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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for Urban Thought</title><link>http://disqus.com/people/d6d994889c1c41d25f18c264f4ba370c/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 20:13:38 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Smile</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_smile/#comment-21716365</link><description>One of my all time must-listen-to jams by Anita Baker. She sings her heart out on this one.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 02 Nov 2009 20:13:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Wordless Wednesday</title><link>http://orient-lodge.disqus.com/wordless_wednesday_42/#comment-977836</link><description>Excellent photo!!!!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Happy WW!!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 12:50:15 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Wordless Wednesday</title><link>http://orient-lodge.disqus.com/wordless_wednesday_27/#comment-15058853</link><description>Nice. I just took a friend of mine to ride. It was a first time.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Happy WW.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 19 Aug 2009 09:52:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: WW - Dressing Up</title><link>http://mummifiedx5.disqus.com/ww_dressing_up/#comment-975544</link><description>LOL... Now that's COOL!!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Jul 2008 09:06:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Featured Site: Highbrid Nation</title><link>http://wooohainc.disqus.com/featured_site_highbrid_nation/#comment-5066891</link><description>You picked a great site. I've been rockin with them for a minute.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 12:31:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday Movie Date</title><link>http://smokeringsandcoffeestains.disqus.com/sunday_movie_date/#comment-7770653</link><description>So did you like it?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Urban Thought's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/255327404/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Fair or Unjust?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2008 09:27:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Word Press 2.5, Meleah and PayPal</title><link>http://smokeringsandcoffeestains.disqus.com/word_press_25_meleah_and_paypal/#comment-7770665</link><description>I've never understood the two to four weeks wait for a new bank card. Once Commerce Bank came to the city it was the best thing that could have happen. You can walk in the bank and they will give you a new card on the spot. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;All the other banks suck.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Urban Thought's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/258735194/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Is Vogue Magazine Racist?&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 09:02:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Siblings Day</title><link>http://smokeringsandcoffeestains.disqus.com/siblings_day/#comment-7770696</link><description>WoW... Didn't know the day existed. I'll call my brother today even though he called me yesterday.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thx for letting a brotha know.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Urban Thought's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/267459042/" rel="nofollow"&gt;No Address, Part 2: Spoke to Your Kids&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 10 Apr 2008 17:39:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Movies</title><link>http://smokeringsandcoffeestains.disqus.com/movies/#comment-7770731</link><description>Iron Man is a must see. Be sure to check that out at some point.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Urban Thought's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://feeds.feedburner.com/~r/UrbanObservation/~3/280614257/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Wordless Wednesday: Offline Dating Profile&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 May 2008 08:51:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: What The Hell?!?</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/what_the_hell_30/#comment-8650504</link><description>This whole thing is crazy. First, you would think they would clean up the room a little bit. Perhaps, that female could have put on a better pair of underwear.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Also, two faces? Have you seen pics? I have to check this out.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;And then... NC doesn't need any more peanuts. She is nuts all on her own. First flinging cell phones now spitting on cops. Come on? And thens he is saying she is being treated like that because she is black? Who is she fooling... She is being treated like that because she is a rich idiot.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 09 Apr 2008 14:34:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TV Watcher: Flavor Of Love 3</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tv_watcher_flavor_of_love_3/#comment-8650595</link><description>If nothing is on late at night, when I get home, I'll watch the show. But I won't make it my business to rush home to watch it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It's good for a few laughs.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2008 11:15:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: W2W: Opening a New Chapter</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/w2w_opening_a_new_chapter/#comment-8650626</link><description>Good things... Good things...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You are having a set up year. Bringing your goals and dreams into focus is a great way to start and further yourself to meeting them. I am liking the direction. I wish you the best on your journey. You'll be a great person tomorrow than who you are today.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 18 Apr 2008 09:52:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Just Something&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/just_something8230/#comment-8650685</link><description>Very nice.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I was surprised to put my name in and actually have an answer pop up.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Here is what mine said:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;People see you as a complete enigma, and only you truly understand who you are.&lt;br&gt;You spend most of your time introspecting and seeking truth.&lt;br&gt;You're a very interesting person... but not many people know you enough to realize it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You are usually the best at everything ... you strive for perfection.&lt;br&gt;You are confident, authoritative, and aggressive.&lt;br&gt;You have the classic "Type A" personality.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You are balanced, orderly, and organized. You like your ducks in a row.&lt;br&gt;You are powerful and competent, especially in the workplace.&lt;br&gt;People can see you as stubborn and headstrong. You definitely have a dominant personality.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You tend to be pretty tightly wound. It's easy to get you excited... which can be a good or bad thing.&lt;br&gt;You have a lot of enthusiasm, but it fades rather quickly. You don't stick with any one thing for very long.&lt;br&gt;You have the drive to accomplish a lot in a short amount of time. Your biggest problem is making sure you finish the projects you start.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I THINK IT IS RIGHT ON THE NOSE.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 10:14:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Some Good Stuff</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/some_good_stuff/#comment-8650672</link><description>I have to say that this is the most creative election process that I have ever experienced.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Obama girls, You Tube videos, stars getting together to produce election singles. I think it is wonderful.