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I get what you're saying, but....are you saying that women with kids aren't worth dating? Women will intentionally try and take you for child support. I know single mothers and for the most part they go above and beyond to make sure that they just have that one child. I, when I was a single mom, made sure that any booty calls were private. Nobody seen my son that I was just friends (with benefits) with. Most men assumed that since I had a baby, I was giving it up regardless....NOT TRUE. I was also VERY concerned that I had messed up ONCE and I didn't want another sorry *ucker to be my \"baby daddy\". I was selective. All women aren't like this post. Between this and the slim vs. think...come on. Note to men: sometimes women are just out for a nut 2. We don't want to date you, don't need your phone #, don't even need ur real name, we couldn't care less how many babies you have (b/c we don't want to be their \"mommy\" either). We just need the goods. I would venture to say that not all women are out to find their baby a new daddy. Be honest and you'd squash all the b.s.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_15:20:59", "killed": false, "user_key": "44479c9b1de8873c247b508e94a49b17", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2234374": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "sugartits, I enjoyed your response. It was very valid and on point.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_15:02:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "kimberlee", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2235016": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Sugar Tits, <br>I COMLETELY and Totally Agree. I'm a single mother of a 6 year old boy.<br><br>1. If you follow directions and don't have sex for the 6 weeks after giving birth, your womb will be just like new. (Anatomy)<br><br>2. It's true, either we can't or don't want to find a baby sitter.<br><br>3. I have to say this is just bad! I would not be having sex until my child is put to bed, and I am sure he is asleep. It has never happened but I would be embarressed, I'd feel bad because my son has seen me having sex. <br><br>4.No Baby Daddy Drama, LADIES GET THAT S*** IN CHECK! WE ARE GROWN FOLKS, You had your chance, MOVE THE F*** on! The only thing you should have contact with me for is OUR son, THAT'S IT!<br><br>5. Believe it or not there are some guys who don't mind doing for your kids. I guess it's to get closer to you but, whatever.<br>No Rent A Daddies! Until I believe you are the \"ONE\" for me. My son's father is in his life. Thanks Anyway  (My Son will take PSP and Playstaion 2 Games and monetary donations). <br><br>6. I guess I would have to Agree with this, Move On. I can't f*** you until 10:00 when my son will be sleep!<br><br>7.Guess this is true, if the family is loveable....You will miss them. Can't Argue that!<br><br>8. I teach my son to respect all adults. If my son were to say that to his potential step father, I would check it. Not to take sides, but he will respect adults! Especially his step father!<br><br>9. No YOU don't know what I'm going to do. People shouldn't  make the same mistake twice, If you knock me up, it's because you and I went to the doctor got tested for diseases and we mutually agreed we would have unprotected sex. So YOU knew that there was a possiblity this could happen!<br><br>10.I WAS grossly irresponsible and I wouldn't even call it that!  I am happy I had my son, even by the guy I had him with. Even though we are no longer together, I don't regret him being the father of my son. And as I mentioned earlier,  some people do...But shouldn't make the same mistake twice. <br><br>11. Uneccessary Expenditures, ANYTHING YOU SPEND ON ME OR MY CHILD(REN) IS AND NECESSARY not to mention WORTH IT!<br><br>12 True, MY SON come's first. YOU WILL NEVER BE # 1<br><br>13. I won't even get into child support. That varies from case to case.  Unless you are dealing with a Diddy I don't even think it's worth it. I can't take off work to go through all the court dates and filing motions ect...and only get enough money to pay the BGE bill.  If your not my child's father, I'm not taking you to child support. 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TELL YOUR BROTHER TO COME UP WITH THAT LIST.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_16:54:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "eb11365b940f7b0b097d23442bab6c02", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 4, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2234265": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Much of this is SOOOOO correct.  But it also goes for the males with multiple baby mommas. People have to understand the percentage of child abandonment , and how that balances out in how many childless women that are viable dating material.<br><br>To blame the woman because a man abandons her is unfair. That I am sure NO woman would get with a man KNOWING he will abandon the seed.  Some can make better choices. Especially the ones with the multiple children by multiple fathers.<br><br>But again the same goes for men having many children by different women ... you have a list involved with that as well.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_14:53:27", "killed": false, "user_key": "314b4f52b3eb932f88496820c0ceecf6", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2235162": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Hey Slim.........me likey.....good way to address all the issues..........nice touch....my baby is 6yo, too. She is the love of my life.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_15:57:42", "killed": false, "user_key": "SugarTits", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2235016, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2236187": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "he has more then one JustSteph...im jus sayin.......................", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_16:42:13", "killed": false, "user_key": "2ea5a8bb7af290a45128f66aa3dffd0c", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234629, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2246050": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Why are you still talking to her if she has this endless amount of dudes in her life?<br><br>And how the hell is she finding time to do all of that?  It all has to do with the woman's priorities.  Honestly by the time I'm done with work and doing everything for my child that I have to do when I get home I don't feel like kicking it, or going through the trouble of getting a babysitter.  But thats neither here nor there, JMK I don't think this single mother is feeling you...", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_11:08:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "fc91a6944f14293fa6625659a9f16ffb", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2239643, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2239643": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I am a dude talking to a single mom right now.  I agree with some points and feel the babysitter one for sure.  Sometimes I feel like she just doesn't want to hang out, not that she can't but doesn't try.  Anatomy is still good, and luckily in this picture the father has been out of the picture for awhile.  With the kid since we aren't together I have no say and respect that but will talk to her about that before we are serious, so I do not get the \"your not my dad\" etc.  <br><br>Real problem I have found though is that 1. she uses the kid against you.  and 2. She seems to talk to an endless number of guys (since I have morals I feel bad for her kid cause she has all these guys in her life).  So I guess in a way it isnt the single mother aspect that the problem but instead the fact that she still act like a whore (something that is universal, mom or no children)", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_20:23:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "23e2e4f39cab03702542e2a521a33ab4", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2237097": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Ooooohhh Xilla...<br><br>Even though you didn't write this, I remember this one all too well. And I have no kids. <br><br>But if the roles were reversed and I said I didn't want a man with kids, then they would be just as offended. True story, I said that to a guy, not knowing he had kids and he got all in my face like, \"what's wrong with a man with kids?? I have kids, I take care of them, blah blah\". They kill me with that statement with the \"I take care of my kids\", as if it were to make the situation any better. You're supposed to take care of your kids!!<br><br>But I just feel like people have preferences and there are some people out there who don't mind dating a man or a woman who has kids. I have tried it, but the truth was, his kids were a priority. Always has been and always will be.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_17:05:05", "killed": false, "user_key": "ca3fb8f085663e4036758354e9b77e4f", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2248235": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "As a female with no kids, I totally understand and I can respect it.<br>Ive tried dating men with kids.. and its interesting to say the least.<br><br>What I find HIGHLY entertaining...is MEN with kids..Who dont like dating WOMEN with kids...<br>Makes no sense to me. <br><br>Ive just found for me, its about having someone who can offer me exactly what I can offer them. After me, thats basically it, so If I meet a man and it gets serious.. He can be a priority in my world.. When dating my ex.. It was him, his son, ofcourse the baby mama..and then me.<br><br>I promised myself I would NEVER do that to myself again. I deserve more than that. Interesting blog indeed.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_13:44:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "9598a972fa03c038dc0be9136fdfd6f7", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2249006": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "What about the men that have about 5 different baby mommas....where picking up the kids from their motherS house can take all damn day.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_14:32:14", "killed": false, "user_key": "44479c9b1de8873c247b508e94a49b17", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2248235, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2253232": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Jittauni I totally agree.<br>And you wonder why is it that the black family structure is so fucked up today. If a woman tell a guy that she has kids, the man will react as if she has Ebola. Whats funny is that alot of single fathers will bust out with the baby pictures thinking thats supposed to score him some points with the ladies.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_19:18:19", "killed": false, "user_key": "499770bff4be0fa97a8e3ba97096205f", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2238130": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "I agree with you about the selfish part. I can not and will not share anything, and this includes MY man. I do not take in orphans and I refuse to date a male that comes with accessories (aka child(ren)). It is all about me and only me, not me, him, baby, baby mother, baby mother's friends and baby mother's family. I just can't do it and I salute the people who do. Broken families are problems and I dont need that problem mixed in with MY life.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_18:09:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "90c4872e677e6d43fa205d7bc792048e", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234313, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2238006": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Ok, first I'd like to say \"well dam\", and secondly.. I am a single mother and truthfully, honestly none of those 13 reasons apply to me. I am grateful and fortunate enough to be real as they have ever came, have lots of family (always willing to spend time w/my lil one), have more than enough of my own money, and my \"baby daddy\" is happily married which Im thanking god for.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_18:00:32", "killed": false, "user_key": "e0e80778af695b242188f4820a4b5e59", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2242121": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Im sorry, I'm a women with no kids...and in general, if I were a man I'd never date a woman with kids. So sorry {in my best Korean voice when the don't have your color hair (yours, not mine. I rock it too natural)}! And the ladies on here with the strongest views are the same ones who seem to be doing a spectacular job. Don't be so mad and try not to take it personal. It's bigger than you and I know, I know...yall gonna hit me with some anger but the fact remains the same...people with children have a bunch of extra responsibilities that a single person with no kid can wait to take on. (And this goes for both sexes, too.) Don't  judge me..hahaa", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_00:32:53", "killed": false, "user_key": "9bbdda5b7985d41f1b383212fc8ce76c", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2235073": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Just Steph, That was a real as it could be. Point Blank!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_15:52:24", "killed": false, "user_key": "6c126ecadea6bdbaf0f50f1ab206de94", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234629, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2235330": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "ASS-HOLE", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_16:09:09", "killed": false, "user_key": "fc91a6944f14293fa6625659a9f16ffb", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234313, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2235590": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "*stands & applauds for Slim Goodie*", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_16:21:30", "killed": false, "user_key": "46bcd016b573f8ef95ad21fcbccc55fc", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2235016, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2234313": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "All GREAT reasons. Plus the women need to disclose they have a crumb snatcher before I purchase the drink. Otherwise it is definitely a foul. Plus I am too selfish to not be number 1. I don't care if lil Leroy needs shoes...what about my beer?<br><br>But why do single women often look so gosh darn good? Another foul. Dress your part.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_14:57:21", "killed": false, "user_key": "b571fe6b7f30d5233a49728d7c85f307", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 3, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2246732": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "As a single mom I have to admit, you have some very valid points here Xilla.  These are some of the things I was most concerned with, when I decided I was ready to start dating again.  My boyfriend has children so I think it was a little easier for him to understand the different things that could come up that might prevent me from giving him my undivided attention and things like that.  When we started dating I made sure that he understood that I was in no way looking for a \"replacement\" father for my daughter, I think that it's very important to get that out of the way as early as possible so it doesnt come back to bite you in the ass later.  Dating for single parents can be very scary, but it's alot easier when the other party involved is mature, secure within themselves, and if they have kids themselves<br><br>I also want to say that the \"tag you're it\" point is SOME BULL!!! My daughters BIOLOGICAL father has never been a part of her life, we broke up when I was 3 mos pregnant... I didnt want to file for child support on him because I KNEW that once he found out he would quit whatever job he had, and I didnt WANT shit from his ass, but because I was getting assistance I HAD to.  Not every woman wants to hit a nigga for child support just because she can... besides I didnt even kno you could do some ish like that and i LiVE in Cali", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_11:53:51", "killed": false, "user_key": "kyas_mami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2247120": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "Well right now she has no job cause she is preparing for school.  In all honesty I understand the priorities but the real problem is that she doesn't do much.  And the babysitter thing is usually after she says she wants to hang out etc, then when the time comes she can't find a sitter.  Thats why I say that.  I can deal with not having all her free time etc, but its when you know she is hangin out with another dude over you when she has that free time ocassionally.  I understand friends are friends, but when time is limited (and yes I work nights so she has the ability to hang out with friends when I am working), and she chooses not to hang out thats when I have the problem.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_12:20:02", "killed": false, "user_key": "23e2e4f39cab03702542e2a521a33ab4", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2246050, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2236896": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "I'm a step ahead of you <a href=http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/06/23/men-or-women-with-children/ rel=\"nofollow\"> you wish is my command</a>", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_17:00:17", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 2, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2236691, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "2249430": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "PREACH!!!!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_15:00:33", "killed": false, "user_key": "kyas_mami", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2235016, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2248023": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "LOL, Naija You are funny. That was good Tho....", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_13:29:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "6c126ecadea6bdbaf0f50f1ab206de94", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2238713, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2234719": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Too true. If we're talking about being honest, tell these foul dudes to be honest about whether or not they'll stick around and raise their children. Women wouldn't be single if men didn't leave them. Most of the men that step to you and don't want to date a woman with children have a lady with their kids at the house.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_15:27:11", "killed": false, "user_key": "44479c9b1de8873c247b508e94a49b17", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234265, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2234848": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Thank you.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_15:36:23", "killed": false, "user_key": "SugarTits", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": true, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234374, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2252001": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "This is the most ignorant piece of sh*t I have ever read. I don't even have kids and I'm offended. I mean does the same go for single fathers? Do we look at them like their contaminated?! No, for the most part we applaud a man who takes care of his own seed but when a woman does it she's undateable. BS!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_17:40:57", "killed": false, "user_key": "6347e5c8c67ea28ea878f37024ae14b5", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2248172": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "And my thing is that you are still attracted to her. (New Blog) Guys that love deadbeat women!<br>She doesn't work, she's preparing for school, (school started in August you know).<br>How will she support her kids while in school with no job? If she's on welfare that's fine and none of my business, but these women kill me with no job, kids, don't even WANT to do anything with themselves and guys are all over them. <br>Why do you like her, and it seems as if you are hurt that she puts you on the back burner. Please be honest, if your whipped then that's what it is. I'm just curious.... You seem pretty decent!", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_13:39:56", "killed": false, "user_key": "6c126ecadea6bdbaf0f50f1ab206de94", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2247120, "depth": 3, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2236527": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "That's right I have 2 kids but note to all -- \"It was crafted by my brother after a conversation at work. So here you go 13 reasons to avoid dating single mothers.\" <br><br><br>and if i just sat here and posted stuff we all agreed upon there would  be no need to debate.", "is_last_child": true, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_16:48:49", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2236187, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "2236912": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "That's a link**", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_17:00:41", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2236896, "depth": 2, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "2252143": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Well #1 you can rule out because she already had the baby... so if u like what u see post delivery, chances are she's all good!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_17:49:43", "killed": false, "user_key": "358657fb914ea8020fb037d4345dc897", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": null, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2239094": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "Some of your points are valid xilla but what about guys with kids. I think some men have alot of crazy ass issues. I am so sick and tired of men telling me oh i am single but have kids with different women I might add, and they swear up and down they dont have baby momma drama but the bitch calls your phone wanting to know how  do you know \"her man\". Women are like men also, once you lay down with them and you two have kids that dick is still theirs regardless. And ni**@s will still hit it because they still have access to it. I am so sick of men with crazy ass baby momma issues, but in this day and age it is so hard to meet someone that doesn't have kids.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_19:29:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "BABY_T", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2238713": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": true, "message": "SLIM GOODIE, <br><br>YOU HIT THE DAMN, NAIL ON THE HEAD....<br><br>XILLA YOU AND YOUR IGNORANT POST HAVE BEEN WORKING MY NERVES FOR THE PAST WEEK.....<br><br>I TRULY FEEL FOR THE THICK, SINGLE MOMMAS TRYING TO DO THE RIGHT THING, YOU ARE ABOUT TO PUSH THEM OFF THE BRIDGE!", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_18:52:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "NaijaWifey", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 1, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2235387": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "So they should dress like a mother? lol that's crazy! Single mothers look good because 1 they have a kid, 2 that's probably why they have a kid, and 2 niggas want them.", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_16:12:49", "killed": false, "user_key": "BlogXilla", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": true, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": 2234313, "depth": 1, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": true, "is_realtime": false}, "2242428": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "now y u go and start this mess again??? damn can of worms is what it is....", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-09_01:25:15", "killed": false, "user_key": "Cishma", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}, "2233982": {"up_voted": false, "ip": "", "has_replies": false, "message": "It makes sense. I want the men to understand that it a choice. You can fuck with her or not. No sense in dancing around the issue, and if a man does NOT want to deal with a woman with a child(ren) then he should stick to that. I know a few females that don't have children. I don't know if their womb is tainted or if it's by choice, but they are childless. And I also know females who dont give a damn about who is around the seeds, what they hear, see, eat.......it goes both ways. I feel that if a man decides to be involved with a single mother, it would behoove him to understand what all comes along with that. Not everyone is looking for a step daddy, or a pay master or made an error in judgement. Some woman don't receive child support, work a job or two AND goto school which leaves very little time to entertain and stroke the egos of inadequate men. <br><br>A woman knows her position and will stay in pocket for the male suitor who's energy can sustain a woman who places a needed value on her family. <br><br>I appreciate your post, many of the points are valid, however Xilla, as in the case of your Cinderella's glass slipper, one size does not fit all............", "is_last_child": false, "can_reply": true, "down_voted": false, "real_date": "2008-09-08_14:35:26", "killed": false, "user_key": "SugarTits", "has_been_anonymized": false, "edited": false, "author_is_moderator": false, "from_request_user": false, "votable": true, "date": "1 year ago", "approved": true, "num_replies": 0, "is_first_child": false, "email": "", "parent_post_id": null, "depth": 0, "points": 0, "author_is_creator": false, "is_realtime": false}}, "integration": {"receiver_url": "", "theme": 1, "reply_position": false, "disqus_logo": false}, "timer": {"timer_url": "http://localhost:8005", "thread_id": "4315188", "user_id": "anonymous", "forum_id": "32271", "hash": -2700381102818006358}, "thread": {"days_alive": 0, "slug": "13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers", "paginate": false, "num_pages": 1, "num_posts": 40, "per_page": 0, "total_posts": 0, "realtime_paused": true, "id": 4315188, "queued": false}, "reactions_limit": 10, "context": {"show_reply": true, "use_fb_connect": false, "forum_facebook_key": "", "use_yahoo": true, "subscribed": false, "use_twitter_signin": true, "use_openid": false, "realtime_speed": 5000}, "reactions_start": 0, "settings": {"debug": false, "disqus_url": "http://disqus.com", "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"}, "media_url": "http://media.disqus.com"};
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		if (instance.addEventListener) {
			instance.addEventListener(eventName, listenerFn, false);
		} else if (instance.attachEvent) {
			listenerFn = function() {
				listener(window.event);
			};
			instance.attachEvent("on" + eventName, listenerFn);
		} else {
			throw new Error("Event registration not supported");
		}
		return {
			instance: instance,
			name: eventName,
			listener: listenerFn
		};
	};

