Well, fancy meeting you here! I was going over the post on Mormons and welfare at "Mormon Mentality" when I spied your comment and couldn't resist sneaking a peak at your webpage, now that we're related and all.
For the record, I FULLY agree with you on the welfare business. I actually read the initial post aloud to my wife because its been such a sore spot for us, both at BYU and here in Richmond.
I'm sorry to hear about your sister. I'm trying to call Rebekah for more information, but haven't succeeded so far. We'll keep trying and keep her in our prayers.