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Re: Obama On World Aids Day

nynikki — Tue, 02 Dec 2008 20:14:05 -0000

Abstinence before marriage is not a cure. Over 20+ yrs in nursing and my mom has had to inform many women who were abstinent before marriage that they were HIV+. It's a horrible way for women to find out their husbands are gay, bi, cheating with other women or former IV drug users.

Re: How To Find Out Her Sex Number

nynikki — Wed, 03 Dec 2008 20:24:32 -0000

That's how I feel. I never worried about my number since it would always pale in comparison. And I never asked b/c I was afraid I would be appalled by his number and ultimately turned off. =o

Besides the question is out of bounds, considering how indiscriminate men can be with the # of partners they rack up (how could he ever judge me!?). LOL

Re: Please Her With Your Fingers

nynikki — Wed, 10 Dec 2008 22:44:30 -0000

Thank u for #1. wash your hands! And it won't hurt to run a nail brush across those fingertips. I've stopped more than one fingering for fear of where his hands had been. It's the little things. ;-)

Re: The Feminization Of Straight Men

nynikki — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 21:54:41 -0000

I never cared for the metrosexual man. He's always been around...he used to be called pimp -- hair did, manicure cute, and clothes fly. His woman looked good because she was his accessory. And he was tight if another dude showed up to the party in the same shoes! Same game, different name. Give me a man with a brain in his head and a tool belt on his hip anyday, LOL.

Re: The Major Problems With Child Support

nynikki — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 14:20:27 -0000

No overhaul needed. Hell, the system just started working 10-15 years ago. When I was growing up no one got pinched for being a deadbeat. Damn a man or woman who begrudges taking care of their own children. I know it can be frustrating to see a trifling mother spend child support money on her hair/nails, but I tell dudes all the time "you knew she was trifling when you made a baby with her, so you get no sympathy". And if a woman knows her man is irresponsible in general, she should be prepared to go it alone financially when that baby comes. My mom took my father to court once and when he refused to pay, she kept it moving and took care of us on her own. It saved her a lot of grief and aurguments to just move on. People break up families, not child support. My 2 cents.

Re: The Major Problems With Child Support

nynikki — Mon, 12 Jan 2009 15:47:38 -0000

Hey, the best way to make sure is to file the papers. A friend ended up second and gets less money for her 2 than the side-chick does for her 1. She didn't find out she was second in line until the divorce/child support was filed and the court told her he was already paying for a child he had while they were sep. All she could get was the difference.

Re: Ladies, Get Over Yourself: The Good Man Confusion

nynikki — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 02:40:40 -0000

First, I think Deeny and I may have been separated at birth LOL.

A good man/woman is hard to spot, especially in a big city. There’s so many random jackasses getting in the way of the view and the nice ones get lost in the mix, myself included.

I say hello back and thank you when complimented on the street. As a younger woman I would brace myself for the disrespect that might follow because the guy thought my polite response was a green light for a booty-call. It may be my age (35) or my ways (no-nonsense), but now the jackasses see me and fall back on their own.

But nothing makes my day like a nice hello with no strings (or a tip of the hat from an older man-love that!). And I look for those nice hellos everyday! It might come to nothing, but if he/I decide to make a move, that initial “can I get your #” will be a lot easier for him than the random dude jumping out at me on the street.

Re: History: Pics From The Inauguration Of President Obama

nynikki — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 22:28:21 -0000

Xilla, thanks for posting the entire speech. I watched with some co-workers today and they would not shut-up. But I think it was more spectacle for them than history and pride (I work with lots of "others", LOL). So thanks!

Re: Soundtrack To Love

nynikki — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 22:50:15 -0000

Depends on the mood. Kinky: I wanna be bossed around, like "shut up and take it"! And I may tell my man he can do whatever he wants to me (he can't, but it seems to get the motor going extra, LOL). Romantic: It's all about "you're beautiful/damn you look good to me" and "you feel so good" with lots of eye contact. Eye contact goes a long way in either situation!