	this.removeEventListener = function(event) {
		var instance = event.instance;
		if (instance.removeEventListener) {
			instance.removeEventListener(event.name, event.listener, false);
		} else if (instance.detachEvent) {
			instance.detachEvent("on" + event.name, event.listener);
		}
	};

	this.fixIframesIE = function(id) {
		var disqusThread = Dsq.$(disqus_container_id);
		var iframes = disqusThread.getElementsByTagName('iframe');

		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$(id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-content');
		}

		for(i = 0; i < iframes.length; i++) {
			if (container) {
				iframes[i].style.width = container.offsetWidth;
			}
		}
	};

	this.getElementsByClassName = function(oElm, strTagName, strClassName) {
	/* Credit: Jonathan Snook [http://www.snook.ca/jonathan], Robert Nyman [http://www.robertnyman.com] */
		var arrElements = (strTagName == "*" && oElm.all)? oElm.all : oElm.getElementsByTagName(strTagName);
		var arrReturnElements = new Array();
		strClassName = strClassName.replace(/\-/g, "\\-");
		var oRegExp = new RegExp("(^|\\s)" + strClassName + "(\\s|$)");
		var oElement;
		for(var i = 0; i < arrElements.length; i++) {
			oElement = arrElements[i];
			if(oRegExp.test(oElement.className)) {
				arrReturnElements.push(oElement);
			}
		}
		return (arrReturnElements);
	};

	this.postToUrl = function(url, post_data, opt_redirect) {
		var form = document.createElement('form');
		var iframe_container = document.createElement('div');
		var id = 'dsq-temp-iframe-' + (new Date()).getTime();

		form.method = 'POST';
		form.action = url;
		if (!opt_redirect) {
			form.target = id;
		}
		iframe_container.innerHTML = '<iframe style="display:none" name="' + id + '" id="' + id + '"></iframe>';

		for(var key in post_data) {
			if(post_data.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var input = document.createElement('input');
				input.name = key;
				input.type = 'hidden';
				input.value = post_data[key];

				form.appendChild(input);
			}
		}

		Dsq.$b.appendChild(iframe_container);
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(form);
		form.submit();
	};

	// Strips integer id from id of element in the form ('some-id-###')
	this.extractId = function(e) {
		var chunks = e.id.split('-');
		if(chunks.length <= 1) {
			return 0;
		} else {
			return parseInt(chunks[chunks.length-1]);
		}
	};

	this.getStyle = function(el, styleProp) {
		if(el.currentStyle) {
			var y = el.currentStyle[styleProp];
		} else if(window.getComputedStyle) {
			var y = document.defaultView.getComputedStyle(el, null).getPropertyValue(styleProp);
		}

		if(y == 'transparent' || y == '') {
			this.getStyle(el.parentNode, styleProp);
		} else {
			return y;
		}
	};

	this.execScript = function(url, append_qs, container) {
		var script = document.createElement('script');
		append_qs = typeof append_qs == 'undefined' ? true : append_qs;
		container = container || Dsq.container;

		if(append_qs) {
			var j = (url.indexOf('?') >= 0) ? '&' : '?';
			url += j + (new Date()).getTime();
		}
		script.type = 'text/javascript';
		script.charset = 'UTF-8';
		script.src = url;
		container.appendChild(script);
		return script;
	};

	this.pluralize = function(num, singular, plural) {
		return (num != 1) ? plural || 's' : singular || '';
	};

	this.getRequestParams = function(queryString /* optional */) {
		var pairs, tuple;
		var params = {};

		queryString = queryString || window.location.search.substring(1);
		pairs = queryString.split('&');

		for (var i = 0, pair; pair = pairs[i]; i++) {
			tuple = pair.split('=');
			params[tuple[0]] = (tuple[1] || true);
		}

		return params;
	};

	this.addCssRule = function(selector, styleText, index) {
		var stylesheet;
		index = index || 0;

		if(!this._styleSheet) {
			var styleEl = document.createElement('style');
			document.getElementsByTagName('head')[0].appendChild(styleEl);
			this._styleSheet = styleEl.sheet;
			if(!this._styleSheet) {
				// IE does not like our newly created stylesheet.
				this._styleSheet = document.styleSheets[document.styleSheets.length-1];
			}
		}
		stylesheet = this._styleSheet;

		if(stylesheet.insertRule) {
			var ruleText = selector + ' { ' + styleText + ' }';
			if(index == -1) {
				index = stylesheet.cssRules.length;
			}
			stylesheet.insertRule(ruleText, index);
		} else if(stylesheet.addRule) {
			stylesheet.addRule(selector, styleText, index);
		}
	};

	this.forEachIn = function(obj, callback) {
		for(var key in obj) {
			if(obj.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				callback(key, obj[key]);
			}
		}
	};

	this._interpolateGlobalContext = {
		// values that get used a lot and are global to the request
		'profile_url': Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE,

		'disqus_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url,
		'media_url': Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url,
		'request_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.username,
		'request_display_username': Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username,
		'forum_name': Dsq.jsonData.forum.name
	};

	this.renderFromContextStack = function(key, contexts) {
		// Returns the first instance of `key` in the array of objects `contexts` or else ''
		for (var i=0; i<contexts.length; i++) {
			if (contexts[i][key] !== undefined) {
				return String(contexts[i][key]);
			}
		}
		throw new Error('key ' + key + ' not found in context');
	};

	var that = this;
	this.interpolate = function(fmt, opt_localContext) {
		// Interpolate `fmt` named-format string with an assumed global context.
		// Based on `interpolate` in django.views.i18n
		var contextStack = [opt_localContext || {}, that._interpolateGlobalContext];
		return fmt.replace(/%\(\w+\)s/g, function(match){
			return that.renderFromContextStack(match.slice(2,-2), contextStack);
		});
	};

	this.stripTags = function(s) {
		// Removes HTML tags from `s`
		return s.replace(/(<([^>]+)>)/g,"");

	};

	this.assert = function(b) {
		if (!b) {
			throw new Error('Assertion error.');
		}
	};

};
// Dsq.Utils

/**
 * Dsq.Popup: Popup helper functions.
 */
Dsq.Popup = new function() {
	this.timeHide = new Array();
	this.timeShow = new Array();
	this.activePopup = {};
	this.profileCache = {};
	this.statusCache = {};

	this.showTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the hide timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeHide[post_id]);

		// start the timer
		if(!Dsq.Popup.profileIsOn && !Dsq.Thread.adminIsOn) {
			this.timeShow[post_id] = setTimeout("Dsq.Popup.popProfile(\"" + post_id + "\")", 400);
		}
	};

	this.hideTimer = function(post_id) {
		// clear the show timer
		clearTimeout(this.timeShow[post_id]);
	};

	this.updateProfile = function(username) {
		// Callback from /embed/profile.js
		if (this.statusCache[username]) {
			var statusEl = Dsq.$('dsq-profile-status-' + username);
			statusEl.innerHTML = this.statusCache[username];
			statusEl.style.display = 'block';
		}

		if (this.profileCache[username]) {
			var _cache = this.profileCache[username];

			var _genhtml = function(text) { return '<span><big>' + text + '</big></span>'; };
			var _no_comments = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_COMMENTS(_cache.comments_count));
			var _no_likes = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_LIKES(_cache.likes_count));
			var _no_points = _genhtml(Dsq.FmtStrings.NUMBER_OF_POINTS(_cache.points));

			var statsEl = Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + username);
			statsEl.innerHTML = '';

			if (Dsq.jsonData.users[username].registered) {
				statsEl.innerHTML = _no_comments + _no_likes;
			}
			statsEl.innerHTML += _no_points;

			var activeSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.active_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.active_sites[i];
				activeSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (activeSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = activeSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + username).innerHTML = 'This site.';
			}

			var moderatedSites = '';
			for (var i = 0; i < _cache.moderated_sites.length; i++) {
				var site = _cache.moderated_sites[i];
				moderatedSites += '<li><a href="' + site.url + '"> \
					<img src="' + site.favicon + '"/ width="16" height="16"/></a>\
					<a href="' + site.url + '">' + site.name + '</a></li>';
			}
			if (moderatedSites !== '') {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + username).innerHTML = moderatedSites;
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + username).innerHTML = '';
			}
		}

		// Reposition popup after full HTML is rendered
		if(Dsq.Popup.activePopup && Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el) {
			Dsq.Popup.initPopup(Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id, Dsq.Popup.activePopup.type);
		}

	};

	this.showCookieMsgs = function() {
		var title = '';
		var message = '';
		var numAlerts = 0;

		Dsq.Utils.forEachIn(Dsq.jsonData.cookie_messages, function(k, v) {
			if (!v) return;

			switch(k) {
				// Cookie: Twitter
				case 'post_twitter':
					if (v === 'error') {
						title = 'Twitter Error!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-error">Oops, we couldn\'t tweet this comment. Please check your <a href="http://disqus.com/account/services">account settings</a>.</li>';
					} else {
						var _msg = v.split(':');
						title = 'Tweeted!';
						message += '<li id="dsq-msg-twitter-success">Your comment was successfully tweeted. <a href="http://twitter.com/' + _msg[0] + '/status/' + _msg[1] + '">Click here to view the tweet</a>.</li>';
					}
					break;
				// Cookie: Unapproved Post
				case 'post_not_approved':
					title = 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-not-approved">Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.</li>';
					break;
				// Cookie: Profile Found
				case 'post_has_profile':
					title = 'Use your existing commenter profile';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-post-has-profile">You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a></li>';
					break;
				case 'user_created':
					var _data = v.split(':');
					title = 'Profile created!';
					message += '<li id="dsq-msg-user-created">You have just created a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, the best way to claim, manage, and track your comments all over the web. \
					<br /><br />A confirmation is being sent to <strong>' + _data[1] + '</strong>. Please check for this email in order to verify your profile. \
					<ul class="dsq-list-tick"> \
						<li>Your username is <strong>' + _data[0] +'</strong>. <a href="http://disqus.com/people/' + _data[0] + '/" target="_blank">Click here to view your public profile</a>.</li> \
						<li>Be sure to set your profile picture, as well as connect your <span class="dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> and <span class="dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> accounts. <a href="http://disqus.com/account/" target="_blank">Click here for account settings</a>.</li> \
					</ul> \
					</li>'
					break;
				default:
					break;
			}
			numAlerts++;
		});

		if(numAlerts > 1) {
			message = '<ul class="dsq-list-bluebullet">' + message;
			message += '</ul>';
			title = 'Thanks for posting!';
		}
		if(numAlerts > 0) {
			if(typeof(disqus_cookie_msgs) == 'function') {
				disqus_cookie_msgs(message, title);
			} else {
				Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
			}
		}
	};

