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Re: How has astrology influenced your life or a decision?

Ginger — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 09:39:42 -0000

I just started reading a book which provides great basic information about Astrology and tools to better understand your chart. The Only Astrology Book You'll Ever Need by Joanna Martine Woolfolk.

Re: What would improve your work space?

Ginger — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 09:49:47 -0000

To provide a balance to my 9-5+ workspace(the job which pays)I would have a playroom at home filled with light, creative energy, fresh flowers, soothing colors. Room to organize my art supplies so they weren't covered in dust & hidden in a closet, a place where I could leave unfinished masterpeieces sitting to dry and the cat wouldn't walk across them & leave a trail of little footprints all over my furniture. A comfy chair to read and a computer with no access to "work" email.

Re: What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever given or received?

Ginger — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 10:32:34 -0000

Thank you for reminding me to protect my innermost circle. I too received that advice a while ago and reading your post, after a hard couple of weeks, reminds me I may have developed a crack in my circle I need to patch. I often find myself being so open and honest, throwing everything out and it doesn't always come back leaving me feeling a bit empty or vulnerable. It is ok to build my own solar system where some planets are great for an occasional visit or best viewed from afar and to keep my "earth" filled with family and friends whose souls and wisdom help to lift my spirits and challenge me to be a better person.

Re: What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever given or received?

Ginger — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 15:06:04 -0000

I can see why this "stuck" for you. Great, simple advice. Thanks.

Re: What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever given or received?

Ginger — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 15:07:23 -0000

That is great advice!

Re: What kind of clutter is in your life?

Ginger — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 10:12:50 -0000

shoes...those can't be clutter :)

Re: What kind of clutter is in your life?

Ginger — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 12:30:53 -0000

Krysti-what a great idea and a good reason to throw a party :)
My sister, also an avid reader and I establshed our own "Coast to Coast Book Club" (I am in California, she is New York). We ship books, creative book reviews and fun little treats back and forth across the USA. She sent me Bookmarks in my last batch from her trip to Ireland. Even though we talk all the time and have email there is something spcial about a box arriving in the mail.

Re: If you had a totally open day, every day, what 4 or 5 things would you fill it with?

Ginger — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 09:29:53 -0000

1. Slow breakfast, coffee, reading (in my NY loft...I dream of being back there)
2. Trip to spa for facial and massage
3. Shopping at little unique home and/or paper stores on walk to...
4. Art Museum...home to change for a nice...
5. dinner with a good friend at a resturaunt with a great atmosphere and good service (pomegrante margaritas, perfectly coooked steak...and why not a great chocolate dessert (it is my perfect day...so no weight gain.....)

Re: What adventure are you craving (or planning for)?

Ginger — Fri, 29 Aug 2008 07:44:08 -0000

I hope to take a trip to one of the Singita Lodges in Africa for my 50th Birthday. Beautiful, luxurious and peaceful. I have had their website in my "favorites" for years.
http://www.singita.com/

Re: This Labor Day, how would you change our work culture?

Ginger — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 00:46:20 -0000

I agree. Vacation is a benefit- time earned to decompress and rejuvenate. When it is still expected that you take a laptop, blackberry, etc. it defeats the purpose and is work not a vacation.

Re: This Labor Day, how would you change our work culture?

Ginger — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 01:04:41 -0000

Well put. I have recently had to admit to my own unhealthy (and very unsatisfying) work addiction. I feel as though I have been in an "abusive" relationship. I am still sorting through how to take steps to recover and rebuld in a better way-to gian back a better sense of self, self respect and joy. Certainly not there yet but hope awareness is a first big step.

Re: If you suddenly inherited $10,000, what would you do with it?

Ginger — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 10:57:33 -0000

Me too...pay down debt.

Re: What do you find sexy?

Ginger — Thu, 04 Sep 2008 10:49:01 -0000

Intelligence (but not arrogance)
Humor (smart and playful not raunchy)
Physical and Emotional Strength
Enjoys occasional Skinny Dipping and Dancing
Inspired Partner

Re: What is something completely luxurious that you dream of owning?

Ginger — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 09:47:43 -0000

-an open beautiful loft in New York with walls suited for large original art (Danielle I saw a Rothko exhibit in NYC years ago...beautiful...the Exhibit Book is on my coffee table)
-a weekend house on the beach or with a great ocean view/access
-both co-designed with architects, designers
-financially secure to support both without burden and have money left over for travel (and maybe a personal cook and a personal yoga/pilates trianer)

Re: What are you excited about right now?

Ginger — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 09:56:07 -0000

add me to the Obama camp!

Re: How do you know when a decision is “right” for you?

Ginger — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 10:54:05 -0000

I feel my intuition in my "gut"...my stomach either feels relaxed or tight. My intuition and the accompanying feeling have rarely been wrong...sometimes I just forget to listen or get sidetracked by "outside voices" and when reflecting later realized I wasn’t true to myself...lesson learned (more than once) :)

Re: What do you find beautiful about your body?

