The very simple advice? Give people (clients) what they want.
In other words beginners want help. And the affluent clients just want it done and are willing to pay for it.
I am not sure if that is the answer you wanted or even if that is what you meant. I have read and pondered this post several times and although I think I am coming to understand what you are saying and meant I can't help thinking such practice would and does have strange repercussions and manifestations in the world of sex.