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;With that sad, I must say that people are very creative. All the time it must have taken to find the proper photos and put them in such a profound order to get the message out to the people. And a song, that has already been in the market, to convey the message so clearly.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I love creative folk. The gift is wonderful.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thx for the vids. They made my morning.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 10:27:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Here Goes&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/here_goes8230/#comment-8650666</link><description>I'm down.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Making moves. I'm lovin it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great design on the site. I put it on my RSS feed so I can keep up.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Apr 2008 10:28:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: MovieWatcher: I Am Legend</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/moviewatcher_i_am_legend/#comment-8650705</link><description>Yes. It was a great movie.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;After you finish reading the book you should watch "&lt;a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Omega_Man" rel="nofollow"&gt;The Omega Man&lt;/a&gt;."</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 11:44:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: In The Words Of Luda&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/in_the_words_of_luda8230/#comment-8650763</link><description>How appropriate is that? I hope her win isn't a sign of what the convention may result in.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 09:08:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: In The Words Of Luda&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/in_the_words_of_luda8230/#comment-8650764</link><description>I meant to put a LOL... I busted out laughing in the office.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 09:09:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: W2W: Frustration</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/w2w_frustration/#comment-8650790</link><description>I'm assuming W2W means Woman 2 Woman. However, I find myself wanting to comment regardless to the type of anatomy I've been blessed with. Thank you mom/sperm donor/Supreme Being.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;At any rate, I feel where you are coming from (from a human perspective). I don't believe there is anything to fix though. There isn't anything wrong with you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You are clear as to what you want. You realize you don't want to settle for less than that. You've come further than most people who just deal and feel shorted every time they complete or finish satisfying an urge.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You'll find what you are looking for in time. It won't take much for the spark to come along and for you to realize its time to step from behind that wall. That spark may have a name of a man on it and he may grab you himself and pull you forward.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Either way... In time it will work itself out. I mean perhaps its just me but I believe what will be will be. And if its meant to happen then it shall. When your time has come the opportunity will present itself. At that point it will be up to you  handle it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But I'm just a man with two brains who only uses half of one.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 12:55:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: W2W: Frustration</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/w2w_frustration/#comment-8650793</link><description>I must only be using half... I didn't even notice the "Filed Under: Woman to Woman" until just this moment.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 24 Apr 2008 14:17:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday&amp;#8217;s Thoughts: Leaping Forward</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday8217s_thoughts_leaping_forward/#comment-8650867</link><description>I'm really trying to keep up. But glad you are finding focus on this endeavor.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2008 16:03:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday&amp;#8217;s Thoughts: Leaping Forward</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday8217s_thoughts_leaping_forward/#comment-8650871</link><description>Don't get me wrong. It isn't a bad thing. I know you have it all worked out.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:17:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: W2W: No Turning Back</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/w2w_no_turning_back/#comment-8650909</link><description>Sounds like the questions you've asked yourself have actually been answered.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It's through this time of quiet and relative reflection that we see ourselves in our truest form. I feel you are on the path of finding the truth within yourself.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Then again I could be a person who doesn't know what he is talking about at all.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I do like how you put it all out there. How you have allowed yourself to focus on what matters, your next step. Your future is bright.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Indeed, it's all love. And  you have that.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 06:08:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday&amp;#8217;s Thoughts: Passion for Life</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday8217s_thoughts_passion_for_life/#comment-8650943</link><description>As long as the light is in sight then you are on the right path.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What you may want to try is getting out of bed. Wash, get dressed and then turn the door nob. Don't plan where you are going. Just walk... Get lost even... You'll may discover something new on the way. You may meet someone new. Who knows...</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 09:15:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TV Watcher: Cheaters</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tv_watcher_cheaters/#comment-8650962</link><description>I'm with you on this one. I like the show. I would have my friend TiVo it for me just so I can catch every episode.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This show is one more reason why I don't bother with relationships. LOL</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 May 2008 19:38:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TV Watcher: Cheaters</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tv_watcher_cheaters/#comment-8650966</link><description>You must have missed the episode where the host got stabbed. It was on a boat. He recovered but dude was stabbed. I couldn't believe it. I couldn't help but laugh. I know it isn't right but you think about all the people he has busted. How arrogant he is when he catches a cheater... knowing security is with him. I'm speaking of the Greco guy. Don't remember his full name. I could look it up but I'm afraid I'll find a video and not get any work done.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 09:08:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday Inspirations</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday_inspirations/#comment-8651010</link><description>My internet was down at home and couldn't get on... Happy Mother's Day to you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope the day was a beautiful one.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 12 May 2008 11:46:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: MovieWatcher: Basquiat</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/moviewatcher_basquiat/#comment-8651049</link><description>I missed this recommendation on IW's blog. After reading your post I will definitely check it out.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I've seen this dude play MLK, and the drug dealer from Shaft. What a great talent this man has.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 13 May 2008 10:12:48 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: My Girl!