Ginger — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 09:57:15 -0000

This has been a very challenging question for me. I have spent most of my life trying to disconnect from my body (look like anyone but myself) vs. embracing it and loving it...my height 6ft in flats, my large breasts (I was called "Big 'Ol" by 'friends' in college over and over and wnat to cry like Beckie whenever I hear that) and overall frame where more times then I can count I have been mistaken for a man by a store clerk who never looked up to see my face before talking. I have been inspired by the postings here and so appreciate Jennifer sharing "find 3 things you really like about yourself and set about showing these of as best you can". In that healthy spirit I share that I do like my legs, long fingers and my skin even after (47 years)....so dresses, rings and moisturizers are my friends. Thanks to all!

Re: Guy Kawasaki asks: If you could eliminate one activity from your day, what would it be?

Ginger — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 10:05:48 -0000

email...hands down. The tool that is supposed to make you more productive makes me less. Mis-use...for sure. As I sit back and really think of the time I spend hunched over my computer creating and responding to email my heart sinks a little.

Re: Carrie & Danielle’s Evolved Men We Love List

Ginger — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 09:28:40 -0000

Robert Redford- for supporting artist's of many genres, Sundance, having a friend like Paul Newman and well his looks aren't bad either. P.S. another great iconoclast to enjoy is Paul Newman and Robert Redford

Re: What is your favourite form of courtesy that you like to practice?

Ginger — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 11:17:18 -0000

Giving and receiving fun cards, notes for no reason always brings a smile to my face. Really looking people in the eye and thanking for service, recognizing good work, etc. I love to give and receive compliments-if they are genuine.

Re: Patti Digh asks: What would you be doing today if you only had 37 days to live?

Ginger — Thu, 02 Oct 2008 18:15:43 -0000

I would book one of the Singita Lodges in Africa and bring my family to relax, enjoy each others company and see the beautiful wildlife for a couple of weeks.
Then come back and rent a home on the beach where I could sit on the porch and see the ocean, feel the breeze and smell the saltwater, campfires. Have "until we meet again" visits from my friends and family and write my "best days" stories of time spent with my niece and nephew so they would know how much I loved them.

Re: What expert help or advice would you like?

Ginger — Sat, 04 Oct 2008 15:25:58 -0000

you took the words out of my mouth...

Re: What immediately comes to mind when you say the word, bliss?

Ginger — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 15:30:32 -0000

swimming in the ocean...floating over high swells, diving through waves...warm sun, saltwater....the feeling of weightlessness both physical and emotional....nice to follow with a campfire and some s'mores

Re: What’s your favourite thing to watch on TV?

Ginger — Wed, 08 Oct 2008 07:46:13 -0000

tv...my stress reliever and guilty pleasure...I enjoy Grey's Anatomy, The Closer , Damages and Lipstick Jungle which is starting to help fill the big NYC gap left by Sex and the City...Project Runway is addicting...looking forward to the new season of Lost...and here's hoping Jack Bauer's (and the storyline) next 24 hours are better than the last

Re: What would you be doing if you weren’t watching TV?

Ginger — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 14:20:31 -0000

I couldn't agree more. I have not had a tv in my bedroom for over 10 years and it really helps with sleep patterns...especially now as my hormones are doing their own disruptive thing . I read more. The bedroom does truly become a "haven"...candles, great linens, relaxing colors.

Re: What would you be doing if you weren’t watching TV?

Ginger — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 14:22:33 -0000

....and journaling...write so much more without tv in bedroom....

Re: What do you secretly desire?

Ginger — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 09:53:02 -0000

own a home that is unique and designed just the way I would like....stronger body....and less guilt

Re: What do you secretly desire?

Ginger — Mon, 13 Oct 2008 09:54:24 -0000

Timothy Hutton has your coat...there must be a story there...

Re: What kind of friend are you?

Ginger — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 09:17:10 -0000

My first thought was "missing in action"...which does not bode well for me. Too much work and self-reflection of late. I do appreciate my friends, love hanging with them and hope they see me as supportive, interested, kind and witty.

Re: What is your favorite flower? (And, are you curious as to why we’re asking?)

Ginger — Mon, 20 Oct 2008 09:42:23 -0000

hard for me to choose just one...I appreciate the color of flowers, their uniqueness and imperfections...how they look well on their own and also in bunches. My favorites are probably orchids and tulips but I lalso ove a mix of wildflowers.

Re: What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?

Ginger — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 09:47:04 -0000

This is our family thing too. We all leave each other Birthday Greetings in whatever singing voice we can muster. We have a lot of fun with it.

Re: What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?

Ginger — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 09:59:17 -0000

I feel blessed to have received many wonderful gifts but two I have received hold the most meaning and both came my way on the same Christmas. A Diamond and a little Wood: My two sisters and I lost both my Mother and Grandmother within a few years of each other, 20 years ago. Losses which have left holes in my heart that have never quite healed. My sister Barbara took my mother's Engagement Ring which she sometimes wore and had the diamonds taken out and re-made into a bracelet for me, a necklace for my other sister and a ring for herself so we all could share an important piece of something my mom treasured. On that same day my sister Linda gave us each a wooden stool like one my grandmother had which had sat for years next to a little organ we all used to play on when we were kids. Both came with wonderful poems and needless to say there were many tears shed over the great memories we shared of two wonderful women.

Re: What’s the best gift you’ve ever received?

Ginger — Thu, 30 Oct 2008 10:00:30 -0000

That is a great gift.