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Re: When are you your best self?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 27 May 2008 08:46:02 -0000

I am at my best self early in the morning. That hour between darkness and light. This is when my mind and heart are completely open. When my feet feel closest to the ground.

This is the time when I write, paint and even forgive.

Re: What is the wish behind your biggest complaint?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 28 May 2008 09:27:33 -0000

My biggest complaint of late seems to be fatigue. I find that I am not as energetic as I once was. It seems as if I am carrying another person on my shoulders constantly. I drag myself to work and back, homework time with my son and even those intimate moments with my husband. There are things I want to do but just can't get going.

Secretly, I crave sleep. Delicious sleep. Uninterrupted sleep. Did I say I need sleep! I believe this is the secret behind my complaint. I dream of two weeks on an island in Greece or Fiji. I want to sleep on a huge bed under a canopy of stars. For now, I would settle for a long weekend away from home. I realize I need to recharge my batteries and I have to do it soon.

Re: What’s your favourite form of exercise?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 29 May 2008 09:19:50 -0000

Walking is my favorite form of exercise because it forces me to observe the things around me and gets me out of the cocoon I sometimes create for myself. I especially love early morning walks when everything seems new.

Re: What’s your favourite form of exercise?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 29 May 2008 09:24:43 -0000

I cannot believe how much energy one gets out of the Hot Yoga sessions. It feels as if through perspiration you've rid yourself of all the troubles of the week in just one session.

Re: What helps or hinders you from having a great sex life?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 30 May 2008 09:23:32 -0000

What hinders is an open loft with doors only in the bathrooms. Our 6 year old shares one side of the second floor with us and it can be quite a challenge to get our groove on. What helps is having a mother who is willing to take her grandson for weeks at a time when he is out of school. That's when my husband and I let it all hang out; sexy underwear, Marvin and all. Hey...I just realized our son is out of school in three weeks. Yipeeeee!!!

Re: What are the things you love that you don’t do enough of?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 02 Jun 2008 09:20:19 -0000

If I had more time I would crochet more. My mother taught me when I was 4 years old and for me it is a form of meditation.

Re: What do you cherish about your home?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 03 Jun 2008 09:31:55 -0000

What I most cherish are the old photographs and letters from my family. Because my family began migrating to the US in 1937 from Brazil there is lots of wonderful history in these photos. I love the photo of my grandmother in front of Macy's on 34th Street in 1940. I am especially proud of the ones I've restored and framed.

Re: What’s the best money advice you’ve received?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 08:54:54 -0000

I've always had a strange relationship with money. I can keep $20 in my wallet and forget it's even there. I use a bank card for most of my purchases. If I can't pay for something fully I leave it. While this has kept me out of debt it has robbed me of my ability to have fun with the money I make. It would be nice to be impulsive once in a while. I don't want to feel guilty when I buy myself a coveted pair of shoes.

Re: How do you define waste?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 09:22:22 -0000

Complaints and whining make the top of my list.

Re: What has been your most significant beginning?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 11:56:25 -0000

I was immediately impressed by my husband's warm smile but when he parted his lips to speak I felt as if I had known him all my life. We could walk and talk for hours.

Those early days upon our first meeting really set the tone for the rest of our relationship. No matter how bad things get around us and even when we argue we know we can always work through them by talking, walking a warm smile and a hug.

Re: What’s not working in your wardrobe?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 09 Jun 2008 10:32:03 -0000

I need more color in my wardrobe. I've been stuck on black, brown and navy for too long. I've been adding yellows and greens to my other wise dull attire slowly. I also know I have too many tops and not enough bottoms. I also need to learn to dress a little more casual and fun.

Re: What’s the lesson that keeps repeating in your life?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 09:07:51 -0000

Like Carrie, I need to stop and slow down. I worry too much and am preoccupied with what I need to do next. Perhaps I need to concentrate on the things that are in this moment and time and find peace within it.

Re: In terms of Creativity, what are you attracted to?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 11 Jun 2008 09:12:50 -0000

This is a good one.

I am attracted to raw emotion and introspection. It is in honesty that true colors come about and forms are shaped. I see this in the work of Frida Khalo.

Re: Special Friday Edition: What’s the desire beneath your envy?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 09:00:22 -0000

I was taught that envy was negative and something to be avoided. I love the interpretation by Emmanuelle Kant. I'm going to use this.

I have always envied those who have financial security and complete self confidence. I know that if I had no financial worries I could do with my time. I could wake up in the morning and choose what creative thing I would get my hands into. More than anything it would afford me precious time with my family and loved ones. If I had more self confidence I would be unstoppable.

