select one to log into:</p>'
								: '')
		]);
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			result = result.concat([
							Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
								'<a id="dsq-login-toggle" href="%(disqus_url)s%(login_url)s?next=article:%(thread_id)s" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false"><img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsq-profile-btn.png" title="%(log_into)s" alt="%(log_into)s"/></a>',
								{login_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGIN, thread_id: Dsq.jsonData.thread.id, log_into: Dsq.Strings.LOG_INTO_DISQUS}
								),
							'&nbsp; ',
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ?
								'<div id="dsq-fbc-login" onlogin="DisqusFbcParentController.onLogin()" size="medium" background="light" length="short" style="display:inline; margin-right:7px"></div>' :
								''
							),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-twitter-login" class="dsq-twitter-login" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect();" style="display:inline; cursor: pointer"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/twitter-signin-short.png" style="margin-right:7px" /></div>', {}) : ''),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-openid-login" class="dsq-openid-login" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.requestURL();" style="display:inline; cursor:pointer;"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/openid-login-button.png"/></div>', {}
								) : '')
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
						'</div>', // dsq-login
					'</div>', // dsq-auth-header
					'<div id="dsq-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated" ',
						Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated ? 'style="display:block"' : '',
						'>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-pic">',
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">' +
																			'<img class="dsq-post-avatar" src="%(avatar_url)s" alt="" /></a>',
																			{avatar_url: Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR,
																			url: (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
																					 ? Dsq.jsonData.request.url
																					 : Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE) }),
						'</div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>', {url:Dsq.jsonData.request.url})
										  )
										: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(profile_url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>')
											)
									),
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">',
									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsqicon12.png" alt="%(logged_in_as)s"/>&nbsp',
											{logged_in_as: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username)})
										: ''),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="%(logout_from_disqus)s">',
											{logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN, logout_from_disqus: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('DISQUS')})
										: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'twitter')
												? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using Twitter (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
												 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
												: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'openid')
													 ? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using OpenID (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
													 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
													 : ''
													)
											)
									),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote ? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('<span class="logo-disqus">DISQUS</span>') : ''),
									'</a>',
								'</li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
		]);
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect) {
			result = result.concat([
					'<div id="dsq-fbc-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated">',
						'<div id="dsq-fbc-profilepic" class="dsq-authenticated-pic" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.ProfilePic" size="square" facebook-logo="true"></div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									'Logged in as <span id="dsq-fbc-name" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.Name" linked="true" useyou="false"></span>',
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">using Facebook Connect <a href="#" onclick="javascript:DisqusFbcParentController.logout();return false;">(Logout)</a></li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
				'</div>', // dsq-auth
				'<div id="dsq-toolbar-items">',
				'</div>'
		]);
		result = result.concat([
					//
					//
					//
				((!Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post && !Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) ?
					// Needs to be translated:
					('<p id="dsq-no-anon-msg">Required: Please log into <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> ' +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ? 'or connect with Facebook ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ? 'or sign in with Twitter ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ? 'or sign in using OpenID ' : '') +
					Dsq.Utils.interpolate('to comment on <strong>%(forum_name)s</strong>.</p>')) :
					''
				),
				'<div id="dsq-post-add"></div>',
				'<div style="margin:10px 0">',
				((Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media) ?
						'<a href="#" id="dsq-media-link" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, false, \'media\'); return false">' + Dsq.Strings.USE_MEDIA + ' <small>&#9660;</small></a>' :
						''),
				'</div>'
		]);
		return result.join('');
	};


	this.header = function() {

		var html = '\<h3 id="dsq-comments-count" class="dsq-h3-commentcount">\
	 <span id="dsq-num-posts">91</span> Comments\
	 &nbsp;\
	 <span class="dsq-item-feed">\
	 <a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see/latest.rss"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/bullet-feed.png"></a>\
	 </span>\
	 </h3>\
	 <div id="dsq-options" style="margin:15px 0">\
	 <span class="dsq-item-sort">\
	 Sort by\
	 <select id="dsq-sort-select" onchange="Dsq.Thread.sortBy(this.value);">\
	 <option value="hot" selected="selected">Popular now</option>\
	 <option value="best" >Best Rating</option>\
	 <option value="newest" >Newest first</option>\
	 <option value="oldest" >Oldest first</option>\
	 </select>\
	 &nbsp;\
	 </span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-cp"><a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see/">Community Page</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-subscribe">\
	 <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/email.png" style="width:12px;height:12px;vertical-align:middle">\
	 <span id="dsq-subscribe">\
	 <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a>\
	 </span>\
	 </span>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-alerts">\
	 </div>\
		';

		
			html = Dsq.Templates.authPost() + html;
		

		
		if (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) { 
			html = ' \
			<div class="dsq-alert-message dsq-upgrade-message"> \
				<strong>Disqus upgrade available.</strong> Hi ' + Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username + ', this message is being displayed to you because you are a moderator of this site. <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-upgrade-message\').style.display=\'block\';this.style.display=\'none\';return false">Click here for details.</a> \
				<div style="display:none; margin-top:10px;" id="dsq-upgrade-message"> \
					A new theme is available with added features. <a href="http://disqus.com/comments/settings/' + Dsq.jsonData.forum.url + '/?p=customize">To change your theme, click here</a> and choose the theme Narcissus. \
					If you do not upgrade, you are missing out on features such as: real-time commenting, new sign-in integrations, and an upgrade interface. \
					<strong>This message will automatically go away in one week.</strong> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			' + html; 
		}
		return html;
	};

	this.footer = function() {
		var html = Dsq.Templates.pagination();

		

		html += Dsq.Templates.reactions();

		
			html += Dsq.Templates.trackbacks();
		

		return html;
	};

	this.pagination = function() {
		var html = '';
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) { Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = ''; }
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.thread.paginate) { return ''; }

		//
		// TODO: num_paginator still uses the template tag for pagination, 
		// 		while append_paginator does it all in JavaScript.
		//		This should all be in JavaScript.
		//

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages > 1 && Dsq.jsonData.request.page < Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages) {
			html = ' \<a class="dsq-paginate-append-text" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this); return false">Show more comments...</a>\
	 <button class="dsq-button-small dsq-paginate-append-button" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this);">Load more comments</button>\
			';
		}
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = html;
			return '';
		} else {
			return '<div id="dsq-pagination" class="dsq-pagination">' + html + '</div>';
		}
	};

	this.trackbacks = function() {
		var html = '';

		if(typeof DsqLocal != 'undefined' && DsqLocal.trackback_url && DsqLocal.trackbacks) {
			var trackbacks = DsqLocal.trackbacks;
			var trackback_url = DsqLocal.trackback_url;
		} else {
			var trackbacks = [
			
			
			];
			var trackback_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see/trackback/';
		}

		html += '<div class="dsq-item-trackback">Trackback URL&nbsp;&nbsp;<input class="dsq-trackback-url" onclick="this.select()" readonly="true" value="' + trackback_url + '"></div>';

		if(trackbacks.length) {
			html += '<ul id="dsq-references">'
			for(var i = 0; i < trackbacks.length; i++) {
				var trackback = trackbacks[i];
				html += '<li><cite><a href="' + trackback.author_url + '" rel="nofollow">' + trackback.author_name + '</a></cite> \
						<p class="dsq-meta">' + trackback.date + '</p> \
						<p class="dsq-content">' + trackback.excerpt + '</p></li>';
			}
			html += '</ul>';
			html = '<h3 class="dsq-h3-trackbacks">Trackbacks</h3>' + html;
		}

		return html;
	}

	this.showRetweets = function(id, limit, element_id /* Optional */) {
		var source, html = '';

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			if (reaction.id === id) {
				source = reaction.retweets;
			}
		}

		if (source) {
			if (limit === 0) {
				limit = source.length;
			}

			for (var j = 0; j < limit; j++) {
				var rt = source[j];
				html += '<a href="' + rt.url + '">' + rt.author_name + '</a>'	+ ((j === (limit - 1)) ? '.' : ', ');
			}
		}

		if (element_id === undefined) {
			return html;
		}

		var element = document.getElementById(element_id);
		element.innerHTML = html;
		return element;
	};

	this.showMoreReactions = function(reactions, has_more, start, limit) {
		var link = document.getElementById('dsq-show-more-reactions');
		var container = link.parentNode;
		container.removeChild(link);

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = reactions[i]; i++) {
			var el = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (el) {
				container.innerHTML += el;
			}
		}

		if (has_more) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = start;
			var l = limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			container.innerHTML += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}
	};

	this.generateReactionHTML = function(reaction) {
		if (reaction.body === null || reaction.body == '') {
			return;
		}

		if (reaction.author_name === '') {
			reaction.author_name = '&nbsp;';
		}

		if (reaction.url === '') {
			reaction.url = reaction.get_service_url;
		}

		/* Reaction HTML begins */
		var item = '<li class="dsq-reaction" id="dsq-reaction-' + reaction.id + '">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-header">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-header-avatar">';

		if (reaction.author_url && reaction.author_url !== '') {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="' + reaction.author_url +'">';
		} else {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="#" onclick="return false;">';
		}

		if (reaction.avatar_url && reaction.avatar_url !== '') {
			item += '<img src="' + reaction.avatar_url + '"/>';
		} else {
			item += '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/noavatar32.png"/>';
		}

		var service_icon = (reaction.get_service_name == 'trackback' || reaction.get_service_name == 'pingback' ? 'rss' : reaction.get_service_name.replace(' ', ''));
		item += '<img class="dsq-service-icon" src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/reactions/services/' + service_icon + '.png"/>'
			+ '</a></div>'
			+ '<cite><span>' + reaction.author_name + '</span></cite>'
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"><a class="dsq-header-time">' + reaction.date_created + '</a></span>'
			+ '</div><div class="dsq-reaction-body">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-message">' + reaction.body + '</div>'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-footer">From <a class="dsq-service-name" target="_blank" href="' + reaction.url + '">' + reaction.get_service_name + '</a> '
			+ 'via ' + (reaction.source == 'backtype' ? '<a href="http://backtype.com/">BackType</a>' : '<a href="' + reaction.source_url + '">UberVU</a>')
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator ? '&nbsp;&bull;&nbsp;<a class="dsq-hide-reaction" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Reaction.hide(' + reaction.id + '); return false;">Hide</a>' : '') + '</div></div>';

		if(reaction.retweets) {
			var num_retweets = reaction.retweets.length;
			if (num_retweets > 0) {
				item += '<div class="dsq-reaction-retweets">';
				if (num_retweets == 1) {
					item += 'One more retweet from <a href="' + reaction.retweets[0].url + '">'  + reaction.retweets[0].author_name + '</a>';
				} else {
					item += (num_retweets + ' more retweets from ');

					item += '<span id="dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '">';
					var n_tweets = (num_retweets > 15) ? 15 : num_retweets;
					item += Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(reaction.id, n_tweets);

					if (n_tweets != num_retweets) {
						item += '</span> <a onclick="Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(' + reaction.id + ', 0, \'dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '\');'
							+ 'this.parentNode.removeChild(this); return false;" href="#">Show all</a>';
					}
				}
				item += '</div>';
			}
		}

		item += '</li>'; /* Reaction HTML ends */
		return item;
	};

	this.reactions = function() {
		var html, reaction;

		if (Dsq.jsonData.reactions === undefined || Dsq.jsonData.reactions.length === 0) {
			return '';
		}

		html = '';
		for (var i = 0; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			var item = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (item) {
				html += item;
			}
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.has_more_reactions) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_start;
			var l = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			html += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}

		return '<h3 class="dsq-h3-reactions">Reactions</h3><ul id="dsq-reactions" class="dsq-reactions">' + html + '</ul>';
	};
	
	this.missingPermissions = function() {
		return '';
	};

