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Re: She’s Reading To Escape The Nonsense

Lb — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 00:34:05 -0000

no..thank you xilla.. i started coming to your site a few weeks ago and now im hooked. keep up the good work.

Re: Not On The First Night

Lb — Fri, 22 Aug 2008 10:57:38 -0000

LoL @ PCF..your comments are too funny.. i think the whole 'not on the first night' thing is for females to seem innocent and 'not easy' i guess..but they're not fooling anyone.. you know when you see someone if your gonna sex them or not, so why stunt and put off the inevitable..

Re: Men Are The New Women

Lb — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 16:10:51 -0000

I love this post Xilla..I just recently broke up with my ex because he would not let me be the female in the relationship..he did most of what was mentioned above..
There are a lot of dudes out there like this and its scary/crazy all at the same time.

Re: Arguing Out Loud

Lb — Tue, 26 Aug 2008 16:16:36 -0000

i agree with kys_mami... its soo important to have the last word. i trry my hardest to get mine in, but lately i just decide to be the bigger person and let it go. why walk around angry because of a stupid argument. i just let him blow up my phone with calls and texts until his fiingers hurt.

Re: Get A Bigger Butt

Lb — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 17:43:41 -0000

i didnt know it was that serious to have a bigger butt.. im still pulling dudes and my ass isnt too 'plump'.. not saying its flat either..

Re: Sex Tips For Women Pt.1

Lb — Tue, 02 Sep 2008 17:49:12 -0000

i was with a guy who was not too fond of having his sac fondled.. it puzzled me because i thought dudes loved that

Re: The Beauty Of A Slim Woman

Lb — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 15:27:12 -0000

As a slim female (with curves and chest) its gets a little frustrating sometimes seeing thicker women all the time. There was a point when I used to feel very unsure about myself because all im surrounded by was thicker chicks and dudes were just flocking to them. This post (along with a boost in my self-esteem) made me realize that its ok to be slim and that there are actually dudes out there that appreciate it.. I really this post Xilla. Thanks

Re: The Beauty Of A Slim Woman

Lb — Fri, 05 Sep 2008 19:11:16 -0000

@ SeattleSlim.. yes I am serious. Not every posesses confidence within themselves. I know it sounds cliche but especially if you have a fu*ked up childhood it really messes with your selfesteem. Its coming along though..

Re: How To Talk To Red Bones

Lb — Tue, 09 Sep 2008 23:04:29 -0000

are people really still talking about this? i thought we moved past this whole 'light skin v. dark skin' thing. its just another way for us to criticize and talk about one another. its very disheartening that this is still a topic of discussion..

Re: The Brand Name of 9-11

Lb — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 10:29:28 -0000

I was in school terrified because my sister went to Pace University which is just a few blocks away from the Trade Center and my father worked in lower Manhattan. I remember noone went to class that day and teachers and faculty did not care. Several of my schoolmates lost parents or relatives that day which we would never forget. I remember walking outside and it was eerily breezy and dark.. sadness.

Re: Ludacris feat Chris Brown + Sean Garrett

Lb — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 15:10:46 -0000

on a random note, the girls in the video were definitely on the lighter side...

Re: Ludacris feat Chris Brown + Sean Garrett

Lb — Thu, 11 Sep 2008 19:40:43 -0000

lol aww Xilla.. well I didn't call you any names.. but if you're looking for some chocolate females, check out ryan leslie's new video. I applaud him for that one.

Re: 10 Things Men Think, That She May Not Know

Lb — Sun, 14 Sep 2008 22:12:22 -0000

"we'll just call the next chick" LOL.. interesting read..

Re: Ask Me Anything

Lb — Tue, 16 Sep 2008 19:22:27 -0000

Have you always been the sexual being you portray in your posts?
What do you think drives your sexual motivation?
Random, why did you leave up top for the South?

Re: What Would You Do? Where Are My Panties Pt 2

Lb — Wed, 17 Sep 2008 21:25:57 -0000

times cant be that hard where you need to borrow someone else's draws.. thats pretty fucking disgusting. i would put her on FULL blast.

