I'm so sorry for the loss suffered by my friends and thier families. This was a tragic loss that shouldnt have happened. I can empathize for I have lost friends in tragic accidents and shootings and its never easy for anyone to understand the shock of these events. I cant tell you that it gets easier from here and understanding why is something we can not begin to grasp. But we have each other and thats what we have to hold onto in times like this.