	//
	// Post
	//

	this.prependPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="comment-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.appendPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="dsq-comment-reply-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.postPrependHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-header-avatar" id="dsq-header-avatar-' + post_id + '" onmouseover="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')"> \
				<a id="dsq-avatar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-avatar" href="' + userData.url + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">'
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.show_avatar
				? '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key].avatar + '" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '</a>'
			+ '</div> \
		';
	};

	this.postAppendHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];

		return ''
			+ (_meta.author_is_moderator
				? '<img class="dsq-mod-star" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/bullet-star.png" title="Moderator" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"> \
				<a id="dsq-time-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-header-time" href="#comment-' + post_id + '" title="Permalink">' + _meta.date + '</a> \
			</span>';
	};

	this.preBody = function(post_id) {
		return '';
	}

	this.postBody = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Deprecate flagging conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		return ''
			+ (_meta.edited
				? '<p class="dsq-editedtxt">(Edited by a moderator)</p>'
				: '')
			;
	};

	this.postFooter = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Use media should be conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		if(_meta.killed) { return ''; }

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-comment-footer" id="dsq-comment-footer-' + post_id + '"> \
				<div id="dsq-points-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-likedtxt">'
				+ (_meta.points
					? _meta.points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(_meta.points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.'
					: '')
				+ '</div>'
				+ '<ul class="dsq-comment-options dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.votable
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first dsq-rate" id="dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id + '">'
					+ (!_meta.up_voted
						? '<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.rate(this, ' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Like</a>'
						: 'You liked this.') + '</li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-report' + (!_meta.votable ? ' dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-post-report-' + post_id + '"><a href="#" class="dsq-post-report" onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + post_id + ', false); return false;">Report</a></li> \
				</ul> \
				<ul class="dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.can_reply
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first"><a href="#" id="dsq-reply-link-' + post_id +'" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleReply(this, ' + post_id +'); return false;">Reply</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ (_meta.can_reply && !_meta.has_replies && _meta.from_request_user
					? '<li id="dsq-edit-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-edit-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="' + (!_meta.can_reply ? 'dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-more-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-more-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'more\'); return false">More <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
				+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media
					? '<li id="dsq-media-el-' + post_id +'" style="display:none"><a id="dsq-media-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'media\'); return false">Use Media <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '</ul>'
				+ '<div id="dsq-reply-bar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar" style="display:none"> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-items-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-items"> \
						</div> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-auth-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-auth"> \
							 \
								 \
								 	<a href="#" class="dsq-help dsq-reply-req-opt" title="You are commenting as a Guest. You may choose to log into an existing DISQUS Profile, your Facebook, Twitter or OpenID account to comment on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Optional:</a> \
								 \
								<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/dsq-favicon-16x16.png" alt="" /> \
								<a id="dsq-reply-login-' + post_id + '" href="http://disqus.com/profile/login/?next=article:7983627" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false">Login</a> \
								 \
								&nbsp;or&nbsp; \
									<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/twitter-signin-icon.png" alt="" /> \
									<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect(); return false">Sign-in</a> \
								 \
								 \
							 \
						</div> \
					</div> \
					<div id="dsq-reply-' + post_id + '"></div> \
			</div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Iframes
	//

	this._makeAttributes = function(attributes) {
		// Makes a tag attributes string out of an object.
		// Caller is responsible for making sure nothing needs to be escaped.
		var result = [];
		for (key in attributes) {
			result.push(' ' + key + '="' + attributes[key] + '"');
		}
		result = result.join('');
		return result;
	};

	this._frameGeneric = function(base_url, params, attributes) {
		if(typeof(disqus_callback_params) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_callback_params = '';
		}

		var default_params = {
			// TODO: These should be moved to Dsq.jsonData.
			'f'				: 'blogxilla',
			't'				: 'from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see',
			// Do we need encodeURIComponent here?
			'ifrs'			: encodeURIComponent(disqus_iframe_css),
			'to_redirect'	: encodeURIComponent(window.location),
			'cbp'			: disqus_callback_params,
			'ff'			: Dsq.Thread.ff,
			'fc'			: Dsq.Thread.fc,
			'ac'			: Dsq.Thread.ac,
			'default_text'	: disqus_default_text
		};

		base_url += '?' + (new Date()).getTime();
		// Add params to default_params.
		if(params) {
			for(var key in params) {
				if(params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					default_params[key] = encodeURIComponent(params[key]);
				}
			}
		}
		// Build querystring.
		for(var key in default_params) {
			if(default_params[key] && default_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				base_url += '&' + key + '=' + default_params[key];
			}
		}

		return [
			'<iframe marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" hspace="0" vspace="0" frameborder="0"',
			(' allowtransparency="true" src="' + base_url + '"'),
			this._makeAttributes(attributes),
			'</iframe>'].join('');
	};

	this.frameLogin = function(opt_attributes) {
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/login.html';
		var attributes = opt_attributes || {};
		attributes['class'] = 'dsq-post-login';

		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameReply = function(post_id, extra_params, attributes) {
		// Returns the HTML for a reply iframe. Called by Dsq.Iframes.setReplyIframeToContainer
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = Dsq.Urls.REPLY;
		var params = {
			'def_email'		: disqus_def_email,
			'def_name'		: disqus_def_name
		};
		if(extra_params) {
			for(var key in extra_params) {
				if(extra_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					params[key] = extra_params[key];
				}
			}
		}
		if(_meta) {
			params['parent_post'] = post_id;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined') {
			params['per_page'] = disqus_per_page;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			attributes['class'] += '-authenticated';
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameEdit = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/edit.html';
		var params = {
			'p' : post_id
		};
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, {'class': 'dsq-post-edit', 'name': 'dsq-edit_' + post_id + '-frame'});
	};

	//
	// Menus
	//

	this.menuMore = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: "Remove post" button should hide menu.
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#comment-' + post_id + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.permalink(' + post_id + ')">Link</a></li> \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Profile</a></li>'
	+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator
		? '	<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>' + (_meta.email ? '<li class="dsq-admin-email">' + _meta.email + '</li>' : '')
		+ '	<li class="dsq-admin-ip">' + _meta.ip + '</li> \
			<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>'
		+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.moderator_can_edit
			? ' <li class="dsq-admin-edit"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit Comment</a></li>'
			: '')
		+ ' <li class="dsq-remove"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.removePost(' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Remove Comment</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-report-spam"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.reportSpam(' + post_id + '); return false;">Mark Spam</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-block-user"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.blacklist(' + post_id + '); return false">Block User</a></li>'
		: '');
	};

	this.menuMedia = function(post_id) {
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(this, ' + post_id + ', \'seesmic\'); return false;">Record video</a></li> \
		';
	};

	this.dropProfile = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};


		var menu = '<li class="dsq-drop-showlnk"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Expand &#8663;</a></li>';
		var pointsMessage = '';
		if (userData['registered']) {
			pointsMessage = 'with ' + userData['points'] + ' points (more points are better).';
		}

		if (userData['is_remote']) {
			var domain = userData['remote_domain_name'];
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' is a ' + domain + ' user ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
			menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-' + domain.toLowerCase() + '">' + domain + '</span></li>';
		} else if (userData['registered']) {
			if (userData['verified']) {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a verified commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span></li>';
			} else {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a registered, but unverified, commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span></li>';
			}
		} else {
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has not claimed this commenter profile." onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()"><span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span></li>';
		}

		menu += _includeServices();
		return menu;
	};

	//
	// Popups
	//

	this._popupGeneric = function(content) {
		return ' \
		<div class="dsq-popup-content"> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-top"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-body" class="clearfix"> \
				<div class="dsq-popup-body-padding"> \
					<div class="dsq-popup-header"> \
						<a class="dsq-close-link" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true); return false"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/modal-close.png" alt="" /></a>'
						+ content['header']
					+ '</div>'
					+ content['body']
					+ '<div class="powered-by"><a href="http://disqus.com/comments/">Powered by <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/disqus-logo.png" alt="Disqus Comments" style="margin-bottom:-5px" /></a></div> \
				</div> <!-- padding --> \
			</div> <!-- body --> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-bottom"></div> \
		</div> \
		';
	};

	this.popupProfile = function(user_key) {
		var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(user_key, null);
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var html = '';
			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == 0
					? '<h4>Connections</h4><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li> \
					<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" title="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" /> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>'
				+ (i+1 == userServices.length ? '</ul>' : '');
			}
			return html;
		};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<table> \
				<tr> \
					<td> \
						<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><img class="dsq-popup-profile-avatar" src="' + userData['avatar'] + '" alt="" /></a> \
					</td> \
					<td> \
						<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user"> \
							<h3>' + userData['display_name'] + '</h3> \
							<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats" id="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + user_key + '">Loading...</div> \
						</div> \
					</td> \
				</tr> \
			</table> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-state"> \
				This is a&nbsp;<span class="'
					+ (userData['registered']
						? (userData['verified']
							? ' dsq-badge-verified'
							: (userData['is_remote']
								? ' dsq-badge-' + userData['remote_domain_name'].toLowerCase()
								: ' dsq-badge-registered')
							)
							: ' dsq-badge-guest') + '">'
			+ (userData['registered']
				? (userData['verified']
					? 'Verified'
					: (userData['is_remote']
						 ? userData['remote_domain_name']
						 : 'Registered')
					)
				: 'Guest')
			+ '</span>&nbsp;commenter profile.'
			+ '&nbsp;<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><strong>View more comments </strong></a>'
			+ (!userData['points']
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice">If this is you, <a href="http://disqus.com/profile" target="_blank">claim it now</a> to manage your comments.</p>'
				: '')
			+ ((userData['registered'] && !userData['verified'] && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username == userData['username'])) && !userData['is_remote'])
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice"><strong>Alert</strong>: You have not verified this account. <a href="http://disqus.com/verify">Verify it now.</a></p>'
				: '')
			+ '</div> \
			<div id="dsq-profile-status-' + user_key + '" class="dsq-popup-profile-status" style="display:none"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-snapshot"> \
				<table> \
					<tr> \
						<td> \
							<div id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Most active sites</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
						<td>'
							+ _includeServices()
							+ '<div id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Moderator of</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
					</tr> \
				</table> \
			</div> \
			';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupReblog = function() {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<cite><span>Reblog this comment</span></cite> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div id="dsq-reblog-form" class="dsq-reblog-form"> \
			</div> \
		';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupModal = function(title, message) {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<h3>' + title + '</h3> \
		';

		bodyHtml = message;

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.alertContent = function(name, post_id) {
		var alert = {
			'post_not_approved': {
				'title': 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator',
				'message': 'Thanks for posting. Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.'
			},
			'post_has_profile': {
				'title': 'Use your existing commenter profile',
				'message': 'You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> commenter profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a>'
			}
		};
		return alert[name] || false;
	};

	//
	// Actions
	//

	this.voted = function(post_id, points, vote) {
		// Update number of points
		Dsq.$('dsq-points-' + post_id).innerHTML = points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.';

		// Update link text
		if(vote) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id).innerHTML = 'You liked this.';
		}
	};

	this.subscribed = function(status) {
		var title, message;

		if(status) {
			title = 'Subscribed!';
			message = 'You have subscribed to this comment thread. New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox, where you may read and respond by email.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(0); return false">Unsubscribe</a> \
			';
		} else {
			title = 'Unsubscribed';
			message = 'You have unsubscribed to this comment thread. New comments will no longer be sent to your email inbox.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a> \
			';
		}

