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Re: Spank That, Why Women Love Getting Spanked

HappyToBeNappy — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 18:14:29 -0000

If he aint slapping my ass, he better move on. Slap my ass, pull my hair. . .I love it!

Re: The Beauty Of A Slim Woman

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 16:56:47 -0000

since when did petite start meaning thin?? that word has more to do with height & body frame than it does with being thick or thin. with that said, to each his own. if you like think chicks. . .have at it. there are plenty of them out there. and there is some validity to your statement about thin girls being able to take the d. i read an article online somewhere & this doctor was saying how the smaller women tend to be larger down there. l

Re: The Beauty Of A Slim Woman

HappyToBeNappy — Sat, 06 Sep 2008 09:20:21 -0000

I would agree that a petite women would not be fat, but that doesn't mean she is thin either. Again, I believe it has more to do with height & body frame. You can have a small frame but not be thin. I have what you would consider a small frame (small wrists & waist) & I'm only 5-3", but I am far from thin. I got hips, thighs & ass for days. So I would be considered petite based on my height & frame, but I would by no means be considered thin (or fat for that matter). But I guess everyone has their own perception of what petite is.

Re: How To Talk To Red Bones

HappyToBeNappy — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 23:20:17 -0000

why is having kinky curly hair on a dark skinned woman a problem? that is the way it grows out of our hair. i'm proud when i see a women (dark or light) sporting a natural style on tv. i get so tired of seeing everyone looking like a white girl (long, flowy hair) and extremely light skin!!!

Re: Funk Master Flex Blast R-Kelly For Being A Molester

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 09:16:10 -0000

Preach Flex!!! It's about time someone in the industry and said something about this man & his sickness. I didn't chester the molester interview, but I saw the clip when he was asked about liking teenage girls. His response was out of control. And please don't say he was found innocent, he was not. He was found Not Guilty. . . that just means they didn't have enough evidence to say he did it, it does not mean they think he was innocent! I also have a hard time listening to him on any song now. It just leaves a bad taste in my mouth

Re: Baby Daddy vs Baby Mommy

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 17:10:48 -0000

Sorry Xilla, I got no answers for you. I stopped letting my Baby Daddy beat it up the day I kicked his good for nothing ass out of my house. I like to more forward, not backwards!!! Even though the D was good, (which is the only reason I stayed as long as I did), it wasn't good enough to make me deal with him any longer. When I'm done, I'm done!!!!

Re: Baby Daddy vs Baby Mommy

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 22 Sep 2008 17:14:26 -0000

just noticed this wasn't written by Xilla. . .my bad P. Lee, my comment should be addressed to you

Re: It’s My Birthday - Libra’s Stand Up

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:24:48 -0000

Happy birthday Xilla. . .from one Libra to another.

Re: Do You Send Naked Pictures

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 26 Sep 2008 21:28:25 -0000

I love sending pics to my guy. Especially when he's not expecting it. The thought of him being at work or something & getting the picture just turns me on. I like to think about how he would respond to it. I'm also down to send him pics when he asks for it. As for worrying about where said picture might end up, I generally make sure my face is not in the picture or any other distinguishing characteristics. So if things go south (which they often do) i don't have to worry about my pics ending up online & not being able to deny it's me!

Re: D*ck For A Day

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 29 Sep 2008 17:04:46 -0000

I don't really have anything to add, you ladies have already said it all. I would want to know what it felt like to get hard & get some pussy. I would love to have an orgy since if I did it now, I'd be called all sorts of whores. So with a dick, I could get as much pussy as I wanted & not have to worry about what people would call me. I would tell as many people about it as possible, but I would refrain from calling the girls I hit out of their names. I would want to get head too, just to see what that feels like.

Re: She Deserves A Tongue Spanking

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 01 Oct 2008 17:27:13 -0000

All I know is reading this blog got me wanting a good tongue spanking. . right now! Damn you Xilla!

Re: If It Smells Like Trout…Get Out

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:05:19 -0000

Any woman who claims not to know her coochie smells foul is full of shit! You can smell yourself way before someone else can.

