Sorry to hear about your loss. It is true that we become paranoid and stressed when something like this happens. But you are also correct by saying that being consumed by the event gives power once more to those idiots who took away your pride and joy. I have bikes that I can't even replace since you can't buy them anymore and they fit me like a glove. However, I've owned hundreds of bikes and let me tell you that there are many comfortable gloves out there. You don't have to spend a fortune, concentrate on letting the right bike find you.