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Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog

Karryn — Tue, 22 Apr 2008 16:35:49 -0000

So happy to be here! It would seem there's a Rainbow Connection in everything....

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Next stop, Dallas!

Karryn — Tue, 29 Apr 2008 13:33:23 -0000

You're bringing us home stuff, right?

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - C&D's 5 Questions for Andrea Fraser, Content Manager of CarrieAndDanielle.com

Karryn — Fri, 02 May 2008 17:02:03 -0000

Man, that's a sassy photo! Love it!

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Is Lying Really That Bad? Discuss.

Karryn — Fri, 02 May 2008 17:04:02 -0000

Okay, it's the same colour as the keyboard. It *blends* in. It's practically hidden. 'Nuff said. :)

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Flagrantly Mercenary...or not.

Karryn — Mon, 05 May 2008 13:42:23 -0000

The ambition is inspiring too.

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Refined Treasure full tilt.

Karryn — Tue, 06 May 2008 14:46:18 -0000

For the record, I have actually heard Carrie swear. We're so grateful for people who take a stand like her. For the record, my six-year-old is equally outraged when she sees litter. How do you explain to an innocent child that some people just don't care? You emphasize the fact that MOST people do care. People like Refined Treasure who takes her inspiration from Nature and inspires the rest of us to do the same.

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Refined Treasure full tilt.

Karryn — Tue, 06 May 2008 14:47:07 -0000

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog

Karryn — Tue, 13 May 2008 00:43:59 -0000

When I was a teacher, I was desperate to change the way the inner-city teenagers thought of themselves. So, I would choose a different student each day to be "it". Everyone in the room had to say one nice thing about him/her. The next day, it was someone else who got thirty compliments.

That's it. That's the thing that sounds too simple to be that profound. But they were different children when they left that class. Recently, I ran into a former student who said he didn't remember anything I'd taught him but he remembered how he felt when he left our class. I like to think I might have taught something after all.
-Karryn, Classic Lustre

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog

Karryn — Wed, 14 May 2008 12:43:52 -0000

This was fun! I am the keeper of the code - I'm the only one who knows the password! Weeeee! I intend to do much bartering for information. (I can be bribed with tea. Always.)

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Clean Living

Karryn — Sun, 18 May 2008 17:06:24 -0000

Me too! Me too! Oh please! Who is this treasure?

I've tried to give away my money three times this year already. Three different housekeepers made a date and flaked out.

If they had actually arrived and run screaming then I'd clue in, but they never even made it to my house. WHY? Now I'm desperate.

Re: Carrie & Danielle's Blog - Help me Obi Wan...

Karryn — Mon, 19 May 2008 18:59:18 -0000

Obi Wan! You ARE there! Thank you thank you Red Headed Vixen - whoever you are. You just made my day.

Re: Is Lying Really That Bad? Discuss.

Karryn — Fri, 02 May 2008 11:24:07 -0000

Okay, it's the same colour as the keyboard. It *blends* in. It's practically hidden. 'Nuff said :)

Re: Clean Living

Karryn — Sun, 18 May 2008 19:05:50 -0000

Re: When are you your best self?

Karryn — Tue, 27 May 2008 14:19:31 -0000

Awesome insight even if it's not your first language! May you play the game with increased vigor and joy! Thank you Luc!

Re: When are you your best self?

Karryn — Tue, 27 May 2008 14:23:25 -0000

When my children are snuggling up with me and we're reading a story together. The warmth and softness of their little bodies are tangible reminders of how blessed I am. It's in this state of grace that I flourish.

Re: What is the wish behind your biggest complaint?

Karryn — Wed, 28 May 2008 11:09:47 -0000

I hear you Susie! I'm working on getting to the place where I accept the changes in body. I'll let you know when I get there....

Re: What is the wish behind your biggest complaint?

Karryn — Wed, 28 May 2008 11:21:26 -0000

I complain too often about not having enough romance in my life. I've bitched to my hubby about wanting him to do this and that - until I once overheard a woman say to her friend, "You know what, my guy takes out the garbage because I hate to do it. He fills my car up with gas because I always forget. He's so romantic!" I'd never thought of these things as "romantic" but she's right - underneath it all was my wish to see the little things in a different light. He didn't serenade me with arm-loads of roses, but changed the sheets last night, and turned the bed down for me. How romantic.

Re: 9 Minute Abs?

Karryn — Wed, 28 May 2008 20:47:28 -0000

Aha! You mean you want the actual information? Here 'tis.

Re: 9 Minute Abs?

Karryn — Wed, 28 May 2008 20:48:21 -0000

I'm going to give this a whirl. Let's stay connected on our progress.

Re: What is the wish behind your biggest complaint?

