DISQUS

Oh and I also have the fantasy of doing 2 men. 2 sexy men who are straight!!!

I think that is when I will use my hoe card. LOL Xilla this sounds like a new posting for next week :::hint-hint:::

Guys arent the only ones who want 3somes. Kbizzle you are the ish for actually doing it!!

Cocked blocked by your cock?! LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Good one Xilla!

Oh and Aunt Flow is my biggest hater!!! Sometimes she comes so early...sometimes she comes when I am the horniest. I be like why dont u come when I am not getting any bish?!!! Oh and I am one of them girls who will wait wait wait...until he tries to put his hand down there and I go no! LMAO I mean its not funny but I just dont like announcing that my Auntie came to visit.

Oh Congrats Xilla on getting more traffic! Bump Media-Hate-Out and f your haters!!! Give them more reasons to hate! I still rock with u :)

LMAO!!! HO-CARD!

I have not used my hoe card yet either. I guess I am like u and I am a freaking prude. I think I had several attempts to use my hoe card though...

Most of the time I am in a relationship and my conscience wont let me cheat. Other times it be because Aunt FLow came (which was a warning).

I guess if I was in your situation and seen all these fly dudes like you did, I would use mine. Guys use their hoe cards all the damn time!!!

Maybe one day I will use it, but with the right person. And strap up...I am not gonna be a nasty hoe.

I am going to say this. Chris Tucker is my cousin. I am not joking or lying. We are BLOOD cousin(third gen). I had the hugest crush on him when he was in his Smokey days. I mean big crush and my young self wanted to do some thangs with him...until my dad told me in 10th grade when he went to one of our distant family members funerals that we were related.

I was so mad because even though I know more than likely we wouldn't cross paths like that...but it was the principle. Dang though I wish we were closer family wise because I am broke though.

Xilla this is some bull...

She may not be dancing in panties but I can still see her ass just the same! There is nothing top notch about what she just did...she is a bottom hoe just like the girls she claim that are not on her level.

And she looks underaged...these poor girls. She will never be wifey material doing is like this. I am not being a hater either she is a cute girl...but she needs to raise her standards.

My boyfriend is dumb...He plays video games and is 25.

As we speak he is playing Halo Wars on Xbox live with his lame friends FML!!

Ok well I live in ATL and I fully understand your view about the lack of diversity and the Tang that is being spread around these parts.

Yes I think while we are on this earth it is perfectly okay to expierement for the sake of wanting "Something New". Yes I have seen some sex white boys and me and my friend always joke that we are going to go to another County to find us a white boy to mess with.

I never been with one but I am curious. Not to be racist or anything, but I alway wondered how would their rhythmn be? I mean I am so curious and if I was not in a very committed relationship I would like to see if the grass is greener on the other side.

But I know I will always go back to black. Case closed! Its one thing to be bored but I know what works too! Just because I am tired of eating shrimp all the time doesnt mean its not my favorite food. Yes maybe I want to try crawfish, but then I would realize shrimp is better.

I want black children because I dont want my children all mixed up. You see this issue with "indian hair"? Plain foolishness...and my poor children are going to have to justify their hair texture because they are mixed? They are going to feel less black because that have another parent who is of another ethnicity. Its cool and all but I dont want my kids going through that ish...and I want them to be beautiful black children. I want my children to be BLACK & PROUD and I also want a STRONG BLACK MAN! There is nothing like a black man...PERIOD! Black men have the sexiest demeanor to me and that will never change...at least not for me!

But to each its own girl...if you crossed over and decided you like White meat now...cool. You know why its cool? Because black men cross that bridge all the time so girl who care what society thinks it is 2009 not 1909...go get you some!

Ooo Alfi looks like a pedophile...he really fell off!

I used to love my brother & me thanks Xilla!

Girl I love this. Self Confidence is beautiful and I bet there are some haters on here saying that you were probably coming off "arrogant" but I complete understand!

It is sad that in the African American communities there is alot of hatred of others, especially the sisters who have so much insecurity and low self-esteem that they have to find "flaws" in another!

It is really sad, and I know with our past generations being oppressed, the media not promoting the beauty of all skins tones, and just lack of personal esteem is the cause of our fellow sisters who will go to such lengths to "hate" on someone else because they are not happy.

Thank you for writting this. But I just want to let you know, in case you felt like you had to justify to some female, you dont have "Indian hair"...Black people have beautiful African American hair as well and you dont have to be "mixed" or "ethnic" to have it! It is so ignorant in 2009 we still have to explain this to some people...just stand.

You are beautiful (no homo j/k) and I should even have to say no homo to let people know that it is okay for another female to compliment another female. You are beautiful for writting this blog too! Thanks for sharing this on Xilla's site!

Much love,

Kiwi

She is a clear butterhead...and yes this is wrong...

Not because Obama is in the background, but because this ish is accessible on the internet now and wasnt left in the private loaction of their home anymore. Dang Xilla if you posted this on your site, I wonder how many other sites this circulated to?

EPIC FAIL!

A couple of reasons

1.Money=Power and these chicks sometimes can get wet off the fame/money/cars/etc alone

2. A lot of girls thrive for the competition. They know good and well he is a all around male whore, he may have a girl, but girl will still desire because like in economics...the guy is HIGH IN DEMAND. Some girls want to find out for themselves what the hype is about and is it worth it...not matter the circumstances. Also if he is "high in demand", this could indicate he might be good in the bed for him to have several woman chasing him.

