Disqus - Latest Comments for Faraji

Re: paris, texas. in plain view

Faraji — Fri, 16 Mar 2007 00:10:14 -0000

Please use the link to send the governor a message expressing your support for having this outrage overturned, particularly if you are a Texas voter. Send the link to your friends and make them send the gov. a message. The only way to exert influence over events like these is to leverage what power you have (votes, tax dollars, etc.). Black people have been very bad at this post civil-rights era. Anyone who doesn't take three minutes to do that has no right to bitch and moan.

Re: The Male Whore Debate: A Duel Point of View

Faraji — Mon, 17 Nov 2008 20:15:44 -0000

Tried to sneak in and publish this while I wasn't looking and make me look the bad guy, eh, Gordon? As usual, you're way off base. I'm talking about not vomiting out your private relationships wherein they don't affect the current one. You're talking about "her flight lands at nine, my game just rewinds." I'm talking about if I'm flying Delta exclusively now, the ticket agent doesn't need to know that I flew Northwest, Continental, Alsaka Air, and maybe a couple Virgins while Delta was on strike. Merry Berry was smoking crack with a prostitute. That's a little more "little white lie" than I was talking about. And Billy Clint was doing wrong while IN a relationship. I said between. Try again, Gartrell.

Re: The Male Whore Debate: A Duel Point of View

Faraji — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 09:45:47 -0000

Angela:

Long hair and green eyes? Why can't she have a short natural and chocolate brown skin? Why are you trying to play the race card here? I obviously can't respond rationally to someone who's so obviously a colorist.

But in all seriousness, If your sig O asks you a question, you have a responsibility to answer honestly. I'm not advocating deceit here. Just a less possessively jealous feeling of entitlement to know (or share) every detail.

Re: The Male Whore Debate: A Duel Point of View

Faraji — Tue, 18 Nov 2008 14:48:29 -0000

You seem like the kind of guy who hacks into his girl's myspace page because he doesn't trust her. Just saying. Just a feeling.

Re: Every Good Woman Needs A Thug?

Faraji — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 04:49:37 -0000

Why is he buying some fool woman he doesn't know from Adam a damn drink in the first place? Citibank's laying off 50,000 people, and this fool's out here sponsoring random women? Coulda sponsored an Ethiopian child or some sh*% instead. And then she had the nerve to give him the once over when he offered her something?!?! The hell is going on in the world?

Re: Every Good Woman Needs A Thug?

Faraji — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 00:24:54 -0000

Smartenup:

First: You got owned by Nia in this little war of words y'all developed.

Second: "and most importantly he asks her “what does she look for in a guy?” See this is the most important part in COMMUNICATION"

That might be the most sucka-ass statement I've ever heard. In fact your whole comment basically read as a treatise in defense of sucka-ass dudes. That's not communication, that's a corny ass line, and dude got what he deserved for it. Basically, he went fishing for her to describe a dude with his characteristics and then threw a hissy fit when she didn't. If he was campaigning with some balls, he wouldn't be worried about what kind of candidates she usually votes for, he'd be pitching the strength of his own platform. On a final note, if someone grabbed my girl's big ol' ass, I wouldn't hesitate to slap the shit out of them in the club. And then check her for wearing that tight ass dress. We may be gentlemen, but we need not forget the key in that word is the men part.

Re: Every Good Woman Needs A Thug?

Faraji — Wed, 26 Nov 2008 13:35:49 -0000

Smartenup:

The fact that you're casting your lot with a guy that got rejected, and crying about "so called educated black women" and how cofusing they are speaks volumes about your own communication skills. As far as your interpretation of my political analogy, I wouldn't much expect someone of your ilk to understand. What I'm saying is I go for the "take me as I am" school rather than the "Oh, let me mold myself to try to be what you want" school that you went graduated with honors from. Both me and my girl are quite pround of her butt. And unlike you, We don't let the prospect of negative attention keep us hiding under a rock in case some uncouth person acts inappropriately. Having been to the highest of the highbrow and the lowest of the low, trust me, intoxicated dudes will try women regardless of socioeconomic status. I've seen some of the most outlandish shit at establishments of "elegance and class." So you keep on THINKING about how you're gonna let some dude punk you in front of your woman. My girl and I will be kicking it and having fun in the club, unconcerned about getting tried. Your obsession with making everything "thuggish" is kinda funny. Seems like it's a whole generation of educated black dudes that are so scared of confrontation, they piss their pants at the thought of even being assertive. So y'all try to make yourselves feel better by trying to marginalize anything Alpha male-ish as thuggery. I mean, I'm here to help. If you want to learn how to change a tire, I'll help you out.