Karryn — Wed, 28 May 2008 23:42:42 -0000

Well said! So glad you shared your hard-won wisdom.

Re: What is the wish behind your biggest complaint?

Karryn — Wed, 28 May 2008 23:47:05 -0000

Diane - I might need a little something in my "cuppa" in order to adopt your zen-ness. Great insight though!

Re: Incense Can Alleviate Anxiety, Depression

Karryn — Fri, 30 May 2008 00:17:27 -0000

I can attest to the fact that Danielle always smells really good too.

Re: What helps or hinders you from having a great sex life?

Karryn — Fri, 30 May 2008 13:21:20 -0000

The usual suspects: fatigue, stress, other people's needs...are so easy to blame. And I do. But sometimes it's okay to be tired. While it's not porn-starific, there's something to be said for falling into bed together, mightily exhausted, and sharing that smile that says, we've been together for fifteen years, have been through death and taxes, labour and delivery and I love you more than ever. Stretch marks and hair loss be damned, look what we've built together! A shared life! And two small people to make it a joyful one.

Re: What helps or hinders you from having a great sex life?

Karryn — Fri, 30 May 2008 13:26:37 -0000

Ouch! Way to hang on there! Must be meant to be!

Re: What helps or hinders you from having a great sex life?

Karryn — Fri, 30 May 2008 13:27:04 -0000

I'm sorry, but that really made me laugh!

Re: What helps or hinders you from having a great sex life?

Karryn — Fri, 30 May 2008 16:08:29 -0000

Brilliantly said, Lisa!

Re: 9 Minute Abs?

Karryn — Sun, 01 Jun 2008 20:46:22 -0000

I haven't done this yet. You?

Re: What’s the best money advice you’ve received?

Karryn — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:44:37 -0000

My best money advice came from Navjit Kandola at exactly the perfect time: I was considering leaving a highly-paid job a different one with less money, but more joy. I was sifting through Style Statement as I pondered it, and read Navjit's words: "Money comes and goes. Live your life."

So I did. Best move.

Re: Style Statement: Exciting and Inspiring

Karryn — Wed, 04 Jun 2008 13:24:13 -0000

Begs to be a book club book.....hmmm..I think we're on to something here...Stay tuned1

Re: Should I Shave My Head?

Karryn — Thu, 05 Jun 2008 13:20:51 -0000

I like it! I'll expect it. Does this mean I need to buy you a decorative bowl for your toenail clippings?

Re: What has been your most significant beginning?

Karryn — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 12:48:08 -0000

Guylaine - thank you for sharing such a moving story. Blessings to you.

Re: What has been your most significant beginning?

Karryn — Fri, 06 Jun 2008 13:02:18 -0000

What you notice at first IS what matters, even if you can't explain it. In the beginning, this man had a quiet comfort to him, a strength in his presence. Something I couldn't articulate FELT right, but there were so many logical reasons why he WASN'T right for me. I talked myself out of pursuing these feelings around him. It took a long time for me to surrender my "reasons" and listen to my heart. Yes, we're profoundly different, and yes we argue about everything, but so what? My soul knew its mate before I did.

Re: Father’s Day: What Did Your Father Give You?

Karryn — Tue, 10 Jun 2008 17:24:31 -0000

Sock monkeys of the world unite!

Re: Paint Your Style Statement

Karryn — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:33:08 -0000

That is way cool. I shall take a photo of my Style Statement. I was so inspired I painted it myself!!! Stay tuned....photo coming.

Re: Quote of the Day: Are you Feminine*?

Karryn — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 12:45:21 -0000

It's so powerful, isn't it? Congratulations....Feminine Fiona....

Re: Father’s Day: What Did Your Father Give You?

Karryn — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 13:04:07 -0000

Cathy - your comment touched me deeply. My six-year-old says that it's "easy to talk to Nama because you just have to think about her and she hears you,".

Re: Father’s Day: What Did Your Father Give You?

Karryn — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 19:02:54 -0000

Bridget! Yay! Thanks for chiming in! So glad you're on board here. Welcome to our little corner of the web.

LOVE your post. Got me all misty, actually.

Re: Father’s Day: What Did Your Father Give You?

Karryn — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 19:07:06 -0000

Andrew Ransom is a wonderful father. I am so proud to be his wife. Andy is never too busy to get down on the floor and play with his girls. He is calm, consistent, playful and immensely interested in his daughters. Also, he loves their mother and they know it. There's a security in that love that I'm so proud to give our children.

Re: I Painted my Style Statement!

Karryn — Thu, 12 Jun 2008 20:52:49 -0000

That is a very cool idea. You'll likely get a lovely collage out of that vision board project....

Re: Special Friday Edition: What’s the desire beneath your envy?