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/my_girl/#comment-8651058</link><description>Always liked me some Jill Scott. She has the thickness and the voice.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 14 May 2008 10:20:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I&amp;#8217;m Going To See Jill!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/i8217m_going_to_see_jill/#comment-8651066</link><description>How lucky you are. I would say tell her I said hello but its not like she would know me.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;She is great in concert. You can actually feel her voice run through you... I was blown away. She did the best concert... Saw her at Radio City... Eighth Row.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 12:15:51 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Let&amp;#8217;s Play Cards!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/let8217s_play_cards/#comment-8651077</link><description>I haven't played spades in a minute... I'll have to look into this. Thx.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:52:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I&amp;#8217;m Going To See Jill!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/i8217m_going_to_see_jill/#comment-8651069</link><description>awww sooky sooky now... (in that old grandma voice)  that's what's up... (in my barry white voice)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 15 May 2008 13:54:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: MarvalusOne Icon: Tasha Smith</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/marvalusone_icon_tasha_smith/#comment-8651082</link><description>She reminds me of my aunt. A lot of attitude and talent. Every time I see her on the screen I'm thinking to myself "she's working... yes!!!"&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thank you for putting a spot light her way. She is truly going to make an impact (not that she hasn't already).</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 00:00:14 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Remakes</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_remakes/#comment-8651094</link><description>You did dig that Al B Sure out of the crates. I'm still going with my Lauren though. Something about the gumby/high-top curl on the head I'm not too sure about. But its classic.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;That Stevie Wonder joint is the ish that is in the iPod. I have to appreciate that one hands down. Excellent selection.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I think K-Ci &amp;amp; Jo Jo are the hits of the three. But that is just my opinion.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 16 May 2008 06:04:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The 10Spot: Cocktails, Anyone?</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the_10spot_cocktails_anyone/#comment-8651113</link><description>I've only had a Corona twice and that was for free.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Long Island Ice Tea's are the drink of choice.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 11:17:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: A Beautiful Sight To Behold</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/a_beautiful_sight_to_behold/#comment-8651133</link><description>You ain't never lie. I couldn't think of a better image to wake up to.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2008 06:12:16 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: W2W: That&amp;#8217;s Quite Enough</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/w2w_that8217s_quite_enough/#comment-8651189</link><description>Hugs do make a difference. I'm glad you are there for those young people.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great post!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 14:52:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: W2W: Mamma Knew Love</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/w2w_mamma_knew_love/#comment-8651193</link><description>Congratulations to you and your son on a great success. Don't you love the milestones that life offers?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I don't know anything about having a child or being a parent. But I do know what it is like to grow up with a mother who loves you. Your words remind me so much of my own mother. You are such a great person (and I don't even know you but it's so clear as the day is long).</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 16:03:43 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Wordless Wednesday: Tranquility</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/wordless_wednesday_tranquility/#comment-8651262</link><description>What a great shot. Damn, I need to get away.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 14:19:41 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Philly Soul</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_philly_soul/#comment-8651270</link><description>That's my jam... When will I see you again... What? You pulling it out the crates. Go ahead with your bad self.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Have a great weekend. Thank you for giving me a great start.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 09:03:33 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Commentary: An Environment of Disrespect</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/commentary_an_environment_of_disrespect/#comment-8651411</link><description>I'm feeling for her. I cannot even think to understand what her family is going through right now.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm reading this post and I'm thinking you are right in one sense that these boys don't have a man in their lives to guide them and understand how to treat woman, people, themselves. But then I think about my upbringing. I see how my mother made sure I had everything I need to get ahead in life. I think about how she sacrificed and went without just so I can have. And then I think about you and how you expressed your way of raising your son.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm so over the fact that people allow their children to be raised by the streets. Who are the streets and why are they having that type of responsibility? But I digress...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;We don't have enough support... Men need to start standing up. And I need to get myself up in a each one teach one, big brother program or something so I can give back.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 May 2008 09:10:22 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: First&amp;#8230;A Thank You</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/first8230a_thank_you/#comment-8651333</link><description>I'm happy to have the privilege of being able to read your thoughts. You truly add something to the blogosphere (and my thoughts).</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 05 Jun 2008 12:55:16 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Introducing Layla</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/introducing_layla/#comment-8651386</link><description>Layla reminds me of my ex-girl. For me being skinny, it was only fitting that I was with a thick chick. At least that is what I was told.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I have to say I like the flow of the story. You have me thinking about my school years. Reflecting on how tough being young can be.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great story. I'm feeling the character and the flow. Hopefully there is more to come of this.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 07 Jun 2008 13:50:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday Inspirations: Fifteen Things God Won&amp;#8217;t Ask</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday_inspirations_fifteen_things_god_won8217t_ask/#comment-8651392</link><description>Food for thought.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 08 Jun 2008 15:07:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Commentary: Umm, This Is Art?!?