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6 months ago

in Playing Hurt on Breaking Murphy's Law
Nice analogy on this topic, especially relevant tor those of us in Colorado who just watched Shanahan get sacked.

Given a presentation when not at my best? Yes, but thankfully, most of the time it's not been quite so dramatic an experience as the architect you cited above (garbage can and all!).

I've known people who have presented right after hearing devastating family news, been handed their pink slip earlier that day, or learned something disturbing about the condition of the company that made their topic totally inappropriate.

I've been taught "the show must go on" unless it is so serious that proceeding would distract the audience from the subject at hand. I would say that if I were King, I'd try to decide which would results in the greatest distraction - allowing the speaker to continue, quickly finding a replacement, or postponing the session.

Just like all things in life, judgment calls are based on a minute-by-minute "playbook". You strive for the most constructive outcome with the least possible damage to players along the way!

Nicely done article! Laura B.
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Lee Potts Hi Laura, Thanks for the comment, glad you liked the post.

I think I'm mainly concerned about the situations involving a speaker who can't be sure which course of action will bring about "the most constructive outcome with the least possible damage to players along the way."

Extending the sports analogy further, I ask you to consider that an athlete makes their living by understanding every nuance of the way their body works and by spending a great deal of time conditioning it for peak performance. If someone this well attuned to the intricacies of their physical capabilities can't always be depended on to make an accurate decision, what chance does a mere presenter have?

7 months ago

in Sacrifice on TheDerekJohnson.com
Yes indeedy, sacrifice is involved for sure but allow me to list a few of the benefits from one who's been happily self employed since 1997...ability to schedule time to attend my kids' events and respond quickly to their emergencies, not be limited by a job description and thus have creative opportunities no employer would ever have offered me...no limits on my paycheck as long as I'm creative enough and have good relationships with others...building the self-sufficiency "backbone" which has served me well in business and personal life...learning how to not take things quite so personally...creating work I can do until the day I drop...knowing there will be no Friday afternoon "pink slip" to take me by surprise...teaching my children how to be self-sufficient and resourceful...developing a whole new set of friendships that I might otherwise never have had the chance to experience...knowing my work is serving others and helping them improve their work/lives...relating more closely to my Dad who has been self-employed his whole life...able to draw limits on how much I work and fit in time for health and professional development...and the list could go on!

Welcome to blogging!

1 year ago

in The Weekly Might Have Missed List (06/22/09) on Breaking Murphy's Law
Dear Lee,
I'm so glad my post on how to deal with scathing criticism was a helpful post for your site. Good info and well worth linking to on my blogroll! Thanks for finding me.
Laura

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