Karryn — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 12:47:20 -0000

Live it up, my friend. You can't take it with you!

Re: Special Friday Edition: What’s the desire beneath your envy?

Karryn — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 12:51:04 -0000

Good point. Meaningful work is a blessing - affluence is a bonus!

Re: Special Friday Edition: What’s the desire beneath your envy?

Karryn — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 12:54:50 -0000

You know, I don't envy the famous at all. I think it was Jackie Kennedy Onassis who said that her most prized possession was her privacy.
Besides, if I were famous, someone would invariably take a picture of me while I've got something hanging out of my nose and it would be all over the papers. I'd be torn about by critics. I rather like my peaceful ability to go about my business with nobody caring what I look like except me.
That being said, I'm with you on the affluence part. Why don't you be famous and I'll help you spend all your money! :)

Re: I Painted my Style Statement!

Karryn — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 13:01:32 -0000

I blush. Tee hee!

Re: Father’s Day: What Did Your Father Give You?

Karryn — Fri, 13 Jun 2008 13:58:14 -0000

Before she died, my mom wrote me this beautiful letter on my first Mothers' Day. In it she said, "You don't need to be afraid of not being a good parent. You will do as we all do: take what you saw when you grew up, dismiss what you didn't like and repeat what you did like,". So Kirsty, it's a mixed blessing in a way, don't you think? No emotional security has given you the clarity to define what you truly want to give your own kids. Some people might never think about it and miss it. Blessings to you.

Re: What’s your cheap beauty solution?

Karryn — Mon, 16 Jun 2008 14:09:08 -0000

Yes, yes it does. You can mix it with castor oil too. Conditions your lashes too - if you ever thought they needed conditioning (so you could braid them?). In any case. Olive oil works. And the best is Cetaphil cleanser.

Re: What’s your cheap beauty solution?

Karryn — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 00:26:25 -0000

Clinique Lash Power - not the cheapest, but if you can weep at a butter commercial, then this is your mascara. Trust me. It. Will.Change.Your.Life.

Re: What’s your cheap beauty solution?

Karryn — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 00:29:10 -0000

Me too! But I drink green tea...does that mean my hair will turn...never mind.

Re: What’s your form of genius?

Karryn — Tue, 17 Jun 2008 11:33:48 -0000

I find this the hardest question yet. For the past three years, I haven't been "master" at anything. For 12 years, I was a great teacher - I knew how to teach, how to respond, how to inspire and how to manage the occasionally violent teenager. I was well-liked and well-respected, and I mentored student teachers. I knew this was my form of genius. But it came with a price: I gave it my all, and when one of my students was killed in gang violence, I began to re-examine just how much of a difference I could make. Or should make. Since I left that profession, I have been starting new things; always the rookie of the team. I miss the confidence of expertise. But even though I don't feel like I'm at the top of my profession, like I was, I know there's one thing that's a constant: bravery. It took guts to choose the toughest school. It took guts to win over kids who had little reason to respect authority. And it took a lot of strength to walk away from something I loved because those kids deserve 100% dedication and I was honest enough with myself to know I couldn't give it to them anymore. I'm proud of that. So my form of genius must be: Courage.

Re: What does it mean to be civilized?

Karryn — Wed, 18 Jun 2008 13:44:40 -0000

I second that, Gwyneth! Everyone has value. Everyone.

Re: What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?

Karryn — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 12:58:50 -0000

Agreed. Juno was brilliant. Loved it. Filmed in beautiful Vancouver too!

Re: What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?

Karryn — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 13:00:28 -0000

I read the book and don't think I could stomach the movie! As you say, so macabre and raw. Still shiver when I think of it...so an exceptional piece of art that truly provokes discussion. Thanks for mentioning it.

Re: What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?

Karryn — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 13:01:40 -0000

The Motorcycle Diaries. Beautiful, moving...real.

Re: What’s the best movie you’ve seen lately?

Karryn — Thu, 19 Jun 2008 13:05:07 -0000

"The History Boys" was incredible. Phenomenally well done. Mostly because the soundtrack took me back to my own high school days.

"Death at a Funeral" - which sounds dreadful, but it the funniest movie I've seen in a long time.

Re: Special Friday Edition - What’s your word of the week?

Karryn — Fri, 20 Jun 2008 15:30:20 -0000

Presence. Be in the moment, whatever it is. Stop typing while I'm eating my lunch. Like I'm doing right now.

Re: Hair Help: Bananas to the rescue!

Karryn — Mon, 23 Jun 2008 19:06:36 -0000

Honey is great for a sunburn. Awfully sticky though.

If you have oily skin, try a mask of Milk of Magnesia.