	this.helpBadges = function(post_id) {
		var html = ' \
			<ul class="dsq-popup-help"> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile with a confirmed email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> has a <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> Profile, but has not yet confirmed his or her email address.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span> is not logged in with any account and has not claimed his or her comments.</li> \
				<li class="dsq-help-otheraccts">Other accounts</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-facebook">Facebook</span> is using his or her Facebook profile via Facebook Connect.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-twitter">Twitter</span> is using his or her Twitter profile via Twitter Sign-in.</li> \
				<li><span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-openid">OpenID</span> is using his or her OpenID.</li> \
			</ul> \
		';

		this.popModal(html, 'Help: Types of Commenters', post_id);
		return;
	};

	this.permalink = function(post_id) {
		var header = 'Link to this comment';
		var body = '<strong>You are anchored to</strong>:<br />' + document.location.protocol + '//' + document.location.host + document.location.pathname + document.location.search + '#comment-' + post_id;

		this.popModal(body, header, post_id);
	};

	this.login = function(header, body) {
		var h = header || 'Login or Register';
		var b = body || '';
		b += Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: 'dsq-popup-login'});
		b += '</iframe>'; // HACK: Sometimes there is something funky with the IFRAME SRC that causes no end tag
		this.popModal(b, h, null, true, 'dsq-popup-login');
	};

	this.blacklist = function(id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		var title = 'Add to Blacklist';
		var message = ' \
		Adding this person to the blacklist will block him or her from commenting on this site. Check the following types that you would like to add to the blacklist:'
		+ (userData['registered'] ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-username" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-username"><strong>Username</strong>: ' + userData['username'] + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ (_meta.email ?
			'<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
				<input id="dsq-blacklist-email" type="checkbox" checked> \
				<label for="dsq-blacklist-email"><strong>Email address</strong>: ' + _meta.email + '</label> \
			</div>'
			: '')
		+ '<div class="dsq-blacklist-option"> \
			<input id="dsq-blacklist-ip" type="checkbox" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-blacklist-ip-warning\').style.display=\'block\'"> \
			<label for="dsq-blacklist-ip"><strong>IP address</strong>: ' + _meta.ip + '</label> \
		</div> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p id="dsq-blacklist-ip-warning" style="display:none">	\
				Note: Blocking this person\'s IP address may also unintentionally prevent others, who share his/her IP address, from commenting on this site. \
				This may include people who are sharing the same computer, living in the same house, or using the same Internet provider. Only block an IP address as a last resort. \
			</p> \
		';

		message += ' \
			<p style="text-align:center"><button onclick="Dsq.Post.blockUser(' + id + '); this.disabled=true; this.innerHTML=\'Just one moment...\'">Add to Blacklist</button></p> \
		';

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
	};

	this.remoteAccountSettings = function() {
		var body = '';
		// Set up IFrame.
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/_auth/embed/remote_settings/';
		var attributes = {id: 'dsq-popup-account-settings'};
		if (typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}

		body = Dsq.Templates._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
		this.popModal(body, 'Account Settings', null, true, 'dsq-popup-account-settings');
	};

	this.popModal = function(message, title, post_id, use_listener, extra_classes) {
		var container = document.createElement('div');
		var header, body;

		Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);

		if(typeof(title) == 'undefined') { title = ''; }
		if(typeof(use_listener) == 'undefined') { use_listener = true; }

		if(post_id) {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message-' + post_id;
		} else {
			container.id = 'dsq-popup-message';
		}

		header = title;
		body = message;

		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupModal(header, body);
		Dsq.Popup.initPopup(container, post_id, 'message', extra_classes);
		if(use_listener) {
			Dsq.Popup.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', Dsq.Popup._closePopup);
		}
	};

	this.popAlert = this.popModal;

	this.loading = function(post_id) {
		var title = Dsq.Strings.JUST_A_MOMENT;
		var body = '<div style="text-align:center; padding: 5px 0 10px 0"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif" alt="" /></div>'
		Dsq.Popup.lightbox(body, title, post_id);
	};

	this.lightbox = function(message, title, post_id) {
		// Wraps Dsq.Popup.popModal

		var overlay = document.createElement('div');
		overlay.id = 'dsq-overlay';
		overlay.className = 'dsq-overlay';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(overlay);
		
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, post_id, false, 'dsq-lightbox');
	};

	this.popProfile = function(post_id, userKey) {
		var post = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id];
		if (post && post.has_been_anonymized) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('This message was anonymized by its previous owner.', 'Anonymized', post_id);
			return;
		}

		if(post_id) {
			userKey = Dsq.jsonData['posts'][post_id].user_key;	
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][userKey];
		var elId = 'dsq-popup-profile-' + userKey;
		var container = document.createElement('div');

		if(this.activePopup.el) {
			this._closePopup(null, true);
			if(this.activePopup.linkClicked) {
				this.activePopup.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		container.id = elId;
		container.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.popupProfile(userKey);

		this.initPopup(container, post_id, 'profile');
		this.popupListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._closePopup);

		if(!this.profileCache[userKey]) {
			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/embed/profile.js'
				+ '?username=' + userKey
				+ '&anon=' + (userData['registered'] ? 0 : 1)
				+ '&f=' + Dsq.jsonData['request'].forum);
		} else {
			this.updateProfile(userKey);
		}
	};

	this._closePopup = function(e, force) {
		var activePopup = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.el;
		var id = Dsq.Popup.activePopup.id;
		var link = 'dsq-avatar-' + id; // HACK: Specific to profile toggle target

		// HACK: This event should be gone if there is no active popup.
		if(!activePopup) {
			return;
		}
		if(force || !Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, activePopup.id)) {
			// TODO: This is breaking iE?
			if(Dsq.Popup.popupListener) {
				Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Popup.popupListener);
			}
			
			// Kill overlay
			var overlay = Dsq.$('dsq-overlay');
			if(overlay) { Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(overlay); }
			
			try {
				Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(activePopup);
			} catch(e) {
				// HACK: IE6 throws an error when using deleteNode() with a node containing a <table> in the html.
				activePopup.parentNode.removeChild(activePopup);
			}
			Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {};
		}

		if(!force && Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Popup.activePopup.linkClicked = true;
		}

	};

	this.initPopup = function(popup, post_id, type, extra_classes) {
		popup.className = 'dsq-popup dsq-popup-' + type + ' ' + (extra_classes ? extra_classes : '');
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6 || Dsq.Utils.ie7) {
			// HACK: We can't modify the body before it's ready, so we need
			//       to use an IE-safe "DOMReady" workaround before loading
			//       our popup.
			Dsq.Utils.execOnReady(function() {Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup); });
		} else {
			Dsq.$b.appendChild(popup);
		}

		popup.style.display = 'block';

		var xPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[0] - popup.offsetWidth) / 2;
		var yPos = (Dsq.Utils.getWindowSize()[1] - popup.offsetHeight) / 2;

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
			yPos += Dsq.Utils.getScrollPos()[1];
		}

		popup.style.left = xPos + 'px';
		popup.style.top = yPos + 'px';

		Dsq.Popup.activePopup = {
			'el' : popup,
			'id' : post_id,
			'type': type,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};
	};

	this.isClicked = function(e, id) {
		var t = e.target || e.srcElement;
		while(t && t.parentNode) {
			if(t.id == id) {
				return true;
			}

			t = t.parentNode;
		}
		return false;
	};
};
// Dsq.Popup

/**
 * Dsq.Templates
 */
Dsq.Templates = new function() {
	/*
	 * Counter keeping track of the number of posts iterated over.
	 */
	this.postLoopCounter = 0;
	this.filters = {};
	this.addPostContainer = 'dsq-post-add';
	this.textareaContainer = 'dsq-post-add';

	this.registerTemplate = function(name, func) {
		this['$$_' + name] = func;

		if(typeof DsqLocal.Filters != 'undefined'
		&& typeof DsqLocal.Filters[name] == 'function') {
			// Push filters to this.filters to unify code.
			this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
			this.filters[name].push(DsqLocal.Filters[name]);
		}

		this[name] = function() {
			var ret;

			if(typeof DsqLocal.Templates != 'undefined'
			&& typeof DsqLocal.Templates[name] == 'function') {
				ret = DsqLocal.Templates[name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(ret === undefined) {
				ret = this['$$_' + name].apply(this, arguments);
			}

			if(this.filters[name]) {
				var args = [ret];

				args.push.apply(args, arguments);
				for(var i = 0; i < this.filters[name].length; i++) {
					ret = this.filters[name][i].apply(this, args);
				}
			}

			return ret;
		};
	};

	this.registerFilter = function(name, func) {
		this.filters[name] = this.filters[name] || [];
		this.filters[name].push(func);
	};

	/**
	 * Dsq.Templates.Filters
	 */
	this.Filters = new function() {
		this.commentContainer = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			var classes = [];
			if(Dsq.jsonData.request.page > 1) {
				classes.push('dsq-append');
			}

			//
			// Extra classes used for custom themes
			//

			if(_meta.depth) {
				classes.push('dsq-comment-child', 'dsq-depth-' + _meta.depth, 'dsq-parent-is-' + _meta.parent_post_id);
			}


			//

			if(_meta.author_is_creator) {
				// TODO: We need to deprecate the "special" class since it is not properly prefixed.
				classes.push('special', 'dsq-special');
			}
			if(_meta.author_is_moderator) {
				classes.push('dsq-moderator');
			}
			classes.push(['dsq-odd', 'dsq-even'][Dsq.Templates.postLoopCounter % 2]);

			s = s.substring(0, s.lastIndexOf('>'));
			return s + ' class="dsq-comment ' + classes.join(' ') + '" style="margin-left:' + _meta.depth*30 + 'px">';
		};

		this.commentContent = function(post_id, s) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
			if (_meta.killed) {
				return '<em>Comment removed.</em>';
			} else if (!_meta.approved) {
				return '<em>This comment was flagged for review.</em>';
			}

			s = s.replace(Dsq.MEDIA_POST_RE, Dsq.MediaPostHandler);
			return s;
		};
	};

	//
	// Thread
	//
	// TODO: These need to be stripped of all Django template tags.

	this.authPost = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			return '';
		}
		var result = [];
		result = result.concat([
				'<div id="dsq-auth"',
						Dsq.jsonData.integration.reply_position ? 'class="dsq-auth-bottom"' : '',
						'>',
					'<div class="dsq-by">',
						'<a href="http://disqus.com" target="_blank">',
							(Dsq.jsonData.integration.disqus_logo ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/by-disqus.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">') :
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img src="%(media_url)s/images/embed/dsq-button-120x19.png" alt="discussion by DISQUS">')
							),
						'</a>',
					'</div>',
					'<div class="dsq-auth-header">',
						'<h3 id="dsq-add-new-comment" class="dsq-h3-addcomment">',
								Dsq.Strings.ADD_NEW_COMMENT,
						'</h3>',
						'<div id="dsq-login">',
						(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated && Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post
								? '<p class="dsq-login-message" id="dsq-login-message">You are commenting as a <a class="dsq-help" title="Click for more information" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Guest</a>. You may select one to log into:</p>'
								: '')
		]);
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			result = result.concat([
							Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
								'<a id="dsq-login-toggle" href="%(disqus_url)s%(login_url)s?next=article:%(thread_id)s" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false"><img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsq-profile-btn.png" title="%(log_into)s" alt="%(log_into)s"/></a>',
								{login_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGIN, thread_id: Dsq.jsonData.thread.id, log_into: Dsq.Strings.LOG_INTO_DISQUS}
								),
							'&nbsp; ',
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ?
								'<div id="dsq-fbc-login" onlogin="DisqusFbcParentController.onLogin()" size="medium" background="light" length="short" style="display:inline; margin-right:7px"></div>' :
								''
							),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-twitter-login" class="dsq-twitter-login" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect();" style="display:inline; cursor: pointer"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/twitter-signin-short.png" style="margin-right:7px" /></div>', {}) : ''),
							(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ?
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate(
									'<div id="dsq-openid-login" class="dsq-openid-login" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.requestURL();" style="display:inline; cursor:pointer;"><img src="%(media_url)s/images/openid-login-button.png"/></div>', {}
								) : '')
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
						'</div>', // dsq-login
					'</div>', // dsq-auth-header
					'<div id="dsq-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated" ',
						Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated ? 'style="display:block"' : '',
						'>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-pic">',
								Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">' +
																			'<img class="dsq-post-avatar" src="%(avatar_url)s" alt="" /></a>',
																			{avatar_url: Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_AVATAR,
																			url: (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
																					 ? Dsq.jsonData.request.url
																					 : Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + Dsq.Urls.REQUEST_USER_PROFILE) }),
						'</div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>', {url:Dsq.jsonData.request.url})
										  )
										: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(
												Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(profile_url)s" title="%(request_display_username)s">%(request_display_username)s</a>')
											)
									),
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">',
									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="%(media_url)s/images/dsqicon12.png" alt="%(logged_in_as)s"/>&nbsp',
											{logged_in_as: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGGED_IN_AS(Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username)})
										: ''),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote
										? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="%(logout_from_disqus)s">',
											{logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN, logout_from_disqus: Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('DISQUS')})
										: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'twitter')
												? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using Twitter (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
												 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
												: ((Dsq.jsonData.request.remote_domain == 'openid')
													 ? Dsq.Utils.interpolate('using OpenID (<a href="%(disqus_url)s%(logout_url)s?ctkn=%(csrf_token)s" title="Logout">Logout</a>)',
													 {logout_url: Dsq.Urls.LOGOUT, csrf_token: Dsq.CSRF_TOKEN})
													 : ''
													)
											)
									),

