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Re: BlogXilla vs Karrine Steffans

THEflyGIRL — Mon, 18 Aug 2008 19:07:50 -0000

Yeah the bitch is mixed alright, with Indian, Chinese & hood, i.e. she buys her indian weave from the chinese beauty supply and then grabs a hood sista to put it in.

Chick lived in the oakwoods in the fucking valley for the last year and when she couldn't make another dime, or fuck for more name-drops, she's moving to ATL to start over.

Like a pornstar fucking past her prime.

Re: Tupac - Should You Respect Women?

THEflyGIRL — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 16:56:35 -0000

*Sucks teeth* Whether we know it or not, we define ourselves. If you are being treated like a "whore" while thinkin' you're a lady, then chances are, there's something bout you that's not quite lady-like. But the problem is a lot of chicks allow themselves to be treated in a certin way out of fear. They're afraid that without a constant struggle, they won't know their man cares. They're afraid that if they demand better, he'll leave. And they're afraid that if he leaves, no one else will love them in his place. It's not about being "dick-matized" -- although I am officially jackin' that word -- it's really about being lost. And not knowing who you are. Cause without a proper self-definition, you very well could be the whore, while thinkin' you're the lady.

Re: AFX - She’s Dating The Toss Salad Man

THEflyGIRL — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 20:04:35 -0000

I mean I guess I'm nieve (or REALLY liberal) but I really didn't know this was still a big deal. It feels good receiving and because I wouldn't do it with anyone other than someone I really care about, it feels good giving it.

Re: The Beauty Of A Slim Woman

THEflyGIRL — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 15:44:49 -0000

First, to each his own. Everyone has a right to their own preferences, especially when it comes to a partner. I know I have mine.

And to the thick girls who've taken offense here, I know it always sucks to not be the chosen one, and please know that as I write this I am a very curvaceous and buxom 5'9, size 14/16, so I'm thick.

But like I said, we all have our preferences. I personally don't like short/small men. It's not my thing. But this is where knowing who you are comes in. As long as I know that I am thick and fine as hell, I could care less who does or doesn't want me. Because I want me. And because I know that their choice isn't about ME, it's about them and what they like.

Now with all of that being said, Xilla, you've been messing around with the wrong thick girls if they can't take the heat in the bed. They might've just been lazy.

Re: The Expectation Of Men

THEflyGIRL — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 14:35:13 -0000

I had NO idea where this was going. But I'm SO glad I stuck it out until the last paragraph. So true. So very true.

Re: The Down Low

THEflyGIRL — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 14:08:01 -0000

It's weird, but I realized recently, that now asking "Do you like any cock other than your own?" has become a regular question for me to ask to men. And than annoys the shit out of me that I'd even HAVE to ask that.

Re: My Revolution Is In Need Of More Duck Sauce

THEflyGIRL — Wed, 24 Sep 2008 13:19:21 -0000

It's funny cause as I've begun to follow you here and on twitter and various places (and strange on air convos), I had really begun to wonder what was at the edge of the sex-laden persona. And with this post, I think we're all able to see a rounder picture of Xilla. And it's an honest and beautiful one.

Re: 3 Ways To Handle Drunk People

THEflyGIRL — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 20:10:53 -0000

I once convinced a dude who was trying to talk to me, that he was gay. But the end of the night he had this identity crisis. It was hilarious.

Re: Obama Buck - Racist Sterotypes on Food Stamps

THEflyGIRL — Thu, 16 Oct 2008 22:10:13 -0000

And the really sad thing is, she honestly doesn't believe she's racist. And those are the people that are the most dangerous.

Re: Put A Ring On Her

THEflyGIRL — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 13:50:21 -0000

My father, the good reverend, has always taught my brother & sister that sex before marriage is a positive thing. Let me explain - i don't want ya'll calling for him to step down off the pulpit. Intimacy is one of the MOST important parts of any relationship and if you are planning to spend the rest of your life with someone, you had better make sure you two are compatible.

Re: 30 Reasons Why SOME Women Ain’t…

THEflyGIRL — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 00:29:24 -0000

Damn. I got 3 cousins that had phone bills before they new how to talk. I always suspected my aunt wasn't shit...

Re: The Dub Spot (Video Blog 8/22)

THEflyGIRL — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 22:38:34 -0000

Ummm, I didn't hear nothin' bout no pubes?

Re: The Dub Spot 8/26 (Vlog)

THEflyGIRL — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 19:59:55 -0000

Heeeyyyy!

Re: Caption This (Mmmmm… Kool Aid)

THEflyGIRL — Wed, 27 Aug 2008 15:33:12 -0000

Kool-aid, destroying a community for over 3 decades! Yum.

Re: It’s been a long time…

THEflyGIRL — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 21:52:56 -0000

Soooo, er ummm, where's this vlog?

Re: Breathe Life

THEflyGIRL — Sun, 24 Aug 2008 14:44:50 -0000

Beautiful.

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Re: Dreams Can Come True

THEflyGIRL — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:33:57 -0000

This is so real on so many levels. So often people, out of their own fears and regrets, will often try and crush the dreams of others. But dreams are so powerful and should be held dear, and protected.

Very powerful Moe.

J.