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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for TherapeuticRamblings</title><link xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" rel="http://api.friendfeed.com/2008/03#sup" href="http://disqus.com/sup/all.sup#usercomments-ece72428" type="application/json"/><link>http://disqus.com/people/TherapeuticRamblings/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 17:18:50 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: Fear of Drowning</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/07/21/fear-of-drowning/#comment-967677</link><description>I blog to remember, as I don't journal anymore, and I seem to forget large parts of my life because so much is going on.  It was an eye opener when I found journals I wrote 10 years ago. I sometimes think I peaked at writing then, and now I'm just a fraction of my previous writing self.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 22 Jul 2008 17:18:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Enough, now. Here is the truth.</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/06/10/enough-now-here-is-the-truth/#comment-681114</link><description>It is sad/scary what people with time, a feeling of anonymity, and a lack of decency can do on the 'net.  I can't imagine having my life out there as much as you do, but that is probably why you have 57 replies, and my blog averages 4-6.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2008 00:16:28 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Quit gawking. It&amp;#8217;s just sex.</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/05/28/quit-gawking-its-just-sex/#comment-541261</link><description>My answer would be: &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;"I'm living life, are you?"&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;*shrugs*</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2008 13:21:59 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: To All The Men I Wouldn&amp;#8217;t Fuck</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/05/21/to-all-the-men-i-wouldnt-fuck/#comment-507987</link><description>"Just The Tip" is a great game!  Oh, and the irrational rules people make around sex make me laugh.  3 dates, love, marriage, etc.....in the end it is about if a person wants to, nothing more...nothing less.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;It still makes me chuckle when people project all sorts of stuff on sex. "What does it mean?" "How does this make me feel?"  "Did I really just pile driver her next to the coffee table with her dog watching?" "Does this change things?". In the end...Sex is Sex, and what people choose to do with it is their decision.  Good entry....and I'm not talking about the Tip.  Okay...bad pun, but still a good entry.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 May 2008 03:10:20 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Of Werewolves and German Lovers</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/05/14/of-werewolves-and-german-lovers/#comment-485030</link><description>People use labels to make life make sense.  We have too much going on to define each thing as unique.  Enjoy what you have, one life and all....no?</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 May 2008 01:42:42 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: This is not enough to do justice.</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/05/05/this-is-not-enough-to-do-justice/#comment-417909</link><description>Often times it takes more strength to express oneself, than it does to keep it in....though we are taught that crying only means weakness.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 20:15:27 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Lena, The Student</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/05/01/lena-the-student/#comment-405738</link><description>Get on the 5 year plan.....TRUST ME!  Stay in school as long as you can, even though some of the lectures can be boring, the rest of college is fun! Oh, and learning is useful and stuff.  I'm working on my 4th degree, and it is more entertaining than when I had a real job. :D</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 02 May 2008 04:08:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: My College Sweetheart</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/04/11/my-college-sweetheart/#comment-356895</link><description>When I read something that I wrote awhile back, it not only gives me perspective of where I was, but also on how I've changed.  Your post reminded me of something I changed awhile ago, but never really noticed.  Thank you.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 20 Apr 2008 01:41:45 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Snapshots and Snippets From New York</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/04/08/snapshots-and-snippets-from-new-york/#comment-311797</link><description>I just wrote about NYC on Sunday/Monday.  I don't think I'd want to live there at this point of my life, but it really is a great city.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 08 Apr 2008 14:19:18 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Things I Learned During Spring Break</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/03/31/things-i-learned-during-spring-break/#comment-288119</link><description>Great entry!  I once got stuck in Ireland....f'ing national airline strike, and I had to be in a wedding party back in the US. It took 3 planes, a bus, subway, 2 taxis, 3 sleepless nights (2 of which were spent in two different country's airports) to make it all work.  After all of that I came home to find out later that my then g/f tore up all of the pictures of girls she thought I slept with in my photo album, rearranged them so I wouldn't notice, and added many more pictures of her in there.  &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;ps.  I was told that the wedding wouldn't go if I wasn't there.....too bad, I could have saved them 4 years, since that didn't exactly work out.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 01 Apr 2008 06:18:35 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Safe Word is &amp;#8220;Elephant&amp;#8221;</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/03/29/the-safe-word-is-elephant/#comment-281116</link><description>I think it was "Eurotrip" that had one of the guys visiting an S&amp;M shop and having the safe word be some crazy long german word...it was awesome.