Mixing Cetaphil cleanser with baking soda exfoliates and softens the skin.

Rinse your hair with vinegar after you shampoo - removes all product build-up and makes it very shiny.

Now that you smell like a Greek Salad, go forth and experiment!

Disclaimer: If something hideous happens to you as a result of my suggestions...it's, uh, not my fault.

Re: Propaganda, Mother Nature, and Your Right to Know What’s Right For You

Karryn — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 01:56:48 -0000

Two African midwives delivered me into the world.

My mother was a product of 1950s Canada, and while living in Tanzania, she was surprised to discover that there would be no doctor present at the delivery. She said that they were baffled when she asked when the doctor was arriving. "What do you need a doctor for?" they said. That being said, she was healthy, I was healthy, it was an uncomplicated birth.

Re: What do you know more about today than you did two weeks ago?

Karryn — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 12:44:41 -0000

Congratulations my dear friend! How happy am I for you? You are a beautiful paradox Understated Joy. It reminds me of those times when you seemed so shy and quiet, but once you stepped on stage, you exploded in this incredible fireball of energy. You have always been Understated Joy. Now you have a name for it. Blessings to you.

Re: What do you know more about today than you did two weeks ago?

Karryn — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 12:46:13 -0000

Oh, and I need to add in that it's totally true: Sharon got calmer when I started freaking out before my wedding. She sat me down and made me eat food, and breathe. She had tissue tucked into the bodice of her dress and was there in a flash. She's amazing and I love her.

Re: The Intimate Relationship Between Woman and Shoe

Karryn — Thu, 26 Jun 2008 12:54:52 -0000

Just checked it out - I'm starting a new fund: the Cole Haan fund. Thank you for this tip! LOVE IT!

Re: The Intimate Relationship Between Woman and Shoe

Karryn — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 12:56:57 -0000

Nicely put! "Shoes are the foundation for the external manifestation of who we fundamentally are on the inside." Wish I'd said that....I shall unleash my inner-sexpot through footwear. Woo hoo!

Re: Friday Edition: Who would you be if you were freed from your past?

Karryn — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 13:03:11 -0000

With a respectful nod to Bruce Mau: "A memory is never perfect. Every memory is a degraded or composite image of a previous moment or event. That's what makes us aware of its quality as a past and not a present. It means that every memory is new, a partial construct different from its source, and, as such, a potential for growth itself."

Re: Friday Edition: Who would you be if you were freed from your past?

Karryn — Fri, 27 Jun 2008 13:04:10 -0000

Without my past I would be very dull, totally ignorant and probably broke.

Re: What will you say no to this week?

Karryn — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 13:15:35 -0000

Wow, you're so enlightened. Much better than bitterly planning her downfall. (That's fun too!) KIDDING!

Re: What will you say no to this week?

Karryn — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 13:16:38 -0000

Good Lord, WHY????

Re: What will you say no to this week?

Karryn — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:19:03 -0000

I will shamefully admit to using Carrie's "let me get back to you" with my six-year-old as mind control and manipulation. I say it when I don't have the strength for the ongoing barrage of 'why' that will likely ensue when I tell her that no, she can't have anther Webkin (what is WITH those anyway?)

I say I'll think about it - which she thinks means, "Absolutely, let's get Mommy's credit card and buy one NOW!". Then she forgets about it and I can go back to my tequila. Carrie, you're a genius!

Re: What will you say no to this week?

Karryn — Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:19:57 -0000

But only when you're good and ready, right? :)

Re: No Sugar Tonight! Or wine, or white bread, or …

Karryn — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 11:44:19 -0000

You're very welcome! I promise you that it can be done. If the science behind it interests you, I heartily recommend Kathleen's book. It gives you a doable action plan, and whenever you're tempted, it reminds you why you're doing this - because it's so incredibly worth it.

Re: No Sugar Tonight! Or wine, or white bread, or …

Karryn — Tue, 01 Jul 2008 11:47:05 -0000

I'd never heard of using chromium. Thanks! (Consult first, of course!)

Honey is still sugar. I try to avoid dried fruit too because it's basically concentrated fructose. Commercially-prepared smoothies gives me stomach cramps because my body isn't used to such an influx of fruit sugar....uh oh...I feel another blog coming on!

Re: No Sugar Tonight! Or wine, or white bread, or …

Karryn — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 12:43:08 -0000

Oh, Dana - this is profoundly good insight: it is a dependent, abusive relationship. Seriously - try the book. Courage!

Re: In terms of celebrities, whose fashion sense do you admire?

Karryn — Wed, 02 Jul 2008 19:00:02 -0000

Grace Kelly. 'Nuff said.

Re: What are you afraid of?

Karryn — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 12:23:20 -0000

Good point. F.E.A.R. = False Expectations Assumed Real. That always sat with me...