Re: 5 Things I’ve Learned About Sex From East Coast Rap

Lb — Fri, 19 Sep 2008 19:45:25 -0000

Yeah!! you made an East Coast list... I definitely learned a lot from my homie Lil Kim:
***If you aint licking this you aint sticking this***
truer words have never been spoken

Re: The Down Low

Lb — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 12:56:05 -0000

I already have trust issues and this DL bs does not help it either..
I know some bisexual dudes that came out and told the girl they were with about their sexuality and automatically, the relationship ended right then and there. At least dude was honest about it..thats saying a lot.
You'll be surprised how many fools out there are living a double life..its scary. i give everyone a side eye and beg my female friends not to overtrust these dudes out here.

Re: The Down Low

Lb — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:01:16 -0000

that's true..when a female is bisexual, it is usually accepted..when you hear a guy is bisexual, he is automatically assumed to be more gay than straight thus creating a problem.
also, everyone is talking about DL dudes and HIV.. well isnt it also the female's responsibility to be in know and keep getting herself (along with her man) tested.. this is why i dont overtrust fools.. i dont care how long we've been together, we will be getting tested together.
a lie is a lie and living on the DL is never cool either way..

Re: Hoochieism Gone Wrong

Lb — Tue, 23 Sep 2008 20:05:49 -0000

LOL..i love how the cameraman went around to get the crowd's facial expressions

Re: Abusive Relationships

Lb — Thu, 25 Sep 2008 22:56:27 -0000

i was with a guy that was mentally and emotionally abusive.. i called him out and of course he didn't see it as such. after i broke it off, he sought out counseling as a ploy to try and get me back. while im happy he did, there is no way i can put myself through that again. even as friends now, i still see that he needs more help. insecurite plays a major part (i think) of why people are abusive.
abuse of any kind is never OK and i hope people out there read this and stand up for themselves.

Re: Day Off

Lb — Thu, 09 Oct 2008 13:39:03 -0000

LOL@ Tiddy
Get well soon Xilla

Re: Women Vs Bitches

Lb — Sat, 11 Oct 2008 00:31:55 -0000

Well said SarahLove. B*tches definitely give the real women sideeyes probably because they are ashamed of themselves and their whorish ways. I used to think the issue was me, but then I realized it was those "women" don't know their worth and don't know the harm in their actions. I dated a (college) football player and you would not believe the locker room stories I've heard. As a female I was ashamed and so hurt for my gender. Men would never treat us with respect until we respect ourselves as females (talking 2 the b*tches). and its sad because those fools think that just because they treat one girl like that, they can step to the real women that way.

Re: Get Your Groove Back New Music

Lb — Wed, 15 Oct 2008 20:04:21 -0000

that M.I.A. song is hella old
and im mad people now jumping all over that beat.. thats all.
lol

Re: Obama Buck - Racist Sterotypes on Food Stamps

Lb — Fri, 17 Oct 2008 09:48:22 -0000

Barack's security is extra tight now and when he wins, he's gonna need a lot more. It's too sad that in 2008 people are still so ignorant. I hope they know the demographics of this country are forever changing and whites will no longer going to be the majority. What will they do then?

Re: Do Wh*res Have More Fun?

Lb — Thu, 23 Oct 2008 16:39:47 -0000

Girl, get yours!! Dudes definitely do it all the time. Why are women afraid to explore their options? If you're not putting your business all out there, there should not be a problem having some casual sex. You're not a whore, you in control of your own and you're getting yours 'by any mean necessary' lol. Enjoy.
p.s. im in a similiar type situation so Thanks for posting this at the right time.

Re: A Valid Point Or Over The Top?

Lb — Tue, 28 Oct 2008 18:48:26 -0000

yes..two wrongs do not make a right. and if it were the other way around ( that dude wearing the N*gger Please shirt), we would be hot. Eventually, someone is going to have to grow up and learn to ignore the ignorance of others. The country would be much better off if we didnt do evil for evil.
none the less, the shirt is funny because right around the corner from the White House is the damn hood..

Re: The Importance of Booty

Lb — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 11:57:29 -0000

LoL @ the myspace comment. So true..
and yes..the only reason women care about having a big butt is the attention that they get because of it. a lot of these things these female do nowadays is for some attention anyway..(in my opinion)

Re: The Importance of Booty

Lb — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:22:26 -0000

@ Miss 310. I've seen some many chicks with big butts but they're not cute in the face but it doesn't stop dudes from trying to holla at them. It's like they dont care about looks anymore..it's all about ass

Re: Lauren London + Cassie - Sean John Ad

Lb — Thu, 06 Nov 2008 16:23:44 -0000

someone needs to tell cassie to stick to modeling and drop the idea of being a singer. She would definitely get more money posing than trying to carry a tune.
One a brighter note, both women look beautiful

Re: Touch Myself

Lb — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 19:12:26 -0000

watching a man masturbate is one of my biggest turn ons..
no toy necessary..my fingers do the trick.
and i do it whenever i feel the need to. its an excellent way to relieve the stress

Re: 20 Tips To Make Her Feel Like A Woman

Lb — Mon, 10 Nov 2008 23:11:11 -0000

Im digging the list..
You should mention that dudes should do this on the regular. My ex used to do this then he started getting too comfy with me and all that ish suddenly stopped. But women should also return the favor and make a man feel like a man.