Re: Scrabble With Hood Rules

nynikki — Tue, 20 Jan 2009 22:57:13 -0000

this is so random, but "incident" did have my ass laughing.

Re: Soundtrack To Love

nynikki — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 21:05:08 -0000

I paraphrased, but yeah when I'm feeling romantic I like to hear that he's really diggin' my face/body-that I'm not just some random chick. I don't care if it is corny, lol.

Re: http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/01/21/the-most-powerful-man-in-the-world/

nynikki — Wed, 21 Jan 2009 22:09:43 -0000

As POTUS Obama is, no contest, the more powerful man. Taking into account the timeframe that MLK lived, he accomplished a great deal to move the country in the right direction. But Obama is going to lead the country into the next phase and that's where the power is. My 2 cents.

Re: Sex On The First Date

nynikki — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:29:32 -0000

Dude doesn't realize it works both ways. All of my no-strings sex has been with men who were not husband material for me. I could not have cared less what they thought of me on the whore-wife spectrum.

Plus I know someone who got it on the first date and has been married to the man for 10yrs now, so it's all relative.

Re: The Art of Choking During Sex (Exotic Affixation)

nynikki — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 18:44:13 -0000

I would try it, but it would have to be with a man I trusted and who knows what "light pressure" means, lol.

Re: The Art of Choking During Sex (Exotic Affixation)

nynikki — Mon, 26 Jan 2009 23:03:44 -0000

LOL at "where the camera at". Having your man pull your hair while getting it from the back is great stuff! It doesn't make her a freak, just means she knows what she likes and she ain't afraid to ask for it.

Re: 4 Reasons Older Women Are Better Than Younger Women

nynikki — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 00:45:37 -0000

Alright?! Sounds like she may have had a young buck or two bounce out on her for an "older" woman, pancakes and all, lol.

Re: She Still Doesn’t Count You

nynikki — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 19:43:29 -0000

I count them all: the good, the bad and the ugly! lol.

Re: 4 Reasons Older Women Are Better Than Younger Women

nynikki — Thu, 29 Jan 2009 23:53:34 -0000

*Disclaimer* I'm not a suga mama and will never be one (I work too hard for my $$)!

That aside, I think you should flip all of what you said. Suga mamas function the same as suga daddies and the attitude is: look cute, perform in bed and don't give me drama or get replaced. And I'm not saying it's cool, I'm just saying there are other ways to look at this.

Re: Five Dollar Foot Long Or Regular Size?

nynikki — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 14:56:52 -0000

One word: EGO.

Re: http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/02/02/fiddy-interviews-officer-rosss-baby-mother/

nynikki — Mon, 02 Feb 2009 15:11:23 -0000

Man this is all kinds of wrong! 50 knows he ain't shit for this, lol. Ross is trifling for not handling his business and she's a bird for airing him out publicly in exchange for a damn shopping trip.

Re: Sex Questions With Ray-J

nynikki — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 21:03:34 -0000

Ray J is such an ass-clown and I second Art2dope on that "sex" tape - so wack.

Re: The 7 Types Of Men You Meet At The Club

nynikki — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 21:24:04 -0000

Hey, you forgot Captain Save-A-Hoe: The dude with the gov't job (with health benefits, ladies!) who assumes you have nothing going on in your life so you'll be impressed that he has his own apt. and maybe a car.

And if I had a dollar for everytime I heard "hey miss lady" I'd be retired right now!

Re: How Do You Know She Is The One

nynikki — Thu, 05 Feb 2009 23:40:39 -0000

I've had the electric charge kind of love with a man for 13 yrs, but his life is incompatible with mine and vice versa. Will always love him, but could never settle down with him. So I keep looking for "my man" much to his chagrin, but hey that's life.

Re: 3 Nice Ways To Say “The Head Sucks”

nynikki — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 23:19:27 -0000

Guys definitely underestimate verbal feedback. I was with a guy for years and in the beginning he never requested head - I was young and really didn't know what the hell I was doing, lol. Well, he finally fessed up and practice made perfect because afterwards he'd request it all the time until it was just part of the package.