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);

	};
	
	this.highlighted = function() {
		Dsq.Popup.popModal('This comment has been highlighted.', 'Highlighted comment');
	};

	//
	// Media
	//

	this.mediaSeesmic = function(id, thumb) {
		return ' \
			<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_preview" class="dsq-seesmic-preview"><a href="http://www.seesmic.com/video/' + id + '" target="_blank" class="see_link">&nbsp;</a> \
				<div style="display:block;width:160px; height:120px; border:none; background-image:url(http://t.seesmic.com/thumbnail/' + thumb + ')"> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_hide" class="seePlayOverlay" style="display:none;"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',false)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/stopOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_show" class="seePlayOverlay"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',true)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/playOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; border:none; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			<div id="' + id + '_content" style="display:block; width:100%; padding-top:5px"></div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Callbacks
	//

	this.postComment_onSuccess = function(parent_post_id) {
		// Increment post count
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');
		
		if (num_posts) { 
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) { 
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
	};
};
// Dsq.Templates


/**
 * Dsq.Post
 */
Dsq.Post = new function() {
	this.openedMenu = {};
	this.menuEventListener = null;
	this.stateReplyToggled = {};
	this.stateEditToggled = {};
	this.stateRecordLink = {};

	/**
	 * Inserts a new post into the document.
	 *
	 * @param after_id {Number}	Insert a post before specified id.  If after_id
	 *							evaluates to false, then post in the front.  If
	 *							after_id is -1, post at the end.
	 */
	this.insert = function(after_id, id, message, author) {
		// Skeleton template from thread_posts.html.
		var skeleton = ' \
			<li id="dsq-comment-%(id)s"> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-header-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-header"> \
					<cite id="dsq-cite-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-cite"> \
						<a id="dsq-author-user-%(id)s" href="%(author_url)s" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">%(author_name)s</a> \
					</cite> \
				</div> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-body-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-body"> \
					<div id="dsq-comment-message-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-message">%(message)s</div> \
				</div> \
			</li> \
		';
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var _user_meta = Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key];
		var markup = Dsq.Utils.interpolate(skeleton, {
			id: id,
			message: message,
			author_url: _user_meta.blog,
			author_name: _user_meta.display_name
		});
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		markup = markup.replace(Dsq.COMMENTS_RE, Dsq.CommentsHandler);
		div.innerHTML = markup;

		if (after_id === -1) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').appendChild(div);
		} else if (!after_id) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').insertBefore(div, Dsq.$('dsq-comments').firstChild);
		} else if (Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + after_id)) {
			// Get next node after "after_id", so we can insert before it.
			// If "after_id" is the last comment, the target node is the
			// last node.
			
			// var append_post_id = Dsq.Templates.appendPost(after_id).replace('<div id="','').replace('"></div>', '');
			var append_post_id = 'dsq-append-post-' + after_id;
			var node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			while (node = node.nextSibling) {
				if (!node || node.nodeType == 1) { // 1 == Node.ELEMENT_NODE
					break;
				}
			}
			if (!node) {
				node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			}
			node.parentNode.insertBefore(div, node);
		}
	};

	this.incrementPostCount = function() {
		
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');

		if (num_posts) {
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) {
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
	}
	
	this.outlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className += ' dsq-comment-outline';
		setTimeout("(function () { Dsq.Post.clearOutlineComment(" + post_id + ") })()", 3000);
	};
	
	this.clearOutlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className.replace('dsq-comment-outline', '');
	};

	this.showMenu = function(el, id, name) {
		var anchorPos = Dsq.Utils.findPos(el);
		var menu = document.createElement('ul');

		if(this.openedMenu) {
			if(this.openedMenu.linkClicked) {
				this.openedMenu.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		switch(name) {
			case 'more':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMore(id);
				break;
			case 'media':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMedia(id);
				break;
			default:
				break;
		}

		// Add menu to document body
		menu.id = 'dsq-menu-' + id;
		menu.className = 'dsq-menu';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(menu);

		// Position and show
		anchorPos[1] += 15;
		menu.style.left = anchorPos[0] + 'px';
		menu.style.top = anchorPos[1] + 'px';
		menu.style.display = 'block';

		// Set global reference
		this.openedMenu = {
			'el' : menu,
			'id' : id,
			'name' : name,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};

		// Set listener
		this.menuEventListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._hideMenu);
	};

	this._hideMenu = function(e) {
		var el = e.target || e.srcElement;
		var openedMenu = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el;
		var id = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.id;

		if(!id) {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link';
		} else {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link-' + id;
		}

		if(!openedMenu) {
			return;
		}

		if(!Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, openedMenu.id)) {
			openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
			Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Post.menuEventListener);
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(openedMenu);

		} else {
			// Hide the menu if a link was clicked inside the menu.  We can't
			// completely remove the menu until the onclick event on the link
			// fires, but the menuEventListener will prevent multiple menus
			// from polluting the DOM.
			if(el && typeof el.href != 'undefined') {
				openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el = null;
			}
		}

		if(Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Post.openedMenu.linkClicked = true;
		}
	};


	this.getUserServices = function(user_key, id) {
		if(!user_key && id) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
			user_key = _meta.user_key;
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var userServices = [];

		// Keep a full list of supported services. This is the order they will display in the drop-profile.
		// Each service must have a corresponding case in _buildServiceUrl()
		var supportedServices = ['blog', 'twitter', 'facebook', 'tumblr'];

		function _buildServiceUrl(serviceName) {
			var data = userData[serviceName];
			var services = {
				blog:		function(d) { return d; },
				twitter:	function(d) { return d; },
				facebook:	function(d) { return d; },
				tumblr:		function(d) { return 'http://' + d + '.tumblr.com'; }
			};
			return services[serviceName](data);
		}

		for(var i = 0; i < supportedServices.length; i++) {
			if(userData[supportedServices[i]]) {
				var serviceUrl = _buildServiceUrl(supportedServices[i]);
				userServices.push({'name' : supportedServices[i], 'url' : serviceUrl});
			}
		}
		return userServices;
	}

	this.dropProfile = function(id) {
		var dp = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-profile-' + id);

		// IE6 needs JS to display/hide. All other browsers use CSS.
		if(dp) {
			if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) dp.style.display = (dp.style.display == 'inline') ? 'none' : 'inline';
			return false;
		} else {
			dp = document.createElement('ul');
		}

		dp.id = 'dsq-drop-profile-' + id;
		dp.className = 'dsq-drop-profile';

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) { dp.style.display = 'inline'; }

		var container = Dsq.$('dsq-header-avatar-' + id);
		dp.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.dropProfile(id);
		container.appendChild(dp);
	};

	this.dropProfileMore = function(el, id) {
		var hiddenItems = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-hidden-' + id);

		hiddenItems.style.display = 'inline';
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
	};

	this._updateReplyLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "reply / cancel" links based on state.
		var displayDict = {};

		if(id) {
			if(this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				el.innerHTML = 'Cancel';
				displayDict['media'] = 'inline';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'none';
			} else {
				el.innerHTML = 'Reply';
				displayDict['media'] = 'none';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'inline';
			}
		}

		for(var key in displayDict) {
			if(displayDict.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var	linkEl = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-el-' + id),
					spacer = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-spacer-' + id);

				if(linkEl) {
					linkEl.style.display = displayDict[key];
					if(spacer) spacer.style.display = displayDict[key];
				}
			}
		}
	};

	this._updateMediaLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "use media / cancel" links based on state.
		var appendId = (id) ? ('-' + id) : '';
		var link = Dsq.$('dsq-media-link' + appendId);

		if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			link.innerHTML = 'Cancel Media';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(link, id); return false; };
		} else {
			link.innerHTML = 'Use Media <small>&#9660;</small>';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.showMenu(link, id, 'media'); return false; };
		}
	};

	this.toggleReply = function(el, id) {
		// Create reply IFrame
		if (window.disqus_use_postmessage) {
			if (!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				// Create IFrame if it doesn't exist.
				if (!Dsq.frames['reply_' + id]) {
					var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id] = new Dsq.ReplyFrame(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-frame-' + id), id);
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].init();
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].setState(id, _meta.depth);
				}
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
			}
		} else {
			// DEPRECATED
			if(!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				// Reply toolbar
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id), id);
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Iframes.hideAllInContainer(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id));
				if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
					// HACK: Cancel media before canceling self.
					this.toggleMediaReply(Dsq.$('dsq-media-link-' + id), id);
				}
			}
		}

		this.stateReplyToggled[id] = !this.stateReplyToggled[id];
		this._updateReplyLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-reply-' + id); }

		Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED, {
			postId: id,
			opened: this.stateReplyToggled[id]
		});
	};

	this.toggleMediaReply = function(el, id, xtype) {
		id = id || 0;
		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(!this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id, {xtype:xtype}, 'dsq-post-video');
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id);
		}
		this.stateRecordLink[id] = !this.stateRecordLink[id];
		this._updateMediaLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};

	this.edit = function(el, id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id).innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.frameEdit(id);
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-comment-message-' + id); }
	};

    this.rate = function(el, id, vote) {
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_votes) {
			if(vote == 1) {
                Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + id).innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
            }

            Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/vote.js'
                + '?post_id='    + id
                + '&vote='        + vote);

		} else {
			Dsq.Popup.login(Dsq.Strings.TO_RATE_PLEASE_LOG_IN);
		}
    };

	this.report = function(id, confirmed) {
		if(confirmed) {
			Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see/post_report/', {'post_id': id});
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Thank you. This comment has been flagged for moderator attention.', 'Successfully flagged');
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(Dsq.$('dsq-post-report-' + id));
		} else {
			var title = Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT;
			var message = Dsq.Strings.ARE_YOU_SURE_YOU_WOULD_LIKE_TO_REPORT_THIS_COMMENT_TO_A_MODERATOR + '? \
			<br /><br /> \
			<button onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true)"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.NO + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.NEVER_MIND + '</button>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<button onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + id + ', true);"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.YES + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT + '</button><br /><br />'
			+ Dsq.Strings.THIS_WILL_FLAG_COMMENTS_FOR_MODERATORS_TO_TAKE_ACTION + '. \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, id);
		}
	};



	this.showAlert = function(id, msg) {
		var msgEl = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id);
		var alert = '<div class="dsq-comment-alert">' + msg + '</div>';

		msgEl.innerHTML = alert + msgEl.innerHTML;
	};

};
// Dsq.Post


/**
 * Dsq.Thread
 */
Dsq.Thread = new function() {
	this.fc = null;
	this.ff = null;
	this.ac = null;

	
	this.adminIsOn = false;

	
	
	

	this.hlComment = null;
	this.hlCommentClass = null;

	this.getNextComment = function(el) {
		var start_id = el.id;
		while(el = el.nextSibling) {
			if(el.id && el.id.indexOf('dsq-comment-') != -1 && el.id != start_id) {
				return el;
			}
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.getActiveCommentId = function() {
		if (document.URL.indexOf('#comment-') >= 0) {
			var anchor = document.URL.slice(document.URL.indexOf('#') + 1);
			return anchor.replace('comment-', '');
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.highlightAnchor = function() {
		var i = this.getActiveCommentId();
		if (i == null) return false;
		var id = 'dsq-comment-' + i;
		var hash = window.location.hash;