Re: The Price of P*ssy Has Plummeted

Lb — Thu, 20 Nov 2008 11:57:06 -0000

this post left me kind of speechless.I see girls throwing their shit around left and right to any dude that shows the slighest bit of attention. Just because he says 'hello' doesn't mean you owe him anything Ladies. I agree that many females don't know their worth and look for some dude for some type of confirmation. but not to point blame but if a chick is giving it up to you dudes, you know you have the option of turing it down. If she down to giving it up right away, chances are, it isnt that great (just my opinion)

Re: Charles Hamilton - Brooklyn Girls [Video]

Lb — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 22:07:40 -0000

dope video! it made me homesick. damn u charles lol

Re: The Ugliest Urban Celebrities

Lb — Thu, 11 Dec 2008 22:13:28 -0000

lol..this is such a mean post..but i agree that ms jay from top model should b on the list. what makes him more unattractive is the fact he swear he looks so damn good.

Re: 3 Women You’ll Meet On Myspace

Lb — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 12:31:41 -0000

haha..this is a very cute post Xilla.. cant wait for Part 2..
you should make a post about myspace dudes..lots of lames on there

Re: Head On The First Date

Lb — Thu, 22 Jan 2009 15:23:45 -0000

LOL @ KD..that's too funny..
depending on the dude and if the situation is right..I'll licky licky but not sticky sticky. For some reason head seems to be the better option than going all the way..

Re: Cinderella: V For Vendetta

Lb — Wed, 28 Jan 2009 12:09:32 -0000

i hate you Xilla!! you're making me reconsider my celibacy rule.. LOL.
hurry up and this finished.

Re: The 7 Types Of Men You Meet At The Club

Lb — Tue, 03 Feb 2009 15:31:41 -0000

lol.you saved the best for last. i text in the club just so i can merely avoid encountering these dudes.. i've run across a few on the list.. good job! .. that women's list should be tight

Re: Porn Stars In The Bathroom

Lb — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 01:29:36 -0000

ok 2 things! y am i on this site at this hour (i heart you Xilla lol)
and why was her nasty ass sitting on the toilet?? this video is random as hell lol. a bathroom trip should be in and out and quick and painless. they r crazy.

Re: Why Do People Hate On Valentine’s Day?

Lb — Wed, 11 Feb 2009 21:45:40 -0000

Its just another commercial holiday for people to spend money and go all out. I honestly forgot that it was Valentine's Day this Saturday until someone reminded me. Please..its not that serious..although this year I feel like busting some windows on Vday..
Xilla, ur a fool LOL @.... "trying to stop yourself from running in their apartment with an Uzi and going all Rambo on their ass.."

Re: 50 Cent - What A Psychic Told Me

Lb — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 10:36:41 -0000

50 clearly has nothing to do. his album sales are wack so he is doing his best to remain relevant. unforturnately he is coming off extremely LAME and crazy and I don't know why people are giving him the time of day for his foolery. with that said, i will stop trash talking before he comes after me. HA!

Re: 8 Reasons Never To Tell Your Boo You’ve Cheated

Lb — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 13:21:41 -0000

It really depends on the relationship and vibe that yall have going. If he is mature and understanding enough to realize that things happen and won't throw shit in your face all the time, good for you...other than that keep ur mouth shut. One reason I wouldn't tell someone I've cheated on them would be because it will ruin the chances of me doing it again. Ha! (i kid i kid, but it's a possibility).

Re: 8 Reasons Never To Tell Your Boo You’ve Cheated

Lb — Thu, 12 Feb 2009 13:23:19 -0000

Cosign With Xilla on the "L"= let you down
lol

Re: What Men Love & Hate About Vagina

Lb — Tue, 17 Feb 2009 21:39:01 -0000

this is a cute post! me likey
on a random note, my homeboy used to tell me he prefered a girl with a hairy cooch. he said he could "do some things" with that..i thought that was gross..

