DISQUS

Hmm, that is excellent advice HeadMistress. Hopefully I'll never need to use it, but it's good to know just in case.

Damn these stories make mine seem tame by comparison. I just had an ex who took a job right by my house and told my mother he would be able to carry a gun for the job. This was after non-stop calls to me and my mother saying he wouldn't give up until we were back together. I spent a lot of time looking over my shoulder. About a year after the break-up he returned my things from his house. I tossed all of it, except for my sports bra...shit, it's hard finding a DDD sports bra.

This blog post had me laughing all the way through...aw man I can feel your frustration! I'm 100% hetero and the thugged-out lesbians have caught me looking on the train trying to decipher their gender (some of them make a cute dude until you notice no facial hair and tied down breasts). They start flirting and then I have to spend the rest of my ride staring at my shoes, LOL.

The guy I was with the longest was def. a Cuddler/Talker. For me it depends on the time of day: middle of the night, I'm the Sleeper; middle of the day, I'm the Energizer (I'll get up, make a sandwich, make him a sandwich and start all my household chores-my man would look at me like I was crazy!). Good sex is like a mega-vitamin for me!

I think it's best to ease into it at first. Alternate licking her nipples and kissing her. Then while you're licking, motion for a kiss. Rubbing her nipple on her bottom lip and kiss her from across the nipple. Once she sees how turned on you are, she'll keep on. Can you tell I like a nipple licking, lol.

That line in my family is deep-and no one crosses it, not even for non-blood "play cousins". And I wouldn't want to cross it - I came up with all my non-blood "cousins"- they're like brothers to me. It would have been really weird since we call the same people auntie and grandma. *shudders*

I've tried it and my man and I both enjoyed it. We would take turns feeding the nipples back and forth between each other and sometimes licking on 'em simultaneously. Good stuff (If i say so myself!).

Nah, not a reason, just an example of an exception to my rule. My reason for not doing it is the same as the Jaded NYer's, it reminds me of snot...hence the run to the bathroom after wards.

Damn, your Cinderella stories always get me thinking of "that nigga". Xilla you're gonna have me backsliding over here! lol

I've never had to tell a dude to not bust in my mouth. Men I've been with seem to realize it's not gonna happen. I've only let one man finish in my mouth. I'd been with him for years and intercourse wasn't an option that night. I did the "run to the bathroom", lol, but he didn't seem to care. I admit it was a one-time deal.

Star cracks me the fuck up. The older I get, the more willing I am to just "let a bitch live", lmao.

If a man is licking the nipples right, he can get them to stand at attention just by looking at them. If done right it's the fastest route to the freak zone (at least that's how it is for me).

This list had me ROFL, plus Ksassy and Oohkeekee's additions. I grew up in the projects and like you, Xilla, I'm glad to be free of 'em!

I'm in the "to each his own" camp on this one. The pipe game could make my head spin but nobody's pissing on me! But other submissive things are cool for me (spanking, etc.). It's all fetish, but golden showers is prob. on the high end of the scale.

I'm always been suspicious of men who say they loooooove women, because usually it means deep down they hate us. I've never understood the mentality that allows a man to vilify a woman for giving it up, while he admits it was his ultimate/only goal (how screwed-up in the head is that?). Truly women are held more responsible for sexuality (ours AND our men), so guys like 100 King$ should fall back and let us handle it (the good, the bad and the ugly) or step up and share the responsibility.

These scenes had me dying, esp. the park orgy! Men should def. add #1 to their repertoire and women should def. add #2 (that is if it's not already in the lineup).

I enjoyed this one as I am guilty of being harsh. I'm working on being softer with my men but it is a process. The claws do come out though, if I'm with a guy that insists on showing me a soft underbelly. I can't stand a soft-ass man. The downside is I tend to gravitate towards assholes, so I guess I really need to ease up!

I'm mad he tried to play it off, lmao @ "practice!"

My first kiss almost put me off of kissing forever. He shoved his tongue waaaay down my throat and I came away thinking "adults are nasty for liking this mess" (I was 16), LOL. But I have to say being well-kissed is almost as good as being well-f*cked and I wish more men were open to all the different ways to kiss their woman.

I liked her when she first came out, but all her (released) songs sound the same. And are you really in the game if you're only good for 1 or 2 singles per CD? She needs better management.

Don't hang your head, you're not alone! LOL. We can stop dating them, but dammit the attraction still lingers.

Xilla, I live right near the stadium and still love a youngin' in a Yankee fitted. *sigh*

I was on my back and what he didn't lick up ended up on the sheets and sadly in my hair at the nape of my neck. But I wasn't complaining.

Having your toes sucked while he's getting it in is the shit...2 sensations in one! Food is also a plus; I let my man mess up a fresh $80 perm - melted ice cream all over the place *having a moment!*. And a piece of ice in his mouth during cunnilingus was a surprisingly great experience.

Image-wise she seems like Lil Kim-redux to me. That squatting pose photo is straight of off Kim. She should get used to the comparison (and be flattered). Hell, Kim's overt sexuality was just a re-imagining of Millie Jackson. Point is sex always sells and it ain't nothing new. Haven't heard Nicki Minaj's music yet, so no comment there.

I'm with hotness on this one. My man asked and 2 guys was my requirement (it was a given that he would not have to deal with the other dude at all)-needless to say he squashed that. He wanted 2 chicks and I would be expected to "go there" with the other woman. So basically the 3some is never gonna happen.