DISQUS

That appears to be a television advertisement.

Haven't seen that in ages.

Thanks to the iTunes Store, NetFlix, BitTorrent, and Usenet, I haven't seen one of those in AGES.

But I have to admit, that was pretty crappy. How to guarantee someone WON'T watch your show. Oh, and don't blame Engvall too harshly. It's probably in his contract to participate in promo spots for his show.

One of my favorite songs.

Two of my favorite performers.

One kick-ass re-make and version.

In a male-dominated, heterosexual World, any sign of female arousal (whether intentional or not) is favored and desired by most men. Women are expected to flaunt their bodies (either intentionally or not).

Men, on the other hand, are sometimes shunned for doing so (again, either intentionally or not). A man with an erection is—at best—seen as comical, and at worst perverted.

Since sexual arousal is not always tied to conscious thought, it is unfair for any man to experience any stigma regarding such.

The person who wrote me sought my thoughts on what to do with his errant erections, which I provided some of my own.

Do you have any thoughts or suggestions for the individual?

Hmm.

Very interesting thoughts. ;-)

Can a gay man not find a woman physically attractive?

Are we subjecting ourselves to the same phobias that prohibit a straight-man from admitting finding a hot guy attractive in return?

Then again; I'm a firm believer that there's no such thing as 100% homosexuality, nor is there 100% heterosexuality.

Pansexual? (Does that even exist?)

Nothing happened, and I doubt anything would have.

Kelsie is someone though that I've known for years. We've hung out for years, and she's always been a dear, close, friend.

Was there sexual tension there? Absolutely!

Then again, she's a big flirt, and so am I.

Your observations of the subtext with my post are intriguing though.

Regarding the dick-girls: I think it stems back from when I was high school. I knew I loved dick, but I knew my parents wanted me to love pussy. ;-) In my mind, dating a transsexual satisfied both those needs.

I guess the feelings linger on.

However, while I am not repulsed by the sight of a woman's vagina, I have absolutely no desire to stick anything of mine inside one (whether it be finger or cock), and the thought of cunnilingus grosses me out. (Then again, so does rimming.)

I don't think that makes me any more less "gay" than I am, I think what all it simply means is that our sexuality, and the things that we're attracted to, are complex among each of us. Who's to say?

I don't understand the concept of feet fetishes, underarm fetishes, golden showers, scat, beastiality, or anything else of that nature. But, I recognize that some folks are into that shit (pardon the pun!) But unless you, yourself, are as well… it's hard to understand why.

-Mike

Hi Lika,

Thanks for the kind words. I read your blog just about every day as well (it's in my Google Reader).

Couple of things:

1) Twitter Updates - I like the fact that they're all archived by date. I think what I will do though is utilize the "Ignore Category on Front Page" (or whatever it's called) to keep the updates *off* the front-page.

2) Registration - I've got the Wordpress-OpenID plugin. I'm surprised more people don't use it. In fact, I use it myself to login as my admin account (http://cyberczar.myopenid.com/ for those who are interested in what they look like.)

Wish more sites used OpenID.

Anyways, thanks for the feedback!

Pax,

Mike

Hey there. Thanks for the kind words! Glad you like the blog!

Ha!

Well, no mirrors downstairs in the basement anymore. But I guess you're right about all the blood pumping! That and the fact that I'm sure it all raises my testosterone levels both during and after.

(When we did the basement after first moving in I actually did put in mirrors in the beginning, and even worked out naked once or twice, but I caught myself picking out and finding all my flaws so I took them down. Bill and I have fucked on the nautilus equipment and weight bench before, and the mirrors back then did make it all that more erotic.)

Thanks for the response!

Thanks for the thoughts. Yep, he was discharged yesterday. Turned out to be complications and conflicts with some of the medication he was taking.

No fantasy. I needed to stop at 4:30 this morning in order to get ready to go to work. Updates coming. Gimme a sec, I just walked in. ;-)