Re: What are you afraid of?

Karryn — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 12:29:18 -0000

Snakes. That's a real, living phobia of mine - gives me the willies just to see a picture of one. Mind you, being mauled by sharks is pretty scary too. In fact, being on a plane that is plummeting to the ocean (filled with sharks) with a Burmese python on my lap...would blow all my circuits.

I'd probably find some weird kind of peace in such a cyclone of terror.

And when compared to the despicable things that humans do to each other - snakes and sharks are a bit ho-hum, aren't they...

Re: What are you afraid of?

Karryn — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 12:31:20 -0000

Oh! Being in a shopping mall two days before Christmas! That is abject terror isn't it? No wait....being in a shopping mall, two days before Christmas, with some radical sale on....

Re: What are you afraid of?

Karryn — Thu, 03 Jul 2008 12:32:02 -0000

Steve Buscemi.

Re: What are the tools of your trade?

Karryn — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 11:56:41 -0000

My Mac is the vehicle for my creativity. Our CEO turned my fear of all things 'technical' into a healthy respect for technology's ability to get my words to the masses! So really - as long as I have a Mac and a strong cup of tea, I'm good to go. (And an internet connection - it's my umbilical cord to the world!)

Re: The Benefits of Mess

Karryn — Mon, 07 Jul 2008 18:38:33 -0000

Yes. I will check this out. Watch for a book review!

Re: What’s your best travel tip?

Karryn — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 12:45:54 -0000

Best Tip Ever. Trust us - nothing else matters when ya gotta go.

Re: What’s your best travel tip?

Karryn — Tue, 08 Jul 2008 12:48:04 -0000

My best travel tip is to keep this in mind at all times: When you travel (alone), the strangest creature you will encounter will be...yourself - if you are brave enough to look and wise enough to recognize her.

The abject terror I felt at being young, alone and lost in a foreign country ultimately melted into a peaceful observation. And I loved it. Throwing myself out there was one of the best things I've ever done.

Re: Weapons of Ass Reduction: Two fat tips for weight loss

Karryn — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 12:34:19 -0000

You TOTALLY made my day. I've always wanted to be "that girl"!

So, here's the thing: I'm really lucky because I've never had a weight problem. I have, however, had two children - both of whom caused me to gain 50 lbs. (Which is odd considering they were both only six pounds...). This way of eating is relatively new for me (within the past year) and I am slimmer than I've ever been before. Here's what I do: eat as big a breakfast as my stomach will allow, and then whatever I want for lunch (provided it's free of any and all refined sugar - remember that includes white rice, white pasta, white bread) and at lunch I do my best to make sure there's a staggering amount of greens as well. Dinner kind of takes care of itself...

Rock on!

Re: What do you do to promote your own happiness?

Karryn — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:27:12 -0000

I am waiting for my DVD to arrive so that I can begin my day with some "Rhimba" dance fusion. I will likely have a wee audience while I do this in the living room. I can feel the giggles already! Thank you for reminding me that fitness can be hysterical - the more you laugh, the better you feel!

Re: What do you do to promote your own happiness?

Karryn — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:34:03 -0000

I am grateful for your insight today, Susie. This week my husband is in Africa and our two little girls are on the island with their grandparents. I am missing them all terribly - but reading your thoughts about how you can be far away when you're right beside someone has helped me to re-frame my missing them into a deep connection - and a reminder to be present with them when we are all together. That is where the happiness is.

Re: What do you do to promote your own happiness?

Karryn — Wed, 09 Jul 2008 13:35:50 -0000

"We each have today. And a choice as to how we shall live it." - Sarah Ban Breathnach

Re: How to Write

Karryn — Fri, 11 Jul 2008 14:04:17 -0000

"Writing is like making love. Don't worry about the orgasm, worry about the process." - Isabel Allende

Re: What are your favourite blogs or websites?

Karryn — Mon, 14 Jul 2008 11:11:03 -0000

The Best of Craigslist is often worth a read too - outrageously funny!

Re: Weapons of Ass Reduction: Two fat tips for weight loss

Karryn — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 14:40:15 -0000

You are so welcome. I want to start a revolution in anti-calorie counting! Another thing I noticed, I'm less stressed before dinner time because it's going to be as easy as breakfast preparation. My kids are happier with smaller dinners too.

Re: What are you anticipating?

Karryn — Tue, 15 Jul 2008 17:21:51 -0000

The arrival of our new Au Pair, Adriana, from Mexico. She is coming next week to join our family and be a Big Sister to our little girls. We are so excited to finally meet her!

Re: What’s the best workshop or course you ever took?

