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Re: A Yo' Technology

Ness — Tue, 30 Mar 2010 12:19:17 -0000

I prefer to txt and bbm also b/c its easier. Plus I feel the same way you do about holding the phone to my ear.
I don't knw wht his deal was. And it was damn near a 360 change in his personality. I was thinking to myself tht he must have blackouts while texting and forget his other personality lol.
I am the same also...whether its text, email or in person :)

Re: Willing To Wait...?

Ness — Sun, 28 Mar 2010 18:52:25 -0000

I would have to agree. I think tht sometimes depending on the history of a situation (let's say your female friend knew the guy tht she went out on a date with from her past and was able to reconnect w/him). Maybe thr was some 'chemistry' thr and she felt like it was ok to sleep w/him on the first date b/c it was "due".
However on the flip side, if they never knew each other prior to their date and she slept w/him then chances are, he won't pursue anything further than knowing he can call her and hooked and have an 'affordable' date night and get sum @ the end of it all.

Re: Willing To Wait...?

Ness — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 10:45:32 -0000

Exactly my point! Wht man wants to wait 12 months to become sexually intimate with some? Wht they hell does he plan to accomplish over those 12 months.
I presume, tht may he had a few bad 'dealings' and he wanted to be cautious.
Either way, I felt like tht amount of time was ridiculous b/c it wasn't like he laid out a 'game plan' on wht type of progress he would have wanted to make over tht 12 month period. So it was very suspect (side eye :/ lol.

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Tue, 16 Mar 2010 00:33:17 -0000

Triple threat ;)

Re: Willing To Wait...?

Ness — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 22:48:56 -0000

I don't believe in preset waiting periods either, even though i have chosen to wait to become sexually intimate with a guy but it was for my own personal reasons.
However, on the flip side, I feel like sometimes I would rather wait b/c I've slept w/ppl in the past and I felt like if I would have waited just a little bit longer to get to know them or let the 'relationship' bloom versus acting on instinct I wouldn't have 'waisted' my time.
I just don't see the point in making someone wait a dead set 12 months, cause like u said...wht revelation are they going to have tht will say, "today, is the day" after 12months smh.

Re: Willing To Wait...?

Ness — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:14:41 -0000

I guess its different strokes for different folks! :)
And like u said, do wht u want to do whether tht is having sex b/c u r sexually attracted to someone or waiting it out b/c of personal reasons.
Your method worked for you ;) You go girl!

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:44:35 -0000

Not for nothing...I don't think I've ever seen a tongue worth measuring!
I guess u r an experience within an experience ;)

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:33:22 -0000

I can always so appreciation for someone who should be appreciated.
If someone is putting 100% into pleasing their partner orally, then their partner should try to do the same. Whether it is doing something u knw they will like, trying new things or just stepping your skill level up a notch or two ;)
I knw I had a few guys fall hard b/c of my beautiful knowledge ;) lol.

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 12:04:02 -0000

We need more guys who think and act like u in the world! ;)
Thr are too many ppl out there who are half stepping and think tht they should get back more than wht they give!
I wish thr was a camera at the exact moment tht guys come back 'uptown' to show our facial expressions like how they do on roller coaster rides lol.

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 09:36:35 -0000

Lol I like tht! :)

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:31:57 -0000

:) I think all women had to learn really fast how to tell whn a guy is at his release point...lol. Cause we've all been 'tricked' once but I guarantee it hasn't happened twice lol.

