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6 months ago
in 2009/01/06/sans-steve-jobs-twitter-still-cant-handle-macworld/ on Mashable - The Social Media Guide
Yadda yadda, blame Twitter and assume they were "unprepared" for a traffic
spike and that was the culprit behind their issues.
This story http://blog.twitter.com/2009/01/dont-blame-geek... links to the reasons for the Twitter issues. I'm not all that highly connected and even I'd read in
Twitter's own service blog, that they were having a (fairly boring) caching
problem, which was ongoing.
I know it is cool to assume that the geeks are the ghost in the machine, but
this tsk-tsking seems snarky and, well, frankly, wrong.
Mollena
A Perverted & Profane Twitter User.
spike and that was the culprit behind their issues.
This story http://blog.twitter.com/2009/01/dont-blame-geek... links to the reasons for the Twitter issues. I'm not all that highly connected and even I'd read in
Twitter's own service blog, that they were having a (fairly boring) caching
problem, which was ongoing.
I know it is cool to assume that the geeks are the ghost in the machine, but
this tsk-tsking seems snarky and, well, frankly, wrong.
Mollena
A Perverted & Profane Twitter User.
6 months ago
in On Hooking Up the First Night on Who is Jon Ray?
@gnat so you are basing your disagreement on ONE couple? One versus the millions of one-night stands that result in
1) No follow-up.
2) STDs.
3) Unwanted pregnancies.
Really???
Because,had those people REFRAINED from fucking on the first night, the probably STILL would have fallen in love and gotten married, methinks.
Peace.
~Mollena
1) No follow-up.
2) STDs.
3) Unwanted pregnancies.
Really???
Because,had those people REFRAINED from fucking on the first night, the probably STILL would have fallen in love and gotten married, methinks.
Peace.
~Mollena
6 months ago
in On Hooking Up the First Night on Who is Jon Ray?
Yes, Virginia, there is a sexual double standard. Flinging poo at Jon for pointing this out is hubris.
I certainly have engaged in first-night hookups precisely because I know they won't result in down-the line relationships. And if I am interested in a LTR I refrain from bedding the guy off the bat. In all my years of dating, I have only once...ONCE...had a relationship that started off as a first-night fuck move on to a relationship. And that was after a year spent in FWB mode, my calling it off because i was getting attached, my having another relationship, then hooking BACK up with the dude, and his changing his mind about not wanting a girlfriend.
Pretty long odds, yeah?
But to gently amend, Jon: hooking up on a first date isn't the move a prostitute: sex-workers barter their services and negotiate remuneration, and the boundaries are clear. That KNOW what they are doing.
Peace.
~Mollena
I certainly have engaged in first-night hookups precisely because I know they won't result in down-the line relationships. And if I am interested in a LTR I refrain from bedding the guy off the bat. In all my years of dating, I have only once...ONCE...had a relationship that started off as a first-night fuck move on to a relationship. And that was after a year spent in FWB mode, my calling it off because i was getting attached, my having another relationship, then hooking BACK up with the dude, and his changing his mind about not wanting a girlfriend.
Pretty long odds, yeah?
But to gently amend, Jon: hooking up on a first date isn't the move a prostitute: sex-workers barter their services and negotiate remuneration, and the boundaries are clear. That KNOW what they are doing.
Peace.
~Mollena
6 months ago
in On buying Ice Cream on Who is Jon Ray?
I found I had similar issues when I stopped drankin'. I had wild cravings for all manner of different foods...most of 'em sweet. There are all sorts of reasons for this. I prefer to Occam's Razor the problem and attribute post-alcohol binging on sweets to The Prince of Darkness, Lucifer.
7 months ago
in Meet Elizabeth Frisinger: She lost her virginity and accidentally texted her dad on The Inquisitr
I wonder if the ""wish you were here" was so that they could round out her cherry popping with a nice threesome....?
8 months ago
in What's the Skinny on BBW Sex?!?!?! › Twanna A. Hines is a writer in New York City on Twanna A. Hines
Word.