Re: Special Friday Edition: What’s the desire beneath your envy?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 09:11:00 -0000

Cat,

Your words really touched me. I know how it feels to have a "300 pound wet blanket on your chest." Please remember to love yourself each and every day. Know that you are beautiful and strong. As you said so yourself, you can get through this. Take one step at a time and before you know it you will have reached the other side. The other side is beautiful...amazing.

Re: What culture do you want to learn about?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 09:25:48 -0000

As a child I was fascinated by other cultures. Where others lived, the food they ate, what language they spoke and of course music. I surround myself with people from different cultures so I can grow. There is so much beauty in the world and I want to take it all in.

I do have a soft spot for Moorish Spain.

Re: What’s your cheap beauty solution?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 10:39:29 -0000

A beautiful friend from India introduced me to rinsing my hair with tea. After shampooing and conditioning my hair, I finish by rinsing with a tea of my choice. I like to use a lemon jasmin or lavender tea. It is so relaxing and makes my brown hair shine.

I Brew one gallon of tea using 6 teabags per gallon
Cool in glass jar in fridge
After washing and conditioning, pour over your hair
Comb through and breathe deeply.

Re: What’s your form of genius?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 09:01:09 -0000

My genius is intuition. Like Danielle, I listen to others with purpose and intensity. I have a patient ear and others find it easy to talk to me. I feel deeply and give with much passion.

Re: What does it mean to be civilized?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 10:21:48 -0000

My mother taught me that when visiting someone you should never come empty handed. So when visiting others or traveling around the world, I take along respect and kindness. These cost nothing to give.

Re: Special Friday Edition: What’s the desire beneath your envy?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 10:29:27 -0000

Hi Cat,

Just checking in on you. I saw a little bird on my way to work this morning and thought about you. The little thing was trying to pick up a bug but couldn't do it at first. I watched him struggle but you know what? He made it. I wonder if he took it back to his family waiting on some tree or he found a quiet branch and feasted all by himself. In any case, he was victorious.

Have a beautiful day and keep on keeping on!

Xai

Re: What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 08:41:40 -0000

I watched The Kite Runner last weekend. It tells the story of Amir, a well-to-do boy from Kabul, who is tormented by the guilt of abandoning his friend Hassan, the son of his father's servant. The story is set against a backdrop of tumultuous events, from the fall of the monarchy in Afghanistan through the Soviet invasion, the mass exodus of refugees to Pakistan and the United States, and the Taliban regime. It's a must see.

Re: Special Friday Edition - What’s your word of the week?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 09:30:02 -0000

ORGANIZE!
This week I've concentrated on gathering my resources, taking stock of my talents and strengths and organizing them. I feel I need to do this to move things forward so I can enjoy my life.

Re: To whom will you show your appreciation today?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 09:21:03 -0000

Minha Amiga,

I just received your call and I am amazed and so greatful to have you in my life. You have brought so much joy into my world. I've always wanted a sister and God sent me you. I have no words to describe what your encouragement, sincere love and "kookiness" mean to me. I so admire your strength and passion for life. I am so much better because of you.

Re: If you had an audience of a billion people, what would you say?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 24 Jun 2008 07:20:38 -0000

I would ask the leaders of the world to look deep within their hearts and insist that they begin to live and govern in an authentic way. I would let them know that war is not a means to achieve peace. I would send them each a copy of Style Statement.

Re: Friday Edition: Who would you be if you were freed from your past?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 08:29:25 -0000

Another great question. I would be more confident. Laugh more and not allow myself to be swayed by the opinions of others. I would follow my intuition more. I too would let go of recentments.

Re: What will you say no to this week?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 09:27:46 -0000

It's so hard for me to say no but I'll have to start saying it more often. I will say "no" when things are not working for me, get in the way of my creativity and time with my loved ones.

Re: When you were a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 09:04:40 -0000

I recall this very same question in my parent's living room just after my 10th birthday. I declared then that I would become a journalist and do television news. I would interview my parents, grandmother, anyone with my little super 8 camera. I still do this.

Re: What are the tools of your trade?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 09:55:24 -0000

I'm a good listener. I like to listen for pauses between words. Although my MAC is indispensible, for me, my very best tool is a sharp pencil and a blank book. I cannot leave home without these.

Re: What’s your best travel tip?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 10:01:36 -0000

My tip to anyone traveling is to STAY CALM. It's very easy to loose patience in airports. Make sure you are not rushing to the airport so get up in plenty of time. Eat breakfast. I take along your favorite music on the Ipod, and a great book.