Re: Introducing K.W.A.A.R. (Kanye West And Amber Rose)

Lb — Thu, 19 Feb 2009 16:32:45 -0000

I think Amber Rose is a Bad Bish! But she seems too much of a woman for Kayne..

Re: Kid Cudi - Day n Nite (Video)

Lb — Fri, 20 Feb 2009 00:25:04 -0000

dope video! definitely a pleasant change from all that's out there and ...
..cudi looks like he smokes that good ish..

Re: BlogXilla Presents: “It’s Going Down” A Short Story

Lb — Sat, 21 Feb 2009 12:32:06 -0000

Wow! Definitely did not see that ending coming. Thats a dope story Xilla..
you are really big on details and are hella graphic!
... a lot of dudes love watching two women but can't take it when one of them is their girl..

Re: 30 Reasons Why SOME Women Ain’t…

Lb — Tue, 24 Feb 2009 00:46:49 -0000

damn Xilla..you had a lot to say..LOL.damn that was funny
are these the chicks you meet on the regular?
but this post reaffirmed my dislike for females..sometimes they just irk me. Thanks!

Re: Flo Rida + Pleasure P - Shone

Lb — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 14:39:10 -0000

couldn't listen to the whole thing..very wack to me..
sorry but pleasure p isn't going too far in his career..he'll forever drop these random songs but that's about it
@jaybear.. nuvo just tastes good..doesnt really give a buzz lol

Re: 5 Reasons Men Sleep With Ugly Women

Lb — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 14:46:41 -0000

lol..this is very shallow and funny...i can see where you're going with some of the points you made..
i have this homegirl..she's not ugly.but dudes say she not too cute eiher so she feels the need to overcompensate whenever we go out by being a bit Xtra. always wants to b Seen..i pay her no mind cuz everyone needs to feel special at times..
Bless Her

Re: 5 Reasons Men Sleep With Ugly Women

Lb — Wed, 25 Feb 2009 21:06:22 -0000

my homeboy told he would purposely go out with a less than attractive female just so other dudes wouldn't hit on her. wtf?! (does that have anything to do with this post)

Re: 50 Reasons Why SOME Men Aint…

Lb — Thu, 26 Feb 2009 11:48:51 -0000

lol..its sad that i know a dude for every reason on that list..its bad when one dude has damn near half these traits.
You only needed one reason why men aint shit and that's because they have a penis. End of discussion (yea im bitter lol)

Re: Break Bread

Lb — Mon, 02 Mar 2009 13:40:45 -0000

"a hard D and bubble gum" WoW.lol

i wouldn't mind spending $$ on my significant other. i think its a common courtesy if you're dating someone to treat them @ times. if i have the money, then sure he could get some stuff..and vice versa.. i wouldn't walk around expecting my man to spend money on me all day every day but its cool every once in awhile
if its just some random dude..i'ono..thats different

Re: The Stanky Leg To The 10th Power

Lb — Wed, 25 Mar 2009 20:50:06 -0000

ugh..disgusted.

Re: Jadakiss feat Nas - What If

Lb — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 18:58:24 -0000

Kiss always brings the heat. loves it

Re: Trina’s Louis Vuitton Photo Shoot

Lb — Wed, 01 Apr 2009 19:03:42 -0000

on a positive note, her leg looks smooth (ish)
that' all i got..

Re: How To Be His Private Wh*re

Lb — Sat, 04 Apr 2009 22:12:37 -0000

oh Xilla..lol..
thanks for this!

Re: Teyana Taylor - I Am Ready For Love + Get Your Abs Right

Lb — Sun, 05 Apr 2009 16:49:10 -0000

her (upper) body is sick..
who would have thought she would have grown into that..

Re: http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/04/06/lil-wayne-young-money-every-girl/

Lb — Tue, 07 Apr 2009 00:20:20 -0000

i was WAITING for this to finally drop..
this song is my crack..
Thanks 4 posting... U could get the bniz! ;-) haa

Re: 7 Ways Guys Lose On The First Date

Lb — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:57:43 -0000

i wanna send this post to aaaallllll my males friends. some dudes just dont and will never get it.
i remember when my ex and i went out to eat once, dude surely ordered ribs AND proceeded to lick his fingers. ugh.. thats slightly acceptable when we're @ the crib but in public?!? and he spilled sauce on his shirt.. that relationship was dooomed.