</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/commentary_umm_this_is_art/#comment-8651429</link><description>I believe many of us said in the beginning of the campaign that folks such as this artist would come out the woodwork. This could have been done better. I realize art is about expression without boundaries but considering the climate of which we live and the subject matter, the project could have been executed differently.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As some of your readers have said, "this is for attention only." It isn't about art.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;People are nuts and good thing the Secret Service and NYPD were there to crack them.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 10 Jun 2008 14:16:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: In My Opinion: She Is On Minute #15</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/in_my_opinion_she_is_on_minute_15/#comment-8651440</link><description>Yeah, that is kinda extra and unnecessary. I'm sure there is a better way to market an album. But that clearly isn't. This is R&amp;amp;B music not murder music. Not some gangster situation. Damn, can I get a love song instead of hearing about a knife being pulled?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Indeed, the clock should stop ticking on her career. Hang up the weave and have a seat in the corner.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 09:09:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Announcement!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_announcement_29/#comment-8651452</link><description>Did that concert happen yet?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;She stays in rotation on my iPod.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2008 17:36:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday&amp;#8217;s Thoughts: Happy Father&amp;#8217;s Day</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday8217s_thoughts_happy_father8217s_day/#comment-8651508</link><description>That's what's up...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You've touched on so much. I can relate to the absence of a father. Seeing a father raise other children and not making the time for you is tough. But I digress.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'm so happy that you and your Baby's Daddy get along and that he is apart of your son's life. Within the context that you use the term, "Baby's Daddy, is fitting. So don't think twice about it.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 15:25:23 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The 10Spot: Things I Am Just Confused About</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the_10spot_things_i_am_just_confused_about/#comment-8651498</link><description>McCain can't use a computer? Now, this isn't something to be taken lightly.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 15 Jun 2008 15:31:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: This Cracks Me Up!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/this_cracks_me_up/#comment-8651519</link><description>Yeah... I peeped this the other day. I was rolling.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 08:42:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Whenever You&amp;#8217;re Around</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/whenever_you8217re_around/#comment-8651558</link><description>This post was fun to read. I think I'll play next. :-)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 01:42:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Announcement!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_announcement_10/#comment-8651569</link><description>And here I was taking a blog video tour. Now you are going to cut my music break short. Uh... Now what do I have to look forward to? Limits, I guess they are necessary.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 15:03:38 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Commentary: Fighting The Battle</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/commentary_fighting_the_battle/#comment-8651551</link><description>Don't know how I missed all this. But notice how happy these two are with each other. People just knock the whole image of a great relationship between husband and wife. And then for this black woman to have a great intelligence, charisma, and all that other good stuff makes them want to say: Oh hell no... We will not tolerate a strong black woman doing her thing and having her own mind being married and what not to a man trying to get to the presidency. If we cannot stop him directly we will destroy him through her.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Or maybe I'm just reading too much into the situation.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2008 15:07:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: MovieWatcher: The Incredible Hulk</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/moviewatcher_the_incredible_hulk/#comment-8651583</link><description>I'm making it my business to see it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;One way to get in all the movies: movie marathon (or what some people call the theater hop). I know it isn't legal but they are robbing us eyes wide open anyway.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Excellent review.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 12:16:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Don&amp;#8217;t Take A Listen: Tha Carter III</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/don8217t_take_a_listen_tha_carter_iii/#comment-8651576</link><description>For every lousy CD/Artist is a great one who is either underground or isn't getting enough press.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It appears that you are aware of the rappers/hip-hop artists that have lyrics that make you think. You are away of the club bangers. I'll say that Wayne has some. And if you get past his voice, those lyrics then the beats are good.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But I feel you. I see the words on the screen and all I can do is nod my head in agreement. Gosh... this is what they call music. His voice is damn annoying.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great review. I'll be sure not to put any money down.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 12:19:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Happy Juneteenth!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/happy_juneteenth/#comment-8651574</link><description>WoW... I don't know why I don't think about this stuff more. I must take my freedom for granted. But yeah... This is something to think about. You won't find my at a BBQ. But I will take time out to be thankful.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 19 Jun 2008 12:21:24 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Passing On The Love</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/passing_on_the_love/#comment-8651625</link><description>WOW... Thank you very much. I believe this to be my first award. THANK YOU.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'll have to check out the other four folks.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Marvalus you are.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 07:33:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Breaking News: George Carlin</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/breaking_news_george_carlin/#comment-8651649</link><description>We were talking about this in the office this morning. He is one of those naturally funny people. I like the fact that he was humble enough to take minute parts in movies. A lot of people don't do that.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The comedy world will not be the same.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 17:51:27 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Passing On The Love</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/passing_on_the_love/#comment-8651628</link><description>Yes. The first. Could not have come from a better person. Thx again.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 17:52:22 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TMV On: Shaq and Kobe</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tmv_on_shaq_and_kobe/#comment-8651657</link><description>If I'm not mistaken Shaq didn't make it to the playoffs this year. What more is there to say?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I hope Kobe ignores it. (I don't care for either one of them.)