									(!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_remote ? Dsq.FmtStrings.LOGOUT_FROM('<span class="logo-disqus">DISQUS</span>') : ''),
									'</a>',
								'</li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
		]);
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect) {
			result = result.concat([
					'<div id="dsq-fbc-authenticated" class="dsq-authenticated">',
						'<div id="dsq-fbc-profilepic" class="dsq-authenticated-pic" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.ProfilePic" size="square" facebook-logo="true"></div>',
						'<div class="dsq-authenticated-info">',
							'<ul>',
								'<li>',
									'Logged in as <span id="dsq-fbc-name" uid="loggedinuser" type="FB.XFBML.Name" linked="true" useyou="false"></span>',
								'</li>',
								'<li class="logout">using Facebook Connect <a href="#" onclick="javascript:DisqusFbcParentController.logout();return false;">(Logout)</a></li>',
							'</ul>',
						'</div>',
					'</div>'
			]);
		}
		result = result.concat([
				'</div>', // dsq-auth
				'<div id="dsq-toolbar-items">',
				'</div>'
		]);
		result = result.concat([
					//
					//
					//
				((!Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_post && !Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) ?
					// Needs to be translated:
					('<p id="dsq-no-anon-msg">Required: Please log into <span class="logo-disqus">Disqus</span> ' +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_fb_connect ? 'or connect with Facebook ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_twitter_signin ? 'or sign in with Twitter ' : '') +
					(Dsq.jsonData.context.use_openid ? 'or sign in using OpenID ' : '') +
					Dsq.Utils.interpolate('to comment on <strong>%(forum_name)s</strong>.</p>')) :
					''
				),
				'<div id="dsq-post-add"></div>',
				'<div style="margin:10px 0">',
				((Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media) ?
						'<a href="#" id="dsq-media-link" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, false, \'media\'); return false">' + Dsq.Strings.USE_MEDIA + ' <small>&#9660;</small></a>' :
						''),
				'</div>'
		]);
		return result.join('');
	};


	this.header = function() {

		var html = '\<h3 id="dsq-comments-count" class="dsq-h3-commentcount">\
	 <span id="dsq-num-posts">40</span> Comments\
	 &nbsp;\
	 <span class="dsq-item-feed">\
	 <a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers/latest.rss"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/bullet-feed.png"></a>\
	 </span>\
	 </h3>\
	 <div id="dsq-options" style="margin:15px 0">\
	 <span class="dsq-item-sort">\
	 Sort by\
	 <select id="dsq-sort-select" onchange="Dsq.Thread.sortBy(this.value);">\
	 <option value="hot" selected="selected">Popular now</option>\
	 <option value="best" >Best Rating</option>\
	 <option value="newest" >Newest first</option>\
	 <option value="oldest" >Oldest first</option>\
	 </select>\
	 &nbsp;\
	 </span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-cp"><a href="http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers/">Community Page</a>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</span>\
	 <span class="dsq-item-subscribe">\
	 <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/email.png" style="width:12px;height:12px;vertical-align:middle">\
	 <span id="dsq-subscribe">\
	 <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a>\
	 </span>\
	 </span>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-alerts">\
	 </div>\
		';

		
			html = Dsq.Templates.authPost() + html;
		

		
		if (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) { 
			html = ' \
			<div class="dsq-alert-message dsq-upgrade-message"> \
				<strong>Disqus upgrade available.</strong> Hi ' + Dsq.jsonData.request.display_username + ', this message is being displayed to you because you are a moderator of this site. <a href="#" onclick="Dsq.$(\'dsq-upgrade-message\').style.display=\'block\';this.style.display=\'none\';return false">Click here for details.</a> \
				<div style="display:none; margin-top:10px;" id="dsq-upgrade-message"> \
					A new theme is available with added features. <a href="http://disqus.com/comments/settings/' + Dsq.jsonData.forum.url + '/?p=customize">To change your theme, click here</a> and choose the theme Narcissus. \
					If you do not upgrade, you are missing out on features such as: real-time commenting, new sign-in integrations, and an upgrade interface. \
					<strong>This message will automatically go away in one week.</strong> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			' + html; 
		}
		return html;
	};

	this.footer = function() {
		var html = Dsq.Templates.pagination();

		

		html += Dsq.Templates.reactions();

		
			html += Dsq.Templates.trackbacks();
		

		return html;
	};

	this.pagination = function() {
		var html = '';
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) { Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = ''; }
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.thread.paginate) { return ''; }

		//
		// TODO: num_paginator still uses the template tag for pagination, 
		// 		while append_paginator does it all in JavaScript.
		//		This should all be in JavaScript.
		//

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages > 1 && Dsq.jsonData.request.page < Dsq.jsonData.thread.num_pages) {
			html = ' \<a class="dsq-paginate-append-text" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this); return false">Show more comments...</a>\
	 <button class="dsq-button-small dsq-paginate-append-button" onclick="Dsq.Thread.paginate(Dsq.jsonData.request.page + 1, this);">Load more comments</button>\
			';
		}
		
		if (Dsq.$('dsq-pagination')) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML = html;
			return '';
		} else {
			return '<div id="dsq-pagination" class="dsq-pagination">' + html + '</div>';
		}
	};

	this.trackbacks = function() {
		var html = '';

		if(typeof DsqLocal != 'undefined' && DsqLocal.trackback_url && DsqLocal.trackbacks) {
			var trackbacks = DsqLocal.trackbacks;
			var trackback_url = DsqLocal.trackback_url;
		} else {
			var trackbacks = [
			
			
			];
			var trackback_url = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers/trackback/';
		}

		html += '<div class="dsq-item-trackback">Trackback URL&nbsp;&nbsp;<input class="dsq-trackback-url" onclick="this.select()" readonly="true" value="' + trackback_url + '"></div>';

		if(trackbacks.length) {
			html += '<ul id="dsq-references">'
			for(var i = 0; i < trackbacks.length; i++) {
				var trackback = trackbacks[i];
				html += '<li><cite><a href="' + trackback.author_url + '" rel="nofollow">' + trackback.author_name + '</a></cite> \
						<p class="dsq-meta">' + trackback.date + '</p> \
						<p class="dsq-content">' + trackback.excerpt + '</p></li>';
			}
			html += '</ul>';
			html = '<h3 class="dsq-h3-trackbacks">Trackbacks</h3>' + html;
		}

		return html;
	}

	this.showRetweets = function(id, limit, element_id /* Optional */) {
		var source, html = '';

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			if (reaction.id === id) {
				source = reaction.retweets;
			}
		}

		if (source) {
			if (limit === 0) {
				limit = source.length;
			}

			for (var j = 0; j < limit; j++) {
				var rt = source[j];
				html += '<a href="' + rt.url + '">' + rt.author_name + '</a>'	+ ((j === (limit - 1)) ? '.' : ', ');
			}
		}

		if (element_id === undefined) {
			return html;
		}

		var element = document.getElementById(element_id);
		element.innerHTML = html;
		return element;
	};

	this.showMoreReactions = function(reactions, has_more, start, limit) {
		var link = document.getElementById('dsq-show-more-reactions');
		var container = link.parentNode;
		container.removeChild(link);

		for (var i = 0, reaction; reaction = reactions[i]; i++) {
			var el = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (el) {
				container.innerHTML += el;
			}
		}

		if (has_more) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = start;
			var l = limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			container.innerHTML += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}
	};

	this.generateReactionHTML = function(reaction) {
		if (reaction.body === null || reaction.body == '') {
			return;
		}

		if (reaction.author_name === '') {
			reaction.author_name = '&nbsp;';
		}

		if (reaction.url === '') {
			reaction.url = reaction.get_service_url;
		}

		/* Reaction HTML begins */
		var item = '<li class="dsq-reaction" id="dsq-reaction-' + reaction.id + '">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-header">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-header-avatar">';

		if (reaction.author_url && reaction.author_url !== '') {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="' + reaction.author_url +'">';
		} else {
			item += '<a target="_blank" href="#" onclick="return false;">';
		}

		if (reaction.avatar_url && reaction.avatar_url !== '') {
			item += '<img src="' + reaction.avatar_url + '"/>';
		} else {
			item += '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/noavatar32.png"/>';
		}

		var service_icon = (reaction.get_service_name == 'trackback' || reaction.get_service_name == 'pingback' ? 'rss' : reaction.get_service_name.replace(' ', ''));
		item += '<img class="dsq-service-icon" src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/reactions/services/' + service_icon + '.png"/>'
			+ '</a></div>'
			+ '<cite><span>' + reaction.author_name + '</span></cite>'
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"><a class="dsq-header-time">' + reaction.date_created + '</a></span>'
			+ '</div><div class="dsq-reaction-body">'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-message">' + reaction.body + '</div>'
			+ '<div class="dsq-reaction-footer">From <a class="dsq-service-name" target="_blank" href="' + reaction.url + '">' + reaction.get_service_name + '</a> '
			+ 'via ' + (reaction.source == 'backtype' ? '<a href="http://backtype.com/">BackType</a>' : '<a href="' + reaction.source_url + '">UberVU</a>')
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator ? '&nbsp;&bull;&nbsp;<a class="dsq-hide-reaction" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Reaction.hide(' + reaction.id + '); return false;">Hide</a>' : '') + '</div></div>';

		if(reaction.retweets) {
			var num_retweets = reaction.retweets.length;
			if (num_retweets > 0) {
				item += '<div class="dsq-reaction-retweets">';
				if (num_retweets == 1) {
					item += 'One more retweet from <a href="' + reaction.retweets[0].url + '">'  + reaction.retweets[0].author_name + '</a>';
				} else {
					item += (num_retweets + ' more retweets from ');

					item += '<span id="dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '">';
					var n_tweets = (num_retweets > 15) ? 15 : num_retweets;
					item += Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(reaction.id, n_tweets);

					if (n_tweets != num_retweets) {
						item += '</span> <a onclick="Dsq.Templates.showRetweets(' + reaction.id + ', 0, \'dsq-reaction-retweets-' + reaction.id + '\');'
							+ 'this.parentNode.removeChild(this); return false;" href="#">Show all</a>';
					}
				}
				item += '</div>';
			}
		}

		item += '</li>'; /* Reaction HTML ends */
		return item;
	};

	this.reactions = function() {
		var html, reaction;

		if (Dsq.jsonData.reactions === undefined || Dsq.jsonData.reactions.length === 0) {
			return '';
		}

		html = '';
		for (var i = 0; reaction = Dsq.jsonData.reactions[i]; i++) {
			var item = Dsq.Templates.generateReactionHTML(reaction);
			if (item) {
				html += item;
			}
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.has_more_reactions) {
			var d = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url;
			var f = Dsq.jsonData.forum.url;
			var t = Dsq.jsonData.thread.id;
			var s = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_start;
			var l = Dsq.jsonData.reactions_limit;

			var handler = 'Dsq.Utils.execScript(\'' + d + '/forums/' + f + '/more_reactions.js?t=' + t + '&s=' + s + '&l=' + l + '\', true); return false;';
			html += '<li id="dsq-show-more-reactions"><a href="#" onclick="' + handler + '">Show more reactions</a></li>';
		}

		return '<h3 class="dsq-h3-reactions">Reactions</h3><ul id="dsq-reactions" class="dsq-reactions">' + html + '</ul>';
	};
	
	this.missingPermissions = function() {
		return '';
	};

	//
	// Post
	//

	this.prependPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="comment-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.appendPost = function(post_id) {
		var html = '<div id="dsq-comment-reply-' + post_id + '"></div>';
		return html;
	};

	this.postPrependHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-header-avatar" id="dsq-header-avatar-' + post_id + '" onmouseover="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')"> \
				<a id="dsq-avatar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-avatar" href="' + userData.url + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">'
			+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.show_avatar
				? '<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key].avatar + '" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '</a>'
			+ '</div> \
		';
	};

	this.postAppendHeader = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];

		return ''
			+ (_meta.author_is_moderator
				? '<img class="dsq-mod-star" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/bullet-star.png" title="Moderator" alt="" />'
				: '')
			+ '<span class="dsq-header-meta"> \
				<a id="dsq-time-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-header-time" href="#comment-' + post_id + '" title="Permalink">' + _meta.date + '</a> \
			</span>';
	};

	this.preBody = function(post_id) {
		return '';
	}

	this.postBody = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Deprecate flagging conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		return ''
			+ (_meta.edited
				? '<p class="dsq-editedtxt">(Edited by a moderator)</p>'
				: '')
			;
	};

	this.postFooter = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: Use media should be conditional
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		if(_meta.killed) { return ''; }

		return ' \
			<div class="dsq-comment-footer" id="dsq-comment-footer-' + post_id + '"> \
				<div id="dsq-points-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-likedtxt">'
				+ (_meta.points
					? _meta.points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(_meta.points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.'
					: '')
				+ '</div>'
				+ '<ul class="dsq-comment-options dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.votable
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first dsq-rate" id="dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id + '">'
					+ (!_meta.up_voted
						? '<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.rate(this, ' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Like</a>'
						: 'You liked this.') + '</li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-report' + (!_meta.votable ? ' dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-post-report-' + post_id + '"><a href="#" class="dsq-post-report" onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + post_id + ', false); return false;">Report</a></li> \
				</ul> \
				<ul class="dsq-list-style">'
				+ (_meta.can_reply
					? '<li class="dsq-list-first"><a href="#" id="dsq-reply-link-' + post_id +'" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleReply(this, ' + post_id +'); return false;">Reply</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ (_meta.can_reply && !_meta.has_replies && _meta.from_request_user
					? '<li id="dsq-edit-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-edit-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit</a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="' + (!_meta.can_reply ? 'dsq-list-first' : '') + '" id="dsq-more-el-' + post_id + '"><a id="dsq-more-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'more\'); return false">More <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
				+ (Dsq.jsonData.forum.use_media
					? '<li id="dsq-media-el-' + post_id +'" style="display:none"><a id="dsq-media-link-' + post_id + '" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.showMenu(this, ' + post_id + ', \'media\'); return false">Use Media <small>&#9660;</small></a></li>'
					: '')
				+ '</ul>'
				+ '<div id="dsq-reply-bar-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar" style="display:none"> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-items-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-items"> \
						</div> \
						<div id="dsq-reply-bar-auth-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-reply-bar-auth"> \
							 \
								 \
								 	<a href="#" class="dsq-help dsq-reply-req-opt" title="You are commenting as a Guest. You may choose to log into an existing DISQUS Profile, your Facebook, Twitter or OpenID account to comment on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges(); return false">Optional:</a> \
								 \
								<img class="dsq-login-icon" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/dsq-favicon-16x16.png" alt="" /> \
								<a id="dsq-reply-login-' + post_id + '" href="http://disqus.com/profile/login/?next=article:4315188" onclick="Dsq.Popup.login(); return false">Login</a> \
								 \
								&nbsp;or&nbsp; \
									<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/twitter-signin-icon.png" alt="" /> \
									<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Twitter.startTwitterConnect(); return false">Sign-in</a> \
								 \
								 \
							 \
						</div> \
					</div> \
					<div id="dsq-reply-' + post_id + '"></div> \
			</div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Iframes
	//

	this._makeAttributes = function(attributes) {
		// Makes a tag attributes string out of an object.
		// Caller is responsible for making sure nothing needs to be escaped.
		var result = [];
		for (key in attributes) {
			result.push(' ' + key + '="' + attributes[key] + '"');
		}
		result = result.join('');
		return result;
	};

	this._frameGeneric = function(base_url, params, attributes) {
		if(typeof(disqus_callback_params) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_callback_params = '';
		}

		var default_params = {
			// TODO: These should be moved to Dsq.jsonData.
			'f'				: 'blogxilla',
			't'				: '13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers',
			// Do we need encodeURIComponent here?
			'ifrs'			: encodeURIComponent(disqus_iframe_css),
			'to_redirect'	: encodeURIComponent(window.location),
			'cbp'			: disqus_callback_params,
			'ff'			: Dsq.Thread.ff,
			'fc'			: Dsq.Thread.fc,
			'ac'			: Dsq.Thread.ac,
			'default_text'	: disqus_default_text
		};

		base_url += '?' + (new Date()).getTime();
		// Add params to default_params.
		if(params) {
			for(var key in params) {
				if(params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					default_params[key] = encodeURIComponent(params[key]);
				}
			}
		}
		// Build querystring.
		for(var key in default_params) {
			if(default_params[key] && default_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				base_url += '&' + key + '=' + default_params[key];
			}
		}

		return [
			'<iframe marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" hspace="0" vspace="0" frameborder="0"',
			(' allowtransparency="true" src="' + base_url + '"'),
			this._makeAttributes(attributes),
			'</iframe>'].join('');
	};

	this.frameLogin = function(opt_attributes) {
		var params = {};
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/login.html';
		var attributes = opt_attributes || {};
		attributes['class'] = 'dsq-post-login';

