DISQUS

I've linked to you in these posts:
http://guitpicken61.vox.com/library/post/cyber-...

This one is restricted due to cyberbullies but I've got connections there
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=bl...

Great! I'll be reposting this shortly and linking to you.

A gal I discipled for almost 3 years (she lived with me)let me know a couple of months ago that she was marrying this other gal and wanted to invite me to their ceremony. For the first time in my life I feel divided about what I should do. I feel like believing parents must feel when confronted with the decision about allowing their gay-identified children to bring their partners to family functions... or, the decision about whether to attend the commitment ceremony... or, the decision to "accept" the life partner while trying to figure out how to keep their own sense of right-or-wrong intact. Truth it, I know I cannot attend the ceremony because attendance communicates some sort of agreement or hearty approval. (Let's be honest. It does communicate approval/agreement doesn't it?)

My dilemma has more to do with not wanting that line to be drawn and offense to be taken because I do genuinely love my friend and want her to be very happy. Still, she DOES know what I do in life as she was part of my direct ministry for so long.

So, what would the conversation be if they were your friends and you were to take them to Pizza Hut for that visit?

Interesting set of comments and reflections. Fact is, I've forever heard that women tend to be "more" monogamous but eventually one or both partners venture out...which, I suppose, was acceptable. I don't get it. Aren't we really talking about having an "open" relationship if the decision is to have outside sexual partners? That is not monogamy.

Thanks for being the good man you are. I am gratful to know you a bit.

Too bad there had to be the slight disclaimer. Whether or not you agree, it IS funny.