If she doesn't know because that's her normal smell, you have an even bigger problem.

Either way, do not pass go. Proceed to the nearest exit!

Re: The Drought - “My Vagina Is Depressed”

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 18:11:53 -0000

Right now I'm on month 5 of no sex & I'm not handling it too well. I am horny all the time & think about doing it with damn near every guy I know. It's bad. On 2 different occasions I've gone well over a year without & it wasn't that bad. I never do it on purpose, I just get tired of the bullshit & take myself out of the game for awhile. I think in another month or 2 I'll be okay. Masturbation is the only thing that gets me through. . .no matter how long I go without the real thing, I can't go more than a few days without loving myself! I gotta have it some way!

Re: Head Is A Must

HappyToBeNappy — Sat, 01 Nov 2008 11:24:28 -0000

I'm the kinda chick that needs to be told to give head. I never offer it & I never initiate it. But if it's somebody I'm really feeling, all he has to do is tell me to do it & I'm there. I love a guy who takes charge in the bedroom. . .tells me what to do & when to do it. I like him to be a little forceful, not violent or nothing like that. . .but just kinda ordering me around. It's funny though, cause outside the bedroom, I wish a N@@@ would try to tell me what to do. It aint going down like that.

So guys, if you come across a girl like me, please tell her what you want. . .and you shall receive!!!

Re: Beyonce - Diva

HappyToBeNappy — Tue, 04 Nov 2008 18:15:38 -0000

I loving it. Bey did it again.

Re: The Importance of Booty

HappyToBeNappy — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 11:43:43 -0000

Let's be real. . chicks wouldn't like having a big butt if guys didn't like it. I love my big butt because it's mine. I have hips, thighs & ass. . .it's not going anywhere so I might as well love it. And not every chick with a big ass has stretch marks & dimples on it. But if she does, what's wrong with that??? What's the problem with a real women having a real women's body??

Re: The Importance of Booty

HappyToBeNappy — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 19:04:25 -0000

Okay. I feel you on the airbrush shit. If you proud of yo booty, be proud of it. . .flaws & all.

Re: 20 Tips To Make Her Feel Like A Woman

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 16:58:24 -0000

Great list. And FYI, The Notebook is not that great. I mean, it's a nice little love story, but it is so not as good as people made it out to be.

Re: Touch Myself

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 17:01:52 -0000

It would be easier for me to count when I don't do it. I do it without even thinking about it. I don't think a women can ever expect a man to please her sexually if she doesn't know what she likes. . .and what better way to find out what you like than to play with your self?? Sometimes I use a toy, sometimes not. . . just depends on how I'm feeling. Most of the times all I need i finger or two!

Re: 4 Things She Won’t Tell Him

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 16:59:46 -0000

#1 - Most women are not crazy. . .and if we are, yall made us that way. Quit treating us like crap & maybe we won't act crazy

#2 - Though I do get really horny when my aunt is in town, I don't usually get down like that. I've only done that with one guy I dated, not even my baby daddy.

#3 - Fingers are okay if you know what to do with them. Most guys just poke around & that is a no no

#4 - I agree. . most of us are down to try. Hell, some of us are just waiting for you to ask. That way it can be your idea & not ours

Re: 3 Games Women Play

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 14 Nov 2008 17:03:33 -0000

Why aren't all men as observant as you are?? If I don't answer your calls or respond to your messages. . .I don't want to talk to you?? It's not a game. . it's as simple as that. For the rest.. . guilty as charged. But it's not playing games. . .it's just using your head!

Re: Nelly’s New Car [Ford Flex 2009]

HappyToBeNappy — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 09:17:44 -0000

Why you have me searching through Vibe looking for your pic? At least I got a nice view of those lovely locks. :)

Re: Nelly’s New Car [Ford Flex 2009]

HappyToBeNappy — Sun, 16 Nov 2008 22:11:43 -0000

Page 54 - picture # 13. I so feel you on Plies. . .he makes me sick. Yuck!