		// Toggle the hash incase the comment isn't available when the page loads
		// for WebKit-based browsers.
		if (Dsq.Utils.webkit) {
			window.location.hash = '';
			window.location.hash = hash;
		}

		this.hlComment = Dsq.$(id);
		// Adding this conditional guard pending #289
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlCommentClass = this.hlComment.className;
		this.hlComment.className += ' dsq-hl-anchor';

		setTimeout("Dsq.Thread.highlightClear()", 3000);
	};

	this.highlightClear = function() {
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlComment.className = this.hlCommentClass;
	};

	this.login = function(toggle) {
		// toggle id is #dsq-reply-login-[id]
		var postId;
		if(toggle.id.indexOf('dsq-reply-login') != -1) {
			postId = toggle.id.slice(16);
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + postId);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(toggle) {
			if(toggle.className == 'dsq-login-active') {
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(container, postId);
				toggle.className = '';
			} else {
				Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
				toggle.className = 'dsq-login-active';
			}
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
		}

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};


	this.paginate = function(page, el_clicked, per_page) {
		// Use extra_params to pass any override parameters that we need to persist.
		var extra_params = '';

		// "Per page" can either be overriden by providing it as an argument
		// (per-call) or setting the disqus_per_page override variable (global).
		if(typeof per_page == 'undefined') {
			per_page = null;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined' && per_page === null) {
			per_page = disqus_per_page;
		}

		if(typeof disqus_sort != 'undefined') {
			extra_params += '&sort=' + disqus_sort;
		}
		if(per_page !== null) {
			extra_params += '&per_page=' + per_page;
		}

		Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML += '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
		
		if(el_clicked) {
			el_clicked.style.display = 'none';
		}
		
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ 'from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see'
			+ '&p='		+ page
			+ extra_params);
	};

	this.sortBy = function(sort) {
		var disqus_script = document.createElement('script');
		var disqus_date = new Date();

		if (location.hash != '') {
			location.hash = '#disqus_thread';
		}

		if(typeof(disqus_url) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_url = disqus_href;
		}
		disqus_script.type = 'text/javascript';
		disqus_script.src = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ 'from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see'
			+ '&sort='	+ sort
			+ '&title='
			+ '&'		+ disqus_date.getTime();

		Dsq.$('dsq-comments').innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif">';
		Dsq.container.appendChild(disqus_script);
	};

	this.subscribe = function(status, email) {
		// `status` is an int -- 1 to subscribe, 0 to unsubscribe
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || email) {
			// If authenticated user OR anonymous email provided

			if(email) {
				Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);
			}

			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/subscribe.js'
				+'?status=' 	+ status
				+ '&slug='		+ 'from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see'
				+ '&email=' 	+ encodeURIComponent(email));

		} else if(!email) {
			// If anonymous user and no email has been provided yet, prompt for email

			var title = 'Subscribe to this comment thread';
			var message = ' \
				New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox! \
				<div class="dsq-subscribe-submit"> \
					<p><strong>Enter your email address below.</strong></p> \
					<input type="text" id="dsq-subscribe-email"> \
					<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1, Dsq.$(\'dsq-subscribe-email\').value)">Subscribe</button> \
				</div> \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
		}
	};

	this.showSettings = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) {
			return;
		}

		/* The form has to be re-designed when more options will come out. */
		var html = 'Automatically close comments after <input size="3" id="dsq-thread-days-alive" value="' + Dsq.jsonData.thread.days_alive + '" type="text" /> days. Existing comments will still be displayed.<br /><br />(Using 0 days will disable this feature)<br /><br />'
								 + '<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.updateDaysAlive();" class="dsq-button-small"><span>Save</span></button>'
								 + '<span id="dsq-thread-settings-status" class="dsq-options-status"></span>';
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(html, 'Settings');
	};

	this.updateDaysAlive = function() {
		var days = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-days-alive').value;
		var status = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-settings-status');
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/update_days_alive.js', {days:days,thread:Dsq.jsonData.thread.id});
		status.innerHTML = 'Saved!';
		window.setTimeout(function() { status.innerHTML = ''; }, 1000);
	};
};
// Dsq.Thread

Dsq.Events = function() {
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var handlers = {};
	var getHandlers = function(event) {
		if (handlers[event] === undefined) {
			handlers[event] = [];
		}
		return handlers[event];
	};

	// Public
	// Value keys : postId, node, xtype
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED = 1;
	// Value keys : postId, opened
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED = 2;
	obj.fire = function(event, opt_value) {
		if (!event) {
			throw new Error('Unknown event');
		}
		var value = opt_value || {};
		for (var i=0; i<getHandlers(event).length; i++) {
			getHandlers(event)[i](value);
		}
	};
	obj.addHandler = function(event, callback) {
		getHandlers(event).push(callback);
	};

	return obj;
}();

/**
 * Dsq.Realtime
 */
Dsq.Realtime = new function() {
	var initialized = false;
	var interval = null;
	var last_checked = Dsq.jsonData.request.timestamp;
	var new_posts = [];
	var ongoing_request = false;
	var prev_script = null;

	function updateNewPostCount() {
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-alert').style.display = new_posts.length ? 'block' : 'none';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-queued').innerHTML = new_posts.length
		+ ' new '
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, 'comment', 'comments')
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, ' was', ' were')
		+ ' just posted.';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.SHOW + ')';
	}

	function insertNewPosts() {
		var post_id = null;
		var after_id = Dsq.$('dsq-sort-select').value === 'oldest' ? -1 : null;

		for (var i=0; i<new_posts.length; i++) {
			post_id = new_posts[i];
			Dsq.Post.insert(after_id, post_id, Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id].message);
			Dsq.Post.incrementPostCount();
			Dsq.Post.outlineComment(post_id);
		}
		new_posts = [];
	}

	this.enableInterval = function() {
		interval = setInterval(Dsq.Realtime.check, Dsq.jsonData.context.realtime_speed);
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.ENABLED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.PAUSE + ')';
	}

	this.disableInterval = function() {
		if (interval) {
			clearInterval(interval);
			interval = null;
		}
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.PAUSED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.RESUME + ')';
	}

	this.toggleInterval = function() {
		if (!interval) {
			Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
		} else {
			Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
		}
		return false;
	}

	this.initialize = function() {
		if (!initialized) {
			initialized = true;
			Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').onclick = this.toggleInterval;
			if (!Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').onclick = this.show;
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
			if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.realtime_paused) {
				Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
			} else {
				Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
			}
		}
	}

	this.show = function() {
		insertNewPosts();
		updateNewPostCount();
		return false;
	}

	this.check = function() {
		if (!ongoing_request && Dsq.jsonData.realtime_enabled) {
			if (prev_script) {
				prev_script.parentNode.removeChild(prev_script);
			}
			ongoing_request = true;
			prev_script = Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/7983627/realtime.js?timestamp=' + last_checked);
		}
	};

	this.update = function(timestamp, posts, users) {
		ongoing_request = false;
		last_checked = timestamp;

		if (users) {
			for (var user_id in users) {
				if (users.hasOwnProperty(user_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id] = users[user_id];
					}
				}
			}
		}

		if (posts) {
			for (var post_id in posts) {
				if (posts.hasOwnProperty(post_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] = posts[post_id];
						new_posts.push(post_id);
					}
				}
			}

			if (Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				insertNewPosts();
			} else {
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
		}
	};

}();

// DEPRECATED
Dsq.Iframes = function() {
	// Different style of object from the above. Hoping to switch to this for some reason.
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var showIframeInContainer = function(container, id, markup) {
		// Look through container for iframes, hiding them, except show one that matches id
		// If none of them matched id, create a new iframe using markup and insert it.
		// Returns the iframe node if and only if it was newly created.
		var found = false;
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				if (child.id == id) {
					child.style.display = 'block';
					found = true;
				} else {
					child.style.display = 'none';
				}
			}
		}
		if (found) {
			return;
		}
		// The iframe wasn't found, so construct it and add it to the container.
		// Don't use innerHTML because it might reload iframes
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		div.innerHTML = markup;
		var iframe = div.childNodes[0];
		div.removeChild(iframe);
		container.appendChild(iframe);
		return iframe;
	};

	// Public
	obj.makeReplyIframeId = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var id = 'dsq-post-add-iframe';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			id += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			id += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return id;
	};
	obj.makeLoginIframeId = function(opt_postId) {
		if (!opt_postId) {
			return 'dsq-login-iframe';
		}
		return 'dsq-login-iframe-' + opt_postId;
	};
	obj.makeReplyIframeName = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var name = 'dsq-reply-frame';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			name += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			name += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return name;
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId, opt_extraParams, opt_className) {
		// Construct the id so we can check if it's already present.
		// Hide any other iframes we find, and show this one if it's found.
		var params = opt_extraParams || {};
		// use xtype in the id and name so we can distinguish media replies from text replies:
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeId(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var name = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeName(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var attributes = {
			'id': id,
			'name': name,
			'class': opt_className || 'dsq-post-reply'
			};
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameReply(opt_postId, opt_extraParams, attributes);
		var iframe = showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
		// It was newly created
		if (iframe) {
			Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED, {
				postId: opt_postId,
				node: iframe,
				xtype: params.xtype
			});
		}
	};
	obj.showLoginIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId) {
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeLoginIframeId(opt_postId);
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: id});
		showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed = function(container, opt_postId) {
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			obj.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, opt_postId);
		} else {
			obj.hideAllInContainer(container);
		}
	};
	obj.hideAllInContainer = function(container) {
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				child.style.display = 'none';
			}
		}
	};

	return obj;
}();

Dsq.Twitter = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startTwitterConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._twitterWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/twitter/begin/', 'twitterWindow', popupParams);
		that._twitterInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeTwitterConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeTwitterConnect = function() {
		if (that._twitterWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._twitterInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Yahoo = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startYahooConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._yahooWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/yahoo/begin/', 'yahooWindow', popupParams);
		that._yahooInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeYahooConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeYahooConnect = function() {
		if (that._yahooWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._yahooInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.OpenID = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.requestURL = function() {
		var message = '<table class="dsq-openid-form"><tr><td style="vertical-align:top;" rowspan="2"><img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url + '/images/openid-icon-100x100.png" /></td>';
		message += '<td><label for="dsq-openid-url">OpenID URL:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-url" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td><label for="dsq-openid-username">Display name:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-username" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td class="dsq-openid-submit" colspan="3"><input type="button" value="Sign in" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.startConnect();" /></td></tr>';
		message += "</table>";

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, 'Sign in using OpenID');
	};

	this.startConnect = function() {
		var isblank = function(str) {
			return /^\s*$/.test(str);
		};

		var openid_url = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-url').value;
		var username = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-username').value;

		if (isblank(openid_url)) {
			return;
		}

		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=500';
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/openid/begin/' + '?url=' + encodeURIComponent(openid_url) + '&username=' + encodeURIComponent(username);
		that._openidWindow = window.open(url, 'openidWindow', popupParams);
		that._openidInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeConnect = function() {
		if (that._openidWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._openidInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Reaction = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.hide = function(id) {
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/hidereaction.js?' + 'reaction_id=' + id);
	};

	this.reportMissingReactions = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || !Dsq.jsonData.forum.reactions_enabled) {
			return;
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.queued) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Your report has been received. The system will automatically search for new reactions; if any are found, they will be displayed on this comment thread.<br/><br/>Thank&nbsp;you.',
												 'Reported missing reactions');
			return;
		}

		Dsq.Utils.execScript(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/forums/blogxilla/queueurl.js');
	};
};