Re: Sex Questions w/ Lil Wayne

Lb — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 11:36:05 -0000

WoW..that was beyond interesting...
my favorite line: "stop ramming them hoes"

Re: What Birthday Sex With Xilla Is Like

Lb — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:23:28 -0000

junky ass room!
BET needs to bring back that commercial they had "read a book".. kids are crazy

Re: All Types Of Wrong…

Lb — Mon, 13 Apr 2009 21:40:48 -0000

i couldn't even watch the whole thing.. it she felt it necessary to have her belt undone like she just used the bathroom, mayb she should have taken the shyt off. females IRK me.

Re: B5- Addicted

Lb — Thu, 16 Apr 2009 19:08:25 -0000

LoL! I didn't take a listen but read those few lines and I'm going to pass. But for real, arent they signed to BadBoy?? So we all know how this is going to end....
NEXT

Re: A Few Questions For My Readers

Lb — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 15:46:04 -0000

What do you do when you want someone even though you know you shouldn’t even have that thought in your head?

We always want whats bad for us..and if you finally get it, it turns out not to be what you expected. Just let it go which is A LOT easier said than done, but it'll probably work out to be better that way.
In regards to people being in your life to test you, maybe there is something you see in that particular person that is drawing you to them..that quality could probably be found in someone else..ya digg. In that same situation now..but the teasing and temptation is a Bitch, so it got to the point where you just gotta move on

Re: FTV: Lock Her Down List

Lb — Fri, 17 Apr 2009 17:01:31 -0000

lol you are so silly..i loved the sly little jokes in there. but this is a dope list.

(forwarding this to my male friends..)

Re: http://blogxilla.com/blog3/2009/04/20/breaking-your-virginity-2/

Lb — Mon, 20 Apr 2009 15:47:13 -0000

scoop made a good point. Chick doesn't know what the hell she wants. She might as just jump ship, close her legs and try to find her a good virgin to be with.yea..Good luck with that shorti.
random..i sometimes want to go back to being a virign..life was easier back then lol and EWW to you prolly sticking it in her fatrolls lol

Re: Failed Pull Out Method + Nut Targets

Lb — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 00:27:54 -0000

the method failed and so did the relationship.. was it worth it? No. Condoms are your friend.
in regards to using planned parenthood as a reference, the keyword is PARENT(hood).. of course they gona tell the pull out method "works"..they just want you to come use their services ..think about it...*side-eye* to them.

Re: The Most Embarrassing Things Happen During Sex

Lb — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 14:05:40 -0000

lolol..those are too funny.
we were about to 'do the do' and as he is getting on top of me and decides to fart. totally killed the mood..but we were able to joke about it later. lucky for me, nothing embarassing has happened yet on my part (crosses fingers)

Re: The Most Embarrassing Things Happen During Sex

Lb — Tue, 21 Apr 2009 18:16:31 -0000

who should feel embarrassed when a dude can't get it up? i mean..is it dude's fault or the chick's? i never got that...
anyone care to explain?

Re: The Ladies Still Love Chris Brown: “You Know He Ain’t Sh*t”

Lb — Thu, 23 Apr 2009 23:58:09 -0000

to answer the question about falling for bad dudes:

it's a matter of self-esteem and like Kiki said, daddy issues. Although i dont fully believe that w/o a male figure, a female is more likely to be bouncing from man to man..it's about who she lines herself up with. there are females out there that need constant approval or reassurance from a man or relationship and don't often care that the men treat them like garbage. it's human nature to want to feel wanted and i think that's where a lot of the problems come in..

Re: A Few Sex Mistakes Women Make

Lb — Fri, 24 Apr 2009 12:02:25 -0000

lol..i kinda like smacking and grabbing ol boy ass.. he didn't complain.
and talking shit is a slight turn on..dude will feel the need to prove his manhood and that makes the sex a bit better. but hey..different strokes for different folks

Re: A Few Sex Mistakes Women Make

Lb — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 00:24:43 -0000

don't like ur nipples touched either? is that a personal thing cuz i personally like to mess wit a dudes nipple..

Re: FTV: 10 Things Men Want Women To Know

Lb — Sat, 25 Apr 2009 00:28:36 -0000

aww..this made me smile. and made my day :-)

Re: Cinderella: The One I Really Wanted Pt. 2

Lb — Mon, 27 Apr 2009 13:56:44 -0000

i don't get how you don't have your own Cinderella..
in due time homie