Re: 9 After Sex Personalities

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 17:26:26 -0000

If it was good, I'm the cuddler. Newsflash. . .sometimes wanting to cuddle is just wanting to cuddle. It does not mean I want to date you or have more than what we just had. . . a b**ch just likes to cuddle after getting some good D. If it was wack, I'm the go homer. . .meaning, go the f&*k home. Do not look back, don't even think about calling me tomorrow, just go home. . .now.

Re: If You Had: Morris Chestnut

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 17:28:59 -0000

If I had Morris Chestnut. . I would let him put it wherever he wanted. I would take his last name literally and put his nuts on my chest. I would be his personal freak for the evening.

Re: How To Pull Off One Night Stand

HappyToBeNappy — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 16:18:37 -0000

Dudes really are the new females on this one. I've had a few one nighters and for me that's all they were, wish I could say the same for them. They kept calling & texting trying to see me again. It is what it is . . .move on. And if we bump into each other again, don't just assume it's gonna go down again (unless it was the bizness!!!)

Re: If You Had: Adrian Peterson

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 19 Nov 2008 08:49:38 -0000

His body is amazing. That face, not so much. But based on the body alone. . he could get it. I would hope the D matched up to that perfect body. It would be such a let down if it didn't.

Re: 20 Ways to Show Your Appreciation for your Man

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 21 Nov 2008 09:11:46 -0000

If you got a good dude, all this shit comes natural. Most of us wouldn't even think twice about doing these things (or have to be told we should be doing it) when we have a good man. The reason we don't do it all the time is because a women is never really sure if she's got a good man. We be dating yall "representative" for months before the real you comes out. So why do all this shit just to find out months later that your man aint shit???

I'm only gonna do so much for a dude before I know what he's really about.

Re: 10 Things I Learned From Jay-Z + Beyonce

HappyToBeNappy — Sun, 30 Nov 2008 15:46:29 -0000

Great pictures. And that song is hot. . I heard it on another blog earlier today. . .YBF i think.

Re: From The Vault: Don’t Check It, You Won’t Like What You See

HappyToBeNappy — Sat, 06 Dec 2008 12:14:51 -0000

If you do it, be prepared for what you might find. Be prepared to have a fight about what you saw, and why you were checking in the first place. I say leave it alone. If they are cheating there should be other signs anyway. And if I did check someones phone, I wouldn't even try to hide it - I'd do it right in front of them to see how they react. If they start trying to grab the phone back before I can look, I know we have a problem.

Re: Xilla and the Midget

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 08 Dec 2008 15:24:41 -0000

OMG. That was the funniest shit I've heard in a long time. You a crazy dude!

Re: Be A Better Lover: What Do You Bring To A Relationship

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 09:08:41 -0000

I for one don't care if a man has kids, I never did. What I do care about it is how he treats them & their mother. Not every guy with kids is just some no good baby daddy. Sometimes a relationship just doesn't work out, but that doesn't mean the guy isn't a great father. I'm concerned about who he is . . for real. How does he treat his mother & the rest of his family? Is he educated, employed (and if not is there a good reason why). How many jobs has he had in the past year (i can't stand a man that jumps from job to job).

Myself, as far as what I bring to the table. I bring myself. . .an independent strong woman. Someone who is not looking for a man to take care of her, I can do that by myself. I'm not looking for someone to play daddy to my son, he already has one. I bring my heart, my desire, my drive & my ambition. I bring my willingness to support my man in everything he does, my desire to be his all. I also bring the ability to see the best in someone without ignoring the worst..

I doubt I'll find someone, at least not now. I have to learn to let go of my past first. I will never truly trust a man until I can do that. So for the time being, it'll be me all by my lonely!

Re: Please Her With Your Fingers

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 17:24:47 -0000

This needs to passed around to every man out there. You do not just jabb a finger in there and expect magic to happen. . .no way, no how. This is how it should be done.

Re: The Ugliest Urban Celebrities

HappyToBeNappy — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 19:28:15 -0000

Aint nothing ugly about India Arie. She is a natural beauty. I agree with the others for the most part. But we gotta add Plies, Lil Wayne & T-Pain to the list. . .STAT!

