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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for Heather</title><link>http://disqus.com/people/fc26f56f965c8bf00c55ce0c855bfef7/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:00:48 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: It&amp;#8217;s the little things</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/it8217s_the_little_things/#comment-3617677</link><description>Thanks, ded.  I really do come from amazing parents. One of the things that I hold dearest that they have taught me is to enjoy the smallest things.  I hope that I can pass the same thing on to my children!  Thanks for the comment.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 06 Sep 2007 20:21:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Job Jar</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/job_jar/#comment-3617687</link><description>It really was a great memory as a child.  It was nice having a common goal as a family to get the house clean.  I remember the thrill of picking those fun ones...it made the cleaning worth it and it made me realize that our cleaning wasn't more important than our time together as a family.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 14 Sep 2007 22:47:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Cooking Blunder</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/cooking_blunder/#comment-3617705</link><description>I am laughing at some of these comments...Honey, aren't you so sweet about the cooking thing all though we both know that isn't true!  Priscilla, we were laughing so hard at your comment!  Too Funny! Martha, I'm sorry :)  Jessica, Kale?  Well, at least you were brave enough to try it...he actually threw up???</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Sep 2007 20:14:19 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Peanut Butter Popcorn-YUM!</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/peanut_butter_popcorn_yum/#comment-3617691</link><description>I am so glad that you liked it. I love the mix of salty and sweet too!  Thanks for stopping by.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 24 Sep 2007 12:47:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Cooking Blunder</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/cooking_blunder/#comment-3617708</link><description>That is so funny, Susan!  I don't think I have made anything with coffee in it, so I will have to remember that one!  Great story.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 10:39:44 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Men are Like Cats</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/men_are_like_cats/#comment-3617725</link><description>Now, Ben, I don't believe it was that bad.  The house looked wonderful and the kids were all in tact.  I know you aren't that bad :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2007 19:19:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Price of Sausage</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/the_price_of_sausage/#comment-3617734</link><description>DED, I can't believe you remember them.  That's great!  And no...no damage that I can tell!  Too funny about Lamb Chops!  It is funny that she remembers and makes that connection so many years later!  Great story.  I love the story about Nemo...it's funny the older they get the more skeptical they get :).  Hanlie, Thanks!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 29 Sep 2007 22:47:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Halloween&amp;#8211;What to do?</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/halloween8211what_to_do/#comment-3617750</link><description>Yeah.  We have gone to the church things several years in a row.  I guess I am wondering about school?  Do you send your munchkins?  Do you let them dress up?</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Oct 2007 07:26:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Halloween&amp;#8211;What to do?</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/halloween8211what_to_do/#comment-3617748</link><description>Interesting perspectives.  Thanks for adding.  I look forward to seeing that "Are you a Pumpkin Christian?"  In looking at stuff about Halloween (I just linked to something about the origin) I was reminded that in a rebuttal to what the Celts began as a celebration of the dead and their spirits, the Christians created a day called All Saints Day (or all hallows day).  Halloween was the eve of that day.  Too bad that All Hallows day didn't stick around like Halloween did.  :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Oct 2007 11:53:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: What Women Want</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/what_women_want/#comment-3617746</link><description>I think it is so true that we do have to fight to figure out what communicates with our spouse.  It is a way of saying I will sacrifice my desires and wants for what is best for this marriage.  I think at times we do get tired and give up and then we realize what we are missing and pick it back up again.  Thanks for adding to this discussion!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Oct 2007 11:55:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Halloween&amp;#8211;What to do?</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/halloween8211what_to_do/#comment-3617759</link><description>Good point, Rodney.  You are right. I think too many times we make God too wimpy of a God.  We don't talk about the fact that He has defeated death and darkness.  My point here is really directed at the time surrounding Halloween.  I get angry at the celebration of evil...or even the way they innocently put it out there without thinking of the effects that it can have on young children.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I am all for alternatives and you put it in a great way when you said "If we choose an alternative that glorifies God, then why not celebrate?"  I get frustrated with people that draw the line so much that they can't even find joy in the alternatives.  Thanks for this perspective!  Hey, maybe someone should show one of those movies at a church on Halloween.  That would be cool!  Great idea about All Saints Day by the way...never have thought about that one.  You should do it!  I think it is November 2 for some reason???</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 14:25:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: What Men Want</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/what_men_want/#comment-3617770</link><description>Ok...so I should probably say here that Ben is one of the friendliest people I know and hates no one.  In fact, I rarely even see him dislike anyone.  He doesn't hate Josh Groban...he actually bought me a CD once to be nice and romantic.  He also goes whenever I ask to get feminine products (sorry Ben I had to squeal on you)  :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 04 Oct 2007 20:22:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Halloween&amp;#8211;What to do?</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/halloween8211what_to_do/#comment-3617763</link><description>lew,&lt;br&gt;Great idea!  