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 24 Jun 2008 07:09:52 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Am I Not Human?</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/am_i_not_human_50/#comment-8651726</link><description>I'm so glad that the internet community can ban together to cover issues such as this.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Where do I sign up?</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 13:04:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Kid Groups</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_kid_groups/#comment-8651723</link><description>No one can be NE. I know they were built to be the new age Jackson Five. But they brought so much to R&amp;amp;B and have put out so many hits that I appreciate til this day.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 28 Jun 2008 13:05:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The10Spot: Feeling Good</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the10spot_feeling_good/#comment-8651733</link><description>10) We all come with our faults. One more reason why I cannot look at him and say this dude is jacked. We are all jacked in some way. This is of course depending on who is looking at us. I'll have to check out his new works and see whats up.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;9) 300 was that movie. I know for me it turned out to be a great time at the gym. They started the 300 work out. One of the best months of my life working out to what programs they put together around it. But aside from the work out the story in that movie was amazing, down right inspiring.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;6) When I heard that story I kept thinking about the many accidents that occur at amusement parks. I'm not sure on what kind of hat it was or the state of this persons mind but you're right... Hats are replacable. Life, not so much.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2) My camera. I cannot live without it. I capture so many moments with it. Either trying to keep up with the Wordless Wednesday posts or just taking pics of the fam... Those Kodak Moments are always priceless.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 29 Jun 2008 23:18:56 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Feeling The Love</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/feeling_the_love/#comment-8651758</link><description>It appears that Regina likes the voice that she reads on your blog. You say its your natural voice and it is what ever you feel to. That is what she likes and wanted the same on hers. At least, that is what I believe. I think your speaking from your heart and soul is what everyone likes to be in touch with.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Glad you are making guest spots. I think that is wonderful. Great way to spread your wings. I do understand the responsibility though.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I can't think you enough for the award you gave me. Also, it took me some time to post it but it should be up on Thursday.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hope you are well.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:40:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TMV Icons: Venus and Serena Williams</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tmv_icons_venus_and_serena_williams/#comment-8651751</link><description>I haven't had a chance to catch tennis this time around because of the work schedule. But you're right in all that you have said. Watching these two people do their thing is simply amazing. They really put their heart into it.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:43:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Artist Spotlight: Floetry</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/artist_spotlight_floetry/#comment-8651748</link><description>Too bad these two broke up. Great spotlight!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 07:44:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The10Spot: Freedom and Independence</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the10spot_freedom_and_independence/#comment-8651762</link><description>I always like your 10Spot Post. I may have to bite it. LOL&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;10. How do you put a price on your friendship? And he thought he would get more? Apparently he isn't worth as much as he thought.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;9. I hadn't heard about that. And to think I used to work there. That is some mess though. NYC is like that sometimes. People don't care enough about anyone else but themselves.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;8. For all that we might as well look at Tiny Lester for doing it better. He was president of the world in The 5th Element.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;7. Too funny... I'm trying to kick coffee myself. Not that I'm addicted. But I hear it doesn't do much for the midsection. And I'm trying to get the abs in shape. Not to mention it dehydrates you. Who needs that in the summer?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3. Have a great time out there. Family time is the greatest time. I'm hanging out with some folk I haven't seen in a while. But I'm also going to hit the gym hard and catch a few movies. You know me sitting in a theater all day isn't a wasted day for me. A/C, snacks and entertainment... Can't go wrong.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2. Good move... Soda is no good. Between the teeth and the midsection it can wreck the body something kinda awful. Some people don't even realize it. Water is good... Just drink it in moderation. It too can cause harm in abundance. Good luck with your new goal. I'll be cheering you on from the sidelines.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1. Who doesn't love a free Friday? I thought you were going to put on that song that goes "I see all the guys and girls dancing... Do what you like?" But you hit it with one of the best summer jams ever.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jul 2008 14:23:48 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday&amp;#8217;s Thoughts: Nerves</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday8217s_thoughts_nerves/#comment-8651781</link><description>Well then... Go ahead and WORK THAT.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is for you. Your time is NOW.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You have the right attitude for the road ahead of you. Do the damn thing and work it out.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 06 Jul 2008 18:17:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday Inspirations: What Is A Friend?</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday_inspirations_what_is_a_friend/#comment-8651835</link><description>It is wonderful when you have friends to actually tell that you love them. Most people aren't blessed with one. You have a handful... And I'm sure many more. But that is a reflection of the great person that you are.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Glad that you took the time out to write this post. I hope they appreciate you as much as you appreciate them. :-)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 08:44:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The10Spot: Tired, But Happy</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the10spot_tired_but_happy/#comment-8651829</link><description>10. This dude had to be kidding. I told them fools in the office that he did that on person. No way you are in a newsroom and they aren't going to listen to everything you say. You're black. You're a reverend. You're a politician. Enough reasons to make sure they spy on your every word. Not to mention his house isn't built right. Doesn't he have a child out of wedlock?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;8. I saw Hancock. I wasn't mad at it. The critics gave it a bum rap. F them. I went. I enjoyed. I'll get it on DVD, maybe.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;7. I've always liked the remix. I cannot find it for the life of me though.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;4. I'm glad I don't drive. But I did fill up my girl's tank the other day and I was thankful it wasn't something I do often. Not that I'm cheap. But on the real... It's 2008. Why aren't alternative fuels an option?