Happy anniversary! I can't believe it has been 9 years! I am glad you all enjoyed yourself and maybe for your 10th we can all be closer and Joel and I can watch the kids...a treat for everyone.
it seems that even in the age of being perfectly pc, the idea of keeping your opinions about child-rearing to yourself has not caught on. I guess no one has gotten upset enough about it to fire anyone from their job or write a nasty letter to a newspaper about it. And it happens to me all the time here too, everyone seems to have an idea of how to keep a 3yo from attacking his sister. Thank goodness I have their two sense what would I do without it!