8 months ago
in What's the Skinny on BBW Sex?!?!?! › Twanna A. Hines is a writer in New York City on Twanna A. Hines
How interesting..I touched a little bit on size issues in my post just this morning. (here for those who read kinky blogs) http://tinyurl.com/6mrpc7
I have been many sizes. When I lived in LA, I was a workout fiend and through Jenny Craig got down to what was, for me, a VERY small size. I got laid a lot.
After a breakup a few years ago, and a great deal heavier than I was back in my LA heyday, I went on a schtupping spree. I got laid a lot.
I do not think that there is a correlation between sexual activity and weight. With the caveat that, if your weight impedes your capacity to get it on, your weight sure enough will impact the frequency of sex.
A quick glance over Craig's List, the LCD (in this case, Lecherous Common Denominator) of sexuality, you will see many ads for people specifically searching for BBWs.
You will also see many ads that specify "No BBWs" or "Please be Height Weight Proportionate." (which is, as we all know, code for "No Fat Chix")
I once was hooking up with a CL guy who had SPECIFICALLY said he was looking for a BBW with big boobs for a casual romp. He said, upon receiving a photograph of me, that he was "Surprised" that I was "so gorgeous."
"Why?" I asked, surprised at the crassness and at rapidly his chance to tap this ass was flagging "…did you expect me to be ugly because I'm fat?"
He hemmed and hawed in IM, and finally came up with some line or other about how I was just SO FINE, he was taken aback and lost his game for a second.
Sure. Nice try.
No pussy for you.
Some men assume that fat girls, being desperate for attention, are easy pickings. And in some instances, this might be true. However, if they step to me with that assumption, they have another fucking thing coming, and best better have some Kleenex© and Jergen's© ready for their Big Night In.
In my neck of the Forest Of Sexuality, we are blessed to have a somewhat more fluid view of what is considered attractive. As a member of the BDSM / Leather community, I was SO delighted to see, at my first play party, everyone from slender size zeroes to big fat folks fully naked and getting their freak on. That was great!
On the other hand, most fetish models are still "model thin". There is no mainstreaming of fatter folks when it comes to epitomizing a sexual ideal.
That is slowly becoming different, and I applaud those who put some thought into size diversity.
My sexuality is less dependant on how fat my ass feels than how good I feel about my fat ass.
When I was thinner and miserable, I didn't give a fuck about sex. However, when I felt good about myself, I noticed I enjoyed sex more thoroughly.
When I was fat and miserable, I also failed to give a fuck about sex. However, when I felt good about myself, I noticed I enjoyed sex more thoroughly.
The question of "who has more sex" assumes several things, and that is why I have a problem with it.
It assumes that a higher frequency of sex has a direct correlation with being "better" for ya, or having more satisfying sex.
It doesn't.
It assumes that there is either "fat" or "not fat" and fails to take in things like cultural preference and the gap between how people self-identify and how people would be identified by others.
Back in the day I remember reading an article in (I believe) Time magazine about how young women from different demographic groups felt about their weight. The non-white girls consistently had better self-esteem about their bodies, even though they tended to be bigger. What accounts for that? Lots of factors, I am sure. I would hazard a guess that the acceptance of a curvier form as more attractive in some cultures helps women to feel more normalized with a sizier, plussier size.
Another problem with that question is that it discounts personal taste, and that is a rough one to overlook. I know some men who simply aren't turned on by fat girls. I know some men who INSIST on a more Callipygian posterior with which to tryst.
It is all cut from the same cloth.
And there is plenty of sex to go around.
I have been many sizes. When I lived in LA, I was a workout fiend and through Jenny Craig got down to what was, for me, a VERY small size. I got laid a lot.
After a breakup a few years ago, and a great deal heavier than I was back in my LA heyday, I went on a schtupping spree. I got laid a lot.
I do not think that there is a correlation between sexual activity and weight. With the caveat that, if your weight impedes your capacity to get it on, your weight sure enough will impact the frequency of sex.
A quick glance over Craig's List, the LCD (in this case, Lecherous Common Denominator) of sexuality, you will see many ads for people specifically searching for BBWs.
