DISQUS

Life is totally about taking risks and learning lessons. If we play it safe we won't learn a darn thing about ourselves...and leads to a Biff Stiff life....

I kinda see it like this.

If someone says something off putting. The comment might sting a bit; but if we take it to heart it means that we quietly already believe that negative thing being said about ourselves anyway. The pain is caused by that person pressing our buttons. I've been there...many times.

Most negative comments are about the ego in the other person trying to knock you down a peg or two. Sometimes malicious and sometimes the ego just wants to compete....

If we study the drive of the ego (Hello! Eckhardt Tolle)...negative comments will roll like heads in Marie Antoinette! And brushed like dirt off your shoulders!

Nothing is more sensual than a footrub. Hands Down!

Yes..teens can be testy as you know what...I used to teach 8th and 9th grade and I thought they were all bastards...LOL...something about that age just makes turns all the good in your heart into a raging maniac.


And I hear that about coming into your own. Every year gets better and life Gets sweeter if we choose to honor life as the gift that it is.



Happy Holidays and Great Blog!



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I love your site.

And to leave a short comment I think that its up to the couple to decide what's best for them. Many of these comments are on a middle class mentality level...I'm not trying to diss or dismiss but there are women who don't even work and don't have children...they're philanthropist's or fundraisers...

Some men like being breadwinners and some women like being at home. If the man doesn't have a problem with it then why should we...I think the most important thing is that the woman and man are educated...that way they'll be able to fend for themselves if they happen to find themselves on their own.

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I'm saddened by the disproportionate statistics on HIV rates with Black Women. We sisters need to love, honor and cherish ourselves more...

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The look on that man's face in the above pic say its all. It's that look of pride and inspiration that Obama seems to put on everyone's face.

Nice Ad! Whenever I see Obama I think nothing but "God's work"...how else can you explain this man rising up out of the dust?

The fact!

The face that I've come to realize that spirit and love lives inside me; and that neither can be destroyed.

HGTV is my crack.

What Not to Wear.
Queer Eye.

Anything that includes a makeover.

Dancing.

I love when a man can express his dichotomy well.

Strength/Wisdom, Humility/Confidence, Nurturer/Provider, Lover/Protector, Ambition/ Disciplined

Love it!

I love this article. There's always room for awakening in each area of our lives and that includes having a grip on the greenbacks!

Also...my lips..

I love my legs, my eyes and my skin..it glows...

I couldn't agree more. The choice just seems right.

Learning how to trust your intuition is the key to pretty much everything. Intuition is a gift from the Universe cause it will always guide us towards the lessons we need to learn.

I'm there with Carrie. Owning and managing trivial things is not my idea of fun. I'll take a full body massage, trips to South Africa, Morocco, and Paris...and plenty of yoga retreats for me and the hubby.

I would like to own a painting by Kehinde Wiley or a photograph by Gordon Parks.

I would have to say "The Alchemist" by Paulo Coehlo.

I apologize for my grammar.

not meant to be lived.

Nothing could be truer! I always played it safe. Dotting my i's and crossing my t's; doing my best to be perfection. Of course I realize now that that's a nuerosis and that life was not meant to be life that way. Life is classroom. Our job is to develop the necessary tool to handle the pitfalls.