If my man's off base, I give him gentle instruction until he gets it or I give up and tell him to stop. But by then I'm pissed 'cuz dick alone will not do it for me.

Re: What Men Love & Hate About Vagina

nynikki — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 22:28:01 -0000

Chicks in grade school smelling like fish?! Damn I really am old. When I was in grade school my friends and I smelled like candy, LOL; too busy enjoying childhood!

Re: Black History Month Stupid?

nynikki — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 22:40:34 -0000

Every month is white history month. It wouldn't hurt if you knew some of the history behind the celebration, it may bring understanding. Look up Carter G. Woodson, the founder of Black History week, to get some insight. He set the week up to coincide with Frederick Douglass' birthday as a way to instill pride in his fellow Black Americans. For people who were systematically written off, it was important to know that they contributed to the betterment of society at large. The same is true today. For the record there is an Asian History Month and a Latino History Month for the same reasons.

Re: Rihanna Photo Surfaced

nynikki — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 19:22:31 -0000

Thank you. A real man will walk away and use the time to evaluate if he wants to be with a woman who hits him. My brother and I were taught to keep our hands to ourselves. My mom said when a man abruptly walks a way during an argument I must let him go to cool off; he's trying to keep from hurting me. And if the situation got too thick to put a pot on to boil. If he was raised right, he will know I'd had enough and it's time for him to bounce. My bro got his version of this: walk away rather than hit and get the fuck outta dodge if chick puts a pot on-you might get a face full of grits.

Re: Russell Responds To Child Support Payments

nynikki — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 09:48:45 -0000

Rebecca's story clinched it for me. Like most people I've heard too many dead-beat dad (and yes, mom) tales. The more I hear, the more I think about legal termination of parental rights. Men who behave like Rebecca's babydaddy should just cut to the chase and file court papers giving up their rights as parents. No visitation, no child support, no nothing. Yes, the child grows up without a father and the BM won't get child support, but how different is it from the situation they're in now?

Re: 3 Great Reasons Men Don’t Holla At You

nynikki — Tue, 03 Mar 2009 21:05:05 -0000

I've definitely been guilty of #1. As a teen I heard "why you so mad" all the time. I would tell the random dude my dog died (didn't have one!) Ugh I was just evil, lol. Now I get the face when I just don't want to be bothered, but thankfully have learned to look/be approachable when I want to. Same with #2; I'll run to the store busted because I'm not trying to holla, I'm just trying to buy some milk!

Re: Things Women Shouldn’t Talk About

nynikki — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 20:42:28 -0000

I'm not totally guilty of these. Once a month I'm "out of commission"; he gets the point and leaves me the hell alone. I'll only talk about friends if they are having serious man issues and a man's perspective would help; then I relay the advice without saying where it came from (only works if your man is tactful or he'll ask your friend about her issue first chance he gets). I don't think there's anything wrong with talking about 1 or 2 exes that helped shape who you are; it can give a man a better idea of why you do certain things in the relationship. But this is a one-time convo, no bringing old dude up over and over.

Re: I Too Blues For Nina

nynikki — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 20:56:30 -0000

Very nice. Women still enjoy good poetry and a good love poem is the ultimate.

Re: A 3 Piece Meal With A Tossed Salad?

nynikki — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:34:27 -0000

Yeah, this is def. a case of it's better to receive than to give for all the reasons outlined. How far a jump can it be between "baby lick me there" and "hey I bought you a strap on!" no thank you!

Re: A 3 Piece Meal With A Tossed Salad?

nynikki — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:38:09 -0000

Ok, I typed my comment before I saw FanceeFoxx's. lol

Re: Things Women Shouldn’t Talk About

nynikki — Thu, 05 Mar 2009 21:42:22 -0000

IDK, I think when you're in a long term relationship no one really cares anymore about normal/embarrassing body functions.

