http://disqus.com/people/7742cc83d8ecb3b6b691766e1050c149/enFri, 28 Aug 2009 13:05:59 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/jay_z_crushes_on_diana_ross/#comment-2641625I <3 Hova and Xilla! XOXOErinFri, 26 Sep 2008 11:16:48 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/why_women_shouldn8217t_hold_the_remote/#comment-3555651My man always holds the remote. He even keeps it in his pocket when he leaves the room! I don't really have an argument because letting him watch whatever he wants keeps him quiet. If I try to hold the remote he has something to say about every single channel I stop on. It's so much easier to let him have his remote. And for some reason I think it makes him feel "manly" LOLErinWed, 05 Nov 2008 13:42:11 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/young_dro_feat_yung_la_take_off/#comment-3684013Love Dro! He's got some crazy metaphors, especially when it comes to colors!ErinTue, 11 Nov 2008 15:28:43 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/kanye_west_feat_jeezy_amazin/#comment-3684109I can't wait to hear his new album! Yeezy has always been on another level. He can wear a damn moo moo and dudes would go buy one LOL. You just can't knock him! So fresh!ErinTue, 11 Nov 2008 15:34:45 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/is_black_on_black_dating_dying/#comment-3705387I can't believe nobody commented on this. I am a white woman and I date a black man, we met in college. I do not feel like he parades me around like a trophy because of my race, nor am I fucking him to get half the light bill paid. I'm not sure we ever actually discussed the fact that were are of different races, yet we have been together for almost four years. Of course we get the stereotyping like: She's with a black dude so she's easy, He's with a white girl so he must not be able to handle a black woman, family members on both sides thinkin we shouldn't "mix races", and so on. But I don't mind other people opposing my decision because I can't let someone else's ignorance get in the way of love. I love my man and that's that.ErinWed, 12 Nov 2008 12:20:39 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/mixing_the_races_for_the_next_obama/#comment-3714660I'm a white woman and I'm in a serious relationship with a black man. I agree with Ness. I'm not in this to have a mixed baby. I love my man, that's why we're together. And I don't plan on having children until we're married but even then I think it will be difficult for them. Even though they would come from a traditional family structure being of mixed race may be hard for them. I don't want my babies to be confused about who they are, what crowd to hang with, what music to listen to, etc... I've seen the situation go both ways. I know a mixed guy that seems to be more of a black guy and I know a teenage girl that isn't sure what she is, so she's angry and emo. So I don't think that people will be trying to make the next Barack, but that Barrack gives inspiration to all races including mixed race children and adults. Then they'll know that they don't have to be defined by one definiton but can be defined by many and it's ok.ErinWed, 12 Nov 2008 14:16:49 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/4_things_she_won8217t_tell_him/#comment-3780058I have tried and am down to try again. It's just too easy to turn fun with a girl and a guy into jealousy(the only problem I have came across). And as far as the finger thing... I like em as long as they are clean and well groomed. Don't F on the period. Nope, I would be so distracted thinking about it that the sex wouldn't be fun.ErinFri, 14 Nov 2008 15:38:30 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/ftv_dck_for_a_day/#comment-9599778No Xilla, I think the question is what would you do if you had a vag for a day???? LOLErinWed, 20 May 2009 16:16:33 -0000http://blogxilla.disqus.com/can_too_many_lonely_nights_make_you_crazy/#comment-15533928I have checked the phone before and found something I didn't like. However, I think it's easy to blow something out of proportion that may have a logical explanation. If I think something is going on then it seems like everything I see in his phone could be looked at as suspect. It's a touchy situation but I always talk about what I'm feeling before I go snooping!ErinFri, 28 Aug 2009 13:05:59 -0000