You will also see many ads that specify "No BBWs" or "Please be Height Weight Proportionate." (which is, as we all know, code for "No Fat Chix")
I once was hooking up with a CL guy who had SPECIFICALLY said he was looking for a BBW with big boobs for a casual romp. He said, upon receiving a photograph of me, that he was "Surprised" that I was "so gorgeous."
"Why?" I asked, surprised at the crassness and at rapidly his chance to tap this ass was flagging "…did you expect me to be ugly because I'm fat?"
He hemmed and hawed in IM, and finally came up with some line or other about how I was just SO FINE, he was taken aback and lost his game for a second.
Sure. Nice try.
No pussy for you.
Some men assume that fat girls, being desperate for attention, are easy pickings. And in some instances, this might be true. However, if they step to me with that assumption, they have another fucking thing coming, and best better have some Kleenex© and Jergen's© ready for their Big Night In.
In my neck of the Forest Of Sexuality, we are blessed to have a somewhat more fluid view of what is considered attractive. As a member of the BDSM / Leather community, I was SO delighted to see, at my first play party, everyone from slender size zeroes to big fat folks fully naked and getting their freak on. That was great!
On the other hand, most fetish models are still "model thin". There is no mainstreaming of fatter folks when it comes to epitomizing a sexual ideal.
That is slowly becoming different, and I applaud those who put some thought into size diversity.
My sexuality is less dependant on how fat my ass feels than how good I feel about my fat ass.
When I was thinner and miserable, I didn't give a fuck about sex. However, when I felt good about myself, I noticed I enjoyed sex more thoroughly.
When I was fat and miserable, I also failed to give a fuck about sex. However, when I felt good about myself, I noticed I enjoyed sex more thoroughly.
The question of "who has more sex" assumes several things, and that is why I have a problem with it.
It assumes that a higher frequency of sex has a direct correlation with being "better" for ya, or having more satisfying sex.
It doesn't.
It assumes that there is either "fat" or "not fat" and fails to take in things like cultural preference and the gap between how people self-identify and how people would be identified by others.
Back in the day I remember reading an article in (I believe) Time magazine about how young women from different demographic groups felt about their weight. The non-white girls consistently had better self-esteem about their bodies, even though they tended to be bigger. What accounts for that? Lots of factors, I am sure. I would hazard a guess that the acceptance of a curvier form as more attractive in some cultures helps women to feel more normalized with a sizier, plussier size.
Another problem with that question is that it discounts personal taste, and that is a rough one to overlook. I know some men who simply aren't turned on by fat girls. I know some men who INSIST on a more Callipygian posterior with which to tryst.
It is all cut from the same cloth.
And there is plenty of sex to go around.
8 months ago
in Manly Monday: Foreskins and Penises on Twanna @ FUNKY BROWN CHICK
Dude in the photo has a lovely specimen.
Completely hittable.
I have to say my first boyfriend, being born in Trinidad, was uncircumcised. He was also insanely hung. As he was my first, this was a rather daunting situation. But I got over it *smirk*
Interestingly, his being uncircumcised was problematic: once I was on the pill and we stopped using condoms, I started getting recurring yeast infections. The nice people at Planned Parenthood were helpful in helping me narrow down the possible causes. Their suggestion was that I try going back to condoms, since it was likely that my being on the pill in conjunction with his being uncircumcised could account for a higher rate of yeast infections. My boyfriend's Mom, who was a Nurse, confirmed that there was, indeed, a correlation between uncircumcised men and their wives having higher than normal instance of abnormal PAP smears. Regardless of how scrupulous he was (and he was SUPER scrupulous, believe me.) I had almost non-stop issues.
I told him he could go back to wearing condoms or chop it off, his choice.
He chose the latter.
He was 19.
This was A Big Deal.
But once he healed (one of these days I'll have to write about the hilarity inherent in telling a 19 year old guy dating a horny as hell 16 year old girl to not get an erection for 7 days. Hah.) the yeast infections cleared right off.
Too bad our relationship cleared off too, within the next 8-10 months :-P
I do like the uncircumcised cocks, to be sure. And I know first hand that there is considerable loss of sensation for the man.
And hey, Hayden L. D. Joseph, if you ever read this…sorry about the foreskin, man.