		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameReply = function(post_id, extra_params, attributes) {
		// Returns the HTML for a reply iframe. Called by Dsq.Iframes.setReplyIframeToContainer
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = Dsq.Urls.REPLY;
		var params = {
			'def_email'		: disqus_def_email,
			'def_name'		: disqus_def_name
		};
		if(extra_params) {
			for(var key in extra_params) {
				if(extra_params.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
					params[key] = extra_params[key];
				}
			}
		}
		if(_meta) {
			params['parent_post'] = post_id;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined') {
			params['per_page'] = disqus_per_page;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_frame_theme != 'undefined') {
			params['theme'] = disqus_frame_theme;
		}
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated) {
			attributes['class'] += '-authenticated';
		}
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, attributes);
	};

	this.frameEdit = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = (typeof post_id != 'undefined') ? Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] : false;
		var base_url = 'http://disqus.com/embed/edit.html';
		var params = {
			'p' : post_id
		};
		return this._frameGeneric(base_url, params, {'class': 'dsq-post-edit', 'name': 'dsq-edit_' + post_id + '-frame'});
	};

	//
	// Menus
	//

	this.menuMore = function(post_id) {
		// TODO: "Remove post" button should hide menu.
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#comment-' + post_id + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.permalink(' + post_id + ')">Link</a></li> \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Profile</a></li>'
	+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || Dsq.jsonData.request.is_global_moderator
		? '	<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>' + (_meta.email ? '<li class="dsq-admin-email">' + _meta.email + '</li>' : '')
		+ '	<li class="dsq-admin-ip">' + _meta.ip + '</li> \
			<li class="dsq-menu-sep"></li>'
		+ (Dsq.jsonData.request.moderator_can_edit
			? ' <li class="dsq-admin-edit"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.edit(this, ' + post_id + '); return false;">Edit Comment</a></li>'
			: '')
		+ ' <li class="dsq-remove"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.removePost(' + post_id + ', 1); return false;">Remove Comment</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-report-spam"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.reportSpam(' + post_id + '); return false;">Mark Spam</a></li> \
			<li class="dsq-block-user"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.blacklist(' + post_id + '); return false">Block User</a></li>'
		: '');
	};

	this.menuMedia = function(post_id) {
		return ' \
			<li><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(this, ' + post_id + ', \'seesmic\'); return false;">Record video</a></li> \
		';
	};

	this.dropProfile = function(post_id) {
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id];
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][_meta.user_key];

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(null, post_id);
			var html = '';
			var hiddenThreshold = 3; // Define # of services to show before stuffing them in hidden div

			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == hiddenThreshold
					? '<li id="dsq-drop-hidden-' + post_id +'" class="dsq-drop-hidden"><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li class="dsq-drop-services"> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank"> \
						<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>';
			}

			if(i >= hiddenThreshold) {
				html += '</ul></li> \
				<li id="dsq-drop-more-' + post_id + '" class="dsq-drop-more"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Post.dropProfileMore(this, '+ post_id + '); return false"><small>&#9660;</small></a></li> \
				';
			}
			return html;
		};


		var menu = '<li class="dsq-drop-showlnk"><a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup.popProfile(' + post_id + '); return false;">Expand &#8663;</a></li>';
		var pointsMessage = '';
		if (userData['registered']) {
			pointsMessage = 'with ' + userData['points'] + ' points (more points are better).';
		}

		if (userData['is_remote']) {
			var domain = userData['remote_domain_name'];
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' is a ' + domain + ' user ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
			menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-' + domain.toLowerCase() + '">' + domain + '</span></li>';
		} else if (userData['registered']) {
			if (userData['verified']) {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a verified commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-verified">Verified</span></li>';
			} else {
				menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has a registered, but unverified, commenter profile ' + pointsMessage + '" onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()">';
				menu += '<span class="dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span></li>';
			}
		} else {
			menu += '<li class="dsq-drop-badge" title="' + userData['display_name'] + ' has not claimed this commenter profile." onclick="Dsq.Popup.helpBadges()"><span class="dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span></li>';
		}

		menu += _includeServices();
		return menu;
	};

	//
	// Popups
	//

	this._popupGeneric = function(content) {
		return ' \
		<div class="dsq-popup-content"> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-top"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-body" class="clearfix"> \
				<div class="dsq-popup-body-padding"> \
					<div class="dsq-popup-header"> \
						<a class="dsq-close-link" href="#" onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true); return false"><img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/modal-close.png" alt="" /></a>'
						+ content['header']
					+ '</div>'
					+ content['body']
					+ '<div class="powered-by"><a href="http://disqus.com/comments/">Powered by <img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/embed/disqus-logo.png" alt="Disqus Comments" style="margin-bottom:-5px" /></a></div> \
				</div> <!-- padding --> \
			</div> <!-- body --> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-bottom"></div> \
		</div> \
		';
	};

	this.popupProfile = function(user_key) {
		var userServices = Dsq.Post.getUserServices(user_key, null);
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		var _includeServices = function() {
			var html = '';
			for(var i = 0; i < userServices.length; i++) {
				html +=
				(i == 0
					? '<h4>Connections</h4><ul>'
					: '')
				+ '<li> \
					<img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.media_url + '/images/embed/services/' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '.png" alt="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" title="' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" /> \
					<a class="dsq-service-' + userServices[i].name.toLowerCase() + '" href="' + userServices[i].url + '" target="_blank">'
					+ userServices[i].name
					+ '</a> \
				</li>'
				+ (i+1 == userServices.length ? '</ul>' : '');
			}
			return html;
		};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<table> \
				<tr> \
					<td> \
						<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><img class="dsq-popup-profile-avatar" src="' + userData['avatar'] + '" alt="" /></a> \
					</td> \
					<td> \
						<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user"> \
							<h3>' + userData['display_name'] + '</h3> \
							<div class="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats" id="dsq-popup-profile-user-stats-' + user_key + '">Loading...</div> \
						</div> \
					</td> \
				</tr> \
			</table> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-state"> \
				This is a&nbsp;<span class="'
					+ (userData['registered']
						? (userData['verified']
							? ' dsq-badge-verified'
							: (userData['is_remote']
								? ' dsq-badge-' + userData['remote_domain_name'].toLowerCase()
								: ' dsq-badge-registered')
							)
							: ' dsq-badge-guest') + '">'
			+ (userData['registered']
				? (userData['verified']
					? 'Verified'
					: (userData['is_remote']
						 ? userData['remote_domain_name']
						 : 'Registered')
					)
				: 'Guest')
			+ '</span>&nbsp;commenter profile.'
			+ '&nbsp;<a class="dsq-profile-userurl" href="' + userData.url + '"><strong>View more comments </strong></a>'
			+ (!userData['points']
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice">If this is you, <a href="http://disqus.com/profile" target="_blank">claim it now</a> to manage your comments.</p>'
				: '')
			+ ((userData['registered'] && !userData['verified'] && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username && (Dsq.jsonData.request.username == userData['username'])) && !userData['is_remote'])
				? '<p class="dsq-popup-notice"><strong>Alert</strong>: You have not verified this account. <a href="http://disqus.com/verify">Verify it now.</a></p>'
				: '')
			+ '</div> \
			<div id="dsq-profile-status-' + user_key + '" class="dsq-popup-profile-status" style="display:none"></div> \
			<div class="dsq-popup-profile-snapshot"> \
				<table> \
					<tr> \
						<td> \
							<div id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Most active sites</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-active-sites-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
						<td>'
							+ _includeServices()
							+ '<div id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-wrapper-' + user_key + '"> \
								<h4>Moderator of</h4> \
								<ul id="dsq-popup-profile-moderated-' + user_key + '"> \
									<li>Loading...</li> \
								</ul> \
							</div> \
						</td> \
					</tr> \
				</table> \
			</div> \
			';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupReblog = function() {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<cite><span>Reblog this comment</span></cite> \
		';

		bodyHtml = ' \
			<div id="dsq-reblog-form" class="dsq-reblog-form"> \
			</div> \
		';

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.popupModal = function(title, message) {
		var headerHtml = '';
		var bodyHtml = '';
		var content = {};

		headerHtml = ' \
			<h3>' + title + '</h3> \
		';

		bodyHtml = message;

		content = {
			'header': headerHtml,
			'body': bodyHtml
		};

		return this._popupGeneric(content);
	};

	this.alertContent = function(name, post_id) {
		var alert = {
			'post_not_approved': {
				'title': 'Comment awaiting approval by a moderator',
				'message': 'Thanks for posting. Your comment must be approved by a moderator before appearing here.'
			},
			'post_has_profile': {
				'title': 'Use your existing commenter profile',
				'message': 'You have just posted your commment as a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-guest">Guest</span>, but you may already have a <span class="dsq-badge dsq-badge-registered">Registered</span> commenter profile.<br /><br /><a href="http://disqus.com/claim">Log in and claim this comment!</a>'
			}
		};
		return alert[name] || false;
	};

	//
	// Actions
	//

	this.voted = function(post_id, points, vote) {
		// Update number of points
		Dsq.$('dsq-points-' + post_id).innerHTML = points + Dsq.Utils.pluralize(points, ' person', ' people') + ' liked this comment.';

		// Update link text
		if(vote) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + post_id).innerHTML = 'You liked this.';
		}
	};

	this.subscribed = function(status) {
		var title, message;

		if(status) {
			title = 'Subscribed!';
			message = 'You have subscribed to this comment thread. New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox, where you may read and respond by email.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(0); return false">Unsubscribe</a> \
			';
		} else {
			title = 'Unsubscribed';
			message = 'You have unsubscribed to this comment thread. New comments will no longer be sent to your email inbox.';
			Dsq.$('dsq-subscribe').innerHTML = ' \
				<a href="#" onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1); return false">Subscribe by email</a> \
			';
		}

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);

	};
	
	this.highlighted = function() {
		Dsq.Popup.popModal('This comment has been highlighted.', 'Highlighted comment');
	};

	//
	// Media
	//

	this.mediaSeesmic = function(id, thumb) {
		return ' \
			<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_preview" class="dsq-seesmic-preview"><a href="http://www.seesmic.com/video/' + id + '" target="_blank" class="see_link">&nbsp;</a> \
				<div style="display:block;width:160px; height:120px; border:none; background-image:url(http://t.seesmic.com/thumbnail/' + thumb + ')"> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_hide" class="seePlayOverlay" style="display:none;"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',false)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/stopOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
					<div id="dsq-seesmic-' + id + '_show" class="seePlayOverlay"><img onclick="see_play_video(\'' + id + '\',true)" src="http://media.disqus.com/images/seesmic/playOverlay.png" width="50" height="50" style="cursor:pointer; cursor:hand; border:none; padding-top: 30px; padding-left: 50px" alt="" /></div> \
				</div> \
			</div> \
			<div id="' + id + '_content" style="display:block; width:100%; padding-top:5px"></div> \
		';
	};

	//
	// Callbacks
	//

	this.postComment_onSuccess = function(parent_post_id) {
		// Increment post count
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');
		
		if (num_posts) { 
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) { 
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML) + 1;
		}
	};
};
// Dsq.Templates


/**
 * Dsq.Post
 */
Dsq.Post = new function() {
	this.openedMenu = {};
	this.menuEventListener = null;
	this.stateReplyToggled = {};
	this.stateEditToggled = {};
	this.stateRecordLink = {};

	/**
	 * Inserts a new post into the document.
	 *
	 * @param after_id {Number}	Insert a post before specified id.  If after_id
	 *							evaluates to false, then post in the front.  If
	 *							after_id is -1, post at the end.
	 */
	this.insert = function(after_id, id, message, author) {
		// Skeleton template from thread_posts.html.
		var skeleton = ' \
			<li id="dsq-comment-%(id)s"> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-header-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-header"> \
					<cite id="dsq-cite-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-cite"> \
						<a id="dsq-author-user-%(id)s" href="%(author_url)s" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">%(author_name)s</a> \
					</cite> \
				</div> \
				<div id="dsq-comment-body-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-body"> \
					<div id="dsq-comment-message-%(id)s" class="dsq-comment-message">%(message)s</div> \
				</div> \
			</li> \
		';
		var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
		var _user_meta = Dsq.jsonData.users[_meta.user_key];
		var markup = Dsq.Utils.interpolate(skeleton, {
			id: id,
			message: message,
			author_url: _user_meta.blog,
			author_name: _user_meta.display_name
		});
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		markup = markup.replace(Dsq.COMMENTS_RE, Dsq.CommentsHandler);
		div.innerHTML = markup;

		if (after_id === -1) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').appendChild(div);
		} else if (!after_id) {
			Dsq.$('dsq-comments').insertBefore(div, Dsq.$('dsq-comments').firstChild);
		} else if (Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + after_id)) {
			// Get next node after "after_id", so we can insert before it.
			// If "after_id" is the last comment, the target node is the
			// last node.
			