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3. I hear you on this. I'm sure my mom felt the same way at some point. Actually, I know she did.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 14 Jul 2008 08:57:40 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Artist Spotlight: Bilal/Ledisi</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/artist_spotlight_bilalledisi/#comment-8651840</link><description>That joint that goes "sometimes... something something... sometimes" I don't remember the words but that is my jam. I can probably look it up but I won't. But what I will do is find it on my iPod and listen to it while I sip my morning cup of coffee.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Hope you're well and doing the damn thing. I actually know you are... Just had to say it.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jul 2008 08:40:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Don&amp;#8217;t Worry, Be Happy</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/don8217t_worry_be_happy/#comment-8651849</link><description>This is a great spot. I like your insight on all the news that made it to print (it isn't all necessarily fit for it but you know what I mean).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The American People were crazy enough for vote him into office, for a second term, So of course he comes out looking like the sane one. First time, shame on me. Second time, shame on you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Damn is right. This young lady has transformed herself. I liked her a little thicker than what she is now (cause I like a nice thick piece of cake - take the cake Toccara {which is a horrible show} - no disrespect intended. She is fire though and I'd like to hose her down. Again, no disrespect. I'm saying but I'm saying.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I didn't get a change to listen to his speech but I've heard good things. And you are so right... nuff said.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The New Yorker... I'm not even made anymore. It's so clear what is trying to be done here. Indeed, I can sit on one side of the fence and say it is only satire. That this is a true depiction of what the masses, critics, and the naysayers feel and envision Obama and Wife to truly be... And the other side of the fence has me saying, "you put this out there for the people and they will continue to believe it to be true." But no longer will I cry racism. This is just pure __________. You can fill in the blank.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Halle handles her business like most people should... By not putting it out there. I give it to the Pitt/Jolie folk. They rape the mags for the bucks and then ship the paper off to the nearest charity. Just how it should be.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 16 Jul 2008 08:31:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Grown Woman</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/grown_woman/#comment-8651911</link><description>I'm so happy that you are making that step. So many children out there need role models to understand that the reality that they are living now doesn't have to be their future reality. There is more to life.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You aren't out of touch. It doesn't matter if its the suburbs, rural areas, or the inner cities... children can be jacked up no matter the area. It is up to the parents and the community to see that they are kept on a path of success.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Excellent post. I'm glad you are doing big things and letting folk know life can be better if you have the strength and determination to climb to the top.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2008 09:07:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Make Up Songs</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_make_up_songs/#comment-8651917</link><description>What a way to weave those two videos together.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Always good stuff.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Have a great weekend.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Happy Friday!!!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 25 Jul 2008 08:44:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday Inspirations: Desiderata</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday_inspirations_desiderata/#comment-8651938</link><description>Perhaps this wasn't meant for me to read it the day you posted it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Today it has more meaning than any other day of the week.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thank you for having a great spirit and knowing the power of words.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 30 Jul 2008 09:05:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Real Thing</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the_real_thing/#comment-8652010</link><description>Tell us all about it when you get the opportunity.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Is it just me or are Obama's children ready for Prime Time? Always camera ready.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 07 Aug 2008 10:50:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: A Long Walk (Groove): My Concert Experience</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/a_long_walk_groove_my_concert_experience/#comment-8652041</link><description>Glad you had a good time. I'm also pleased that you went by yourself. Sometimes we like to be around other people and don't realize that we can have a good time on our own.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I'll say that your review of the experience felt like I was right there. That actually comes from me seeing her in concert. You describe it so well.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I never understand why people believe just because its hot its ok to show skin, even those with the extra skin to show.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Glad you had a great time. I know it was worth the long wait.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 08 Aug 2008 12:35:21 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Rose That Grew From Concrete</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the_rose_that_grew_from_concrete/#comment-8652377</link><description>Tupac sure had a way with words.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 06:16:05 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Girl, Boo!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/girl_boo/#comment-8652357</link><description>Did she even practice? I'm bugging off of this. Her pitch is off and she is going in all sorts of directions. She should stick to dance tracks.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 24 Sep 2008 06:22:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Thursday&amp;#8217;s Issue: Alive and Breathing</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/thursday8217s_issue_alive_and_breathing/#comment-8652386</link><description>I always try my hardest to look past such statement. But my mind cannot help but ask "why was that said" or "why did they have to make that reference" or "what does that have to do with the subject matter."&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;The exact points that you make in your post are hitting home right now with me. Unlike you, I've been called the "n word" to my face not only with the simple six letter version but also with words added on like "house" "dark" "stupid".&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But the worst is when it comes from your employer in the subtle tones. I like the more direct "you people" reference I received in an e-mail this week. It wasn't meant for me to see but they sent it to me in error.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 08:54:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Karaoke Songs</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_karaoke_songs/#comment-8652406</link><description>I haven't done much Karaoke but I'd say I've enjoyed folk doing it when they are drunk. And this is one entertaining song when done drunk. But yeah, this was Whitney at her PEAK.