3.Men are so easy, so if a female wants to smash a guy she just has to flirt alittle, show off her best assest and get what she wants. It doesnt matter if she is doing it for reason #1 or #2- if she wants it she can get it. Whether she is a butterhead or a straight up dime, a guy will smash almost any girl if she is persistent with her because it will boost his ego, and making him believe he is "the man" when it actuality, its the woman who is getting what she wants.

Now I do not do any of these things personally, because 9x outta 10 if he gotta alot of p***y chasing him...he might have some type of STD chain to go with it. But just from a female's perspective and having a slew of friends who do it for reason #1 or #2 is how I put my input in.

She can sing but she just deminished it with that cursing. I am sorry she should of just remixed it with the edited version. Its not lady like to have a beautiful voice like that a curse like that.

They either getting on my nerves or they are just useless to me. They convos are whack, they only want one thing (that I am not supplying), or I erased their number because I have no use for it.

I had a problem of giving dudes my number I knew I wasnt interested in (because they play that call my phone trick and they have your number) and I just never answer the phone because I didnt want them to have my # in the first place. So hopefully I just want them to just take the hint and realize I am not interested...

It's not bad in bed but calling him daddy in public is not really appropriate. Like some girls are always searching for that father figure if they never grew up with one so I think they actually start to believe that he us "daddy".

Expect to go dutch my a$$

I dont expect to go dutch. I never go dutch either he pay or I pay! Thats it! And I will only pay for my man because its a relationship...if we are still "dating" for 6 months or less...no!

But that is just me.

LMAO at your last comment. Well I know its hard Xilla but yeah if they chicks you are dating know about your blog...they are automatically going to assume things about you...sexually.

Maybe you need to mix your blog more with relationship advice now so chicks wont think your mind is one-track. But the right one will come and appreciate you one day. Xilla are you sure you are approaching and associating yourself with the right females? Lets be real...if you messing with RATS and trash then you have to expect that.

Trust and believe there are so many "single" women...of good quality for you to choose from ( that 10:1 ratio) so the odds are in your favor. Just be geniune with what you do. And try this: Next time you date a girl you are really feeling, even if she knows about your blog, try your damnest not to have sex with her or hit on her sexually...but make it a mental and emotional connection so that she will know that you are more than Xilla the sexual deviant! LOL

Good Luck

-Kiwi

Xilla I think u are gonna get in trouble if she is under the age of 16...
And she is definitely a future stripper/porn star lol

My kids are not having a Youtube account...nope!

If its only for her man...why everyone know how u f**k ur man now?
Ok I am not going to front...I actually took some mental notes and went hmmm gotta start doing that to my man on the bed(lmao) but never will I ever post some ish like this on Youtube.

She need her ass beat! And is she so fat that she cannot fit into them too small shorts anymore? She cant even get the belt on...She think she is so sexy...

I am not a hater but this ish right here...I vote Hell no! And I hope her boyfriend is embarrassed for her when he see this ish...is she Albino?

LOL wow good looking out Xilla thanks for shouting out my blog!!!

she need to eat a sandwich...maybe two!

And whats up with porn stars twittering? I guess everyone and they momma gotta twitter now...

Yeah I heard male trapping the female is the new mission in '09.

That they trapping girls because they do not want her to leave. I wish somebody would. This mess here makes me not wanna have sex because there are some guys being grimy and slipping off condoms because they wanna hit raw.

Oh no! Yeah everyone know who you are dealing with! Dont just have sex for sexual purposes, like the person, talk about your future plans and that children are not to be involved until marriage. I know it doesnt happen that way but people really do not have that talk. The "What if you got pregnant" talk or " I dont want any kids" talk.

Forreal. And that pic of them little girls is sad. They all look 6 months preggers like they all planned it. Its not cute and I bet they are not smiling now. Trifling people!

This dude is sad...

Why did I know this was an Atlanta dude? Why?
Girl he is a mess and you are doin the right thing by not talking to him.
He should of told you that this was a "dutch date" and that he couldnt afford you because of his wallet situation.

Then the thing about the parked car and he took Marta situation...did he ask u for a ride home? I swear this is why it is so hard to find a good man!

He was ruthless!

I would of paid and left...
It's disrespectful how he asked u for the beer and cocktail...
And if he is so tacky this early it's gonna go down from there...
You mean to tell me he is flippin over $21?
I had this happen to me once and I was gonna go to the bathroom and head for the parking lot but it shows how sorry he is as a man when you gotta just lay the money out and let him know it ain't nothing...but he is def not worth another date.

It has nothing to do with gold digger women it's the principle that he begged her out offered to get her some drinks and didn't split the check the first time...nor did he let gee know it was a Dutch date. What a LOSER!!!!

So u back in Atlanta? Ok I see u hitting up Atlantic Station...I like this!

The govt does not break up families? Why u say that Xilla?
It takes two to produce a child, and if the man is unwilling to support on his own...then the woman has every right to file for child support. That doesnt break up families the parents of the children broke themselves up...or else there wouldnt be a reason for the man to be on child support in the first place right?

I know what ur saying too...yes it is wrong for a woman to use the child support money and go shopping and nothing is for the baby...that is wrong! But I think its worse when men leave their baby momma and think they are free to go and live a brand new life while the child in the end suffers. It does take two to raise a child(ren)...and in this econmy especially...so men still running away from their responsibilies is a mess and need to be handled. It just sad because I wish there were more men and woman having children together and staying instead of the baby momma/daddy crap.Its SAD!!

Disclaimer: I do not have children but I know alot of my friend, family, and men who are in this "child support" fiasco.