Dsq.CNN = function() {
	var obj = {};

	obj.authenticate = function() {
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + "/saml/cnn/try/";
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl(url, {'target': document.location}, true);
	};

	return obj;
}();


if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
	(function() {
		DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE = /<div class="dsq-header-avatar"(.*?)>/gim;
		Dsq.Templates.registerFilter('postPrependHeader', function(html, post_id) {
			// Add "onmouseout" for dsq-header-avatar for dropProfile
			// functionality since IE6 cannot use :hover.
			function _headerAvatarReplace(content, inner, _unused, html) {
				return '<div class="dsq-header-avatar" '
					+ inner
					+ ' onmouseout="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')">';
			}
			html = html.replace(DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE, _headerAvatarReplace);
			return html;
		});
	})();
}









(function() {
	//
	// Load theme.  This overrides the base templates with template functions
	// from the respective themes.
	//
	if (Dsq.jsonData.integration.theme == 4) {
		var theme = 'narcissus';
		// HACK: Set variable on window to use post message.
		window.disqus_use_postmessage = true;

		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Themes[theme]) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Templates[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Post) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Post[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
	}

	//
	// Register templates.  This must be done after all themes are loaded.
	//
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('authPost', Dsq.Templates.authPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('header', Dsq.Templates.header);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('footer', Dsq.Templates.footer);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('trackbacks', Dsq.Templates.trackbacks);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('reactions', Dsq.Templates.reactions);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('prependPost', Dsq.Templates.prependPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('appendPost', Dsq.Templates.appendPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postPrependHeader', Dsq.Templates.postPrependHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postAppendHeader', Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('preBody', Dsq.Templates.preBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBody', Dsq.Templates.postBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postFooter', Dsq.Templates.postFooter);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('_popupGeneric', Dsq.Templates._popupGeneric);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('voted', Dsq.Templates.voted);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('popupProfile', Dsq.Templates.popupProfile);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBox', Dsq.Templates.postBox);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('pagination', Dsq.Templates.pagination);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postComment_onSuccess', Dsq.Templates.postComment_onSuccess);

})();