Re: Is Bigger Really Better?

nynikki — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:02:20 -0000

I dated a man who was really too large for me. Plain physics: He just couldn't fit all the way in it. No real horror story because I didn't allow him to hurt me. He tried, selfish ass that he was, but I stopped him cold. Found out later that he watched waaaay too much porn and thought all women needed non-stop pounding. Had to explain to him that porn chicks are paid to fake it if necessary even if it was killing them. It was ridiculous since he was 13yrs older than me and I was schooling him.

Re: Is Bigger Really Better?

nynikki — Tue, 10 Mar 2009 17:41:27 -0000

Blacksand: "If you are big enough to hurt a woman that should not be your mission. And if that is a man's mission he needs to check himself."

WillEJohnson: "Communication and willingness to be open to different positions than your typical created a better experience"

Thank you gents! And please school all the knuckleheads you meet (we ladies will do the same, deal?)

Re: Hugs And Kisses

nynikki — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 19:58:13 -0000

I love the anticipation right before the first kiss. In that moment it's the best kiss you've ever had, because it hasn't happened yet - all potential. Most times the anticipation is better than the actual kiss. Sadly I've only been kissed well by one man and I let him slip away (dammit!)

Re: Questions Men Should Never EVER Ask

nynikki — Thu, 12 Mar 2009 20:03:37 -0000

I was on a date and the guy thought it was OK to ask if I'd ever been pregnant! Whoo, I was caught so off guard and so offended. Men need to know this is NOT a first date question. Really I don't know when this question would be OK. Maybe right before you say "I do"? Help me out.

Re: The Switch - How To Date The Friend

nynikki — Mon, 16 Mar 2009 23:59:24 -0000

"B/c if the chemistry was there from the jump then I should've picked him instead of the guy who is classified as the ex."

Cosign! Been on the receiving end of an attempted switch and dude got denied for the above reason.

Re: The Switch - How To Date The Friend

nynikki — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 00:25:15 -0000

And all dude did was holla, he didn't even date my girl. He just thought I'd be happy to be the runner-up...bwahahaha.

Re: The Switch - How To Date The Friend

nynikki — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 00:40:14 -0000

Girl, it can get sooo messy. Hell, I wouldn't let a dude holla when I found out he lived in the same bldg as my off & on man. He thought I was buggin', but I knew it wasn't gonna be worth the drama.

Re: Keep Your Man From Cheating On You

nynikki — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 18:33:44 -0000

You said it all, and your summation is really what men need to take with them always: "When we're comfortable with you sexually and emotionally, it's not a problem, just like makin your plate :-D"

The truth!

Re: Nas Speaks on Binghamton Shooting

nynikki — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 11:39:22 -0000

I still think it would have received national coverage, but the news would probably include the neighborhood's crime/poverty/immigration rates, etc. with cause/effect comparisons. Like this shit is supposed to happen in the inner city, only it never does.

My biggest gripe with the coverage is how the ticker on CNN reported a shooting in NY, not Binghamton. It took me a few minutes to realize it happened upstate and not down the block. If it were in NYC, there would have been no ambiguity.

Re: 5 Reasons Men Like Being Called Daddy

nynikki — Tue, 28 Apr 2009 18:15:53 -0000

I'd probably be more willing if I didn't still call my own father "Daddy". But my man can call himself Daddy all he likes, as in "You gonna behave yourself for Daddy, right?" (always followed by a spanking!) But he'll be hard pressed for the word to come out of my mouth. Now I'll call you "Papi" as many times as you like, it doesn't have the same baggage for me.

Re: A Gold Digger’s Guide via Dr. Phil

nynikki — Sun, 03 May 2009 14:50:43 -0000

I want these women to call themselves what they really are: hookers. We've heard the tired ass gold digger argument before..."we get gifts/trips/cash for what other women give away; hence we're smarter than other women".

Smart women have relationships with men they like/love/respect and they have sex because they want to, not because someone is paying their bills (and these chicks are required to have sex no matter what they say). Gold diggers always leave out the part where the man tosses them out when he's done, like a pair of overrun shoes. This shit is bad all around.