Re: The Gold Digger Diatribe

Faraji — Fri, 28 Nov 2008 15:33:48 -0000

Well met, Gordon! "Insecticons sucking on Energon cubes!" Hilarious! Of course, I wholeheartedly agree with you about the futility of seeking a long term healthy relationship with Nene and them. But there's no reason to hate them for their character flaws. They are what they are. Don't date 'em, but don't hate 'em, I always say.

Re: Every Good Woman Needs A Thug?

Faraji — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 18:13:24 -0000

Am I the only one questioning whether Smartenup didn't just make up this SoSensual24 character? I mean, I haven't seen dickriding like that since Janet Jacme got out of porn. Either that, or you got a groupie, bruh. Enjoy.

Re: The Male Whore Debate: A Duel Point of View

Faraji — Mon, 01 Dec 2008 23:29:01 -0000

I think that was supposed to be a double entendre

Re: The Plight of the Good Woman

Faraji — Tue, 16 Dec 2008 22:19:17 -0000

Devil's advocate:

If I claim my company makes a good car, but no one's buying my car, and people are clearly buying other cars, isn't it possible the car I make isn't as good as I'm screaming it is? After all, doesn't the market decide?

*Runs and hides*

Re: Casual Sex Is Screwing Relationships

Faraji — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 11:43:39 -0000

Hasn't it occurred to you that the reason people are only having hookup relationships with certain people is because they're not relationship material for whatever reason? I doubt people are taking the milk instead of buying the cow because it's cheaper, I think they wouldn't have bought the cow anyway.

Re: Casual Sex Is Screwing Relationships

Faraji — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:57:45 -0000

Angyr CocoaDiva! CocoaDiva Want Commitment! Actually, I agree with you, jumpoffhood is not a step toward a relationship, but I think your assumption is that women think they are going to get saved by being a good jumpoff. Pretty much all women know in their hearts that's not the case. Some might try to fool themselves into thinking it is, but whose fault is that? Why do you assume women are so easily bamboozled and naive?

Re: Casual Sex Is Screwing Relationships

Faraji — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:58:41 -0000

By realtionship material, it was implicit that I meant "for that person." I think we're saying the same thing using different terms.

Re: Talented Black Man Syndrome

Faraji — Mon, 27 Jul 2009 18:09:08 -0000

I call wishful thinking. As far as men's being ready to settle down, we are when we are, and not a moment too soon. And when we are, it's pretty clear, old and fat as we may have become, we still have a pretty good array of options. As for women realizing when their star was at its peak, that period was called college and the period three years after for most of you. And if you didn't lock down somebody then, your chances go down. James may have been bitching and whining, but I'm pretty sure that was just a temporary pity party he threw for himself. He'll be alright come Saturday

Re: Talented Black Man Syndrome

Faraji — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 18:21:09 -0000

I never said "expiring." I made a realistic assessment of what happens. If you don't like it, I'm sorry, but show me statistically where I'm wrong. I'm not arguing that women give up hope at all because they didn't marry at that age. That's just when they're at their peak. Just like we're at our peak in our late 20's/early 30's. As far as lack of quality, narcissism, etc, I'm just telling a truth, and you're throwing stones. I'll live.

Re: Talented Black Man Syndrome

Faraji — Mon, 10 Aug 2009 18:25:18 -0000

Cry me a river, cocoa. Yes, that age is when women have the most options. Tell me what is untrue or offensive about that comment. I'll wait. I didn't say she was garbage post 25, that's you trying to put words in my mouth because you're emotionally invested. After that, however, men in her age group will get married, have kids, or do other shit that throws them out of the dating pool. That's just life. As far as the one that got away, she'll have options too if she's a quality woman. Those options are just fewer than they were for her in college. Tell me I'm wrong.

Re: If You Didn’t Meet Him In College, Hang It Up

Faraji — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 14:23:31 -0000

Hilarious. Way to take my statement on juice it up to a thousand. Someone has a potential career on Fox News. I think you completely misinterpreted my statement that a woman has far more choices early due to the nature of her proximity to eligible members of the opposite sex to mean that she's worthless if she doesn't find a husband after a certain time. But it's a good topic nonetheless. interested to see what people think

Re: If You Didn’t Meet Him In College, Hang It Up

Faraji — Tue, 11 Aug 2009 21:41:30 -0000

Yeah. Hell of a catch-22 ain't it? You know what they say, youth is wasted on the young.