Re: What do you want to be thanked for?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 10 Jul 2008 09:11:57 -0000

I get a lot of thanks every day from my husband and friends and I am VERY grateful for that.

Re: What are your favourite blogs or websites?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 08:41:18 -0000

Besides Carrie and Danielle's site, one of my favorite sites is Lifehacker http://www.lifehacker.com. This site will keep you informed on ways to organize your daiily routine.

Re: What are you anticipating?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 09:28:55 -0000

I am anticipating leaving the corporate world and being on my own. It's a little frightening but I really have no other choice. I know that it would be a great move for me.

Re: What would be your last meal and with whom would you share it?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 10:54:10 -0000

This is a heavy question. I would love to be back home in Brazil surrounded by my friends and family. My father who we lost before my son was bor would sit next to me. My grandmother would also join us with her fantastic traditional Bahian food, my dad would break out in song and we would dance the night away.

Re: How do you fall in love with the world?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 10:15:21 -0000

I fall in love with the world through my son's 6 year old eyes. He pulls me into his world everyday and allows me to experience it with a fresh twist. Like planting sunflowers because he thinks we'll have a pot full of little suns on our deck, or the first time he saw a rainbow. I had seen them a thousand times but seeing him admire one made me appreciate them even more. Most of all that time when I was really down; feeling overworked and under appreciated at my job. He noticed I was sad and suggested we tie towels around our necks and act like superheros. I didn't feel like doing it but I did. Then he told me, "you see mommy...anyone can be a superhero.

Re: What’s your favourite inspirational quote?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 08:44:55 -0000

I love quotes so here are a few of my favorites:

When you have only two pennies left in the world, buy a loaf of bread with one, and a lily with the other. ~Chinese Proverb

To live is so startling it leaves little time for anything else.
~Emily Dickinson

Where there is love there is life.~Gandhi

Re: What are your favourite natural remedies?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 08:47:13 -0000

One of my favorite natural remedies is sleep. I can't seem to get enough of it lately but when I do, I feel like a new person.

Then there is this one. A little strange but my Brazilian grandmother swore by it. Coca-Cola, onions and ginger reduced down to a syrup for a chest cold. Yes. I drank this as a child and somehow it worked.

My all time favorite is a little mom spit. This cures anything. : )

Re: What are your favourite natural remedies?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 08:48:18 -0000

I must try the chardonnay and citrus bubble bath. This sounds delish!

Re: What is your biggest indulgence?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 15:50:46 -0000

Wow! This is a deep question for me because I am always encouraged to indulge more often and I don't. It's easier for me to give to others than to myself.

When I do indulge I usually purchase a bottle of unusual perfume, or chocolate truffles. I would top it off with a wonderful book I've been wanting to read. Hardcover of course.

Re: What is your big, audacious dream for yourself?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 10:09:30 -0000

I want more than anything to see my son as a man. I also dream of making my living through writing and creating mix media works that help bring about change.

I would use my leisure time to travel the world and decorate my humble yet fabulous beach house (which I would own by then) and cook wonderful meals for my friends and family.

Re: What’s your favourite magazine?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 28 Jul 2008 09:54:59 -0000

I love Real Simple, Domino and Dwell. I'm also addicted to any big glossy European design and fashion magazines.

Re: Who in your life do you admire… and why?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 30 Jul 2008 09:53:47 -0000

I admire my parents for teaching me about love, courage and patience. My mother was very young when she married my father. My father was 15 years her senior, a widower with two little boys. Together my parents created a wonderful family. I have never used the word "step" or "half" to describe my brothers. My father always called my mother "amada" (beloved) and my mother always held my father's pinky finger as they walked. They gave me a good foundation for my own marriage and yes, I too hold my husband's pinky.

Re: What’s a great wedding gift to give?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 31 Jul 2008 09:41:38 -0000

When my brother got married, all the ladies in our family gathered our treasured family recipes and placed in a handmade book made by another family member. Since them we've copied that book and we each have one. I have a special copy to give to my son when he gets married.

Re: If you believed you were enough, what would you do differently?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 09:36:29 -0000

If I believed I was enough, hesitation would not be part of my vocabulary. I would approach life without fear. I would really, REALLY believe I am beautiful, intelligent and creative.

I would have choosen to continue my studies in art instead of business to become a curator. I would teach art history at a great learning institution. I would then retire to my studio after work where I would paint, print, write, and throw clay. I would have a beautiful shop filled with beautiful finds and objects I've created myself. I would help adorn the lives and spaces of others.