Re: “Your No Good Father” Raising Kids With Daddy Issues

nynikki — Thu, 07 May 2009 17:12:48 -0000

Just a thumbs-up to HeadMistress. Your story sounds so much like my mother's. I know how hurt my mother must have been to see me fall all over my do-nothing father, but she always held her tongue and checked other family members. She understood it would hurt me and my relationship with her/her side of the fam. Plus, like you, she always knew I would see him for what he was on my own. (Mo, thanks for the great blog piece!)

Re: “Your No Good Father” Raising Kids With Daddy Issues

nynikki — Thu, 07 May 2009 17:32:44 -0000

Lady Jei, you are def. one-up in this situation, having seen what a good marriage and a good man looks like (while my mom and dad were married, it didn't last long and she def. feels like she picked the wrong one, but she tried). The point: I think it's interesting that our very different experiences leads us to the same conclusion to wait for marriage to start a family. You know there's a good man out there for you and I can only hope there's one for me too, ya dig?

Re: Quickie: The Gray Area Of Cheating

nynikki — Mon, 11 May 2009 18:28:45 -0000

It's incredibly immature to break up with someone you're seeing just to have sex with the next person (and if the break up lasts 2 days, then it's safe to assume that this person's goal is to go back to their original partner with a supposedly clear conscience). This kind of yo-yo relationship is worthy of H.S. kids and doesn't belong in dealings between grown folks.

Re: http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/05/12/xilla-psa-pimping-since-pimping-been-pimpin/

nynikki — Wed, 13 May 2009 00:56:22 -0000

Men who think a woman can't do nothing for them usually end up with women who don't give a damn about them. It's a self-fulfilling prophecy. As for Jay-Z saying Bleek > his wife, it's fucked up but that's between Jay and B.

Xilla, do you let your woman know that you're down for her? Usually a woman is a lot more understanding of a man's time away from home when she knows for sure there's an "us/we" thang goin' on. (From a woman once accused of being unappreciative.)

Re: How To Ask For A Threesome

nynikki — Mon, 18 May 2009 17:45:30 -0000

I'm with hotness on this one. My man asked and 2 guys was my requirement (it was a given that he would not have to deal with the other dude at all)-needless to say he squashed that. He wanted 2 chicks and I would be expected to "go there" with the other woman. So basically the 3some is never gonna happen.

Re: Nicki Minaj Speaks On Her Sex Appeal

nynikki — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 01:31:30 -0000

Image-wise she seems like Lil Kim-redux to me. That squatting pose photo is straight of off Kim. She should get used to the comparison (and be flattered). Hell, Kim's overt sexuality was just a re-imagining of Millie Jackson. Point is sex always sells and it ain't nothing new. Haven't heard Nicki Minaj's music yet, so no comment there.

Re: Fantastic Fetish Activities

nynikki — Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:59:10 -0000

Having your toes sucked while he's getting it in is the shit...2 sensations in one! Food is also a plus; I let my man mess up a fresh $80 perm - melted ice cream all over the place *having a moment!*. And a piece of ice in his mouth during cunnilingus was a surprisingly great experience.

Re: Fantastic Fetish Activities

nynikki — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 12:24:31 -0000

I was on my back and what he didn't lick up ended up on the sheets and sadly in my hair at the nape of my neck. But I wasn't complaining.

Re: FTV: You’re Too Old To Still Date Thugs

nynikki — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 19:34:01 -0000

Don't hang your head, you're not alone! LOL. We can stop dating them, but dammit the attraction still lingers.

Xilla, I live right near the stadium and still love a youngin' in a Yankee fitted. *sigh*

Re: Amerie- Why R U (Video)

nynikki — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:13:44 -0000

I liked her when she first came out, but all her (released) songs sound the same. And are you really in the game if you're only good for 1 or 2 singles per CD? She needs better management.

