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Re: Swarming as a Depression-Resistance Strategy

pearl_mattenson — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 18:31:45 -0000

I think I am a little bit that way myself.
The first reaching out takes effort but it is usually worth it...

Re: Swarming as a Depression-Resistance Strategy

pearl_mattenson — Tue, 10 Feb 2009 14:58:07 -0000

Good for you for having that instinct Carolynn. Thanks so much for sharing your experience!

Re: Swarming as a Depression-Resistance Strategy

pearl_mattenson — Mon, 09 Feb 2009 21:49:23 -0000

There is more to come dear one... swarm away...

Re: Teach Your Children Well: Redefining “Charity” as “Justice”

pearl_mattenson — Sun, 08 Feb 2009 13:01:06 -0000

Thanks! Glad you checked this out. All the best...

Re: Do You Hear Your Calling?

carolynn — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 14:22:30 -0000

Hey, Pearl. I didn't realize it was you who wrote this post, (I usually take a peek at who the author is), although I'm not surprised. I always find your posts very insightful and wise. Thank you for sharing yourself.

P.S. ...the "wee bit" is actually a gross understatement. ;o)

Re: Do You Hear Your Calling?

pearl_mattenson — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 13:59:21 -0000

That "wee bit" tells me its a kind of delicious scary. Enjoy it.

Re: What Will You Forgive Yourself For Today?

Carrie — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 10:17:24 -0000

May you feel better Pearl.

Re: What Will You Forgive Yourself For Today?

pearl_mattenson — Fri, 06 Feb 2009 06:20:57 -0000

Perfect question for me today- I am quite sick right now and I forgive myself for thinking I was invincible and could work through anything AND iI forgive myself for cancelling all appointments today and going to bed!

Re: HURRY UP! 6 Secrets to Get Your Kids Out the Door on Time

pearl_mattenson — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 17:57:40 -0000

Rick this is terrific advice. And I think there is something to be said about how to be if you end up in Act I. Or maybe, how not to be? That is, it isn't really helpful to blame your kids or make them feel responsible for what you have not prepared for as parent. And if you are late? In the scheme of things, staying calm and connected to your kids is so much more important than the consequences of being late - for them and for you.

Re: Positivity; How Do You Keep It Alive?

pearl_mattenson — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 06:53:32 -0000

Taking time to appreciate what I have, staying connected to the friends in my life who support a positive outlook and working with my own coach!

Re: What Is Your Favorite Meal of the Day, and How Will You Enjoy It Today?

lifecoachsandy — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 08:15:12 -0000

Why are you starving yourself? Eat more food!!

Re: What Is Your Favorite Meal of the Day, and How Will You Enjoy It Today?

pearl_mattenson — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 07:37:58 -0000

Okay, breakfast used to be mine but now that I have shifted to protein shakes for breakfast and dinner I have to put a plug in for lunch. I make egg white omelettes or a nice hearty soup or a big healthy salad. I stop in the middle of my day and relish in the quiet (everyone else at school or work) and the gift of being able to do what I love in my own home.

Re: Is Your Marriage Inviolable? Time To Fix It!

pearl_mattenson — Sun, 25 Jan 2009 20:41:59 -0000

Thanks Sandy. :)

Re: Why Celibacy Is Better Than Sex

pearl_mattenson — Fri, 16 Jan 2009 13:02:14 -0000

Gwen- I love your voice in this post. Clarity and dignity and taking care of yourself.. do you know about www.girlsgonemild.com? You might want to check it out...

Re: Adam’s Rib: Feminist Thoughts On Being “A Helpmate”

storyteller — Thu, 15 Jan 2009 01:55:43 -0000

my pleasure, Pearl, thank you for missing me! xo L

Re: The Smell of Crayons: Tapping into your Creative Freedom

Danette — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 23:44:19 -0000

Thanks Pearl! Let me know how it goes. :)

Re: Adam’s Rib: Feminist Thoughts On Being “A Helpmate”

pearl_mattenson — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:03:09 -0000

Lucia I have missed you voice here! Thanks for this. When I started reading, I almost thought you were telling a tale out of your imagination-- I tend to have a catastrophizing mind --the reality hit me like your husband's actual fall. Thanks for sharing this.

Re: The Smell of Crayons: Tapping into your Creative Freedom

pearl_mattenson — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 21:43:30 -0000

You nailed this one Danette. I can smell the crayons from here. And from now on I am chucking the markers at my workshops- crayons is definitely the way to go. Thanks,

Re: The Wonderful World of Curry

Devorah Stone — Tue, 13 Jan 2009 14:39:18 -0000

I had no idea that there was curry in Japan. Although I do know about wasabi, that's their hot stuff!

I have this wonderful cook book called 50 Great Curries of India by Camellia Panjabi. But the best curries come from just messing around in the kitchen!

Re: The Wonderful World of Curry

pearl_mattenson — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 22:58:27 -0000

mortar and pestle feel beyond me but I will check. thanks!

Re: The Wonderful World of Curry

pearl_mattenson — Sun, 11 Jan 2009 12:51:21 -0000

Curry is comfort food to me.
When I was in Japan as a child, they used to sell these bouillons of curry that you woudl put in a pot with water and I guess all the spices were in the bouilon. The idea of a curry from scratch has always intimidated me. Any resources to look to with good EASY recipes?

Re: Waiting for the Ring: Romantic or Anti-Feminist?

pearl_mattenson — Sat, 10 Jan 2009 19:12:01 -0000

My husband proposed with a Japanese "daruma". We had been in Japan together several years earlier and he had filled in one of the eyes and made the wish that our relationship would make it to marriage. Upon proposing we filled in the 2nd eye together. As for the ring, my engagement band actually belonged to MY grandmother. He did supply the diamond which was very small exactly to my liking!

Re: Rituals Я Us: How To Create Rituals to Sustain Your Relationship

pearl_mattenson — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 18:40:09 -0000

I love the book club idea!

Re: Five Nonmedicinal Ways To Help Your Child Cope With Anxiety

pearl_mattenson — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 12:46:10 -0000

What a gift you are to your child. Thank you for this wonderful wisdom and the fruits of your loving tireless efforts on her behalf

Re: What Does Your Little Voice Say?

pearl_mattenson — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 10:03:49 -0000

Okay I have the full panoply of voices and they all vie for my attention. Sometimes, my truest authentic self's voice is "little" and thankfully today she is taking up her full rightful space. It is a beautiful thing to hear, "Honey- you are awesome. Keep doing what you are doing becasue it is working- and both you and the people around you are better for it!" It's all about which litle voice you chose to listen to...