These days, I've been feeling like it's not too late. I can do this.

Re: What’s a great wedding gift to give?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 10:23:57 -0000

Thank you Tamara.
I am going to look into this today.

Re: What would you like to revolutionize?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 11:01:05 -0000

There are so many things I would revolutionize.

Here is my wish list.
1. Free education and healthcare for all!
2. A 4 day work week.
3. Give employees the option to telecommute depending on their occupation.
4. 30 days vacation standard for all employees
5. Band the chirping walkie-talkie phones.
6. Real, healthy options in public school cafeterias.
7. More home births.

Re: How do you want to feel today?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 10:39:12 -0000

I want to feel fearless. Fear robs us of all potential.
Today, I want to feel the fear and do it anyway!

Re: What are the best Inspirational or “Personal Growth” books you’ve read?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 08:19:53 -0000

One of the most powerful books I've read so far is The Four Agreements. I agree with Danielle. It's simplicity can revolutionize and change the world.

Re: What would you like your home to say about you?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 14:11:02 -0000

I want my home to say that I am open, creative, always learning and care about the world I live in. We've filled our home with little treasures picked up at open markets in foreign lands and carefully framed drawings of our 6 year old. Our open space says that there are no barriers between us or those who come through our door.

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 10:12:55 -0000

My biggest beauty dilema is my smile. I don't smile wide and open like most people because I have these fat little teeth and a gap that I'm embarrased of. I'm tired of smiling with a closed mouth.

Slowly but surely, I will work on getting veneers to make them all look right. I admire folks with beautiful teeth. I want my smile to mirror all that I feel inside.

Re: What are your 3 top priorities this week?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 08:59:37 -0000

1. Get organized
2. Stay focused
3. Don't loose sight of my goal

Re: What’s your image of God?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 08:08:50 -0000

me.

Re: How has astrology influenced your life or a decision?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 09:13:48 -0000

I've never given Astrology too much thought until today. The Astrotwins described my sign so accurately that I will put them on my "life advisory board" to pick up on what Danielle said. As a Taurus they had me pegged right down to my favorite color: green.

I'm hooked.

Re: How would you spend your last $20?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 08:29:13 -0000

I would give it away to a person in need.

Re: What would improve your work space?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 09:27:11 -0000

Great question. I am in the middle of a complete redesign of my studio space. The first thing I did was to paint one wall in an empowering color. I chose a golden yellow because according to Chinese culture it is the center of everything. Yellow also represents freedom from worldly cares. It was also important for me to choose yellow because it aids in clarity for decision making, sharper memory and concentration. It also protects one from lethargy and depression during the dark winter months.

These are all elements I need in my studio since my space has only one window and I am not a friend of cold dark winters. Two items I dream of owning for my space is the Eames lounge chair in brown leather with ottoman of course and the Lux table lamp designed by Alberto Meda and Paolo Rizzatto for Luceplan.

Re: What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever given or received?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 10:28:51 -0000

I've been happily married for 10 years. I've learned that you need to have a deep friendship with the person you've chosen to live your life with. Nietzsche said "It is not a lack of love, but a lack of friendship that makes unhappy marriages."

Re: What kind of clutter is in your life?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 08:33:57 -0000

I most definitely have head clutter. While I've rid myself of physical clutter, I still struggle with my mind running in different directions. At work, I'm learning to delegate more. In my own personal life, I am learning to deal with thoughts generated by fear and anxiety by getting rid of them as soon as they appear. I'm a great fan of lists so I make one everyday and check off the things I need to accomplish.

Re: What kind of clutter is in your life?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 11:35:04 -0000

Thank you so much Cindy. I'm going to check it out.

Re: The Parable of the Rope, by Peter Russell

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 08:36:38 -0000

This is me. I am in tears right now because it is so on point for me. Thank you for this.

Re: What do you need to let go of?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 08:44:38 -0000

I need to let go of fear. My fear of disappointing others, or not being good enough. All my life I have second guessed myself. This is my greatest fault. It has stopped me from pursuing paths I should have taken a long time ago. I need to let go and know that it will be OK.

Re: The Opposite of Consumption: C&D Video Blog

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 08:38:23 -0000

So on point. I have cleared my closet of everything I've not worn in years. I found belts in there from 1990! I gave these items away to charity. My closet is bare but the items I have are classic and of great quality. I even found my vintage Gucci bag which I am now sporting. I've had young women stop and ask me where I got my bag since they've not seen that style. I just smile. They don't know I purchased this bag with the earnings from my very first job. Probably before they were even born.

