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Re: 20 Dumb Things Men Should Stop Doing Asap!

Princess0889 — Fri, 13 Nov 2009 13:23:52 -0000

If you could please highlight, underline, add a blinking light, and make the type larger for #4, 10, 12, and 15.

Re: “Xilla Help! I Knocked Up My Side Chick”

Princess0889 — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 12:30:17 -0000

I am going to start by say this "I am 20y/o and never been in love".
Now that it's out of the way here's how I feel about his situation you need have a sit down with yourself as to why you have stooped so low in your decision making process.
Second he needs to realize you don't love them both, period. I am not a bible beater but I do believe what is said in the bible "No one can serve two masters. Either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other", I realize this passage is in reference to money but the concept of love and what love is can be applied anywhere. So he needs to choose one or the other or neither that's it.
Third and final you need to right down everything going on in that head of his because for some reason you felt your actions were justified and you need to figure out why. While writing your thought, hopes and dreams down you need to read a book by smart black man on how to be a man (I will advise Hill Harper) because you have not displayed actions of how to properly act like a man.

Out Of Love,
Princess0889

Re: No First Date....?!

Ness — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 12:47:10 -0000

Lol which I could have done without!

Re: No First Date....?!

Princess0889 — Wed, 21 Oct 2009 12:43:14 -0000

Ahhh the quintessential representative

Re: No First Date....?!

Ness — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 18:46:29 -0000

Lol haha b/c my seat was comfy for the most part. But eventually I did excuse myself lol.

And the whole night, him and his boy kept tryn to say how I need a West Indian man in my life etc lol. I guess b/c they were both West Indian they we're trying to let their "representatives" come out lol.

Re: No First Date....?!

Princess0889 — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 16:05:13 -0000

Girl I know
All I have to say is how did you keep from walking away slowly while saying "creepier" LOL.

Re: No First Date....?!

Ness — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:57:26 -0000

Exactly, a year frm now is a long time!
The road trip thing isn't tht bad b/c u knew him for a couple of months. Even w/o any dates prior to the road trip thr was still some history.

With dude at the party, he only saw me for about an hour or two and he offered a trip?! Now thts absurd lol.

2hrs vs 2 months r two totally different situations lol.

Re: No First Date....?!

Princess0889 — Tue, 20 Oct 2009 15:09:00 -0000

Just the notion that you would have the time to jump and head somewhere with him is absurd. Wouldn't that have to insure that you have no real business of your own? Not attractive

I invited a guy I had only known for a couple of months (no dates prior to this) to take a road trip with just me and him, yet to my surprise he said yes. I realize this situation is different I think that these type of risk could one day make for a good story.

Just sayin

Re: Unhappily Ever After?

Princess0889 — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 22:16:29 -0000

Your marriage and yourself is more important than those kids because if your relationship is not healthy then neither will the kids.
I believe that it is more detrimental for those kids to see them fight than to see them separate and getting along better. I realize you have to make your kids priority but if you are not happy kids will see, hear, and feel the tension between you two.

Re: Unhappily Ever After?

Princess0889 — Thu, 08 Oct 2009 22:15:45 -0000

"Marriage is serious...and kids do not a marriage make."

You have said golden words to many men whom have gotten married "for the children".

Re: Who, What, How....?

Ness — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 19:57:24 -0000

I don't think anyone has time or patience for the 20 questions. I'm sure most of us went thru it w/ our guardians and will be quick to throw out "I'm a grown ass woman or man" to anyone trying to question our whereabouts lol.

Re: Who, What, How....?

Princess0889 — Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:40:13 -0000

Like @HeadMistress said basically said nothing is going to stop anyone from cheating when they want to.

But what I can say is that I personally don't like the whole 20 Questions games with my SO or anyone for that matter. I feel like we are grown and if it's important to tell then I will otherwise I don't think I should be sharing every moment of my life/day with anyone. I think if you trust whom ever you are with there is no real need to question their every move.

My thing is we are together but if you feel like you wanna cheat either tell me the problem or leave I don't have the time to sit here and worry about what you do every day.

Re: The 2nd Time Around

Princess0889 — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 13:48:39 -0000

I have and I am pretty sure I wouldn't do it again. In my situation I think I couldn't get it out of my head of how he had hurt me before and I pretty much created our second demise. I can also say that when I let go of him this time I knew I couldn't even be on friendship level with him because of how things went down. Unlike the our first time he still can't deal with us not having any communication but I can't deal with us having communication.