Like u said, thr are so many things tht can be done w/ it instead of spitting and guys really don't care wht u do w/it. Just as long as u don't go running to the bathroom :)

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Sun, 14 Mar 2010 16:21:45 -0000

Hey Black, I'm glad you're back ;)
See....thts wht I like to hear!!!! A guy hardly pulls back regardless of wht they get whn we climax ;) And of course we luv the kiss once ya'll come up for air ;)

Now...on to you ;) I'm glad tht your are a considerate lover and don't have to play any games. And I'm sure the women u have been with appreciates it b/c if you release a lot then tht is literally a mouth full ;) Continue w/ tht balanced diet and spread the word to those men who don't have a clue lol ;)

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:49:35 -0000

LOL....I had a guy 'trick' me. I was so pissed, but I had to give him credit for achieving his 'goal' lol.
I was doing my thing, and doing all sorts of tricks w/my tongue...I took him real deep in my mouth and he erupted right on the spot. I couldn't even pull back b/c he was holding my hair. He smirked and acted like he didn't knw wht he had done.
Some of the weirdest things can turn a guy on. ;)

Re: Don't Be Rude....

Ness — Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:18:00 -0000

I agree...you can tell whn a man is about to reach his peak.
Partners with manners is definitely the way to go, but some guys have their own hidden agenda so to speak lol. Plus its almost has become a form of foreplay for a guy to let the female know he's about to erupt ;)
I love the fact that they are super sensitive afterwards because you get to see them in rare form ;)

Re: Oral vs Penetration

Ness — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 23:18:18 -0000

Neither could I girl, neither could I!

Re: Freebies

Ness — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:22:01 -0000

I like interesting too! And I love to explore my partner b/c chances are you will make a new discovery that other past partners may not have made ;)

Re: Oral vs Penetration

Ness — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:20:24 -0000

Hi Black! :) I missed u man!

Amen to that!!!! I like Plies song, but I'm be damned if I'm going to give a guy oral and then not get penetration smh.

Re: Oral vs Penetration

Ness — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:19:29 -0000

I feel you!!! I like oral too but it's noting better than feel that helmut head part lips and make it's way inside. Like u said, that initial entry is like "aaaaaahhhhh".

Re: Freebies

Ness — Mon, 08 Feb 2010 21:34:19 -0000

I agree with you....I like discovering something new about my partner...except for extreme cases when they need to disclose certain info....like Anal is a must all the time lol hahahah..

And I never thought about it, but u r right when u said that ppl need to be careful about their dislikes b/c u can change your mind about it depending on the person you are with at the time.

Re: Age Ain't Nothin' But A Number

Ness — Thu, 04 Feb 2010 09:34:46 -0000

The reason why I used the word naïve was b/c to me, even though he's 40, he is "later" than most guys. I think tht based on the way he was raised he hasn't had tht much experience with women.
He lost his virginity @ 22 yrs old. Most guys have lost theirs between the age of 11-15. So for him to had been one for so long I think he created a "way" of thinking which to us isn't logical.

Re: Age Ain't Nothin' But A Number

Ness — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 12:34:24 -0000

Yea it is sad whn someone who is younger in age has more common sense than someone older than them.

It was a complete turnoff and needless to say our conversations dwindled down. I knw I was just being friendly w/him but I can't teach someone something they should already know.

Re: Age Ain't Nothin' But A Number

Ness — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 11:00:22 -0000

Looks can be very deceiving. STD's and HIV/AIDS doesn't have a "look".
It disappointed me to knw tht he truly believed tht his way of thinking was normal.

Re: Age Ain't Nothin' But A Number

Ness — Wed, 03 Feb 2010 10:57:59 -0000

It really is. Some ppl think it defines who they are but it can actually make ppl look "stupid"...lol.

B/c in my mind, I'm thinking "damn, he's 40yrs old, he should know better".

Re: Sacrificing Sex

Ness — Sun, 31 Jan 2010 20:37:41 -0000

Well small doesn't necessarily equal bad sex. If he knows how to work wht he had then it has the potential to be a great sexual experience :)

Re: Sacrificing Sex

Ness — Fri, 29 Jan 2010 09:43:54 -0000

I agree tht ppl will stray if the sex is not up to par.
But do ppl tend to talk about the lack of sex b4 stepping out or do they just do it in hopes of not getting caught.

I knw sex is just sex for men. Thr doesn't have to be an emotional connection to the female. And some females r like tht w/ their side pieces too.