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 13:17:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Kick Ass Blogger Award</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/kick_ass_blogger_award/#comment-8652392</link><description>You Rock. And I mean that cause you do it hear and the two others spots you hold down. On behalf of Urban Observation... THANK YOU. :-)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 13:20:04 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The10Spot: Anything</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the10spot_anything/#comment-8652409</link><description>10. This is news to me. I've always appreciated him for his skill and charitable work. The brand of food products weren't bad either.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;9. I haven't seen it but I've heard great things about the debate. I like how you refer to McCain as The Old Dude. Plenty of people are doing it and it just states the obvious. I don't want to think of this man in office knowing he can bite the bullet at any minute. It would be like having Dick Chaney in office. Just a heart attack away from...&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;7. The bond they have is crazy love. Pure Love. Love that some folk only dream of. That looks says it all. I know Michelle is his rock.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;6. Chris Rock does it well. Too bad I will miss the show. Hoping to catch a re-run.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;5. Glad you are doing your part. Wish I could say the same. This thing you have with the phone... I think this will break you out of that shell and perhaps open a new door for you. Not your thing now... But could be in the future?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;4. I don't mind "Fight The Power" and "Rapper's Delight" but you are right in questioning the list when Rakim isn't even on it. What is that about? Just goes to show the people in the room on this one. These aren't true hip-hop folk putting this list together. These are the people who are saturated in commercial hip-hop.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;3. That is my jam. I also like Erik B for President.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 20:14:29 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Baby Making Music</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_baby_making_music/#comment-8652449</link><description>Excellent choice... One of the hottest jams she's done.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 08:24:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Thursday&amp;#8217;s Issue: Scared As Hell</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/thursday8217s_issue_scared_as_hell/#comment-8652442</link><description>I'm glad you said it. She has only dugg herself in a hole since she was introduced to America. So if you start off low and then appear "Smarter than a Fifth Grader" people are going to think that to be success.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Winner, she is not.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 08:28:47 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Take A Listen: Paper Trail by T.I.</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/take_a_listen_paper_trail_by_ti/#comment-8652428</link><description>Target was sold out of his CD when I tried to pick it up. But I'll be sure to cop it.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 04 Oct 2008 08:30:08 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Must Read!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/must_read/#comment-8652468</link><description>I'm not missing the debate. I'll check out that blog a little later, when the boss isn't looking.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 07 Oct 2008 09:21:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Music Tuesday: Fearless Evolver</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/music_tuesday_fearless_evolver/#comment-8652637</link><description>I never heard of her but I have heard of him. You put me on to her so I'm going to have to check it out.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 09:06:58 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I Wish I Knew How&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/i_wish_i_knew_how8230/#comment-8652632</link><description>Who knows what lurks in the hearts of men and what consumes their minds? Actually, this is pretty clear considering they have the plot drawn out. This is fear or what some would consider a nightmare without sleeping. They are running scared over the power that Obama may have in his hands come election day. They can't believe he has gotten this far.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Sometimes I think that they shouldn't be mad at them but their own people. I sit in the office and see all the pale face folk talk about Obama and how great he is, I watch the old white woman walk around with his button on... And then I think to myself: Shouldn't these same white people who want to kill him go after their own for wanting to put him into office? Who do you think is donating all that money?&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;But I have not hate in my heart I'm just expressing a thought. Don't mind me.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 30 Oct 2008 09:10:57 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: A Brand New Day!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_a_brand_new_day/#comment-8652698</link><description>I think that song is perfectly fitting for what history has been made this week. You picked a winner. We all did, actually.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 07 Nov 2008 09:06:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I Don&amp;#8217;t Feel Like It</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/i_don8217t_feel_like_it/#comment-8652727</link><description>Some people don't take life as hard as others. Perhaps that smile is nothing more than a mask. But who is to say what is in that woman's heart. I hear where you are coming from.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your last few lines hit home because I was tackling those very thoughts last night and this morning (regarding love of self and others).</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 12 Nov 2008 08:58:26 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The10Spot: Swagga Like Us</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/the10spot_swagga_like_us/#comment-8652785</link><description>It has been 11 days? It doesn't even seem that long ago yet Thanksgiving approaches. I think a lot of us are still getting used to the concept yet ready for the change that is in full swing.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great idea to put Jill in the mix. It was much needed for me today.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Who cares if Grandma moves into the White House? If the girls were neglected then they would have an issue with that. If they hired a nanny they would have an issue with that. They can suck on an egg whomever is making waves about family raising family. Better than a stranger, that's what I say.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Happy Belated Birthday. I hope it was a great one.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 16 Nov 2008 18:32:06 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TMV: Things That Are Pissing Me Off</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tmv_things_that_are_pissing_me_off/#comment-8652794</link><description>Ask he/she what they want to be labeled. I'm saddened by the fact that it's news. I'm sure they want to get on with their lives and do their thing. But they put their business out in the street so I cannot say anything else to that.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Shaq is a big kid. He is acting like a big cry baby. Hopefully he'll find something else to occupy his time and mind and drop what ever bitterness is consuming him.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What is loyalty? Sometimes we forget that basketball is his job. Like most of us, if we aren't being fulfilled at our current place of employment we start to look elsewhere for more money and more reward.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 20 Nov 2008 06:05:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Actor Who Can Sing and Vice Versa&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_actor_who_can_sing_and_vice_versa8230/#comment-8652913</link><description>Excellent Choice.