			// var append_post_id = Dsq.Templates.appendPost(after_id).replace('<div id="','').replace('"></div>', '');
			var append_post_id = 'dsq-append-post-' + after_id;
			var node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			while (node = node.nextSibling) {
				if (!node || node.nodeType == 1) { // 1 == Node.ELEMENT_NODE
					break;
				}
			}
			if (!node) {
				node = Dsq.$(append_post_id);
			}
			node.parentNode.insertBefore(div, node);
		}
	};

	this.incrementPostCount = function() {
		
		var num_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-num-posts');
		var total_posts = Dsq.$('dsq-total-posts');

		if (num_posts) {
			num_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(num_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
		if (total_posts) {
			total_posts.innerHTML = parseInt(total_posts.innerHTML, 10) + 1;
		}
	}
	
	this.outlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className += ' dsq-comment-outline';
		setTimeout("(function () { Dsq.Post.clearOutlineComment(" + post_id + ") })()", 3000);
	};
	
	this.clearOutlineComment = function(post_id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-' + post_id).className.replace('dsq-comment-outline', '');
	};

	this.showMenu = function(el, id, name) {
		var anchorPos = Dsq.Utils.findPos(el);
		var menu = document.createElement('ul');

		if(this.openedMenu) {
			if(this.openedMenu.linkClicked) {
				this.openedMenu.linkClicked = false;
				return;
			}
		}

		switch(name) {
			case 'more':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMore(id);
				break;
			case 'media':
				menu.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.menuMedia(id);
				break;
			default:
				break;
		}

		// Add menu to document body
		menu.id = 'dsq-menu-' + id;
		menu.className = 'dsq-menu';
		Dsq.$b.appendChild(menu);

		// Position and show
		anchorPos[1] += 15;
		menu.style.left = anchorPos[0] + 'px';
		menu.style.top = anchorPos[1] + 'px';
		menu.style.display = 'block';

		// Set global reference
		this.openedMenu = {
			'el' : menu,
			'id' : id,
			'name' : name,
			'linkClicked' : false
		};

		// Set listener
		this.menuEventListener = Dsq.Utils.addEventListener(document, 'mouseup', this._hideMenu);
	};

	this._hideMenu = function(e) {
		var el = e.target || e.srcElement;
		var openedMenu = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el;
		var id = Dsq.Post.openedMenu.id;

		if(!id) {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link';
		} else {
			var link = 'dsq-' + Dsq.Post.openedMenu.name + '-link-' + id;
		}

		if(!openedMenu) {
			return;
		}

		if(!Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, openedMenu.id)) {
			openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
			Dsq.Utils.removeEventListener(Dsq.Post.menuEventListener);
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(openedMenu);

		} else {
			// Hide the menu if a link was clicked inside the menu.  We can't
			// completely remove the menu until the onclick event on the link
			// fires, but the menuEventListener will prevent multiple menus
			// from polluting the DOM.
			if(el && typeof el.href != 'undefined') {
				openedMenu.style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Post.openedMenu.el = null;
			}
		}

		if(Dsq.Popup.isClicked(e, link)) {
 			Dsq.Post.openedMenu.linkClicked = true;
		}
	};


	this.getUserServices = function(user_key, id) {
		if(!user_key && id) {
			var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
			user_key = _meta.user_key;
		}
		var userData = Dsq.jsonData['users'][user_key];
		var userServices = [];

		// Keep a full list of supported services. This is the order they will display in the drop-profile.
		// Each service must have a corresponding case in _buildServiceUrl()
		var supportedServices = ['blog', 'twitter', 'facebook', 'tumblr'];

		function _buildServiceUrl(serviceName) {
			var data = userData[serviceName];
			var services = {
				blog:		function(d) { return d; },
				twitter:	function(d) { return d; },
				facebook:	function(d) { return d; },
				tumblr:		function(d) { return 'http://' + d + '.tumblr.com'; }
			};
			return services[serviceName](data);
		}

		for(var i = 0; i < supportedServices.length; i++) {
			if(userData[supportedServices[i]]) {
				var serviceUrl = _buildServiceUrl(supportedServices[i]);
				userServices.push({'name' : supportedServices[i], 'url' : serviceUrl});
			}
		}
		return userServices;
	}

	this.dropProfile = function(id) {
		var dp = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-profile-' + id);

		// IE6 needs JS to display/hide. All other browsers use CSS.
		if(dp) {
			if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) dp.style.display = (dp.style.display == 'inline') ? 'none' : 'inline';
			return false;
		} else {
			dp = document.createElement('ul');
		}

		dp.id = 'dsq-drop-profile-' + id;
		dp.className = 'dsq-drop-profile';

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) { dp.style.display = 'inline'; }

		var container = Dsq.$('dsq-header-avatar-' + id);
		dp.innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.dropProfile(id);
		container.appendChild(dp);
	};

	this.dropProfileMore = function(el, id) {
		var hiddenItems = Dsq.$('dsq-drop-hidden-' + id);

		hiddenItems.style.display = 'inline';
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
	};

	this._updateReplyLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "reply / cancel" links based on state.
		var displayDict = {};

		if(id) {
			if(this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				el.innerHTML = 'Cancel';
				displayDict['media'] = 'inline';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'none';
			} else {
				el.innerHTML = 'Reply';
				displayDict['media'] = 'none';
				displayDict['edit'] = 'inline';
			}
		}

		for(var key in displayDict) {
			if(displayDict.hasOwnProperty(key)) {
				var	linkEl = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-el-' + id),
					spacer = Dsq.$('dsq-' + key + '-spacer-' + id);

				if(linkEl) {
					linkEl.style.display = displayDict[key];
					if(spacer) spacer.style.display = displayDict[key];
				}
			}
		}
	};

	this._updateMediaLinks = function(el, id) {
		// Update "use media / cancel" links based on state.
		var appendId = (id) ? ('-' + id) : '';
		var link = Dsq.$('dsq-media-link' + appendId);

		if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			link.innerHTML = 'Cancel Media';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.toggleMediaReply(link, id); return false; };
		} else {
			link.innerHTML = 'Use Media <small>&#9660;</small>';
			link.onclick = function() { Dsq.Post.showMenu(link, id, 'media'); return false; };
		}
	};

	this.toggleReply = function(el, id) {
		// Create reply IFrame
		if (window.disqus_use_postmessage) {
			if (!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				// Create IFrame if it doesn't exist.
				if (!Dsq.frames['reply_' + id]) {
					var _meta = Dsq.jsonData.posts[id];
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id] = new Dsq.ReplyFrame(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-frame-' + id), id);
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].init();
					Dsq.frames['reply_' + id].setState(id, _meta.depth);
				}
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
			}
		} else {
			// DEPRECATED
			if(!this.stateReplyToggled[id]) {
				// Reply toolbar
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'block';
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id), id);
			} else {
				Dsq.$('dsq-reply-bar-' + id).style.display = 'none';
				Dsq.Iframes.hideAllInContainer(Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id));
				if(this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
					// HACK: Cancel media before canceling self.
					this.toggleMediaReply(Dsq.$('dsq-media-link-' + id), id);
				}
			}
		}

		this.stateReplyToggled[id] = !this.stateReplyToggled[id];
		this._updateReplyLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-reply-' + id); }

		Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED, {
			postId: id,
			opened: this.stateReplyToggled[id]
		});
	};

	this.toggleMediaReply = function(el, id, xtype) {
		id = id || 0;
		if(id) {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + id);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(!this.stateRecordLink[id]) {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id, {xtype:xtype}, 'dsq-post-video');
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, id);
		}
		this.stateRecordLink[id] = !this.stateRecordLink[id];
		this._updateMediaLinks(el, id);

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};

	this.edit = function(el, id) {
		Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id).innerHTML = Dsq.Templates.frameEdit(id);
		el.parentNode.style.display = 'none';
		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE('dsq-comment-message-' + id); }
	};

    this.rate = function(el, id, vote) {
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || Dsq.jsonData.forum.allow_anon_votes) {
			if(vote == 1) {
                Dsq.$('dsq-rate-cont-' + id).innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
            }

            Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/vote.js'
                + '?post_id='    + id
                + '&vote='        + vote);

		} else {
			Dsq.Popup.login(Dsq.Strings.TO_RATE_PLEASE_LOG_IN);
		}
    };

	this.report = function(id, confirmed) {
		if(confirmed) {
			Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers/post_report/', {'post_id': id});
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Thank you. This comment has been flagged for moderator attention.', 'Successfully flagged');
			Dsq.Utils.deleteNode(Dsq.$('dsq-post-report-' + id));
		} else {
			var title = Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT;
			var message = Dsq.Strings.ARE_YOU_SURE_YOU_WOULD_LIKE_TO_REPORT_THIS_COMMENT_TO_A_MODERATOR + '? \
			<br /><br /> \
			<button onclick="Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true)"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.NO + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.NEVER_MIND + '</button>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<button onclick="Dsq.Post.report(' + id + ', true);"><strong>' + Dsq.Strings.YES + '</strong>, ' + Dsq.Strings.FLAG_INAPPROPRIATE_COMMENT + '</button><br /><br />'
			+ Dsq.Strings.THIS_WILL_FLAG_COMMENTS_FOR_MODERATORS_TO_TAKE_ACTION + '. \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title, id);
		}
	};



	this.showAlert = function(id, msg) {
		var msgEl = Dsq.$('dsq-comment-message-' + id);
		var alert = '<div class="dsq-comment-alert">' + msg + '</div>';

		msgEl.innerHTML = alert + msgEl.innerHTML;
	};

};
// Dsq.Post


/**
 * Dsq.Thread
 */
Dsq.Thread = new function() {
	this.fc = null;
	this.ff = null;
	this.ac = null;

	
	this.adminIsOn = false;

	
	
	

	this.hlComment = null;
	this.hlCommentClass = null;

	this.getNextComment = function(el) {
		var start_id = el.id;
		while(el = el.nextSibling) {
			if(el.id && el.id.indexOf('dsq-comment-') != -1 && el.id != start_id) {
				return el;
			}
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.getActiveCommentId = function() {
		if (document.URL.indexOf('#comment-') >= 0) {
			var anchor = document.URL.slice(document.URL.indexOf('#') + 1);
			return anchor.replace('comment-', '');
		}
		return null;
	};

	this.highlightAnchor = function() {
		var i = this.getActiveCommentId();
		if (i == null) return false;
		var id = 'dsq-comment-' + i;
		var hash = window.location.hash;

		// Toggle the hash incase the comment isn't available when the page loads
		// for WebKit-based browsers.
		if (Dsq.Utils.webkit) {
			window.location.hash = '';
			window.location.hash = hash;
		}

		this.hlComment = Dsq.$(id);
		// Adding this conditional guard pending #289
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlCommentClass = this.hlComment.className;
		this.hlComment.className += ' dsq-hl-anchor';

		setTimeout("Dsq.Thread.highlightClear()", 3000);
	};

	this.highlightClear = function() {
		if (!this.hlComment) {
			return;
		}
		this.hlComment.className = this.hlCommentClass;
	};

	this.login = function(toggle) {
		// toggle id is #dsq-reply-login-[id]
		var postId;
		if(toggle.id.indexOf('dsq-reply-login') != -1) {
			postId = toggle.id.slice(16);
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-reply-' + postId);
		} else {
			var container = Dsq.$('dsq-post-add');
		}

		if(toggle) {
			if(toggle.className == 'dsq-login-active') {
				Dsq.Iframes.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed(container, postId);
				toggle.className = '';
			} else {
				Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
				toggle.className = 'dsq-login-active';
			}
		} else {
			Dsq.Iframes.showLoginIframeInContainer(container, postId);
		}

		if(Dsq.Utils.ie) { Dsq.Utils.fixIframesIE(); }
	};


	this.paginate = function(page, el_clicked, per_page) {
		// Use extra_params to pass any override parameters that we need to persist.
		var extra_params = '';

		// "Per page" can either be overriden by providing it as an argument
		// (per-call) or setting the disqus_per_page override variable (global).
		if(typeof per_page == 'undefined') {
			per_page = null;
		}
		if(typeof disqus_per_page != 'undefined' && per_page === null) {
			per_page = disqus_per_page;
		}

		if(typeof disqus_sort != 'undefined') {
			extra_params += '&sort=' + disqus_sort;
		}
		if(per_page !== null) {
			extra_params += '&per_page=' + per_page;
		}

		Dsq.$('dsq-pagination').innerHTML += '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading-small.gif">';
		
		if(el_clicked) {
			el_clicked.style.display = 'none';
		}
		
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ '13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers'
			+ '&p='		+ page
			+ extra_params);
	};

	this.sortBy = function(sort) {
		var disqus_script = document.createElement('script');
		var disqus_date = new Date();

		if (location.hash != '') {
			location.hash = '#disqus_thread';
		}

		if(typeof(disqus_url) == 'undefined') {
			disqus_url = disqus_href;
		}
		disqus_script.type = 'text/javascript';
		disqus_script.src = 'http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/thread.js'
			+ '?slug='	+ '13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers'
			+ '&sort='	+ sort
			+ '&title='
			+ '&'		+ disqus_date.getTime();

		Dsq.$('dsq-comments').innerHTML = '<img src="http://media.disqus.com/images/loading.gif">';
		Dsq.container.appendChild(disqus_script);
	};

	this.subscribe = function(status, email) {
		// `status` is an int -- 1 to subscribe, 0 to unsubscribe
		if(Dsq.jsonData.request.is_authenticated || email) {
			// If authenticated user OR anonymous email provided

			if(email) {
				Dsq.Popup._closePopup(null, true);
			}

			Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/subscribe.js'
				+'?status=' 	+ status
				+ '&slug='		+ '13_great_reasons_to_avoid_dating_single_mothers'
				+ '&email=' 	+ encodeURIComponent(email));

		} else if(!email) {
			// If anonymous user and no email has been provided yet, prompt for email

			var title = 'Subscribe to this comment thread';
			var message = ' \
				New comments will be sent directly to your email inbox! \
				<div class="dsq-subscribe-submit"> \
					<p><strong>Enter your email address below.</strong></p> \
					<input type="text" id="dsq-subscribe-email"> \
					<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.subscribe(1, Dsq.$(\'dsq-subscribe-email\').value)">Subscribe</button> \
				</div> \
			';

			Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, title);
		}
	};

	this.showSettings = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator) {
			return;
		}

		/* The form has to be re-designed when more options will come out. */
		var html = 'Automatically close comments after <input size="3" id="dsq-thread-days-alive" value="' + Dsq.jsonData.thread.days_alive + '" type="text" /> days. Existing comments will still be displayed.<br /><br />(Using 0 days will disable this feature)<br /><br />'
								 + '<button onclick="Dsq.Thread.updateDaysAlive();" class="dsq-button-small"><span>Save</span></button>'
								 + '<span id="dsq-thread-settings-status" class="dsq-options-status"></span>';
		Dsq.Popup.popModal(html, 'Settings');
	};

	this.updateDaysAlive = function() {
		var days = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-days-alive').value;
		var status = Dsq.$('dsq-thread-settings-status');
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/update_days_alive.js', {days:days,thread:Dsq.jsonData.thread.id});
		status.innerHTML = 'Saved!';
		window.setTimeout(function() { status.innerHTML = ''; }, 1000);
	};
};
// Dsq.Thread

Dsq.Events = function() {
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var handlers = {};
	var getHandlers = function(event) {
		if (handlers[event] === undefined) {
			handlers[event] = [];
		}
		return handlers[event];
	};

	// Public
	// Value keys : postId, node, xtype
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED = 1;
	// Value keys : postId, opened
	obj.REPLY_IFRAME_TOGGLED = 2;
	obj.fire = function(event, opt_value) {
		if (!event) {
			throw new Error('Unknown event');
		}
		var value = opt_value || {};
		for (var i=0; i<getHandlers(event).length; i++) {
			getHandlers(event)[i](value);
		}
	};
	obj.addHandler = function(event, callback) {
		getHandlers(event).push(callback);
	};

	return obj;
}();

