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<rss xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for rrieselavy</title><link>http://disqus.com/by/rrieselavy/</link><description></description><atom:link href="http://disqus.com/rrieselavy/comments.rss" rel="self"></atom:link><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 14:26:25 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Gender Heroes: Majestic Legay</title><link>http://friendofdorothywilde.tumblr.com/post/13640241619#comment-377842414</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Awww, great!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;(I still hold that the Glitterpolitic roadtrip movie would be the greatest movie of all time.)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 Dec 2011 14:26:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: on bella hate</title><link>http://creatrixtiara.tumblr.com/post/11080618582#comment-327662506</link><description>&lt;p&gt;It's super cute. Maryrose Wood is also the nicest person on earth.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I don't think it's so much a question good at everything as much as having character traits and interests beyond the person, as anyone, even the most love-lorn, will--that's just being human. Felicia, of the above book, loves writing poetry and NYC; Ruby Oliver is into thrift shopping and playing head games with her therapist, so on. From what I've read about Bella...she likes reading? Maybe?&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2011 21:39:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: on bella hate</title><link>http://creatrixtiara.tumblr.com/post/11080618582#comment-327646685</link><description>&lt;p&gt;There are protagonists in YA literature that do the vulnerability/losing-themselves-in-a-partner thing while still being well-rounded and interesting characters: the Ruby Oliver Series by E. Lockhart, Down to the Bone by Mayra Lazara Doles, Sex Kittens and Horn Dawgs Fall in Love by Maryrose Wood, Freak Show by James St. James, to name some off the top of my head.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Oct 2011 21:31:21 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://creatrixtiara.tumblr.com/post/6580636471</title><link>http://creatrixtiara.tumblr.com/post/6580636471#comment-227720385</link><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfUspBo4EwM" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EfUspBo4EwM"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watc...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;The other video is awesome too!&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 16 Jun 2011 19:43:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: San Francisco people: could I get a welcoming party at SFO?</title><link>http://creatrixtiara.tumblr.com/post/6259074849#comment-219458965</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Hopstop will be your best friend. Looks like you'll have a hike if you have to hoof it, but it's doable: &lt;a href="http://www.hopstop.com?action=route&amp;amp;route_id=fdad91d8bc299y0c" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.hopstop.com?action=route&amp;amp;route_id=fdad91d8bc299y0c"&gt;http://www.hopstop.com?acti...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 06 Jun 2011 16:56:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TWO WEEKS till San Francisco - what should I know?!</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/5999644878#comment-214659294</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Tipping is minimum 15%, preferably 20% &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 31 May 2011 02:46:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Search terms for this blog that made me go &amp;#8220;o_O&amp;#8221; or &amp;#8220;XD&amp;#8221;</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/5728253135#comment-209471575</link><description>&lt;p&gt;The "strange girls" thing is from a sideshow freak show poster that pops up on Tumblr now and again. &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 22 May 2011 13:24:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: looking for toppings ideas</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/5236038328#comment-198399939</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'd go with super twee little cake decos for the Marie Antoinette--tiny little sugar flowers/edible flowers coated in sugar, pastel sprinkles, maraschino cherries, and the like&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.completecakedec.com.au/Sugar-Flowers.htm" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.completecakedec.com.au/Sugar-Flowers.htm"&gt;http://www.completecakedec....&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.cakesaroundtown.com.au/catalog/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.cakesaroundtown.com.au/catalog/"&gt;http://www.cakesaroundtown....&lt;/a&gt; is based in Brisbane, and they sell edible diamonds and pearls: &lt;a href="http://www.cakesaroundtown.com.au/catalog/cachousdiamonds-shimmer-c-1_3.html?osCsid=41929545d2231eb8a6d2b1ccf6c24888" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.cakesaroundtown.com.au/catalog/cachousdiamonds-shimmer-c-1_3.html?osCsid=41929545d2231eb8a6d2b1ccf6c24888"&gt;http://www.cakesaroundtown....&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Little cake rounds/hearts/flowers cut out of a dense cake, like a pound cake, with a cookie cutter might be fun too.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 May 2011 12:05:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Gender makes people human?</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/5183013059#comment-196870920</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Dr. Cox is an awful, awful character in general--the hinge of his humor is making fun of Dorian by referring to him as a girl/feminine/gay, because omg being a girl is a bad thing don'tcha know let me do it every single time I talk to you to show you I am alpha.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 04 May 2011 09:47:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Male Submission Art - Reaching around a smaller boy sitting with his...</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/4770314471#comment-188650815</link><description>&lt;p&gt;One word:&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Fanfiction.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 Apr 2011 23:58:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/4735027470</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/4735027470#comment-187246319</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I know it from this: &lt;a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CbHgLMANR4" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1CbHgLMANR4"&gt;http://www.youtube.com/watc...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2011 22:18:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/4696146908</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/4696146908#comment-186639989</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Jessica Mullen's responses crack me the hell up, though. YOU THINK I'M A FLAKY BITCH? I'MMA BE THE BIGGEST FLAKE EVER.