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3 months ago

in So You Want My Job: Financial Planner on Art of Manliness
@Ryan, IMO commissions based on selling you stuff are NOT the best compensation because they make giving bad advice more tempting. They create a bad situation for both parties because the client is suspecting that maybe the advice is based on what it'll earn the planner and the planner may be tempted to make a particular recommendation which is about as good but not as good because it's better for them.

I agree that there's always the possibility of a fee-only adviser neglecting you after the fee's paid, but I believe they have certain ethical guidelines too, if they're part of an organization (name I can't remember right now, Jeff?). That doesn't mean commissions are any better of a model, in fact they probably provide greater ethical quandaries for honest people trying to make a living.

4 months ago

in Budgeting versus Expense Tracking on Where's Our Money
But my point is that if you haven't tracked your spending at all, then you don't know what you pay on average for heating/water or how much a month's groceries cost in your area. Going through the tracking helps people be mindful of their habits, but even if you wanted to create a budget without doing that you'd have to look at historical data.

I couldn't assume, for example, that living in DC and being married I'd spend the same amount on groceries as I did when I lived in Central PA and was single. You could pull numbers from thin air, but it wouldn't be very helpful for the first month.

And that leaves out the benefits of observing what specifically you've been spending on so you know where you make the cuts if you need to cut back. Again, you could do it after making a budget, but the experimentation would again essentially be just tracking your money and using a framework.
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Dewayne Hello Mrs. Micah! Certainly a tracking mechanism plays a part in personal financial management. For instance, I use BudgetSketch to set my intentional plan each month of how I will spend my money. My wife and I do our best to stick with our plan all throughout the month. When my wife receives our bank statements, which obviously shows our past performance, she then uses what I call a tracking tool, in our case QuickBooks, to in essence "track" how well we are adhering to our budget. If tracking expenses is the cart, certainly our budget plan is the horse. We use expense "tracking" as a means of validation of whether we are following our budget or not.

If we were to manage, let's say our food budget, each month simply by tracking what we spent in previous months, we will get a very good idea of what we spent and how that impacted our cash flows. If I find I am spending on average $1000 a month on groceries, how do I know if this is acceptable? If I set an intentional budget goal of $700 per month, and force myself to adhere to this goal, I just may find out a few things. I may realize that $700 a month is just not enough to feed my family, or I may find that I am wasting $300 buying foods we don't need, or I send too much on name brand products and can save by buying generic products. Budgeting forces me to evaluate how I am spending. In the latter case, I can take this a step further and allocate the $300 I found in my food budget to paying off debt. Would I have really found that $300 a month if I was just tracking what I spent each month?

I completely agree with you that expense tracking is necessary, but it only works effectively as a validation tool for a good budget plan. Using both together is the key!

Thank you so much for your comments. This is all about helping ourselves and our communities find ways to better our financial situations, which I believe greatly strengthens our families.

Thanks again!!

4 months ago

in Budgeting versus Expense Tracking on Where's Our Money
I would say that you can't separate tracking spending from budgeting, they form a chicken and egg circle. You could try making a budget and living up to it first, but if you don't have any idea what you're spending on things like groceries then your first few tries at a budget will just be essentially the same as tracking your spending...you'll overspend in some categories and have leftovers in others and learn what's realistic for your life.

You assume people know their obligations, but I'd argue that many "free spirits" don't. That's why I'm encouraging people to focus on their spending this month instead of their budget.

If you've been keeping up to date with a budget and molding it to fit your month-to-month needs, then you don't need to do that. But if you've fallen behind, made some major changes, or haven't budgeted in a while, then you may not be aware how much your cable costs or the realistic cost of a month's groceries. You don't have to keep spending what you normally spend, of course, but you can evaluate whether you think the figure is reasonable and decide what to do from there.

I think once that's done, then you've got the information that you can use to build the budget as you describe and go on to control your money. But until people are sure about their income and general obligations, they can't build a budget that'll reflect their lives. You probably knew your obligations and reasonable spending amounts for each category because you looked at the past data and because you'd tracked your spending before.

Otherwise you're stuck in constant revision until you find a budget that works for you, which is effectively no different than tracking your spending.

The online apps aren't very good at all for budgeting, I agree. The only thing they're really good for is letting you see accounts at multiple banks in the same place or taking a general look at what you've been spending.

Good luck with your software!
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Bill Thanks Mrs. Micah!