Dsq.container.className = "clearfix";
Dsq.container.innerHTML = ' \
<ul id="dsq-comments">\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4208211">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4208211" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208211" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208211" href="http://myspace.com/upndaskyy" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">tedeja B.</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4208211" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208211" class="dsq-comment-message">I suffered from this syndrome (i\'ve overcame it- pats on the back) and have reoccuring urges to do this. not only do i find out some disgusting bullshit everytime i look at that phone, but it also shows me how men can sometimes have a disregard/ lack of respect for the woman they "love". <br><br>i\'m not one of those females who wants the perfect guy, i mean let\'s face it nobodys perfect. i expect you to do stupid shit like flirt/text/look other youngings...your a man for christs sake!! and most of all human. but the simple fact that your stupid enough to leave it on there when you claim to "know how females" are...just shows 1. your stupidity and 2. your lack of respect and care for your mate or your own damn privacy. <br><br>i\'ve since stopped even looking in the direction of the phone and have since found a extrodinary piece of mind. if it is visable i\'d cover it with a paper or a napkin or something. don\'t let me get started on the myspace/blackplanet/facebook notes and comments fiasco...the internet is not for children i.e. little ass "grown" boys + girls....let me stop before i be here allday...i love this post by the way, glad u brought it back.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4210504">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4210504" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210504" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210504" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4210504" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210504" class="dsq-comment-message">lol I feel you, the internet makes cheating so easy... it also makes getting caught cheating very easy... Yahoo is the worst though it\'s super easy to crack a yahoo password if you really want to do that...  Black Planet... i got horror stories!! For real! lol</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4217587">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4217587" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4217587" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217587">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4217587" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217587" class="dsq-comment-message">lol my ex busted into my BP account and got to sendin all kinds of random stuff. i knew he was nutty so i went in with my boy on all kinds of crazy letters. dude was fumin inside but couldn\'t say anything because he wasn\'t supposed to have seen what he saw. everntually i told him i knew he checks my ish refularly and i don\'t appreciate it especially when he\'s fucking his boss.[he got fired but kept money and isn\'t smart enough to hustle] we talked it out and moved on and pretty much didn\'t go there again.<br><br>i\'ve never looked in a phone and won\'t. usually when i\'ve dated a guy that was trickin off the other woman has called or it becomes so blatant i can\'t help but move on. do NOT look for trouble because you\'d find it. [whether its really there or ur lack of trust conjurs up a rue of foolishness] mmm mm! don\'t do it!]</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4251441">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4251441" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4251441" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4251441">Ant_from_Chi</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4251441" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4251441" class="dsq-comment-message">Xilla, I have a topic to debate.  You probably already covered this, but I must have missed it.  Anyway, I had a party the other night and one of my favorite non sexual lady friends was there.  Her man came later.  Me and a couple of my friends were in the kitchen eating when he came in.  He walked to us, gave pounds all around, then joined the conversation.  I asked him if he had seen the fight and he says "I didn\'t see it, (Blank) thought I was there, but I was somewhere else.  I had to call one of the homies to get the info so that when she asked me later, I would know what happened."<br><br>Now granted, he didn\'t say that he was out fucking around, but he certainly alluded to it.  My question now to you is, what would you do in a situation like this.  Keep in mind that she is the one that\'s my friend and I know him through her.  I already know what I am going to do, I just want to know what you and the rest of the community have to say about this.  I\'m really tempted to tell her because they are about to buy a house together and they have kids, but you know how it could go.  What I am going to do though is call him and let him know that he is going to fuck up his relationship, among other things.  And that he should be careful who he says these type of things in front of, especially since one of the cats who heard it was trying to holla at (Blank) before he got there.<br><br>Anyway, the party was great.  a couple of people got in trouble because they was out too late and/or up in some chicks face they wasn\'t supposed to be in.  Good times.  Wish you all could have been there.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4278018">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4278018" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4278018" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4278018">HeadMistress</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4278018" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4278018" class="dsq-comment-message">As a woman, I think this kind of news coming from a platonic male friend may be a lot easier to accept than coming from a female friend...<br><br>Another idea, provided it\'s your plan to tell her, is to give him the opportunity to tell her himself and that if he doesn\'t you certainly will, this however could also backfire in too many ways to name...<br><br>tough situation...</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4279073">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4279073" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4279073" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4279073">Ant_from_Chi</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4279073" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4279073" class="dsq-comment-message">I don\'t want to tell her.  She and I have some history.  Long, long time ago history, but history none the less.  Now I am just really tight with her and her whole family.  I\'m even cool with him and made it a point to make him feel comfortable when we\'re all together.<br><br>I think he said that in front of me to get a reaction.  Maybe he\'s trying to self destruct.  What I have decided to do is talk to him.  I left him a voicemail to call me, but he hasn\'t yet.  I\'m going to explain to him that I am not going to say anything to her about what you alluded to, but at the same time, you are on notice that I don\'t ever want to hear anything like that come from you to me and that you need to consider what you are doing and be a man about your shit.<br><br><br>No matter what though you\'re right.  Tough situation.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4279189">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4279189" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4279189" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4279189">HeadMistress</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4279189" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4279189" class="dsq-comment-message">Yeah, the "history" changes everything...good call!</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4208375">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4208375" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208375" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208375">STONGURL</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4208375" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208375" class="dsq-comment-message">I cant even lie. I will read that text message and anyother ones thats in the inbox and outbox. Im nosey as hell. But if he\'s foolin with another women, and these days a MAN text msg, a way of finding things out. Forreal</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4210525">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4210525" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210525" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210525" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4210525" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210525" class="dsq-comment-message">Wow you\'re efficient, lol do you check the trash as well?</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4208559">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4208559" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208559" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208559">VIChick</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4208559" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208559" class="dsq-comment-message">Back in the day I must admit I checked the cell phone when he was out of the room, I even looked through his shit when he left the house. I found stuff out that I never imagined and I was mad at myself. I wanted to look and here I was crying my eyes out. Him cheating was wrong, but I found what I was looking for and I wish I hadn\'t. I no longer search shit because if your doing wrong that shit will one day come out into the light.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4210475">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4210475" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210475" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210475" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4210475" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210475" class="dsq-comment-message">WOW that\'s scary I don\'t want anyone going through my stuff... I hate that crap... I just realized i\'m a bit weird... What if you go through the wrong stuff and go through the dirty clothes? Then what you done molested my dirty draws... ewww.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4214755">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4214755" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4214755" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4214755">VIChick</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4214755" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4214755" class="dsq-comment-message">Like going through some shit and finding track marks on your draws. lol Nasty as hell</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4208603">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4208603" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208603" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208603">Princess0889</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4208603" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208603" class="dsq-comment-message">I have never been this type of person because when you go looking for something you are bound to find something you don\'t want to see. I mean if you have a doubt in your mind why are you still with them you have no trust. <br><br>If my man goes a look through my phone and he finds something then he better be prepared to find something he doesn\'t like because that is what he wants anyway. <br><br>If you are going to be nosy ask me because you are speaking to the nosiest person in the world I would understand if you wanna look. But don\'t look in mine if I can\'t look in yours.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-4208625">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-4208625" class="dsq-comment-header">\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208625" href="http://www.thejadednyer.net" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">thejadednyer</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208625" class="dsq-comment-message">If you leave it for me to look through, I WILL look through it. I\'m Nosey by Nature... not necessarily looking for anything, just nosey. I\'ll look through ANYBODY\'S stuff- a dude, my sister, my moms- I\'m just like that!<br><br>However, it IS how I busted my ex, so it comes in handy. If they\'re too dumb to leave a trail then OH WELL, not my fault! lol<br><br>Now, my stuff? Well, I\'m not hiding anything. But to keep my moms or babies in the dark about grown folks business (in case they\'re nosey, too) I know all about deleting cookies, password protecting my ish, and deleting texts/photos from my phone ASAP.<br><br>This ain\'t my first time at the rodeo... lol</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208674" href="http://www.thejadednyer.net" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">thejadednyer</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208674" class="dsq-comment-message">Ugh... I hate typos! I meant to say:<br><br>If they\'re too dumb AND leave a trail then OH WELL, not my fault! lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208645" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208645" href="http://myspace.com/essaykay" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Sher</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208645" class="dsq-comment-message">I think this is a bad habit and I blame chicks for making men think that this shit is cool.<br><br>Dont pick my BB or my cell phone and go through it, unless I ask you to. And I will never do the same to someone else.<br>Im an adult and I expect to be treated as such.<br><br>If Im in a relationship and you feel you need to go through my phone, then you dont trust me. If you dont trust me, then there is no reason for us to be together. For real.<br><br>While Im at it.. Chicks if your man is texting another chick and you want to know whats going on. STOP calling the other chick and embarassing yourselves. You look like a crazy mofo. Confront your MAN. That\'s who you are involved with. Not the chick.<br><br>Great blog, Xilla. :)</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208679">ANuJS</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4208679" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208679" class="dsq-comment-message">I feel you. If your man cheats...check your man. You weren\'t in a relationship with the other woman. Just check your man.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217598">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217598" class="dsq-comment-message">Thank You, Thank You, Thank You - this cannot be said enough!!!!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208910" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208910" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208910" class="dsq-comment-message">It is a bad habit! !A Terrible one I checked my baby momma phone one day and I aint like shit i saw!! It wasn\'t even that bad... If you leave your phone around me I\'m calling you to come get your shit! <br><br>I don\'t even want you to leave it in my area... <br><br>but i feel you on that trust thing its a very important part of all relationships because that what a relationship is trusting someone with what will hurt you... and them not hurting you.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4214835">VIChick</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4214835" class="dsq-comment-message">You know something that shit happened to me last night. A friend of mine texted me to see how I was doing, then the next thing I know I got a text back saying "Who is this"? She was like how u know my man? I couldn\'t help but laugh. I hate that shit. I was like me and ol boy are friends if u have any other questions check your man bitch. She was like I just wanna know whats going on? I was like why you still contacting me? <br>I hate bitches like that.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217690">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217690" class="dsq-comment-message">Barbie! i hate it too! why are women soooo quick to get mad at the other woman?! I dated a married man once, and his crazass wife dropped his son off at my apt while she shopped! i\'m like bitch are u nutty. mind u he worked a job where we couldn\'t contact him until late that evening. i had no idea he was married or had a kid! i\'ve also had this random trollop tht dated my cousin slash my tires thinking we were messings around. [i let him use my truck for dates and she errantly assumed i was his boo] needless to say i had to beat my tire money out her ass like i was in jr. high! <br><br>there are some women that knowingly condone cheating, some don\'t. don\'t assume all women are this inconsiderate. as soon as i catch wind of a man having a sigother, i bounce. period. women make themselves look amazingly stupid when they fbi the other woman. she has no ties to u[even if she does know] so CHECK YA MAN and keep ya own house clean! period! ARG! i need a shut yo mouf potion just thinkin bout that!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208656">ANuJS</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208656" class="dsq-comment-message">I am a FIRM believer of what\'s done in the dark will one day come to the light. Yes, I have been the one checking text messages, ordering phone bills, snooping thru the wallet, etc, etc. But I was younger-a LOT younger. I am now secure enough in who I am that I refuse to lower myself to this level. When the time is appropriate I may see some of my hubby\'s text messages. However, I WILL NOT look thru them to get in his business. This is smothering to me. I have to trust that he is doing right. If he isn\'t...I\'ll find out. SIMPLE AS THIS. I don\'t think being in a relationship gives the other partner a RIGHT to invade privacy. After all, this relationship is between 2 individuals w/individual sh**. This hits home w/me b/c of my current situation. Fix yourself. Worry about you and everything will be perfect even if it doesn\'t seem like it will. When it all boils down the only person you have full 100% CONTROL over is......YOU! Take care of that person. I agree Xilla, no one should cheat and no one deserves to be cheated. Also, no one deserves to have their partner go Inspector Gadget and F&gt;B&gt;I all their shit. Every relationship needs trust to survive. If you are a jealous insecure person all the snooping in the world won\'t satisfy you or make you content. Step back and work on yourself. Like you said...you find what you go looking for. STOP LOOKING!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4208698" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208698" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208698" class="dsq-comment-message">the whole point of looking IS to find something (no?) wht do u think ur gonna find in a mans cell phone...love notes to you (his girl)...nah lol. Ur gonna find txts to his boys, etc if he\'s not doing his thing on the side.<br><br>If I\'m going to look then it\'s for a reason.<br>1) either I feel ur up to no good or I feel tht ur trying to hide something<br><br>I\'ve looked b4 in the past but it was for the above reason. Would I look now, probably not. Wht\'s the point, who gives a sh*t...lol. Do wht u do daddy b/c u only live once! And we\'re not married ;)</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4209000" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4209000" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209000" class="dsq-comment-message">Ness, you\'re hilarious!! lol You know that right... lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4209120">Princess0889</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209120" class="dsq-comment-message">"Do what u do daddy b/c u only live once! And we\'re not married"<br><br>Say it Ness, Preach*swaying side to side in the church pew*</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4209191" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209191" class="dsq-comment-message">The Book Of Ness might get you in trouble... you better be careful!!!! nah Ness is a good guiide for a person who knows what she\'s doing.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4209556">Princess0889</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209556" class="dsq-comment-message">Really lol<br>Thanks for you recommendation.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210050" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210050" class="dsq-comment-message">LOL Trouble?<br><br>I haven\'t got into any trouble from following my "book of Ness" lol.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4220620">Art2dope</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4220620" class="dsq-comment-message">i feeling this entry...  and i\'ma need to cop that book lol<br>yo thats my phone last time i check i go into my <a href="http://tmobile.com" rel="nofollow">tmobile.com</a> account and pay that joint, don\'t be checking! and if you go and find pictures of my meat, point blank i\'ma freak... and you should know cause thats how i got you GRRRrrRRR but you get my drift.<br><br>I DON\'T CHECK ANY GIRLS PHONE CAUSE I DON\'T PAY HER BILL, I DON\'T WANNA PAY HER BILL, AND THAT\'S ALL HER BUSINESS. LET HER DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS. BUT ITS DIFFERENT IF I\'M WITH YOU AND YOU TEXTING, THEN WE HAVING BEEF.<br>Don\'t look at the other teams play book, cause at the end of the day this is a contact sport, they always have something up their sleeve. ART MADDEN Reporting from Blogxilla! BOOM!</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210036" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210036" class="dsq-comment-message">Hahahaha! lol...<br><br>Wht\'s the point in getting mad & upset...have ur fun b/c whtever u do, I can do better! lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210407" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210407" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210407" class="dsq-comment-message">was this directed to me? Is that a challenge? HAHAHA We can get a battle like Sandman and Bill Cosby you don\'t want it! lol</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4218993" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4218993" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4218993" class="dsq-comment-message">Nah tht wasn\'t directed twds u Xilla lol.<br><br>I was saying in general about any man tht I decide to date lol.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4235980">ImWatchinYoo</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4235980" class="dsq-comment-message">you sure that wasnt directed to xilla? i think with what you right and what he rights yall should have sex and see who cums out on top</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217728">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217728" class="dsq-comment-message">u betta SAY DAT Ness! hi5boo! until u get me rocked up i\'m enjoyin this once around on the planet. i\'m having fun and not stressin! if u feel they\'re hiding something, ask them about it and/or dead it. snooping is WHACK!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4219004" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4219004" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4219004" class="dsq-comment-message">Exactly lol!  <br><br>Half the ppl who go snooping don\'t do ish when they find dirt...so whts the point in busting out a guys windows if ur gonna stay w/ him. Ur gonna look like to fool rolling around in a car w/o any windows lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4221727">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4221727" class="dsq-comment-message">WORD! the couple across the street are so serious about their fights. i mean have shot out windows and tire[shocked the hell outta me, guess people don\'t use clubs like in the old days] and they call the police on each other back and forth. she\'s bout 5-7 mo preg by dude from what i hear[i\'m just TELLIN THEY BIDNIS lol] what\'s the friggin pt!?<br><br>99% of the snoopy mc nosins never do ish, or they throw a royal fit only to be romparoomin in the bed an hr lata., CRAZY! i ain\' never and will never be that chick. i\'d rather besomewhere high plotton on the next d-i....WOOOORD! lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208717">Lissa</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208717" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'ve never been one to wait for my man to leave and check his phone. If i decide to go through it I do it in his face, which is always better because if he has something to hide he\'d fight to keep you out. . . . .<br><br>But then when you look or trouble you find it. . .so when trouble is not bothering me I don\'t go looking for it.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4209041" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4209041" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209041" class="dsq-comment-message">Well he could be fighting just to maintain the trust level of your relationship, could he not? I mean he\'s probably hiding something but like Sher said if you can\'t trust a person you don\'t need to be with that person.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4216824">Lissa</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4216824" class="dsq-comment-message">Its never a trust thing because if I can\'t trust you I don\'t need you (lol. . .as you said). . the only reason I might flip open his phone is because for some reason he felt the need to go through mine. . . otherwise. . .whats done in the dark will come out, so I dont go searching . ..I agree with Ness do you</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4208734" href="http://k581.wordpress.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">K581</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208734" class="dsq-comment-message">Man I been there but I usually find that it\'s not worth because men are more likely to be sloppy with their ish and I\'ll eventually find out (like I did this week) damn damn damn! lol Great post!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4209168" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4209168" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209168" class="dsq-comment-message">wow that you find out this week? Does the BlogXilla crew need to come through and hurt someone?</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4214888">404</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4214888" class="dsq-comment-message">lol hell yea whoop dat ass!!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217754">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217754" class="dsq-comment-message">i second xilla. i been known to scrape the best ones! i been trained in the hood like rockysha or something! ****ehugs*** * don\'t trip K5, it\'ll be aight cuz it has to be.... ur just readying urself for that mjb real love, yaDIIIIIG!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4208896">sugarlips</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4208896" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'ve been there before, when I was in an awful relationship, caught my man doing wrong before and was just ITCHING to find some evidence to prove he never stopped with his tricks. It\'s not a happy place to be in. Since that nightmare ended, I\'ve calmed down significantly. I\'m still a little nosy, but not like that, but because I want to get to know my dude better, cuz guys know they don\'t share details and us girls love details... I don\'t bother with the snooping because I\'ve realized there are so many other signs that he\'s doing wrong, and if you\'re at the point where you feel the need to check, you pretty much already know your answer and know what you\'re gonna find. Looking in his phone or trying to hack into his email account won\'t make him NOT cheat, so why even put yourself through it. I don\'t care who you\'re texting, who\'s calling, etc. as long as I know you\'re doing right by me. I know if anyone got in my phone they might not be too happy with what they see, so I can\'t judge! <br>Plus, there\'s something to be said for having a little bit of privacy, or at least feeling that sense of privacy. Even in a long-term committed relationship you need to hold onto something that feels like it\'s yours, and not "ours", even though in reality you\'re on each other\'s phones like its nothing... let him feel like he you that permission.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210423" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210423" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4210423" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210423" class="dsq-comment-message">Well said.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4217779" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217779">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217779" class="dsq-comment-message">well said! i loved the part about holding on to something that\'s yours.... i agree that its soo necessary to have you own something. whether its ur phonem golfin with the fellas, getting ur nails did on sat, SOMETHING needs to be just for you without ur mates input/tampering. GO HEAD Suga!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4209038">DC_REALEST</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209038" class="dsq-comment-message">all i can say is FELLAS... delete the deleted messages.<br><br>insecurity can ruin a good union.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4209070">ANuJS</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4209070" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209070" class="dsq-comment-message">"insecurity can ruin a good union."  Some of the truest words ever!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210265" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4210265">DC_REALEST</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210265" class="dsq-comment-message">you feel me anujs?  i get a high off being honest. sometimes it gets me in trouble but most respect it....