Really.
Completely hittable.
I have to say my first boyfriend, being born in Trinidad, was uncircumcised. He was also insanely hung. As he was my first, this was a rather daunting situation. But I got over it *smirk*
Interestingly, his being uncircumcised was problematic: once I was on the pill and we stopped using condoms, I started getting recurring yeast infections. The nice people at Planned Parenthood were helpful in helping me narrow down the possible causes. Their suggestion was that I try going back to condoms, since it was likely that my being on the pill in conjunction with his being uncircumcised could account for a higher rate of yeast infections. My boyfriend's Mom, who was a Nurse, confirmed that there was, indeed, a correlation between uncircumcised men and their wives having higher than normal instance of abnormal PAP smears. Regardless of how scrupulous he was (and he was SUPER scrupulous, believe me.) I had almost non-stop issues.
I told him he could go back to wearing condoms or chop it off, his choice.
He chose the latter.
He was 19.
This was A Big Deal.
But once he healed (one of these days I'll have to write about the hilarity inherent in telling a 19 year old guy dating a horny as hell 16 year old girl to not get an erection for 7 days. Hah.) the yeast infections cleared right off.
Too bad our relationship cleared off too, within the next 8-10 months :-P
I do like the uncircumcised cocks, to be sure. And I know first hand that there is considerable loss of sensation for the man.
And hey, Hayden L. D. Joseph, if you ever read this…sorry about the foreskin, man.
Really.
9 months ago
in Manly Monday: The Cosmopolitan Bachelor on Twanna @ FUNKY BROWN CHICK
Yes.
"Werd".
When the etablished patois simply will NOT do, flip the script and toss the bitch by randomly reassigning vowels.
Werks evri tyme!
"Werd".
When the etablished patois simply will NOT do, flip the script and toss the bitch by randomly reassigning vowels.
Werks evri tyme!
9 months ago
in Manly Monday: The Cosmopolitan Bachelor on Twanna @ FUNKY BROWN CHICK
I can't properly claim Bklyn, tho my fambs did live there, and I was up in Flatbush for a while, there :-D
I am originally from the Johnson Projects.
Werd.
I am originally from the Johnson Projects.
Werd.
9 months ago
in BDSM News For All on Her Owner
I'm in the process of gathering years of my writings onto my site, and it is most certainly kinkcentric.
~Mollena
~Mollena
9 months ago
in How Should You Introduce An Ex? on Twanna @ FUNKY BROWN CHICK
Yo yo!
In the course of introducing someone in a social situation, I NEVER slap down the deets right there. That is jarring and can spin the conversation into mysterious uncharted waters.
Especially if you have 2 exes named Steve, for example.
I also have so many nicknames for my former partners that most people know them by that nomenclature. Errybody who knows me knows who the "The Pizza Guy", "Psycho Steve",or "That Limey Musician" are.
Playing in the BDSM arena adds yet another facet to the tetrahedral sex-die, because NOW you might have a former play partner who you never fucked but might want to at a later time, who you are introducing to your current play partner's primary partner and the shit gets mad crazy, yo.
Probably best to say "My Friend" and smile,with the sideways look that indicates "Yeah, you KNOW there is some delicious secret filling in this cupcake-o-love, just ask me later, babe."
Peace.
~Mollena
In the course of introducing someone in a social situation, I NEVER slap down the deets right there. That is jarring and can spin the conversation into mysterious uncharted waters.
Especially if you have 2 exes named Steve, for example.
I also have so many nicknames for my former partners that most people know them by that nomenclature. Errybody who knows me knows who the "The Pizza Guy", "Psycho Steve",or "That Limey Musician" are.
Playing in the BDSM arena adds yet another facet to the tetrahedral sex-die, because NOW you might have a former play partner who you never fucked but might want to at a later time, who you are introducing to your current play partner's primary partner and the shit gets mad crazy, yo.
Probably best to say "My Friend" and smile,with the sideways look that indicates "Yeah, you KNOW there is some delicious secret filling in this cupcake-o-love, just ask me later, babe."
Peace.
~Mollena
