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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for Nick Grimshawe</title><link>http://disqus.com/people/8bb5cb1c57e22135ade122a2ae5b3d55/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 00:19:11 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: &amp;#8220;Lost&amp;#8221; Is Found Again Tonight</title><link>http://popcritics.disqus.com/8220lost8221_is_found_again_tonight/#comment-1199190</link><description>&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2008/02/01/quote-james-allen-vision/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Quote by James Allen about Vision&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 00:18:30 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Do as others do</title><link>http://paulocoelho.disqus.com/do_as_others_do/#comment-9888122</link><description>Thank you for this enlightening story. Showing sanctity defeats sanctity. By trying to appease two different principles the Monk actually violated both.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick Grimshawe</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 22 Nov 2007 21:08:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: How to Increase Personal Creativity: Internet Marketers United Group Writing Project</title><link>http://pajamaprofessional.disqus.com/how_to_increase_personal_creativity_internet_marketers_united_group_writing_project/#comment-4808258</link><description>I really enjoyed your article on personal creativity. One of the things I do to stay creative is use a journal. I have note books stashed everywhere, so I can jot things down. I may never uses them, or I might flip back through them six months or a year later and go "Oh what a great idea." I liked how you came up with your subtitles using "Re". It's easy to remember. Lots of good ideas to put to use.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks again.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..&lt;/em&gt;&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2007/10/18/beautiful-summer-morning-inspirational-quote-of-the-day-thursday-october-18-2007/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Beautiful Summer Morning Inspirational Quote of the Day: Thursday October 18 2007&lt;/a&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 18 Oct 2007 00:04:46 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: 2009/02/05/personal-branding-101/</title><link>http://mashable.disqus.com/thread_7319/#comment-6297443</link><description>Thanks for the great article. I've learned quite a bit about other things I can do to improve my branding. I'll be clicking through the links for awhile I think.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 06 Feb 2009 00:19:11 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: How To Gain And Lose RSS Subscribers</title><link>http://pingable.disqus.com/how_to_gain_and_lose_rss_subscribers/#comment-12434692</link><description>I follow the link form Courtney's writing project. I am in the process of reading everyone's post. What I liked about your post is the simple way you laid out the info. I am going to follow you directions and get going on this as RSS is something I haven't done alot with RSS. Seems like a simple next step.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thank You</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2007 01:44:53 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Answer me this&amp;#8230;</title><link>http://ccseed.disqus.com/answer_me_this8230/#comment-16884349</link><description>Oh so that's the tail of the dragon!&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&amp;lt;abbr&amp;gt;&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe´s last blog post..&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2009/01/ten-quotes-about-the-journey/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Ten Quotes about the Journey&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;&amp;lt;/abbr&amp;gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 26 Jan 2009 23:24:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Anxiety, Affirmations &amp;amp; Yaro</title><link>http://greatselfconfidence.disqus.com/anxiety_affirmations_amp_yaro/#comment-19844999</link><description>Hi David,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;What an excellent post. I have never thought of negative thoughts as negative affirmations but you are right. When you think of them that way it just gives you another handle to wrestle them with.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Listening to your internal dialoque is so important in changing your thought patterns. I've found over time, the more I practice, the better I become, at spotting negative affirmations. As you progress you begin to find the really deep seated ones. I am always amazed by this.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I use to have trouble with negative dreams. Then one day when I woke from a particularly bad one, I stopped and tried to figure out how I could restate it in a positive light. The moment I started doing that  the number of negative dreams I had started to drop off rapidly. Now I almost look forward to one because of what I learn from putting a positive spin on it.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Anyway, enough of all of that. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Just a great article, and the links too. I will be following up on those.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2008/02/01/quote-james-allen-vision/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Quote by James Allen about Vision&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Fri, 01 Feb 2008 00:59:04 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Achieving goals with support</title><link>http://greatselfconfidence.disqus.com/achieving_goals_with_support/#comment-19845046</link><description>Great post about goals. I do set them and try to make them as clear as possible but getting a coach could really help.  I know even a coach for a course I took really helped clarify my goals. Also reading as much as you can on goals and goal setting works well too: such as reading this article.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2008/02/26/recollections-of-my-mother-of-her-floral-skirt-by-noy/" rel="nofollow"&gt;RECOLLECTIONS â€¦ OF MY MOTHER, OF HER FLORAL SKIRT: By Noy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 26 Feb 2008 00:33:25 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Dealing with Perfectionism</title><link>http://greatselfconfidence.disqus.com/dealing_with_perfectionism/#comment-19845115</link><description>Perfectionism can cause procrastination when you are so focused on perfect you never complete the cycle. My experience with aspiring writers just confirms this. I won't publish till I'm perfect, which then, unfortunately, results in the author never submitting his or her work.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I like the idea of affirmations  allowing for mistakes. We stumble and fall to succeed. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great article as usual.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2008/05/06/bruce-lee-quote-defeat/" rel="nofollow"&gt;Bruce Lee Quote: Meaning of Defeat&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 05 May 2008 22:46:34 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Stop Seeking the Approval of Others</title><link>http://greatselfconfidence.disqus.com/stop_seeking_the_approval_of_others/#comment-19845134</link><description>Hi David,&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Another interesting article. I like the idea of the Portfolio  where you put your accomplishments and things your feel you  did a good job on. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;As some one who had problems with self esteem, approval seeking is one of the hardest things to overcome and to understand. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I got there with my journal, and a lot of reading: articles like this, books, and one very good coaching program.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You do an awesome job, keep up the good work.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Walk in quiet places.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;em&gt;Nick Grimshawe's last blog post..&lt;a href="http://beautifulsummermorning.com/2008/06/03/a-door-inside/" rel="nofollow"&gt;There is a Door Inside of Me&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 03 Jun 2008 01:30:31 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: Does taking risks build confidence?</title><link>http://greatselfconfidence.disqus.com/does_taking_risks_build_confidence/#comment-19845177</link><description>Self confidence is a strange beast. It's not something that is an across the board thing. You get people who can face the heat of battle yet stand terrified before an audience of friendly faces.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;You can do some general things to gain self confidence especially in areas you feel the lack of. &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;I guess over all you could put the task down to a willingness to push your own limits until you feel  you may not have total self confidence but you have the fortitude to tackle anything. I suppose when you get to that point you could say you have total self confidence: one of those two sides of the same coin situations.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 03 Aug 2008 21:08:00 -0000</pubDate></item><item><title>Re: How to Say No</title><link>http://greatselfconfidence.disqus.com/how_to_say_no/#comment-19845248</link><description>Hi David, &lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;This is a very helpful article for everyone who tends to say yes to avoid conflict. I think it is important to bend, but only on your terms. Don't lie, is so important. too many people get caught out on this one which only brings embarrassment and guilt later.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Be upfront with the "NO". Don't be defensive and don't feel you need to give more of an explanation than you feel comfortable with.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Great advice.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Thanks for the reminders.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Nick</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nick Grimshawe</dc:creator><pubDate>Tue, 16 Sep 2008 23:47:33 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>