/**
 * Dsq.Realtime
 */
Dsq.Realtime = new function() {
	var initialized = false;
	var interval = null;
	var last_checked = Dsq.jsonData.request.timestamp;
	var new_posts = [];
	var ongoing_request = false;
	var prev_script = null;

	function updateNewPostCount() {
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-alert').style.display = new_posts.length ? 'block' : 'none';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-queued').innerHTML = new_posts.length
		+ ' new '
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, 'comment', 'comments')
		+ Dsq.Utils.pluralize(new_posts.length, ' was', ' were')
		+ ' just posted.';

		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.SHOW + ')';
	}

	function insertNewPosts() {
		var post_id = null;
		var after_id = Dsq.$('dsq-sort-select').value === 'oldest' ? -1 : null;

		for (var i=0; i<new_posts.length; i++) {
			post_id = new_posts[i];
			Dsq.Post.insert(after_id, post_id, Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id].message);
			Dsq.Post.incrementPostCount();
			Dsq.Post.outlineComment(post_id);
		}
		new_posts = [];
	}

	this.enableInterval = function() {
		interval = setInterval(Dsq.Realtime.check, Dsq.jsonData.context.realtime_speed);
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.ENABLED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.PAUSE + ')';
	}

	this.disableInterval = function() {
		if (interval) {
			clearInterval(interval);
			interval = null;
		}
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-status').innerHTML = Dsq.Strings.PAUSED;
		Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').innerHTML = '(' + Dsq.Strings.RESUME + ')';
	}

	this.toggleInterval = function() {
		if (!interval) {
			Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
		} else {
			Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
		}
		return false;
	}

	this.initialize = function() {
		if (!initialized) {
			initialized = true;
			Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-toggle').onclick = this.toggleInterval;
			if (!Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				Dsq.$('dsq-realtime-show').onclick = this.show;
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
			if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.realtime_paused) {
				Dsq.Realtime.disableInterval();
			} else {
				Dsq.Realtime.enableInterval();
			}
		}
	}

	this.show = function() {
		insertNewPosts();
		updateNewPostCount();
		return false;
	}

	this.check = function() {
		if (!ongoing_request && Dsq.jsonData.realtime_enabled) {
			if (prev_script) {
				prev_script.parentNode.removeChild(prev_script);
			}
			ongoing_request = true;
			prev_script = Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/4315188/realtime.js?timestamp=' + last_checked);
		}
	};

	this.update = function(timestamp, posts, users) {
		ongoing_request = false;
		last_checked = timestamp;

		if (users) {
			for (var user_id in users) {
				if (users.hasOwnProperty(user_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.users[user_id] = users[user_id];
					}
				}
			}
		}

		if (posts) {
			for (var post_id in posts) {
				if (posts.hasOwnProperty(post_id)) {
					if (!Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id]) {
						Dsq.jsonData.posts[post_id] = posts[post_id];
						new_posts.push(post_id);
					}
				}
			}

			if (Dsq.jsonData.forum.streaming_realtime) {
				insertNewPosts();
			} else {
				updateNewPostCount();
			}
		}
	};

}();

// DEPRECATED
Dsq.Iframes = function() {
	// Different style of object from the above. Hoping to switch to this for some reason.
	var obj = {};

	// Private
	var showIframeInContainer = function(container, id, markup) {
		// Look through container for iframes, hiding them, except show one that matches id
		// If none of them matched id, create a new iframe using markup and insert it.
		// Returns the iframe node if and only if it was newly created.
		var found = false;
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				if (child.id == id) {
					child.style.display = 'block';
					found = true;
				} else {
					child.style.display = 'none';
				}
			}
		}
		if (found) {
			return;
		}
		// The iframe wasn't found, so construct it and add it to the container.
		// Don't use innerHTML because it might reload iframes
		var div = document.createElement('div');
		div.innerHTML = markup;
		var iframe = div.childNodes[0];
		div.removeChild(iframe);
		container.appendChild(iframe);
		return iframe;
	};

	// Public
	obj.makeReplyIframeId = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var id = 'dsq-post-add-iframe';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			id += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			id += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return id;
	};
	obj.makeLoginIframeId = function(opt_postId) {
		if (!opt_postId) {
			return 'dsq-login-iframe';
		}
		return 'dsq-login-iframe-' + opt_postId;
	};
	obj.makeReplyIframeName = function(opt_postId, opt_xtype) {
		var name = 'dsq-reply-frame';
		if (opt_xtype) {
			name += '-' + opt_xtype;
		}
		if (opt_postId) {
			name += '-' + opt_postId;
		}
		return name;
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId, opt_extraParams, opt_className) {
		// Construct the id so we can check if it's already present.
		// Hide any other iframes we find, and show this one if it's found.
		var params = opt_extraParams || {};
		// use xtype in the id and name so we can distinguish media replies from text replies:
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeId(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var name = Dsq.Iframes.makeReplyIframeName(opt_postId, params.xtype);
		var attributes = {
			'id': id,
			'name': name,
			'class': opt_className || 'dsq-post-reply'
			};
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameReply(opt_postId, opt_extraParams, attributes);
		var iframe = showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
		// It was newly created
		if (iframe) {
			Dsq.Events.fire(Dsq.Events.REPLY_IFRAME_CREATED, {
				postId: opt_postId,
				node: iframe,
				xtype: params.xtype
			});
		}
	};
	obj.showLoginIframeInContainer = function(container, opt_postId) {
		var id = Dsq.Iframes.makeLoginIframeId(opt_postId);
		var markup = Dsq.Templates.frameLogin({id: id});
		showIframeInContainer(container, id, markup);
	};
	obj.showReplyIframeInContainerIfAllowed = function(container, opt_postId) {
		if (Dsq.jsonData.context.show_reply) {
			obj.showReplyIframeInContainer(container, opt_postId);
		} else {
			obj.hideAllInContainer(container);
		}
	};
	obj.hideAllInContainer = function(container) {
		for (var i=0; i<container.childNodes.length; i++) {
			var child = container.childNodes[i];
			if (child.nodeName == 'IFRAME') {
				child.style.display = 'none';
			}
		}
	};

	return obj;
}();

Dsq.Twitter = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startTwitterConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._twitterWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/twitter/begin/', 'twitterWindow', popupParams);
		that._twitterInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeTwitterConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeTwitterConnect = function() {
		if (that._twitterWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._twitterInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Yahoo = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.startYahooConnect = function() {
		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=400';
		that._yahooWindow = window.open(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/yahoo/begin/', 'yahooWindow', popupParams);
		that._yahooInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeYahooConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeYahooConnect = function() {
		if (that._yahooWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._yahooInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.OpenID = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.requestURL = function() {
		var message = '<table class="dsq-openid-form"><tr><td style="vertical-align:top;" rowspan="2"><img src="' + Dsq.jsonData.settings.media_url + '/images/openid-icon-100x100.png" /></td>';
		message += '<td><label for="dsq-openid-url">OpenID URL:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-url" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td><label for="dsq-openid-username">Display name:</label></td><td><input type="text" id="dsq-openid-username" /></td></tr>';
		message += '<tr><td class="dsq-openid-submit" colspan="3"><input type="button" value="Sign in" onclick="Dsq.OpenID.startConnect();" /></td></tr>';
		message += "</table>";

		Dsq.Popup.popModal(message, 'Sign in using OpenID');
	};

	this.startConnect = function() {
		var isblank = function(str) {
			return /^\s*$/.test(str);
		};

		var openid_url = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-url').value;
		var username = Dsq.$('dsq-openid-username').value;

		if (isblank(openid_url)) {
			return;
		}

		var popupParams = 'location=0,status=0,width=800,height=500';
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/_ax/openid/begin/' + '?url=' + encodeURIComponent(openid_url) + '&username=' + encodeURIComponent(username);
		that._openidWindow = window.open(url, 'openidWindow', popupParams);
		that._openidInterval = window.setInterval(that.completeConnect, 1000);
	};

	this.completeConnect = function() {
		if (that._openidWindow.closed) {
			window.clearInterval(that._openidInterval);
			window.location.reload();
		}
	};
};

Dsq.Reaction = new function() {
	var that = this;

	this.hide = function(id) {
		Dsq.Utils.execScript('http://disqus.com/forums/blogxilla/hidereaction.js?' + 'reaction_id=' + id);
	};

	this.reportMissingReactions = function() {
		if (!Dsq.jsonData.request.is_moderator || !Dsq.jsonData.forum.reactions_enabled) {
			return;
		}

		if (Dsq.jsonData.thread.queued) {
			Dsq.Popup.popModal('Your report has been received. The system will automatically search for new reactions; if any are found, they will be displayed on this comment thread.<br/><br/>Thank&nbsp;you.',
												 'Reported missing reactions');
			return;
		}

		Dsq.Utils.execScript(Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + '/forums/blogxilla/queueurl.js');
	};
};

Dsq.CNN = function() {
	var obj = {};

	obj.authenticate = function() {
		var url = Dsq.jsonData.settings.disqus_url + "/saml/cnn/try/";
		Dsq.Utils.postToUrl(url, {'target': document.location}, true);
	};

	return obj;
}();


if(Dsq.Utils.ie6) {
	(function() {
		DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE = /<div class="dsq-header-avatar"(.*?)>/gim;
		Dsq.Templates.registerFilter('postPrependHeader', function(html, post_id) {
			// Add "onmouseout" for dsq-header-avatar for dropProfile
			// functionality since IE6 cannot use :hover.
			function _headerAvatarReplace(content, inner, _unused, html) {
				return '<div class="dsq-header-avatar" '
					+ inner
					+ ' onmouseout="Dsq.Post.dropProfile(' + post_id + ')">';
			}
			html = html.replace(DSQ_HEADER_AVATAR_RE, _headerAvatarReplace);
			return html;
		});
	})();
}









(function() {
	//
	// Load theme.  This overrides the base templates with template functions
	// from the respective themes.
	//
	if (Dsq.jsonData.integration.theme == 4) {
		var theme = 'narcissus';
		// HACK: Set variable on window to use post message.
		window.disqus_use_postmessage = true;

		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Themes[theme]) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Templates[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
		
		for(var prop in Dsq.Post) {
			if(Dsq.Themes[theme] && Dsq.Themes[theme].hasOwnProperty(prop)) {
				Dsq.Post[prop] = Dsq.Themes[theme][prop];
			}
		}
	}

	//
	// Register templates.  This must be done after all themes are loaded.
	//
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('authPost', Dsq.Templates.authPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('header', Dsq.Templates.header);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('footer', Dsq.Templates.footer);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('trackbacks', Dsq.Templates.trackbacks);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('reactions', Dsq.Templates.reactions);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('prependPost', Dsq.Templates.prependPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('appendPost', Dsq.Templates.appendPost);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postPrependHeader', Dsq.Templates.postPrependHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postAppendHeader', Dsq.Templates.postAppendHeader);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('preBody', Dsq.Templates.preBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBody', Dsq.Templates.postBody);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postFooter', Dsq.Templates.postFooter);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('_popupGeneric', Dsq.Templates._popupGeneric);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('voted', Dsq.Templates.voted);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('popupProfile', Dsq.Templates.popupProfile);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postBox', Dsq.Templates.postBox);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('pagination', Dsq.Templates.pagination);
	Dsq.Templates.registerTemplate('postComment_onSuccess', Dsq.Templates.postComment_onSuccess);

})();