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 05 Dec 2008 07:39:10 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Good News Tuesday: The Benefactor</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/good_news_tuesday_the_benefactor/#comment-8652950</link><description>That is good stuff right there. I was wondering what your post would be on today. I&amp;#39;ll be staying far from that place they call DC. It is going to be a mad house. I prefer watching it on television, without the crowd. I may even take the day off.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 09 Dec 2008 07:59:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TMV Icon: Eartha Kitt</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tmv_icon_eartha_kitt/#comment-8653040</link><description>She sure is an Icon. I&amp;#39;m happy to have seen her up close and personal. She had a great energy about her.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 17:29:48 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Merry Christmas!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/merry_christmas_46/#comment-8653024</link><description>Happy Holidays. Hope yours were a great one.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 27 Dec 2008 17:32:36 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Sunday&amp;#8217;s Thoughts: I Will Not Succumb!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/sunday8217s_thoughts_i_will_not_succumb/#comment-8653062</link><description>Stay strong and focused. Indeed, we get those thoughts that tell us that we should sit down but you have to stand up and keep it moving.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2008 07:54:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Happy New Year!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/happy_new_year/#comment-8653098</link><description>Yeah, put 2008 in the past and leave it where it was is... Yesterday&amp;#39;s news.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Wishing you well in 2009. May it be greater than you can possibly imagine.&lt;/br&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:52:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: No Promises, No Demands&amp;#8230; (Blogger&amp;#8217;s Choice)</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_no_promises_no_demands8230_blogger8217s_choice/#comment-8653116</link><description>Why do I remember this? I feel so old right now. LOL</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2009 08:45:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Why I Blog - The 2009 Edition</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/why_i_blog_the_2009_edition/#comment-8653106</link><description>Your experience of life and the way you convey it touches people, touches me. And that is why I come back. Along with the Old School Fridays... &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Your way of thinking is on point and in turn your blog reflects that. Continue to do the greatness that you do.&lt;/br&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 Jan 2009 08:51:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Good News Tuesday: Mr. Clark</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/good_news_tuesday_mr_clark/#comment-8653155</link><description>That&amp;#39;s not good news... That&amp;#39;s great news. The school deserves it and Oprah was doing how she always does, giving back. The real reward is the great education that these children will walk away with.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 06 Jan 2009 10:12:17 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: I Want My Cut</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/i_want_my_cut/#comment-8653164</link><description>Some times all you have is your word. If you make a verbal agreement stick to it. This person should put themselves in the other&amp;#39;s shoes. If one of them won would they want a piece of the pie? Of course they would.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 07 Jan 2009 08:51:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: The Year Was&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_the_year_was8230/#comment-8653190</link><description>Great choice.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 12:44:37 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: TV Watcher: American Idol</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/tv_watcher_american_idol/#comment-8653228</link><description>Season 3 was the last season that I watched. I haven&amp;#39;t turned that program on since. The best part of the season are the first couple of episodes, with the bad auditions.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 14 Jan 2009 13:02:09 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: Original vs. Remake</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_original_vs_remake/#comment-8653347</link><description>That&amp;#39;s right. They sure did make that song first. I completely forgot. Luther did it so well... &lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As they say... It&amp;#39;s not who does it first but who does it best.&lt;/br&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 30 Jan 2009 18:56:18 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: &amp;#8220;A Little Bit Of Love Is All It Takes&amp;#8230;&amp;#8221;</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/8220a_little_bit_of_love_is_all_it_takes82308221/#comment-8653390</link><description>Music has such a healing power to it. I just had a three hour listening party all with some good company. The little things in life..</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 11 Feb 2009 23:30:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: It&amp;#8217;s The Blues, Baby!</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_it8217s_the_blues_baby/#comment-8653398</link><description>Nothing beats "The Thrill is Gone" for me. That was that ish from back in the day that you knew as a kid and would try to sing it with all your heart. Like you knew what the thrill was and you really missed it. LOL</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 13 Feb 2009 08:58:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Ain&amp;#8217;t Really Love</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/ain8217t_really_love/#comment-8653416</link><description>Your opening paragraph got me before I could even finish. My word... such a powerful message.&lt;br&gt;&lt;/br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great post.&lt;/br&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 11:31:01 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Old School Friday: The Jacksons</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/old_school_friday_the_jacksons/#comment-8653437</link><description>I didn&amp;#39;t even know dude cut a record all his own. I knew of Jermaine and a couple of his hits, but not Marlon. Thanks, again, for putting me on.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 21 Feb 2009 07:39:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: A Night With: John Legend</title><link>http://conversationswithmarva.disqus.com/a_night_with_john_legend/#comment-15477457</link><description>I'm glad you made it. You got to see Jill and now this dude. Two great artist. They both know how to put on a show.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I was only able to see John Legend in concern once. That is when he opened up for Alicia Keys. So you know how long that was. But I did see him perform for some dignitaries. He did this event I worked at where he got on top of the piano. We were more worried about the piano than we were him, it was rented. They folks that own the piano don't take too kindly to people standing on their property, in shoes. LOL</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 27 Aug 2009 13:34:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Wordless Wednesday &amp;#8212; Blogging Friends IRL</title><link>http://5minutesformom.disqus.com/wordless_wednesday_8212_blogging_friends_irl/#comment-15401664</link><description>Great photo. Looks like a good time.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Urban Thought</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:15:57 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>