Growing up, we always kinda hid away on Halloween night.  As I grew up I was bothered by that but didn't realize why.  It was because we were hiding away from the world when we had an open door.  Since then we have spoken about it many times and my parents say that they regret doing that now.  Rodney, good perspectives!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 07 Oct 2007 23:59:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Blizzard of &amp;#8216;93</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/the_blizzard_of_821693/#comment-3617794</link><description>Great story, Debbie.  It is amazing how God put his protection around that little car.  I am glad he kept you safe and you have a good story to tell!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sarah, I think I remember you guys doing that.  That is funny...I remember it seeming so much fun!  I guess days of being snowed in would start getting old after awhile :)  And I was laughing so hard about the dog stealing your food!  Great story.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 12 Oct 2007 11:52:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Joel Osteen Bashing</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/joel_osteen_bashing/#comment-3617822</link><description>Ok.  I really do agree that we shouldn't bash Joel Osteen in a public sermon.  I really don't know much about the guy to be honest with you.  From what I can tell he is void of sound theology and doctrine.  It is so important to not build a ministry simply around personality.  I listened to Joel's most recent sermon from their website and he said something that makes the hair on the back of my neck stand up.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;He said that he isn't called to teach "any kind of deep theology or doctrinal stuff" but just wanted to encourage people.  People who criticize him are only jealous of his success.  He doesn't listen to his critics because they bring him down.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Ok... so if he isn't teaching theology or doctrine, what is he teaching instead?</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Oct 2007 14:35:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Garithes Yiouvetsi (Yummy Shrimp Dish)</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/garithes_yiouvetsi_yummy_shrimp_dish/#comment-3617863</link><description>This dish really is good.  Every time I make it people ask for the recipe :).  And of course with garlic, olive oil and tomatoes you can't go wrong!!!  Cathy, I would love to cook it for you and Sabrina.  We could make a night of it :)  I am sure it would be fine with chicken too although I have never tried it. I would think you would have to cook the chicken beforehand or bake it in the dish for longer though.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Oct 2007 09:28:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Photo Processing</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/photo_processing/#comment-3617874</link><description>So, I just realized that I posted the backwards day a week early.  I already have a couple good answers though. Thanks.  I will have to link to this again next week to get even more answers :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 08:45:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Garithes Yiouvetsi (Yummy Shrimp Dish)</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/garithes_yiouvetsi_yummy_shrimp_dish/#comment-3617865</link><description>No, we have never had it be tough.  The nice thing is that you are putting it in there raw so you 15 min. isn't too long.  Really the recipe says to watch for when the shrimp is pink so it may not take the full 15 min.  Sometimes I leave it in there a bit longer to toast the cheese a little more, but that doesn't usually take more then the required time.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 11:17:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Photo Processing</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/photo_processing/#comment-3617871</link><description>The Mac idea sounds awesome. I will be looking into that :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 31 Oct 2007 19:14:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Mrs. Field&amp;#8217;s Chocolate Chip Cookie Recipe</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/mrs_field8217s_chocolate_chip_cookie_recipe/#comment-3617895</link><description>Yeah. I just dusted it off this week and was impressed all over again :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 Nov 2007 13:48:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Mrs. Field&amp;#8217;s Chocolate Chip Cookie Recipe</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/mrs_field8217s_chocolate_chip_cookie_recipe/#comment-3617891</link><description>Ah yes.  Thanks, Ber.  I meant to put that in there.  And thanks for the advice on freezing them the other day.  It has worked wonderfully and I don't notice a difference in the taste/texture at all.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 03 Nov 2007 14:13:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Photo Processing</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/photo_processing/#comment-3617876</link><description>These are great to know.  I will def. be trying out Shutterfly since there have been so many good comments on them.  Thanks for all the input so far!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Nov 2007 22:03:21 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: No Smell of Fire</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/no_smell_of_fire/#comment-3617807</link><description>It is Travis Cottrell's band (the guy who tours with her).  He is wonderful.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 Nov 2007 21:50:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Come, Worship at the Feet of Santa</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/come_worship_at_the_feet_of_santa/#comment-3617957</link><description>Jessica,  I really think that you hit the nail on the head here.  It is our natural tendency to think of ourselves first and our American culture further encourages us to pursue personal fulfillment and comfort.  The thing is that too many times we spend more time wrapped up in this then in pursuing God's glory and making His glory known.  Great point...Thanks!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 05 Dec 2007 11:44:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Distractions of Life</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/distractions_of_life/#comment-3617976</link><description>You guys are sweet! It sounds like there are a lot of doers out there :).  Thanks for all the encouraging words.  As Priscilla said "Let the excitement and the unknown of life begin as long as God is on the journey with me!" Too true.  I sure do hope that we can all have adventure following God!  Thanks guys, you are awesome (in the words of Jessica).