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5 months ago
in Beyonce feat Nina B - Diva Remix on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Not surprised.. I like Nina B!
6 months ago
in Please Her With Your Fingers on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Fingers are very important. Which is why when I meet a man 1 of the first things I look at is his hands. But um yea.. I'm big on four play so its necessary. Very necessary.
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ANuJS
There are definitely sexy hands that make you imagine them doing nasty dirty things. Foreplay is IMPORTANT to me. Getting me turned on is a huge part!
6 months ago
in Be A Better Lover: What Do You Bring To A Relationship on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Its not selfish, how is it selfish for someone to want exactly what they can give?
Tell me how can a man with a previous child give his new lady his ALL with a child or children from a past situation? He cant. Cuz he is giving some to his child and her mother of that child. Or Id hope that he is.
Actually a female who would accept that when she doesnt have the same situation would be accepting less and that love that she would be getting from that man would be conditional.
It would be under the conditions of, yes I love you and you are important to me. But the needs for my child comes first. Which is totally understandable and respectable.
Now as a female who doesnt have children, it would be MY choice to be involved with something like that and if I choose not to. Im far from selfish. I just know how important a man can be in my life and want the same in return.. w/o those conditions of being put to the side for a man's child.
Tell me how can a man with a previous child give his new lady his ALL with a child or children from a past situation? He cant. Cuz he is giving some to his child and her mother of that child. Or Id hope that he is.
Actually a female who would accept that when she doesnt have the same situation would be accepting less and that love that she would be getting from that man would be conditional.
It would be under the conditions of, yes I love you and you are important to me. But the needs for my child comes first. Which is totally understandable and respectable.
Now as a female who doesnt have children, it would be MY choice to be involved with something like that and if I choose not to. Im far from selfish. I just know how important a man can be in my life and want the same in return.. w/o those conditions of being put to the side for a man's child.
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Thoney Gangstasweet
WELL SAID! i couldn't agree more. i would hope that a man's child come's first, and i want to be first in his life, same with MY kid! UH!
6 months ago
in Be A Better Lover: What Do You Bring To A Relationship on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
You know what Ive had ALOT of men tell me Im selfish for my point of view. Girl please you are NOT selfish. Thats that man trying to play with your head.
When it comes to men, love, your heart and feelings.. you know whats right for YOU! And expecting what YOU CAN OFFER from another person in return is FAR from selfish. You just know what you are worth and wont accept less.
When it comes to men, love, your heart and feelings.. you know whats right for YOU! And expecting what YOU CAN OFFER from another person in return is FAR from selfish. You just know what you are worth and wont accept less.
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Ness
@ Ess,
I feel u. Ppl say I'm selfish in GENERAL lol. But hey, u have to be like that sometimes b/c at the end of the day it's MY life ;)
It's just tht growing up, having a baby at a young age wasn't cool. But now everyone has a baby. I don't know if I could really be a part of a ready made family.
I feel u. Ppl say I'm selfish in GENERAL lol. But hey, u have to be like that sometimes b/c at the end of the day it's MY life ;)
It's just tht growing up, having a baby at a young age wasn't cool. But now everyone has a baby. I don't know if I could really be a part of a ready made family.
6 months ago
in Be A Better Lover: What Do You Bring To A Relationship on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Hmm..
I know for me, I look for EXACTLY what I can offer.
Im childless. Im loyal. Honest to almost a fault. I have nothing from past situations that links to me to anyone, and that's big for me. I think I deserve that in return. I deserve someone who can give the attention that I can give. I want a man, who actually WANTS me to be the first and ONLY mother of his children.
Yea its easy for a man to rub your back and talk to you and do all those great things, which I totally understand, respect and appreciate, but there are somethings that are just bigger than all of that.
But for me, there is definitely a difference with a man who I can maintain a temporary relationship with and then a man who I can actually see myself BUILDING A LIFE WITH.
I know for me, I look for EXACTLY what I can offer.
Im childless. Im loyal. Honest to almost a fault. I have nothing from past situations that links to me to anyone, and that's big for me. I think I deserve that in return. I deserve someone who can give the attention that I can give. I want a man, who actually WANTS me to be the first and ONLY mother of his children.
Yea its easy for a man to rub your back and talk to you and do all those great things, which I totally understand, respect and appreciate, but there are somethings that are just bigger than all of that.
But for me, there is definitely a difference with a man who I can maintain a temporary relationship with and then a man who I can actually see myself BUILDING A LIFE WITH.
6 months ago
in Jay-Z feat MC Lyte - BK Anthem on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
lmao.. 4 chicken wings FRIED HARD , please..
extra hot sauce and ketchup..
extra hot sauce and ketchup..
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BlogXilla
exactly!! They don't do Hot Sauce and Ketchup in the south so you know!!! lol I asked for it and the first thing the Chinese lady said is are you from NY i told her jersey and she says they don't do that down here and also told me that we use too much hot sauce and ketchup and they water it down to preserve ketchup!!