Let me try another approach. What, financially, are your obligations? Here are mine. See if they don't align with yours.

1. Food
2. Shelter
3. Transportation (Gas & Insurance - No car payment, Woo hoo!)
4. A small amount of spending money
5. Utilities (Phone, Electricity, Water, Waste Collection)
6. Debt Obligations
7. Everything else

Your list may vary to a certain degree but that is fine. It is after all "your" list. Here is my list of financial priorities. It is short.

1. Get out of debt.
2. Do not return to debt.
3. Save for retirement.

Looking at my lists of obligations and priorities, it is trivial to create a budget. Here's how I do it.

1. Compute the minimum amount I can spend on obligations 1-5 each month so I can maximize payments to obligation 6.
2. Think (but don't obsess) about how cool it will be one day to get to obligation 7.
3. Follow the plan.

I can easily determine the cost of all of my obligations and if I want to be really nerdy about it I can look at past spending (expense tracking) to see if I am being reasonable but that seems like a lot of wasted effort (to a free spirit) when I can say, "I can buy 2 meals for the entire family every day at Happy Burger for $20 times 15 days equals $300 for food," or "I drive 15 miles round trip each day for work times 15 days at 20MPG and gas is $2/gal. equals $22.50 for gas."

When gas prices go back up, I'll be paying off less debt. It's as simple as that and I did it without tracking a single expense but that doesn't mean there is no room for tracking expenses. How else would I know that I was following my plan? However, the budget came first. It served as a declaration of my financial priorities and leads to financial freedom.

In the end, we may have to agree to disagree but to my way of thinking budgeting is a proactive plan and expense tracking is simply a progress report. For decades, all I had was a dismal progress report. Only after I created my first plan (budget) did I begin to see results.

All my best to you and all your readers with your financial goals however you find best to achieve them!

4 months ago

in i saw what you spent last summer on brip blap
I think being able to live at a lower level, without credit and the like, is a valuable life skill. It doesn't make up for not having a job, but it makes things a lot easier especially if you have one.

4 months ago

in trickle down on brip blap
In our lower-income neighborhood, we're starting to see more eviction notices pasted up on doors (they put them on the building door, vs. apartment door). I've noticed a number of closed small businesses, restaurants, etc which were open a few months back, I suppose their employees don't have anywhere to go now. More office buildings with "for lease" or "space available" signs too.

5 months ago

in Highland Hunk-Fantasy on The Flog
Wow. I've worked in a number of libraries (right now it's a private one without romance) and shelved/handled thousands of romances. For some reason, I never picked up a Highland one. I like the Regencies...comparative quality stuff like Georgette Heyer. They're more focused on the hero and heroine coming together to solve a problem...and the problem isn't that the hero is horny. :P

Now I'm feeling the urge to check out a Highland Hunk romance just to snicker. But the problem is that now that I no longer work at the public library, my ex-coworkers are the ones checking out my books. Makes me worry about being judged.

9 months ago

in House Episode on The Flog
Have you ever watched Hugh Laurie in "A Bit of Fry and Laurie"?

Not quite pertinent to House, I find it striking how different he is in that or as Bertie Wooster in Jeeves and Wooster (again with Stephen Fry) as compared to Greg House. House is amusing, but in a very different way. I think that's probably the biggest testament to his talent.

If you haven't seen them, you can get lots of bits of "A Bit of Fry and Laurie" on youtube, but I highly recommend the 4-disc edition of the 4-year series. Maybe 25 episodes total?

9 months ago

in Books! on The Flog
Another vote here for OOTS. I've been reading it since godonlyknowswhen and I love it. It's even better if you start at the beginning now, since you get so much more plot all in one go.

Also, it makes for great D&D jokes. I thought my DM was much funnier than he actually was before I started reading it too. I suppose he should still get points for memory and timing.

9 months ago

in timing the bottom on brip blap
I agree. It's definitely a very good price. Since there's no way to guarantee the best, it's just important that we're pleased with the deal we got. I'm planning to put money in my Roth this week, I've been planning it for a while and it's just pleasantly coincidental with a dip.

10 months ago

in Two WordPress Plugins That Will Make Your Life Easier on GeekLad
I had automatic upgrade, but I hadn't run across the uploading plugin before. That's brilliant, thanks for sharing about it!