</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 13 Dec 2007 21:42:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: 3 New Disney Channel Stars</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/3_new_disney_channel_stars/#comment-3617883</link><description>You guys are hilarious!! Keep em coming</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 18 Dec 2007 23:43:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: State of the Blog</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/state_of_the_blog/#comment-3618003</link><description>These comments are good..keep them coming.  Thanks to all of you who visit and comment.  It makes doing this blog thing fun!  Rodney, I figured you were gleaning all kinds of amazing wisdom out of the mothering and recipe posts!  I am just so surprised.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 04 Jan 2008 09:23:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Personality Tests</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/personality_tests/#comment-3618042</link><description>Ha ha!  I knew we were similar!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jan 2008 10:30:04 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: That Stinky Thing Called PRIDE</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/that_stinky_thing_called_pride/#comment-3618074</link><description>These are all such encouraging comments.  It helps to know I am not the only one dealing with these issues.  It is so true too that so many times what gets in the way of overcoming pride is pride itself. I loved what Sarah said about when we try to worship God in our own strength we end up worshipping ourselves..OUCH. Thanks for all the comments.  Very encouraging!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 11:43:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: John Piper: Prosperity Gospel</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/john_piper_prosperity_gospel/#comment-3618079</link><description>What a great way to put all of this.  We are so surrounded by wealth and the worship of it that we tend to put more value in that then in the value of the gospel. This was a great message on just that!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 04 Feb 2008 17:06:18 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Change Change Change</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/change_change_change/#comment-3618111</link><description>Too funny.  I hadn't thought about literal v. figurative   box thing but oh so true :).  I will be emailing you for those numbers, Chip!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 22 Feb 2008 14:51:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Torturing an 18 Month Old</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/torturing_an_18_month_old/#comment-3618143</link><description>Yes, def. a story for the scrap books!  A few of the pics from our "wonderful" day are in our gallery.  He does look too old with his hair cut!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Mar 2008 22:13:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Working from Home Tips</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/working_from_home_tips/#comment-3618173</link><description>Sarah, I thought about the not working side too.  I have def. gone through those periods as well, but I tend to do what has a finished product.  That usually is work so that was what I would turn my hand to.  I am glad that it is working itself out as I put boundaries up because I would go from one extreme to the other never feeling balanced. It def. takes some time to work out the kinks, but I think once you do that it is well worth it to have that time with the kids and still be bringing in some much needed money :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 19:51:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why I&amp;#8217;m Mad at Miley Cyrus</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/why_i8217m_mad_at_miley_cyrus/#comment-3618192</link><description>I certainly hope this thing is not being blown out of proportion.  In fact, I wish more people would stand up and say enough is enough.  Andrea, I am Ben's wife and we do monitor EVERYTHING our daughter watches and listens too.  We believe in teaching our children through life experiences and the world around us and not constantly sheltering them just to cut them loose when they get into college.  We need to teach our kids to be Godly despite their surroundings.  We have kept a close eye on Hannah Montana/Mylie Cyrus in the event she would turn to this kind of thing.  Unfortunately, her parents cared more about money then protecting their own daughter.  We would NEVER envy any part of their lives.  I would rather be poor then have the life where I had to sell my own daughter to make a quick buck!!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 10:48:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why I&amp;#8217;m Mad at Miley Cyrus</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/why_i8217m_mad_at_miley_cyrus/#comment-3618200</link><description>ded, I think you make a good point in that we shouldn't expect from unsaved people a standard that we as Christians would hold.  The Bible makes it clear that there are different standards for those of us who walk in the light.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;For me, the outrage is the idea of a child posing nude in front of a camera being given a place and it being ok simply because she is a "rock star".  Whether Christian or not it just makes me sick to my stomach.  It makes me want to cry for that little girl that her parents (again saved or not) wouldn't protect her and let her be a child.  Instead, they allow the pressures of the media to rob her of that innocence and as a result I am sure she is feeling the back lash of it which I am sure hurts her feelings and is hard to understand.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I do think that we can tend to be too judgmental of non-Christians at times.  I know that I want to be careful not to do that, but my bone to pick is really with what this did to this young girl and as a result for those kids who looked up to her (whether right or wrong), it took away some of the fun and games of it and threw it into a place a 6 year old, 8 year old or even 15 year old shouldn't have to consider at this point in their lives.  We have, however, gotten to have some good talks with our oldest about it and for that I am grateful!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2008 23:26:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Pet Peeve #25 - Grocery Store Math</title><link>http://bencotten.disqus.com/pet_peeve_25_grocery_store_math/#comment-3618279</link><description>Ha ha...Emily, that was great!!!  I had forgotten that but I do remember the well thought out sentences we "got" to write!  Good times!! :)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 20:34:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Staying healthy and creative</title><link>http://wellspring-womens-ministry.disqus.com/staying_healthy_and_creative/#comment-12414816</link><description>Somehow I got behind on posts.  That is awesome, Jess.  What a cool and creative way to express what is going on.  Very much you!!  Thanks for sharing</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Heather</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 09 Jul 2009 20:00:48 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>