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<rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Disqus - Latest Comments for Nathan</title><link>http://disqus.com/people/549ac109a3bee230e7592fcf4026aa38/</link><description></description><language>en</language><lastBuildDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:00:11 -0000</lastBuildDate><item><title>Re: When Real Life Interrupts: Maintaining Separate Images &amp;amp; Personas</title><link>http://shegeeks.disqus.com/when_real_life_interrupts_maintaining_separate_images_amp_personas/#comment-4815617</link><description>Hi Cordiva, This is a great question that more folks should be asking themselves.  Im 38 years-old and believe that I have sorted my way through this dilemma over the past 10 years or so.  I've decided that maintaining multiple personas online is unhealthy and unrealistic.  Here's my advice:&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;1) Focus on the person you want to be.  This sounds new-age kooky, but it's legit.  If you are going to be embarrassed by a picture of you, think about stopping the embarrassing behavior, rather than the photograph.  The older you get, the easier this gets.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;2) Never post anything online that could be damaging to you professionally or personally.  Avoid posting questionable content about your friends and ask them to do the same for you.&lt;br&gt;&lt;br&gt;Note that this doesn't mean you should mix your professional and personal information online.  On your professional blog, for instance, it's a good idea to keep personal information to a minimum; simply because the personal stuff is not interesting for most of your readers.  So, it's perfectly reasonable to have personal and professional "spaces" online - but don't attempt to maintain them as separate identities.  Call them what they are - different spaces targeted at different consumers - but all different facets of the same you.</description><dc:creator xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/">Nathan</dc:creator><pubDate>Thu, 01 Jan 2009 14:00:11 -0000</pubDate></item></channel></rss>