</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4209355">CRUSH</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209355" class="dsq-comment-message">Man Xilla what are you talking about my ex and I were trying to work it out about 8mths ago and I would notice that every time he left the room even if he was butt naked he would make sure he had his phone with him... but I wasn\'t trying to get to his phone or anything I\'m very secure in myself and plus I was there to just work out my needs not get into another crazy relationship with his ass. So check this out after a night of pleasure I get up in the morning to go down stairs to fix breakfast(left my phone in my purse upstairs with nosy) So I come back up the stairs to ask him if he wanted toast or something and guess who I find digging in my purse looking in my phone...All I could do was laugh and ask him did he find what he was looking for. He responded "yeah just what I thought you would be doing"....now I don\'t have picture messages or texts plan on my phone so I\'m guessing he went through my contacts but what can contacts tell you...NOTHING! Anyway he got mad at me like he caught me going through his stuff and told me he thought I should leave, WOW.  I\'m so glad I\'m over his crazy ass the wood ain\'t that good to have to deal with the B.S.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210333" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210333" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210333" class="dsq-comment-message">That\'s because most people doing dirt will tell on their self that\'s why you don\'t really need to go through anyones phone... you know we\'ve known each other for a few years now and never met, or bumped into each other... im outta here for a hot minute though. Hold Atlanta down for me Crush!!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4209845" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4209845">ChucksFavorite</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4209845" class="dsq-comment-message">I have no problem with looking in my man\'s phone...do it all the time! and i\'m not one of those people to do it while he\'s out of the room or away either. I do it right there in front of his face.  my thing is, if you have NOTHING to hide, then you shouldn\'t have a problem with me looking. and its not as though i\'m looking in anything in particular, just skimming thru. (my bf has an iPhone and i like to play with it sometimes)<br><br>and one day while skimming, i saw a text message chain that was severly questionable. so i asked about it.  once again, if you have nothing to hide , this wouldn\'t be an issue. his response was "why are you going thru my phone?" DEFENSE MODE!!   of course he says its nothing and its not what i think it is...blah, blah, blah. I had already made it clear that i don\'t do cheating or cheaters. that\'s the one thing that i WILL NOT forgive, and is a guaranteed way to get a pink slip.  and it works both ways...i have nothing to hide, so my phone is open all day, everyday.<br><br>But if you\'re afraid of what you might see, definately don\'t go looking.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4210372">DC_REALEST</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210372" class="dsq-comment-message">iight CF i hear you.  do you belive that your urge to look is a form of insecurity? <br><br>so say you and you man sitting home tonight and his phone ring/text and he ignors it? what are you going say/do? <br><br>you know what...women do mind us looking b/c ya\'ll \'premeditate" your deeds. not saying that you do...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4215152">Belly</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4215152" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4215152" class="dsq-comment-message">EXACTLY!!! what is the real reason behind you going thru my phone? INSECURITY.. thats how i see it and there is no other excuse.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4217255">ChucksFavorite</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4217255" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4217255" class="dsq-comment-message">in response to DC_REALEST:<br><br>no, i\'m not an insecure person at all. and to answer you example questions, I wouldn\'t  say or do anything. if he ignore\'s it, that\'s on him.  he ignore\'s his phone all the time, even while we\'re together , so it wouldn\'t be anything new. <br><br>and i can\'t speak for most women, but i truely don\'t mind you looking. becuase if you\'re "looking" for something in particular, i hope you find what you\'re looking for and if not, then maybe you shouldn\'t be "looking"  yeah, women do premediitate things ( yeah i do it too), but that definately isn\'t of them...</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210148" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210148" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210148" class="dsq-comment-message">Oh...<br><br>Going thru a guys phone doesn\'t always lead to bad things. I found a txt mst once tht said he was gonna get a limo for me for my bday.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4210303">SweetT</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210303" class="dsq-comment-message">A limo wow, I never been  in a limo before where did he take you?</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210792" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4210792" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210792" class="dsq-comment-message">He was actually working w/my girlfriends to set up a wonderful evening. The limo took us diner and then to a club.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4210393">DC_REALEST</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4210393" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210393" class="dsq-comment-message">did you tell him you looked? did you act surprised?</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210443" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210443" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210443" class="dsq-comment-message">She probably ain\'t say anything she just acted SHOCKEd when she saw it probably! lol</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210881" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210881" class="dsq-comment-message">Hush up...DC asked me NOT u lol....lmao.<br>But I wish I wud\'ve told him b/c I cud\'ve got something else too.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210857" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210857" class="dsq-comment-message">He found out I went thru is phone, and asked if I \'saw\' anything and I said no...lol.<br><br>So when I went outside, and I had 2 b surprised! :) lol.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4210668" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210668" href="http://theworldfrommywindow.wordpress.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Thatchicknik</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210668" class="dsq-comment-message">Back in the day my girls used to call me the "code cracker" !! LOL! there wasnt a cell phone in the Lou that i couldnt figure out the passcode to (typically because men are simple with codes: b-days, addresses, things like that) but its true that what you look for you shall find!! voicemails from broads saying "i love you, boo", " i miss you" "when will i see you again" IMAGINE THE STEAM COMING OUT OF MY EARS!!!  Men Ive dated dont typically text (if they did they were smart enough to delete asap) so that was never really a problem.  Now that Im older,  I CANT do it; not that I dont want to, but because I got too much dirt in my own phone!!! LOL! Nope! Golden Rule #38: Leave mine alone and I will do the same.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4214876">VIChick</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4214876" class="dsq-comment-message">Leave mine alone and I will do the same. Say it girl!!!!! Say it!!!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4210894">Art2dope</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210894" class="dsq-comment-message">AHHH YES THE DREADFUL PHONE! personally i think phones are off limits, and there are rules to usage. If i\'m with my shorties i won\'t answers text... and in general yo thats my phone last time i check i go into my <a href="http://tmobile.com" rel="nofollow">tmobile.com</a> account and pay that joint, don\'t be checking! and if you go and find pictures of my meat, point blank i\'ma freak... and you should know cause thats how i got you GRRRrrRRR but you get my drift.<br><br>I DON\'T CHECK ANY GIRLS PHONE CAUSE I DON\'T PAY HER BILL, I DON\'T WANNA PAY HER BILL, AND THAT\'S ALL HER BUSINESS. LET HER DO WHATEVER SHE WANTS. BUT ITS DIFFERENT IF I\'M WITH YOU AND YOU TEXTING, THEN WE HAVING BEEF. <br>Don\'t look at the other teams play book, cause at the end of the day this is a contact sport, they always have something up their sleeve. ART MADDEN Reporting from Blogxilla! BOOM!</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4210996" href="http://theworldfrommywindow.wordpress.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Thatchicknik</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4210996" class="dsq-comment-message">"Don\'t look at the other teams play book, cause at the end of the day this is a contact sport, they always have something up their sleeve. ART MADDEN Reporting from Blogxilla! BOOM!"<br><br>LOL!! @ the sportscaster swag ! LOL!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4211406">404</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4211406" class="dsq-comment-message">Can I get some of that mobile to mobile action? I wanna see some meat!!!!<br><br>lol</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4211510">404</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4211510" class="dsq-comment-message">I liked this post the first time and I like it again this time around too. <br><br>I don\'t do it. I don\'t believe in it. I don\'t want them checkin my shit cuz don\'t wanna check their\'s. <br><br>This is all me ova here. <br><br>That\'s all them ova there.<br><br>I\'m a grown ass woman dog!!<br><br>hee hee</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4211583" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4211583" href="http://www.musicallyyummy.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">M.Y.</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4211583" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m not down with checking phones..I find it to be an invasion of privacy. If the significant other is messing around it will come out one way or another I don\'t have the patience or sanity to be inspector gadget</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4214961">Belly</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4214961" class="dsq-comment-message">This happend to me tooooooo many times in the past.. now i  got a lock on my phone and REFUSE to give it to ANYONE!! I mean even if i had the cure for cancer on my phone and i was on my death bed: F*ck you, have a nice day!<br><br> even tho I have nothing to hide (now).. Nothing urks me more than a nosey @$$ female.  so if she wants to see my phone, she has to ask me and for the most part i will say yeah. However she does have to let me know what she needs to see it for. ..and praise the lord for iphones, cause i have the ability to lock certain programs and leave some open. So if she tries to sneak peek at my texts or my recent calls: DENIED. silly you.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4215383">Ms. SoChic</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4215383" class="dsq-comment-message">Me and my girls are definitely snoops. We\'ve done it all, gone through phones, emails, checked voicemails, gone through garbages. I even checked license plates to check for suspicious tickets. And everytime we did it we found something. But each and everyone of us stayed in the relationship. I don\'t do it now. Lawd knows I have the urges. I only stopped because of the simple fact that I stayed in the relationship and it turned me into a paranoid woman. I always wondered who he was with, where he was, who was he really talking to on the phone? What is the sense of putting yourself through all that when you are going to stay anyway. Men are known to be stupid when it comes to cheating so you will find out one way or the other. My thing is all things come to light.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4215670">Belly</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4215670" class="dsq-comment-message">"checked license plates to check for suspicious tickets"?????????????????????<br><br>Jesus christ!!! <br><br>....personally i wouldnt be able to handle that relationship.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4227493">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4227493" class="dsq-comment-message">dumpster diving?! fa real!?!? ;O why!? i was amazed when an exes wife found out where i lived and left his kid with me, but i mean this is seriously a sport eh? like y\'all get high offa ruinin lives and bein nosy?! maybe i be to high or horny to care...this is WAY MAJA i see... nothing good comes from invading privacy. NOTHING....u have to allow ur mate to have some space....<br><br>love u enough to be secure in the relationship/leave. all of this behavior SCREAMS Isquared. Immaturity and Insecurity. both are solvable issues, get neked look at ur vagina with a mirror, realize its a grownup now, and pray for the strength to control it and the things it makes ya do! dang....</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4218172">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4218172" class="dsq-comment-message">THIS used to be my shyt! I was the QUEEN of snooping....and not just snooping and finding out THAT he was cheating but who with and all her info too, so when your ass is with her tryin to dodge me, I just may end up sittin in your car waitin for you while you\'re parked outside of her house :-)...<br><br>ohhh it was sooooo emotionally destructive at first but after awhile I got so GD good at it that it became like a sport, when I found shyt I wouldn\'t even get mad, I would just reveal my discovery, then gloat and laugh while my bf would be lookin like how in the hell did she do that? <br><br>Oh you can\'t imagine some of the ways I found shyt out....cracking cell phone and vcml codes is fun but have you ever known the satisfaction of findin that other b*tch in the phone book with just her first name and a street name OR just with the telephone number??? Now that\'s a rush!!!! <br><br>Ahhh good times those were, but I gave all that up, there\'s no point, especially if you ain\'t ending the relationship because of it...you go thru all the "Ahhh Ha! Gotcha!!!" just to turn around and stay so he can do it some more...<br><br>It\'s a hard habit to break though, espcially if you\'re "investigative" by nature like I am, most of the time it is fueled by distrust and insecurity and some people are just  naturally "curious" or simply want the satisfaction of letting that other person know they ain\'t stupid and you can\'t get over on me...but again, if you ain\'t leavin it\'s all for nothing....<br><br>thanks for reposting this Xilla, I was "Blogxilloblivious" until a few months ago so I really enjoy the "from the vault" posts</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4227397">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4227397" class="dsq-comment-message">i am stunned! i mean whoa there cap\'n\' crazy! i\'m glad u gave it up....<br><br>what kills me[kinda shocked that we haven\'t touchedo n this] is how some men feed on the women that do this....i\'m more masculine i guess in that i\'ve become emotionless and don\'t trip as much as many of u/my girls do... that being said... why the FUGG are men so quick to stay  with the crazy girls. its like they feel honored that she cares enoug hto do all that. all the while someone like me get, "i mean have a reaction. u jis seem like u don\'t care. a nigga might wanna argue sometimes" i honestly refuse to do relationship drama as there\'s a whiteboy that won\'t put me thru the flux waiting in the wings. <br>when the wives contacted me or the super sleuths like y\'all, i cut off all communication. never waited for a reason etc as there\'s not a logical one to explain the lies etc.... men SWEAR they want drama free, super sexin, cookin women, but when they have that, they make trouble where there isn\'t any...i don\'t get it!?!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4230358">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4230358" class="dsq-comment-message">ROFLMAO @ i mean whoa there cap\'n\' crazy!.... You are too effin funny!!!!<br><br>I hear you, but let me clarify,  I have never approached another chick, I\'ve always believed that was a the dumbest shyt any woman can do...sitting outside of her house was for the purpose of confrontin him, not her (fully understanding that that is only SLIGHTLY "less crazy") LOL<br><br>at the time I was doin this I was very young (late teens/early twenties) and the first couple of times it was out of sheer desperation and then when I figured out the "talent" that I had for snooping/skip tracing thats when it became fun like a sport, a talent which I\'ve been able to turn into a nice little career btw :-)<br><br>I\'m a people watcher, I love to observe behavior and I\'ve found that people in general thrive on drama, that is why men stay with the crazy girls that "bust the windows out their car" and the crazy girls stay with the men that KEEP cheatin on them...I think once you step into early adulthood and are figuring out friendships and relationships drama is almost a given but instead of separating the good from the bad, people get used to the bad, accept it  and think it\'s normal<br><br>It almost seems like people don\'t feel like they are worth anything unless something dramatic and crazy is happening in their lives...they can have that shyt, I\'ll take peace, calm and pure fun any day...<br><br>and being emotionless is not masculine, thats just survival, I am very emotional but only the people who deserve my emotion get it ... when I tell you I have learned to detach and retreat at a moments notice... shyyyyyt - so fast a n*gga will almost forget he ever even knew me</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4224858">HappyToBeNappy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4224858" class="dsq-comment-message">If you do it, be prepared for what you might find.  Be prepared to have a fight about what you saw, and why you were checking in the first place.  I say leave it alone.  If they are cheating there should be other signs anyway.  And if I did check someones phone, I wouldn\'t even try to hide it - I\'d do it right in front of them to see how they react.  If they start trying to grab the phone back before I can look, I know we have a problem.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4225193">Shay</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4225193" class="dsq-comment-message">You Know What Imma Tell You Rite Now I Just Went Thru Sum Ish Like This Like Two Dyas Ago.<br>My Dude We Only Been Together For Like 4 Months Decides He Wanted To Go Thru My Phone While I Was In The Restroom.<br>I Come Back And He All Up In My Phone On My Aim Goin Thru My Txt\'s Msg\'s And Picture Mail.<br>I Felt Very Disrepected And I Told Him.<br>He Was All Mad Ova Sum Old Dick Flicks.<br>I\'ve Neva Wanted To Go Thru My Man\'s Phone. I Feel I\'m Grown I\'ll Ask If I Wanna Know And If You Lie To Me It\'ll Reveal Itself.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4234205" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4234205">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4234205" class="dsq-comment-message">lol glad u didn\'t take offense. i don\'t mean no harm and am quite silly[thus the cap\'n\'crazy comment ;D]<br><br>you inevitably confront her if ur sitting outside of HER home.  i think snooping thru ur mans stuff is the dumbest shit a woman can do. then rationalizing stalkerish behavior is the icing on the cake! i feel what u said re:drama. i jst hate that i\'m always getting the short end of that stick. <br>being emotionless is a survival tactic, but i don\'t think its healthier. a balance of ocd of the nosyness and being withdrawn in fear of getting ur heart broken is healthier...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4236429">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4236429" class="dsq-comment-message">no, not at all, that shit was funny as hell, not to mention 100% true of me at the time I was doin it...I can admit it and laugh at it now cause I learned to control my crazy and not let it control me :-)<br><br>I still believe there are situations where it is appropriate or necessary is actually a better word: some religions (I hate religion) won\'t allow a divorce/annulment unless there is PROOF of adultery so if it is your intention to find it and end it then it\'s a must but just being nosey and insecure knowing you\'re gonna stay despite what you may find is stupid, you really only damage yourself emotionally <br><br>dont look at it as getting the short end of the stick, anytime you come out on the BETTER side of the situation, despite how f*cked up that situation may have been...You Win</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4245999" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4245999">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4245999" class="dsq-comment-message">its never necessary. from a religious standpt God keeps you at all times or something. if ur marriage is a whole union before him[or her] he will show u the deal. i had feelings my guy wasn\'t right, and when i went to his house a random groupie drove his car up the st. i didn\'t have to snoop or anything. i turned around, went to my fav lounge and read a book and sipped wine. i stopped speaking with him, and he knew what was up! to this day he tries to explain etc, but there\'s no need to listen. u KNOW when ur boo ain\' true., period. we are blerssed with intuition and choose to be sherlock ho\'s. its just not necessary ever to me.<br><br>being how i am has made me a bit of a maneater. i\'m a magnet for married men as they know that i\'m confident enough to not get too attached, but eventually i want to find a soulmate and raise a family.[not to be confused with merging my finances etc with a marriage license]</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4248949">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-4248949" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4248949" class="dsq-comment-message">You\'re right God will show you and sometimes that showing is via an unattended cell phn or email account :-) his assistance is not always miraculous "a la walking on water" in nature, sometimes it comes in real down to earth human forms of behavior that we can easily but mistakenly give ourselves the credit for    <br><br>Do I understand correctly: driving by on a hunch?? If so, that\'s snooping, in one of its mildest forms, not as invasive or disrespectful as checkin phones and emails of course but still an effort to find something based on that feeling that something ain\'t right nonetheless<br><br>At any rate I applaud the women who don\'t do it and don\'t have too but also understand and respect those who do it for the purpose of finding proof and getting closure to get away from that relationship, as with most things there\'s no real "right or wrong" its all based on your circumstances <br><br>Sherlock ho\'s...LOL!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4274245" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4274245">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4274245" class="dsq-comment-message">you don\'t understand correctly. he was a football player and i\'m into getting my fitness on. he asked me to bring this underarmour wear that had been left at my house after we worked out. being a man and stupid he didn\'t time his ish right, and there ya go! i left the clothes on the porch and wrote a note "we are no longer TnT, as something a tad more explosive just drove past me. please return my fishing pole and donate whatever clothes i left here to charity" i know it sounds madd dramatic, but i\'m just a bit more icy than most women. he\'s in the nfl to this day and will still try to occassionally fall back, explain. leaving things so abruptly f\'d him up. had i done the typical crazy woman than he would have been able to let go of me more easily.<br><br>i have no respect for the women that reduce themselves to sherlock ho\'s, as that behavior its tacky and classless, but eh i\'m an ass.[thus the pic lol]</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4274761" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4274761">HeadMistress</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4274761" class="dsq-comment-message">Gotcha, sounds like you got it under control...<br><br>Someone is bound the benefit from your experience...gotta love this blog...Sharing is Caring :-D</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4276257" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4276257">Thoney Gangstasweet</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4276257" class="dsq-comment-message">lol sharing is caring and i don\'t wanna not mention that i relate to where u all are, i\'ve been tempted but i practice restraint. my mother, sister, and most of my friends are like u....i see the hurt and energy wasted and its just ming boggling to me...<br>i think thas my prob mistress. i have TOO MUCH control. u gotta learn to let go and let love...i dunnooooo!</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4236383" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4236383" href="http://www.pinkcufflynx.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Ness</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4236383" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m pretty sure tht wasn\'nt directed twds him....lol..<br><br>Tht\'s exactly wht I tell a guy. Guys have a tendency 2 think tht a female isn\'t going to do her (if he\'s doing him).</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4236405">Masha</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4236405" class="dsq-comment-message">i used to be nosy too; go over emails and phones, and I\'ve always found some ish. Now the thing is if you got to the point that you want to crack his email or cell, that alone means that he is already doing wrong, our intuition rarely lies. The dude who loves you and have nothing to hide will hand you over his phone and let you use it for example if your battery is dead and you need to call someone, or he can even let you answer his phone if he is not around, and he will ASK you to check his email if he has no access to it and he really needs some info.  So once dude start being all overdefensive on privacy and stuff, that rings bells. All this digging shit is really stressful and disrespectful, and i realized it only when it was done to me. My man was going through my stuff on the regular and i didn\'t know about it. So when he found some shit in my emails and made a scene, it was such a big turn off too me that i decided to end 3 year long relationship right there, now when i know how the other side feels about it, i would never put anyone in same situation. I mean, if you feel like he or she is doing crap, chances are pretty high that you are right and probably it\'s better to confront the wrong side or just bounce out.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4236415" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4236415" href="http://www.hershoeaddiction.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Erika</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4236415" class="dsq-comment-message">You\'re right. If you look for something just know you\'re gonna find something. So, don\'t look1</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-4255680" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4255680" href="http://Killyourpublicist.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">cristalbubblin</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4255680" class="dsq-comment-message">It\'s crazy because I\'ve only done it once EVER & that was this weekend LOL I just wanted to have evidence of my suspicion thank sweet baby Jesus I was wrong. On the flip, I\'ve been called cold or uncaring(if thats a word) because I didnt go thru his stuff. As many people have previously, stated if u go looking u will find something & really that shit is not cool especially if you aint payin the bill on dat ho!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-4380743">Roxychic</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4380743" class="dsq-comment-message">OK, so I\'ve read enough comments to know i\'m not the only thats fallen victim to checking your sig\'s fone.  It wasn\'t something I did often, but I was bound to find something. <br>"....but it also shows me how men can sometimes have a disregard/ lack of respect for the woman they "love". " that was very true [to me].  I hate when dudes lie. I\'d like to think I\'m a big enough girl that you just keep it a 100 with me and *I* decide whether I\'ll stay or not. I DETEST lies. really.<br><br> he was one of those \'honest, yea im real\' cats and i thought bc he was a friend first and hell, a \'good\' person, i wouldnt have to worry about shit like that. but fbook,myspace, the way communication is it makes it so easy to have shit out in the open. so i always saw some bullshit that bothered me. he tried to play that role with me where "he tells all the girls about each other because thats being honest.. : / ...soooo I don\'t worry about his fone no more even tho i get tempted when he leaves his shit around [he used to but since we had become a lil serious he started NOT to, i caught that shit lol].  my main thing is now that i learned my lesson??<br><br>YOU ARE OF ABSOLUTELY NO USE TO ME BECAUSE I CAN\'T TRUST YOU. <br><br>it\'s WRONG PERIOD to play with someones feelings,but it\'s not the guys fault if you stick around for his dumb shit AFTER you know he\'s not sincerely invested in what you and him can have together.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-4464538" href="http://www.ploca.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">p-lo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-4464538" class="dsq-comment-message">but it\'s better to find out either way cause what if you\'d never checked that phone? you\'d still look lkike a fool thinking you\'re in a relationship...and you\'re right chating is not cool, but either way that shytt will come back to the person sooner or later...</div>\
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		var reply_id = Dsq.Utils.getRequestParams().dsq;
		if(reply_id) { document.location.hash = 'comment-' + reply_id; }
	}