Re: The Lost Art Of Kissing

nynikki — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 23:23:26 -0000

My first kiss almost put me off of kissing forever. He shoved his tongue waaaay down my throat and I came away thinking "adults are nasty for liking this mess" (I was 16), LOL. But I have to say being well-kissed is almost as good as being well-f*cked and I wish more men were open to all the different ways to kiss their woman.

Re: Why Do Men Do Dumb Stuff For Women?

nynikki — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 17:59:12 -0000

I'm mad he tried to play it off, lmao @ "practice!"

Re: Maybe You Bring Out The B*tch In Him

nynikki — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:08:56 -0000

I enjoyed this one as I am guilty of being harsh. I'm working on being softer with my men but it is a process. The claws do come out though, if I'm with a guy that insists on showing me a soft underbelly. I can't stand a soft-ass man. The downside is I tend to gravitate towards assholes, so I guess I really need to ease up!

Re: 7 Expert Sex Tips Using Legos

nynikki — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 18:16:12 -0000

These scenes had me dying, esp. the park orgy! Men should def. add #1 to their repertoire and women should def. add #2 (that is if it's not already in the lineup).

Re: FTV: The Price Of P*ssy Has Plummeted

nynikki — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:15:22 -0000

I'm always been suspicious of men who say they loooooove women, because usually it means deep down they hate us. I've never understood the mentality that allows a man to vilify a woman for giving it up, while he admits it was his ultimate/only goal (how screwed-up in the head is that?). Truly women are held more responsible for sexuality (ours AND our men), so guys like 100 King$ should fall back and let us handle it (the good, the bad and the ugly) or step up and share the responsibility.

Re: I Pissed On Her Because I Loved Her

nynikki — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:12:25 -0000

I'm in the "to each his own" camp on this one. The pipe game could make my head spin but nobody's pissing on me! But other submissive things are cool for me (spanking, etc.). It's all fetish, but golden showers is prob. on the high end of the scale.

Re: 32 Things You Should Never Say To A Project Chick

nynikki — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 16:56:51 -0000

This list had me ROFL, plus Ksassy and Oohkeekee's additions. I grew up in the projects and like you, Xilla, I'm glad to be free of 'em!

Re: Lick Em Like Lalalala (The Art Of Nipple Love)

nynikki — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:24:10 -0000

If a man is licking the nipples right, he can get them to stand at attention just by looking at them. If done right it's the fastest route to the freak zone (at least that's how it is for me).

Re: Let The Female Semen Receptacles Live

nynikki — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 17:15:00 -0000

Star cracks me the fuck up. The older I get, the more willing I am to just "let a bitch live", lmao.

Re: She Said “Don’t C** In Her Mouth”

nynikki — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 17:50:23 -0000

I've never had to tell a dude to not bust in my mouth. Men I've been with seem to realize it's not gonna happen. I've only let one man finish in my mouth. I'd been with him for years and intercourse wasn't an option that night. I did the "run to the bathroom", lol, but he didn't seem to care. I admit it was a one-time deal.

Re: Cinderella – The Store Run

nynikki — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 18:10:02 -0000

Damn, your Cinderella stories always get me thinking of "that nigga". Xilla you're gonna have me backsliding over here! lol

Re: She Said “Don’t C** In Her Mouth”

nynikki — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 18:25:50 -0000

Nah, not a reason, just an example of an exception to my rule. My reason for not doing it is the same as the Jaded NYer's, it reminds me of snot...hence the run to the bathroom after wards.

Re: Lick Em Like Lalalala (The Art Of Nipple Love)

nynikki — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 13:52:46 -0000

I've tried it and my man and I both enjoyed it. We would take turns feeding the nipples back and forth between each other and sometimes licking on 'em simultaneously. Good stuff (If i say so myself!).

