DISQUS

I shave for me. . not him. Everything feels better when there isn't all that hair getting in the way. Plus I just feel cleaner without it.

I don't know if I'd say it never expires, but I have a few coochie coupons out there. A few of them haven't been cashed in for quite awhile, but they could at any time. If the D is good, you gotta hold onto it.

I've been saying this to dudes for years. . .and they all look at me like I've got 5 eyes or something. Then they just tell me most chicks aint like me. I didn't believe that then & I don't believe it now. Just learn to say what you want. . . you may actually get it.

Her name ends in Sha. . . wow that one's harsh!

You betta keep posting pictures . . . they make my day :)

I'm cool on being anyone's Suga Mama. But to each his own I guess. But everything else is pretty true, but most of it's been true for me long before I became an "older woman"

It all depends on the dude, not how many times we've gone out or had sex. Most of the dudes that have been lucky enough to get me to give head has been the 1st time we had sex. It just depends on how he makes me feel. I don't care if it's date 1 or date 500 - you gotta have the right kind of swag to get me to give head. And if you do. . .you probably can get me to do damn near anything (sexually that is)

Suspending licenses is a last resort. This is not happening to parents who just fell on hard times & are a little behind. . .this is for those who have proven that they just will not pay.

Child support has nothing to do with visitation. That is a whole different issue. Child support is about providing financial support to your child. Me personally, I took my son's father down to the child support office as soon out son was born, even though we were still together. Why?? Because I wasn't gonna be stuck like chuck if things didn't work out trying to fight to get it later. Not to mention the fact that I already knew we weren't gonna last too much longer as a couple. Trust me when I say what he pays does nothing for me & my son, but we are both his parents. . .so we both need to take a part in his financial support.

As for all the comments about women using the child support money to buy stuff for themselves. . . how would anyone know that?? Unless you are up in her bank account. . .you have no idea where her money is coming from or where it's going.

Any man who isn't willing to pay child support is not a man.

People need to start taking care of their children. Men shouldn't be mad about having to pay child support. If you didn't want to support your child, you should have been more careful. And on the flip side, women should be complaining about how the baby's daddy aint shit & don't pay enough. If you weren't able to raise a child you should have been more careful. If you have children out of wedlock (like many of us do) it's just part of life & complaining won't change it.

But seriously. . .dudes killing themselves and/or their kids/baby's moms over child support. . .that's just lame. Grow the hell up!!!

Why you gotta go writing about my favorite position. . in vivid detail no doubt?? Got me over here getting all excited. Damn you Xilla!!!

She's a pretty girl. I like her better with the wild crazy hair though. She reminds me of someone. . .one of these days I'll figure out who it is

Aint nothing ugly about India Arie. She is a natural beauty. I agree with the others for the most part. But we gotta add Plies, Lil Wayne & T-Pain to the list. . .STAT!

This needs to passed around to every man out there. You do not just jabb a finger in there and expect magic to happen. . .no way, no how. This is how it should be done.

I for one don't care if a man has kids, I never did. What I do care about it is how he treats them & their mother. Not every guy with kids is just some no good baby daddy. Sometimes a relationship just doesn't work out, but that doesn't mean the guy isn't a great father. I'm concerned about who he is . . for real. How does he treat his mother & the rest of his family? Is he educated, employed (and if not is there a good reason why). How many jobs has he had in the past year (i can't stand a man that jumps from job to job).

Myself, as far as what I bring to the table. I bring myself. . .an independent strong woman. Someone who is not looking for a man to take care of her, I can do that by myself. I'm not looking for someone to play daddy to my son, he already has one. I bring my heart, my desire, my drive & my ambition. I bring my willingness to support my man in everything he does, my desire to be his all. I also bring the ability to see the best in someone without ignoring the worst..

I doubt I'll find someone, at least not now. I have to learn to let go of my past first. I will never truly trust a man until I can do that. So for the time being, it'll be me all by my lonely!

OMG. That was the funniest shit I've heard in a long time. You a crazy dude!

If you do it, be prepared for what you might find. Be prepared to have a fight about what you saw, and why you were checking in the first place. I say leave it alone. If they are cheating there should be other signs anyway. And if I did check someones phone, I wouldn't even try to hide it - I'd do it right in front of them to see how they react. If they start trying to grab the phone back before I can look, I know we have a problem.

Great pictures. And that song is hot. . I heard it on another blog earlier today. . .YBF i think.

If you got a good dude, all this shit comes natural. Most of us wouldn't even think twice about doing these things (or have to be told we should be doing it) when we have a good man. The reason we don't do it all the time is because a women is never really sure if she's got a good man. We be dating yall "representative" for months before the real you comes out. So why do all this shit just to find out months later that your man aint shit???

I'm only gonna do so much for a dude before I know what he's really about.

His body is amazing. That face, not so much. But based on the body alone. . he could get it. I would hope the D matched up to that perfect body. It would be such a let down if it didn't.

Dudes really are the new females on this one. I've had a few one nighters and for me that's all they were, wish I could say the same for them. They kept calling & texting trying to see me again. It is what it is . . .move on. And if we bump into each other again, don't just assume it's gonna go down again (unless it was the bizness!!!)

If I had Morris Chestnut. . I would let him put it wherever he wanted. I would take his last name literally and put his nuts on my chest. I would be his personal freak for the evening.

If it was good, I'm the cuddler. Newsflash. . .sometimes wanting to cuddle is just wanting to cuddle. It does not mean I want to date you or have more than what we just had. . . a b**ch just likes to cuddle after getting some good D. If it was wack, I'm the go homer. . .meaning, go the f&*k home. Do not look back, don't even think about calling me tomorrow, just go home. . .now.

Page 54 - picture # 13. I so feel you on Plies. . .he makes me sick. Yuck!

Why you have me searching through Vibe looking for your pic? At least I got a nice view of those lovely locks. :)