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Re: Cinderella – I’m Bored, Whatcha Doing?

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:28:08 -0000

I'm sure a lot of peoples have regret but i"m smart enough to know where and when i messed up. I'm happy where i am now though. I wouldn't change it for the world.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:25:18 -0000

no thank you very much for your comment. It is a problem everyone needs to pay attention to. Its just the article on MSNBC was geared towards black women.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:23:28 -0000

I'm sorry. Me being who I am, I can help my woman out to no end! So should i just let her sit there and do ALL the work themself? I swear some of y'all women are so selfish its no wonder y'all are single.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:21:19 -0000

Welcome! I know that the smart ones are freaky, from your comment and your name i can tell you make your man very happy.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 13:52:01 -0000

We don't do urls here. Please link your twitter profile to your name. I'll have the whole world coming here putting up links in the comment section. Imma remove it please link your profile if you want them to follow you. Thanks

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 13:45:14 -0000

Baby now you're just being difficult and proving my point. Time off could be one night for a date. 2 hours to have dinner. Time off ain't like drop out of school to fall in love. Just take a damn break, go out... have some sex once in a while. You spend weeks, months trying to set up a date w/ a busy person and next thing you know it's like eh! I give up.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:44:07 -0000

you're right I did... i apologize for getting it wrong! Much love!

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:43:14 -0000

lol hey Kasandra, now you shouldn't be a baby mama, but you shouldn't be so focused that you don't take time off for love, or to try to find love. Your man's goals should match your goals. You should build him up like he should build you up and the two of you should climb to the top together.

I just think that some women are selfish and they put them selves and their careers before a man b/c they don't need a man to do anything for them. To those women I say drop your guard relax and suck a dick once in a while.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:40:48 -0000

She also took the time to fall in love. And in order to fall in love you have to let down your guard. I know they have freaky sex in the white house. Which further proves my point! lol

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:38:53 -0000

SCARED MONEY DONT MAKE MONEY!

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 11:38:11 -0000

The ego of a successful black woman has a lot to do w/ why they are single. As well as the ego of a black man. Successful or not. As adults we need to choose people who are secure in them self and a lot of times we don't pick the right person for us. We pick people we want to be w/ rather than the people we should be with.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:54:25 -0000

Absolutely, your only value as a woman is your vagina. So clap your ass and be a proud smart sexually free woman! C'mon son! We both know that's not what I mean. Don't neglect your sexual being, for the sake of being the top chick in the work force. I'm saying that you don't have to be alone, you don't have to deny your body sexual pleasure and not be successful b/c you like sex.

I have came across women who couldn't handle sex, and women who could handle sex. I will admit that sex distracts people and love can get in the way of building a career. But you shouldn't avoid it... You shouldn't diss the UPS guy b/c you want a business exec who makes 6 figures or more. Maybe this guy is on his way there... At the same time I don't mean date a guy who all they want out of life is to work the late shift packing boxes on a truck. But if your dude wants to be something he's not why can't you help him get there? While you sex his brains out while he's driving the car down the road!! lol that's all i am saying.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:49:21 -0000

You left too many comments to have not read the entire blog, and not all of the words in this blog are mine. I do feel like women put their career higher than they put love.

Michelle Obama didn't wake up and marry the president. They struggled together, they grew together and a lot of successful black women or should i say people aren't doing that. Maybe I didn't explain that much in this blog but I wrote it at like 2 in the morning and I never claimed to be the best writer. Yet at the same time if we take a minute to develop our entire being, and not just one point in our life the world would be a better place.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:42:45 -0000

NO NO NO NO the indented type or block quote is not me. thats Professor Clarke. lol or from the article. lol now secondly I agree w/ a lot of what you said and by no way did I mean to imply that ALL successful women don't fuck, hell I fully know some of them sex like rabbits. My thing is there comes a certain level of elite-ism and classism involved when they expect to get a man gift wrapped and delivered to them w/o trying to make them better.

When I deal w/ a woman I will try my best to do whatever I can do to make them a better person. She should do the same. If a man would have tried to kick it to you 10 years ago and didn't because you weren't where you're at now... thats just as wrong. I just feel like more Women should build their men... and couples should build each other and thats something they are not doing... now tell me i'm lying.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:34:59 -0000

LMAO~

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:34:37 -0000

Why must a man have a career right now? Why can't you help him build his career if he treats you right? Maybe he is on his way to building a career . So just because a man has kids out of wedlock, that mean he doesn't deserve love? Maybe he was young and made a mistake... And not everyone needs a college degree. I have a friend who spent 6 years in college, and works at fast food. Degree in hand. And shit most people get degrees because they feel like they have too. and then end up spending the rest of their lives working in something other than their field. I'm just saying. Your wants in a man aren't outlandish, but Jordan wasn't Jordan out of college... the bulls had to develop him.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:27:47 -0000

some men do it, but not all men and it's nothing to do w/ self hate more than it does w/ Preference.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 07:26:39 -0000

don't come here and name call babes we don't do that. So i'm dumb because i refuse to limit my women to black women? A lot of black women and men are racist. They want to stay w/ their own race, the same thing that the racist people wanted. lets just stay w/ our own kind and most black women especially successful black women are so blind they don't even realize it. All I am saying is that if i feel like trying to holla at a while woman I will a blue woman I will, a mexican, a african, I german... it doesn't matter and why should it? SMH I say BAG!! Not SMASH!! BAG means pick up! learn to read. You are letting YOUR anger and SELF HATE make you blind!

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:55:28 -0000

A lot of successful black women are prudes, and set too high a bar. At the same time though it's just a matter of these people crossing paths at the right time. But some men make it hard, they are so lame and they give all of us a bad name just like some women give good women a bad name. You can't judge and you can't put up walls.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:53:36 -0000

Sure men want babies w/ certain features, but doesn't mean all black men date outside their race for those reasons. Sometimes they eff around and get a bad combination baby come out looking awkward as heck! BUT THIS BLOG ISN"T ABOUT INTERRACIAL DATING. Lets stay on topic people.

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:38:19 -0000

Black men date white women b/c they think they are beautiful. It has nothing to do w/ self hate or hate of their color. Men like what they like. I don't hate myself or my race. I love my race, but every now and then I wanna bag a snowflake or a butter pecan rican

Re: Successful Black Woman Don’t Get Enough Sex…

BlogXilla — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:30:19 -0000

Exactly put down the books and pick up a dick! At least for a little while. All too often successful women are too focused on school to go on dates, too busy w/ work to enjoy a show or a nice dinner. It's too much going on and they don't enjoy life. And then when they are ready to settle down they aren't as good at performing sexual acts so they get left b/c they can't work the middle, rock the boat and all those other catchy tunes.

Re: Twerk Team Ethers Superhead w/ Superior Brains

BlogXilla — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 17:04:03 -0000

Hmmm i didn't catch that but it's not the girls fault it's the fault of the person who edited their video someone totally different. They are not that bad.

Re: Bad Girl Bedroom Tips That’ll Get Him Whipped

BlogXilla — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 15:48:58 -0000

So you feel sorry you're gonna eff his brains out? Really? Nothing wrong w/ doing freaky stuff nothing at all.

Re: Quickie: Grab The Back Of Her Head And Push Down

BlogXilla — Thu, 05 Nov 2009 15:26:55 -0000

congrats on sucking your first peen! lol Tired necks are good means you were putting in work. lol good job! I'm proud of you.