	
	if((typeof OB_Script != 'undefined') && (typeof OB_versionNum != 'undefined')) {
		if(navigator.userAgent.indexOf("Firefox") != -1) {
			if(window.frames['dsq-reply-frame']) {
				window.frames['dsq-reply-frame'].location = Dsq.Urls.REPLY + (new Date()).getTime() + '&f=blogxilla&t=from_the_vault_don8217t_check_it_you_won8217t_like_what_you_see&to_redirect=' + encodeURIComponent(window.location) + '&ifrs=' + encodeURIComponent(disqus_iframe_css);
			}
		}
	}

	if (Dsq.jsonData.integration.theme == 4) {
		if (Dsq.jsonData.realtime_enabled) {
			Dsq.Realtime.initialize();
		}
	}

	




if(typeof(disqus_callback) == 'function') {
	var callback_params = Dsq.Utils.getRequestParams()['dsq_cbp'] || null;

	// We don't care about any errors in third-party code
	try {
		disqus_callback(callback_params);
	} catch (x) {
		if (typeof(console) != 'undefined' && typeof(console.log) == 'function') {
			// But it would be nice to let developers know about them
			console.log(x);
		}
		// pass
	}

	// HACK: We don't know if the callback wraps our container, which may
	// possibly result in a new DOM element.
	Dsq.container = document.getElementById('dsq-content');
}

})();