Re: Blood Is Thicker Then Water

nynikki — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 18:36:06 -0000

That line in my family is deep-and no one crosses it, not even for non-blood "play cousins". And I wouldn't want to cross it - I came up with all my non-blood "cousins"- they're like brothers to me. It would have been really weird since we call the same people auntie and grandma. *shudders*

Re: Lick Em Like Lalalala (The Art Of Nipple Love)

nynikki — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 21:50:30 -0000

I think it's best to ease into it at first. Alternate licking her nipples and kissing her. Then while you're licking, motion for a kiss. Rubbing her nipple on her bottom lip and kiss her from across the nipple. Once she sees how turned on you are, she'll keep on. Can you tell I like a nipple licking, lol.

Re: 9 After Sex Personalities

nynikki — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 12:16:25 -0000

The guy I was with the longest was def. a Cuddler/Talker. For me it depends on the time of day: middle of the night, I'm the Sleeper; middle of the day, I'm the Energizer (I'll get up, make a sandwich, make him a sandwich and start all my household chores-my man would look at me like I was crazy!). Good sex is like a mega-vitamin for me!

Re: Xilla PSA: I Will Not Let A Girl Steal My Girl

nynikki — Wed, 08 Jul 2009 20:45:17 -0000

This blog post had me laughing all the way through...aw man I can feel your frustration! I'm 100% hetero and the thugged-out lesbians have caught me looking on the train trying to decipher their gender (some of them make a cute dude until you notice no facial hair and tied down breasts). They start flirting and then I have to spend the rest of my ride staring at my shoes, LOL.

Re: How To Deal With A Crazy Person

nynikki — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 16:52:57 -0000

Damn these stories make mine seem tame by comparison. I just had an ex who took a job right by my house and told my mother he would be able to carry a gun for the job. This was after non-stop calls to me and my mother saying he wouldn't give up until we were back together. I spent a lot of time looking over my shoulder. About a year after the break-up he returned my things from his house. I tossed all of it, except for my sports bra...shit, it's hard finding a DDD sports bra.

Re: How To Deal With A Crazy Person

nynikki — Thu, 09 Jul 2009 17:01:46 -0000

Hmm, that is excellent advice HeadMistress. Hopefully I'll never need to use it, but it's good to know just in case.

Re: I Should Have Know She Was A 2 Bit Sl*re

nynikki — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 14:34:19 -0000

Thankfully I've never had to deal with this *knock on wood*, but if I ever found myself in this situation both parties would get their walking papers. Both are guilty equally because they crossed the same line together.

I'm lucky to have known my girls for so long; they're like sisters. And most men can tell from watching us interact that his shit would be put on blast with a quickness if he ever tried that mess. Surround yourself with positive women and you won't have to worry about this kind of nonsense.

Re: Amber Rose Shows Off Her Lovely Nipples

nynikki — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 14:41:54 -0000

1st thought: Her body is perfect (and I need to go to the damn gym!) lol

2nd thought: It's nice to see one of "our" models with natural parts - no fake booty, no fake tits...I cannot hate on her at all.

Re: A Whole Lot Of Logical Reason Why Women Should Strip For Their Men

nynikki — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 14:50:26 -0000

I would, but I admit I'd need some practice to get the stripper moves right and to keep from laughing at myself.

Re: Dear Lindsay Lohan

nynikki — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 00:59:34 -0000

I've hated 2 exes for their callous attitudes during the breakups. One broke up with me on Valentine's Day (found out later he cheated on me that day). I was ready to cut him. It took a while to get past it but I did and was better for it. It helped that he sincerely apologized later and seemed genuinely remorseful (or maybe he just didn't want to get shanked, lol).

The other broke up with me right before my birthday with a shrug and an f.u. (basically) after almost a yr together. I'm still working on not hating his ass...came *this close* to trekking to his hood to set his car on fire. It's a slow process. ;-)

Re: 3 Hilarious Reasons To Leave Stripping To The Pros

nynikki — Wed, 26 Aug 2009 23:46:33 -0000

I originally skipped this post, but I'm glad I finally watched it. Pure comedy! Disaster was looming for that belly dancer from the first hip shake. I thought the 2nd was staged at first but that girl's response seemed too real, lmao at her mom.