I know what you mean, I'm all about keeping it real and speaking my mind. Actually, "That's a dumb idea" is one of my favorite things to say.
But seriously, speaking truth into each other's lives is vital - rubber can't sharpen iron.
I also think I should start a log of who I'm currently infatuated with, to track things for posterity. So, the inogural post: Currently ga-ga over: Emily G.