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 01:47:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Nights and Mornings</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/03/21/nights-and-mornings/#comment-253238</link><description>Great entry, albeit a bit sad.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2008 22:18:03 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Quotables: Not Tonight Dear, I Have a Thesis</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/02/27/quotables-not-tonight-dear-i-have-a-thesis/#comment-186187</link><description>That was *so* me last year.  I was seeing two diff. girls...my thesis did not like it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Girl #1:"so when are you free?&lt;br&gt;Me: 2 weeks, next Thursday I can do drinks, but then I have to work.&lt;br&gt;Girl #1:  Any other time?&lt;br&gt;Me: Yeah, August. (It was May).&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Girl #2: When can I come see you?&lt;br&gt;Me:  Whenever, but I will have to do a lot of work. If you are okay with that....&lt;br&gt;Girl #2: How much work?&lt;br&gt;Me: We can sleep together, and maybe some food.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Actually...even though the 'off' time sucked, it was a pretty sweet setup!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 28 Feb 2008 03:59:50 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Would I Date Me?</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/02/26/would-i-date-me/#comment-182805</link><description>Honestly....I don't think so.  Your biggest problem is that you don't seem to have separation from the blog, or at least a line.  So often for people who have a very public side, they NEED to have the line, or anyone dating them will always date them and their +1.  You probably think of yourself as a package deal....BUT, you have to understand that much like having someone on the side, it may not work in the end, at least in the current state.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 27 Feb 2008 03:56:39 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Spreading Legs Does Not A Sexpert Make</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/02/19/spreading-legs-does-not-a-sexpert-make/#comment-162229</link><description>You are blowing up....newsweek.com?!  That's some good shit right there.  Now go have more train wreck encounters and then come back and post about them. :D</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 20 Feb 2008 03:06:32 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Ivy League Co-ed Who Has Orgasms In Her Sleep</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/02/01/the-ivy-league-co-ed-who-has-orgasms-in-her-sleep/#comment-119360</link><description>It is ironic that people comment on your lack-o'-sex, while sex is what gets you in trouble.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 02 Feb 2008 03:16:49 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Guilty Pleasure?  Certainly Not.</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/guilty-pleasure-certainly-not.html#comment-87126</link><description>The NY'er is pretty good, though my subscription ended a couple years ago.... :(.  Unfortunately there are very few consistently good publications out there.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2008 02:07:07 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Round Up:  All Things on My RADAR</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/round-up-all-things-on-my-radar.html#comment-87119</link><description>The Valley Girl has some good fashion taste, but watch out....her purse collection is insane.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2008 02:03:55 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Primetime Television:  Terrifying</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/primetime-television-terrifying.html#comment-87103</link><description>That's nuts!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2008 01:48:05 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Round Up:  The Hump Day Edition</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/round-up-hump-day-edition.html#comment-87100</link><description>Dell Blows.  Im finally going to pick up a Mac when my dell finally kicks the bucket (it has been circling the drain for awhile)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 19 Jan 2008 01:46:02 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: True Friends Go After Their Knees</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/true-friends-go-after-their-knees.html#comment-77760</link><description>So do guys need to wear hockey pads if they approach you? ;)</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 01:50:13 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Music Mondays:  Dario Marianelli</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/music-mondays-dario-marianelli.html#comment-77757</link><description>V for Vendetta was a great score....AND a great film.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 15 Jan 2008 01:49:06 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Here’s What We’ve Learned:</title><link>http://spreadeagleinnyc.blogspot.com/2008/01/heres-what-weve-learned.html#comment-73948</link><description>I was happy you dropped a line about coming back. I look forward to your future musings.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2008 05:04:12 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: The Last Entry For A While</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/01/05/the-last-entry-for-a-while/#comment-60949</link><description>That is one of the best entries I've read of yours.  Best of luck.  Btw...."“Everything I write is the truth but taken together, it rings perfectly false.” really stuck out for me.  I blogged about it, if you get a chance....check it out  &lt;a href="http://notesfromthecouch.blogspot.com/2008/01/problem-with-blogging.html" rel="nofollow"&gt;&lt;br&gt;The Problem With Blogging&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Sat, 05 Jan 2008 19:08:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Year In Review: 2007, Simplified</title><link>http://sexandtheivy.com/2008/01/01/year-in-review-2007-simplified/#comment-54262</link><description>Quite the busy bee!  Good luck with 2008!</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">TherapeuticRamblings</dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 02 Jan 2008 02:23:17 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>