Re: Teyana Taylor: All Grown Up

HappyToBeNappy — Fri, 12 Dec 2008 11:25:07 -0000

She's a pretty girl. I like her better with the wild crazy hair though. She reminds me of someone. . .one of these days I'll figure out who it is

Re: Rear Entry - 5 Ways To Do Her Doggy Style

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 15 Dec 2008 18:01:22 -0000

Why you gotta go writing about my favorite position. . in vivid detail no doubt?? Got me over here getting all excited. Damn you Xilla!!!

Re: The Major Problems With Child Support

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:14:01 -0000

People need to start taking care of their children. Men shouldn't be mad about having to pay child support. If you didn't want to support your child, you should have been more careful. And on the flip side, women should be complaining about how the baby's daddy aint shit & don't pay enough. If you weren't able to raise a child you should have been more careful. If you have children out of wedlock (like many of us do) it's just part of life & complaining won't change it.

But seriously. . .dudes killing themselves and/or their kids/baby's moms over child support. . .that's just lame. Grow the hell up!!!

Re: The Major Problems With Child Support

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 20:01:28 -0000

Child support has nothing to do with visitation. That is a whole different issue. Child support is about providing financial support to your child. Me personally, I took my son's father down to the child support office as soon out son was born, even though we were still together. Why?? Because I wasn't gonna be stuck like chuck if things didn't work out trying to fight to get it later. Not to mention the fact that I already knew we weren't gonna last too much longer as a couple. Trust me when I say what he pays does nothing for me & my son, but we are both his parents. . .so we both need to take a part in his financial support.

As for all the comments about women using the child support money to buy stuff for themselves. . . how would anyone know that?? Unless you are up in her bank account. . .you have no idea where her money is coming from or where it's going.

Any man who isn't willing to pay child support is not a man.

Re: The Major Problems With Child Support

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 10:09:17 -0000

Suspending licenses is a last resort. This is not happening to parents who just fell on hard times & are a little behind. . .this is for those who have proven that they just will not pay.

Re: Head On The First Date

HappyToBeNappy — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 18:10:46 -0000

It all depends on the dude, not how many times we've gone out or had sex. Most of the dudes that have been lucky enough to get me to give head has been the 1st time we had sex. It just depends on how he makes me feel. I don't care if it's date 1 or date 500 - you gotta have the right kind of swag to get me to give head. And if you do. . .you probably can get me to do damn near anything (sexually that is)

Re: 4 Reasons Older Women Are Better Than Younger Women

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 11:25:01 -0000

I'm cool on being anyone's Suga Mama. But to each his own I guess. But everything else is pretty true, but most of it's been true for me long before I became an "older woman"

Re: Quickie - iPhone Diaries: Give Her Space

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 17:37:57 -0000

You betta keep posting pictures . . . they make my day :)

Re: 30 Reasons Why SOME Women Ain’t…

HappyToBeNappy — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 07:27:26 -0000

Her name ends in Sha. . . wow that one's harsh!

Re: He Just Wanna Smash, And That’s Ok

HappyToBeNappy — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 19:44:03 -0000

I've been saying this to dudes for years. . .and they all look at me like I've got 5 eyes or something. Then they just tell me most chicks aint like me. I didn't believe that then & I don't believe it now. Just learn to say what you want. . . you may actually get it.

Re: What I’ve Learned From My Ex’s: The Coochie Coupon

HappyToBeNappy — Mon, 23 Mar 2009 09:43:33 -0000

I don't know if I'd say it never expires, but I have a few coochie coupons out there. A few of them haven't been cashed in for quite awhile, but they could at any time. If the D is good, you gotta hold onto it.

Re: 5 Coochie Hair Styles

HappyToBeNappy — Sun, 29 Mar 2009 19:28:14 -0000

I shave for me. . not him. Everything feels better when there isn't all that hair getting in the way. Plus I just feel cleaner without it.