http://disqus.com/by/qnj327/enSat, 28 Mar 2009 01:15:58 -0000http://7777777.tumblr.com/post/90443003#comment-7579492<p>Rich,</p><p>When I was single I had absolutely no problem asking a guy out! Being a female of course does not mean you are born with the innate right to be asked out by every eligible bachelor. But a lot of people, both sexes included, are not confident and are afraid of rejection. Girls use the societal stigma that a 'guy should ask a girl out' as a crutch; a reason to justify their inability to approach someone new and open themselves up for rejection. However, I think it is an opportunity for the girls, who do have the guts, to ask a guy out. When a girl has confidence, often it is assumed that she has something special about her that allows her to have such good self esteem. Although personally I never felt like I was 'God's gift' or anything, I knew a guy would think I must have something special about me if I am confident enough to ask him out. When I would ask a guy out, he was usually surprised by my confidence and intrigued enough to not decline a chance to get to know me. So, although it is a great opportunity for ladies... you can use it to your own advantage. If a girl sees that you are very confident (even if you're just pretending to be confident, which I did) they'll want to know more. The worst that can happen, is they say no. There are much more pros than cons.<br></p>qnj327Sat, 28 Mar 2009 01:15:58 -0000