I am also using a little trick I saw in a magazine. I believe it was Real Simple. I turn the hook of my hanger in the opposite way of all the others once I've worn that item. This way I know what's working for me or not. I've had it with waste and clutter. It's not good for the spirit.

Re: What’s your favorite eco-friendly habit?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 20 Aug 2008 09:44:10 -0000

Our family is working hard to establish good eco-friendly habits.
One of our biggest is plastic bags. We don't use them. We use eco-friendly bags to do our shopping. The plastic bags we had left or that people bring into our home get cut up and turned into strips so we can crochet them into an eco-friendly shopping bag. If you crochet and would like to do the same, here is a little instruction/information video I found on the net that helped me get started: http://blog.craftzine.com/archive/2008/01/plast...

Re: What promise did you keep that changed your life?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 11:11:07 -0000

I promised myself that I would leave an abusive relationship. After years of abuse it was no longer about the person who was hurting me, it was about me. What in the world was wrong with me that I would allow this.

One day I just did it. I left and never looked back. As soon as I freed myself from this relationship I found my soulmate and we've been happily married for 10 years.

Re: What’s sacred to you?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 09:40:00 -0000

Family.
Freedom.
Truth.
Justice.
Kindness.
Love.

Re: What’s your favorite gadget or piece of technology?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 25 Aug 2008 08:18:36 -0000

I am just old enough to remember a time when there was no such thing as Google or Yahoo, cell phones, MP3's or digital cameras so I fully appreciate how these have changed my life.

Re: When do you hide?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 08:41:27 -0000

Oh my it seems as if Carrie and I go through the same thing. When I am not in a mood for small talk I run. I will cross the street, leave the supermarket, not answer the phone. My other one is when I am completely broke. I just lay low.

Re: What’s your favorite easy thing to cook?

Xai Vicente Charles — Thu, 28 Aug 2008 09:27:27 -0000

The easiest thing for me to cook is rice. I make it a million ways. Coconut rice, spicy rice with beans, rice with veggies, rice pudding. If I can dream it up I'll make it happen with some rice. My grandmother used to say "if you have rice, you'll never go hungry." : )

Re: This Labor Day, how would you change our work culture?

Xai Vicente Charles — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 08:51:47 -0000

Equal pay for equal work to start. A 4 day week and telecommuting options. 30 days vacation mandatory. And yes, I agree with Danielle on maternity leave. It's ridiculous to leave your baby in 6 weeks to go back to work. Parents should be allowed to stay home for one year. Yup. One year.

Re: If you suddenly inherited $10,000, what would you do with it?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 03 Sep 2008 08:34:22 -0000

I could use $10,000 right about now. If I did inherit any money I would save 1/2 and put 1/2 on my mortgage.

Re: What did you learn from your favorite mistake?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 09:37:21 -0000

How to choose just one. I've made so many. My biggest was marrying a man I did not love and moving to another city away from everything I knew and people I loved. But that mistake led me to the love of my life, a beautiful child and a city I now call home. So are mistakes really mistakes? As I get older I realize they are just little detours filled with lessons that hopefully make us grow.

Re: What do you find sexy?

Xai Vicente Charles — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 13:22:08 -0000

I find honesty, confidence and a good sense of humor very sexy in people. A man who smiles with his eyes and has a great pair of strong hands always gets my attention.

Re: What do you need to move your vision forward?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 08 Sep 2008 08:37:35 -0000

I need:

1. Funding
2. Materials
3. Time

All very important things but I'm gettting through them one at a time.

Re: What is something completely luxurious that you dream of owning?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 10 Sep 2008 08:52:59 -0000

I agree with Carrie because I too long for more time and definitely more money so I could experience life the way I see it in my mind.

However, I do covet a modern eco-friendly house(designed by me)on many acres of land mortgage free of course near the ocean. I would fill my house with original art from my favorite artists. I need to stop here because this post will be VERY long.

Re: What do you find beautiful about your body?

Xai Vicente Charles — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 09:03:34 -0000

How interesting. Just the other day I was admiring my own legs/feet. I do have some sexy toes and strong legs. They are my best asset and believe me I can work them in a pair of peep-toe stilettos and sandals.

Re: What would you like to change about the holiday season?

Xai Vicente Charles — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 09:47:28 -0000

I would love to see folks stop using artificial trees in their homes. They are not biodegradable and really harm our environment. I would also like to see all the madness with shopping stop. Especially the parents who take their children shopping for their own toys. We should be concentrating on giving meaninful gifts. We should encourage charity not "stuff".