Karryn — Wed, 16 Jul 2008 13:41:13 -0000

Improv. It sharpens the mind and insists that you live in the moment. No script. No rehearsal. Just now. The basic skills of listening, clarity, confidence, and performing instinctively and spontaneously are considered important skills for ANYONE to develop. Viola Spolin is my idol. Read more about how Improv can Improve You on our blog today...

Re: What would be your last meal and with whom would you share it?

Karryn — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 14:02:12 -0000

It would probably be full of sugar.

Re: Baby Borrowers: NBC’s Reality TV At Its Lowest

Karryn — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 19:18:26 -0000

Horrifying in the extreme.

If aliens are watching us, I'm now convinced this is why they haven't made contact. (I know, I know...)

Re: Thoughts from the mountain top

Karryn — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 19:30:52 -0000

My condolences. I shall think of you all as I sip my Earl Grey in bed, savouring the feel of the sheets, and oh...(yawn)...I may just snooze a little more....

In all seriousness, this is great stuff! If I were as disciplined about fitness as I am about diet I'd be unstoppable. No really. You'd likely have to tranquilize me.

Re: I wish my other car was a Porsche 356 Speedster

Karryn — Thu, 17 Jul 2008 20:28:47 -0000

A classic Volkswagon Bug. Gold.

Re: How do you fall in love with the world?

Karryn — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 12:37:12 -0000

I fall in love with the world every morning because I'm still here.

Knowing that there is so much still to see and taste and hear and touch...fills me with the love of possibility!

When I get up in the morning, I'm grateful to be going to meaningful and inspiring work that supports my family, my world and my soul.

I am so blessed. Being aware of how blessed I am starts it all over again.

Re: The Politics of Sensuality. Claim it baby, claim it!

Karryn — Fri, 18 Jul 2008 12:42:36 -0000

I've read Meditation Secrets for Women and it's TREMENDOUS. I asked my husband (with the most soporific voice) to read one of the them into a recorder. I put it on my iPod and bliss out. (If you read it out yourself, you may focus too much on the sound of your own voice...best to use someone else's I find - provided they don't stutter.)

Re: What’s your favourite inspirational quote?

Karryn — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 13:42:40 -0000

Oh! This is one of my all time favourites! The good doctor Seuss....It's gotten me through times where I felt misunderstood, misjudged, and wronged in general.

And Style Statement is ALL about being who you are.

Thank you for reminding me, today. All smiles.

Re: What’s your favourite inspirational quote?

Karryn — Mon, 21 Jul 2008 13:45:02 -0000

"Do or do not. There is no try."

- Yoda
Wise and powerful Jedi Master

Re: What are your favourite natural remedies?

Karryn — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 12:23:03 -0000

I keep cranberry tablets around for that UTI "twinge". Effective if taken at the VERY first sign with huge amounts of water. If you're travelling, and won't always be able to find the loo, take some with you.

Re: What are your favourite natural remedies?

Karryn — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 12:29:29 -0000

I swear by Rooibos. My husband is from South Africa and when he smells the loose leaves, he says, "Smells like home." I buy the pure organic loose leaves from the Granville Island Tea Company (www.granvilletea.com). They have Cream Earl Grey Rooibos with lavender, they have Provence Rooibos...you name it, they have it.

Re: What are your favourite natural remedies?

Karryn — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 12:32:34 -0000

Fierce snuggles cure most things.

Re: What are your favourite natural remedies?

Karryn — Tue, 22 Jul 2008 12:40:19 -0000

Yes! We DO give it to Roo (our two-year-old). She drinks about 50/50 Rooibos and milk...always has. You can also cool it (from a strong brew) and apply it topically to baby's skin for nappy rash. My in-laws told me that they used it for sunburn soothing too.

Re: What do you regret?

Karryn — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:50:41 -0000

Ah yes. The gut. When the Spidey Senses are tingling...heed them. Time and again, this lesson has repeated itself in my life. The last time my Spidey Senses tingled about something major, I talked to Danielle about it and said, "But it's not logical!" She looked me straight on and said, "Why does it need to be logical? First thought - right thought. 'Nuff said."

Re: What do you regret?

Karryn — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:52:03 -0000

Sydney Harris said it best: "Regret for things we have done can be tempered with time. It is regret for things we have not done that is inconsolable."

Re: What do you regret?

Karryn — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:54:27 -0000

Told ya. Snort.

Re: What do you regret?

Karryn — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 13:59:37 -0000

I got the teacher's certification. And that I DO regret. I spent a dozen years trying to change a system that won't change. Wanting so badly to make a positive difference and repeatedly hitting a wall, nearly broke my spirit. Then I met Carrie...and I learned that it's NEVER TOO LATE.

Re: What do you regret?

