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Re: Still more safeword stuff…

bella — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 20:25:06 -0000

I think an early exposure to your way of viewing things really impacted my entire view of power dynamics. One result has been many interesting discussions regarding safewords - much like your discussion here. I personally have no wish to bottom to someone who insists on 'safewords'. IMO, if we cannot communicate like adults, we certainly should not be playing. If they are unsure enough of their skills that they wish to hand over the power/responsibility to me -that makes me leery. I understand the concept and can grok that for some it works quite well - but my world seems to be different. Thank you again - your writing always makes me think - and usually makes me happy. : )

Re: The 3rd (person) world…

bella — Sat, 29 Nov 2008 20:30:05 -0000

I seem to forget how much I adore reading you. Thank you!

Re: Flagg Updates

bella — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 20:30:35 -0000

Thank you for the update...I am sure there are many of us not in the inner circles who care greatly.

My best to him, you and yours...

Re: Earning leather…

bella — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 16:58:04 -0000

Thank you - I had forgotten how intriguing it is to read you. Whether one agrees or disagrees, your points are always so well stated. I especially like points like the one above, where you rearrange the reader's thinking so as to view the point from not just outside the box, but from the 'there is a box?' viewpoint. Thank you for continuing to share your mind and thus expand others'.