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4 months ago
in 30 Reasons Why SOME Women Ain’t… on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Damn. I got 3 cousins that had phone bills before they new how to talk. I always suspected my aunt wasn't shit...
7 months ago
in Put A Ring On Her on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
My father, the good reverend, has always taught my brother & sister that sex before marriage is a positive thing. Let me explain - i don't want ya'll calling for him to step down off the pulpit. Intimacy is one of the MOST important parts of any relationship and if you are planning to spend the rest of your life with someone, you had better make sure you two are compatible.
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Well said from your father. Reverend or not he is a man, a human being and for him to instill that in his seeds is beautiful to me. Communication is wonderful. ..............................NOW..............................did he tell ya'll how to put a hat on that willy??? Or was that TMI??
8 months ago
in Obama Buck - Racist Sterotypes on Food Stamps on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
And the really sad thing is, she honestly doesn't believe she's racist. And those are the people that are the most dangerous.
8 months ago
in 3 Ways To Handle Drunk People on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I once convinced a dude who was trying to talk to me, that he was gay. But the end of the night he had this identity crisis. It was hilarious.
9 months ago
in My Revolution Is In Need Of More Duck Sauce on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
It's funny cause as I've begun to follow you here and on twitter and various places (and strange on air convos), I had really begun to wonder what was at the edge of the sex-laden persona. And with this post, I think we're all able to see a rounder picture of Xilla. And it's an honest and beautiful one.
9 months ago
in The Down Low on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
It's weird, but I realized recently, that now asking "Do you like any cock other than your own?" has become a regular question for me to ask to men. And than annoys the shit out of me that I'd even HAVE to ask that.
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ANuJS
That's a funny question. Serious (and should be asked/answered) but entertaining nonetheless. My scariest observation is that gay doesn't look gay at all. They don't act feminine, switch, or any other mannerisms that were 'tell-tale' signs. Scary....scary...scary.
9 months ago
in The Expectation Of Men on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I had NO idea where this was going. But I'm SO glad I stuck it out until the last paragraph. So true. So very true.
10 months ago
in The Beauty Of A Slim Woman on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
First, to each his own. Everyone has a right to their own preferences, especially when it comes to a partner. I know I have mine.
And to the thick girls who've taken offense here, I know it always sucks to not be the chosen one, and please know that as I write this I am a very curvaceous and buxom 5'9, size 14/16, so I'm thick.
But like I said, we all have our preferences. I personally don't like short/small men. It's not my thing. But this is where knowing who you are comes in. As long as I know that I am thick and fine as hell, I could care less who does or doesn't want me. Because I want me. And because I know that their choice isn't about ME, it's about them and what they like.
Now with all of that being said, Xilla, you've been messing around with the wrong thick girls if they can't take the heat in the bed. They might've just been lazy.
And to the thick girls who've taken offense here, I know it always sucks to not be the chosen one, and please know that as I write this I am a very curvaceous and buxom 5'9, size 14/16, so I'm thick.
But like I said, we all have our preferences. I personally don't like short/small men. It's not my thing. But this is where knowing who you are comes in. As long as I know that I am thick and fine as hell, I could care less who does or doesn't want me. Because I want me. And because I know that their choice isn't about ME, it's about them and what they like.
Now with all of that being said, Xilla, you've been messing around with the wrong thick girls if they can't take the heat in the bed. They might've just been lazy.
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ANuJS
I heard that. As a thick chick, I have NEVER had a problem with taking the d*&%, No scooting back or holding the stomach...I love holding my feet over my head on his shoulders...whatever. I agree, I don't like short men and they would have a FIT if they ever saw a post such as this. I feel like as a women there are so many REAL issues and size (just like skin tone) is another f*&%ed up way for SOME men (and women) to put women down. I've got 4 daughters and they are all thin. My oldest (5'3 115lbs.) is already worried about her damn weight. I have the task of pounding SELF love...f anybody elses opinion. It's rough when EVERYTHING in this world tells my baby differently. I am 32 and it has only been in the last year or so that I've come to love myself and it is liberatinng. Women be healthy...that's enough. If God wanted us all to look like Beyonce or Ciara or even Monique he had the power to do it. So, it's obvious that he LOVES diversity. Who are we to dispute. Mind you, skinny vs. thick is a preference...NOT a standard.
10 months ago
in AFX - She’s Dating The Toss Salad Man on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
I mean I guess I'm nieve (or REALLY liberal) but I really didn't know this was still a big deal. It feels good receiving and because I wouldn't do it with anyone other than someone I really care about, it feels good giving it.
10 months ago
in Tupac - Should You Respect Women? on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
*Sucks teeth* Whether we know it or not, we define ourselves. If you are being treated like a "whore" while thinkin' you're a lady, then chances are, there's something bout you that's not quite lady-like. But the problem is a lot of chicks allow themselves to be treated in a certin way out of fear. They're afraid that without a constant struggle, they won't know their man cares. They're afraid that if they demand better, he'll leave. And they're afraid that if he leaves, no one else will love them in his place. It's not about being "dick-matized" -- although I am officially jackin' that word -- it's really about being lost. And not knowing who you are. Cause without a proper self-definition, you very well could be the whore, while thinkin' you're the lady.
10 months ago
in BlogXilla vs Karrine Steffans on BlogXilla For Sexual Intellectuals
Yeah the bitch is mixed alright, with Indian, Chinese & hood, i.e. she buys her indian weave from the chinese beauty supply and then grabs a hood sista to put it in.
Chick lived in the oakwoods in the fucking valley for the last year and when she couldn't make another dime, or fuck for more name-drops, she's moving to ATL to start over.
Like a pornstar fucking past her prime.
Chick lived in the oakwoods in the fucking valley for the last year and when she couldn't make another dime, or fuck for more name-drops, she's moving to ATL to start over.
Like a pornstar fucking past her prime.