Karryn — Wed, 23 Jul 2008 15:44:21 -0000

Fast forward five years: will you regret the adventure or not having taken the adventure? Besides, you wouldn't normal if something like this didn't put you on edge. May good luck stars shine upon you.

Re: What is your biggest indulgence?

Karryn — Thu, 24 Jul 2008 13:26:08 -0000

Here here! After all, you wear your hair EVERY SINGLE DAY so you might as well love it. People will pay a couple hundred for a fabulous dress that they'll wear....a few times but hair - daily! I'm so with you on this!

Re: What is your big, audacious dream for yourself?

Karryn — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 12:19:45 -0000

Here here!

Re: What is your big, audacious dream for yourself?

Karryn — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 12:21:59 -0000

You do your own tri-athelon: bridge, needlepoint and golf!

Re: What is your big, audacious dream for yourself?

Karryn — Fri, 25 Jul 2008 12:26:33 -0000

Write. Your. Book.

All her life, my mother's big dream was to write her book. She had it all planned out in her head. Then she died suddenly at 63. The book unwritten, the dream unfulfilled. Just write. Put it down and let the universe take care of the rest. But write it - for those who can't.

Re: Creativity That Makes The Cut: An Interview with Editor-in-Chief of Orange Life Magazine, Susie Hutchinson

Karryn — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 13:34:54 -0000

Orange Life is a visual smorgasbord online, and the magazine itself is superior. Even handling it is different - it's more of a book than a magazine - heavy stock paper, mesmerizing photography and of course, top notch writing.

Susie is inspiring in her commitment to excellence both as a business-woman and as a mother. Her priorities are laudable: to be someone of whom her daughter can be proud. This is my new mantra whenever I feel the pull to be home with my girls - one day, I want them to be able to say, "My mom did this! I can do it too!"

Thank you for this.

Re: Who in your life do you admire… and why?

Karryn — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 13:54:34 -0000

Bruce Warner is my hero.

Not only is he the most positive person I've ever met, he is a true gentleman: immediate after his accident he remembers swearing viciously at the pain of his shattered femur, and instantly apologizing to those who were there with him!

It is worth mentioning his mother, Ruth Koller, who raised this incredible person. Not only did she produce four incredible sons, but did it all on her own after her husband was killed in a car accident. I bow to her.

He has inspired his family and all who are lucky enough to know him. His brother went on to become a surgeon because of his desire to help people who have accidents like that, and we have gone on to be better people for knowing him. Cheers to you, Bruce!

P.S. This man can even serve drinks while hopping, without spilling a drop!

Re: Who in your life do you admire… and why?

Karryn — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:00:45 -0000

http://www.jamd.com/search?text=Bruce%20Warner

Re: What’s your favourite inspirational quote?

Karryn — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:40:50 -0000

From Abraham-Hicks: "Make a "career" of living a happy life rather than trying to find work that will produce enough income that you can do things with your money that will then make you happy."

Re: Individual Twist: Carrie’s “You Look Great!” Fashion Tip

Karryn — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:44:09 -0000

It has to be said that Kelly showed up looking like this after spending the day with a two six-year-olds and two TWO YEAR OLDS. Fro real.

Re: Individual Twist: Carrie’s “You Look Great!” Fashion Tip

Karryn — Tue, 29 Jul 2008 14:45:17 -0000

That would be "spending the day with two six-year-olds" and FOR REAL. See? It freaks me out just thinking about it - so much so that I can't write properly!

Re: The Geek Shall Inherit the Earth

Karryn — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 17:53:36 -0000

Oh, that this were true. Alas, I don't know how to fix a server. Other than tip him very well.

Re: Moments of Gratitude List

Karryn — Fri, 01 Aug 2008 18:30:04 -0000

Mostly - it's the incredible people with whom I am surrounded.

Re: Paula Begoun: Crusador for the holy grail of skincare: Book Review

Karryn — Mon, 04 Aug 2008 14:30:09 -0000

Excellent! I'm glad to hear that because I ordered some of her products. Her honesty is what got me: "This is all you need - this is what it should realistically cost. Go forth and be beautiful." Glad to hear that you've had such success with them. Thank you, Gloria!

Re: What are the best Inspirational or “Personal Growth” books you’ve read?

Karryn — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:20:07 -0000

Well said! Nice.

Re: What are the best Inspirational or “Personal Growth” books you’ve read?

Karryn — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:25:08 -0000

Whether or not you have children, every adult should read at least one children's book on a monthly basis - just to keep perspective. My favourite is "Oh! The Places You'll Go" by the best fun-concocter doctor there is: Dr. Seuss! I always read that to my grade twelve students on their last day of class with me.

Re: What are the best Inspirational or “Personal Growth” books you’ve read?

