http://disqus.com/people/9e499bd516c0c82c1f8ca4572e177c0b/enMon, 04 May 2009 12:57:54 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/put_a_ring_on_her/#comment-4133969First I want to say that I commend her for her decision.<br>It seems like being a virgin is a bad thing nowadays.<br>I'm 18 years old, and I was the last remaining virgin out of all my friends. I used to be ridiculed because I wasn't having sex. But ultimately it made me better, because I value myself more. <br><br>My brother is 20. He aint having sex. He doesn't even have a girlfriend, but people like to call him gay. Because he doesn't have sex? Wow.<br><br>I really think waiting until marriage is a good idea and isn't impossible, but it would be very hard to do, especially with having a man to remain exclusive to only one person, without getting anything in return. I believe that without having sex and not putting that much emphasis on it, just emphasizes it more when the actual act happens. You're waiting a long time, so you have high expectations for when the time comes. And if you two are married, and the sex sucks, thats just going to be hard to overcome. Don't forget that marriage is holy matrimony, a contract before the Lord for two people to be together through all things positive and negative. <br><br><br>Me personally, I would prefer to have sex before marriage. If the sex is halfway decent, then we would be able to work through it and have time to fix it as the relationship goes on. But having sex after marriage, you're just diving headfirst into an unknown situation, and you don't have that ability to just drop that person if the sex is wack. You have to stay with them regardless. Marriage, honestly, it really isn't that serious for me, I'm not going to wait around, like I'm in a fairy tale waiting for my Prince Charming to appear out of nowhere and "rescue me." I can handle my own.MinaTue, 02 Dec 2008 16:02:22 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/bob_the_vocoder/#comment-4185586LMAO!<br>He really filmed it with the forest behind him? <br>OMG this was funny as hellMinaThu, 04 Dec 2008 20:10:02 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/sex_questions_with_xilla_1am/#comment-8985297Heyy welcome! :)MinaMon, 04 May 2009 12:57:54 -0000