Dsq.container.className = "clearfix";
Dsq.container.innerHTML = ' \
<ul id="dsq-comments">\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2233982">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2233982" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2233982" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2233982">SugarTits</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2233982" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2233982" class="dsq-comment-message">It makes sense. I want the men to understand that it a choice. You can fuck with her or not. No sense in dancing around the issue, and if a man does NOT want to deal with a woman with a child(ren) then he should stick to that. I know a few females that don\'t have children. I don\'t know if their womb is tainted or if it\'s by choice, but they are childless. And I also know females who dont give a damn about who is around the seeds, what they hear, see, eat.......it goes both ways. I feel that if a man decides to be involved with a single mother, it would behoove him to understand what all comes along with that. Not everyone is looking for a step daddy, or a pay master or made an error in judgement. Some woman don\'t receive child support, work a job or two AND goto school which leaves very little time to entertain and stroke the egos of inadequate men. <br><br>A woman knows her position and will stay in pocket for the male suitor who\'s energy can sustain a woman who places a needed value on her family. <br><br>I appreciate your post, many of the points are valid, however Xilla, as in the case of your Cinderella\'s glass slipper, one size does not fit all............</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2234265">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2234265" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2234265" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2234265" href="http://bamablogunite.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Kim ber lee</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2234265" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2234265" class="dsq-comment-message">Much of this is SOOOOO correct.  But it also goes for the males with multiple baby mommas. People have to understand the percentage of child abandonment , and how that balances out in how many childless women that are viable dating material.<br><br>To blame the woman because a man abandons her is unfair. That I am sure NO woman would get with a man KNOWING he will abandon the seed.  Some can make better choices. Especially the ones with the multiple children by multiple fathers.<br><br>But again the same goes for men having many children by different women ... you have a list involved with that as well.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2234719">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2234719" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2234719" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2234719">ANuJS</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2234719" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2234719" class="dsq-comment-message">Too true. If we\'re talking about being honest, tell these foul dudes to be honest about whether or not they\'ll stick around and raise their children. Women wouldn\'t be single if men didn\'t leave them. Most of the men that step to you and don\'t want to date a woman with children have a lady with their kids at the house.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2234313">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2234313" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2234313" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2234313" href="http://thirtyhood.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Dallas Black</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2234313" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2234313" class="dsq-comment-message">All GREAT reasons. Plus the women need to disclose they have a crumb snatcher before I purchase the drink. Otherwise it is definitely a foul. Plus I am too selfish to not be number 1. I don\'t care if lil Leroy needs shoes...what about my beer?<br><br>But why do single women often look so gosh darn good? Another foul. Dress your part.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2235330">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2235330" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2235330" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2235330">what?</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2235330" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235330" class="dsq-comment-message">ASS-HOLE</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2235387">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2235387" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2235387" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2235387" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2235387" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235387" class="dsq-comment-message">So they should dress like a mother? lol that\'s crazy! Single mothers look good because 1 they have a kid, 2 that\'s probably why they have a kid, and 2 niggas want them.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2238130">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2238130" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2238130" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2238130">Good Girl Staying Good</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2238130" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2238130" class="dsq-comment-message">I agree with you about the selfish part. I can not and will not share anything, and this includes MY man. I do not take in orphans and I refuse to date a male that comes with accessories (aka child(ren)). It is all about me and only me, not me, him, baby, baby mother, baby mother\'s friends and baby mother\'s family. I just can\'t do it and I salute the people who do. Broken families are problems and I dont need that problem mixed in with MY life.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2234374">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2234374" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2234374" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2234374" href="http://bamablogunite.blogspot.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">kimberlee</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2234374" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2234374" class="dsq-comment-message">sugartits, I enjoyed your response. It was very valid and on point.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2234848">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2234848" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2234848" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2234848">SugarTits</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2234848" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2234848" class="dsq-comment-message">Thank you.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2234629">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2234629" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2234629" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2234629">ANuJS</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2234629" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2234629" class="dsq-comment-message">Xilla don\'t you have a child? I get what you\'re saying, but....are you saying that women with kids aren\'t worth dating? Women will intentionally try and take you for child support. I know single mothers and for the most part they go above and beyond to make sure that they just have that one child. I, when I was a single mom, made sure that any booty calls were private. Nobody seen my son that I was just friends (with benefits) with. Most men assumed that since I had a baby, I was giving it up regardless....NOT TRUE. I was also VERY concerned that I had messed up ONCE and I didn\'t want another sorry *ucker to be my "baby daddy". I was selective. All women aren\'t like this post. Between this and the slim vs. think...come on. Note to men: sometimes women are just out for a nut 2. We don\'t want to date you, don\'t need your phone #, don\'t even need ur real name, we couldn\'t care less how many babies you have (b/c we don\'t want to be their "mommy" either). We just need the goods. I would venture to say that not all women are out to find their baby a new daddy. Be honest and you\'d squash all the b.s.</div>\
	 </div>\
	 </li>\
	 <li id="dsq-comment-2235073">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2235073" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2235073" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2235073">Slim Goodie</span>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2235073" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235073" class="dsq-comment-message">Just Steph, That was a real as it could be. Point Blank!</div>\
	 </div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2236187">hmm</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2236187" class="dsq-comment-message">he has more then one JustSteph...im jus sayin.......................</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2236527" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2236527" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2236527" class="dsq-comment-message">That\'s right I have 2 kids but note to all -- "It was crafted by my brother after a conversation at work. So here you go 13 reasons to avoid dating single mothers." <br><br><br>and if i just sat here and posted stuff we all agreed upon there would  be no need to debate.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2235016">Slim Goodie</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235016" class="dsq-comment-message">Sugar Tits, <br>I COMLETELY and Totally Agree. I\'m a single mother of a 6 year old boy.<br><br>1. If you follow directions and don\'t have sex for the 6 weeks after giving birth, your womb will be just like new. (Anatomy)<br><br>2. It\'s true, either we can\'t or don\'t want to find a baby sitter.<br><br>3. I have to say this is just bad! I would not be having sex until my child is put to bed, and I am sure he is asleep. It has never happened but I would be embarressed, I\'d feel bad because my son has seen me having sex. <br><br>4.No Baby Daddy Drama, LADIES GET THAT S*** IN CHECK! WE ARE GROWN FOLKS, You had your chance, MOVE THE F*** on! The only thing you should have contact with me for is OUR son, THAT\'S IT!<br><br>5. Believe it or not there are some guys who don\'t mind doing for your kids. I guess it\'s to get closer to you but, whatever.<br>No Rent A Daddies! Until I believe you are the "ONE" for me. My son\'s father is in his life. Thanks Anyway  (My Son will take PSP and Playstaion 2 Games and monetary donations). <br><br>6. I guess I would have to Agree with this, Move On. I can\'t f*** you until 10:00 when my son will be sleep!<br><br>7.Guess this is true, if the family is loveable....You will miss them. Can\'t Argue that!<br><br>8. I teach my son to respect all adults. If my son were to say that to his potential step father, I would check it. Not to take sides, but he will respect adults! Especially his step father!<br><br>9. No YOU don\'t know what I\'m going to do. People shouldn\'t  make the same mistake twice, If you knock me up, it\'s because you and I went to the doctor got tested for diseases and we mutually agreed we would have unprotected sex. So YOU knew that there was a possiblity this could happen!<br><br>10.I WAS grossly irresponsible and I wouldn\'t even call it that!  I am happy I had my son, even by the guy I had him with. Even though we are no longer together, I don\'t regret him being the father of my son. And as I mentioned earlier,  some people do...But shouldn\'t make the same mistake twice. <br><br>11. Uneccessary Expenditures, ANYTHING YOU SPEND ON ME OR MY CHILD(REN) IS AND NECESSARY not to mention WORTH IT!<br><br>12 True, MY SON come\'s first. YOU WILL NEVER BE # 1<br><br>13. I won\'t even get into child support. That varies from case to case.  Unless you are dealing with a Diddy I don\'t even think it\'s worth it. I can\'t take off work to go through all the court dates and filing motions ect...and only get enough money to pay the BGE bill.  If your not my child\'s father, I\'m not taking you to child support. I got this!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2235162">SugarTits</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235162" class="dsq-comment-message">Hey Slim.........me likey.....good way to address all the issues..........nice touch....my baby is 6yo, too. She is the love of my life.</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2235590" href="http://robotsatemygrandmother.blogspot.com" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">MandiiNichole</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235590" class="dsq-comment-message">*stands & applauds for Slim Goodie*</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2235657" href="http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&amp;friendid=400560191" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">kingsmomma</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2235657" class="dsq-comment-message">I second that emotion</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2249430">kyas_mami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2249430" class="dsq-comment-message">PREACH!!!!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2236691">LawdHaveMercy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2236691" class="dsq-comment-message">SO CAN WE GET A POST CALLED 13 REASONS NOT TO DATE BABY DADDIES OR SINGLE FATHERS? TELL YOUR BROTHER TO COME UP WITH THAT LIST.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2236896" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2236896" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2236896" class="dsq-comment-message">I\'m a step ahead of you <a href=http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2008/06/23/men-or-women-with-children/ rel="nofollow"> you wish is my command</a></div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2236912" href="http://myspace.com/aimjusmiselph" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">BlogXilla</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2236912" class="dsq-comment-message">That\'s a link**</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2237199">LawdHaveMercy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2237199" class="dsq-comment-message">LOL..That\'s not 13 reasons,that\'s only 5,now see why is there more reasons not to date a single mother?</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2239500">hmm</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2239500" class="dsq-comment-message">I thought Necole Bitchie did a list for the baby daddies soon after Xilla originally did this post... hers was really good. there seems to be a lot of recycled post floating around here lately. o well</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2237097" href="http://mzvirgo.com/" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">mzvirgo</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2237097" class="dsq-comment-message">Ooooohhh Xilla...<br><br>Even though you didn\'t write this, I remember this one all too well. And I have no kids. <br><br>But if the roles were reversed and I said I didn\'t want a man with kids, then they would be just as offended. True story, I said that to a guy, not knowing he had kids and he got all in my face like, "what\'s wrong with a man with kids?? I have kids, I take care of them, blah blah". They kill me with that statement with the "I take care of my kids", as if it were to make the situation any better. You\'re supposed to take care of your kids!!<br><br>But I just feel like people have preferences and there are some people out there who don\'t mind dating a man or a woman who has kids. I have tried it, but the truth was, his kids were a priority. Always has been and always will be.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2238006">tay</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2238006" class="dsq-comment-message">Ok, first I\'d like to say "well dam", and secondly.. I am a single mother and truthfully, honestly none of those 13 reasons apply to me. I am grateful and fortunate enough to be real as they have ever came, have lots of family (always willing to spend time w/my lil one), have more than enough of my own money, and my "baby daddy" is happily married which Im thanking god for.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2238713">NaijaWifey</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2238713" class="dsq-comment-message">SLIM GOODIE, <br><br>YOU HIT THE DAMN, NAIL ON THE HEAD....<br><br>XILLA YOU AND YOUR IGNORANT POST HAVE BEEN WORKING MY NERVES FOR THE PAST WEEK.....<br><br>I TRULY FEEL FOR THE THICK, SINGLE MOMMAS TRYING TO DO THE RIGHT THING, YOU ARE ABOUT TO PUSH THEM OFF THE BRIDGE!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2248023">Slim Goodie</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2248023" class="dsq-comment-message">LOL, Naija You are funny. That was good Tho....</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2239094">VIChick</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2239094" class="dsq-comment-message">Some of your points are valid xilla but what about guys with kids. I think some men have alot of crazy ass issues. I am so sick and tired of men telling me oh i am single but have kids with different women I might add, and they swear up and down they dont have baby momma drama but the bitch calls your phone wanting to know how  do you know "her man". Women are like men also, once you lay down with them and you two have kids that dick is still theirs regardless. And ni**@s will still hit it because they still have access to it. I am so sick of men with crazy ass baby momma issues, but in this day and age it is so hard to meet someone that doesn\'t have kids.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2239643">JMK</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2239643" class="dsq-comment-message">I am a dude talking to a single mom right now.  I agree with some points and feel the babysitter one for sure.  Sometimes I feel like she just doesn\'t want to hang out, not that she can\'t but doesn\'t try.  Anatomy is still good, and luckily in this picture the father has been out of the picture for awhile.  With the kid since we aren\'t together I have no say and respect that but will talk to her about that before we are serious, so I do not get the "your not my dad" etc.  <br><br>Real problem I have found though is that 1. she uses the kid against you.  and 2. She seems to talk to an endless number of guys (since I have morals I feel bad for her kid cause she has all these guys in her life).  So I guess in a way it isnt the single mother aspect that the problem but instead the fact that she still act like a whore (something that is universal, mom or no children)</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2246050">what?</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2246050" class="dsq-comment-message">Why are you still talking to her if she has this endless amount of dudes in her life?<br><br>And how the hell is she finding time to do all of that?  It all has to do with the woman\'s priorities.  Honestly by the time I\'m done with work and doing everything for my child that I have to do when I get home I don\'t feel like kicking it, or going through the trouble of getting a babysitter.  But thats neither here nor there, JMK I don\'t think this single mother is feeling you...</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2247120">JMK</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2247120" class="dsq-comment-message">Well right now she has no job cause she is preparing for school.  In all honesty I understand the priorities but the real problem is that she doesn\'t do much.  And the babysitter thing is usually after she says she wants to hang out etc, then when the time comes she can\'t find a sitter.  Thats why I say that.  I can deal with not having all her free time etc, but its when you know she is hangin out with another dude over you when she has that free time ocassionally.  I understand friends are friends, but when time is limited (and yes I work nights so she has the ability to hang out with friends when I am working), and she chooses not to hang out thats when I have the problem.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2248172">Slim Goodie</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2248172" class="dsq-comment-message">And my thing is that you are still attracted to her. (New Blog) Guys that love deadbeat women!<br>She doesn\'t work, she\'s preparing for school, (school started in August you know).<br>How will she support her kids while in school with no job? If she\'s on welfare that\'s fine and none of my business, but these women kill me with no job, kids, don\'t even WANT to do anything with themselves and guys are all over them. <br>Why do you like her, and it seems as if you are hurt that she puts you on the back burner. Please be honest, if your whipped then that\'s what it is. I\'m just curious.... You seem pretty decent!</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2242121">2Sassy</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2242121" class="dsq-comment-message">Im sorry, I\'m a women with no kids...and in general, if I were a man I\'d never date a woman with kids. So sorry {in my best Korean voice when the don\'t have your color hair (yours, not mine. I rock it too natural)}! And the ladies on here with the strongest views are the same ones who seem to be doing a spectacular job. Don\'t be so mad and try not to take it personal. It\'s bigger than you and I know, I know...yall gonna hit me with some anger but the fact remains the same...people with children have a bunch of extra responsibilities that a single person with no kid can wait to take on. (And this goes for both sexes, too.) Don\'t  judge me..hahaa</div>\
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	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2242428" href="http://www.myspace.com/cishma" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Carmen Sandiego</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2242428" class="dsq-comment-message">now y u go and start this mess again??? damn can of worms is what it is....</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2246732">kyas_mami</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2246732" class="dsq-comment-message">As a single mom I have to admit, you have some very valid points here Xilla.  These are some of the things I was most concerned with, when I decided I was ready to start dating again.  My boyfriend has children so I think it was a little easier for him to understand the different things that could come up that might prevent me from giving him my undivided attention and things like that.  When we started dating I made sure that he understood that I was in no way looking for a "replacement" father for my daughter, I think that it\'s very important to get that out of the way as early as possible so it doesnt come back to bite you in the ass later.  Dating for single parents can be very scary, but it\'s alot easier when the other party involved is mature, secure within themselves, and if they have kids themselves<br><br>I also want to say that the "tag you\'re it" point is SOME BULL!!! My daughters BIOLOGICAL father has never been a part of her life, we broke up when I was 3 mos pregnant... I didnt want to file for child support on him because I KNEW that once he found out he would quit whatever job he had, and I didnt WANT shit from his ass, but because I was getting assistance I HAD to.  Not every woman wants to hit a nigga for child support just because she can... besides I didnt even kno you could do some ish like that and i LiVE in Cali</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2248235" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2248235" href="http://myspace.com/essaykay" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Sherine</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2248235" class="dsq-comment-message">As a female with no kids, I totally understand and I can respect it.<br>Ive tried dating men with kids.. and its interesting to say the least.<br><br>What I find HIGHLY entertaining...is MEN with kids..Who dont like dating WOMEN with kids...<br>Makes no sense to me. <br><br>Ive just found for me, its about having someone who can offer me exactly what I can offer them. After me, thats basically it, so If I meet a man and it gets serious.. He can be a priority in my world.. When dating my ex.. It was him, his son, ofcourse the baby mama..and then me.<br><br>I promised myself I would NEVER do that to myself again. I deserve more than that. Interesting blog indeed.</div>\
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	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2249006">ANuJS</span>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2249006" class="dsq-comment-message">What about the men that have about 5 different baby mommas....where picking up the kids from their motherS house can take all damn day.</div>\
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	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2252001" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2252001" href="http://myspace.com/jittauni" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">Jittauni</a>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2252001" class="dsq-comment-message">This is the most ignorant piece of sh*t I have ever read. I don\'t even have kids and I\'m offended. I mean does the same go for single fathers? Do we look at them like their contaminated?! No, for the most part we applaud a man who takes care of his own seed but when a woman does it she\'s undateable. BS!</div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2252143" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2252143" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <a id="dsq-author-user-2252143" href="http://projectvibe.net" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">dub</a>\
	 </cite>\
	 </div>\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2252143" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2252143" class="dsq-comment-message">Well #1 you can rule out because she already had the baby... so if u like what u see post delivery, chances are she\'s all good!</div>\
	 </div>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-header-2253232" class="dsq-comment-header">\
	 <cite id="dsq-cite-2253232" class="dsq-comment-cite">\
	 <span id="dsq-author-user-2253232">Kim</span>\
	 </cite>\
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	 <div id="dsq-comment-body-2253232" class="dsq-comment-body">\
	 <div id="dsq-comment-message-2253232" class="dsq-comment-message">Jittauni I totally agree.<br>And you wonder why is it that the black family structure is so fucked up today. If a woman tell a guy that she has kids, the man will react as if she has Ebola. Whats funny is that alot of single fathers will bust out with the baby pictures thinking thats supposed to score him some points with the ladies.</div>\
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	 </li>\
	 </ul>\
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