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 17 Apr 2011 21:07:54 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Autostraddle &amp;mdash; Postcards from Uganda: An American Lesbian Abroad</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/4634586407#comment-185422719</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I'm the one that posted I Studied Abroad in Africa :D&lt;br&gt;&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 15 Apr 2011 19:53:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: hey amber rae: Let it be, let it unfold</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/3934377864#comment-167609482</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I've had it happen all my life--I finally took up a Middle Path (a la Buddhism) approach to it--I don't have any expectations about anything, and I don't assume reactions or support from anyone but myself. It's hard and it involves a lot of distracting myself (that's how I read so much), but the efforts pay off. :D&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 18 Mar 2011 09:48:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Review: Sugar High Glitter City #ladypornday</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/3440999306#comment-153992260</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Oh! And SIR Productions (Shar and Jackie's studio) did two other movies I know of: Bend Over Boyfriend (instructional) and Hard Love/How to Fuck in High Heels (Plot-Based)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:52:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Review: Sugar High Glitter City #ladypornday</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/3440999306#comment-153991245</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Shar Rednour and Jackie Strano are still happily married and have adopted two young boys and a teenager. Shar blogs about how working in the sex industry prepared her for domestic life, which you will have to google because I'm at work. :D&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 22 Feb 2011 09:49:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: there are people on tumblr that are part of my circle that i would love to see together in romantic relationships</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/3161301449#comment-141913118</link><description>&lt;p&gt;As someone who had a relationship develop via Tumblr, I say OMG DON'T DO IT unless s/he's local. Both of us ended up getting hurt, her more than me, and it was awful all around.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 07 Feb 2011 09:20:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2992013785</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2992013785#comment-136842267</link><description>&lt;p&gt;A good tailor (or friend that's handy with sewing) could add some straps out of a black fabric to match the corset--I had it done with a prom dress.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 29 Jan 2011 16:03:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://mlle.tumblr.com/post/2747696388</title><link>http://mlle.tumblr.com/post/2747696388#comment-129171480</link><description>&lt;p&gt;There's a Paris Exposition chapter, along with the treehouses and bohenmia and allusions to E. Nesbitt? I really need to read this.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Jan 2011 15:08:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: WHAT IS GLITTER POLITIC?</title><link>http://friendofdorothywilde.tumblr.com/post/2702317831#comment-127790083</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Re: reviews, I have a proper (though young) book blog, over at: &lt;a href="http://friendofdorothywilde.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" title="http://friendofdorothywilde.blogspot.com/"&gt;http://friendofdorothywilde...&lt;/a&gt; . Funny thing is, the authors usually swing by to thank me (and I've struck up a bit of an e-comradeship with a couple), but I miss random conversations with people that sometimes I never see again, and some that are my friends years after the fact.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Funny how we migrate, no? I'll refrain from quoting 70s music at you, but the internet runs in a circular motion--I used to stalk you, now I have my own stalkers. (Why, I haven't the foggiest, I'm not THAT interesting)&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 11 Jan 2011 17:07:43 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2580724351</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2580724351#comment-123584683</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Urban Tantra, by Barbara Carallas, is a pretty low-bullshit queer friendly guide to Tantra that acknowledges its roots without getting all APPROPRIATION YAY.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 03 Jan 2011 15:23:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://friendofdorothywilde.tumblr.com/post/2573847505</title><link>http://friendofdorothywilde.tumblr.com/post/2573847505#comment-123350456</link><description>&lt;p&gt;1. Seriously? Seriously. The marriage equality protest made me see red, too. Not the time nor place, ladies.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I watched the making-of, and iirc the scriptwriters didn't know anything about riot grrl or third-wave feminism going into it, which I think is a little...counterproductive? You really couldn't get a former zinester or head of a Riot Grrrl chapter to write this thing?&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;I enjoy the hell out of it, I just wish it had more heart, you know? &lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 02 Jan 2011 21:08:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://friendofdorothywilde.tumblr.com/post/2350303704</title><link>http://friendofdorothywilde.tumblr.com/post/2350303704#comment-119686626</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Subject? Nope, Leotron.&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;Ask-er? If I know you, I'm not miffed.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 27 Dec 2010 07:37:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2436325902</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2436325902#comment-118467286</link><description>&lt;p&gt;Bookish lesbians always have awesome research skills--and THAT is sexier to me than anything else.&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 24 Dec 2010 15:43:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Exotic Gawking Tourism boo</title><link>http://blog.themerchgirl.net/post/2369701427#comment-114747841</link><description>&lt;p&gt;I remember distinctly that my Rome rough guide was one of the first places I read "Haggling is for native Italian old ladies who need to do it, don't do it if you're a tourist."&lt;/p&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">rrieselavy</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 19 Dec 2010 08:51:09 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>