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5 months ago
in 4 Reasons Older Women Are Better Than Younger Women on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
this kinda goes for if you're just more sexually experienced than your man in general... my current man was a virgin before we got together (and i know this for a fact) and its not hard to get a man whos never done anything to try new things cause hes into exploring and setting boundaries for the future.
but i will say this: if youre willing to sleep with a virgin, you gotta be in it for real, cause it takes patience. but think about it: you're priming this person to do it the way you like. you dont have to deal with all that stupid this-is-what-i-do-and-laquesha-round-the-way-liked-it nonsense you get from other males. he just wants to do whatever you tell him is right.
dont abuse your power, ladies. ;)
but i will say this: if youre willing to sleep with a virgin, you gotta be in it for real, cause it takes patience. but think about it: you're priming this person to do it the way you like. you dont have to deal with all that stupid this-is-what-i-do-and-laquesha-round-the-way-liked-it nonsense you get from other males. he just wants to do whatever you tell him is right.
dont abuse your power, ladies. ;)
10 months ago
in The Morning After on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I FEEL YOU ON THIS ONE.
If I'm feeling active enough to get up and fix some breakfast, he didn't put it down right. He should have me drowsy. I can fuck with some iHop though.
Morning sex and a brief but friendly goodbye. That's the perfect morning-after. Unless the dick was lame, then a GOODBYE.
If I'm feeling active enough to get up and fix some breakfast, he didn't put it down right. He should have me drowsy. I can fuck with some iHop though.
Morning sex and a brief but friendly goodbye. That's the perfect morning-after. Unless the dick was lame, then a GOODBYE.
10 months ago
in The Black Virgin Records on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
shit, i'm glad i don't have mine anymore, being a virgin is some bullshit. i'm still tight as all hell, though, but at least i don't feel that scream-your-ass-off pain like i did my first time.
it was a nigga id been cool with for about 3 to 4 years, we'd been hooking up but i was only like 14 so i didnt want to go any further just yet, even though he thought i wasn't a virgin. to this day he doesn't know he was my first and i'd like to keep it that way, because like coco said, i don't want him thinking he got lifelong access.
it was boring, my friends told me i got with a tube-sock nigga (a dude who basically treats the chick he's fucking like a tube sock). my next boyfriend was a VAST improvement, so much so, i could barely speak to my first without laughing, especially when he tried to bring up all the times he "put it down." (we had sex three times over the course of around six months--- i was always fuckin with other dudes and only calling him when i was lonely or in need of some dick action, yeah i was on it like that!)
it was a nigga id been cool with for about 3 to 4 years, we'd been hooking up but i was only like 14 so i didnt want to go any further just yet, even though he thought i wasn't a virgin. to this day he doesn't know he was my first and i'd like to keep it that way, because like coco said, i don't want him thinking he got lifelong access.
it was boring, my friends told me i got with a tube-sock nigga (a dude who basically treats the chick he's fucking like a tube sock). my next boyfriend was a VAST improvement, so much so, i could barely speak to my first without laughing, especially when he tried to bring up all the times he "put it down." (we had sex three times over the course of around six months--- i was always fuckin with other dudes and only calling him when i was lonely or in need of some dick action, yeah i was on it like that!)
10 months ago
in Arguing Out Loud on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
GIVE IN.
That's the big one for me. I'm not the type of person to give up in a fight, ever, I'll keep going on and on and on and on (I'm that way in other respects, too ;p} but for real, ladies, especially, sometimes if you got a hard-headed man, just stop talking. Really, just STOP SPEAKING.
I will argue with my man and finally just be like, are you done. I'll let him finish, admit he was right and not speak to him for maybe a day. Trust, he'll understand just how wrong he was a whole lot more if you do it like that.
Seriously, though, and ladies, stop starting arguments over dumb shit. I can't tell you Xilla how many fuckin stupid-ass circular arguments I've had with my girlfriends 'cause she decided she wanna just talk us all to death. Ignance.
That's the big one for me. I'm not the type of person to give up in a fight, ever, I'll keep going on and on and on and on (I'm that way in other respects, too ;p} but for real, ladies, especially, sometimes if you got a hard-headed man, just stop talking. Really, just STOP SPEAKING.
I will argue with my man and finally just be like, are you done. I'll let him finish, admit he was right and not speak to him for maybe a day. Trust, he'll understand just how wrong he was a whole lot more if you do it like that.
Seriously, though, and ladies, stop starting arguments over dumb shit. I can't tell you Xilla how many fuckin stupid-ass circular arguments I've had with my girlfriends 'cause she decided she wanna just talk us all to death. Ignance.
