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Re: All the Single Ladies, and Their Babies

renu — Fri, 08 Jan 2010 11:38:28 -0000

I'm almost 30 year old female and I have to say that I know that I really want to be a mom but I'm not 100% sold on the idea of marriage. I grew up with out a dad since he passed away when I was six so I know the importance of one. However, now that my mom is on husband number four marriage doesn't always offer the stability that a child needs. However, I have to say that if you choose to have a child without the father knowing then you shouldn't be asking for child support.

Re: Douchebag Math, or Player Population Control

renu — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 09:38:54 -0000

I did thank him at the hosptial and later when I arrived home. I couldn't have imagined being there all alone. I am still working on getting my full strength back so we shall see what happens.

Re: Douchebag Math, or Player Population Control

renu — Wed, 09 Dec 2009 23:33:23 -0000

So I figured out this week that I found a dad. I was in accident on Monday. I am doing fine but one guy friend spent two nights with me at the hospital while other girl/guy friends came to just visit. He stayed in the chair next to my bed, worked from the hospital, and even bought me flowers. I realize that I shouldn't let a guy like this go. He has never done anything to make it seem like he wants to be more than friends. I would think he would do this for any friend. So how do I let this guy not slip through the cracks?

Re: An American Virgin: Goddess or Circus Freak?

renu — Mon, 30 Nov 2009 12:30:12 -0000

I didn't lose my virginity until I was 27. I actually have three other girlfriends who waited as well. There are more virgins out there than people realize. I didn't tell anyone since I didn't want to be judged for my decision. I didn't date much in college and then became a serial dater after college. I wanted to wait until I was in love. Which didn't happen for me until my mid twenties. I didn't tell the guy I was with at the the time that I was a virgin so I am not sure what kind of reaction I would have gotten. I am glad I waited since I am more comfortable and confident with my body now than when I was 17.

Re: How Women Wind Up Alone With a House Full of Cats

renu — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 14:02:50 -0000

I live in DC and we have a similar column called Date Lab. The one thing people say over and over again is that they don't feel the chemistry. I am not sure how you measure that right away. I always thought of a date as hey I am getting to know you a little better to see if I want to know you a little more.

http://www.washingtonpost.c...

The latest one.

Re: Stop Putting Out for Alpha Asshats

renu — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 13:00:58 -0000

Susan,

I want to thank you for all the hours that you put into this blog. I am in my late twenties and still face much of the hook up culture. I was in sub par relationship with someone I am still crazy about and it was not until I started reading your blog I realized that I deserved better. It has been hard and lonely at times since I now started turning down asshats and hookups but thanks to you I am okay with holding out for quality.

Re: Gripping, Gratifying Glee

renu — Fri, 04 Sep 2009 10:11:36 -0000

I caught the show on a random night at home and I was hooked. I agree that Matthew Morrison is great eye candy.

Re: How to Find a Great Guy

renu — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 17:05:15 -0000

I wonder how many men on the West Coast are hetro sexual males?

Re: Is Your Best Guy Friend Thinking of You With His Right Hand?

renu — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 17:31:47 -0000

I have several guy friends. A lot of them are not interested in dating they just like the attention having female friends.

Re: How to Get the Sweetest Revenge Ever

renu — Tue, 14 Jul 2009 10:46:34 -0000

I very much believe in karma and the energy you put out into the world is what you get back. Maybe getting dumbed or breaking up (I know from experience it hurt just as much) with the rat bastard is karma's way of showing you there is something much better out there for you.