Karryn — Tue, 05 Aug 2008 16:21:44 -0000

Oh yes....Kevin Henkes has created a world that my daughter adores! Especially lovely is Julius: The Baby of the World. I always laugh when I read, "...that story earned her ten minutes in the uncooperative chair..."

Re: What would you like your home to say about you?

Karryn — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 12:33:22 -0000

Our home has a personality disorder. It's ninety years old, but been renovated so many times by so many differently-minded owners that it's...bizarre. It says, "I'm classic! I'm seventies! I'm Wayne's World in the basement. I'm traditional. I'm Brady Bunch fireplace. I don't know what I am! Help me..."

Re: A Lithgow Palooza: Book Review

Karryn — Wed, 06 Aug 2008 15:36:52 -0000

THAT is a perfect explanation. I will use that when Nic is frustrated by her upcoming grade one homework. Thank you!

Re: Trick Yourself Into Getting Fit

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:22:02 -0000

Inspiring!

Re: Trick Yourself Into Getting Fit

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:22:33 -0000

I MUST check this out. It sounds zany. And zany is good!

Re: Trick Yourself Into Getting Fit

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:23:40 -0000

Love it. CS - you're my kind of thinker!

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:48:09 -0000

Oh so so true! Comparison is crazy-making. Ergo, I am crazy. I'm also short, curvy and tend toward the "cute". On the upside, I always had someone to dance with in high school because the boys wanted to dance with girls who were shorter than them. Now, I'd just like to be able to reach things.

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:56:10 -0000

I *did* try the false eyelashes once. Once. Thinking that I looked so glamourous, I was chatting up a very handsome man who started looking at me strangely...one of the false lashes had unglued itself and was making like a caterpillar crawling down my cheek.

Needless to say, the chatting up ceased rather abruptly as I fled and vowed to stay far away from the dreadful things. (The lashes, not the men.)

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:57:42 -0000

Spanx Power Panties. 'Nuff said.

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 12:59:12 -0000

Have you tried olive oil?

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 13:05:18 -0000

Check out Gok Wan in "How To Look Good Naked". He's unabashedly pro-female and absolutely lovely. It's a channel 4 production that airs on the W network in Canada.

Re: What’s your beauty dilemma?

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 14:49:23 -0000

I know, Joannie - and I LOVE tall men! The taller the better!

Kristin - I so hear you. Why do people say that? It's not like they'd ever dream of saying, "Oh! You're so fat!" I used to be a high school teacher and nearly every one of my students was bigger than me. I often get asked, "How tall ARE you?" to which my standard reply is, "Tall enough."

Re: Trick Yourself Into Getting Fit

Karryn — Thu, 07 Aug 2008 16:04:05 -0000

You are ALL so wonderful to help me with this. I think I'm going to have to find myself a yoga class. Even though I can't do it in heels, at least I don't have to do it in running shoes. I look like a muppet in running shoes.

Re: What’s your image of God?

Karryn — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 13:09:28 -0000

Oh Sharon - how beautifully put. I'm pretty sure I did too. My six-year-old makes me believe in fairies. That's God to me - the wonder, the joy, the beauty.

Re: What’s your image of God?

Karryn — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 13:10:56 -0000

Alanis Morisette was an interesting image of God in the film, "Dogma". What did you think of that?

Re: What’s your image of God?

Karryn — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 13:14:56 -0000

Nicely put! God is in the details, right? I think of the people on the street, in line, wherever as angels sometimes. They carry a message that you need at the exactly the right time. They don't look ethereal or flap around with wings. But they're there. I once heard someone say, "Only children and the blind can see angels."

Re: What’s your image of God?

Karryn — Fri, 08 Aug 2008 13:18:34 -0000

So true. And like a child with its parents, we can't possibly expect the answer to our prayers to be 'yes' all the time. "No" is just as legitimate an answer.

Re: What are your 3 top priorities this week?

Karryn — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 13:32:17 -0000

Welcome Linda! If motivation to exercise is a problem, have you tried tricking yourself? I down-loaded Robin William's performance onto my iPod and went for a stroll. It was so funny that I didn't want to stop. (May have had a few odd looks as I walked along giggling to myself like a lunatic...) Before I knew it, I'd walked for nearly an hour!

Re: What are your 3 top priorities this week?

Karryn — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 13:41:12 -0000

1. Focus on our business: get clarity and direction.
2. Focus on my family: go on a date with my husband.
3. Focus on self: finish the painting I started five month's ago.

Re: What’s the best relationship advice you’ve ever given or received?

Karryn — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 09:41:06 -0000

The best relationship advice: People don't remember what you said. They remember how you made them feel. The way you treat people will always come back to you. Always.