I wonder if they use spring water...
I wonder if they use spring water...
7 months ago
in From The Vault: Don’t Check It, You Won’t Like What You See on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I think this is a bad habit and I blame chicks for making men think that this shit is cool.
Dont pick my BB or my cell phone and go through it, unless I ask you to. And I will never do the same to someone else.
Im an adult and I expect to be treated as such.
If Im in a relationship and you feel you need to go through my phone, then you dont trust me. If you dont trust me, then there is no reason for us to be together. For real.
While Im at it.. Chicks if your man is texting another chick and you want to know whats going on. STOP calling the other chick and embarassing yourselves. You look like a crazy mofo. Confront your MAN. That's who you are involved with. Not the chick.
Great blog, Xilla. :)
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Dont pick my BB or my cell phone and go through it, unless I ask you to. And I will never do the same to someone else.
Im an adult and I expect to be treated as such.
If Im in a relationship and you feel you need to go through my phone, then you dont trust me. If you dont trust me, then there is no reason for us to be together. For real.
While Im at it.. Chicks if your man is texting another chick and you want to know whats going on. STOP calling the other chick and embarassing yourselves. You look like a crazy mofo. Confront your MAN. That's who you are involved with. Not the chick.
Great blog, Xilla. :)
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ANuJS
I feel you. If your man cheats...check your man. You weren't in a relationship with the other woman. Just check your man.
BlogXilla
It is a bad habit! !A Terrible one I checked my baby momma phone one day and I aint like shit i saw!! It wasn't even that bad... If you leave your phone around me I'm calling you to come get your shit!
I don't even want you to leave it in my area...
but i feel you on that trust thing its a very important part of all relationships because that what a relationship is trusting someone with what will hurt you... and them not hurting you.
I don't even want you to leave it in my area...
but i feel you on that trust thing its a very important part of all relationships because that what a relationship is trusting someone with what will hurt you... and them not hurting you.
VIChick
You know something that shit happened to me last night. A friend of mine texted me to see how I was doing, then the next thing I know I got a text back saying "Who is this"? She was like how u know my man? I couldn't help but laugh. I hate that shit. I was like me and ol boy are friends if u have any other questions check your man bitch. She was like I just wanna know whats going on? I was like why you still contacting me?
I hate bitches like that.
I hate bitches like that.
7 months ago
in Speak No Evil, Hear No Evil on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
That she is just a friend/ ex thing. I dont handle it well. But Ive learned if you do to him what he is doing, he will understand.
Btu I kinda disagree about the "Your friend is cute.." Thats not when you shouldnt leave them alone. If you're a man and you have a lady and your homie HATES your girl.. I mean just DESPISES her.. and he lets it be known.
Id say 75% percent of the time... Your homie is attracted to her and wants her on the low.
I know this from experience. :)
Btu I kinda disagree about the "Your friend is cute.." Thats not when you shouldnt leave them alone. If you're a man and you have a lady and your homie HATES your girl.. I mean just DESPISES her.. and he lets it be known.
Id say 75% percent of the time... Your homie is attracted to her and wants her on the low.
I know this from experience. :)
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7 months ago
in How To Take Her Man or His Girl on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
as far as taking someone elses somebody..keep in mind Karma is a b*tch tread carefully, i am 100% against it.
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Just felt this needed to be posted twice... word.
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Just felt this needed to be posted twice... word.
7 months ago
in How To Take Her Man or His Girl on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
um WOW...first I want to say I think this is almost sad..
If Im not getting enough sex or Im bored in a relationship..call me crazy, but the last thing I would do is go cheat.
And if Im single...and I decide I want to pop off with someone...the last thing I would do is get with someones man.
But thats just silly me.
If Im not getting enough sex or Im bored in a relationship..call me crazy, but the last thing I would do is go cheat.
And if Im single...and I decide I want to pop off with someone...the last thing I would do is get with someones man.
But thats just silly me.
7 months ago
in Do You Know A “Midnight” on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
First, Coldest WInter Ever = my favorite book of all time.
The idea of a "Midnight" is a cool one, but not for me. Plus with the way the character is brought up, beliefs, religion etc....He would NOT be my type.
The idea of a "Midnight" is a cool one, but not for me. Plus with the way the character is brought up, beliefs, religion etc....He would NOT be my type.
7 months ago
in The Price of P*ssy Has Plummeted on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I wanted to add, there is someone for everyone..
You have women who put a price on the pussy which DOES make their value drop, and their ok with that. Yet have men who are ok with that.
Then you have females who DONT put a price on the pussy and holds onto it for dear life and doesnt "give it up".. for material things.and you have men who understand, respect and love that.
