DISQUS

yes. might as well be prepared.

35%

that's low, IMO.

i see nothing wrong with random sex, LOL.

it only ruins stuff for the future if you really believe you lose a part of yourself when you sleep with someone.

i suck at it. most nights it's my turn, it'll be at the local ponderosa.

LMAO!

yea. sure you can. i just won't be the one to do it. enough breezies out there in the world that i won't have to worry if half the room smashed my wife.

they should face the death penalty if convicted. i'm surprised this hasn't gotten any news attention.

"She perhaps needs to check out non-black men (although, truth be told, non-black men don't necessarily covet black women). "

some of us do

:party

oh yea, boo the SEC/ACC.

it's all about 3 yards and a cloud of dust.

wait, lemme rephrase that. i don't see anything wrong with being proud of his accomplishments. but i wouldn't normally be touting that stuff just because. it's more of a conversation piece. it's just good to know your worth and what you bring to the table.

i see nothing wrong doing what james is doing. he just needs to quit dating women who don't have anything going for themselves. and in today's world, there's plenty of women who have stuff going for themselves.

LMAO!

true true. then apparently 88 percent of the population are a bunch of idiots.

LMAO.

a girl doesn't get the title until we've had the talk. i don't go around introducing someone as my girl, but if they ask, that's how she'll be referred to.

and here i thought all of this was common sense

LMAO!

apparently, it's not all that common

i've never raised hands on a woman, nor have a abdicated what he did was right. in fact, i already said it was wrong. or didn't you catch that? now, it's been revealed that she didn't give him herpes. so this conversation is effectively moot.

however, in the instance that a woman/man does give a man/woman an incurable disease on top of that cheating on him, i can most definitely understand why he'd/she'd lay hands on her/him. how would YOU react if your man gave you HIV from a partner ourside of your relationship? would you just cry and keep it pushing or would you lose control in the heat of the moment?

it sure is easy to judge others when you're not in the situation, but i strongly doubt most people would react very much differently. and i'm willing to bet that if the situation were reversed, many of the women in here would sure be ok with her hitting him. women seem to think that they can do whatever the hell they want to a man because we're not supposed to hit them.

i dont' want a woman whose goal is to be a housewife. women need to start picking up the tab after a few days, though. we in a recession. LOL. i do all if not most of the above. but i was taught that. i might slip on the side walk thing, but no woman ever carries bags (unless it's her purse, and i'll never carry that) around me. and if a man's dealbreaker is whether or not he sits face front to the door, he didn't want you anyway. that's pretty petty and small minded.

that goes for everyone. the people with the "best advice" often have the most effed up dating history. i take advice from others with a grain of salt.

with a random? yes. with my wife? no.

cutting calories = lose weight.

oooooooo

the money spent on this study could be more usefully spent.......like on me.

tell that to the "relationship experts."

a class in dating?????

LMAO!!!!!

i'm willing to be a lot of those so called relationship experts are single themselves. good grief.

it's a sad day on earth if people didn't know all of this.

i guess this should go along with the "good woman" thread.

LOL.

can we define moderate intensity? every time i'm on the treadmill, the little counter says i'm gone through around 450-500 calories for around 33 minutes of running/walking. and that's about 4 days a week. the other days i'm lifting.

it sure is easy to judge when you're sitting on the sidelines. of course everyone in here is just going to take the high road when their MATE a. steps out of them and b. gives them a disease they CAN'T cure. no one is saying him hitting her ass is right.

i also heard she was choking him, too.

semantics. i see you still deflected and avoided the question. herpes and HIV is way more of a valid comparison than a phone number and herpes.

phone number vs. herpes.

lets get some levity here. seriously. that's the most ridiculous comparison ever. no one's saying it's right for him to hit her. but i understand it if she gave his ass something he can't get rid of. but lets say your man gave you AIDS. how would YOU react?

lets assume she gave him herpes. she assaulted him. you can heal from a black eye. you can't get rid of herpes. that ish is for life.