10 months ago

in how the bottom line is destroying companies on brip blap
I know the bottom line approach at my admin position was one reason I didn't stay. They put off hiring me so long and kept me on temp-to-hire without benefits for over 4 months. I knew that they were going to do it in another month, but it made it a lot easier to leave when the opportunity arose.

11 months ago

in Aftermath on The Flog
It's entirely possible that I tried to convince all my friends to watch it last weekend. But I might have missed a few...I probably did. Shoulda used Facebook....that would have done the trick. :-P

Songs are still stuck in my head this morning. It alternates between the "Freeze-Ray" one and "On the Rise." You gave a great performance throughout. :)

Definitely going to check out The Guild because it sounds right up my alley.

1 year ago

in how to be a location independent family, part 2 on brip blap
I think the key is being dedicated to socialization. There are a lot of vibrant homeschooling communities...but not being a conservative Christian may limit how at-home you feel in them. Still, I know people who pulled it off (really depends on where you are).

We were fortunate enough to live in a real hub, encouraged greatly by Micah's mom, who helped foster choir, debate club, student government, a teen club, as well as numerous one-day-per-week co-op classes for specialized subjects or things that were done better in groups (like languages). Despite being in all of these, I only met Micah later on because he was already at college when I joined.

Most areas have plenty that kids can get involved in, so as long as you're dedicated to getting them out there you shouldn't have a problem.

1 year ago

in 9 Reasons Why Blogging Is Just Like Playing World Of Warcraft on The Beta News
Sounds about right. I haven't played MMORPGs, but I'm fairly familiar with the culture from hanging out with guys that did. I'd like to see someone do a sociological assessment of both. It could make for a fun project.

1 year ago

in mindhack: gratitude rock on brip blap
I find it very useful to turn my mind to the positive, since it's so easy to dwell on negative or current stressors (or just watching Buffy episode Seeing Red). I don't expect miracles from it, though, just to have a slightly easier time dealing with things.

1 year ago

in does innovation require desperation? on brip blap
I don't know. I'm a much more dedicated blogger now that it's one of my larger income streams than I was when I had a full-time job. But sometimes desperation leads to stagnation because you put too much pressure on yourself. It squashes passion. Not always, but some days.

Of course, blogging isn't my only income either, so maybe that's part of it.

1 year ago

in Twitter Alternatives - Plurk Or Pownce on The Beta News
I might well use these. There are so many people on Twitter and the twhirl desktop app works really well for me (unless Twitter is crashing) so I don't want to switch. I find it a useful networking tool and a way of feeling connected when I'm working from home. But it's not critical to my work so I can do without it.

1 year ago

in alas, problogger, we hardly knew ye on brip blap
Sounds like a wise decision. You were an excellent blogger before you went pro, so I'm sure you'll continue to be one. Good luck with the new position!

1 year ago

in linklings, bring it? already been brought! edition on brip blap
I'm glad you liked it! :) I find the concept alternatingly depressing and empowering. Trying to work on feeling more empowered.

Glad that you're feeling better.

1 year ago

in a brief update on brip blap
Hope you feel better! That must be quite frustrating since you've got a new baby. But take some time to get rested and take care of yourself.

1 year ago

in 7 ways to mind your cash when you are abroad on brip blap
I always kept enough for cabfare pinned in my pants pocket when traveling in Europe.

1 year ago

in wealthstreaming, or snowflaking for income on brip blap
I like the phrase. So snowflaking and wealthstreaming. The advantage of the former is that it can be applied to anything you're trying to build up. But the latter works quite well in this particular instance.

My money income is a bunch of streams: hospital, library, blog, freelance gigs, site testing, sewing, random.

1 year ago

in linklings, no links edition on brip blap
Baby!!!! :)

1 year ago

in my latest tax deduction on brip blap
Yay! :) I love the idea of giving your son a baby girl doll to help him understand the idea. It's not like the real thing, but it's brilliant, nonetheless.

One thing I heard the take-home teaching nurse recommend recently is incorporating nursing the baby and reading to the toddler at the same time. LB can turn pages for her, so he feels useful. I don't know how much he likes being read to, but I thought it was a cool idea.

1 year ago

in best financial move in college, part 2 on brip blap
I tried learning Russian in 12th grade. My mom used to speak it fluently. I think having a Russian class would have been more productive, I just couldn't work up the energy to get through the hard stuff at the beginning. I also don't like declining (Latin didn't work out for me either). I find French quite easy, however. :)

I still remember things like "Do you speak Russian?" and the ever-useful "Excuse me, please."
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