So for the chicks who put the price on it and allow their value to drop.. I would NEVER say they need to change or stop what they are doing. If that makes you happy DO YOU, cuz honestly yall are VERY necessary in this world. Plus, yall make me (and females like me) feel better and make my stock RISE.. So keep on, keep keeping on :) *deuces*
You have women who put a price on the pussy which DOES make their value drop, and their ok with that. Yet have men who are ok with that.
Then you have females who DONT put a price on the pussy and holds onto it for dear life and doesnt "give it up".. for material things.and you have men who understand, respect and love that.
So for the chicks who put the price on it and allow their value to drop.. I would NEVER say they need to change or stop what they are doing. If that makes you happy DO YOU, cuz honestly yall are VERY necessary in this world. Plus, yall make me (and females like me) feel better and make my stock RISE.. So keep on, keep keeping on :) *deuces*
7 months ago
in The Price of P*ssy Has Plummeted on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I never knew pussy had a price for it to even "plummet".
Pussy is priceless.. and so is dick honestly.. Well good P&D.
But Ill go along with it for a sec.
If the price of the pussy thats around you or the pussy you seem to attract has dropped.. There isnt only something wrong with the pussy, there may be something wrong with the dude.
You attract what you put out.
So if you present yourself in a certain way.. You are going to get that in return.
its like when women say (which I hate) "all men are dogs".. or "all my exes are shit.."
Well maybe there is something wrong with YOU!!! What you put out attracts dogs, and if all your exes are shit.. then what are you?
so if the pussy you are seeing is dropping in price.. or losing its value... or the stock as fallen..lol
it has a lot to do with you.
Pussy is priceless.. and so is dick honestly.. Well good P&D.
But Ill go along with it for a sec.
If the price of the pussy thats around you or the pussy you seem to attract has dropped.. There isnt only something wrong with the pussy, there may be something wrong with the dude.
You attract what you put out.
So if you present yourself in a certain way.. You are going to get that in return.
its like when women say (which I hate) "all men are dogs".. or "all my exes are shit.."
Well maybe there is something wrong with YOU!!! What you put out attracts dogs, and if all your exes are shit.. then what are you?
so if the pussy you are seeing is dropping in price.. or losing its value... or the stock as fallen..lol
it has a lot to do with you.
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A Real Dude
Like Katt said before he went crazy what about you attracts aint shit men!! same apply huh? lmao
7 months ago
in 9 After Sex Personalities on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Im definitely "the smoker".... with a sprinkle of talker..
When I find my "eater" with a dash of "a roller" with a sprinkle of "a smoker".. . Roll something up, give it to me to smoke, while he eats it..well then ..I will know I found love
When I find my "eater" with a dash of "a roller" with a sprinkle of "a smoker".. . Roll something up, give it to me to smoke, while he eats it..well then ..I will know I found love
7 months ago
in 3 Games Women Play on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
If you get a females number today, are you going to call her today?
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Xill. Ayers
Depends on the situation I mean I have, other times I wait til the next day It all depends on my schedule.
7 months ago
in 3 Games Women Play on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
You aint lying.
My fave game to play with a nuccas is.."The stop f-ing with simple bitches" Game..
For example, you have simple bitches out here who like to ride a dudes jock.. and when homie meets someone ELSE..who isnt about jocking NO dude. Then the guy wants to have a bitch fit. So yea.. Im not running to anser your call, like the next one.. I have a life and shit to do. lol
My fave game to play with a nuccas is.."The stop f-ing with simple bitches" Game..
For example, you have simple bitches out here who like to ride a dudes jock.. and when homie meets someone ELSE..who isnt about jocking NO dude. Then the guy wants to have a bitch fit. So yea.. Im not running to anser your call, like the next one.. I have a life and shit to do. lol
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Xill. Ayers
so y'all play games huh? SO how do you choose who to play games with? You too B.I.B.? Is it a "Money" issue you don't play games with dudes who have money? or do you play games with the guys who wear uptowns vs the guys who were tims? What's the tought process behind all the games?
7 months ago
in Usher - Off Your Chest on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
whatta gay ass pic.. sorry.
7 months ago
in 3 Games Women Play on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Ill say this, women play games.. and so do men.
With that said, these games cant be played unless there is someone willing to play with the female.... Especially with the last one.
Thats why Im single. lol
With that said, these games cant be played unless there is someone willing to play with the female.... Especially with the last one.
Thats why Im single. lol
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Xill. Ayers
I don't think we like playing games we just play them because we allow y'all to make some of the rules. Other than that we know at the end of the day that's the way to y'all work. But I'll play the last one.
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Brown Girl
so true men know they like these games!
7 months ago
in Things Not To Do In The Club on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I love this! Especially because I outgrew the club @ about 23... Im 27 now and if someone wants me in a club, they'd have to pay ME!
Ill be late for that shit..
Ill be late for that shit..
7 months ago
in I Hate Knives on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Im not sure I understand this one.. lol
7 months ago
in Kanye West+ R-Kelly Love Lockdown Rmx on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Cant stand Arra.. but I gotta hear this..