Re: Fact or Myth

Ness — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 13:35:17 -0000

:) good call out! I didn't look at it tht way.

Re: Fact or Myth

Princess0889 — Mon, 05 Oct 2009 12:36:22 -0000

I have personal experience with this one. This is completely false but I think most girls gain weight when they start having sex due to getting comfortable within the relationship and they start gaining weight.

Re: Quickie: If You Have A Tongue Ring, Then You Simply Suck

Princess0889 — Wed, 30 Sep 2009 13:40:13 -0000

I have had mine for 2 year now and I can honestly say that the reason for me was so that I would stop chewing gum and because I wanted to rebel against everyone getting their belly pierced (still not something I wanna get done).
I am about 99.9% sure I don't give head more than in other girl and if any I give a lot less because having this piercing. It can attract germs of all kinds if not properly cleaned and taken care of.
I just don't see how people label a guy gay for having his tongue pierced because the first three that went down on me had theirs done so it was something I prefer to this day. I can see how it could be labeled as gay but I always think if a many has one he is thinking of the ladies pleasure before his own.

But hey I am only 20 and I have much more to learn, see, and do

Re: A Time To Love

Ness — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 13:17:21 -0000

I agree that the word love is used rather loosely nowadays. I feel like if you truly love someone then it would come out in your actions towards them vs them constantly saying it. Like they say, "action speak louder than words".

I never thought about it like that before in regards to if someone has experienced it before then they know what it feels like.

Re: A Time To Love

Princess0889 — Tue, 22 Sep 2009 12:29:06 -0000

For me in general I believe that it is going to take me a long time to really love someone because I have a different scope on the word love.

I think time is a variable factor in terms of talking about falling in "love". I believe it is very dependent upon each persons openness to it and the amount of time a person has experienced these types of feeling. These two things can be a great judge that can decide how long it can take for a person to fall in "love".

I quote love because it is a term that is used rather loosely and should be taken more serious than it is now day's.

Re: Another Again {My Bad Habit}

Princess0889 — Tue, 01 Sep 2009 16:01:58 -0000

I have never had this occur to me but I have seen my girls get dicknotized into thinking and believing everything her dudes say although he is lying to her. I guess to them it was just that good that they could look over all the warning signs, signals, and support.

Re: Why You Gotta Lie Craig?

Princess0889 — Thu, 27 Aug 2009 15:43:21 -0000

@keli You got that right
But more importantly Little Miss Karma can do way more damage than that girl can so you better hope you get Karma because women plot from the time they find out you lying to after we commit our revenge.

I label lies as any half-truths, disregarding of important information (you got head from her while we together), and telling a whole other story when that's not what happened at all (Ninja's will say "baby we were just chilling" when in actually you and your boys ran a train on that girl).

This is why I only have one rule in all my relationship including every level: Don't lie to me because I wouldn't do it to you

Re: Not All Change is Good

Ness — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 05:07:39 -0000

Very true. Expectations have a lot to do with things.

Sometimes ppl expect the wrong outcome and whn thngs aren't going as they thgt thts whn thngs go sour.

Re: Not All Change is Good

Ness — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 04:33:11 -0000

Very true. Expectations have a lot to do with things.

Sometimes ppl expect the wrong outcome and whn thngs aren't going as they thgt thts whn thngs go sour.

Re: Not All Change is Good

Ness — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 03:12:06 -0000

Very true. Expectations have a lot to do with things.

Sometimes ppl expect the wrong outcome and whn thngs aren't going as they thgt thts whn thngs go sour.

Re: Not All Change is Good

Ness — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 02:44:16 -0000

Very true. Expectations have a lot to do with things.

Sometimes ppl expect the wrong outcome and whn thngs aren't going as they thgt thts whn thngs go sour.

Re: Not All Change is Good

Princess0889 — Fri, 21 Aug 2009 16:21:15 -0000

All of this can be summed up into one single word "EXPECTATION ". If the expectation of something more is not there for both of them then it will end as it began. Where most people (especially women) go wrong is they think that the action (kiss, touch or even sex) means more than it really does. Sometime things are what they are no more no less