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2 days ago

in Drake – Best I Ever Had (Video) on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I hate to say it but I think that was the point lol

1 week ago

in Nas & Damien “Jr Gong” Marley Are ‘Distant Relatives’ (EPK) on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Jesus, if you love me, you will give me just ONE NIGHT w/Junior Gong. Just ONE! I'd do all kinds of whorish sh*t with him- no holds barred! lol

1 week ago

in She Said “Don’t C** In Her Mouth” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
lmao!! sure! remind me when & if there's another NYC tweetup hahahahaha

1 week ago

in She Said “Don’t C** In Her Mouth” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
really?? hmmm... you gave me something to think about (and try) next time I have a d* in my mouth. I'll make sure he thanks you LOL
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Miss Beasley Yes! You could also try using a mint. I know that sounds crazy but if you take a mint/mints if they're small and put them in your mouth while you're going down it will make you salivate more and also make him feel good :). Also, it will mask the flavor of his juice.

I didn't always like to do it so I had to get creative. lol
BlogXilla *Raises hand* if you need help trying this out... i'm willing to help!

1 week ago

in She Said “Don’t C** In Her Mouth” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
exactly! texture is a big thing for me (I don't eat spinach either for the SAME reason!) so if that weren't an issue swallowing wouldn't be an issue.

1 week ago

in She Said “Don’t C** In Her Mouth” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I don't like the texture/consistency of it... it really activates my gag reflexes because it sorta feels like someone spit phlegm into my mouth (my brain is retarded like that, I know) so I'll only swallow for someone I'm really, really into and we're in an actual relationship.
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Miss Beasley If you let him cum with the *d* down your throat you don't taste/feel it at all :) You know when he's about to come.....so when it's that time take it as far as you can and there you go!
BlogXilla I can understand that because I don't eat spinish because it feels like it's been chewed1

1 month ago

in A Brief History Of Dating Circa 1999 on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
a hungry monkey on a banana? he just set the civil rights movement back by 50 years...

OMG- and is he on here doing stand-up? damn, I forgot how funny & cheesy this show was!! lol

1 month ago

in Rosa Acosta - I Need One Of These on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
yo... I mean she looks fit and sexy and all that, but why am I kinda embarrassed for my people right now? Like maybe she tried to make it as a dancer and it didn't work out and this is the only way she could help her family out financially?

And why is she rockin' my family name? I had to look at her hard to make sure she wasn't a relative lmao!

smdh

1 month ago

in Daddy Issues pt 2: “Jump off Gone Bad” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
That's a good question... one of the main reason's I finally got the divorce is because I didn't want my daughters to think it was OK to stay in a bad situation. We tried counseling and it didn't work, so the next logical step was separation and then divorce. I know the girls were hurt initially that the family broke up, but I know in the long run they will realize that their father and I tried to salvage the relationship but in the end, for everybody's well-being, divorce was the better option.

I can understand you being upset with your mom but she has her reasons I suppose. You can never really know what's going on in someone's mind or heart.

Since you are an adult now, I think it's OK, if you haven't already, to RESPECTFULLY approach you parents about how you feel (and I say respectfully 'cause I'd hate for my advice to get you an ass-whooping!! lol) and just RESPECTFULLY call them on their actions/behavior and how it affects you and your siblings. RESPECTFULLY! lol

1 month ago

in Kelly Clarkson in "The Tonight Show", in Black on sassyqarla
her weight is not the issue here... can we please discuss how SUCKY this song is? She needs better MUSIC in order to sell more CDs, honestly, Kelly, get on top of that ASAP before you lose your audience forever.

1 month ago

in Daddy Issues pt 2: “Jump off Gone Bad” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
When my ex and I split I told my daughters the truth they could handle at the time: "Daddy and I cannot live together anymore. We got together too young and now we've grown apart."

They didn't need to know that his ass was on Craigslist soliciting whores or that I had basically ignored his existence for the last year of our marriage.

we both made sure the babies knew they were STILL our babies, but that we no longer wished to be married to one another.

Now that my oldest is in her teens, I suspect she knows I initiated the divorce and that her dad only agreed to it because... well... who was gonna say no to me? lol

But that other stuff, the details that would defame her dad's character in her and her sister's eyes? They don't need to know all that. Otherwise they'll grow up with the daddy issues I had from MY mom telling me my dad was a piece of shit who slept around and didn't want to be with us.

Thank god for my grandfather or I'd REALLY be screwed up...that man continues to be the model for the man I'll eventually end up with.

We women need to recognize the damage we cause in little, developing brains when we unload grown-up stuff on a child's psyche. It's not cool and does more damage than one will ever know.

(Mami, are you reading this? You should... now apologize to me and my sister for what you did...)
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MarvelousMo @ The Jaded NYer

HOLLER!!!!!! Now you're talking my language. That's how situations should be handled. Bravo to you! I'm telling you, when you daughters are old enough to realize what keeps and pulls relationships, they will have a new found/lack of respect for you as a WOMAN. It's so important to be the example of how a woman should handle issues like this.

1 month ago

in Lauren London Is Really Pregnant… And Pissed on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I'd be mad, too, if my baby was about to pop out looking like a cross between the lizard baby in V and a muppet from bizarro Fraggle Rock land, 'cause DAMN Lil Wayne is so freakin' FUGLY I can't look at him without dry-heaving. BLECHHHHH!

She's a beauty, tho, so there's a glimmer of hope that the baby will be alright. A glimmer.

Was that shallow? Whatever... y'all were thinking it, too...

1 month ago

in http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/05/12/xilla-psa-pimping-since-pimping-been-pimpin/ on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
That video... LMAO! I cannot deal with these two.

As for your post, I only have one thing to say: don't look for someone to complete you. Look for someone to complement you.

Only YOU can complete YOU, and no one wants to be with an incomplete human.

And so ends my Big Momma advice... god... I just showed my age LOL

1 month ago

in Quickie: The Gray Area Of Cheating on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I can't speak on the break situation- that depends on the couple and if that works for them

but if you're in a "relationship" with no real "title" or expressed purpose in each other's life, the parties are 100% entitled to hurt feelings if the other sees people outside of their arrangement, but can't really cry fowl.

If the couple never sat down and expressed, "we're in a monogamous relationship" then all bets are off. Again- they can be hurt and upset all they want, but no one can be called a dog or a ho if there was no real expressed commitment on either part.

That's my politician's answer... you like? lol

1 month ago

in Rick Ross Loves Shady Sex on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Forget the shades... can he PUH-LEESE keep his shirt on? DAMN!

*throws up, too*

2 months ago

in Kelis x Nas: Sex Tapes + Paternity Tests on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
This is the rumor I heard, too, that they were both unfaithful so decided to just stop trying to be married. Smart move- if you ain't ready for monogamy why fake it?

Just too bad there is a baby involved now. That part makes me sad.

2 months ago

in She Slept With Diddy, And Was Amazed on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
LMAOOOOOOOO!!! Damn... you're a too much!!

2 months ago

in She Slept With Diddy, And Was Amazed on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
LMAO!!! oh man... that made me laugh for real!!! lol

2 months ago

in She Slept With Diddy, And Was Amazed on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Sean Combs? Sexual Monster? PUKE GROSS BLECHHHHHHH!!!

I'm sorry but that dude irks me to no ends... we have a one-sided feud going (one-sided 'cause he don't know about it LMAO!!) and I STILL blame him for Biggie's death!

I mean YES he made something of himself and that's a great accomplishment- I won't take that away from him- but I gotta wonder at what cost? Like, where is his soul right now?
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HeadMistress @ "Like, where is his soul right now?" It's resting comfortably on the publishing rights of his artists :-D

2 months ago

in This Is A Test: Women Love Negativity on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
BUSTED! lol

But in my defense- I feel so bombarded by images and blog posts and news articles about the Obamas that once I saw the pic I didn't even read it.

Yes, it is refreshing to see that kind of marriage- black or white- but it's like overkill already. Everywhere I turn I have to read about their personal life? It's sooo none of my business. What I want to know is will this man lead this country right? Everything else is just tabloid fodder.

It's like when that Single Ladies song came out (or ANY Bey song for that matter LOL)... it's really good until people start playing it to death. And then you want to hang yourself every time it comes on the radio.

Or is that just me?

The redbone post struck a nerve 'cause I'm fresh off a break-up for this very reason... what can I say? :D
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Blacksand Negativity is easier to discuss than positivity. There you go. In less than twenty words.

2 months ago

in 5 Reasons Men Like Being Called Daddy on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
nope. nuh-uh. never.

no matter how you list it, paint it, explain it, I cannot call a grown ass man who is NOT my father, daddy.

and being Latina I get dudes who want to be called Papi and I'm like HELL NO, FOOL! That's what I call my grandfather...

To each his own, but those words leaving my lips= instant mood killer...

and as for being called baby? negative to that, too. Just pet names in general... that feels so JHS to me.

perhaps it explains why I'm single?? Lmao!

2 months ago

in Lil Wayne + Kevin Rudolf - Spit on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
UGH! I ma so repulsed by Lil Wayne I can't even stomach it when I see pics of him.

BLECH!!!!!!!!!!

2 months ago

in Lil Wayne + Drake - I’m Going In (CDQ) on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I know, right??

but some of his publicity shots make him look all grown and sexy... makes me forget he used to be this lil skinny, fuzzy-afro'd kid on Degrassi! haha

2 months ago

in Lil Wayne + Drake - I’m Going In (CDQ) on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I'm not going to fight it anymore... I'm a grown-ass almost 34yr-old with a school-girl crush on Jimmy Brooks aka Drake, and I don't care who knows it anymore.

The things I could do to that boy...mmmmm...
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BlogXilla You got bitten by Vivica A Fox? You got the cougar bug bad!! lol

2 months ago

in How to Date a Black Woman on Twanna @ FUNKY BROWN CHICK
The overcompensation one really annoys me.

"Dear White Men: you don't have to try and sway me by saying you love Biggie or Jay Z and that Bed-Stuy is one of your favorite 'hoods just because I'm from there. It's okay if Skokie, Ill. and Hootie and the Blowfish are more your speed."

I hate a poseur more than anything! Just be yourself, and then the female can decide if she wants to be with you or not.

And PS- assuming I like rap and hip hop? Just rude! I mean, I do, but STILL... rude! lol
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